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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala and Avi almost have a weblog, my dear viewers, welcome to another live edition of our program. Guardians of the price. Today's episode by the Grace of Allah is number 390. And it will be the second in the study in chapter number 152. On 152. There is a second episode and this chapter just as a reminder, Bible myocardial and then my ut one I call who Mata who might the chapter which was studied most of it's a hadith remaining for us only one single Hadith deals with what should be said and uttered in the presence of a dead person and woman whom I met Allah who made the person who lost

a family member, What should he say? So today's hadith is agreed upon its authenticity. It is collected by Imam Bukhari and Muslim may Allah have mercy on them. And it is narrated by Osama in his aid in the Hadith may Allah be pleased with him and his father. Hebrew Rasulillah word no Hibiya Rasulullah one of the very beloved to the Prophet and his father was to they didn't hide it.

So Sam, the rated that color or Salat, if the naughty naughty your Salah Allahu Allah He was salam ala he that rule what a beautiful and asabi Allah I would none female out for Cordillera Saudi Arabia Eliza we are her earner Illa heeta Allah

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this is a segment of the Hadith the Hadith also will be

tackled in the following chapter, it will be the second Hadith in the following chapter, we will learn something new in this hadith, but now in the chapter, what a person should say, upon losing a beloved one, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam was sitting and one of his daughters sent to him a message that her son was in his last breath, he was dying.

And she requested him to come to attend that to be with her during this time. So Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him, sent back with the messenger to inform her to say to Allah, we all belong

in an alley later Allah has to Allah belong what he has taken, and to Him belongs, what He has given the Lahemaa Wallah whom out what could you say in and there will be any Musa and everything with him has

a limited span a limited time a limited period in this life. So ask her to be patient to endure this calamity patiently. While tasin ya need to anticipate the word from Allah, the Almighty.

From that we learn the number one the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam upon losing his grandson because that was the son of Zeinab, the daughter of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam. So she realized that her son is dying, and she asked the Prophet salallahu Alaihe salam to attend. She was hoping that he can do something, but since he was lying, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam wanted to confirm that no one can stop this from taking place. Even Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam liquidly agilan kitab This is what the Lord Almighty said everything every creature has a fixed lifespan. Once its term is due, is there a certain one is tougher, the more no one will actually get

In an extra moment, no will he die a few moments before the do turn. So if he's dying, he's gonna die. No one can start that. So the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, you should say, in LA later Allah Ma has now he has taken the soul of your son of your daughter of your loved one. Guess what?

He belongs to Allah.

He belongs to Allah.

When Allah whom Allah as he's the one who gave him to you, he collected his soul back. So be patient. And in though that patiently because everything has a limited time, and once the term or time is due, no one can stop this person or the soul from going on to Allah, the Almighty. In the hadith of Momo Anis Raja Allahu Anhu. In the salon, when she was married to a we'll call her and they had a son, and the son was very sick, but I will call her left for some business. And when he returned, he asked his wife, how's our son, she said, he is much better than before. Ask Annamaya Khan, he's very quiet.

Doesn't feel any pain anymore. So that hamdulillah then he found her. She had prepared for him a nice meal.

Dinner. So he ate somewhere, and then she adorned herself. For him.

Were in the sleep clothes and put in the makeup. So, now he knows that his size philanderer, and he's very quiet, doesn't feel any pain. He ate, and he was missing his wife. So they had an intimate relationship. Then after he ate and he enjoyed the intimate relationship. She said about her. Hi, I want to ask you a question.

You know, what do you say if our neighbors give us something as an Amana to us? Then the decided to collect it back so they asked for it. What shall we do? He said, Of course we shall give them back the property. It's an Amana it's a trust. We have no right to keep it. The one can take it. So she said yeah, about haha. Indeed, Allah has taken his mana. He said, What do you need? She said, Allah has given us our son.

And he took him back. I will tell her I was very upset. Because not only that he lost his son, but also because he lost his son, and he ate and he had sexual relations. You know, he's supposed to be grieved, to feel sorry, not to celebrate. He didn't know. So when he went for Phaedra he complained to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, about what almost blinded so the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam was very pleased with what she did. And he said, Barak, Allahu Allah Kuma filet, Lottie Kuma, may Allah bless you both in the night, referring to the intimate relationship the head, may Allah grant you a goodly offspring. So he said that I saw from his offspring 10 who had memorized the

Quran, Allah give them better replacement.

Upon losing anything, especially a Sufi,

the dearest, your most favorite, your best person in this life, it could be your spouse, it could be your child, it could be one of your parents. It could be a friend. Remember one thing?

I know what you're gonna say, oh, remember that all of us are gonna die. No, I was going to say something else. Remember that?

Our dearest all

Prophet Mohammed Salah lorrison is dead, he died. I want you to imagine the action of the companions of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam who lived with him who had been rightly guided by Him who had been saved by Him. They entered Islam upon his hand, they fought next to him. They saw Him, they lay their eyes on him, you know, so Ben was crying once and the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, What is the matter? He said, Every time I remember, you will die, and I will die. I don't know whether we'll be able to see you in paradise as often because in this dunya every time I want to see you, I just go to the masjid. So I get to see you. So the Sahaba had an access to see the Prophet sallallahu

sallam, every day, five times a day for all the prayers. So when they miss him, all of a sudden their calamity is much better and greater. And that's why the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam

Say, the this condolence to any of you if you lose a loved one is to remember my death

Salallahu Alaihe Salam.

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Kuhlmann. Alia fan, wherever covered Rebecca Dolgellau to the Quran. Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam died, his companions died, his enemies died. And every living creature will vanish. None remain other than a lot of mighty don't Jalali, well Iran. If this is the case, then come down it is okay to cry, it is okay to feel grieved, to be sorry, but not to object, because it will not bring back the dead to life, no matter what you do, if all the human beings and the Djinn the best doctors

at all of the entire world, get together in order to extend the life of this patient, to give him a few minutes more to live his dead.

That's it. Luckily agilan kita. So, this is a meaning of the later anima has

to say in and will be added in Muslim and everything with him has a limited time

for more or her fellow prosper walltastic If this is a case, you cannot change the fact this is inevitable. And all of us are going through it one after another and it doesn't recognize young or old male or female, healthy or sick, rich or poor. It chooses based on the term that the person is supposed to the pod is Life app. So be patient. While data say the word world data says Oh 87 has been mentioned repeatedly in the Sunnah lft sab Alec this app is to anticipate the word to do whatever you do out of faith and to trust Allah has promised that I want to get the reward and that's why I'm going to be patient. So you will definitely get that reward. So I like to set up man

Samarra, Madonna Iman and what is urban warfare Allah who made the cut them in them their Iman, what is seven whoever observes fasting during Ramadan out of faith and 57 Yanni anticipating the reward from Allah he will get the promise road what is the promise word? All his previous sins will be forgiven man karma Ramadan Amen and what is seven off your Allahu Mata cut the means and likewise, I like this app. So when you lose a loved one, and you endure this calamity patiently, why?

Why are you controlling your tongue and you're not jumping around, you're not screaming, you're not saying awful statements? Because you trust Allah's promise. If you're patient, he will give you that much. What will he give you? Huh?

In the Hadith or the COVID, a hadith which was studied in the previous episode, if one loses a son and he becomes patient, Allah will build him a house in Paradise and the house will be named Baitul hammer, the house of praise.

Secondly,

if a person loses a loved one, whether a husband a wife or child, boy or a girl or a parent, as long as he is your most loved person, and your patient, then agenda is you for him. So, Alec deserve is to anticipate the promised reward from Allah subhanaw taala then you will get it and now with the new chapter, chapter number 153. And it is in the same line, what is lawful and what is not lawful with regards to the practices that the family members have added person may do to show their grieve their sorrow, and the remorse.

Chapter number 153 Baboo was ill Buka eolane maggoty be higher in admin Wallonia.

There was one book at Island meaty, which means the permissibility of mere crying upon losing a loved one for a dead person or over a dead person.

As long as it is

just mere crying. It doesn't include wailing

screaming, shouting so a Nia is the wailing Okay. The first hadith is a Hadith which is agreed upon its authenticity we studied this hadith.

Before I brought up an evening Amara Radi Allahu Anhu met another school Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. I had said that Nova that our man who had the rough man didn't know if was there I don't know Eddie, you are cos were below Hypno Masaru the Radi Allahu Anhu so Becca Fabrika Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Fela Mara al Karim Buka Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Rebecca

Farrakhan eletter SmartOne in Allah Allah you as Zeb will be the main line while the host Neil called Wallachian your husband will be Heather LVR hum. Where Assura ilardi said Ali

Abdullah Hypno Omar, may Allah be pleased with him and his father narrated that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him visited? Sir I did not know whether

when he was severely ill, and he died during this illness.

He was accompanied by Abdullah Manik now off

and he was accompanied by sadness viewer cos.

And Abdullah hidden in this room. May Allah be pleased with all of them. So three companions were with the Prophet salallahu Alaihe, salam to form are among the 10 Heaven bound companions I borrowed money now and Saudi Arabia will cost for that cow rasool Allah is Allah Allah is Allah and the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him began to weep

when his companions so this, there are tears also started flowing. So the messenger of Allah TeeSpy upon him said, do not hear. Allah does not punish for sharing of tears, or the grief of the heart. But he punishes all bestows merci for the utterance of this and he pointed to his tongue Salah Larissa, from this hadith who Amritsar did not Obeida, by the way, was the chieftain of Al Hasan. We have two famous names, sad in wise and sad in her bed, sad, sad did not go bad or the Allah was the leader in the chieftain of Al Hasan, the tribe of Al Hasan. And when he was very sick and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam went to visit him.

He started crying.

So the Sahaba

of the Rachmaninoff saddened me Of course, Abdullah Massoud, the three companions were with him. They too, started crying. So the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam explained to them for meal coin, there is no problem. That's mercy.

The problem is in this, then he pointed to his tongue. Only when you start uttering something which this pleases Allah, then the person will be worthy of punishment, such as,

why do you do that to us? Why do you always take our loved ones? Why do you deprive me from my daddy? Why do you do this to my son? He's my only son, why are you pushing the Creator? Are you pushing his judgment and his wisdom? No one has the right to question Allah Almighty. He does whatever he wants, whenever he wants, and no one questions Him and He is the Most Merciful indeed. So, if a person out or something which displeases Allah, he will be punished. And if a person out or something which does Please Allah, as we started in the previous Hadith, once you will build him a house in paradise, once Jana will be due to him. And once when he says in early labor in the Illa

Hara your own then Allah Almighty will descend His blessings upon him will shower him or them with their mercy. And Allah Almighty already decided that they are among the rightly guided ones Allah Iike him Salah were to Nairobi him what, what will a homeowner they don't? The three incredible qualities that a person will get when his utterance upon being affected with a calamity is in Melilla, who in Elijah Raju, we all belong to Allah and unto Him Who shall attend

While being patient, so the prophets Allah Allah on his salon has already decided and informed the companions that mere crying is no problem.

Being grieved that snowmen, you know, when you learn something sweet, you know, you feel it sweet, very salty sets bitter or salty, very hot. If you say it's hot, no one can blame you for that. When you lose a loved one, you're grieved. No one can blame you for that it is okay. The only thing that becomes blameworthy is what you are what you do. So if you have patience, and you say what is good, you will be rewarded. And if you're not patient, if you keep jumping to the roof, if you object and curse, if you accuse Allah of lacking wisdom, you blameworthy and whoever is dead, who remained it, your utterance will not bring him or her back to life will not improve their condition whatsoever,

that is the meaning of what I can you as he will be heard and we are having, yet he punishes or He bestows mercy only by this or because of this and he pointed to his tongue, the utterance of the tongue. The following hadith is what we studied in the

beginning of today's episode, which was the last Hadith of the previous chapter, chapter number 152. The hadith of Osama even his aid, once again, but now we are getting the rest of the Hadith. What Imam nawawi does, may Allah have mercy on him? In each chapter II chooses the suitable a hadith or if if there is any, okay? He doesn't have to code the entire Hadith, he may take the segment, which will deliver the meaning that is in line with the chapter that he is talking about. So he said in the previous chapter, he was teaching us what a person should say, when a loved one is dying, or is dead. Now, he died already, and we're going to see the reaction of the Prophet Salalah seven. Do you

remember what is the name of the chapter? The chapter deals with the permissibility of mere crying or being grieved the grief of the heart it is okay. And the, you know, the prohibition against waning cursing and objecting to Allah's decree, Hadith number 926 and Osa madness Aida Radi Allahu Anhu man,

another soul Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam roofie la he ate Nettie he will who often mount for fall but I inna Rasulillah he Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for call Allah who sat may Heather ya rasool Allah.

Paula herdy Hera meten Giada Hello hooter Isla fear Kulu be a bad we're in Mar Hamdulillah hoomin, a birdie of Rohana, motiva canali.

And this hadith of Osama bin Zayed

he narrated that

the grandson of Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, the child of Zainab the daughter of Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was presented to him

while the child was in his last breath.

In the previous Hadith, we learned that when Zeynep sent a messenger to him, that you should come and the Prophet Salah Salem told him what you should say. Then eventually, by the end, he, by himself, went to visit his daughter and to witness this moment.

So when the sun was between his hands, and in his last breath,

tears began to flow from his eyes PSP upon him.

So sad. Radi Allahu Allah said to him, What is this Oh prophet of Allah, He said, It is mercy which Allah has placed in the hearts of His servants. Allah bestows His Mercy on those who are merciful. In Nanaia harmala home in a baddie, our ohana so crying,

you know, over the death of a loved one is very normal, that is the norm and that is perfectly fine. And this is a sign of mercy. You know,

especially when you see the person in the agony of death, and in his or her last breath. So in the person SOS crying, you know, feeling sorry for the loss of this loved one, or for the departure or for the pain that he or she is suffering. This is a good sign this is a sign of mercy. And Allah Almighty bestows mercy upon whoever he was, and He bestows mercy upon those who are merciful to his creation.

So brothers and sisters, mere crying is okay.

feeling grief in your heart, for the loss of loved one is perfectly okay. And now

we will get into another Hadith, which is agreed upon its authenticity, where the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, you know, when we speak about how the Prophet sallallahu Sallam reacted in these situations, guess what, while he was the dearest to Allah and His most beloved and the seal of the prophet hood, and the guy to mankind and all of that, and mercy to everything that exists, but Allah He has suffered the most.

I'm not only talking about suffering from the opposition of the Mactan chieftains, or from afar, if

or from the Mauna Kea clean in Medina only, or from the Romans only or the Persians, his

suffering and his life, which was full of turmoil, and his patience and endurance or patients included that losing all his children in his life. The only child who survived them was 14 out of the Allahu Ana. She died six months after the Prophet sallallahu Sallam passed away, but he lost all his children. He lost his sons, when they were very young, Ibrahim and Abdullah he lost al Qasim and upon that, in his stead of receiving the condolences, the Mac can pagans show joy and delight, do celebrating and they call them apt on what does it mean? Inshallah we'll discuss this after we come back from a short break. So please stay tuned

salam alaikum, Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. So before the break, we're talking about how much suffering Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him going through

even though he was reduced to Allah the Almighty, which means that whenever you are being loved by Allah, you will be also tested. And tests and trials could be the means of raising the rank of a person to the highest, such as in the case of the Prophet sallallahu sallam.

In the case of others, to some trials are to purify the person from some of their sins, to remit some of errors that they bear on their shoulders. As the Prophet sallallahu sallam said in the Hadith, I said, Danesi, Bella and lnbf so Melina, Luna sumela, Dena, Luna,

the most severely tested people are the prophets. Those who suffer most are the prophets, even though they are the dearest to Allah, the Almighty. Look how much suffering Prophet Moses peace be upon him going through, or eSATA his salah or prophet, a You Tube, whose patient for his sickness for 18 years, and for the loss of his 10 sons, and he was very wealthy and he lost everything in our jet now. Sabella Yeah, MALABU in now a web. Allah said most surely, we found him patient. He endured all of that patiently, How excellent is such servant of ours. And rasool Allah is Allah Allah Allah Salam. When he lost his son, his only son back then, so the neck and shift and said, they're all in

our chapter. Now we don't have to worry about him. His APA. APA is cut off. He doesn't have an offspring. No one is going to bear his name. No one will remember him. The question is the person who uttered this evil utterance who used to have 10 songs and used to brag about his wealth. Now who records him who mentions His name is

In the Wikipedia, does anybody celebrate his name? Does he have any markers, any benefits any use in the in life? No.

But the name Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, even though he did not have a son to bear his name is the most famous name included in the non Muslim countries, Muhammad Sallallahu sallam. Allah Almighty said to him in a shiny alcohol app, indeed or Muhammad, your enemy and your opponent is the one who will be cut off. He's not even going to be mentioned. And if he is to be mentioned, in an evil context, so interview SallAllahu Sallam suffered, but not because he did something wrong, but because ALLAH SubhanA wa Taala purifies his loved ones. He chooses them and he gives him a great deal of sub and capacity to bear these calamities patiently so that he keeps promoted them until

they achieve the highest status before him. You tell us more wahala Kadri Deena the person would receive

tests and trials in proportion with his religious commitment, his or hers, of course. Look at this hadith,

which is discussing the moment on which Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam lost his young son Ibraheem Alehissalaam

and Ernest Radi Allahu Allah Rasool allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam de Hala Allah He Ibrahim Radi Allahu Anh?

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further Allah Teina rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam metacity fan for Coyle, Allahu Abdul Malik now off will enter here soon Allah for Carla Yep, now Finn in now Rama soon had the okra for con in the line attack now. We'll call via ASAN while an Akula Ilana you're the burner. We're in early if you are pika yeah Ibrahim hola zu neuen Rahul Buhari you and a segment of it was also conducted by Imam Muslim and Sydney Malik. May Allah be pleased with him narrated that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him, came to his son,

Ibrahim, may Allah be pleased with him when he was in his last breath. So the eyes of Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him began shedding tears adore Rachmaninoff Radi Allahu Han, who was there said O Messenger of Allah,

you to weep, do you. So he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, you have now Oh, ignore half. This is mercy. Then he began to weep again, another time. And he said, Indeed, the eyes are shedding tears. And the heart is grieved. And we will not say except what pleases our Lord, or Ibrahim indeed, we are grieved by your departure, and by your loss. So the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam is a human being. And He is the Most Merciful. And he was grieved for the loss of his son Ibrahim alayhis salam. And here I remember the incident of this woman who was the graveyard she was wailing, she was cursing. And when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam passed by her, he said, Yeah, and Allah, it tequila

was very

Fear your Lord, be patient. Why do you do that? So this woman said, in a candy, which means, leave me alone, get out of my face. So in Nicola to sort of be mostly Betty. You've not been afflicted with my carnality to teach me what to do, and to instruct me to be patient, because you're not in my situation. You're advising me to be patient. But if you're in my situation, you would know what I've been through. Obviously, number one, she didn't know. That was Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam. Number two, she didn't know that Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, now only lost a son or two. He lost all his children and some of his grandchildren in his life, as I said, with the exception of

Athena, the daughter of Mohammed, who lived for six months after the death of the Prophet sallallahu Sena. So all his daughters

He lost six out of the seven, and he lost some grandchildren. And he lost three sons made his peace and blessings be upon him. So later on, she recognized the personality of Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, they said, Don't you know who's talking to you? It was a prophet. So later on, she ran to his house and she said,

I'm sorry, I didn't recognize you. The prophets Allah, Allah, Allah, Selim distracted her attention from recognizing him or not recognizing him. It's not about me, is it in normal subgroup, and the submittal Hola, forget about me. Patience, and its observance is once you receive the shock of the calamity, not a wild lira. So brothers and sisters will study in this.

Because no doubt, somewhere, right now. Somebody is grieved with the loss of their children, a couple who have been trying for years to have a child. And after 18 years, Allah bless them with a baby boy. And then at the age of three, four or five, he got very sick, had severe fever. And he was pronounced dead like that. You know, some people can lose their mind. Some people can say awful stuff, can accuse Allah of being not nurse will have been whatever, God forbid. Why? Because the we're not ready for this moment. These classes, we dedicate ourselves to learn as Muslims, how should we react? Whenever we're afflicted, we understand for certain, everything belongs to him. We

ourselves are a manner. You know, our body parts are a manner. They are gifts from Allah subhanaw taala. If Allah decided to take any, he's leaving for you other blessings. If he decided to take one of your children, perhaps you have others? And if you don't, then he has become far upon Leca ill agenda. What does it mean? Today I said, amigo, to pray in a machine which is far away because normally, there is a janazah, or a funeral prayer. And then, after we pray, evoke the broad, three funerals, and one of whom was a baby, his father, were wrapping him like in a piece of towel like that. And he brought him to the hub. And then we were talking about Subhanallah you know why we make

dua, when we announce the funeral prayer, we say, a Salah to Al and what is offered the funeral, for those are over those who are already here, of the dead Muslims. But whenever we have a child, we specify, we have a child or we have children. Why?

Because the Doha will be the erected for the benefit of the parents. As for the child is already in the Kahala of Ibrahim Ali Salam. He's in paradise, the children who die before the age of puberty, to Muslim parents, they go straight to heaven, because the pen of recording their actions did not record any bad deed. For them. Only good deeds, so they go straight to heaven. And that is the meaning of becoming follow up on Elan, Jana, Yanni they go to a paradise ahead of the parents, and they pick up their parents provided the parents were patient,

over the calamity of losing the child. So in the funeral prayer, we ask Allah to bless the parents of the child, he or she to have mercy on them, to give them a bear or substitute something better than what they have lost and to make their child you know ahead of them to paradise and so on. So the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, what we say or what we should say, upon losing a loved one. Crying is perfectly okay. What is not okay, is the utterance of the tongue to object to Allah's decree or to wait or to express how life will be miserable without this person who is everything in your life or to you in this life. So he said in a line allotted, indeed, the eyes are shedding

tears. We're in an alcohol Valia Hudson. And indeed, the heart is grieved. When an acquittal Ilana yo the obenour, but yet we do not say anything, but what pleases our Lord. We're in early Philosophica Ibrahim, the masternode and indeed

It, Ebrahim will feel very sorry for your loss and for your departure, brothers and sisters.

It is very important to understand that we're learning this in order to embody it in our daily lives in order to be ready to practice once it is needed. So may Allah make it easy for us to benefit from this useful knowledge from the IRS and the Hadith of the Messenger of Allah and put them into practice. By that we've come to the end of today's edition of your program, Guardians of the pious and until next week, I leave you all in the care of Allah. Apollo Kalia had our staff for Lady walakum wa salam ala ala Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa Salam wa salam ala

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