Staying Consistent After Ramadan

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Welcome back.

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and the rockin from the Archana Villa slam, which is a Psalm The fourth pillar from the five pillars of Islam. Everybody knows that the goal and the objective behind Ramadan being legislated and the pm and the CRM and Ramadan is for the purpose of learning. Duck lies along the time I mentioned the Quran, la La Quinta, Dakotan fasting has been prescribed upon you it's been legislated in the hopes that you would have Tukwila the same way that Allah legislated upon Benissa eel the goal the objective behind it is not an exercise in just avoiding food, water and relationships during the sunlight hours. But the golden objective is to learn at Tuck law.

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So during the month of Ramadan, we engaged ourselves in a number of issues and they were many they were many, we engage ourselves in those things throughout the month of Ramadan. Now that Ramadan is gone, it is not acceptable or okay for us to go back to being the way we were prior to the month of Ramadan. So no one ultimately knows. If a deed is accepted by laws rejected from him, no one knows that. But there are certain indicators that can give you a sign. And one of the signs as the self of this ummah used to say if a person wants to know whether or not his Ramadan has been accepted, then just look at his behavior after Ramadan. Is he still being consistent with the things that he did in

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Ramadan? Is his actions better than they were before Ramadan? Are they the same or they're worse? So the strange thing with our Ma is that when the moon the moon, the Hillel and Ramadan comes out, is sends people to the masjid is as if people look at the morning and get the message in the memo. Go to the masjid during this month and then hamdulillah they have Eman and they come to the masjid. But then that same moon comes to us for the month of Schwab. And it's as if that moon sends a message. Don't come to the masjid anymore. Don't do those things that you were doing prior to the month of Ramadan. No Ramadan, the golden the objective behind it is so that we can learn a tequila. And if we

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looked at this issue of a tequila, tequila is the source of all good for us.

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A tequila and being from the pain is the source of all good and it has many many benefits connected to it from the benefits of a tabla is that Allahu Taala mentioned in the Quran and Allah Martin Luther King Kim. Allah is with those who have Taqwa and the Maria here Allah being with them here means and allies special with them with them, Minister

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As your way Allah is with everybody in his knowledge, his ability to see and hear him being over everything. He's with everybody, even with the non Muslims even with evil people. But Allah is with the Malta team in a special way.

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If you are personal as Taqwa Eliza gel is with you and that he protects you. And he helps you to see what you normally wouldn't see and hear what you normally wouldn't hear. And the things that you do a la paz Baraka in those efforts. Allow Tyler mentioned about the book that came in the Quran Allah Allah you have been keen, Allah loves those people who have Taqwa from the benefits. Ramadan has been legislated in the hopes that we learned Taqwa. Allah is with those people who have a Taqwa. And Allah also loves the people who are the pain. And as the Prophet says, Allah, Allah what He was sending him that Allah said, in a hadith, see, if Allah loves a person, he tells you build to love

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that person. And then Jabril tells the angels in the heavens, Allah love so and so. So you love them the melodica in the heavens, and then a lot because the love of that person in the earth, and the people of the earth love him. And then Allah becomes the eyes by which he sees and Allah becomes the ears by which he hears and it becomes the hand by which he strikes. And Allah becomes the foot by which he walks meaning ALLAH will divinely put that person in a special situation, take care of his knees, provided that he's from those people have a duck one that's why we've said in the past, and we continue to say, the muscular the challenge the problem with our Ummah, as it relates to

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Palestine is not designed to state of Israel. That's not our problem. Our problem is ourselves, because if we had a tuck when we were the pin, Allah azza wa jal has made promises. He made promises and Allahu Taala lie yokley fool me I had he never ever ever ever ever breaks His promise. So a TBWA has a lot of benefit connected to it. A lot of benefit Yeah. Are you living in Amman in tuk tuk Lucha? Yes I look them for carnem When you kept Frank come see it come. We are Phil Lacan Mala who will further loving or you believe if you people only have Taqwa if you develop taqwa and show this Tukwila if you had this taqwa, then Allah will make for you a fertile. He'll give you something that

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Furqan that you can distinguish the right from the wrong with it. The Sunnah from innovation Tauheed from shift up and down. Who's a good friend who's not a good friend.

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If you have Taqwa Allah will give you a full on like the Quran is the first part. It will be a light for you will know something that will help you devalue protect you and Allah will also make the tech fear of your CGI if you have Taqwa the mistakes that you do make, Allah will wash them away, and he will forgive you. Verily Allah azza wa jal, He is all knowing. And He is Almighty all powerful. Those many, many, many benefits of a Taqwa well meaning a tequila Yoji I love who Maharaja we are Rosa Coleman, hateful AI.

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Any one man, lady, employee and employee, old young Salafi, not Salafi. Anyone who has a duck wha now if he has duck boy, he's going to be on the right way of practicing the religion. Anyone who has a duck wha Allahu Taala will make a way out for him. In his situation.

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He's working for the visa. He's waiting for his wife. He's waiting for the job. He's waiting for this waiting for that he has debt on his neck. He has all this issue. Anybody who has taqwa, Allah will make a way out for him in that situation, and Allah will provide for him from where he doesn't expect. So Taqwa has a lot of benefits as it relates to the month of Ramadan in the month of shall while we wanted to address something real quickly this week, and then we'll resume our class of the Hadith next week in sha Allah azza wa jal, as it relates to this issue of a tabla there are four things that we used to do in the month of Ramadan. They are part and parcel of what Ramadan is for

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the Muslim. So let's just imagine if a person came into a slam in the month of Ramadan for the very first time, and he hung around with the Muslims in the masjid and he hung around other Muslims at the house when he used to go and break his fast and things like that. There are four types of riba that that we do in the month of Ramadan, that they are highlighted in the month of Ramadan, which means we shouldn't after Ramadan

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slack off of these things, we shouldn't slack off them. And they have a hadith connected to them. They have a hadith, encouraging people to continue to do those things.

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And we prove that we can do them in the month of Ramadan. So it's not okay for us to go through that whole month, 30 days of fasting. And this year was in the longer hours, summer time like was those long hours? We proved that we can do it. And then this year when we thought Ramadan was going to end on Saturday, and the eighth will be on Sunday, we found out no, the moon has not been cited for most of the Muslims, they're going to continue. Some of the Muslim said, No, we breaking out fast. And that's okay for them. But the point is, when we heard that it's going to be an extra day and it's going to go to Monday, not a single person who has said I'm tired. I'm not fasting on Sunday, I'm

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done.

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Nobody said that. Everybody here said all right, no problem. I'm used to it. Let's get it in. And we went and we made that last extra day. And that was it. Because we prove to ourselves, this is the point that we can fast. So as I sit here and I look at you people, everybody here may not enter into the door of Reagan the door fast and because that's not your forte, everybody his thing is not fasting. Some people their fingers memorizing the Quran, some people their fingers praying in the first row on the right in the masjid. Some people their thing is he's very good to his mother, some people his thing is, he's the best husband and the best father. Everybody has different issues and

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different lanes that we're in

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the fact that fast may not be your thing. It doesn't mean that it can't be come your thing is some people who fast in on Monday and Thursday is a part of who they are. It's their culture. I know in Nigeria, for example, you'll be hard pressed to find the average Nigerian Allah knows best can see the average but a lot of the older Nigerians especially, it's part of who they are. And if you wouldn't meet them you marry into their family or something like that. And they found out you didn't fast. I mean, look at yourself, well, you don't find Switzerland almost as fast on Mondays and Thursdays. Not that it's Whadjuk The point is many people like that, but that may not be your thing

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may not be my thing. But Ramadan shows us that it can become your thing. And to make it your thing is highly recommended in the deen for the people who can do it because we have to mention this. Some people have difficulty trap they have difficulty in fasting. We say to those people stop killing yourself. Every Ramadan, we tell those people stop killing yourself. You don't have to keep trying every year all the time. Get these crazy headaches that you get and all that kind of stuff. Stop killing yourself. If you want to try once that's it, let it go. Allah knows your situation. So as it relates to the month of show while at the Ramadan, four things can be mentioned and then the actions

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of the people of Taqwa and the people who do these things. Allah has prepared for them a special

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reward reword in Jana because they are the kin.

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They have special rooms and the Janna Prophet said that Allahu Taala has sent an authentic hadith called see in me I did too. Late rebellious asylee hain, Philip Jana, Marla in raw, with a semi I will Mahathir Bashar Al Assad have prepared in the Jana. That which no ice I've ever seen. No angel, no Jin, no prophet, no messenger, no way lead from the old no body has seen what Allah has put in the agenda, and no ears have ever heard. And it hasn't been imagined by any human being. So the Prophet of Islam SallAllahu Sallam he was in the agenda and he saw things in the agenda. But he told us in this hadith, there are other things in the agenda that he has no idea what allow Thailand's

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prepared for the people. And that is the midst of the number one benefit of a tequila.

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The number one goal and objective behind developing tuck one having tuck when being lucky. The number one golden objective behind it is at the end of the day, you want to end up in Jannah with those things that allow Tata has prepared and there are many things that he's prepared, but these four things Shala we want to talk about them specifically today in the next 3035 minutes. Be in the lahaie Aizu agenda as relates to those rooms. Allahu Taala as mentioned

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In the number of items the Quran lacking in Medina taco or a bow whom know whom, or for whom in 40 How often mugnier to tragedy mentality. And har

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while doula he now you three for loving me I had Verily those people have the taqwa of the Lord. And they do these things. Those people who are Muslims and they have Taqwa of Allah, Allah has prepared for them rooms in Jannah. And top of those rooms or other rooms, other rooms on top of those rooms, and under all of those rooms that belongs to one of them. There is a river that flows and this is the Promise of Allah for them. And Allah doesn't break his promise. So the Jana has what no eyes is alive is seen. Prophet told us that the people will gender will be enjoying enjoying clothes, they will be enjoying food, they'll be enjoying so many things. He said in Jannah, people won't spit

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anymore, because spitting is a waste. People won't urinate and they won't defecate a chroma Kamala, that won't happen in Jana. He said they will sweat though. But when the sweat comes out in the Jana is going to be pure misc that you just get perfume from it. So all of that other stuff is not happening. The rivers are made out of copper, that don't get you drunk, and they are made out of milk that doesn't spoil you. And it's made out of honey can imagine that the Prophet said about the hood or in Salalah while he was sending them that she'll have a brocade on. That's from the most beautiful colors that you've ever seen in your life. You've never even seen it in your life in her

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dress, and the one who gets the reward of that horrible thing. And we don't apologize about their whole reign. Even if the media wants to hijack the concept of Halloween and make them people who crazed tech Fredy Mujahid people want to go out we don't know we don't apologize about that. We pray for Allah to that and for that, but we understand that we accept it and embrace it the way the religion said not what the non Muslims want to make it appear or how some crazy Muslims want to make it appear. He said when the person gets the whole rain, it will be able to see through her leg and you can see the bone marrow now in this life. I'm not too interested in bone marrow I mean you know

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bone marrow right you take the chicken leg or the the

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Mindy's Mindy's the

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the lamb, the sheep and the way you cook it we Africans we suck out the bone marrow.

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We we

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the horror in you'll be able to see through her leg, nobody's gonna say oh,

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we're gonna say subhanallah my bet now who have the bad data here. That's what the angels say Glory and Tula we have not worshipped you the world the way we should have the way you deserve to be worshipped as are the Muslims is going to say. So we don't have a problem with that. How all these things have been mentioned. So those are the rooms in the agenda number of I mentioned them well levena Am and while I'm a little slowly had the new bow we in 11 minutes Jana Goro for 30 Min. tack them in. Holly the Nephi Hi, Nicola, I'm in I mean, Verily, those people who believe and they do the righteous deeds. You have to have the correct Eman and the correct Aqeedah. You have to have the

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correct Mental Hygiene know what you're doing it not listening. Not like what happened in Nigeria. Two, three days ago. We're on the WhatsApp group. Some non Muslim girl says something that she should never have said against a prophet of Islam. SallAllahu it was sent him something disrespectful. And it was unacceptable that she's supposed to be a Christian or whatever. And how do you disrespect other people's religion? And she said something inappropriate. And the people didn't like it the Muslims and they threatened her were you doing and they ultimately wound up killing that girl. It's not our religion, crazy people like that. This just happened. I don't know when this

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problem is going to stop with the Muslims getting so upset and aggressive. When non Muslims disrespect our religion. That's not the way we deal with people. It's not the way we deal with things. That's insanity. For someone to be so agitated and so upset like that, that you actually think you can become a part of a mob and kill someone for saying something against Allah, His Messenger or the dean

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Allah told us that in the Quran, you're going to hear from those people a lot of things that you will dislike, he said. But if you have taqwa and you have sobor, then that's from the azmin or more. And he say, if you go and kill people, it said in total Spirou, for Nevada, common asmin or more, when you hear from them, that which bothers you, if you only have tuck law,

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and you only have summer, pass from the strong affairs that the Mukta King can do.

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Anyway, I luckily have that I have the Quran and the other is of the Quran, they go to show that the people who do certain deeds from what they will get into Jannah will be these rooms that the Prophet mentioned some Allah who it was setting them, people will be on different levels in the Jana, because the levels of Jana are different than your data giant. And everybody won't be on the same level. But the people were below, they'll be able to look. And he said the same way that the stars are shining right now. And you can see the twinkling of the star. He said you'll be able to see the same lemma, and the rooms of the Jannah that He has prepared for the people who did these things.

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What are these four things that we were doing in Ramadan that the Prophet told us about? sallallahu alayhi wa sallam? He says Allah what He was selling them in Nephele Jannetty worauf.

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will bow to him in vahini. Hi,

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Wehrli in the Jana they are rooms, special rooms. Allah has prepared them. And when narration he said Allah has prepared them and then he went on and told them what it was. And another narration he said Allah has prepared these rooms and a Bedouin wanting to know his religion as a student said, who did Allah prepare those rooms for ya rasool Allah, He said, Allah prepare those rooms for the person who speaks kindly and gently with people.

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And for the people who feed other people food.

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And Allah is prepared for those people who fast and they follow up fast and with more fasting. They just don't fast and then

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wipe their hands and wipe the dust off of say, let's call it a day. And number filler. They are the people who pray at nighttime, when the other people are sleeping. Those four things. We did those things every single day in Ramadan. And there's not a single person except that he engaged more in those four things. I learned LANL cannamd They were the people they're the people who speak nice and easy with people. And the month of Ramadan. Everybody was conscious and keen about what comes out of his mouth. We were careful. We didn't want to make it Heba. We didn't want to joke. We didn't want to lie. We were careful about what we said. And we all read and knew that hadith and we're ready for

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that hadith where the prophet said Sal, Allahu Allah, he was sending them. If a person is fast and any bothering you while you're fasting, you should say to him, I'm fasting, I'm fasting in the salt and I'm fasting and don't give back his ignorance with his ignorance and you're fat. Everybody was on that? Is a soul in the Quran. Quran Allah describe that Rebadow ramen whatever. hottub a woman J una CalU Salama, the battle rap man are those people who, if ignorant people were to address them, will argue with them. They say to the ignorant, Salaam

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cannamd This lady in Haidian easy. The Ira the Quran says a call in nursing Rosner Say to the People persona. One of the recitations one of the Quran for this, I will call him nicey Hassan.

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I will call Hussen the word say to the people the nice word. That's the gentle word, the easy word that makes a person feel you respect them, you appreciate them. Make a person believe you got respect for yourself, as well after the month of Ramadan, and the husband starts to argue with his wife, and he's calling her F and she's calling him and EFA and they're arguing back and forth like that. Neither one of them understood Ramadan

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or the person during the month of Ramadan. He was taken care of as listen. We're now in show while after Ramadan. He says whatever comes to his mind. He works with non Muslims. They say Jesus Christ, He says Jesus Christ, they swear he cursed like sailors, he swears and curse like sailors, he f&e, Jeff and all day every day because the moon in Ramadan is gone. He plays basketball with his friends, they play basketball, soccer, football, and he's cursing and swearing. Allah prepared those rooms in Jannah for the people who get a grip on their tongues, and they say to people normally nice cut down. But this idea that we were talking about I'm sort of folk on and in this hadith is talking

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about the people who they control the lease and now he can give ignorance back to the person who's given them ignorance, he can give it back because screen louder and use worse words and verbally abused a person, but the person says no, I'm fasting. I'm fasting. So Allah prepare the for the people who have nice calamity their mothers, their fathers to the people. And I have to remind you of the Hadith said, I learned that al Qaeda I learned a lot from a lady and making something soft, making it easy. Allow the title lady and Al Hadid to sue a man. He may the iron soft for Sulaiman, but concerning this word, there is an ayat really important messages in that eye that's connected to

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this. And that is the instruction that Allah Tala gave to Musen and Harun his brother is have a funeral ona for Kula Allahu Kolon Lena Allahu yet avec Kuru Oh Yasha. Heroine Musa, you're the best people on the face of the earth today. Both of you are powerful, you have all these, you know, qualities. Musa uban mentioned in the Quran more than any other human being. Allah said to the two of them, both of you go to frown, and say to frown, a statement that is easy lay in Hagen easy. So before we move on, again want to remind our students that when we have FB Live with people, one of the lessons of Ramadan, it was a madrassa for us and one of the lessons of Ramadan was how to have

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the life.

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When you do the derive, connote you could do it this way, you can do it that way, before the real core after the record, you could do it at the 15th of the month, and then do for the rest of the month prior to that know how many rock gods do we pray 1113 21, whatever it is that you're praying, we have to learn how to have the life. They said they saw them on, they said they didn't see them on, we're going to start with them, we're not going to start with no problem. It's one of the most important addresses of Ramadan. So now, unfortunately, want to repeat this for our students don't be of those people who there is a mess, and a fifth here, issue of fake, you take one position, he

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takes another position. And because of the afterlife, you hate each other. And it doesn't stop there. But you argue with Java, and you switch over and you're upset with a liar.

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Which we throw out of the window. And we've been saying this for so long. Stop making dua to Allah to break your brother's back, because he disagrees with you and an issue with his ft lab. And I say it again, the people were cultivated on that dua, may Allah break your back so wrong with them, something is wrong with them.

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Something is wrong with them. That's not the data that the Prophet was upon SallAllahu it was setting them although we do see him making dua against people and so forth and so on. As for dua against his companions Kela we didn't see that. What we saw him say was, if I make dua against the Muslim, I asked a lot of give it his sadaqa for him. So he was saying, Let go

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May your mother lose you yam wife, but he didn't really mean me your mother lose you when you become a person without a mother. First of all that dua is saying you should know me your mother lose what's wrong with you? You don't know that. And any do i He made against the Muslim he asked Allah make it sadaqa but because we have the life of the fifth issue over he had issues the person make dua, that Allah don't put you into Jana put you in Allah

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was part of the Hellfire, punish you put your Abu Lahab curse you when your mother and your father and your children know Allah has prepared these rooms for Jana and Jana for the people take it easy number to acquire it from the bad that is those people who gave food and they feel full and the month of Ramadan. Again, like I said, everybody here fed somebody. Even if it's a date that hadith was in our head during the month of Ramadan, fear that Hellfire even if it's with half of a day, everybody wanted to be that person who gave someone a date so that when he broke his fast, you got the reward of that fat. So we bought boxes of dates and we sent them to relatives, and we asked some

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of them, please break your fast every day with these dates. People were sitting with us, we will hand them the date. We invited people to come to our house because again,

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in our religion, the deen of Allah azza wa jal once you become a Muslim, right away, you're going to see something with the Muslims is we have what's known as hospitality cut on the part of who we are.

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My come from America, African American, we have our own way of living. I don't know about what Muslims are doing. But as soon as you come become a Muslim, right away as soon as you see the Muslims from different parts of the world, one of the things that stares at you from the homes of the Muslims is whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day let him honor his guest fairly your Quran by for us our religion.

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I don't know Muslims who hide the food when relatives and guests come I don't know that. There may be people who like that Allah knows best, but I don't know that so in our religion, feeding people food is from the best a buy that like salad and things like that is from the best a buy that so when there's an opportunity for you to give an Akita or walima or lunch, breakfast dinner, or anything, you should invite people over. You should invite people over because it's been mentioned so many times in the Quran so many times in the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa it will send them and from that, and from that is what Allah will Tada mentioned in the Quran, Allah you should do

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Allah to Allah, Tom and miskeen. The hypocrite, the weak Muslim, he doesn't encourage people to feed the the poor. He does. That's not a part of who he is. If his wife wants to make something, he's against it.

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His wife wants to give full he's against it. Don't send any food out of my house. Without me. No, I'm not working for these people work for my family. No, my Muslim is the one who encourages the feeding of other people even if they're not poor, but even more so for those people who are poor. Oh, it I'm for Yeoman, the Messiah Taenia team in the macabre, our Miskin Bama Traba,

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the one who, on a day of famine when there's not a lot of food, he's the one who tries to look for and he gives food when there's not a lot of food. He gives food to the often he gives food to the poor. He gives food to one who's needy in the dirt to him in the eye and our religion. When Allah described the believers, the true believers of in the Quran, he said, Well, you know not to

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be Myskina Huija tema what a Syrah and namana termo community watch he lie he learned already domain Kanji is that and when I show Cora the believers are those individuals who they feed people food, although they themselves love the food. They're hungry and they love What food does to them and for them. They love it. But they feed the

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cat IV who's a non Muslim, he's not a Muslim, the cat diff, they feed the poor, they feed the one who's an orphan and when they feed them they say Verily We feed you only for the face of Allah with a class we don't want from you any reward and we don't even want from you. You saying thank you, doesn't mean you shouldn't say thank you or Zakah low Hydra but they're not looking for that. They're looking for those rooms in an agenda. So when the masjid green lane or any mystery for that matter, when they feed people in the month of Ramadan it is from the best a Baghdad and Ellis now I know a lot of people from our community, they take it as an opportunity just to say okay, I'm gonna

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go to the masjid and I'll save money throughout the month of Ramadan and I just eat every day in the masjid no problem. You could do that that's permissible, but you should be able those people who also you take from your wealth and Allah has bestowed you with

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and feed people. He used to tell the people similar to this son of shoe Sarah, what

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was soluable lady when NASA Mian spread the salaams amongst yourselves, that sometimes is from the nice words, sent on my name comes from the nice word, spread that sometimes and feed each other food, take people out invite people. And that's the second thing, the important thing is, and our religion and our cultures feed and food is from the best a bad day, I want to say again to my students, don't be that person who, every time that you go out with the Shabaab, they will always paying for you. You have to go and dig in your pocket is sometimes in pay for the food as well. And if you don't have the money to pay for the full, then go get the napkins and the spoons and stuff

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like that and go get the table ready. Don't be of those people always your list looking for other people to always take care of you. Now if you don't work, no problem, you're from our one. Our pocket is your pocket your pocket is out of pocket. But don't make it an intentional effort to not pay Don't be of those books. And bull is a terrible terrible characteristic that

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they be afraid that Elijah Joe won't provide for you. He told me that a liberal rabbi who used to live in a mystery didn't have any money I beat out spin from your money that you don't have spin and Allah's spin on you. So when you spend you get money in return for free, and I want to put emphasis on it because of the day right now. And that is those windows in those rooms in Jannah have been prepared for the people who fast and they follow up the fast with more fats.

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So we just finished the blessed month of Ramadan. We fast it

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are we going to now not fast until next Ramadan Inshallah, because if you did that that's permissible. It's permissible. And beware of the Hadith that's authentic, where the man came and say God Rasul Allah, if I make Halal haram or halal and I make haram haram and I pray five times a day only, and I fast in the month of Ramadan and I don't do anything else. When I go to Jana. You say yes. He said them Allah He that's all I'm doing. And then a man walked away Rasul Allah said, cut off Lucha in Sudan. He'll be successful if he sticks to what he said, The man swore I'm only praying five times a day. That's it. And I'm only fasting in Ramadan. That's eight. And I'm not doing

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anything else. What have you successfully say? Yes. You want to take that hadith and work with that hadith? Why didn't the man mention hajj when he was you know, it's not from the accountability plan. Maybe hygiene was not

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legislative at that time, he asked questions about what was on the table at that time. No Muslim in his right mind should exist like that. I'm only going to do the Whadjuk praying that sit. Because those words your prayers, you don't know if Allah is going to accept them. And when you do the extra prayers a turn away and all that stuff. Then they big up your Whadjuk prayers. You are fast outside of Ramadan. They big up your fast in the month of Ramadan, the ones you have mistakes on and so forth and so on. So the meaning of the hadith is that they follow up Hadith and they follow up fasting with fasting. after Ramadan is done. The Prophet says on the Luftwaffe, he will send the men

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sama Rama Albana from at bow who sit him in show while Cana because sorry. Anyone who fasted all of Ramadan, and then he follow Ramadan up by fasting six days of sugar while he'll get the reward of fasting for the whole lifetime for the whole year.

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So now

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we are now in the white days. 13th 14th 15th day of every Islamic month are the white days that the Prophet encouraged the people fast on these three days. If you fast three days in every month, you will get the reward of fasting that whole year like show Wow. If you fast three days, whatever they happen to be on 1314 15 Monday, Tuesday, then the next Monday, whatever three days he said it hasn't had to be Ashley unvalued um, follow her. If you gave one pound you'll get the reward of 10 up to 700

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So if you really flamming I live it's 10 Hasina lamb 10 Me

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attend. So if you fast and those three days, that's 30 days you get fast in 30

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so they fast Ramadan and they follow up Ramadan with short while so we still have Inshallah, half of the month of Chawan. For the one who hasn't started, you still have time, we still have time. I know, fasten his natural Mojang is not your lane, but who said it can't be who said it can't be.

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So if we follow up Ramadan with these six days, or we follow Ramadan up with fasting on Mondays or Thursdays, or we follow Ramadan up with fasting, one day of Arafah whoever fast the day of Arafat, it will be forgiven fully forgive is sins will be forgiven for that one year ahead. And one year behind the person fast the day of Ashura a day before and then the 10th of Muharram does that just doesn't stop on the month of Ramadan. That's the point. So the encouragement here is to continue for those of you who have the ability to do so. As for the people was difficult. Trust me, believe me, from the spirit of our religion and from what we learned in Ramadan is allies are full one, and he

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loves that awful. And Allah Azza Rahman Al Rahim and Allah Latif, Al Halim, he doesn't want to make things difficult for people, he knows who can fast and who can't fast and who is physically challenged. The last issue in the last group and category of people he mentioned sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is that they are the people who pray during the nighttime while the people are sleeping. So in the month of Ramadan, we did the Torah we you know,

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some of the laugh about how many prayers that the Prophet makes and Allah what He was setting them for Torah we

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saw him Muslim you all heard of the hadith of Isha in never made more than 11 in Ramadan and outside of Ramadan. There is a narration that the Prophet may 13 sallallahu alayhi wa sallam 13 Some of the scholars of SNAM said after Salat them and shad. He got up and he made the two Sunnah prayers of Alicia

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and that's why they counted those 11 and two more 13 but they were the two Sunnah prayers. Allah knows best. But the point we want to make here is in the month of Ramadan, we were motivated to keep standing and praying with this Imam. He did the connote he did the DUA, he did the salah every single day. The hadith of Rasulillah is clear. sallallahu alayhi wa sallam aloe

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vera Salafi Combi lai lai el wetter make the waiter last prayer that you make. So we want that. We're trying. So now it should Wow. Okay, you're not gonna get up for camera lane. You're not going to stay up real late to three o'clock. You're not going to do that. Okay, but we still can make one rock out of winter.

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That's clear Malay

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one rock up. After Sultan Isha? That's pmla

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Is it the best time? No, it's not the best time. Not the best time especially when you live in the masjid. The best time to make camera lane is in the last third of the night. 45 minutes before salatu Fajr. That's the best time in your house. But maybe we can get on the right side of the first row. We can get it. We're gonna get on the left side of the first row because we came late. All right, how do we do it in this case? Well, after the person prays a lot and a shot, she has to make good to Sunnah prayers. That could be a shuffle, if you want, doesn't have to be you just want to make with him. That's it. It's the last prayer that you made. And that prayer is from the night

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prayer. And there are people sleeping at that time, especially right now. And even if they're not sleeping, him saying pray while the people are praying, as the scholar said, Hutta jet Maharaja alcoholic. This was mentioned that doesn't mean everybody has to be sleeping. But some people are asleep and because at that time they generally speak sleeping. And it's just virtuous for you not to be a person who is sleeping. So if a person is in the masjid, and he makes that salata a shirt in the masjid, just stay there and make two records, make yourself out of a winter. But the best thing, as I mentioned, is to go back home and to do the piano live at the time close to budget, but it's

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better than make it than to miss it. As for our sisters, the women of our community

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It was much more difficult for them to stay on top of the Baghdad in Ramadan. But all four of these they got them as well. They were careful with what they were saying. They more than anybody else should continue to be careful with what they were saying. They're not exempt because they're not making the jihad of the men coming to the masjid and so forth. So on.

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The second issue of following up or feeding people, that's what women do, they cook they feed people. So continue to look at the chore and the responsibility of cooking for your husband and your children. As a bad from the bad that develops man, for a man to put food in his wife's mouth is sadaqa for her to put food in his mouth cooked on cook this sadaqa now you add on to that and I ran to that her slaving and making jihad in that kitchen in the summertime when it's late washing those dishes getting things prepared, that she had FISA be delayed. So let her approach it in that way continue to approach it in that way. The third thing, let her makeup her fast, complete the faster

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Ramadan. So many of us some people got sick in the month of Ramadan some people were traveling in the month of Ramadan and we have days that girl she didn't finish her days because of her periods. A Chroma Kamala whatever the case is, how do we make up to six days or do today's show while the best thing for you to do Abdullah amatola is hurry up and finish those 5678 days you oh and Ramadan get them and knock them out of the ballpark get them done and then after them make the six days of show up there is no hilife no Qalam you got them both no problem you complete it Ramadan like the Hadith said whoever fast Ramadan you didn't fast Ramadan yet you didn't complete it You still got 2345

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days. Men sama Ramadan anyone who fasts Ramadan and then he follows it up with six follows it up I mean the out of the way.

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The other thing is, if a person is not his thing too fast, he can barely get to six days and he hasn't even started fasting yet in a while for one reason or another. Is it permissible for him to fast in show while the four or five six days that he missed in Ramadan and then me it is I'm making up my days of Ramadan and I'm also simultaneously including Ramadan days with the six of Chawan is if the live Shala Allah's Jawad, Jude, and Al Karim, he gives even when you don't ask, but as I said, the first example is the best example. The first example is the best example fast get those days out of the way and then Shala do the six days okay when you're gonna stop paying shot la next

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week we'll begin our resume our class Acts about four people about the last Hadith that we did anybody know what needs to be done?

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We did that this is the hadith of it. Now we did that

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did that

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if you find out let me know inshallah we'll find out isn't it that you don't know what was the last Hadith we did?

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What number was it

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34 So by he said we will I'm 39 I knew we went on 3934 We did.

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So we have like six more to go be the lair. Anybody got any questions when it started today's daughters Sharla any questions? What time is a solitary Isha then

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it further the artery

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one of the issues about getting your days of Ramadan out. And it's important is that if you're fast and fast that is an obligatory fast as Whadjuk you have to fast like you're making up the days of Ramadan. It is in Ramadan, you've made an oath that you're going to fast then you have to make your knee yet from the nighttime or your need to fast before the fajr time. Prophet mentions of Allahu Allah He was citing men Ujima

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men Ujima as Siyam Kabul phygital Philosophia Mala who the one who doesn't make that intention to make that fast before Fajr then he doesn't have a fast now that had he said many of them you beat yet as soem Kabul federal financier Malou the one who doesn't go to sleep at the nighttime

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With that met, he has to save tomorrow and tend to fats. So he should do that every day in the month of Ramadan. Some scholars who do one time if you want. So now when you ask to make up those days, he has to say that in the nighttime before Fajr I intend on fasting tomorrow or today. I intend without saying that out loud. He has that in his head in his heart. I intend to fast today, this day of Ramadan. And once he intends that it's not permissible for him to break that he can break that at all. That's good question my man you guys got that? It for the

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night to take your kindness for weakness, the imbalance approach?

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Yeah, what about those people who take your kindness for weakness, and they are those people they miss three things they say, don't

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bring think

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when a lion shows you his teeth, that he's smiling.

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Because he's showing you his teeth doesn't mean like he's playing around with you. So if someone's being nice and kind to you, it's not nice to mystery, that kindness take advantage of them. So everybody has to be like the Prophet of Islam. salAllahu alayhi salam who was always nice and kind and gentle, even with his enemies, he was nice and kind and he was gentle all the time.

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And then that one man, he caught that man, who is to speak very bad about him. He used to speak bad about him in public and call them outside of his name. And say all kinds of madness that wasn't true. And the Prophet caught them so long when he was sending them and he was going to kill him because he was an enemy to align his messenger and what he was doing and what he was saying. So he threw himself at the mercy of the Prophet of Islam SallAllahu Sallam Don't kill me. Don't kill me. I'd be appreciative. I'd be very grateful and thankful. I make poetry for you with the Arabs and they were sold. I don't need your poetry. He's in the Quran. It doesn't need that. He's with a lot

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from mom and let him go.

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If he only did that one time, it was enough to prove that he was a gentle man Salah when he was seven, but he did a lot. That man broke his promise. And he went back to doing what he was doing. Cursing Missoula, saying bad things in the snooze guy back to him or Sula quarter.

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The man said um, I mean, let me go let me go you can you let me go before you let all the people go? You're a nice person. Let me go let me go Yeah, Muhammad. The Prophet said to him some Allah while he was setting them like you will, they will movement men who threaten murder retain. The believer is not stung from the same hole twice. And he dealt with that guy.

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Because I already gave you a chance. And you clearly proved that you're taking my kindness for a joke. And it's not a joke. If I let you get away with this, people think they can walk around here saying whatever they want to say about Allah, His messenger and the believers and so forth and so on. So he made an example of him that yeah, I'm kind I'm gentle, but I'll deal with you at the same time. And that's what he did. So he said the believer is not stung twice from the same hole. So you look out for them. We look out for them. And they still slap in your face. They still throw water in your face after that thing you tell them as part of Eman not to get stung in as same hole twice. I'm

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going to deal with this situation now with what is appropriate, was comparable was fear and was just okay, it's windy. We're going to stop here. We asked allow time to give us height of dunya and the Africa next week epsilon mother we're going to start our finish up our class of the Hadith book a day at Dawa with a Tao