Gardens Of The Pious #252 Nov 28th 2016

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The Hadith is a complex and diverse culture that is often discussed in publicity. It includes discussions of the Prophet sallran, goddamn sallran, and the importance of respect for law and manners. The speaker emphasizes the use of abusive language and hesitation during prayer, as well as the importance of good manners in shaping behavior and compensation. The segment also touches on scaling deeds and how it affects one's ability to achieve success.

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allah God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He bought me Good Omens to be the best. Give his best religion to allah God is the greatest, the one and only Glory to him on any illness to be the best, and give his best religion to

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salaam, Allah Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Smilla Rahmanir Rahim hamdulillah Hello Bill Allah meanwhile happy back to them with akin without Werner Illa Allah of what he mean. Or salat wa salam ala so you didn't actually know. Rena Nabina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi. As you may know about brothers and sisters Welcome to another Live edition of our program Guardians of the pious Today's episode is number 295 in the blue seas of Riyadh of Saudi hain, chapter number 73. And that is our second episode in explaining the Schechter. Before I begin with the Hadith of the chapter,

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I'd like to extend my condolences on behalf of myself and who the TV family to the family of our brother Norka Perino, the Filipino brother, who shot dead while he did the fajr prayer in his Masjid in Manila, yesterday.

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I didn't have a chance to meet brother North personally, even though I was in Manila, a few weeks ago and in Zimbabwe,

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but I heard a lot of good things about him and his brothers, those who are working with him in the same field of Dawa very humble person, may Allah have mercy on his soul, very active and enthusiastic in Dawa.

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10s of people have accepted Islam on his hand. And as a matter of fact, some say even hundreds of people. And

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may Allah Almighty grant his family a great deal of patience. He was simply martyred. He was leading the fajr prayer when he was shot dead. So I asked Allah the great to bless her soul, to have mercy on him, and to treat him as one of his shahada and to grant him the highest place in paradise alpha del Sol, Allah, Allah hum me and also to your patients to his family, my condolences to his family members, and to the entire Muslim community in the Philippines.

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And now with the Hadith that we're going to study in the chapter, Bible Hosni Holyoake

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the chapter of good conduct

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Hadith number 622.

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The hadith is the sound Hadith agreed upon its authenticity narrated and a sabe it geotherm of the Allahu upon God, day two Rasul Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a Hema Allah and washi followed the WHO Ali Phelan mela MFE Waje call in lamina, who the who are like elderly Anna home, whatever con la

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Sadek. They just say, may Allah be pleased with him. The rated that I once gave the meat of a zebra, a wild donkey to the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him as a gift. But he returned it to me.

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When the Prophet peace be upon him, perceived signs of despair on my face. He said, I have declined to accept it because I'm in a state of a haram.

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The hadith is collected by both Imams Buhari and Muslim who's a sub in just Sam and what is his story? And definitely if you just read the text of the Hadith, you may not get the point. And why the Prophet sallallahu Sallam refused his gift.

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And is it permissible to eat the meat of a zebra? You know, you just need to learn the entire circumstances of the Hadith. And accordingly you will be able to better understand it

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Assad Bucha Sam

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was able Sophie hands nephew he was a son of Abu Sofia Anne's sister.

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He accepted Islam he made his way to and Medina and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam when he started establishing the brotherhood between one of Al Ansari and one of and mohajirs

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If he had become a product to alphanumeric one of alongside the original inhabitants of an Medina, may Allah be pleased with all of them. So solubilizer SEN. And out in America become brothers accordingly.

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam once was in a state of haram.

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And a Slavic Nisha Therma. Was not

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and he went hunting, and he hunted a zebra.

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And he hunted that zebra specially to give it to the Prophet sallallahu sallam. So it's halal to eat the meat of a zebra, but the domestic donkeys it is not permissible to eat their meat, the prophets Allah Salam forbade eating the meat of the domestic donkeys, but the Zebra is okay.

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So he went hunting and he hunted a zebra, and he presented it as a gift to the Prophet sallallahu sallam. But the Prophet salallahu Salam Allah who Allah He returned it to him, and he did not accept it. And the Prophet sallallahu sallam said to her do to Habu exchange gifts that will create and develop love amongst you. And he said later Clara Naja and Elijah Rati ha ha and voila, okay, false any share. If you give him any gift, anything should not be limited. If a woman is giving a gift, her neighbor give her a gift, anything such as a hold of the sheep, or goat, you do not belittle it, you accept it and you give thanks to the person who presented to you as a gift.

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And he said Salah Solomon in the Hadith, which was studied in the previous chapter, lo de la ilaha Delano kura, Lockerbie cobuild, while due to Isla de la in kura, la Cabildo adapt, if somebody presented the gift to me other as era, a shank, or a Quran, which is, again, the hose or the feet of the cattle. Either way, whether it's something that I love, or something insignificant, I will accept it, and I will appreciate that. So with all the Hadith, this Sahabi ASABE, Ninja Therma have hunted a whole zebra, and he brought the whole thing to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, why didn't he accept it? While he encouraged exchanging gifts, in college accepting any gift, even if it is

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So I'm sorry, because your family is actually the narrator of the Hadees too. He said fella, Murphy YG. And of course, if somebody is giving the Prophet sallallahu Sallam a gift, why does he sees people giving him gifts and he accepts, but only me when I give him a gift. He refused that

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the person will be upset.

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And this is what happened to a suburban Asia Therma he was saddened and despair appeared over his face. So the Prophet salaallah Salam, not that so he said, in and in indeed we. So he's using the royal we he is talking about himself because he was only the prophet who refused that. It was really the prophet who returned the gift back to a Saab leisure center. Why did he say we that is the royal we

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in lamb Naru do lamb Neruda who again he's using the royal we we did not return it back to you. We did not accept it

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for a simple reason, but because um Hold on. We aren't in a state of a haram you're not so what is wrong with being in Haram?

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What the state of haram prevent you from accepting a gift? No. It is simply because Allah Almighty stated in Surah Al Qaeda in earlier number 96 or Hillel Hakuna saw you do Buhari walk or I'm who matter I like whom one is a year

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where Huri Maryland EComm Swain, Berry to home what law her lady lie to show Pohela calm so it will be a hurry. So fishing

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while you are in a state of a haram once you put on your haram and you assume the intention of haram to perform either for Umrah or Hajj there are certain restrictions among the restrictions which while you are in a haram you're not allowed to do to touch or to go near to is hunting. What about fishing? No it is okay to fish. You're on a boat and on the way to perform Umrah or Hajj and you have the net so the fishing rods you started

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Fishing and you got plenty of fish Halal to eat or Halal have been made lawful for you. Whatever you catch from the sea for you and for the travelers were whole arena while it has been made unlawful to you, Allah consolidated barium Adam to format so hunting is not permissible while you are in a state of a haram and fear Allah unto Him you shall be gathered. Otaku, Allah Allah de la he shadow 96 Surah Al Qaeda

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in the pervious area 95 Allah Almighty said yeah, you have Lavina Amman, mula tokoto, who saw Edo

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tomb from all who believe do not hunt while you are in a state of Hara. And if you do that, there is a penalty, there is a ransom it goes all the way to a number 95 and whoever did that in the past alone, pardon him but whoever we do it again woman either fan Takimoto human,

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then Allah Almighty will take revenge from him. You must respect the the rules and regulations of Allah Almighty because some people belittle these acts and say so what you know in Haram, you're not allowed to process a marriage contract. You're not allowed to get engaged or to get married or to give somebody in marriage. Why because you are in a state of haram. So what So what it will be invalid. It is not allowed while you are while you hear the event for Joomla and the Hatim started giving the hotbar it is not allowed to do any business transaction selling and buying during this time. is haram forbidden? Yeah, I'm just buying bread, I'm buying food, I'm buying whatever or I'm

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selling shoes, but you know, I'm not going for Juma. I'll just go to attend the prayer. I'll go to the prayer directly any business transaction during the hotbar and the prayer is invalid. Yeah, you

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either know the law solid Amy Giamatti, facade inadequately law you are the only be.

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This is what Allah Almighty say. So the ACA, a lot of mighty regulates the lives of the believers, not only with regards to the acts of worship of the prayers, the fasting, the arms and Hajj, our entire life, business transaction, social relations, marriage and divorce,

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resolutions, counseling, reconciling everything is then regulates and you must respect that somebody will say what difference would it make with our minute haram? Tell you what.

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Whenever you are in the Haram in the entire sanctuary of Mecca or Medina, you're not allowed to hunt, or to scare or fighting a bird and animal or anything that exists. Even if you're not performing Hajj or Umrah

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even if you're not performing Hajj or Umrah that is essentially of the Haram

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there is essentially of the haram. So accordingly, those who are in the Haram, they must respect everything that exists even the plants.

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You're not allowed to break a branch of a tree or to uproot a tree Why don't mess with the trees don't mess with animals. And I guess you've all seen the the pigeons Subhanallah very beautiful images, I have seen a few that somebody is performing tawaf and the pigeon the bird is on top of his head. And the bird recognizes that there is at least 100,000 people revolving around the Kaaba, not scared whatsoever at all. Outside the Haram, hundreds and 1000s of pigeons and birds. They feel safe and secure. Why? Because no one dares to even hush them to scare them off. They buy food to give it to them. It's haram century

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and if somebody is coming from any destination from any location to Mecca to perform Hajj or Umrah on their way as long as you are in a state of a haram even animals should feel safe around you why because you are in a state of error.

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So you're not allowed to hunt you're not allowed to hunt. You're not allowed to eat from the hunt. Now that needs to be explained. Oh yeah, it's understood because the prophets Allah Allah Allah Selim did not eat no, this is not what do you think?

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Here are Sagna Therma may Allah be pleased with him, hunted the zebra, especially for the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam

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And that's why the Prophet SAW Selim said I can't accept it. He said, I got this for you, oh messenger of Allah. So Assad in Asia Santa was not Muharram that's perfectly fine you can eat you can enjoy. It was hunted outside the sanctuary of Mecca. And he was not in Haram no problem. But the Prophet sallallahu Sallam on the way to Mecca was in a haram

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and he knew that Assad Niger Sana hunted zebra, specially to give it to the Prophet saucer as a gift, in this case, it is not permissible. Otherwise, In a separate incident, during the Battle of a holiday via

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a companion by the name Abu Qatada on the Prophet sallallahu Sallam sin and a goal of the companions for you know,

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a Discovery mission on the way so he was not in a haram. His companions put on the Haram and intended to perform over they were sitting and they saw a zebra

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and they knew that you are in a haram it is not even permissible to point to it. Mere pointing or scaring an animal or a bird while in Haram is not permissible. But Abu Qatada is not in Haram. It is not permissible for them even to point to Abu Qatada to go and hunt it. So he saw them smiling. He turned around and he noticed that there is a zebra he jumped on the back of his horse, and he chased the zebra and he hunted the zebra. And then when he brought it to them, and some started boiling and cooking the meat. Now they were reluctant to eat. Why? Because you aren't Hamas. He didn't hunt it yourself. It was Abu Qatada who was not Muslim. They said you know what is go to the Prophet Salah

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Salem and ask him so when they returned to the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him. And he presented the whole case before him. He said, Did any of you point to it? Did any of you told Abu told Abu Qatada about it? They said no, we didn't. He said then go ahead and do you have anything left off at the Cydia we have a little bit he said give me some give me some in order to indicate that it is halal. He was haunted by somebody who was not in Haram and he did not hunt it especially for a particular person. And those who are in a haram did not point out to that person who's Abu Qatada to hunt it, understand this

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situation. So in this case, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam made it easy for us. Nowadays, we don't hunt whenever we're going to perform Hajj or Umrah. We're talking about people who travel on in caravans were basically they rely on hunting. Okay, we don't fish anymore. If we're traveling to perform Hajj or Umrah we're talking about people who have to sow these regulations just in case. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam observed this sadness and the disappointment on the face of Assad amnesia center. So he comforted him immediately. Here say, I don't care. Rather, he said in alumna who the WHO Alec Ileana, hold on, he assured him that, you know I would have accepted that gift from

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you. But because I'm in a state of harm, I cannot take it and you hunted it especially for me. That's why I cannot take it. The prophets Allah Allah sent and taught his Alma l RR.

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And we explained before what is a water and water is not simply asceticism, Allah is to definitely avoid anything that is haram or even have doubts.

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That is cold water.

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So when he found the date

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and it hasn't picked up and he was about to eat, he said,

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When are you delicate and ham in Tamil soda? How do you know it may be one of the days of the sadaqa and we the family of the Prophet SAW Selim are not permitted to accept the charity or to eat from the charity, they can only accept the gift that is in order to avoid any doubtful matter. So he said example to us. And meanwhile, he assured his companion of sub indigestion that there is nothing wrong with you. I only return it to you because I'm not allowed to eat out of it. SallAllahu wasallam so what is the relationship between this hadith and the chapter? Because no follow when ASABE amnesia Thanhha is explaining to us how careful was Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, and

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how much care you had for his companions that when he saw

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One of whom is kind of disappointed or upset immediately he assured him there is nothing wrong with you or with your gift. I only could not accept it because I'm in a state of a craft, as there are many other Hadith that when the Prophet Salah Salem International and he saw somebody and he was sad and he was overwhelmed, he said What is wrong with you? He said he shared with me your story and the prophets Allah sent him suggested to him, distribution, the answer. Why because the Prophet peace be upon him to care of every member of his community, Salah LaRussa

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the following hadith is narrated by a Nawaz Ignis, a man Robley Allahu Allah, and we studied this hadith before. So that's why we will just learn it briefly. It's a sound Hadith collected by Imam Muslim, may Allah have mercy on him.

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Paula sell to rasool Allah He is Allah Allahu Allah. He was a lemma and in theory, while is a con el Buro horsnell Hook, well, a small hack for your sadaqa work at the annual folly, Allah Yunus.

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And now I simply say man, may Allah be pleased with him narrated that I have asked the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him about L bearer, righteousness

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and L S. sinning. What is righteousness? And what is wickedness?

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Like he's asking about everything. Farrakhan l Bureau has no hollow weightlessness is good manners. And wickedness is that which causes doubt in your heart, and you don't like people to know about it.

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There is a very comprehensive meaning to both righteousness and its opposite, which is wickedness, or sinning. The other Hadith which was studied before was widely cited in the mob, may Allah be pleased with him, whom the Prophet salaallah selon saw him coming towards him and he said that is L and L very well if you've come to ask me about righteousness and wickedness. He said yes.

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Then the prophets Allah Salam delivered the answer, and it was a sign that Allah Almighty informed him what was in the heart of where we sleep, no matter but before he even uttered the word.

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And he gave the same as lb Rojas no Holyoake.

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la suma Hakka fineness see?

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What can it and your Pollyanna leanness

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in the other Hadith, he explained, righteousness is what you feel good about it.

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And he feel proud to do it in public.

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While wickedness or sinning is something that you don't feel good when you do it.

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And you feel ashamed of yourself to the point that you don't want anyone to see you doing it. Because it's a shameful thing. That in case that there is no clear cut an explanation of what is halal and haram. You don't come to a drug addict.

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And he is May Allah protect us all. What an alcoholic, and he drinks in public. And you say, Well, look, he doesn't mind. He's okay. Which means as long as they feel good about it, it's Hala. No, we're talking about the sound heart. And we're also talking about the act which is in the gray area. You're not sure whether it's really halal or haram. Whether it because you're not aware of its verdict, or because there is no clear verdict in this regard. We know that there are people who are actually involved in illicit acts every day, but somebody else is his first time to have a date. And he says, I'm just learning to get to know the girls so that if I like her if she likes me, I'll go

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and ask her that and ask for her hand and so on. I'm gonna ask you, would you feel good if people see you together? That's the first time he's a practicing person. Oh, no, I can't. Would you like your daughter to hang around with somebody else who is not related to her? Because he is destined her out?

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Before coming to your house? I'm talking to you. Of course not. Your sister. You're no no, no, no. In this case, you still have a sound heart. We're talking about people with sound hearts. We're not talking about those whose hearts are already pronounced dead. That's an entirely

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Different story of course. So what is the comprehensive meaning of album,

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and personal hook? Well, good manners is something very simple, wonderful topic.

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And to have a cheerful smile,

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and to have a sweet and to talk to people nicely.

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And when you see people, you don't turn a frown face before them, while also alhaja Calanus know, do turn away from them while they're talking to you out of arrogance or out of belittle in your audience, or the person who's talking to you, showing respect to people,

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showing respect to people dealing with them with good manners.

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It would really, really make you eligible to be called a Mormon

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to be called a believer, but

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if the person is irregular in his or her prayer

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is regular in their fasting, they even pray up might voluntary prayers.

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But for some reason, they are rude.

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They are abusive. Use abusive language.

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People uphold them. What did the Prophet Salah Salem say in this regard, when he was told about a woman, and they described her rabada and her

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worship, but I can have these year on her, but she abuses her neighbors and she annoys them she harms her giran innocently, the Prophet sallallahu sallam said she will go to Hell, he FNR you know, the main purpose of a better is to transfer and transform you

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a certain being into a better being.

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The rebounder is supposed to improve your relationship with your Creator. And it's supposed to improve your relationship with the creation of Allah Almighty. So when you deal with people, you remember that you have been standing before Allah Almighty next to somebody who's maybe inferior to superior to you. And there is no difference between if you in na sala tighten her annual fascia you want monka? Isn't it? Solid prayer is supposed to hinder and stop the people from in decencies and from illicit acts. But if the person is doing both, then he did not benefit of his worship. He did not benefit of his worship. That's why the Prophet Salah Salem crowned that title elsewhere by

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saying simply hospital follow. What about if somebody has good manners, but he does not pray? That's not there.

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That's not there. And this is very rare, but it may happen. Be well mannered by itself, without fulfilling Allah's lights will not give you salvation. And as I said, this is very, very rare to happen. But normally it is the person who's religiously committed who is God fearing, who's having the quality of Al bear attack or a fear of Allah. He is the one who is good to his Lord, and good to the creation of his Lord. So he's good in dealing with people. He's good to his wife, his good indoor and his good outdoor, his go behind closed doors, and he's good in public. That is personal. Well is my hacker feel so delicate, okay, and your fellow holiness. So if you are a practicing

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Muslim, and there is something that you are ashamed to do it in public, then don't ask whether it's halal or haram. It's haram.

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It is haram. Don't say it's a gift, you know that it's an issuer. If your boss were to see you accepting this, would he let you slide on? No, of course not. Why not? But he doesn't understand it's a gift. The guy likes me now. But that guy doesn't like you. He likes your desk. He likes your signature. And that's why he singled me out he didn't give your colleagues the same gift. And if you ought to resign or to get fired tomorrow, whenever he would meet you in the in the in the street, he wouldn't bother to say hi.

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Why? Because he got to know you and he got to give you the gift only for a reason. What was the reason was he needs your signature. He needs your approval, your consent to finish the paperwork for him to assist them in the acquisition or whatever. So what is this called? It is not called gift. It is called

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bribery. And if you're confused, ask yourself

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Would you be willing to do it in public?

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I mean, would the person come with the gift further in the form of cash, sometimes a car key to your mother? It depends on the on the, on the business and the interest. So, would you be doing this in public in front of all your colleagues? Whenever your son or daughter say, Oh, how did you get this? Would you say that somebody because I'm an Acquisition Manager, and I'm in charge of ordering, whatever. So the seller or the company which I bought from them to the company, which I worked for, they gave me this as a gift. Would you dare to say that? Of course not. Why not? Our character and your Pollyanna hiddenness to dislike and you would hate and you'll be afraid that people might

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discover it or know about it, that is code. If sin and sin in May Allah Almighty guide us what is best is take a short break then in sha Allah, we'll be back in a few minutes stay tuned.

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. Our phone numbers a code of 002 then 01 double 0455469323 Alternatively, call 002 Then 023 Triple 5132 And the email addresses gardens at Hookah Bar TV.

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The following hadith is Hadith number 642.

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It's a sound Hadith agreed upon its authenticity and

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it is narrated by Abdullah Abdullah Ahmed the last May Allah be pleased with him and his father that is Hadith number 624.

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And I'm delighted now I'm grieving the loss of the Allahu Anhu Malakal Lamia Quan rasuluh Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Alpha Haitian well a mood as a Haitian Okay, cool. Enamel here a comb, sono goon.

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Whatever can ally

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in this hadith,

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which is narrated by Abdullah inom, read the last May Allah be pleased with him and his father.

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He narrated that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him.

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Never, ever use a foul language.

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Know, did he ever have the tendency to use a foul language, or an abusive words, and he used to say the best of you, is the best among you in conduct. The best of you is the one who have bearer a flag, bearer, conduct and manners.

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Before we

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study the general meaning of this hadith, I'd like to shed some light on the two words, which they sound

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close to each other. But there is a difference between both of them, alpha hash, one whatever hash

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both the outcome is the same, which is using an offensive language, using an abusive actions, having terrible traits.

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That is the outcome of alpha ash, being abusive, being insulted, being rude, but what is the difference between alpha Hush, and and whatever Hush. He was neither a fetish, nor was he motor for Hush. If you remember, in the first episode, when we spoke about manners and good conduct, as said, there are two types of manners one which is indigenous, inherited

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through you, your parents, so your family and the other type of manners which are acquired, which are acquired.

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You earn them, you make an effort to earn them. This is as far as the good clap. The bad manners are likewise, somebody who was born and raised in a terrible society, everybody's abusive. Everybody's insulted to say hi to somebody

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Use a bad word.

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Use a bad word. My first few days in the United States, maybe 20 years ago, more than 20 years ago, a lot of my colleagues

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were asking, Can you teach me a bad word in Arabic? And how do you say whatever in Egyptian? Oh, it seems like the society are using this whenever they are happy, whenever they are angry, whenever they are fighting, or whenever they are

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playing around and having fun with each other, whenever they are complementing each other use foul language.

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So it's hard to find an exception.

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Okay, that is fair hash. By birth, everybody's like that. Whatever hash is a person who wants to add to the dictionary. He's acquiring more abusive language, words and actions. So the Prophet Salah Salem will neither this nor that. Allah protected him since his childhood.

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Now only with regards to the heat and monotheism that he never touched an idol. He never prostrated himself before a false AD. He never bad or asked of a statue or a stone. While you know it was the common practice. paganism was the religion of the people of Makkah. He never, ever was involved in anything like that. And similarly, the Prophet SAW Selim was not a fetish.

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He abstained from all the bad words, and the bad actions, abusive and the offensive language Subhanallah by nature, so naturally, the Prophet SAW Selim was never inclined towards that. But you know, sometimes when you're aggravated, sometimes when you're at rest, you find yourself had a tendency to take revenge. In one Hadith the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Allah and Allah who said, Beware today, May Allah curse the person who would curse or insult his parents.

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The companion said, O Messenger of Allah, and who would insult his parents? They were terrible, but not to the point that was somebody who would curse his parents, and assault his mother or father, hell, how did this happen? How come? So you say, yeah, so Barafu avarage? First, so boom,

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you know, when you take the initiative, and he said to somebody, you son of such and such,

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And you insulted his father, with the other person whom you just insulted his father or his mother, and give us a very abusive and offensive language, be quiet and say, May God forgive you, brother?

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No, my people wouldn't do that. When I will occur her ill will have intervene. So that facilite

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no one would do that. To be pardoning, to be forgiven, not to react to the bad action with a bad reaction. But a very lucky person, a person with a great deal of patience, but ordinary people, you give him one word, He will give you 10. So when you take the initiative, and you say to somebody, you son of whatever, so he replied, back insulted you, and both your parents your blameworthy?

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Because you took the initiative, you started it, and you brought the curse upon your parents, by yourself. You knew it, you could tell that it's coming.

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Okay. So this is how the person becomes with a hash

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is not only inclined in tours in decencies, but he's creative in that regard.

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He wants to add to the dictionary of the vast vocabulary, and the bad traits, he was neither this nor that, rather the Prophet sallallahu sallam was very peaceful, had the best of manners and that's why when I issued all the Allah Allah was asked, how was the manners of the Prophet Salah salami, funer describe his fates. What would you say she is it kind of whole Quran?

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He sweets, his manners word, the Quran.

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What does it mean? It means that his behavior stem from the Quranic

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guidance of being forbidding or being patient or being pardoning, of being forgiven, or being merciful. So he interpreted all the guidance of the Quran, and he acted upon it

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through his actions salatu salam, and look at our code. Now he has all the right to have

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Why because he started it. He took the initiative. His actions speak louder than his words.

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His actions speak louder than his words. Now whenever He advices people would learn attentive ears would open up their hearts to accept the advice. Why? Because the advice is coming from a person who is actually practicing what he preaches.

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whenever somebody is giving a sermon,

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and after the hotbar they see him stepping outside the masjid. And he's smoking, they would lose trust in him.

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Even though he was not talking about how smoking is evil, and it is haram and it is harmful. What about if the person was actually given the heartbeat about you should not be smoking, it is harmful, it is terrible. It destroys your health and his Hara, then you see him smoking, oh my God, I didn't even want to pray behind them.

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And I'm not gonna accept any advice from him. He is a terrible example. But when the person is practicing, and people observe his practices, his manners, His righteousness and His virtues closely, then He advices his own worthy to give an advice. And people would love to follow his advice because he's a role model. And that was the greatest role model. Muhammad Sallallahu

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Allah Hakka Senor in chapter, a lot of mighty have used the word LA. In Arabic That means a Tapi for sure, certainly, most certainly virtually, in the Messenger of Allah. Hamlet's Allah Allah Allah Salah for you Lakhan fear Rasul Allah, He who soon has a great example, a great role model to be followed Salah salah, for those who really desire to be saved on the Day of Judgment, those who truly believe in Allah and there will be life after death and they want to receive salvation, follow this man, follow the one who Allah loves most.

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What can I afford to enamel here equal?

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The best of you are those who have the best of manners. So, what is the scale? What is the determining factor, which will decide who is good and who is better and who is best the scale is the manners,

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one who have the best of manners, then he is more righteous. Then there will be other Hadith explaining the level of righteousness. And accordingly the level of compensation and the closeness to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam in Paradise will be based on the level of the good manners that the person adopted in this life. I guess we have a few more minutes to take one more Hadith. This hadith is collected while in mo Tirmidhi. And everything of the Ravi Allahu Anhu Ananda via Salah Allahu Allah He was a llama con

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I would have the May Allah be pleased with him. narrated that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said nothing will be heavier on the day of resurrection in the scale of the believer, then having good manners.

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And Allah hates and abhors one who utters foul language or is insulted and abusive.

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Remember, we said

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when it comes to measurement, or weight, it will be depending on the value of the item that you're measuring or weighing.

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When we measure or when we wait, stones, sand, when the ton metals Iran steel when the time because the value is it is not that expensive to weigh it by the gram

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and what will be weighed by the gram. Hold silver because each gram counts

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Is there anything will be weighed by a measurement? Which is or a scale lesser than the gram? Yeah, diamond with the carrot.

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Whereas, then

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the the smallest unit of weight is what is used for weighing the ones good deeds or bad deeds, one's actions, which is Zala.

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For me, yeah, I'm a myth call as a rotten hiring era, where my YAML miss call as a rotten German era. So ever does an atom wait

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an hour to wait? Not the grand Madikeri not the kilogram? Not the turn. No, no, no, no, no. And at weight of good shall see it. And whoever does an add on weight of evil shall see it. And when it comes to the heaviest deeds, in the scale of Al Hasan and the good deeds, the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, nothing will be heavier in the scale of the believers good deeds, then good manners on the Day of Judgment. So let's go ahead and invest in that field.

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Let's go ahead and invest and disregard this make our scale of good deeds heavy on the Day of Judgment. By simply this is you don't have to pay for it. By the way. You don't have to pay for it.

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It simply will cause you a nice smile, a nice reply, to begin others with a greeting.

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That's it. Yeah.

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To have a very good mouth, very good tongue to say what is good to stay away from abusive and foul language, and to have a nice smile. That's it. That is the easiest thing in the scale of the believer on the day of judgment.

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And if this is the case, and if one knows already, as a Prophet sallallahu sallam said in the comments are unnecessarily unwelcome failures are home income, personal holdup no matter how rich you are, or you may be, you will give everyone 10 grands or 100 grands, yeah, that will make them happy if you give, but for some time, but they will remain always happy with you even without giving the money as long as you treat them good as long as you can to them. As long as you have good conduct and good manners. And Allah Almighty abhors, and he hates Alpha hush LBZ abusive, and the one who uses a foul language, I hope our younger source and the youth are listening to this advice,

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especially today is a Hadith, because due to the peer pressure, you know, you feel proud that that everybody is using abusive language at school or at the gym, you come up with a new term to beat others. And the more you're abusive, the more you're powerful before they

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disregard all of that here in front of your eyes, the scale of the good deeds that you need to deposit the heaviest thing in it, which is the good conduct. May Allah Almighty grant us all the good conduct and the good manners of all Akali have been stuffed for loyalty welcome SallAllahu ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala early he was Salam. Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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allah God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He only has to be the best and give his best religion to allah God is the greatest, the long annoying Glory to him on any illness to be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving gold about and in paradise where shipping comes fire and stones sending their best to the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting all about hell and bad guys are shipping cars fire and stones selling their best and cheapest

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