Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #250 Dec 19th 2016

Muhammad Salah
AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the history and meaning behind the Prophet Muhammad sallavi Alayhi wa sallam cool, the use of "will" in Arabic, the importance of peace and suffering for everyone, and the use of "will" in Arabic to signal a desire or desire. They emphasize the importance of guidance from the Prophets for personal and professional behavior, avoiding anger, and suppressing anger in order to avoid future embarrassment and war. The importance of avoiding harm in public, avoiding forgiveness in payments, and being mindful of behavior is emphasized. The segment also touches on the complexities of divorce, divorce, and divorce cases, and ends with a recap of the Hadith number and a brief advertisement for a video about shooting a car.
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a Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back to another episode of our program Guardians of the pious Today's episode is number three or one is the first episode after we completed mashallah fish and trees, and will continue explained in chapter number 74. That is going to be the fifth episode in explaining the chapter of forbearance prudence, and gentleness as usual. We begin by praising Allah Almighty alone, and then sending the peace, peace and blessings upon Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam, and then with the first Hadith which happens to be Hadith number 637, in the series of gardens of the pious the hadith is narrated by Algeria in Abdullah or

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Ali Allahu Allah. And it is a sound Hadith collected by Imam Muslim may Allah have mercy on him. Jerry derivative now the level of the Allahu Anhu can't send their to rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam cool, the you from your Rivkah your horrible hierarchy Allah. Your Halima Rifka. You're from El hiera Kula.

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The hadith as I said, collected by Imam Muslim, and the Prophet peace be upon him said, whoever is deprived of a riff, which is gentleness and forbearance, in fact, is deprived of all good.

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There is a little difference between the scholars of the Arabic grammar with regards to L.

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The word l hire begins with Elif Lang. Whether l here, I'll hire refers to every good to all that is good, or to a specific goodness relating to a risk in this position.

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What does it mean?

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Well, according to the first meeting,

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and to feel the moon, so it benefits, generalization, yani whoever is deprived of forbearance and gentleness, then he is deprived of all goodness, goodness in this life, which would lead to goodness in the hereafter ya need this person is a total loser.

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That if l in the world, I'll hire benefits generalization. So one who is not kind, one who is not gentle, one was not forbearing he is deprived of all goodness. According to the second meaning, I'll hire Elif Alam in Arabic decoded diligence, which means

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it is in proportion.

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With the amount of gentleness the person is missing, he will be deprived with a similar amount of goodness. Well, would you please explain further? Yes, sure.

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There is another Hadith in which the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam says yeah Isha. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam called upon Aisha, may Allah be pleased with the receipt.

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Man Halima have Rahu Minar Rifki Halima huzzah who mean hybrid dunya? Well,

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whoever is deprived of his share of kindness, or forbearance of gentleness, will be deprived of a similar share of the goodness of both this life and the hereafter.

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By the way,

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if you notice that there are several Hadith narrated by Aisha Radi Allahu anhu, narrated concerning forbearance, kindness and gentleness ahead. And

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that is because of an incident in the Hadith,

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that some of the Jews would come to the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him and the greet him saying, a samurai like Al Mohammed,

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a samurai like a Muhammad it sounds familiar.

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But it is not our greeting

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as Salah Mahalik is our greeting, peace, be with you. A Salam means peace. A Salam is a source of peace. Allah Almighty is one of his names as salam.

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But as Sam missing wonder, which is the last big difference. It is totally the opposite meaning as salam Salam seen, learn and if meme for lira Salam

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The root word Salam means peace.

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While Sam, three letters missing the letter or lab, so it's seen Alif meme Sam.

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It's not Uncle Sam though Sam, in Arabic means death.

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The Prophet peace be upon him said that every disease Allah created has created a treatment and a remedy for it, and medication for it, except one disease, which is a SAM, mouth death.

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So they will take advantage that they are saying it swiftly and they will say to the Prophet peace be upon SMR like Muhammad, may death be upon you. And the fact that he didn't hear it well. And what they used to say is that we pray against him, we invoke this upon him, and he says, We're Alaikum wa sallam and he invokes peace for us.

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So hi, Aisha Radi Allahu Allah and how was young 12 1314 years old? She heard that she paid attention to it. And she said, rather you made death be upon you.

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So the Prophet sallallahu cinema said or Isha. Be kind. She said, Didn't you hear what they're saying? They're invoking death. Again. You see, I know. You know, you're not under saying, Man, you die. My death be upon you. I said, Yes. They said, Did you hear what I say?

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I reply back by saying what had I come upon you?

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Allah would not accept the invocation, but he would accept mine. So there is no need to be abusive, to be insulted. In a minute sob fashion, wala bezzie A believer is never insulted

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is never abusive.

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So you don't have to insult

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Mecca and riff off a che in in lezana.

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As long as there is kindness and gentleness endures in anything, it adorns it. It's like a woman who's wearing nice jewelry.

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The adornment is a risk. You take it off, you take the makeup off, you remove all the adornment, then the person is bear without any of that. So a ref is Xena. If the person and it is not, you know, expected from a person to be numb,

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not to react in any condition all the time he is entered, he is numb that's not expected. And this is not the human nature. This is my human nature.

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The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, when it comes to hurting him and personally, he wouldn't mind. But whenever any of the sanctuaries of Allah Almighty being transgressed against, he will get angry, he will get mad. So the Prophet salallahu Salam was a man of peace, soso peace, but meanwhile, he is a great warrior. He was a great commander of chief, he led wars, battles, meaning reform, and he was victorious. And once he's victorious, he taught us how to deal with the enemies after they're defeated. After they submit to you, after they become prisoners of war, that is called ref. That's called *.

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But as Soufiane is salary, may Allah had mercy on him taught his companions, a riff is not kindness all the way to be numb,

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to be entered, not to react at all. Rather a riff is to put everything in its right perspective. In its rightful position,

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except pain, how they said, as she did to female the strength in its position and kindness in its position. You don't deal with all situations the same, sometimes strength is needed. Power is needed like on the battlefield, because if you show weakness, you will be eaten

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you will be demolished. Right? Look nowadays, can you describe the stance of the Arabic countries and the Muslim societies

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concerning the character of

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of Halloween, Aleppo, the disaster which is taking place there, Muslim women are being raped, children, women, infants, elders, hospitals are being destroyed, utterly destroyed. People are forced to disbelieve in Allah and in His messenger and to insult and cause the Companions should

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You sit back and you say,

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This is foolishness.

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You're blameworthy.

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The rulers are blameworthy. Those who are decision makers and are came along to take an action or blame God, I'm not.

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You know, I'm just an ordinary Muslim. You have a duty to do do it.

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So, one day I was sitting in the Haram and there was an argument between

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some people somebody who's making too high again is a person.

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Oh Allah destroyed or pressors Oh ALLAH free the land of such and such. Oh Allah protect your servants, and free the prisoners of war three, our Muslim brothers and sisters, and destroy and curse no prisoners. Somebody popped up and said, Oh, no, no, no, you can pray again. His oppressors. You have to be kind. You should not pray again his oppressors. Then they looked at me and said check. What do you think? Do you think

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they didn't hear the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam I said, you should avoid the invocation of the oppressed. Because there is no barrier between the invocation they do I have an oppressed one and Allah. It penetrates through the heavens, the clouds in the heavens, and it makes its way through the heavens to Allah Almighty. And Allah Almighty says such invocation I swear to my honor and majesty, I shall support you. Sooner or later. Didn't you hear that? Didn't you hear new Hara is Salam praying again is oppressors of his people saying Rob Bella Terra, I'll have the mineral caffeine at the ER.

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Didn't you hear the supplication of Moses peace be upon him again is his people who oppressed and trust the guests they said, for Diana were banal common philosophy. Do not treat us the same, separate and park between us and the rebellious. Didn't you hear the supplication of Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, again is some people when they transgress all the limits when they kill 70

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of the supporters of the Quran, after they give them peace, they invited them to teach them the Quran. It was nothing other than an ambush. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam spent the whole month making dua and Knut, asking Allah to destroy those people ran with a question Wow, the loyal Cara, these swipes whom the prophets why? On the other hand, in many cases, non Muslims, the Prophet SAW Selim still continued to pray for them, not against them, but because of their tree tree and the outcome. They came to the Prophet Salah Salem and they said, Would you please send some of your companions to teach us how to read Quran and so on. So you since 70 of the fall,

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and they ambush them and the acid sedated them.

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We have two incidence arogya the Omar owner. So in cases like that, kindness makes no sense. Ref means that your love you and if somebody is trying to flatter your wife in your presence, or molesting your child in your presence,

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you should not be kind, you should be firm, you should be strong, you should defend your honor, you should defend your family. Right. So a riff, the right definition is to put everything in its right prospective strengths whenever it is needed and prescribe kindness whenever it is needed, and prescribed. The person who will be deprived from kindness will be deprived from all goodness, if he has zero kindness. The person who will be deprived from kindness in certain incidents will be deprived in proportion with how much riff and kindness is missing will be deprived from similar amount of goodness. Let me give you an example.

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A girl, a wife who's having an issue with her husband.

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She runs to her father to her brother, um, she knows that they are kind of very, they have a very bad temper, and they can do bad things. And she keeps crying and he did this and he did this and he did that. Okay.

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So the brother pulls out his pistol

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and he pulls a trigger and he shoots his brother in law. She lost two

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her husband and her brother, why? Because she knows that beforehand, her brother is foolish. Her brother is the pride from ref. And because it's the pride from this kindness is the pride from all goodness. Look, he's ruined in both lives in this life and in the hereafter.

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I've seen some times in, you know, in North America if you caught somebody if you're driving and you caught somebody in some states, they carry the shotguns next to them right away, they will bring their shotgun and ready to shoot. And sometimes they do. Why? What for? What was the reason?

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Because somebody cut you off.

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You show somebody because of that. Yeah. And the thing this is like you know, person that evil? How dare you do that? It's much simpler than that. Just let go. May Allah forgive you? Don't mind he's foolish. In a hot tub of ammonia, he Runa Carlos Salam, this is to protect yourself. So if you are watching your life, like in a tape, like you're watching a movie

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in the movie, which is playing your life, the actor who is supposed to be you

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is the act.

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So somebody aggravated him, and he pulled his pistol and he pulled the trigger and he feels this person, then the consequences are trial then maybe in some states death penalty. You lose your wife, you lose your children, you lose. You lose everything you lose your life simply then what would you do as a viewer as somebody who's watching this? Are you foolish? You shouldn't have done that from the beginning. You should have just let go. Okay, and Hamdulillah shockula the list learn the easy way what is the easy way to comply?

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Any guidance that is presented in the Quran? Or in the Sunnah. The second form of why is simply providing us with the easy way

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for Manitoba Huda fella Yabu Louella Yash woman our other hand Zicree for in nella Houma you shut on Blanca,

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it is called Buddha. It is go it is called guidance, these manners from the Prophets Allah Salam is teaching and happen to teach us or guidance, guidance from Allah subhanaw taala in order to do what in order to enjoy our life. Family Tada who die whoever follows My guidance, fella when molestation never go straight,

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nor shall you suffer of any stress.

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On the other hand,

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if you neglect this guidance, and you act upon your personal desire, and evil human nature, for indelible marriage, that on banca, you will have a miserable life, in addition to the evil return on the Day of Judgment, which begins with gathering the person as blind.

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Allahu Akbar, why, because you neglected this guidance. So pay attention brothers and sisters, to the meaning of this hadith. In a riff kala Kunal fish che in Isla Zanna wala Yun Zalman che in Illa, Shanna kindness once it is in anything, it adorns it, and once it is withdrawn from anything, it ruins it. It ruins your relationship with your spouse. It ruins your relationship with your children. We hear a lot of stories, some adults, they sit with me and enraged to me. How harsh were their parents, particularly the Father. He used to be them. He used to do this. He used to do that, thinking that he is protective and he wants to make his kids the best. He's a doctor and he wants to

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make his son a doctor like him. So he beats him up to study to have high scores so that he will go to medical school and if you do not become a doctor, I'm gonna kill you. So he hates his job. He hates the practice the Proficient, he hates his patients. He hates his life. I never chose it. He forced me to do he was deprived from kindness and Subhanallah the evil consequences keep echoing in the offspring.

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But when the father is kind on the father is revealed in dealing with his wife in front of his children that also reflects upon them how to deal their future spouses. whether he'll sheep and have to deal with their future offspring Inshallah, that he or she, why because this is how our parents taught us

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How our fathers or mothers raised us up because they were kind, they were gentle. So in this hadith again, my Johanna Rivkah you heard Emile Haleakala whoever is deprived of kindness and gentleness is definitely deprived of own goodness, or according to the second meaning is the price of goodness in proportion to how much he is missing of kindness and gentleness.

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The following hadith is Hadith number 638.

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Selling Hadith Narrated by

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Abu Hurayrah Radi Allahu Allah

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and collective by Imam Al Bukhari, may Allah have mercy on him. And Ebihara ureteral the Allahu Anhu and now rollin Coleen NaVi Salalah Salallahu Alaihe Salam, Al Sunni, por la la Tao up for the day Muran Paula letaba, Bob Arawa, who al Bukhari

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and this hadith

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Abu Hurayrah are the Allahu aren't reported. A man once as the messenger of Allah peace be upon him to give him an I'll see how he says, advise me Oh prophet of Allah. So the messenger of Allah peace be upon him, advise them saying, lotto Bob,

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don't get mad. So the man repeated the question several times, as if he's looking for a different answer. Every time he will repeat the same question. The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam would give him the same answer. Let's talk about Don't get angry, don't get mad.

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There are many Hadith

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in which some companions came to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam asking for an advice and the advices

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may be different, varying from one person to another.

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He says two more are the pleasurable

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or the Allah who are

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in your headbutt fella today Anna dubara, Julio Salatin and Taco Allahu Marina Allah decree Kosuke Rico, Hosni Beddit that's a beautiful Naziha because I love you never forget to say by the end of every prayer, this beautiful dua Oh, Allah helped me assist me to remember you

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to be grateful to you to be a devout worshipper to Allah the trigger or show clicker, worsening a bear that

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in another incident, He advices Abdullah had not best 1314 years old, a teenager. He says, Yeah, hula, that's why he called him a young man

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for the layup.

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For the letter G to Jack, he needs this advice at this age, that you're never alone. If you want Allah to always protect you, you got to guard yourself. In that regard, you do too. So Allah Almighty, you gotta be dutiful to Allah in private, as well as in public, Arabic or to yourself and to Allah, so that Allah Almighty would always support you, and will be next to you whenever you need to, then you would advise him with aspects of our Pyrrha know that. If you need anything, you should ask it from Allah directly. If you are in any need, you should resort to Allah alone, the stars, what is the standard, the first time builder to build the app EDA in this young man, and these

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advices are equal and not only stay in with the person who have been advised in this hadith, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam perhaps and it doesn't really matter who is that person? Some narrators, the Hadith make an effort to say old, the the Kushner or this companion or that companion? To me, it doesn't matter. Because the advice is not given to a particular person. It is rather given to the entire OMA to you to me, and to every Muslim throughout the time until the day of judgment. So

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the advice is very useful and very general.

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But when some people read the Hadith, think, where is the advice? It's like, you know, when somebody says, I go to the doctor, because

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perhaps somebody is an addict. So he goes to he goes to the doctor, because he wants to stop. He says, Okay, you should stop smoking. You should stop drugs. Okay. Good. Have that is a question. Somebody who has a temper and you said, You tell him that don't get angry to lose your temper. Rather, what is the advice? How should they avoid that? So let's talk about

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OB does not literally mean that don't get mad, or don't get angry, because that had been explained in various other Hadith. But it means two things.

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Avoid what will make you angry, you can see it coming.

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Avoid it. If you know that the conversation with this person or that person or a spousal harassment is leading to this avoided, call it short, don't go there.

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And if the person happens to be in this situation, and he got angry for a reason or another because it's human nature, then he should try to avoid acting upon his anger.

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it is best to avoid anger because it is amongst the worst traits, because it will make the person abnormal, not knowing what he is doing. Perhaps he will turn into a wild animal, sometimes cursing, beating, hating, maybe divorcing his wife, maybe cursing his parents, maybe harming those who are around him may be taken the lives of others as a result of his anger.

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if you were not able to avoid all of that,

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and you happen to get angry, because it's a human nature, then do what is necessary in order to dismiss this anger in order not to act upon it so that you avoid hurting yourself. inflict any harm to others, divorcing your wife, or causing any pain to any person whether the pain is moral, whether the pain is physical, financial, anyway, you should avoid all of the tab.

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When you look into the area in which Allah Almighty represented the hubbub or anger as a subject as a file, it does, it controls a person. You will not you will never get angry.

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While I'm Sackett Musa lob, a lot of boo, it's a subject when Musa alayhis salam return, and he so many slain worship in the camp. He was really angry.

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And you know when Moses peace be upon him used to get angry, what would do once he punched an Egyptian in his chest one punch, and he filled it.

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he grabbed ahold of his own brother, Aaron Harun Ali salah, and the area explains to us that Haruna Salam was in his hand like a toad filehub He said, You have no Meloetta, who has been here to La de la silla. He was grabbing hit his head from the hair and his beard.

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He was being physically aggressive. Why? Because he's really angry. How could you let money assign worship the Californium gun?

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So when he explained to him, he called down and he let him go, and he knew the cause of the problem. That's why he said, well, a man circuit and moves a lot of boo. So Allah that here is a subject it was controlling Moses when he was angry. And Allah Almighty admire those who whenever they get angry, they do the opposite of what desire what their desire is demanding and to do what either Mahabali Bohemia whenever they're angry, rather the pardon. They don't act upon their anger. So what do you do in order not to act upon your anger? This is what the prophets Allah Salam advised,

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in this hadith and in many other Hadith number one, seek refuge with Allah again is the outcast Satan, why

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two people?

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We're having a conflict in the presence of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam is that Bala Julian the hadith is narrated by Selena and if the salt and it is collected by both Bukhari and Muslim may Allah have mercy on him. So one of whom became abusive, insulted and assaulted insulting the other, his face turned red and he got really angry. So the prophets Allah Allah said MSA and indeed I know a word if you were to say it louder have an Houma. Yes you do. If you were to say that word, he will cool down. He will calm down and cool off. What is the word? The word is to say? wudu bIllahi min ash shaytani R rajim. I seek refuge with Allah again is the outcast Satan, then

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the Prophet sallallahu sallam said Look at his face. Look at his values being swelled. Look at the redness of his face. The sweetness is like fire and Satan is created from fire. He is causing the person to get the angry and out of his control.

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And nothing falls out far better than water. So if he were to make wudu, he will come down and cool off. So saying I owe the relay ministry, apology or any form of deck performance to do, then changing your position. Also the Prophet sallallahu sallam said in the Hadith in the Holy huduma, who have caught him unfairly as this fell in the have an 11 year budget.

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Look at the psychology behind that. He said peace be upon him. If any of you get angry, and he's standing, let him sit down.

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What if you're already sitting down

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and you sit angry, then fill your budget, let him recline, Let him lie down. The purpose is to reduce the possibility of acting upon your anger. Sometimes the person is maybe in front of him a glass of water or a cup of tea, ma can eat and hate the person in front of him, or a fork or a knife or a spoon, and he will cause a disaster. So if you're standing, you sit down, you reduce this possibility. And if you're sitting down, then you lie down or your client that will reduce eliminate the possibility of acting upon your anger. There is still some more to talk about with regards to how to avoid acting upon Your anger will be discussed in sha Allah soon after we take a short break,

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please stay tuned.

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and we'll come back.

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Before the break, we're talking about the beautiful Hadith and the great advice of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, when he was asked several times our Sunni advise me and he kept saying the same advice, let our Bob Do not get angry. And we spoke about the prophetic guidance with regards to how to avoid anger. And if you ever get angry, what you should do in order to relieve yourself so that you would not, you know, act foolishly will do something that you will regret in the future. The Prophet sallallahu wasallam advised at least they either seek refuge with Allah again is the outcast satan because anger is from Satan. He advised changing the position if you're standing sit

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down if you're sitting down, recline,

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or leave the entire place. Thirdly, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam advice

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to be quiet when you get angry. Be quiet. Do not say a thing in the hallway but Hadoken Phil Yes. Could he say the three times the prophets Allah Allah Salam. And this is a quality of suppressing your anger welcome, we mean a loyal and the water clean will be eligible to enter paradise and be granted forgiveness in sha Allah may Allah make us amongst them. Among their qualities, they suppress their anger. And in the Hadith the Prophet sallallahu sallam said that Allah Almighty will invite on the Day of Judgment, the person who suppress his anger, even though he's perfectly capable to act upon his anger, yeah, I need to do what he whatever he wanted to do. He is capable to kill he

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is capable to shoot somebody is capable to stab somebody, or to be abusive or insulted but he suppresses anger for the sake of Allah. So Allah will invite him on the Day of Judgment, Allah who also will highlight before all the creatures and he would say to him, choose whichever spouse of the most beautiful women of Paradise for you, as a word for suppressing your anger, and controlling your temper, as Sukkot to be quite

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familiar call hyaluron only a small little ever believed in Allah and in the last day to say what is good, or at least be quiet. We don't want to say the other word, shut up your mouth or zip of your mouth. Look at the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Be quiet do not say anything. We spoke about the quality of performance to do whenever he angry because the Prophet sallallahu sallam said in Alibaba min ash shaytaan initio tanah Mina knob in Nema 2000. Now Roble met for either oldie but Hadoken fairly at our anger is caused because of Satan. And Satan is created from fire and do is done by water. And the best way to put out the fire is to put water on it so performing will do would help

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you a great deal. What if you perfect a new crown it would pray into rock as then your anger would be completely relieved and you will get back

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To Nomad condition, there is one more advice which is any form of zyk says Subhan, Allah Al Hamdulillah, Allahu Akbar, recited in your Quran, because Allah Almighty said, alive you decreed. He thought oma in Kulu. Indeed, in the remembrance of Allah hearts do find rest. So when you say any form of the, when you celebrate the praise of Allah, it gives you comfort your heart. So it relieves you from

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the anger,

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less advice, which is just to think, to look ahead of you, a few moments ahead of you. What happens if you continue to get angry? What happens if you continue talking? Perhaps you could divorce your wife, perhaps you could say something really terrible, which will not be possible to swallow back. Perhaps you may stretch your hand to harm somebody. So thinking about the consequences would help you to quit, would help you to understand hey, man, Weisen up slow down.

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Also, the Hadees teaches us that as a Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said in another sound Hadith collected by Al Bukhari Muslim less the shady dooba surah

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in the machete will let em liquid enough so when the lava strength and power is not simply in being muscular, or a great wrestler, that you beat everybody up, and you put them down, no, this is not a sign of strength. The real sign of strength is to control yourself. When you get angry. The person who has the power of controlling himself whenever he is mad, he is the sole person. Let's uh, should you do the surah

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what else the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam used to make dua, the DUA was SL Luca has sciatic fly EB was Shahad were Kennametal Halki, Phil, Robbie or Reba will cause the Fill factory Well, Rena. So he used to ask Allah Almighty to make him right, yes. Whether in private or in public Filipe, your Shahada. And he asked Allah Almighty in his dua to enable him to say the truth whether he is calm, or he's angry, because whenever the person is angry, there is a great possibility that he may deny people's rights. You are an employer and somebody is working for you say, give me my wages. Man. Say you have nothing here.

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I owe you nothing. So you denied his money. If he leaves, you receive you committed theft, right? You're an oppressor. So you said SallAllahu sallam, I asked you to make me always say and have the truth, whether Phil hobby, whatever, whether I'm pleased, either I am angry. Well, because the film factory Valina and I ask you to be moderate in spinning, whether in prosperity or in adversity.

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We normally say that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam

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never beaten somebody by his hand, never harassed or hurt the feelings of any person never insulted anyone.

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Unless if he was on the battlefield, then he was a fighter SallAllahu wasallam. He was a fighter, a fighter who fights with honor with the right guys and rules that he explained to us, as we discussed repeatedly remains one thing for us before we switch the following Hadith because it's a very important Hadith. And it may take some time, which is what if you get angry? Are you responsible for your actions or sayings? Whenever you're angry?

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Some people simply think well, because I have a bad temper. Does it mean that the punishment will be waived? If you inflict the harm against others? Nope.

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Nope, nope. You're responsible.

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So if the person as a result of getting angry,

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shot somebody,

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according to the Sharia of Allah Almighty, in all the books that he revealed to the previous prophets, Allah sauce equality and punishment, you kill somebody deliberately, then the capital punishment is a punishment in solo in many states in America, and it should be the low of Allah the mighty it should be implemented because when the person knows beforehand for pulling the trigger, deliberately to take the life of an innocent person without justification. It will cost me my life. It will cost me my neck. Oh man, I'm gonna think

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about too many times, but when you know that you have a very clever lawyer and he will take you out first they will give you 10 years in prison then parole it will be five years then reduce maybe to a couple years. No problem by took his life. No.

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Alka sauce is equality and punishment. So whenever there is

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a law and older people would abstain from doing anything that may destroy the future. Because now I'm not just taking the life of another person. I am inflicting the harm to myself. I'm causing the harm not only to others, but to myself. In the Hadith, which is collected by Imam Muslim Amaran in the prosign Radi Allahu

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and say that once they were traveling with the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, and a woman was on the back of our camel, and the camel was in going east with her fella And

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the woman said to the camel law and Akela it was a she camel Lanakila now, May Allah curse you. The Prophet Salah Salem heard that he was very offended and he said, Who do matter I have?

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What does it mean?

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Take your load from the she camel and let it go. The she camel shall not accompany us in the journey. Yeah, but it's my sheet I want you costed. Now it is accursed men rune and accursed thing should not accompany us. It happened twice. Let only companions learn that no one should curse anything and why would you tend to curse? Because you're angry. You hear people even curse in religion, curse in faith. And I in many Muslims cursing Allah Almighty, whenever they get angry. If they die in this condition, they die as this believers, you don't say I was angry? What about the Hadith which says that? Love Allah wa ritacca fee of Allah?

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What does it mean? It's a sound Hadith. What does it mean? It means according to Buddhahood, Rahim Allah, Allah Allah is, whenever you're not yourself, whenever you do not recognize whatever is going on around you, you become a totally different person.

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So that's why if the person happened to divorce his wife, while he was in extreme anger, that he doesn't recognize who's his wife, and who is his mother, who is his sister, and who's our daughter, his daughter, he lost his mind. In this case, divorce is not effective. But in most cases, whenever somebody divorces his wife, or whenever a wife is asking for divorce, they don't do that while they're enjoying their dinner, or eating dessert, or having fun or going out. They do it because there is a conflict. It's boiling. And now we've reached the peak so angry. Whenever they're both angry, or one of whom is angry. We're talking about a specific anger word the person would not

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recognize those who are around him That's a wrap. His mind is gone.

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But in regular in ordinary anger, divorce me normal universe No, you're ready for smoking, you're divorced, that divorce is effective. Not every anger will make the divorce ineffective if you pronounce it and then came to Abdullah in our best may Allah be pleased with him and his father and said I've divorced my wife three times. But I was angry. So I'm delighted now best said well, if not best, come out make low fool to you. What Allah have made low unlawful to you because of your sin. You've disobeyed your load, and you've made whatever it was lawful for you. I love how it is weighed your load because you're not supposed to divorce three times in the same setting. Allah says of

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Paula Cammarata and so if you don't follow the sequence, you're a sinner, you committed a sin. And you blameworthy. So you were the consequences. Yeah. And your wife have become forbidden for you. Unless if she marries another person after that. Then if she is divorced, without any pre planning, and you guys are both interested, it's a very complicated process.

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Had that and key has chosen higher. That's very, very complicated. Why? Because you're angry. So thinking about the consequences of anger would make you avoid saying or acting upon your anger. Brothers and sisters. I was hoping at least to recite the following Hadith, but it's a very beautiful and long Hadith which would require some explanation we have a couple of videos to share.

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with you. So insha Allah will begin the following episode with the next Hadith Hadith number 639 Until next episode I leave you all in the care of Allah who know how they had. What stuff for Allah honey welcome masala Allahu ala Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa Salam wa Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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love our God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He

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has to be engaged, best religion to them. Allah God is the greatest the one and only Glory to him. Only illness to be the best gave his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving all about and in paradise? We're shipping cars fire and stones sending letters to the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting all about bad guys. We're shipping cars fire and stones selling the best, cheapest

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