Channel: Yasmin Mogahed
The way in which you do not allow others to break you is by your ability to respond in the way that throws you, rather than breaks you. And by forgiving.
by forgiving, you're taking back that power, because you're saying you can't control your brain. I am going to take whatever has happened in my life, and I'm gonna use it to become stronger. And I'm gonna let it go. And I'm gonna forgive, not for you. But actually for me, I kind of forget because number one that frees me. And most importantly, it allows me to get the forgiveness of the law. So it's a win win.
But you have to change the way we see it. A loss of final tile is giving you an opportunity to gain the forgiveness of Allah by forgiving those who have hurt you.