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we are going over the lot of the for the for the slideshow knowing and we are up to number 11 what is number 11? And how the answer
but before we before we go over Heidi's number 11
before we go over Cadiz, number 11
I would just like to ask the management the master the people in charge of the master if we should I make this after America because it says it may be getting a little too late for people. So from next week, you want to move this stuff tomorrow.
So inshallah we will move it after another from next week. And so because I stress a little bit too late
now he's number 11
he's number 11. This release was reported by too busy for the llamando Rahim Allah and it's okay to say about the aluminum for annoncer hobby By the way, because Ronnie Allah Allah means may Allah be pleased with him. So it is it is basically okay to say no honey for the other animal.
That's fine as a form of da, but you do not use it all the time. You do not use it all the time with other than the Sahaba because we have distinguished the Sahaba this door so we don't want to take away the distinction of the Sahaba from them. So we use rahima hula with you know, everybody you know all people that live in a state of Islam that we know you know that instead of Islam we use Rahim Allah,
Mia love so mercy on them and it's a beautiful look, may Allah be pleased with them is a is a bar that we use particularly for the Sahaba we could use for other people because it's just your God. It is not a statement here not saying that Allah is pleased with him, although Allah is pleased Sahaba he said
he said Allah is pleased with but you're not actually making a statement when you say about the Allah and you're making it. May Allah be pleased with him. When you say oh my god, Allah, my coworker, the alojado you're making. When you say Rocky Mount la mia loves the mercy on him. You're making it.
When you say someone love Allah who has said to them, You are making as well. You are asking for blessings and peace to be sent on to the prophet or granted to the prophet SAW Selim by Allah. When you say alayhis salaam, maybe May peace be upon him, you're also asking for peace to be sent on to the prophets. Now, could you say something other than Prophet Muhammad SAW Salah? Yes, but it is a distinction for Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam. So we could sometimes say musala yourself, but not all the time. You know, just like the other one. If you say it about someone other than it's a hobby, but don't do it all the time. Because it is to distinguish the Sahaba rather.
So we'll say we say so for the purpose of settlement that's the highest and then on a Salaam to the profits other than profit.
And then are the 11 to the Sahaba and then rahimullah to everybody else.
Sometimes you could change this you could use some of them and sell them for for profits you could use
for other vendors or hubbub.
But you do not do this routinely.
Ultimately it may be done on random basis.
So why did I say this because I said that the video reinforcement rating on this report
is that momentum is he or him alone me He bestows mercy on at the moment
so the moments are busy reported in his sermon
from Hassan Ignalina Vitaly radi Allahu
Allah be pleased with them both. That is a cousin and his father, the father.
So he reported from me Mohammed Hassan Ali, the father said to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. He said,
No matter maybe sets rasulillah which is the grandson of the Messenger of Allah sallallahu sallam, what's the difference between sip and happy?
Is the is the basically the daughter's son. Happy is the son's son.
Although in the poor answer has been used for the grandchildren through the sons route, in an
a spotlight on who but what about us, not only Australia, are the direct descendants of Yahoo. But that exception does not mean that it is the rule. Sometimes you could have exceptions. It is something that was mentioned on the Qur'an. There's something that was used about the ASVAB of Venezuela he before the parameters revealed this was the Andrews demonology. But in general linguistically, Sept is the child of the daughter hafeet is the child of the sun.
So scepter Rasulullah saw Salah means that the child of the prophets daughter that is Hassan, Ali is Fatima
may Allah be pleased with her.
So in order to be reported as quickly as possible Mohamed from Mohammed Hassan acknowledged that he thought about the Allahu Allah that He said Hafiz to men Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I memorized from the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam appeal to men Rasul Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, they did not say they did not say I He did not say I memorize from my grandfather.
Although sometimes he would say this but often usually that he would not say this, he would say rasulillah basically to hold themselves equal to everybody else. He's he's not looking for a distinction he's not sure when after relationship. So he has mentioned that the title of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam
when he is reporting to the rest of the people, also the loss of a lawyer. I've memorized from the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
The merrier ebook Illa mela your ebook one of the shortest Hadith which hopefully in short, I try to memorize and inshallah when we move to the new mustard we can have like a whiteboard and write this because it's easier to you know basically to use also your visual recognition and visual memory
Well, that's okay for now.
But, so the hobbies is that my ebook in MLA or ebook repeated that may or ebook
leave that which he gives you a doubt to that which does not give you though your ebook gives you that gives you you know, rebirth and rebirth is discomfort reluctance doubt, you know suspicion as Riba.
It is this comfort Why did we say this comfort was suspicion and doubt because uncertainty, doubt, suspicion is mutually inclusive with this comfort. We come together all the time, can then glove
certainty is the source of tranquility is the source of comfort and tranquility. Uncertainty is the opposite. So that means leave alone.
May I read a book that which gives you a doubt Illa mela aribo to that which does not give you though.
So, leave that which is uncertain for that which is serving leave the dubious matters for those that are not leave suspicion for things that are not suspicious leave that which causes you doubt
to that which does not cause you though
can act mithi as well in some other variant reports mentor mentee and others the Prophet sallallahu Sallam added for endless silica Toma, Nina. Well, Kathy Beth river for said is tranquility and falsehoods, lying falsehood is Riba which is that suspicion and discomfort. Famous syndicateroom Nina for brings about
truth, truthfulness brings about tranquility. And Catherine brings about suspicion that uncertainty
Damiani buka Illa Isla and I are ebook there just a few points that we want to discuss in concerning this Cadiz the first point what does it mean to leave alone or to leave abandon renounce
that which causes you doubt to that? Which doesn't surprise you though, how could they think cause you doubt?
Yeah, there are two different types of doubt. So, we have the Superfund helpman, Superfund mahad
doubt concerning the routing shop after
doubt about the routing itself.
You know, email me such and such said hello, email such and such said
email such and such said my crew. And it doesn't have to be among such and such, but it could be a contemporary issue. And I went to see if such and such a nice color options and, and so on. So that is one type of of doubt or sugar. So behalf he and helped me Show me how concerning the ruling. So perhaps in my hand, or how to the Shabak concerning the subject matter itself, is when you have doubt concerning, you know, $2,000, Is this mine or not mine you find $2,000 in your home?
Did I bring this here? Or I just bought this home? Could could the previous owner have left it? You find that very?
And you don't remember that is down to functionalize. That's doubt concerning the subject matter itself
that this woman breastfeed, you know, that girl that I am proposing to breastfeed me as well. This is no doubt about the health because the husband is No. But you're doubting the reality itself, if
the subject matter of the home itself. Did she breastfeed her? Or did she not breastfeed? and
things of that nature, and oftentimes that has to do with the subject matter, you know, particularly in business relationships, that has to do with, you know, the details, you could bring to them, the greatest judge in the world, greatest Muslim judge, the greatest fapy to sort it out for you, between the cow between you and your business partner. And he can't do
it because it's so confusing. And he said and I said, and he did and we went and we brought and we agreed and we and then he keeps on hearing this back and forth. That's why the prophet SAW Selim So come and provide to obey Him and happy it fair enough, you know.
So whenever I give someone
I give someone, some of the his brother's race, I am giving him a hot cold from the hellfire. I'm giving him a hot cold from the Hellfire because you need to be careful. It is not just about the hookman here, and it is not just about Schaffer the puppy that will judge between us you need to leave some room. That's called margin of safety cushion, a buffer zone between you and her. So these are two different types of doubt that we need to stay away from.
I saw the alarm I was once asked about the you know that game animals when you hunt the game animals, you cannot eat from them. If you are monitoring
When when the game animals are hunted for you, or you hunt them you cannot eat. But if someone else hunts game animals,
and gives you as a Muslim from that means, but he did not hunt it for you. And you're not the one who hunted, you know? Certainly that's, that's a given. You're not the one who wanted someone else hunted. And he did not hunted for you. Could you eat from that game animal from the meat or not? That is controversial. That's controversial. You know, it doesn't matter what I believe about this, I believe that you can eat. But this is this is not what matters, because the issue is controversial and has been controversial since the time of the Sahaba. So I was asked about this. And she said, it's only a few days.
And you're done.
Which means what?
The mayor ebook in MLA or ebook,
because we have to be also practical, because we, when we, when we teach people, when we basically try to pull people up to heights they can never reach
when we expect the general audience of Muslims in America to to be as what are as a mammoth majority, you know, or
it's not going to happen, it's likely not going to happen. Therefore, after you reach your ideals, and after you mentioned those role models, as examples of people who attained the highest degrees, you want to actually you want thereafter to talk about the fifth key aspects of things, because the fifth key aspects of things will bring the bar down,
we can talk about the heart softeners purification of the soul, and then you raise the bar up, because we will be talking about sewage and water and so on and so forth.
But then you need to bring it down with a fifth he talk. So that you have two different steps, you tell the people you have to stand on this pedestal. And you cannot step down from this pedestal, that's the fifth
but there is a higher pedestal that you should aspire for or there is a higher degree that you should aspire for, to stand on.
And that is the water.
But these are two different things. And whenever we talk about water, we should not be carried away by by the talk about what our until we make it look to the people particularly the youngsters, like it's not doable. Like they were talking about different the different world they are talking about. The Impossible is it's it's not doable, because if we start to mention some of the examples of the water
conscious piety are pious caution of the
of the set of the righteous predecessors then you will know that you can do this and many many people know that they can do it and sometimes it could actually put people off and it could keep people away because you're telling them that here's where you want to get in anything short of this your your bed so this bath complex will haunt them you know, I'm bad song which is going to be back because of everybody telling me you know, I every drama I go I go to every drama, and I hear that I'm bad and I go to the every lecture you know in the evening gonna hear that I'm better than I am bad so I'll just stay back.
Because many times people cannot reach the heights that you're talking about. Particularly if you compare our competitors to this habit among. So that may reboot in America reboot means stay away from that which is to be a step which is suspicious stay away from anything that gives you doubt because in the sukkah to menina doubt and tranquility, our time together, and certain certainty and tranquility are tied together. Uncertainty which is doubt and discomfort are tied together. Well, in my case, Eva rebe.
nomads are also important from
humans are important from Armenia, for the llamando that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said And Pharaoh either was several legit hi fire. Goodness is a habit. It is. It is easy to acquire. It is it is something that is easy to acquire goodness
was several agenda and evil is a stubbornness or evil is
lagenda is some from ledger it's something that wavers like.
Yeah. Anyway, it's the word magenta itself is quite unique. Because it's something that wavers and your Viper, like, you know, you cause you discomfort, like when your chest vibrates, legless or,
that's a cardiologist interpretation.
Anyway, feels like compensations.
Yeah. But anyway, the Hadith says a fire either fire goodness is a habit, it becomes a habit becomes easy for you to acquire this habit. Like if you feed a cat, like a stray cat in the street, don't you feel good, you will come back to it and you feel good. And, and when the cat comes back and you feed in it, it is easy, you know, to
you know, come to terms with this habit. But when you do something evil, you will always be reluctant hesitant, you always be uncomfortable, uncomfortable, anxious. Yeah, anxiety is like an anxiety. Yeah.
It's a group of words together. But you know what it means? The ga is discomfort of anxiety or reluctancy hesitation. It's not easy, it does not become a second nature. It's not become a habit.
So the fifth part of this is that you leave doubtful and dubious matters. But that does not mean that you leave all concessions. And I saw the other one has said something that is quite beautiful. And
noteworthy. She said it's only a few days,
we would have, we would have tried to figure it out. If it was on time, when you try to figure it out and see if there is a rock star there is a concession the people have a need for it and you know, and so on, then we would sit down and try to figure it out. But it's only a few days away from it's only a few days, and you're done with your home, you take off your harmony, you can eat whatever you want.
Which which made this car has come up with certain criteria. say this and other proofs also made the scholars come up with certain criteria for when it is okay to act upon the conditions or the easier opinions, easier opinions. Now,
if the easier opinion, is the stronger opinion proof wise, then that's beautiful, great. Everybody will not disagree with us. It's good. We're done with this. But well that's not what we're talking about. When it when there is a time or even sometimes when the harder opinion may sound a little superior, evidence wise and a little more, a little more superior. Not much more superior. Not like the other opinion is is is completely baseless. There are two different opinions one is easier. One is harder. They're competing. And the easier is here, the easier is stronger than the than all these colors will tell you go for it.
It's a time that is when you could exercise water.
That's when you could exercise praise where the water
if the easier opinion is the nice the stroke the harder opinion.
That's when you're more encouraged to exercise What are your more interesting supplies water when the easier opinion is baseless. No one wants to take the easier opinion. baseless, it's not supported by any proof there is no substantiation
maratea he said poco local as well as a local
elected government another not every disagreement is considerable is significant, except a disagreement that has some substantiation has another has some substantiation. So
when do you take the easier opinion first then
has to be a need and need a need, which is harder means what means that if you do not fulfill this need, you will fall in how does how not is what is hardship.
But when you when you wake up and make what was called water in the morning, that is uneasy, that's harsh. So, some people may say, but hurt is part and parcel of the,
in the sense of unease and hardship. Because sometimes you need to do like you have to wake up, you know, at four o'clock in the morning, sometimes when treasures early and
people have warm water here, but in many places people may not have warm water, you have to make very cold water in and walk to the masjid or pray at home. That's a different story. But that is, you know, some sort of hardship here.
What scholars say and in the fast long days of Ramadan, particularly in the summer, suddenly we've hardship the scholars have said this is the acceptable hardship above this is is the call it hot rods are attached typically, how does that how does that is unusual hardship that's unusual in religious obligations in religious obligations, there is one exception
we have, because even though it may sound like there is much greater hardship,
but abandonment of it could result in
a much, much greater hardship, which is even Muslim lands been occupied the via their their honor will be violated and etc, etc, etc.
And, and the weekend the oppressed in the world will not find people to rescue them, as well.
So now the the issue here is, we need to have heart. And we know that the difference between hearts that's acceptable in religious obligations on how to that's above this past Ramadan, we can offer a feather and making a deal with cold water. That's not acceptable in religious obligations. How does this above this hardship that is above this would warrant an investigation in the matter. Maybe you grew up knowing that this is haram.
And at one point, you really need to do it.
We say if the heart is beyond what is usual in tech leave
what is usual in religious obligations that would warrant an investigation of the matter.
to look into the matter that you don't look into it yourself.
Because the hower your vain vanity, your desires, your partiality or all of that will will blind you from seeing the truth. But you would ask about it. Even for scholars, if it is a matter of personal, you want to ask someone else, don't rely on yourself to give yourself a fat word. Has someone else in the scars have always taught us that? That they would reach out for fat away when the mother retains still they're like themselves or their families. So that's hard and then if there is hard, then we investigate the matter of asking the scholars the criteria here of accepting the easier position, even if it is a tie like with with the other position or slightly inferior but still
substantiated is that it has to be substantiated has to be upheld by
a recognizable amount of either some of them are
substantiated held by recognizable email by the cinema and it has to be practiced by a group of Addison rozema. Practice by group versalogic Well, substantiated we said not every there has to be a base there has to be some evidence behind something disappointed supporting to this position support to this opinion.
It has to be upheld by a recognizable scholar because it's the hub is not you know,
free for all. It's the hub has criteria and the homestead has criteria so that great amounts of Ansaldo are recognizable by and some are the ones that we take the HDL and
It does not mean the four emails only, it means all the great emails, you know what your which were men, which are many. And sometimes also if the matter is a contemporary issue, then we seek, you know the, the opinion of the great imams of our time or the great scholars of our time.
And the other thing is that that should not be abandoned because sometimes there would be an opinion that has some substantiation upheld by some agreed Imam. You know
what our marriage for instance, ie a temporary marriage has some substance substantiation you could find substantiation for it.
In the person upheld by great the man, even our best, even though there there are reports that he recanted this position. But it is a position that has been completely abandoned in practice by Edison are now indicating the weakness of this position. Because at a seminar DOMA was not completely all of them would not complete the event that a physician, particularly if today's your position, particularly if it's a condition, they would not agree on abandoning the position, unless that position is extremely weak, unless that position is extremely weak. So there are my every book in the book leave that which causes you doubt which does not cause you doubt.
From my perspective,
you will try to do this as much as you can train yourself to be someone who stays away from dubious models, train yourself to be someone who stays away from the yellow line, because right after they are aligned, there is the red.
But when there is a need for my perspective, to do something that may be controversial. Then you have the criteria.
substantiation and the parameters are now upheld by a greedy man has not been abandoned by the oma
and you will seek it when you fall inherits hardship, that is beyond the usual hardship in life, the usual hardship in religious obligations.
We'll take just five minutes and finish and next time
we'll be a bit nicer
what are the criteria for
but that's like a couple of hours
I know I
mentioned this one.
There are other examples
which is you know, river of increase
is the other example. Anyway. So the so there are my ebook, Illa mela your ebook. Now the last thing that I wanted to mention here in armillaria ebook is that
give you a parable. But it's not it's not the most accurate parable.
There is no problem whatsoever in be in speaking English as a second language, right? Like myself.
I speak Arabic as a first language, everybody has a first language. So if you speak English as a first language, you speak Arabic a second language.
But when you when you feel a little bit of discomfort that you you're you know, you want to look like as if you're a native.
And then you work on improving your accent before you improve your vocabulary, or you try to improve your vocabulary before you improve the your grammar structure of the sentence itself. When the structure of the sentence is messed up, and you're trying to really perfect the accent. Does it look right? Does it sound right? It doesn't and people will actually not be impressed. But it's the set.
That is also the case with water. So the amount of mud
used to use his own in he would bring his input from home. And when he arrived a road he used this morning can we wouldn't use anyone else's if
someone else came and sat next to him. And he asked him for permission to you know the students of knowledge
And the scholars and so on, they used to not find that problematic to use your neighbors in, they will take from each other in from each other. So that was like the custom, you know, it takes us you know, because everybody got this little pencil and then they would dip it in the incoporate. So I would use some of your ink and there was no problem he himself would not would never do that.
But we are out of water. So someone sat next to him and then he asked him permission for using his in
So I said to him, Let me blow if I'll let me blow What are you what are the holidays? What are you whatever, okay,
go ahead, my water and your water is not at that level. Certainly mama tried to be humble because his water was at that level. But he's telling that person it just
it's not even a little bit you know, make sure that you avoid old forbidden things before you act to water
avoid the prohibitions, the clear cut prohibitions so build from the bottom up not from the top down
Don't try to perfect you know your look your your your attitude, your this to act like someone from you know the second century
if you act with a humbleness and attitude and walk like a humble and we're speak like him or something of that nature, don't do it when you're there is nothing down there there is no foundation built from the bottom up, put put the foundation and work on the flights one by one first, second third, because if you build from the top down, your building will be so unstable and it will collapse at the first test or first trial. So
work from the bottom up meaning avoid the prohibitions first before you avoid dubious matters
and and take it from there and you know, rise up in the stations of water without fakeness you know be true with yourself
that's it and So, next time we'll talk about the next hobbies and we'll talk about because the next is very beautiful because it's the essence of the Venus gramophone was set the order the basis of the deen and the essence of the deen relies on you know I'm there to denier indirectly metal Muslim document probably failed very true super hot he was hot water. Malaysia Anika Ramadan been a year so the basis of the deen and the essence of the infinite have no powers and the scholars agreed with him said the basis of the dean is a few statements from traceable from the speech of the best of creation the Prophet sallallahu otro Chabot had leave alone dubious you know or abandoned, leave
was head can renounce the donia or if someone has a better translation for his head please help me because I
have been homeless looking for our lack of better word were better words for is hookah Shahab was had renounced the dunya Wada malazan ionic and leave it on that which does not concern you. Leave alone that which does not concern you while I'm in an Binya and purify the intentions of your actions or watch the media in your actions.
This is, you know, it's sort of a super hat is this hadith that we're talking about? But we will not talk about the four you know, pillars except next time inshallah next week we'll talk about how these are the basis of the deen meaning, the basis of how you should approach your the, how you should understand your the how Ramadan Vania purify your intention, it should leave alone suspicious and dubious mother's was have renounced the Goodyear weatherman Lisa yanique and leave it on that which does not concern you. All of them are part of the for the Hardee's quarter official who have this fleece and he's number six not might have been a machine in the Halloween window probably had
these holidays clear harmless beer in between them are dubious mothers. It was hand and renounce the dounia that's how this number 31 This honeys was reported by been a matter from Saturday and Sunday.
It when a man came to the prophet SAW someone asked him which action would make a law love me and the people love me Tell me of an action that will make a lot of me and the people love me and the prophet SAW someone said, is that fit dunya your head bucola was happy Magnus your brokenness, renounce the dunya allow the above you can renounce what the people possess, and they will love you and the people will love you.
So, why was that? Well, that Malaysia and even on the quiz does not concern you. This is this number 12 that we will discuss next week in sha Allah,
which is honeys, Merson Islam and monitor Kumara Eonni in the process of them said, you know, part of someone's good or someone's being a good Muslim is his leaving that which does not concern them. Because you're busy, you have a goal as a Muslim, you're busy, you block off the distractions. You don't sit and talk about what people say and what people do when you because you're busy. And the last thing was what I'm going on Binya. That's number one over Albania. Now, this comedy club in Melbourne the very needs are, but but by their intentions. So inshallah next week we will talk about this number 12 which is part of one's good, being a good Muslim is the lever on that which does not
concern and we will talk about how those four principles of the understanding of the deen work together to make a good Muslim