Ibrahim Nuhu – 47 The Disease And The Cure

Ibrahim Nuhu
AI: Summary © The speakers emphasize the importance of shyness and respect in relationships, especially when dealing with difficult situations. They stress the need for individuals to have sensitivity in their heart to avoid evil behavior and emphasize the importance of respecting parents and children. The speakers also emphasize the need for everyone to be aware of the culture of their parents and try to convince them to be good at something. It is important to be optimistic and not allow negative emotions to limit success, as it is important for parents to be cautious and following regulations.
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ammos Rahmatullah Domina Naveen our beginner Mohammed in said Allahu alayhi wa aalihi wa sahbihi wa salim my bad allele Sebata Asha Mishary Raja Alfa Romeo was nonverbal and more quickly

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coming to shadow them, they were hit, I fell. And the warhead March, I'll find out who actually

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Newcastle Darsana if you have the Kitab Mobarak and there was a sort of last Rotella and nobody can, you know, if you manage them who, when you're filling in as the lead where they live where the register will lead.

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So today Insha Allah, we will continue with what we have been doing before about the impact and the effect of the sin on the heart,

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the effect of the sin on the heart, where it removes that sensitivity that Allah that Allah subhanaw taala put in the heart of a believer, and this kind of sensitivity is really necessary for the heart to live, it's actually the essence of the life, the soul of that heart. Once you as soon as you remove this sensitivity, the heart will be dead, although the person might be physically alive, but he's dead, you know, he's dead. So, this sensitivity is supposed to be that, you know, what kill it via the jealousy of the heart, this is Harada Malizia is that what kind of heat or high temperature at last point to put on the heart, which is acting as a deterrent, you know, you know, the immune

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system that allows for to put in every one of us they call it the Hudson Mahna Mahna affiliate,

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you have this and you will naturally put in you, which has the capacity to fight, you know, by the will of Allah subhanaw taala sickness and illness. Although nowadays we kill it with so many things, you know,

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lots of medicines that we are taking it is making that natural disposition weak in a way the body cannot resist when the sickness comes, you have to go to the to the hospital. That's why the villages there they are stronger than us, you know, in that regard. So as I always mentioned that the more than medicine, when I talk about them, it doesn't mean that they are wrong, you know, but minimizing them. Even some of these doctors also will tell you try your best develop the system in you with natural food and fruits that allows me to grant it to you so that when the sickness comes, it will fight it by itself, you don't need to bring something that has other side effect. So I don't

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need all of this, what I need is the system that Allah subhanaw taala has inside you which is fighting the evil heart has this kind of system, you know, to be very sensitive. That's why if you're living in a place where the commission of the sin is at the minimum, as soon as you visit a place where

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sins are rampant, you know your body will be so tight, you know, you will not accept it your heart will be so strange, you know so stranger, you know will be stranger in that place. You will find yourself not being able to accept you know what you are seeing. But then slowly, slowly, slowly so you are getting familiar with it. So that's kind of sensitivity is dying slowly, slowly, slowly, slowly until the time you tolerate it until the time also you might be finding yourself not just tolerating but doing also a lot smarter grant is good to it is really really important topic that we really need to pay attention to. Golden Valley for him. Hola. Walmart's hood Tanner who Kula mustard

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and NFC he won he won luminous sa so what we want you to understand here is that the more this

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person is too much, you know, involved in committing the sins, you know, the, the lesser Riera he has in his heart, you know, so that's kind of a natural protection that last one to grant you if you keep committing sin, the more you committed, the more you lose that natural, what you call protection. So you have no gyaan no jealousy, you know upon yourself, and you don't care about your family also to be harmed, and you don't care about the rest of the people you know, you can bring evil to everyone to yourself and to everyone.

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Okay, we'll call budget that hat.

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last big, bad article can be

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Laminex evil, I mean writing. And sometimes

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you know that protection will be so weak, you know, in the heart, at the same time a person will not see Kabhi Kabhi is evil, you will not see evil in the way this, you might see evil as good.

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And not only from you, but from others also, you know, you just see evil, it's okay. It's okay, that's freedom of choice. You know, people have to choose whatever they want.

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So Muslims becomes like that, they forgot that Islam is not about this freedom. You have freedom, you know, in this life between you and others, nobody should impose these ideas on you.

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But the Creator has a right to impose what he wants you to do, and you have to do it. Because we are all his property, your all his properties, and we're supposed to be doing that which He wants us to do. In the way he wants us to do it. Not in the way we want it not in the way he wants us to.

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So we forgot this, and maybe that's the reason why, and inshallah that's the reason why the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, A dunya sigil movement originated Carta. Dunya is like a prison for the believer. And Jana for the kaffir is like for it's like prison for the believer, and Jenna for the cafe, it has so many interpretations, and all of them are sound and profit. When you compare the life in the dunya, for the good ones, no matter how much perfect is it is you're so rich, you have this and that. But at the same time you are you're restricted.

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You see the thing that the non Muslims are doing, they can drink wine, they can have free mixing, they can have all of these things, you know, a commissioner if they want, you know, they do all of these things which are not halal. Islamically but you the moment you started to think about it, Islam will put restriction on you. That's the middle of season Sejanus restriction where you are restricted, you know,

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you are not

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able to live like a normal life, like

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every buddy else does, you know, that's CG is a place where a person is restricted.

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Where where you don't you don't know

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where to call, you don't have the freedom to do whatever you want. So the promises are largely sama describe the dunya for the believers, it's like Sujan is like a jail, it's like a prisoner. So, we should understand this this this this is very important, Allah is very important for us to understand that dunya is like prison for US prison in the sense of mean not

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not being permitted permitted but alas Manta to do whatever you want. You know, last one Taylor has his own restrictions, you know, you have to follow his his way if you truly want to succeed in life.

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So, so, so, he says this, this this type of

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array right that is in the heart might be so weak in the way you don't recognize evil, you see evil as good in yourself and in the community. way there was an inner handle had Dukkha landfill had a key and if a slave of Allah subhanaw taala reach reaches this situation, Dhaka field Hallak so definitely this person enters a place of destruction.

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You know, once a person reaches this situation, definitely he is in an area which usually end by a distraction.

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What cathedral mean, how will a Mullah Yakata zero Allah animalistic, by value has sinefa Heisha will manage it. So Allah, He says the vast majority and he says many of these people, you know, who lost the guy right in the heart, the heart is dead, you will see them not only, you know, not only, you know, looking at the evil as something good. They actually invite people to deal with evil.

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They invite people to donate, they invite people to commit oppression against others.

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Where is the universal and they will make it beautiful for them.

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Especially when as color is twisted, you know, and take another path. That's very dangerous for the amount Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, when its color is is deviated that's very dangerous, very dangerous.

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Because they are the ones who have capacity to use the knowledge given to them to twist it in the wrong way. And to use the trust they have in the community to convince them to go in the wrong way.

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I guess if I'm to ask the question, do we have such people nowadays? I know the answer is positive.

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Do we have a lot last minute to guide us to truth that's why it is really necessary and important for a person to make sure that knowledge is taken from the proper people, you know the right people and just close your eyes and just say everyone can talk, you know, no, not just not just having the knowledge and having the knowledge is not enough Taqwa of Allah SmartHalo so is needed,

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where the Rue La where the Wali so they motivate people, they invite them to come and do the evil and oppression. Where's our Allahu Vita city and they also help a person to make an achievement in doing the Liberals

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will have a candidate the youth are better calcula and that's why in the Sharia of Allah subhanaw taala one of the worse, you know, among the creation of Allah subhanaw taala is the youth

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who's the youth and the youth is somebody who doesn't mind to bring evil and to introduce evil to his own family members. You know, naturally, a person might take evil to others, and he will never agree to bring it to his house in his own home home. Look at those people who justify for themselves Zina in the name of Virgil moto.

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Shia, for instance, they agree with this, which is Zina. And you can just go and make an agreement with a woman for it to stay with her for a few days you'll pay the money for that. They call it marriage.

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And he was that long ago, the very beginning of Islam during one of the battles the prophets Allah Allah is so my legalize it. But then he made it prohibited. And among those who narrated the prohibition was Ali Bin Abu Talib, who they claim to be following

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nouns that this is no more in Islam, it was canceled, and the first part of Islam was tolerated, but then the last one to stop it completely. And from the moment whoever does it is like somebody who is committed Zina, because Allah is mortal, cancel it.

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But if you read the books written by those people who repented and cannot write a book, you will see them that according to their arcade, you know, a chef can do it with any system, including the young ones, there are books will lie, you might not be able to read them twice. Hear these tragedies, you know, including the younger ones, he can do it, you know, but at the same time, nobody is allowed to do it with his wife. And nobody is allowed to do it with his daughter. What is this double standard, you corrupted Sisters of others, and then yours there so infallible and perfect, you know, you don't want anyone. So usually a person would like to send evil to others, but he doesn't bring it to

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himself. And that might be one of the reasons why Allah subhanaw taala told the Prophet salallahu Salam and his Dawa. He says one that I share with Tagalog, Caribbean, or Caribbean, start with the closest relative to you. Because if he does that, people will say, yeah, he also believed that is good, because if he doesn't believe in that, he will.

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If he doesn't believe in that, he will definitely

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he will definitely what he call

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send it to others, but he will never begin with his family members. But if the professor lol so nice to call upon his family members, his tribe first before anybody else, that will be the clue to the rest of the nation to understand that, yes, he believes that this is good. So that was that will be the first step for people to trust. So I'm just trying to bring forward to you the meaning of the youth, you know, so that you will I mean, the opposite of the youth so that you understand what the youth mean. The youth is somebody who agree to bring evil to his family, to his family members. It doesn't mind to bring shame to his family. That's the youth

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so Cara, Valley Delica Valhalla, Canada youth activists, our AKBA helping what agenda to haram on it, and Jana is prohibited upon this person because of the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam, when he says this hadith is narrated and underlined, it is said in Jade insha Allah will hasten the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said filata to lead coluna Janetta wala young guru Allahu Allah him Yama, Yama, and our quality while Mara to the motera Jada Alma, Tisha, they had to be Richard. What the youth Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said

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three people, it said three people Allah subhanaw taala will not

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land Hello Jana. He said three people they will not go to Jana.

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Well I will do Allahu Allah and Allah subhanaw taala will not look at the yellow paella.

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When they mentioned this looking from Allah subhanho wa Taala it means another Rottier Rama and respect to the look of mercy and also respect

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a lot last mahalo telep might look at them but you know, looking has different types you know?

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So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said these people

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these people, Allah subhanaw taala will not let them go to paradise.

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I'm sorry, Allah Azza hotel, I will not let them go to Paradise and also

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okay to check the Hadith and also

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and also these people, Allah Samantha will not let them go to paradise. Well, I'm already and he will not look at them on the Day of Judgment. Who are these people? Number one, Alok quality, the one who goes against the parent,

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the one who is disrespecting his parent who is not obeying the parents.

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What am I doing Matera Judah, Alberto Shabbiha to be reached out, and the sister that is imitating the brothers. The sister is imitating the brothers. She is cursed by Allah.

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And the brothers also who are imitating the sisters, their curse Bella, that's the Sharia of Allah subhanaw taala and that's what Allah subhanaw taala wanted us to understand through the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, that everyone has to stay in the position where the last one or two like kept him

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not to change the equation of Allah subhanaw taala

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and the last one is at the youth. The last one is a youth.

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Allah subhanaw taala guide us to the truth. So the youth the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said he will not go to Paradise

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What can I do more Hallelu Vulliamy Wahlberg the very hit one was a unique from the same goes to those people you know, I mean, they're the worst you know on Earth. Those people who are not just oppressing others, but they also make it halal for others to oppress others they push people to go and oppress others

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well the buggy look at almost a year here, they beautify that they beautify that for them.

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Well, hi there De Luca, Allah and Isla de Oliveira and from here you learn that the root of the religion of Allah subhanaw taala is the IRA you know, the rules the thing that is so that is protecting all of the other principles is that because if this is gone, and even like in Allah will be gone.

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You know, a person will be okay what Sheldon would be okay with anything you know.

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So one of the most important thing to be preserved in you is that an IRA, that kind of jealousy, which means to do whatever you do for the sake of Allah and Allah comes first. You know, to have that sensitivity in your heart which helps you to stay away from inappropriate things.

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Called a woman la de la tele who Latina low and the person who doesn't have gray hair doesn't have the

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final gala to Tamil Kalba for Tommy lo al Jawad this availa jealousy protects the heart and it protects the limbs also from doing things that will affect the heart

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because if the heart is protected usually the limbs also will be will be protected.

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Carla fitted for a suitable for high oil for hash, which is a way the suit the evil and for why shouldn't they since the evil statement and doings Well, Adam Okay Irati to meet your Kalba Furthermore, to jewelry, and lack of the gyro usually takes the heart kills the heart. And if the heart is that the limbs and the partners will be that as the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam said Allah in Phil just said Mother either Salah had Salah Al Jazeera Kulu way the first edit for surgery just said Kulu Allah will heal. He said that is a flesh of meat in you. If that flesh is okay, everything is going to be okay. But if it is not okay, then nothing's going to be okay.

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Qualified I have a PA in the heart deverill butter so if the heart is dead, then that was there'll be no defense in that person. And you need that defense to be to be active all the time.

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Well, maybe a little dialectical can't be mythical Codility Ted verbal Mara what to call this one. I've already said it, you know, he's given an example of the IRA in the heart. He said it just like the system. You have the immune system in you, which has the capacity to fight the disease. You know, the calamity that gets inside you. You have a system inside you which is fighting those ones and it will not let them happen.

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and be very quick I need the Wi Fi

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okay sorry. So he says it just like the just it is just like the system in your which is fighting the disease and the sickness.

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So if that system is weak, every disease will find it on place you know

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that's why they talk about Aids You know, I'm not a medical doctor so I cannot go beyond my beard what I have heard but they said A is what it does is is to weaken or to kill the defense system inside a person so when I heard one of the Medical Doctor in the Islamic University of Medina say that it kills the defense system. That is another theory is actually that says no, it doesn't touch the defense system defense system, they're not going to be touched by the sickness. What it does is there is there is something which is like a bell, the defense system naturally they sleep that's another theory I heard somebody's explained, you know, naturally they sleep there is something to

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wake them up. So Alas, water has something in you is like

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the alarm whenever an intruder you know, a stranger get inside your body, they will they're always awake those ones. So what what they do is they will ring and then the minister of defense, you know will wake up and then send the alarm and then the army will go and fight and then being in light Allah you will be okay. So this model of the sickness, what it does is to go and strike for a while right after it gets into your body would go and attack the bells and destroy them. So the defense system is inside, you will keep sleeping,

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it will keep sleeping, whatever the case might be an explanation, you know, you take from the doctors.

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It's okay. But the point is, all of them agree that you have a system in you which certain disease are killing. And this is what shaytan is doing.

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You know, this is what Shabbat is doing through the sins kill the system in you, which is helping you to resist and to stay away from things that are not appropriate especially in your relationship with Allah subhanho wa Taala

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and as such we shouldn't be very careful qualified that the habit of what to watch or that that will Mahalla corvina

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so if that strengthen that defense is gone then the sickness will find a suitable place conducive environment and fertile place for it to grow

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that's why sometimes you have this

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this this radical fever comes sometimes it might be because of the strong battle that is taking place in America between the sick sickness and and the difference in you

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that's why you see children Masha Allah Alhamdulillah unless if we disturb them with all of this junk food and and other food you know the differences in them mashallah is so strong you know, you might see something will happen to everyone in the house among the big ones but the kids mashallah

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as if they don't know most likely they also get affected but

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by the system in the Masha Allah Allah is smarter make it so strong and quite strong. As long as we don't disturb the system with some other things, they really resist nicely in the way the big people might not be able to resist

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color what a male aged

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Fatima cannot for Colonel Hallak So, when the disease get inside the body and the defense system is dead, then there will be no resistance in the in the body, you know, and then that sickness will find a place you know and enjoyed life in that place.

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Kind of HELOC and then a person might be destroyed after that.

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Call Omitsu ha Nathan Mousasi at GMOs and this this is just like the CLC l GMOs. GMOs is the the the wild cow or the cow in general. You get it? These are the Jeremy's you have.

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The you have the K the buffalo. Okay, so that's that cow that salesy is the horse, okay. She couldn't call it the sales is the horns, you know, the horse, the horns of the of the of the of the generals. They defend themselves with it. That's why Islamically is wrong. You know to cut the tail and to cut the hordes

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is very long, because you're harming them for no reason. They use it for defense. And they use the tail to chase away do small, small, small, small insects, you know, you can do that. Yes, it's halal for you to slaughter, but don't get some part of a defense system, let it suffer from each enemy. You know, every single animal that lost Motorola has a lot granted, it's a defense system, you know, they defend themselves, you know, somebody says except the sheep and even the sheep, they have the external difference, they also have defense, but that defense might be weak.

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But every animal has a system in them which Allah is smarter to give them as a defense smart Allah and some some some animals you know, you can see that the enemy can come and catch the mother and kind of come on to catch the father and kill them, you know, that they cannot touch the kids you know, especially when they are very fragile, they cannot touch them. Because Allah smart Allah put in them natural protection, you know, when if animal touch it might die, some of them when they touch it, when they go back to the people they will be killed, because they will be similar to the enemy.

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You know, smile, we have seen a lot a lot those of you who enjoy seeing documentaries, this is the most important lesson you learn from this Curatola has

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to increase your email in the last hour to Allah and to see how much the atheists and atheism is nothing but a loss. Because that thing cannot be created by the via, you know, smell like you see the beauty of the creation of Allah subhanho wa taala. So anyway, the jaw moves need the horns in order to protect itself. If you are if you have attached via via an FC, and FC one melody so they, they protect themselves, you know, that's why you see the lions when they attack those heavy JoJo amis, you know, they have to be very careful, careful with what two things the horns and the leg

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because one hits might cost them their life, they have to be very careful. So they protect themselves and they protect that, that kids with it, that what the defense is doing, you know, in you

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for either concerts so when you break that, that what do you call a horn, you know, when you break it?

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By Murphy, I do. So you're going to make the enemy of that GMOs interested in, in fighting, when he doesn't see any defense come and fight very easily.

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So my dear brothers sisters, you can see that this topic is very important is very important reminder for all of us, you know, to really focus on our heart, you know, to make sure that we don't engage into the commission of sins, which naturally go back and kill the defense that last part put in us, which is the essence of our protection from from any any possible evil that can affect our life.

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All of us at Massey truly would have and this is also another topic which is the continuation of the previous one. He says the one of the immigrants who consider the consequences of democracy is that is that it takes away the higher up from you. Higher is modesty and the shyness is modesty and the shyness.

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Karla Minako batty ha the hub will hire a lady who are mad that to handle

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it says one of the punishment of them RC you know can see evil consequence of democracy is that the higher will be taken from the heart, the higher will be taken from the heart and this higher, this higher this is the essence of the life in the heart.

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If you take it,

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then the heart will be useless. Kyla who asked Lukoil live here and it is the root of every good

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what the horrible Who the * will hate the asthma or who having the higher being taken means taking that? I mean that is a parents of the good completely

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of his so he and who sal Allahu Allahu selama no call. I'll hire Ohio Ron Kulu in the sight of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam I said, I'll hire Ohio and Kulu he says shyness and modesty is always good.

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He made somebody blaming his friend and his brother, yours always any shy you know, you don't even go and do this and that why, why why? The Prophet sallallahu alayhi Salah told him no leaving

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Hey, girl hair, let it level hate. Shyness doesn't bring anything except good.

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So, as I said, this shyness is supposed to be placed in almost everything you do, as expected, except when it comes to speaking the truth, somebody is going in the wrong direction, you know, speaking the truth, then

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a person, you know,

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has to say the truth, you cannot be shy, shyness is wrong here. Shyness is wrong and unacceptable. So, when it comes to speaking the truth, the president shouldn't be shy. Of course, when he talks about the truth use atom, you know, this is what we lack sometimes, you know, the point is just to say, no, it shouldn't be the point the point is to use wisdom, you know, and whatever last quarter granted, you have wisdom to make sure that that person understands the message.

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And to use the wisdom also to make sure that that person accept and use it.

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That which will Hekmati is really necessary.

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So, to be shy of saying the truth is wrong,

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absolutely unacceptable. Islamically

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but at the same time,

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when you say the truth, if you look for the best way to say it in the way you believe in sha Allah, people are going to go into accept it. You know, Muhammad sallahu wa Salam is still having good Indian people love Rasul Allah, so much so much, you know, at least claim by claiming, and they don't tolerate any disrespect against the prophets, Allah cinema openly.

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But why is it sometimes you find them when you tell them Karla Rasulullah, they rejected your statement.

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So sometimes it's based on their evil attitude, you know, and sometimes it's based on the way we presented the thing to them.

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And the way we present anything to them,

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or else, I do believe most of the people, if you were to address the issue in a very humble and nice way, even the light Allah, they will listen, and they will accept, or at least they will go back and, and reflect upon it.

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So this is one of the areas where the person shouldn't be shy, saying the truth. But there might be a place where you're done, you cannot see it. You feel so shy, you know, you think

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you really cannot go and talk, you're not familiar with these type of things. Can you just stay away from it? No, you can't, you have to do it. Or you go and get somebody who is not like you who can do the talk and ask him to do it, he will get the reward. And you will get the reward of reminding somebody to do good, good thing, but his will be the best. If we didn't say that last month, I will grant you the same thing he gave him because you are the one who guided him to that reward. It depends on your intention, inshallah.

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And the second place where you shouldn't be shy when it comes to seeking the knowledge when it comes to seeking the knowledge, no shyness at all.

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And when I say no changes at all, I'm talking about asking questions. Participate in the class, you know, asking questions, no, don't be shy. Ask whatever you need to ask. Just ask. Last time I talked to you about the statement of Aisha by the Sisters of anzar. She said I really love this this is from the answer. Because they never you know, stop asking the question because of shyness. They always go to the privacy law someone asked whatever they want to ask. So Why won't this you know something which is very, you know,

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very sensitive, you know, they're gonna ask the profit and loss and they don't mind that's the religion of Allah Swati she didn't mind when it comes to educating yourself. You shouldn't mind as they said that aluminum was to him while I was shy person will never learn. And the same goes to the person who is who is arrogant and arrogant person also will not learn

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what Karla Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in them in the canal swimming column in the water. Hola, either lamb Testa Hey, first now I'm gonna shoot the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam I said, in me my direct canal swimming column in the water. IS LM tester he has now issued

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this statement of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam about what we received from the previous nation Shadowman Kubla

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and which is also part of our Sharia we supposed to maintain it is a wisdom that is there in existence and also in our shells.

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What is this wisdom is all about this hadith of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam

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It has two meanings mentioned by the scholars. You mentioned both of them.

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Were phenotype Sera, Kala that is, there are two types given to this statement of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam in the middle, there are canals main column in the booty all in LM tests. First nashit

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I had a woman I know who did it all right. The first one is that this hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is based on warning, you know, Dedede warning and threatening the one who is doing this. What does that mean? Well, mana Mala Mia has to he. Finally, yes. Now Rama Shah Minako, by the meaning of this is, you know, naturally whoever doesn't have shyness in Him, you will find him doing anything. evil things shameful things, he doesn't care.

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The person who is not having shyness, you will see him engaging in everything that is inappropriate.

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If it Hamid aletta can hire is it Hamlet or turkey? Ohio? Because the reason why people stay away from inappropriate things is what I'll have shyness. You know, I asked you you know,

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and you know, that answer, you know,

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many things we don't do. Sometimes you might go to your house and do things because they Okay. Islamically but you have shyness to do it in the presence of others.

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Okay, I'm talking about things which Allah did not ask you to expose them. Good idea. And there are many of us who stay away from sins out of shyness. And there are many of us who stay away from since out of the shyness of the people. They also have shyness of Allah subhanaw taala, you know, but also they don't want people to see them doing inappropriate things,

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inappropriate things, they don't want people to see them doing it. That what we call natural disposition, that last point Allah put in us. So He says the thing that is pushing you and taking you away from sins, and evil matters, and in appropriate and also shameful thing is what is the higher the shyness. So that's why the prime minister last summer said either LM test

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is not much it. And if you don't have shyness, you're going to be doing everything that is wrong. Because the thing that is taking you away from sins and DiMasi is what is the higher and higher is not is no longer in you

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Fidella Mucuna higher on the order who annual tobacco, they know who you are, if that is no higher to stop him from doing things that are inappropriate and bad and evil. You know, he's going to do them

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well either too absurd. I will read a castle, a Salam. I visited see and given by a group of eight. That is another Tafseer given by Imam Muhammad in the role of Abraham. It says another fella, either LM tester Haman who mean Allah fair value. This second interpretation is also correct.

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It's also correct. It's also correct.

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The first one is more applicable but the second one also is is also correct. We're going to put them inshallah in the proper place. So the second one says

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it LM tester Hemu underfed any action in LM tester him, you know, if you don't have shyness of doing it

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for five, then you just do.

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If you don't have if you don't feel shy of doing it, then just do it.

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We're in the malaria Jamba he telco who Who am I used to hear men who mean Allah

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the fell the action that you should stay away from it is the one that you feel shy of Allah to see you're doing it. So the one that you don't feel shelf Allah to see doing it does mean it is correctly to do it, and get busy with it. Don't be shy of others. Just to

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why that helps you.

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fall we'll call it I didn't call him Machito

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according to the first interpretation, this will be tidied is like wanting from Allah subhanaw taala just like the saying of Allah subhanaw taala a man who Machito

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you know, do whatever you want, doesn't mean Allah has commanded you to do whatever you want. No as a warning from Allah, which means Be careful. The whatever you want, Allah is monitored, and he's going to hold you responsible and accountable. But you did. While a 30 year call isn't an Weyba and for the second one

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interpretation is talking about a bar. That's whatever is halal, Sharon, why can she do it?

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That way can she do it? When theta varmints have been either Hamley here Halal money, cultural, Ibrahim says if somebody says is there any way for us to combine this hadith, I mean to combine this meaning two together and say that the Hadith intended both of the meaning. He said No, cannot they have to take one?

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You have to take one

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color pull to that.

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What are like Toliman Yamil moussaka, Allah Jemima.

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And even according to that, we cannot also take it according to the statement of somebody who says El Mirage truck. You know El Mirage truck demand el moussaka lacking a woman Her name was Tara cup, nobody, even according to the mother of that person who says

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we can do the hamlet much Tareq, hola Jimmy, this word that is much startup we can

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understand it to mean all of the meanings, you know, in a word, which has so many meanings, you know, is one word, but you have a lot of meanings, you know, to that attach to that words. So even according to the one who says we can do that, you know, with a word with this in this space is not possible.

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The amount of binary but had to add meaning, because there are two gaps where they have too much Tarak these words, which

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usually they're closer to each other in terms of meaning, or even if they're far but it's not too far. But here you have a Baja with Teddy

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and a Baja with Teddy, because the deed usually is too heavy, it shows to hurry but in a very strong way. You know, a Dedede you know, threatening or warning, it shows prohibition but in a very harsh way. So that there are two contradictory things which are too far from each other. This one is in halal. And this one this one is a not only haram, but you have to be very careful. It's a How can we bring them together? This one says hello, this one says hello.

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Especially in this sense. Well, I can actually borrow money in a huge battle battle. But if we take one of the meanings, we have to also take the other one separately, because indirectly it

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I mean, it confirms that the one also indirectly

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while monkshood and the Nova to the if I'll hire Minelab. What? Ruben Salah caminho Bill Kalia. It says that the intention here is that you know that the lube almasi The sins they make the heart so weak, you know

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they make the heart so we

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had Ruben Salah caminho Bill Kalia had the Roomba my life I felt

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to the devil higher I mean I'm sorry. And it makes the higher the China's very weak of a person. You know. And sometimes also they might take it completely from the from the heart to proposers had to in the whole room Obama led I felt Bill minasi be so highly well Abdullah

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Belka, theobromine who Jacobi and Halle he welcome Maya Well, Hamdulillah that he can sell alcohol mineral higher? way there was an update I hadn't had let me have coffee Salahi mcnown. Come on the shed,

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I believe.

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But I go, why did he hates Wirkkala for a to Milan usually I will let you flew.

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It says, what I want you to understand with this passage is to say that Massey in the sense that a person is committed, they are removing, gradually the shyness that Allah Sparta put in you, which is the essence of the life of your heart, whereby if you remove it, the heart will be dead, spiritually, although physically it is alive, but that life is useless. So sometimes it might take it completely from the heart. In a way a person doesn't mind to let people see him doing the evil things he doesn't mind

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is okay. Even people see him doing everything. He doesn't care. We do have people like that, you know, they don't care.

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They commit sin in the presence of everyone. We have people that commit sins in the presence of their children, you know,

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sometimes some people they will drink, they will smoke, but they will do it in in secret

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you know they don't want their children to see but now the baby from childhood haven't seen that's why I see some of them also their children will be hiding somewhere else and endod

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A lot of it so so he doesn't care about people you know watching him

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you know he says Bell cathedral middle Jacobi Ron highly

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welcome humor fun and so many of them actually not just

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I mean don't care about people seeing him the thing he did also the things he committed which are sins you know and shameful things you know, which he did in secret he doesn't mind to come and share with people you know, come and tell them I did this and that you know, last time

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we have this a lot we have this a lot

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and it okay miss telling you why people are like that because this natural you know, protection that last part I put in them is is gone.

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So what is the thing that is driving the middle to be upon this nature? Because the highest taking from the heart

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just like the statement of the shirt that says if you're talking about that person who is completely gone if shaytaan saw the face of that person who is acting like a child you know, you know the consciousness last quarter granted him although he's matured but this one is gone shaytan will be so happy you know that this is like a gift to him. Very easy to be snatched because the heart is already that no changes at all in their life.

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Color well hair washed up on middle height while ago through some higher

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it says the higher the word higher is taken, you know derived from the word at higher life

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that's why Allah is the clouds that carries rain is called also higher

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up higher because it has life in it what about what the web what can it consume me it's a bit higher a higher call ahead to dinner will occur. So we call the rise the clouds that are carried rain we call them higher, because there is life in them.

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And and also from it from it you know people live you know they get the water to drink. And Allah says without manual manipulation height, the earth will be alive and then about the crops and the plants, the trees will grow what they are and the animals also will live.

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Assume or kinetic assumere to build hi hat and dunya aka the life of the dunya and akhira is called a hair

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from Allah Hi Fi my YouTube dunya shatta Yun phylloxera whoever doesn't have shyness in him. This person is dead in this life and also Shakti you have an Acura you will be amongst the losers on the Day of Judgment.

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Color webinar venubi webinar filleted hire you Adam in reality telezoom Amina power of attorney or coolamon whom I studied

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with Luca who Hatha he says between sins and lack of higher there is a strong connection.

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You know, they are cooperating with each other talaga means they're always connected to each other. You know, when we have the loop that skeleton there is no way for you to have the loop without quality hair. The little hair means deficiency in the shyness it comes first then it pave the way for the person to engage in the mousy.

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Karlova either motivated with the with this, cada

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Aquila Minamata logo Sahiba who have either each and every one of them is looking for that alone. I think that means very quickly in terms of the search, what man is to hear I mean Allah He and MRC it is to hire Allahu Minocqua at yo male car. Laquelle This is very good, you know, very good news. He said if you are shy of Allah when it comes to the commission of sin, you don't commit sin because of Allah. Allah subhanaw taala will be shy of punishing you on the Day of Judgment.

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Well, Milan yesterday yesterday Marcia Tila Mazziotti let me stay over at a will person doesn't have Chinese and do them RC Allah subhanaw taala will also deal with him in that way.

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Just we forgot Allah smart Allah says

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Allah, Allah ma si to the Tao vema Arabic

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look, I'm says almasi to the fo ta ta Vemma rob the mounsey they make that feeling of the greatness of Alaska.

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order that you have the prestige, you know, the respect you have, you know, of Allah subhanaw taala in your heart, you know, which is also another kind of protection that allows martela put in you, the Massey will take it away.

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You can see this might be worse than the one before. Because if you have no respect to Allah subhanaw taala for sure you're going to do whatever he doesn't like.

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Even in our life, you know,

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why do people stay away from the commands and then from things which somebody doesn't want? Because they respect him? Even if he's around, they don't do.

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I heard but this is just a story. Somebody was saying that. Gangsters, two of them, they were they were at night.

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They were driving, you know, this, they don't have shyness of anyone they don't know, traffic rules, you know,

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as if they're the one who is designing the life for everyone. They do whatever they want. They said this to two boys, they were in the car at night. You know, they reach the traffic light. No one who's driving the car, he stopped because it is red, you will be surprised, you know, gangster following the rules.

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So he stopped

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and his friend told him Come on, don't waste our time you just go in who cares? You know.

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He's a Khalid Sheikh

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Sheikh said is largest in that country that somebody they respect, you know, that's that's shared for him Allah, even his enemy respected.

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Even his enemy respected him. So

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we don't know. You know, we hope that this is because of the Taqwa of Allah subhanaw taala. He has, you know, but even his enemies are respected.

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So, these two boys, they said no Sheikh said is haram

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maybe this gangster did not have been prayed in his life, but he's a chef says it is.

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So respect is needed in your house. When people don't respect you, they will not follow your instructions. You will law but light is very good, actually a message to all of us father and the mother, and their older brothers and sisters, you know, we have to pay attention to this

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gain respect, you know, of those who are under your custody, that's very important. Then you you advise any word will be heard, even if you are not alone. Because what we do as a parent, as also somebody who's old, we try to impose our, our

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system, your ideas, you know,

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especially in this time, they have us with us, you know, life is totally different. It's not like in our time, you know, our parents call you whatever they want. Yes.

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You know, my father will talk to me.

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Dimension, everything that he thinks is okay, he believes he's right. And I believe 100% his role.

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I told him, this, I do not do. But if he says I keep quiet.

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No. And at the end of the day, I tell him, whatever you want, this is what we will do. Finish, the case is closing. They also didn't know what to do after that.

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But in our time, all the villa, all the villa, you know,

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if a child who will criticize you know, we'll talk in a long way. Yeah, no problem. If you tell your parent, you know, yes, this one is this and that with Adam.

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But now no attempt, you know,

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they might talk harshly, how many times we do have to step in, you know, to reconcile between a parent and the child to convince the child to be good to that parent, how many times a lot, a lot. And sometimes you will feel like okay, just now new I just the middle person will lie. Sometimes we feel like he should I just punch the boy, you know, what should I just punched it out? You know, this is her mother. This is her father, you know, how's it impossible for you? But we're living in a time whereby you know, a person doesn't doesn't mind and take his father to the court. Take his mother to the court.

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And we'll come to sometimes issues of inheritance. And although the father is wrong, the mother also is wrong, you know?

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But as a child, you know, how do you make it a big issue? Yeah, give them give them Wallah. If your mother wants the whole thing, the whole estate left by your father, if she wanted, if you are a good person, Allah Himself, yes take it. What is dunya dunya is dunya

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mantero Krishna Lila, a word of Allah Hara mean? You Allah one of the best thing you do in this life is to let your

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I'd be happy with you, you will Allah He without joking. One of the best thing you do in this life is to make your parents happy. As long as they're not asking you to disobey Allah subhanho wa taala, one of the best thing you do to please Allah is one test to make your parents happy.

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allows me to make you happy also.

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Me, we should, we should stay away from this modern mentality, you know, whereby aim the capacity also to fight, you know, no, remember, these are your parents,

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the same parent.

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So, make them happy, you know, make them happy, but at the same time for the parents. Okay, before I go for that, we're talking about the dunya when it comes to Dr. Martinez, please, my dear brothers and sisters convey this message to anyone you can meet. When it comes to the dunya matters, your parents should always be on top of you. Whatever they want, just give them that.

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Open your eyes, I will not say close your eyes and open your eyes and give you with happiness. And trust Allah subhanaw taala you might be in a state of difficulty a bit, or even if it is so much, who cares? For the sake of your parents being happy? Who cares? Who cares? What is the dunya you know, Allah Who cares? She sacrificed her life for you even know that she did.

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And he never give her instruction on what to do.

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And she never asked for payment, you know,

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forget about life, which she puts you know, for you to survive. And then after you come back, no relax in her life, you know.

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Everyone can see where she didn't see, when he gets sick, she is sick more than you.

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Whatever, you know, like a noun, you you will become big. This mother stayed there and things

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they don't think properly, you know?

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And you're going to complain to your friends, another loser. He will tell you what Allah How will a boy come and naked Mr. Book.

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So, these are the things you know. So please, let's change this attitude. Even if you're at the age of 50 6100 year old, when you live with your father or your mother, they're still your father and your mother. Don't forget, they were there. They saw you when you're like this, you know, you know.

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And they still remember that image. And you still remain like that. Even if your father some people might be surprised that that's between him and the father is very little, it doesn't matter. Let it be between you and your father. It's only one year old. You know, it's only one year you know, between you and him. It doesn't matter. The point is he is your father, and she is your mother. They have to be happy. If not, then alas Martin was happy. You don't want to have the moment that last point is steps in very quickly is when you have a clash with the parents. It steps in and you're going to be restricted a lot. Whether you understand we don't understand sometimes Allah Sparta will

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make you desensitize. He will punish you so much because of your disobedience to the parent. But you will not let you realize that that's another punishment also.

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So make them happy. When it comes to the dunya martyrs sacrifice everything and Allah subhanaw taala if you trust him, Allah has power. That is what I wanted to say earlier. If you trust Allah be Israelite Allah, Allah aspetto make it up for you. Don't do it for this. I'm giving them because I want Allah Sparta to compensate me. No, give them because Allah commanded you to give please them because Allah commanded you to please them. And that's it. Don't wait for results. Because if that result from Allah did not come or delayed, you might be regretting for what you did.

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Was that wrong? No, it's not wrong for you to please them is not wrong at all. But then relates your obedience to the parent to this.

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One of our scholars said that he knows a person that, you know, his father was in need. He just took everything you know, and that was the thing he has in his life. That was his saving, you know,

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the father did. Who cares, you know, just give it to him.

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Just give it just give it to him. He gave it to the Father and Subhanallah it was 20,000 Riyadh, Saudi Arabia.

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If I'm not mistaken, after he, I don't want to call it he lost the money. No. He invested the money, the best form of investment. He closed his eyes. He said my father needs he came.

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So Hala chef shuffler chef matar said, he said after that, you know, he doesn't have anything. But Subhanallah he left the parent in a state of happiness. They make dua for him. After that, what happened? The first offer he got from a company

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is something that earned him the profit of 120,000 rial,

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believe it or not, is the fact you know

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is how it is, you know, everyone can have this experience well, like we can share our experience when we support our parents even to make them happy, we got easy in our life, but nobody realized this except somebody who's conscious, you know, if you're conscious and you have the email in the last month and you trust Allah be given a light Allah you will taste it,

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may Allah smart Allah grant is good, but as I said, respect is needed you know, and by in that respect also is needed as a father as a mother, you should earn this respect, I mean, you should, this kind of respect, you know, and make sure that you make your children you know, respecting you husband, wife, both of them, they should do things which that respect will remain, because this will motivate a person to obey and not to disobey, when there is a command, they will not do it even if that person is absent.

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And as such, believe it, be soft, be gentle, but see this interview, I always mentioned this be lenient with your kids, extra ordinary Linnet

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come down to their level, sometimes your child will bring something very silly, you know, very stupid, you know, but to him is very important, you know, you bring some of his affairs, some of his playing with the, with the toys, you know, to him to him, this is everything, you will come and tell you that I wanted I want to come, come come come I want you to come and see this, you know, it tells him that was nonsense, boy, how can you think I'm kid like you? It's not like you're going to break his emotion. This is like this, his his life at that age is okay for him to go for this. And that's good for them.

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It comes to the mother. Yeah, she has no time more than the father.

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Is Margie Mary, you know, and the child have no place you know?

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But what do you think when they call you or they want you to listen to your story, which is so silly actually, to you. Pay attention to it, and try to extract some lessons zero, Hala Wallahi they value it so much so much they value it.

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That's respect you respect in them, they believe they're somebody in your heart. And tomorrow, if you are to tell them something, they will stay away from it. And they will not do it. You know,

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we know people who will come and tell the parents what they did in secret and the parent did not ask for it. But they will come and tell them we did this and that and we are sorry, we know you say we shouldn't do but we did. We're sorry. These are all the result of respect, you know, that is between them and they don't want to lose you you know is very important, especially with the parent and with the elder brothers and sisters. So that's just a side benefit. I decided to open this topic with an insha Allah I will talk about this

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topic the statement of evil came about under this topic in the next class on when is that on Thursday reason like to Allah. So let's stop here and move to questions if any barkcloth eco Abdirahman la que la Mike

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me you know what I'm on everyone.

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Is by

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the newborn produce their own antibodies and have a good immune system and do this need to get vaccinated?

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walleye there are two opinions Yes. Even among the scholars. There are two opinions here. Some who think is okay. And there are some who some who think it is okay.

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I'm among those who are in the middle to say that unless if a person believes that the vaccination is the one that is providing, you know, the protection not Allah then this is Schick and this is haram. person shouldn't do this even with honey also, if you think like this, they will be shocked because the one who is giving you a sheaf up is the last one Rotella not the honey that the medicine Allah can let you eat something which is supposed to be medicine, but it can act as a disease for a person.

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So if a person doesn't believe in this, just taking the vaccination, you know, out of supporting himself in case in the future there's the sickness comes, he finds he finds something to find it May the light Allah and the least you can say is hello hello for person to go for that.

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If that vaccine is okay confirmed to be not harmful to the human body.

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But if I'm to look at what many doctors are saying about these vaccines, you know, that we do for the children. I will tell you no

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Be very careful, because it makes the system inside you weak.

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So we have a lot of examples of who did not go for this. They're not for it. And in some hospitals here, I have never come across of it. But one of a friend says they have the system in the hospital, you sign a paper that you don't want

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to hold last, and people will tell you that the vast almost all of the children, okay.

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The only one who is not okay, always visiting hospitals is the one who was vaccinated, you might find some other stories, also people, they have a story of success and all of these things. But as I said, I don't see the need for it. But

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there are some who believes it's okay, and they go for it. It leaves them with their faith and their belief. But I do believe that the system that allows people to put in the human body, if that system is supposed to be supported by the natural food, you know, natural food which are not

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mixed with chemicals, the Eternal Light Allah, it is much stronger to fight any disease that can affect the body, in the life of humankind. And I don't want to go with the debate

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amongst the doctors themselves, or amongst the people who study these things. But this is my stance, I know that there are some scholars who said no, it is haram because it goes against a cutter. And there are some scholars who say no, it's okay. It doesn't go against a cutter, you know, but as I said, if a person believes in that way I put then this is Sheikh and a person has to repent to Allah subhanaw taala. And you cannot do that even with the black seed

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to get idea, but at the same time, which one is better for you? And I see it also the sense of the shadow. The shadow means expecting something bad to happen to your life. So that's why the system designed for us by the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, he took it from Allah. If we follow it precisely, it is more than enough to guarantee you, Israelite Allah a good and healthy body in sha Allah, Allah, if you to follow that system precisely and correctly. It is more than enough in sha Allah to help your buddy to remain healthy, be the light Allah. Allah smart, Allah grant is good. I hope you understand some of my answers.

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Question they use it.

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there is a law that deals with disparaging summons

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for Muslim gets insulted by his brother, or even by homeless, can he go to sue the offender, this law, knowing that courts will not judge by the Sharia

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the best is not to go to a place where

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you know that they will use other than the Sharia of Allah subhanaw taala.

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You don't go to them.

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To hakomi Live at Sharia Atilla xojo Allah has a better position shouldn't go

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look for a place where he can get is right and the people in that place they use the share of Allah subhanaw taala.

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Is the

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conversation with Sofia related the topic of the lawsuit came up and it was said to me that we can make dua to Allah by mentioning the cloud

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that he made for us

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also making through the wood beads,

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this is a

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kit that was sold that Sharia allows us to use is three types. Other than that there is no evidence to support it at all. Number one to use the names attribute of Allah subhanaw taala Allah says further will be well that will add up as my

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asker Allah subhanho wa Taala using his names and his attributes. This one is perfect and it is the best form of Dawson. The second type of dose will also be the America solid. You do a righteous deed and you ask Allah smarter using your righteous deed not to make it as a business. Yeah Allah I do this for you and then you have to give me this no and that's that's absolutely wrong.

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You should say after you you do something you give charity for instance, you say Allah, I asked you you know Allah, I asked you to accept my charity. And also your Allah please make it as a means for me to get this thing from you. So you ask him to accept it. And also you're begging Allah subhanaw taala to take this and to make it as one of the reason why he will grant us

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this is the second best form of also. And the last one is at allsole with the Tao of the DUA, Allah

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To the side, a person who you think is good at okay? So you ask him to ask Allah for you.

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Like well we do a drama and tell me he's going to Mackay tell them a drama and don't forget me in your job. Please do remembers in your job. That's there was, you know, so that's what they used to do during the time of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam they asked him to make dua for them. You get it. And when realiza Allah Allah Who celebra died

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and they have the the farming

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that's the drought. They don't have a rain. They asked a bus. They've never even I didn't know I'm gonna be sulla so when the ankle of the professor last salary, they told him but before they asked him they said yeah Allah we used to go to the professor lol he said about what we have this problem. We asked him to ask you, but now he's not allowed. And then they said yes. Yeah, Allah because yes. They said yeah Allah we are going to ask Allah Abbas to make dua force him being a family member of Rasul Allah sama to make dua for further. So you see the ask him to make the DUA, they don't say Allah, we're asking you with the respect you have of the prophets, Allah Zuma or with this, this,

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this and that, they didn't do all of these. So that therefore, a Muslim should restrict Himself to that which is authentically attributed and narrated from the Prophet salallahu Alaihe. Salam in that was, so what do you do, you either use the names of Allah subhanaw taala, or you use your righteous deed, or you ask somebody that you feel that this person is righteous, and you ask him to be there for you. These are the only three types of toasts other than that I really advise you to stay away from from these are the three ones that you can support. And you know, when it comes to an act of worship, you must get something to back it out from Allah or from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi

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Yes, next question.

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Christian, the use of again, she knows some of us who live here, our parents would tell us not to ride motorcycles outside campus and deal with the dangers and the risk involved.

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If one of us, does it, will it be considered as disobeying the care? Yes, yes. If your parents is done right motorcycle, it means the right motorcycle. Yes, motorcycle is dangerous and they care so much about you. That's why they do it's not haram to ride motorcycle. It is very dangerous. I used to have a motorcycle called Kawasaki something like that. I get afraid of motorcycles than me being afraid of the cars.

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So when you reach the situation whereby you're a big person, you have children you have of course parents, they are not really know that the majority is at the peak, you know, they will not mine alone. So I don't know how old are you? Maybe I'm addressing somebody at the age of 70 or 90, you know.

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So even if you're at the age of 70 or 90 if they said don't do this, you're better than do that.

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In Sudan, this is just to make you laugh, you know in Sudan motorcycle if a person right it with care you know, we don't see anything most of the people are getting into trouble these are the people who are motor how we read the traffic light is red, he just goes sometimes hit the cars and also very fast you know, taking the turn you know, without reducing the speed you know, trying to show we already see these children who are coming from time to time every every especially in the weekends hamdulillah nowadays and come back there at the minimum

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and I hope they will not come back again. But very dangerous and many accidents many things, you know, so for sure the parent they are they are also worried about that. Okay, this is just to make, you know, some of the culture of some people in Sudan, I hope our fighter who was there can confirm this. I guess his father or somebody told him that don't ride motorcycles, you know, they said that they told him that the orange or

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orange original name of motorcycle because in Sudan, they call it Moto, Moto moto moto. They said that moto actually is a construction of two words. The first one is mouth mouth, his death mouth we're in a moto moto any

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very quick death you know, essentially what the death very quickly. So this is just a reflection of what the younger wants to do in that so that's why he also has big concern of his child riding the motorcycle. So back then you use if the parent says don't ride a motorcycle, it just

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Don't ride motorcycle, that's a built in and it will be rewarded for that. hamdulillah you're living in Malaysia, you have all types of any transportation. You have.

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Train, you know, you have buses, you have taxis, you have now Ober and you have grab, you know, you have so many things, you know.

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So you have a lot of options. You have a lot of options. May Allah subhanaw taala, please you and make you happy, and your parents and all of us

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they go against the parents commands, claiming that the parents aren't here and they won't get to know, that's, that's wrong, very wrong, very wrong.

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And Allah might test you.

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You know, I know a person. I know him so much I taught him. Quran.

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Allah Subhanallah one of the things that his parents told him don't do is not to go out with friends when they're not around in the car.

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And subhanAllah that the father troubles he was in the aeroplane the message comes to him that his son

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was among those people who died in an accident, and the sun went out. And he was tested by last month and accident whereby he died instantly. I guess.

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We pray for, for the boy here in Malaysia, they died, either all of them or him for sure. I know that because I think I let the prayer for him. So Subhanallah you find a father who is

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merciful to the child, the first thing he did is to forgive that that was sin that he told the child Don't go out. The first thing he did to forgive

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so excellent. Last month, I reward him. But I just brought this story that you might be tested, you know, you go against Allah Sparta might test you. So your parents, they will know what you're doing in the worst way. And they will never forget that. So it's better not to test your iman and not to put yourself in the trouble that you might not be happy, you know,

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to be carrying this type of medical shameful things throughout your life.

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patients, patients, patients, patients, you know, this life how many how many years? We have? Not that much patients patients?

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Can you let me ask on your behalf? Can I ask my parents to cancel that?

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Ban? Yes, we can negotiate with them in a nice way. Come on. Yeah, Abby, I have my uncle, you know, I'm matured, you know, you can see I'm already big, you know, and I take your insha Allah all of those things that you are afraid of, I will not do them. You know, there are places which are specifically meant for the motorcycles, you know, and I'm not, I'm just going to use it for my need. And I will drive in a nice way. Try to talk to them, you know, they can understand the vehicle and then call us. They don't mind.

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That one is okay, be the light Allah if you do it in a nice way.

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Yes, I'm the one

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that still being the parents prepared, asks the giant not to do something which is from the center.

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Don't stay away from it. Because then

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it depends if they if they do it out of hatred, then no. If you try to do it, do it somewhere else not show them you're doing it. If they asked you to stay away from logic,

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you have to do the logic you cannot you cannot obey them because it's the right of Allah subhanaw taala but if they asked you to stay away from some of the suelen because there are some other things you need to do at home, that will be okay you want to go for it to come your father says he needs your mother says she needs you have to you have to stay away from the aitikaf uncommon please them it is more rewardable than going for the aitikaf

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you want to fast your husband says done fast. You cannot fast if you fast he gets it

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because attended to his need, you get more reward than that one.

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You know, so these type of issues when they have an eat in it or any right when you contradict the right person she didn't she didn't go for that. So it comes to the Sunnah and I think explanation is always good. Sit with a parent, explain to them

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if they don't need you, you know, explain to them why is it important for you to get trained, you know, by doing those sooner? May Allah grant is good. But as I said, The words the bad things that are obligated, it is haram for you to stay away from any obligation just because your parents don't want you to do it. They have no rights over this. Let's say your father says he doesn't want you to wear the hijab does not

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on his right, your mother says she wants you to commit to one of the sins to go for

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free mixing, you know gathering in some countries is very shameful and they have a marriage they don't go for this free mixing that the bride Brahmanda the girl in the marriage is the bride.

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So, the bride they want to see her in a very beauty

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way she cannot wear hijab she has to wear those clothes, you know? And then come and dance also come and meet people in that way Subhan Allah is that all wrong? You know, hijab has to be maintained and this marriage you want Baraka initio? So if even if a parent you know, want it, you have to just tell them no, I heard one of our scholars

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mentioned in the story of Subhanallah the parents, they force a sister to to take out the hijab, you know,

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and they also don't want her to go and pray during the prayer time, because they think she's going to break the happiness you know. So how like, she refused to obey them, she disobeyed them. And she went and she died in the prayer.

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They all get infected they cry a lot and now on their consciousness come back to them.

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But it was too late me Allah smart Allah grant is good and sepsis in life.

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If a parent asks you not to do this,

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is it okay if you do that?

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Without the knowledge?

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As I said, it depends, it depends if it is affecting them.

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Yes, you cannot contradict each other, right? Because it is waiting for you to obey them. But if it doesn't,

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if you do it out of their knowledge in sha Allah, there shouldn't be any any problem when they don't need you. And it doesn't harm them practicing the deen which doesn't harm them. You're not disobeying the parents.

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For example,

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asked you to stay away from a particular act of sin. And even before they asked you to not do it.

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So do you still follow them? No, you don't ask, as I said, the criteria or drama is to look into the contradiction Does it contradict the right? If it doesn't contradict the right then the Sunnah of the Prophet, Allah sama has to be followed. So the only thing is try to do it, not in their presence, because they are going to keep opening the door of battles and fighting between you and them. So do it in secret. And try to convince them slowly, slowly so that you can come out and do it in public in their presence.

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But if they die, call us, you know, you don't even if they're alive, you know, when they told you not to the Sunnah and the you don't harm them, you know, by doing that. They're not getting harmed in any way. You don't obey them.

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As well, when they ask a person to divorce his wife with no justification. They just don't like her. And she's okay. A person is not supposed to divorce he's supposed to disobey here.

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They ask you not to go and study under somebody. And you know that that person is okay. He has no problem, but they just hate him.

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You know, or he's not according to their opinion, you know that their opinions matter. You can go and study under him, but just make it a secret not to open more door between you and them.

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So the point is, are you harming them by doing that? If you're not harming them, the harm comes when you are contradicting their right?

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They don't get the right because of you doing that thing, then you stay away from it. But if you're not, then you do it Inshallah, there will be no problem with you.

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Question they say

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if someone copies or plagiarizes or cheats in one cause

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does that make the whole decree

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haram knowledge

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know that focus is the final examination. The final examination if a person doesn't repent if you repent and change his mind, and does it inshallah that the final examination is very sensitive, when he cheated that and again, your certificate based on that sheet.

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Then all of your, your your your, your job that you're going to get based on that in the future will be based on you submitting something which is not yours.

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That's very dangerous.

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So that's why it's better for a person to fail than cheating. So let's assume I said manga shuffle. So I mean, wherever cheat

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Is no one of us

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can say that we destroy the parents is the same as obedience to the husband.

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It depends

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the rights of the parent is so strong, very strong, but only thing is once the woman married and then the right of the husband is more superior than right of the parent if there is contradiction, it doesn't mean she should be rude to the parent. No, if there is contradiction between the parents command and his command, she has to follow the husband not the parent. Because the responsibility that he has on his shoulder take care of her is much greater than what the parents have at that moment. Now he is the one who is supposed to care for everything

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that is so everything when he put it in the old place is okay. And the rule is when they ask you

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You Don't disobey them except if they ask you to disobey Allah subhanaw taala

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is allowed to work for a delivery company where you are delivering food. I know

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if you're delivering haram food No. To work in a food delivery company. Yes, it's okay. But don't deliver haram food

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and if the company has haram also in it is better for you to look for the company that says Halal because Allah says don't cooperate and support anyone that is dealing with haram

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there is companies like Uber and Careem

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in many countries you get an order for a food item

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and you accept the order and then when you go and buy you get to know that it's not Hello

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you cancel the order you have to cancel you have to cancel you cannot send that haram to that person must cancel it

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Christian investor Selena sinner I

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believe in so called law of attraction

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or can we read the Book of the Law of Attraction? What is that

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as the people people are attracted to each other

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okay, okay I'm gonna get I'm getting an explanation from home

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whatever you believe you will get it will come to you

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that's that's against the cutter.

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okay, Khalid Why don't you say I'm drama? Seeing that in the new thought philosophy the law of attraction is the belief that positive or negative thoughts bring positive or negative experiences into a person's lips? That's means they can skip the clutter of Allah

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can you see that when you believe

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that we did happen? So what happens? No, no, we cannot say that.

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Because Allah is in control. Sharia wants us to be optimistic. The Prophet selasa mechanic symbol file, Shelia wants us to be optimistic, have hustle oven, but it doesn't mean that always whenever we have hustle and hustle. I mean that the result will come like that. The one who is controlling this Allah subhanaw taala. We should shouldn't believe in this

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law. We believe in Allah, the One who is controlling everything. If you have a person other than husband than in Him, that He will grant you good. Allah's water will deal with you in that. So we're talking about hosting of the biller has

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an end Vanya appdb You know the way you expect Allah smarter to do with you. In sha Allah, Allah says matter will grant you that you can have bad expectation Allah's motto will let you go with the evil you're expecting for yourself. You will not interfere so the whole thing is about Allah subhanaw taala and also we should be very careful. Get people attached to the color of Allah smelter rather than getting them attached to any concept that somebody might be bringing in this life. Let them understand the concept of God and the one who is controlling the other and everything is Allah subhanaw taala so the

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