Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #251 Nov 30th 2016

Muhammad Salah
AI: Summary © The importance of honoring the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon is discussed, including the deeds of the Prophet and the deeds of the Prophet. The speaker emphasizes the need to avoid negative behavior and avoid negative consequences, as well as the importance of good manners, fear, and communism. The importance of not being too busy with one thing and not being too busy with another person is also emphasized. The segment ends with references to historical figures and personal experiences with arguing and arguing.
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Allah Our God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He only has to be the best and give his best religion to allah God is the greatest, the one and only Glory to him on any illness to be the best, and give his best religion to

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a Salam o Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim, Praise be to Allah Allah and we all praise Him and we seek His help. Allah guides is a truly guided one and I'm so over Allah Elisa say, none can show him guidance made the best peace and blessings be upon Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him by the viewers everywhere Welcome to another Live edition of your program. Guardians of the pious and today's episode is number 296. And it is a third in explained in chapter number 73.

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The first Hadith we have in today's episode, a chapter of the good conduct, Hadith number 626.

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In this hadith,

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Abu Hurayrah may Allah be pleased with him, narrated that call? So Allah rasool Allah He is Allah Allahu Allah He was sallam. An excerpt emailed Hallo Nasser al Jana.

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This hadith is collected by enamel Tirmidhi and it is a fair Hadith,

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Abu Hurayrah may Allah be pleased with him. The rate that once the Prophet peace be upon him was asked about the best of deeds which would lead to paradise. And he said, being mindful of Allah, and having good manners, then he was asked about acknowledgments which will admit the person to hellfire, and he said, peace be upon him, the mouse and the private part.

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And this hadith the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam,

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answer two questions. And this answer concerns every Muslim.

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Very often you will hear the companions in various occasions, asking the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him. Men have buenas Illallah met Habu Amelie Illa de Leonie Allah Malin either Amil to whom three Luna Jin your carbonium Allah Who by I don't even know not, in all these Hadith will realize that the main concern of the companions of Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him was guide me to an ad that if I do a shall take me to a purpose, tell me what to do in order to come close to Allah. Tell me what is the best deed which is the euro to Allah than others? And who is the best of people before Allah, who is the deities and the most beloved to Allah, all of those questions and other

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than others,

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were simply in order to recognize the traits and the deeds which would make the person near to Allah, loved by Him, and eventually eligible to enter Paradise, and most definitely to distance himself from hellfire and to be protected against his torment. The answer may vary based on the type of the question and the need of the questioner or the occasion. But by the end if you put all the answers together, they focus on the vicious deeds and their crown with the good manners.

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Without good manners, there is no paradise. Even if the person is very active in worship, he is not well mannered. He is rude to people. He harms others.

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He oppresses others. He verbally abuses others, all his OSHA will be in vain. Why? Because this person is defined as a bankrupt because on the day of reckoning, each one will demand his rights. And Allah Almighty on the day which the day of the ultimate justice will grant everyone their due rights. So but those rights were in the form of physical harm or

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financial harm, or moral harm. So I need to collect it. You cannot collect it physically, not morally or financially. There is no there are no dinner

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So the only way to be compensated if you've been wronged verbally, financially, or morally, or physically, is simply by taking from the good deeds of the person who's very active in OSHA. But that may lead to vanish in his good deeds, which he needs to enter Paradise, it doesn't matter. He doesn't have to interpret us.

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He's going to end up in *, it doesn't matter. Because on the day, yo, my federal misdemeanor, he owed me a B, he also hit that evil bunny. On the day, the person would disown, and run away from his own dad,

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from his own mom, from his parents, from his wife, from his son, from his daughter, everyone will disown everyone else, and rather everyone will say myself myself, even it will be uttered by the messengers, myself, myself, everyone is only concerned about themselves.

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So no one would pardon on the day, just for the sake of power, they know. I need to be compensated. I need Hassan, I need good deeds. So you have been wrong in me and now I need to take from your good deeds as much as

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he will satisfy me to make me saved. And I don't care about what will happen to you.

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Because of that, Imam Shafi May Allah admission him said that, you know, in the light of all the evidences and the proper understanding of the evil effect of the blood of the backbiting, if I'm going to backbite anyone, it should be my father, because I'm granting him I'm giving him my good deeds.

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Yanni, if you dislike somebody so much, you shouldn't be given him your good deeds. And this is what people do. If he is having an argument, or a misunderstanding of somebody, a colleague, a family member, they talk ill of them or about them in their absence, that's called backbiting, right?

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You're not hurting them. You're hurting yourself. Because you will have to pay for that. And the payment will come from your good deeds, from the night prayer that you've been praying, from the voluntary fasting that you've been, you know, making an order to come close to Allah to be saved from paradise. So that's why the Prophet sallallahu sallam, when he was asked about what causes people to enter paradise most he did not single out one thing, which is the rituals, the Baghdad fasting and the prayer, the night prayer alone, and he said, taqwa Allah, which covers the unmindful of Allah, fulfilling what He commanded the stealing from what he has forbidden. And he found that by

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saying, what has no hook, so that you will not waste your a bear that you worship would not be in vain. Their word for your acts of worship would not be granted to somebody else, you yourself rather will benefit out of that. So again, what causes people to enter paradise most are two things, being mindful of Allah and His presence, fulfilling what He commanded, abstaining from what he has forbidden and being well mannered, having good conduct personal holiday, remember that the Aquila was not hollow?

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Then he was asked peace be upon him in a separate question.

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And what causes people to enter Hellfire most?

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Is it too things? The tongue and the *? The private part

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as far as for the tongue, it has been explained in

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many other Hadith, one of those Hadith one, why didn't Jebel

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may Allah be pleased with him and he was such a great companion, as the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam about guide me to something that if I do, it will bring me close to Allah close to paradise and will distract me from hellfire. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam gave him a few advices and by the end, he wrapped it up, and he crown his advices by saying, Allah don't look at me lucky then equally, oh my God, shall I not guide you to the controller of all of that? is certainly a prophet of Allah said, after he got hold of his own tongue, the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him, got hold of his tongue, like that. Then he say, Go phallic had control this, control your tongue,

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control what you're saying. Think before you say. So mahadi bingeable said, O Messenger of Allah. Will we be held accountable for what we say? Because

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People are under the assumption that, you know, we'll be compensated for what we do. But talking, talking doesn't harm, talking doesn't hurt. We're just chatting. So the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Woe to you, oh my god, is there anything that troubles people in their faces and hellfire, more than the harvest of what they say more than the harvest of what their tongues say? And they are indulged in because of their saying,

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Be careful, this is as far as for the fam, the tongue,

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what about the *,

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the private part,

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you see,

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there is another desire, so there is a desire, there is a lust of talking. And there is another desire, which is

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the sexual desire.

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And the Prophet sallallahu Sallam warned against satisfying new sexual desire in an illicit relationship, and an outside marriage relationship. And Allah Almighty guided the believers as how to block the means, which would lead certainly to indulge in into an illicit relationship, fornication, adultery, or you name it. So Allah Almighty says, He commanded the believers in Surah Noor, to lower their gaze,

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in order to guard their chastity. And he commanded the believing women to lower their gaze, in order to guard their chastity. I happen today to read the news that the family * is spreading.

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And * is on the rise within the family and the analysis, or trying to explain the reason why there is a rise in the rate of the * within the family. You know, an uncle is * his niece, and a father and his daughter, may Allah protect all of us and a brother and a sister, whether willingly or through * is said it is because of the wide spread of the * materials on your television, on your screen. And on the internet,

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the countries

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which produce that and use it as a source of income, it is a multi billion dollar business. They control that. So in order to have

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some of these indecent movies aired on the screen, you have to pay for it. And you have to verify your age. If you're under 21, you won't be able to purchase it.

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Likewise, many other things smoking, in order to push a cigarette, you have to provide a photo ID that shows your age. But unfortunately, in many,

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if not most of our Muslim countries, all these materials are for free 24/7

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On Air, online, on mobile phones, without screening for free, to destroy our youth to destroy our OMA to the say to destroy marriage relationship. It's all for free. You can watch as much as you want, in the hotel rooms, in people's homes, on their mobile phones, on their taps on their computers. There is no filtering. It is the responsibility of definitely the Guardians, whether a family father, whether a governor, whether a president or again, because if they want to put a screen, they want to screen these sites if they want to stop them. If they want to stop the satellites, as a piece of cake. I'm in the media business and I know that it's doable.

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But for some reason, they don't do it. So that is why the crime is on the rise.

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Because people who cannot afford to satisfy their sexual desire in a legal fashion. There is no to anything that whether it's haram or whether it's even within the family, whether it's three,

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terrible, it is terrible. That's why when you think about the Jalisco lucuma and or colloquium is all on our Yeti. But some people are sitting on the seats of the leadership, but they don't have full control. They can take the decision for a reason or another. Otherwise, if they are not, there is a website

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it or there is a page that is appalling or opposing the regime, it will be blocked in a split of a second, no prob. If there is a clip or video that is, you know, exposing some mischief, it will be eliminated and blocked in no time. Can we do the same with these indecent materials? Which ROI in our societies? Can we please do the same? The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said, what causes people to end up in * far most two things, the tongue and we learn how, and I'll forge which refers to one's *.

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If the person allows himself

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to end knowledge into seeing, hearing, watching, enjoying, then the next step is acting upon it. If he doesn't have the means, if he doesn't, and if he cannot afford to self satisfy the sexual desire in a lawful fashion, then somehow he will explode by satisfying this desire in an elegant fashion.

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So it will be devastating. That's why it's a very great principle in Islamic jurisprudence, which is known as Set Dosa blocking. That means blocking that means you don't leave your pool uncovered. If Allah blesses you with a nice house with a huge pool, and you have a baby still crawling, or a child, a few years old, doesn't know how to swim. You don't leave them alone wandering around the pool, without protection,

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or without covering the pool whenever it's not being used.

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Without attendance, why, because you know that most likely they will fall in it, and they don't know how to swim pool is deep, so they will die. This is not chemistry, as simple, something everybody must understand. Same thing, we must block the means which lead to destruction of the society through the destruction of the family through the destruction of the individual. So are the components of any family. So these two,

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what causes people to enter Hellfire most

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and thermal while for

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whatever the person says, and the person sexual desire if he were to fulfill it, in an illegal fashion, may Allah Almighty guide us to what is best and keep us away from anything that harms us in our bodies in our souls and in our religious commitment. The following hadith is Hadith number 627.

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The hadith is also collected by Imam accommodates a fair Hadith

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narrated Abu Hurayrah Ravi Allahu Anhu called Allah rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam at maroon Mina Amen. At Sun Holika war hero calm. Farrakhan Lindesay him very interesting Hadith the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said, The believer who has

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a perfect belief is the one whose behavior is most excellent. And the best of you are those who are the best to the wives. I'm pretty sure that sisters will celebrate now. There is something that the prophets Allah Salah has said more than 1400 years ago. Okay.

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There are seven messages in this hadith that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam meant to deliver to his Oma.

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The first message is that Iman,

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Iman, faith and belief varies from an individual to another. Not all believers are alike.

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Not all the believers are alike.

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There are some deviant sects such as Al Jamia, who are ascribed to Al Jami bonus of one and its founder is Elijah, the Buddha said it doesn't matter even if you do any kind of measure since as long as you recognize faith by your heart, you're a believer, and you shall enter paradise and you're not blameworthy. That is not true.

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What can we do and what shall we do with the Quranic references, which indicate that the person will be accounted and will be dealt with according to this very accurate measurement as another

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Whoever does an atom weight of good cheer see it? And whoever does an atom weight of evil shall see it as one.

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You know, and people are now like, there are some average believers. There are some there are believers. And there are some higher end Chem believers. And there are some inferior believers, and some were very weak. Amen.

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Okay. So when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam says Atmel, the most perfect of the believers with regards to face, that indicates that Muslims vary in their Eman, some who have perfect faith, and some who do not. And in between there are many other levels

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but to recognize how to achieve perfection of your faith, and who are those who have the perfect Amen, he said as and whom Holika. Those who have the best manners are those who have the perfect Eman. The most perfect faith is reserved for those who have the most perfect o'clock and manners

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and the prophets Allah Allah Allah selama said,

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when it comes to good manners, people can definitely claim whatever

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and people can also pretend to be nice, to be cool, to be gentle, to be generous,

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but they cannot pretend that forever

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they cannot pretend that forever. Sometimes the person is acting because she is a customer service. And she's trained to meet the customers with a big smile. Cheese. Yes sir. How may I help you? And maybe from inside she is boiling, or He not only sheet, but this is how it is.

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Okay. But can they maintain pretending forever, I wish because if this is the case, good luck.

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But once they are not on duty, the different once they go home, they're different. Remember, and I made mention of this before, what I left in the beginning of my life in a compound in Texas, and

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the next door will couple

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whenever they return from work around five 5:30pm We all come around the same time. They will do not work immediately. They hang around kissing and hugging in front of us. We are just next door What separates their apartment from ours, or their duplex from ours is some sheetrock. So could hear everything literally. And they keep kissing and hugging in front of us. Right before they enter all what do you need to do is unlock the door walk in and do as you wish.

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Once they walk in, have our lair hear them fighting and fighting and fighting and very abusive language. And he beats his wife and she beats her husband who could hear everything. So I just came to the conclusion that you know whatever they do before they walk in must be shut off.

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Because they do not get along behind closed doors. They're always fighting. So why do they do that every time before or outside or on their patch you show off pretending

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amarena hardtop recognise that and he refused that anyone will vouch for the credibility of another simply because you saw him go into the machine. Or he looks nice or once he dealt with you and he figured out that this guy is very nice. No. There are means of judging whether the person is nice, super nice or rude and super rude.

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Those means is living with them. Like if you are neighbors if you traveled together.

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So you got stuck together for three days, four days for a week. I cannot pretend for a whole week. You know I just have to be myself for some time. Okay, eating drinking together. Sharing the room doing things together will expose the reality of the person a person cannot pretend forever. That's why many marriages. Many marriages, which is based on love, supposedly to

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classmates to co workers or whatever, I love you, I love you honey and exchange gifts and all of that. And she is willing to fight the whole world in order to marry him, and he would boycott his parents in order to marry her. And it could be simply superficial love

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ends up that a few weeks after the move in and after they get married, fights slate, and they end up before even completing a month or two, separating, filing for divorce and hating each other too much. Because the means were not true the means of establishing

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a married life were not true. It were something superficial. Okay, that's why the Prophet sallallahu sallam said when it comes to the clock,

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it is not about what you show before people what you pretend when it comes to a flat, the best of you with regards to good manners, fear or fear or communism

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or those who are the best to their wives. When you go home when you take off your clothes when you put on a nice outfit because your wife to have writes up on you she wants to see you dressed up nice.

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Wear a nice cologne you smell great. You don't smell sweat. You know, she have rights upon you to see you are making an effort

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to make her happy. This effort is appreciated by Allah that is evaluated as personal Hola. Or good manners. What else?

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What did you cook for us today? I will actually didn't cook today. I had a migraine. It was a very tough day. Or really May Allah give you she fairly Mirissa Rokia for you who just order anything, only me fix some scrambled eggs. We'll just do it today. Anything. Okay? There is a difference between a woman who's working hard and for a reason or another. Today she's sick, she's not feeling well. And she is off duty for reason or another. Or another woman who's lousy, doesn't know doesn't want to do anything. She keeps busy all day fixing her nails. And she goes to the hair salon. And she goes shopping. And she was the time on regular basis every day. Then the man who's working hard

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and he returns home. What do we have for lunch today? Honey, we don't have anything you know that you have to order the food as usual. That is not fair. This wife is not really doing her job. She's not doing her homework. It goes both ways. That's why a lot of mighty said well our one name is Lulu the alley in Nashville now. Laguna for them. And the pronoun refers to the wives Liahona for the wives, Miss Lou. the like of which the lack of what

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the duties that they owe to their husbands they have similar rights. Exactly.

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So the rights and the duties are mutual.

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Okay, you understand? So when the man is appreciating what the offer is doing, and he's kind to her and he is patient if she if there is any shortcoming at home. If there is anything that is missing his patient, he is training her he appreciates what she does. I showed her the Allahu anha narrated when she was asked.

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How was the Prophet salallahu Salam at home? How did he use to spend his time

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when Al Hamdulillah thank God back then they didn't have cell phones. They didn't have the smart devices. They didn't have the tablets, the iPads or otherwise you would see everyone they are living together only physically. But mentally everyone is married to his or her device. The brothers in the sisters, the husband and wife everyone is on their own virtual world. She said all the Allahu anha canacona Fear hizmeti Allah once the Prophet sallallahu Sallam at home, he was always in the service of his family, UFC for now Allah Yup, Carlos Elba, you would fix his shoes. He would patch his clothes. He would help doing the homework. Not that I am the Prophet. Don't you understand what it

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means being a prophet

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and he sit in the room Mother, you sit in the greatest example Salah Salem VEDA, Kanata Salah and once it is a prayer, it is a prayer time. Then he would leave for the prayer and He will suspend any other duty that he was doing Salah Salah. So that's why we are recording via Roku minister I am the best of you are those who are the best to the wives. And in another narration

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The Prophet sallallahu sallam said, we're an hydrocone ally. And he said, peace be upon him. I am the best of my family. And that was proven practically. And after his death SallAllahu sallam, all his wives have narrated, how the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him was indeed the best spouse may Allah Almighty, perfect our Eman and perfect our manners. We'll take a short break and we'll be back in Sharla in a few minutes please stay tuned

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back our phone numbers beginning with the area code 002 Then 01 double 05469323 Alternatively, same area code then 0238 double 5132 And the email addresses [email protected]. All right. The following hadith is another interesting Hadith

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collective by Abu Dawood May Allah admission him and rated by the Mother of the Believers. Aisha Radi Allahu anha this hadith number 628 Hadith number 628.

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And I Aisha Radi Allahu Anhu call it semirara To rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam echoed in unmukt Mina la you Derek will be host new holo key dollars Yatta saw email crime in El Mina la you Rico B host new holacracy dollar Jetta saw email car very important Hadith the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said Indeed, a believer will attain by his good deeds by his good manners, the rank of the one who is constantly standing in prayer and constantly fasting.

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A person who is praying at night on regular basis, the night prayer, constantly standing in prayer at night, and he's constantly fasting during the day. That is a reference to how much has an asset and how much good deeds this person has achieved.

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Fasting for a single day.

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For the sake of Allah distance a person away from hellfire, the distance which will be covered during seven day years. That is the virtues of fasting for one day.

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And praying at night is the honor of the believer. And so what essentially, Allah Almighty said that lgfl googoo man in my Bhaja he had grown out of Bellm Hongfeng Wattana women now as Akane who Moon full moon. Those are the people whom Allah Almighty promised Fela talamona Summa Ophir Allahu Minh, karate ion Jessa, and the Mecca and we I'm alone, so he promised them and that necessary word that no one could ever imagine. How great how precious will be the word and the compensation of Allah, which He has prepared for those who pray at night.

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Yet, praying constantly at night is such a vicious deed and a great act. Fasting constantly on every single day will keep you away from his Hellfire forever, because each year distance you the distance which will be covered for seven years. And you can do something that will guarantee the role of both of praying at night constantly, and fasting during the day on regular basis. So being well mannered

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through reflecting when the

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good conduct that you have on your relationship with people. I love this hadith. I love this hadith.

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What matters most brothers and sisters is how do you deal with others? Don't tell me how much you pray at night. That is for you. Don't tell me how many days you fast during the month. Even if you first every other day which is the best fasting like Prophet David peace be upon him.

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Don't tell me about yourself. Let me experience dealing with you Linnaeus

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See how you deal with others? Let me see how you deal with your family members, with your neighbors. Let me see that you're honest. You're truthful, you're trustworthy. Let me see when you meet people, you give them this beautiful smile, and you give them a salamati. Come, let me see that you're humble. You don't keep talking about your qualities and brag about yourself. And you want the audience just to sit and listen to you. This is a disease by the way. So when your behavior is speaking louder than your words, and you really will matter, in the scale of the good deeds, that is better than constantly praying at night, and constantly fasting during the day.

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Obviously, you should expect some people to say, well, the Hadith says that it is not important to pray at night, and it's not important to him. It doesn't say that. It shows you these ads will make and create a perfect believer. But if the person is well mannered, that will give him the reward for these rituals. And by that and even more, his ranking in paradise if he were to just offer the mandatory acts of worship.

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He doesn't pray but the five daily prayers and with maybe the Sunnah,

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and he fast during Ramadan, and that's it. But he's well mannered. He is kind to people. He is not abusive. He is not a person. He is not a thief. He is truthful and trustworthy Alhamdulillah those manners will make him eligible to achieve not only the rank of those who pray at night and fast on every single day. Now it's even a higher level.

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And this Hadees simply shows us the significance of being well mannered, and the highness of the award, and the ranking paradise for those who maintain good conduct, may Allah make us among them. We have seen how the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam told us about while a man was walking, he saw a branch of a tree

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slug in the road of people, he picked it up and he sat it or he put it on the side of the road. He said less than he may have some people. So Allah Almighty thanked him. He forgave him his sins, and he admitted him to paradise. This move of removing a hazardous material from the past of people is simply a result of being well mannered. On the other hand, you see, some people pick up their trash and instead of making an effort to go to the trash can or the dumpster. Once it is dark, once people are steep, no one can see them they will dump it anyway.

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A may contain hazardous material, blades, razors,

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you know, things which should be discarded in the trash not in the seat, but because they don't have the concept of Morocco but they don't have the concept of the good manners. They only watch people who are watching them. They do not really think that Allah is Ever Watchful. I don't care if you're praying all night long. It will be of no help. Because the person is missing the point. Okay, what about somebody who's got both somebody who prays at night he prays his father prayer and He fast Ma sha Allah voluntary fasting and Masha Allah He has great manners. Such person is like that man who's passing by when he died, his funeral was passing by

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in front of the Prophet sallallahu sallam. So the Companions admire that person. And they started saying this guy was very generous. This guy was very sincere, who was very quiet, he was very kind, and he was a gay worshiper. So the Prophet sallallahu sallam said whatever

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had been confirmed, it is due and they said, Yeah rasool Allah Maota that what does it mean that you said whatever he said was that at Lahore Jana, heaven is due for him. He's gonna enter paradise. Why is it and to show who the life

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you are the witnesses of Allah on earth? Why would you volunteer to bear witness for the virtues of any person after his death or less if he is like that?

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If a person has a manager at work, and his daughter is having her birthday or his dog is sick, they

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He would just run to compliment him or to condole him and everyone would offer a help or service. And they would compete with the bringing gifts to this person in any happy occasion, why they would run an ad in the newspaper in a commercial. Why? Because they are buying his pleasure. They just want him to be happy with them, or at least not harm them.

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Once he dies,

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once he dies, what happens? What happens to all his employers, to all his colleagues, no one shows up in his funeral. No one bothers to pick up the phone and say to his wife,

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be patient, we hope that Allah will take him to paradise. No one bothers why. As a matter of fact, they feel relieved.

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They feel relieved. This is a true testimony, brothers and sisters is once you're done with this life, people remember you as a well mannered person, a man with a good comeback. A man who was very helpful to others, a man who was very kind very, so they keep talking about him. And when they see his children somewhere,

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they rush to help them because they say that they are the children of so and so that kind man, the nice man, the generous man.

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It pays off. On the other hand, if the person was oppressive if the person was abusive, and now he said of his power in his life, or he dies, what do they say about him? They say * with him.

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We hope that Allah will not have any mercy on him. He was very abusive. He was he was another incident, a funeral pass by the prophet Salah Salem, and they actually started remembering how evil was that person. So the Prophet sallallahu sallam said whatever they said, What is water? But he said, What about LA Hunan? Because you guys are the witnesses of Allah. Whatever you are saying especially after the death of any person is you're reflecting the reality. May Allah guide us to what is best

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one more Hadith insha Allah because we only have about five minutes Hadith number 629 And Abby Omar, Natalia Healy are of the Allahu Anhu call. Carla Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam, and as our iman debate in FIRA Badil, Jannetty mentor Raquel Mira, we're in Ghana, Marhefka will be baiting fuel saltiel Jannetty Lehmann Tala Kal Kariba in Kenema Zia, where we buy it in V al Jannetty. Lehmann has shown a whole Yoko as a sound Hadith collected by Abu Dawood and his sunnah

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Abu Omar metal but he lay may Allah be pleased with him the rate that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said, Anna, there Iman

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be baiting.

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I stand surety of a house in Rabat, Liliana the outskirt of paradise, for whom, for one who gives up arguing, even if the right is on his side.

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And we'll be waiting for you also to Jana, and I stand surety and I guarantee a house right in the middle of paradise for whom for one who abandons lying, even if he is joking.

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And thirdly, which is the highest level when we made it in theology, not in him and Hassan Hola, whoa, I stand surety or a house in the highest part of paradise for one who has good manners, three nice qualities. What guarantee the person to enter Paradise, the world design guarantor,

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I stand surety

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and so that use of our number 72 Why demand jivi hemlo buried in visa II. I guarantee that whoever will bring that measure which will last will give him a camel loaded with food as a reward. And essentially for that this is in surah Tues of the story of Joseph and his brothers, verse number 72. So the words that are in here does not mean its literal meaning which is leader. No, it means a guarantee. I guarantee I stand surety and who is standing surety and who's guaranteed and guaranteed what Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam is guaranteeing

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I was in the outskirt of paradise. I don't care just take me to Heaven. Take me in the backyard of heaven. Take me close to paradise just to be safe from hellfire. That is the first house in the outskirts of paradise for whom? For one who gives up arguing even if he is right. There are minor things which people keep arguing about it and wasting their valuable times. Oh, what kind of pen is this? That looks like cross no it's not chorus no it scores no Sakura Santa is as fake bananas as a real pen. Okay, we wasted

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and it is not always very very cheapen. The point is it's a pen.

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Why do you waste 30 minutes of your time arguing about something even your independence years and you bought it for 50 cents and you know that it's cheap, but the other person is arguing Okay, you're right.

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Just drop it. The person who drives it for the sake of securing the time and for the sake of not showing off and for the sake of not creating hassle and problems with others. For what for nothing. The prophets Allah sallam said for this person I guarantee a house for you in the outskirts of paradise.

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Wallah he people start argument over things which are very insignificant. You find sometimes even while they are going for 100 Iran and Allah Almighty said about this so far have you hidden alhaja Fela processor while full suka Well, gee della Phil hunch

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now our office our full su koala GLSL Hodge

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you should avoid a loss us sexual relations for Sue or kind of indecent ads and since and he specified by mentioning LG that you should avoid argument and hedge. Sometimes whenever I'm going live on my Facebook page, and I use my phone

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I get a lot of criticism. Why because I normally have a dry mouth so I like to keep drinking water while I'm talking. Okay. So people start share you are drinking with your left hand this is haram shame on shame and shame and shame. And behind me there is a huge poster, you sign that says La ilaha illAllah Muhammad Rasool Allah, but since I'm using the front camera, it is reflected in the image, the opposite direction, so you read it backwards, which means simply, if you just come down, if you take it easy, and you look at the sign above me, or the less the the stack of books behind me, the names are read backwards, which means it's the mirror. And simply if this is the case, if La

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ilaha illAllah. Muhammad Rasul Allah when neither long is a backward, then when you see me holding the cup, in my left hand, it is simply because it's like a mirror, the front camera is like a mirror. I'm using my right hand.

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Okay. And there is another nice way to ask not to argue and argue and argue and you're trying to make a point. So the prophets on the non cinema said, and as a mon be bait in fear about the agenda. The mantra can mirror the argument.

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We're in Kenema, hepco. And the other one, a house in the middle of paradise for one who avoids lying, even if he's just joking. It's not permissible. There is no white lie, and black why, and another house for the person who will have good manners and that is in the highest place of paradise, which will be for one who have hosted holo or good manners. May Allah subhanaw taala enable us to enter paradise safely

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through perfect and our manners and through avoiding anything that may displeased or upset Allah Almighty, a whole colony had our stuff for Allah Allah Allah Subhana Allah hammock Nisha to Allah Allah Allah. Nesta for O'Connor to boo like or SallAllahu ala Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salam, wa Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.

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Allah God is the greatest

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woman doling glory to Him. He

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has to be the best and give his best religion to them. Allah Our God is the greatest, the one and only Glory to him on any illness to be the best, and give him

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is less than a religion to them so why did they know that forgiving all about and in paradise? We're shipping cause fire and stones, sending the rest with the cheapest

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day ignore that forgiving go about * and bad or dies. We're shipping cars fire and stones selling their best and cheapest

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