Tafsir Juz 28 #30 – Al-Tahreem 2

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa salam ala Salah to attend Mota slim nada so you know email me you know how maybe now I could do a tuna maybe in our

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early he was talking earlier in when we are hungry so within Subhan Allah Allah in lava lamp Tana in Lollywood Hakeem are visually somebody who is silly that Emily Cerny of God will only watch Alhama Lana her Hurley Sunday what she can Karim Allah Masha fell Khurana fina Yama, Yama, Thea Hamada Hameroff I mean,

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all praise is due to Allah Almighty Who sent prayers and blessings upon the Beloved Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, upon his noble family, righteous companions, and all those that follow them with the right guidance until the Day of Judgment.

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Glory be to You Oh Allah, no knowledge have we accept that what you have taught us Indeed you are the All Knowing the all wise.

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We ask Allah subhanaw taala to grant us more knowledge, we know the Quran and to increase our faith and to help us do more implementation of the Quran in our lives, and to make this deed and others sincere for him, insha Allah and to make the Quran and intercessor for us on the Day of Judgment.

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Dear Brothers and Sisters, we continue with the Tafseer of Surah to him

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and we left off last with the verse that is speaking about

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of the beloved wives of Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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Aisha and Hafsa

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Ravi Allah Allah.

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Allah subhanaw taala said in that verse,

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Maybe one

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more here ahi if you too was repent to Allah and his best for your hearts have straight but if you cooperate against him, then indeed Allah is his protector, and Gibreel and the righteous of the believers and the angels, moreover, are his assistants.

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We mentioned that the two wines

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may Allah be pleased with them, who this is referring to say that I shouldn't say that Hafsa and that this string of their hearts is straying from that which pleases Allah subhanaw taala and pleases Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam of his desires, whether it's because of his love for honey, or his loving, of Marielle, Korea, of the Allahu Allah and so on, and that their hearts desired other than what the Prophet, the heart of Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam desired so Allah subhanaw taala called on them to repent, and for their hearts to come back to that which pleases Allah and pleases the messenger Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and if you

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cooperate against them, then this whole group, our supporters and protectors for Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam number one and most importantly, Allah azza wa jal and Jibreel alayhi salam,

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the greatest angel of ALLAH SubhanA wa Allah and He is the angel who got the way to Prophet Muhammad Salim and Allahu Allah, reversed of the Prophets and Messengers also.

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Well, so I mean, in the righteous of the believers, this could be general, but there are sayings of some of the pious generations that this refers to Abu Bakr, Radi Allahu Anhu. And there is also some

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there's an opinion that is referring to say Northland, and there's an opinion also referring to so in the alley of the Allah, it may refer to all four of them before who would have thought about you. And it may refer to the, in general to all of the righteous believers who love and review and follow Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam.

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And, of course,

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these are the protectors of Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam at his time, but there are protectors for Prophet Muhammad wa sallam, even after he died, salat wa salam ala Lakers of those who protect him and protect his

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Family from insult and abuse and protect him from the

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accusations of the ignorant and protect him and show him to the world and his reality and who he was and his life and his manners and his guidance. This is something that we should bring and take two people, okay because it is something that will open up their minds and their hearts to this religion. Prophet Muhammad wa salam, the main symbol of this religion, the example of this religion, the example of the Quran, a walking Quran as a woman what minion, shall do Allah Allah described him so Allah Azza wa salam.

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So we must be the protectors for Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam after his death, we must be the ones who look after his reputation and his honor, as people insult him and as people abusing and they have no right. And indeed, Allah is his protector and Allah has protected him. And may Allah subhanaw taala use us as protectors for him in this time, especially after

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the incidents that everyone is aware of. And by the way, they are continuing it didn't stop at the Danish cartoons, it went to other countries and it is continuing to happen now. And recently they they were talking about some incident that happened I believe also in Denmark.

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And people are bringing it up for for elections and other things Sweden isn't okay, was that lucky. So it's it keeps going on and it keeps reviving itself and the ignorant and the ones whose hearts are filled with hatred, and all they know is hate, they are coming and they are bringing out these accusations again and making contest for people who can come up with the best drawing again of Prophet Muhammad Salim and so it's repeating itself it didn't die even after all that happened. And even after the Ummah and he stood up to protect the profit loss. People still have the audacity to accuse him and

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this is out of their ignorance. They think that they can Yeah, any in any way hurt profit loss or sell them or abuse him. They are merely like people who are trying to spit to the heavens and that is gonna come back on their face for sure. They have nothing to they can that they have that they can record against Prophet Muhammad Salah his life was an open book as we see in this surah and this open book, anyone who reads it cannot but admire Prophet Muhammad Salah and prostrate in humility to Allah Who sent this man as the messenger for this ummah.

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One man I can barely cover here if that is not enough, all of the angels of Allah azza wa jal are his protectors and his supporters in their trillions as we discussed last time.

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In reference to this,

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there is a beautiful and long Hadith that the Imams have narrated

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off of them, Harry and Muslim and also an email Muhammad, they've been caffeine

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mentions as the first Hadith, the hadith of Imam Muhammad and they're all relatively similar.

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But we will read it and see the some of the slight differences and the things that I mentioned about this area.

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Here you have, you might have Matt has narrated

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that m&r bass said, and this is of course, an authentic hadith. He says I was eager to ask Omar about the two ladies among the wives of the Prophet salAllahu alayhi wasallam, about whom Allah said into the

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summit. You

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know this in this narration, he mentioned specifically I wanted to ask about the two ladies that this verse is referring to specifically, you will find him the narration of Bukhari and Muslim no mention of this birth verse he's just talking about the women who cooperated against Prophet Muhammad wa salam who did what is called a MOBA, or interval Hara in reference to that, and this is what caused one of the Imams of Tafseer of Islam to say that

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what even Ibis was asking about and the reason the rest of the Hadith came is not about the incident of the Haleem and that could be one Maha lamb because he did not see the Hadith

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the hadith of Bukhari and Muslim do not make reference to this area, per se. And this is why it may have been confusing that therefore, Amara Mahan is talking about a slightly different incident. He's not talking about the incident of the Hadith, as we'll see in the rest of the heavy. He's talking about the incident of Artesia or Illa where Prophet Muhammad wa salam abandoned his wives for how long?

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One month

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he abandoned his wife SallAllahu wasallam for one whole month, technically 29 days to be exact. And this is what a lot of Allah was referring to. But here it is clear that Evan Abbas was asking about this, the incidents of the Hareem Okay, where Prophet Muhammad SAW Salah made prohibited for himself honey or a Seder Maria Ravi Allahu Allah. And

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therefore he refers to the ayah specifically, he wants to know who is Allah subhanaw taala speaking about these two ladies that are called to repent

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so the Hadith continues.

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About whom Allah said, If you to turn and repentance to Allah, your hearts are indeed so inclined. Then I perform Hajj along with Omar.

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And on our way back from Hajj, we went aside

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so that Omar Abdullah would relieve himself. I also went aside along with him carrying a tumbler of water. When he finished and returned, I poured water on his hands from the tumbler, and he performed ablution. By the way, as you'll see from the habit, imams have taken 10s of benefits and lessons from this one habit.

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And some of it is referring just to do several benefits about hobo just because of this incident where an ibis was helping so now mom and his will do.

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I said, Oh Commander of the Faithful, who were the two ladies among the wives of the Prophet SAW Salem, to whom Allah said into Tula and Allah saw that Guru Bukoba Omar said, I am astonished at your question or even Ambus

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Zoofari a sub narrator said that Omar did not like the question. Why didn't he like the question?

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Because one of them is his daughter is another even though

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Amara, Allah on technically, is above that anyone is above nepotism. It is a nama right?

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Amara Villa Han he was Khalifa. And he was omitted what meaning and he was treating his children rougher than some of the commoners who are treating their children

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much less to compare to another imam or Khalifa. I'm saying the commoners themselves he treated them rougher because they were children of Amelia what meaning so that people would not say Ah, see, these are the daughters and sons of me what we mean look at them, look at the way they dress, look at the way they eat, look at the way they live.

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So he treated them even harsher maybe than he would have treated them if he was a normal person. Because he was so he was above this. If anyone was above it, it was saved my Alma Alon.

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said that Omar did not like the question, but he still answered it saying that they were in shock and Hafsa.

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So he said it clearly. He didn't try to maneuver he gave the answer straight, even if it was his own daughter. And we know as we'll see, he got very angry with his daughter about the Allahu Allah because of what happened. Then Arman went on relating the story and said, We The People of Qureshi used to have authority over our women. But when we came to live with the answer, we noticed that the Saudi women have the upper hand over their men.

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So our women started acquiring the habits of the Ansari women. At that time, I was residing at the house of Romania, Ibn Zayd in an hour. Once I got angry with my wife, and she talked back to me, I disliked her answering me back. So think about the fact that if your wife answers back to you, people much better than you.

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Their wives answered them. So don't be too idealistic and say a woman should never answer

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her back to her husband and this and that. Yes, this is ultimately what they live for. But it's a reality and it happens all around the Allah Juan and his wife answering back to him and someone even better than the hammer of the Allah Allah.

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She said, Why do you dislike me talking back to you by Allah the wives of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam talk back to him. And some of them may not speak with him for the whole day until nightfall.

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This destroys

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a destructive idealism that some of us have about marriage.

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idealism is great.

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But don't let it destroy your marriage. Be idealistic in the sense that you want to have an ideal marriage, a happy marriage, a good marriage, a good relationship, a an exemplary relationship, excellent. This is the way you should be to aspire to be like Prophet Muhammad SAW send the best to his family, as he said about himself. But sometimes we have an idealism that may destroy the marriage, because you are always having such high expectations and lofty expectations. And you never get to those expectations. And then you end up arguing and having all kinds of debates and problems and so on.

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Prophet Muhammad wa salam, you see his life. It's very, I mean, it was an ideal marriage. But it wasn't without problems. There's no such thing as marriage without problems, or relationships without problems. It's most normal for people to differ. And this is if they see each other once a week, much less to be in front of each other on a daily basis. And this is most normal, live with these issues, and take them lightly and it goes back to the wisdom of Prophet Muhammad Salah in that when he had told his wife not to speak, and then she went and told his secret. When he came back. He didn't hold her accountable for everything. He mentioned some and he left some as we talked about

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the last

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the last time so overlook, problems overlook, just let it go. Ignore it as if it didn't happen. And indeed, maybe very soon you will find it was like nothing happened in the first place.

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Then I want to have fun. This is Omar speaking. Do you talk back to Allah's Messenger? She said yes.

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I asked, Does any of you keep Allah's Messenger angry all day longer tonight? She replied, Yes. I said, Whoever among you does, this is a ruin losing person.

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Doesn't she fear that Allah may get angry for the anger of His Messenger SallAllahu sallam, and thus she will be ruined. Don't ask Allah's Messenger too many things and don't retort him in any case, demand from me whatever you like, and don't be tempted to imitate your neighbor, who's her neighbor.

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Hi, Shalabi Allahu Allah, right? We were always together, there was some competition between them. They are the daughters of the two greatest Imams I would welcome an Omar

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don't be tempted to imitate your neighbor for she is more beautiful than you and more beloved to Allah's Messenger, the new human ties. And I'm sorry, neighbor of mine. And I'm not gonna mention any stop to mention all the wisdom and lessons from the Hadith will never finish. So I'll try to just read it. And some of it is obvious, some of it may be less obvious. I ended I'm sorry a neighbor of mine used to visit the province of Salem interns. He used to go one day and I another day, when I went I would bring him the news of what had happened that day regarding the revelation. And when he went he used to do the same for me.

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In those days, it was rumored that these are some tribes were preparing the horses to invade us. My companion went and returned to us at night and knocked at my door. I came out to him he said that a great thing happened. I asked him what is it have a son come? This is what they were focusing on the coming of Assam, an external enemy coming to invade them. He replied that it was worse and more serious than that. Adding the Allah's Messenger SallAllahu Sallam had divorced all his wives, Allah.

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I said Hafsa is a ruined loser. I expected that that that would happen someday. Notice I just want to comment on this one. How they held Prophet Muhammad wa sallam, his happiness, his family life, his house and his wives above the invasion of the Sun.

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This is something great the sun are we their Arab neighbors?

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who are loyal to the Romans, and they were afraid of their invasion. To them. The House of Prophet Mohammed bin Salman was more important and more serious. This is how much they loved

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and revered him and felt responsible for him. So to them, this was a bigger issue. Prophet Muhammad SAW Selim divorced his wives. This is something the messenger it means there's something going on in the house of Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam between him and his wives and so on.

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he's says, I dressed myself and I performed the sub, the Federal prayer, I went to have sought and found her weeping. I asked her has Allah's Messenger divorced all of you? She replied, I don't know. He is there alone in the upper room. he isolated himself given up a room, Sal, Allahu Allah, he Well, he was, I went to the upper room and asked a black slave of the Prophet salallahu salam to ask for his permission to see me. And the boy went in and then came out saying, I mentioned you to him, and he remained silent. I then went out and came to the member, and found a group of people about it, and some of them were weeping.

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I sat with them for some time, but could not endure the situation. So I requested to the boy will you get the permission for Allah. In other words, when he was silent, he didn't even give permission to say Muhammad Ali Allah, though even in the description of Prophet Muhammad wa salam, Abu Bakr, and we're like, the sight and hearing his eyes and ears.

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I saw he says, I requested will you get the permission for him? He went to end and then came out saying, I mentioned you to him, but he did not reply. So I went to the member and sat with the people who are sitting by remember, but I could not bear the situation. So I went to the boy again and asked for permission. He went in and got the same reply as before the issue serious.

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When I was leaving, Behold, he called me saying Allah's Messenger has granted you permission. So I entered the prophets rooms are salaam greeted him with the salam and saw him laying on a map, without bedding on it, and the map of left its mark on the body of the Prophet sallallahu.

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I said, Have you divorced your wives? Oh, Allah's Messenger. He raised his eyes to me and replied No.

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I said Allahu Akbar.

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Oh, Allah's Messenger. We the People of Quraysh used to have the upper hand over our women. But when we came to Medina, we found the people whose women have the upper hand over them, our women started learning this behavior from them. Once I got angry with my wife, and she talked back to me, so I disliked that behavior from her and she said, Why do you dislike that I talk back to you by Allah, the prophets wives talk back to them, and one of them would ignore Him the whole day of the night.

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I said to her, whatever does this among them is the ruined loser. Does she feel safe from Allah getting angry with her on account of his messengers anger?

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In that case, she would be ruined on that the Prophet SAW Salem smile.

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I then said O Allah's Messenger, I went to have silence to her, Do not be tempted to imitate your companion. Aisha, for she is more beautiful than you and more beloved to the Prophet. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam then smiled again.

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When I saw him smiling, I said, Does the messenger feel calm?

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He said, Yes. So I sat down and cast a glance at the room. And by Allah I couldn't see anything of importance, except three heights. I said, invoke Allah, O Allah's Messenger, to make your followers prosperous, for the Persians and the Byzantines have been made prosperous and given worldly luxuries, even though they do not worship Allah. The Prophet SAW, Selim sat upright and said, Oh, in the pub, do you have any doubt? In other words, do you have doubt that this is the truth from Allah? These people have been given rewards of their good deeds in this world only.

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It means they have been hastened their good deeds in this dunya and they will have nothing. I asked the Prophet salallahu Salam, please beg Allah's forgiveness for me or Allah's Messenger. The prophets of salaam swore that he would not go to his wives for one month

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because of his severe anger towards them, until Allah the Exalted and Most honored censured him.

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Al Bukhari Muslim at Tirmidhi and unnecessarily also collected this hadith using various various chains of narration and so on.

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Al Bukhari and Muslim also collect

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threat from imminent Ambus. Who said, this is an addition? For a whole year, I was eager to ask

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about an iron for a whole year. Brothers and sisters, he's holding it and himself this whole year did not dissuade him from asking this question. It was in him, he wanted to ask him, it was so important that it was with him for a whole year. And it did not reduce his enthusiasm to ask Prophet Muhammad said about this. And a whole year, it means he was that

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shy to ask, say that

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question for a whole year SubhanAllah? You No, no.

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We think about something for half a minute. It stays with us for a few minutes. And we want to ask the ship. But the ship is talking to someone. So we say, forget it. Subhanak? Isn't that true? I've seen it. Some brothers or sisters and so on. They have a question. Maybe they really want to ask it. But they don't have two minutes of patients to shake hands busy with someone, when they fire up, they leave they go. They maybe they forget the question. They never get their answer. Or maybe they don't have to get it from him. Maybe they have to get it from someone else. But for some people, maybe this is their chance. And they feel they want to ask them only they don't have five minutes of

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is waiting for a whole year to ask him this question. It is that serious for him. And this is why even ambassador of the law was who he was humbled. This, this this man whom Allah subhanaw taala taught, and on Prophet Muhammad Salah Salem talks.

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The ones who want knowledge, need to be patient, need to be serious about going after knowledge.

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And need to go after that knowledge. This knowledge will not necessarily come seeking you. You need to seek it out. Go and open the books one by one and go through them. If you don't find anything, be patient. Go and look in another book, you might find something, let just flip a few pages and don't find the answer. Close it and put it back on the shelf. Go and look open another one a second and the third and the fourth. If you don't find it, go ask a shake machine doesn't know ask his ship.

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Go on the internet. Look at some decent

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fatwah website, let's say or something else keep searching you might find it. Scholars used to search for days and months. How do you think the scholars gave us this? It was just genius. It wasn't just genius. They went after knowledge they sought knowledge.

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Brothers and sisters wala Yanni the the situation of Islamic knowledge nowadays is very sad.

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And the situation of people going after that knowledge is even seller.

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People don't care about anything if you start talking to them about the latest Nokia phone, you will find they know everything, the details on the specs and when it was manufactured and what kind of god knows what. But you ask them the simplest question about Sharia and you find they don't know. It said it said well, like. I mean, especially at a time when lessons are so easy. And Islamic knowledge is easy to come by. People have you have lessons you have microphones. With these microphones you can reach 1000s How come some Islamic lessons, though they may be four important scholars, you'll find 710 People Subhanak era with today's capabilities, there should be 1000s there

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were 1000s when they didn't have these capabilities. You asked me how that information reached the 1000s behind them.

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How they didn't have mics, what did they used to do?

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Now someone repeats it. This is this is a real lesson and Islamic lesson just like they do in the Haram one there

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when he repeats after the share. So here you would have like several circles, right? And then one person would take that information, word for word from the show, take it to the next group that didn't hear and then someone there would take it to someone else and so on. And of course people don't memorize not like you and me. We forget everything after we leave from the lesson. They remembered things and they passed around they transmitted in the best way.

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Sorry for that tangent.

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They had these.

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He says I asked I waited for a whole year and I was eager to ask him out and so on. However I hazard hesitated out of respect for him. And once we went on a hunt strip and I called our company

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Add him and so on and the rest is pretty much the same.

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So there we are brothers and sisters, this is all related to this idea. And one of the wisdoms we get from this hadith is the noble character of the Imam, when he is asked about an issue, and the Imam continues to elaborate

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and clarify.

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Nowadays, you might ask someone that she has color a question, and he'll just give you the answer yes or no. He might not give you evidence, he might not continue and give you more. It was the way of the knowledgeable to not only answer the question but to add to it also.

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When I best didn't ask about this.

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So now Allah the Allah gave him the whole story.

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I told them things maybe even our best wouldn't have dreamed of having

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and this is what you get when you go to the scholars and you go to the Imams. And this also the Sunni evidence for this is in the Hadith, the Prophet Muhammad Salah Salem, when they were asking when the companions have asked about the permissibility of making loot from the water of the oceans

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so when the Prophet Muhammad Salah Salem so you answered who uphold Roma and shalom later

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that its water is pure, it is pure for making ablution and so on. I'll show you later to and it's Mater meaning the dead animals the fish is Hello

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did they ask about the fish know nothing about later we're just asking you about the will do is it can we make will do from the ocean. So he added them he added more and this and scholars of Hadith refer to this hadith when they're referring to this benefit giving people even more than what they asked for. And this is what also an inshallah attracts people to Islamic knowledge.

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This is regarding the idea that we were reading

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Perhaps his Lord if He divorced you on, would substitute for him wives better than you.

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submitting to Allah

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submitting to Allah believing, devoutly obedient, repentant, worshiping and traveling

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once previously married, and virgins.

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This is also

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this is scary for the Mothers of the Believers. They love you please pleased with them.

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Because this is loud referring

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the possibility of Prophet Muhammad wa salam divorcing his wives, and nothing is more disastrous for a woman to hear them this word.

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And especially the wives of Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sana, this is scary.

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The possibility of Prophet Muhammad wa salam divorcing his wives, and not only that, that Allah will grant him better.

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But Allah subhanaw taala will grant him better wives, and he even gave the description of them

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What's the wisdom?

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Yes, it's an incentive for them how they should be.

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And there's a popular saying right, when I'm speaking to you, but technically I'm saying it so that the person next to me hears it.

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That Allah subhanaw taala may replace the house or send them with better wives whose qualities are these? It means be like this. Right.

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And also,

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to show that it is a reality.

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that Allah subhanaw taala may indeed replace him with better wives whose qualities are these he didn't just say he mentioned what the qualities are beautiful qualities that's what

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I'm getting to give me time

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what are the qualities submitting to Allah?

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obviously was the man right?

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submitting to Allah subhanaw taala believing what means that if they're Muslim at a minute

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are they the same? Are they different? Islam and Iman we discussed this right

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see how much we forget it is a different that is why it is mentioned that's all but what is the difference

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so which is more general

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Muslim, which is higher in status

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right Iman is higher than Islam. Can you give me some some evidence?

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Everything's in is with evidence in Islam.

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only told me no. But I can tell you as lamina Baraka logic, right?

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That one the nomads said we believe some of the nomads so to have Maha Sangha, we believe right?

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I'm gonna say you have not believed. They said we believe or master of Allah, He said, See, you have not believed. But say you have become Muslim you have submitted it means

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your mind is better than Islam. The man has a higher status he might take style Islam.

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We can summarize as practically implementing Islam, if someone prays and

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pays the car and does hjem person so on things which are apparent we call them a Muslim. But can we necessarily call them a movement? This is something else. Eman is many levels and the man increases and decreases as we know and so on. So this is something an event is something that is we work on our whole life. It's a lifetime journey. increasing one's face.

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Okay, what's the minute

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What is What does Canada mean?

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Obedience, obedience, obedience to Allah. Obedience to the messenger, Salah Salem, obedience to their husbands. Okay, this this is connote contacts and this is a great quality of anyone.

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repented, of course to Allah subhanaw taala worshipping, be that right? worshipping Allah azza wa jal, it's clear, sir, a hat traveling. And then you'll see the footnote denigrating for the cause of Allah. Here, they neglected the other meaning usually in this translation, they'll give you both of the meanings.

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So it had technically comes from See ya. See ya ha, as we know, on the modern term is tourism. But it doesn't make sense in this particular place. Right? Tourism doesn't have to do, sir it has here means journeying.

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And journeying

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in the strict Islamic perspective, journeying to see the wonders of Allah, to see the morals of Allah to see or to emigrate for the cause of Allah. This is also a meeting so it has meaning why Jihad emigrating for the cause of Alaska, as many of the women did when they migrated from Makkah.

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journeying to see the

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places that Allah subhanaw taala where Allah subhanaw taala had destroyed some of the past nations.

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Scholars differ a lot on this term,

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a very popular opinion and one that Evan cathedra supported is that sir a hat means saw event it means fasting.

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So it has meaning fasting, fasting much.

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And not only even caffeine, many of these

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and many of the companions seven

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that site has been saw.

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So it couldn't be either of the two, either fasting or emigrating for the cause of Allah and journeying for because of Allah subhanaw taala whatever that may be.

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In Imam Jamal, vino Kasumi, one of the greatest scholars in Syria,

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his opinion is that this is referring to migrating for the call of Allah. And he wrote Allah supporting that opinion, and that it is not fasting and that it means emigrating and journeying for the cause of Allah subhanaw taala. And his evidence is that most of the verses that instruct us to go out and see and take heat

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are not necessarily restricted to the men who will see you Phil fungerer okay for kinda awkward, but

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is this referring only to the men, he says, No

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journey in the land, and see, I knew the consequences,

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or the the ending results for those who disbelieved and so on. These things are not only for the men, it is also for the women. This is the opinion that he gave it he supported with such evidence. Therefore, it cannot be only for the men it is also for the women that this car has. This is not tourism for the sake of tourism. This is tourism or going out and journeying for the cause of increasing one's faith and coming closer to Allah subhanho wa taala. And then of course, a big portion of it is migrating for the cause of philosophy Matata, and Allah knows best, which is the actual meaning. It also means that it is a great quality of the wives of Prophet Muhammad sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam said it had it for you, but welcome for you built in webcam.

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Why did he mention teddy bear to occur?

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Who was not not married before? So that's his only one. The only unmarried wife of Prophet masala all of the rest.

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Were married before.

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Take this to the ignoramuses who tell us the Prophet Muhammad wa sallam married because he loved marrying and it was only for his desires and so on. If that is the case, by Allah, would he marry the already married

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and all of his wives are like this except one. And the restaurant have all been married before.

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And their their husbands died or they were

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divorced or something else. It's not the case Prophet Muhammad Salah marry them, because there was a wisdom and a lesson and very many times a social benefit to that wife of Prophet Muhammad Salah lives and married her. This is Prophet Muhammad.

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It is also

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to remind them, that Allah subhanaw taala can replace him with many and with most types

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for you, but it will occur.

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is there a world

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virgins, previously married, and virgins, but you don't have an between the rest? You just have commerce.

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And this is correct. Even in the Arabic, this is the way it is. There's no end. It's just the way usually it's described in English with commas, believing devoutly obedient, repentant, worshiping and traveling.

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Actually worshiping should not be an travelling, worshiping comma traveling right?

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Once previously married, and virgins, and in that case, the end would only be in that last one. Why does it come out?

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Which one

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right, exactly.

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Right. Baraka Luffy this is the this is the reason for the while the brother was saying almost the same thing that all of these qualities are available in all of the women.

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It's not that some of them have a weakness and some of them have have the other one. They all have all of these qualities.

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And this is why he didn't put well.

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In other words, they all have those qualities. But then he added them all because they can all be unmarried and virgins at the same time. So you put the wall

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And this is the there was the behind it. And there are other opinions. And there's a big debate about this wall and what it means linguistically, I won't go through it, but there is something and it is

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a concept, if you will refer in with reference to this world, and what it means. And they gave other verses as examples of it and so on. But it is wisdom Subhanallah, that all these qualities can be in all of the wives, and that all of them have these qualities.

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Didn't Prophet Muhammad wa salam divorced his wife?

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Did he marry anyone else after the nine that he had all at one time?

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Did he

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know these are his wives? And Allah subhanaw taala said to us

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and we said before as

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perhaps when it comes in the Quran, when Allah subhanaw taala says it, it is not perhaps

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it is certain.

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And yet he didn't marry anyone else. It means these are the best wives that Prophet Muhammad can have.

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It means these are the wives who have these qualities. As you were asking brother, these wives have these qualities. Say that I shall see the Hafsa Bobby Allahumma. So in a soda and Habiba Salem,

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they are the wives who have these eight beautiful qualities on it that

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can't get into it, but I did that. So I have for you guys who have cut all of these things, the wives of Prophet Muhammad, Salah, they have these qualities, and they are the best, because Allah said perhaps, if he divorced you, you would substitute for your wives better. It means there is no better than this.

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Otherwise he would have replaced

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but there are no better than these wives. And these are his wives, at least as we had mentioned. So the I shouldn't say that apps are the same ones mentioned in this is whom Allah subhanaw taala is coming to repent, they are revised the Prophet Mohammed Salah in paradise, Allah chose them for him in this dunya and also in an accurate as the authentic hadith. Tell us

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with regards to this area, we also have the beautiful hadith of say the armor of the Allah Han

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where he says.

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He says, that often, a lot of the Lord says about himself, often when I talked.

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All praise is due to Allah.

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He is saying that it is from Allah subhanaw taala and not from myself. I hope that Allah will testify to the words that I uttered. And so the idea of this the clinic, giving the option

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to the wives was revealed, where Allah said, maybe his Lord, if he divorces you, will give him in your place wives better than you?

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He said, I said, O Messenger of Allah, have you divorced them? He said, No. And then he says, I stood at the door of the masjid and called out of the top of my voice, the Messenger of Allah has not divorced his wives. It was on this occasion that this idea was revealed.

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What either

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will help you

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when any matter pertaining to peace or alarm comes to them, they broadcast it. Whereas if they would refer it to the messenger and those who have been entrusted with authority among them, those of them who are engaged in obtaining an intelligence would indeed know what to do with it. It means that their loved one was one of those who knew what to do with it.

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people, as Hadith mentions, people were sitting, and they were.

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They have sticks in their hands. And they were basically playing around with it in the sand. Usually, this is a signal or indication of what

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No, not exactly.

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They're they're just they have the stick or something and they're moving it in the sand.

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Yeah, but once an indication of

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yes, some indication of thinking or some grief, or worry.

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They were worried because they had heard Prophet Mazar send them divorced his wives. So they were worried it was bothering them, and they were just sitting in the masjid. It was as if they were helpless. They were in despair. Prophet Muhammad wa sallam divorced his wives.

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And that's why a lot of the other one went to save them Homosassa to ascertain the manner and when he found that it wasn't the case, he came out and gave them the glove, I think, Prophet Muhammad did not divorce his wives.

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And therefore, he was he properly investigated the matter, he understood, and he knew what to do with this information. That's the only the area mentioned. And therefore, this is one of the

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this is one of the situations where Allah subhanaw taala revealed versus confirming what so, you know, a lot of Allah said, and this is a great

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privilege and honor for Serena villa, which others did not have.

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And this is also taught by Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu himself, he told us that feed now,

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he said that if there was a mohawk

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it in this OMA

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someone that

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Allah subhanaw taala spoke to or inspired words to it will say now,

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this was one of the situations there are others. Can you tell us about some

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the hostages are better

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anything else?

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Situations where what he said

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versus came to confirm

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the veiling hijab welcome Luffy.

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I'd heard it also recorded that Anna said, Omar said the wives of the Prophet SAW Selim were all jealous for his affection. And I said to them,

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I saw a boo Impala Kahuna and new villa was watching.

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Like the verse came exactly

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thereafter, this item was revealed Allah.

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This is a man who people have the audacity to even criticize.

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And in one situation, one of the wives got angry and said Now Hello, and why are you advising the wives of Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and the Quran came and confirmed indeed what he had to say.

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This was when my dear brothers and sisters this issue where Prophet Muhammad wa sallam abandoned his wives. It was when

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as the saying of Imam Katanga, he says that this happened when he had all nine wives with him.

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This means it was after he had married his last wife.

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One imam of capsim

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places this incident sometime between the sixth and seventh year injury

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after these as well many Kaurava and after hazard and so on.

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Were profitable has also abandoned them. Of course,

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the Hadith that we had mentioned before

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when I had seen what had happened, and how Prophet Muhammad Salah had abandoned his wives, it came to his knowledge that they were asking Prophet Muhammad wa salam for more nasaka

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He was asking, they were asking how salaam to spend more on them. And they had asked him things that were

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beyond his capacity. And in another authentic narration, it mentions that Abu Dhabi hola Juan, to cache Abdullah Juan and

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grabbed her violently and say nama Golan, say they have no no longer violence.

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Because when they knew that they were asking Prophet Muhammad salah, beyond his capacity,

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and it was because of that, the Prophet Muhammad wa salam got angry, and declared that he would not come near them for Hallmark.

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And this is precisely what he did. And he came back to them at 29. And in one narration, adventures with the addition of the Alana talk, Prophet Muhammad wa salam, o problema, you said a month, he said the month is 29 days, it means this month is 29 days, and the period is over. And he has abandoned himself in this upper

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room of sorts. And another Hadith tells us that Salam had hurt his leg that time when he was coming off of his horse, and he abandoned them. And he stayed there for 29 days. And he had taken this youth robber as a

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as a guard for him,

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as in the rest of the

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29 days, he had abandoned them. And after that, when it was finished, he came to see the actual the first one and it shows her status, and he gave her the option.

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You have to make a decision.

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Prophet Muhammad, Allah,

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Allah subhanaw taala.

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Or a dunya.

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Make your decision.

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This verse is where?

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Right? Yeah, you wanna be

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only as well as you can continue to retina and higher than dunya was in Africa. The another versus when content network demand Allah, Allah, Allah, we're down

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to the end of the verses.

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It is mentioned in this world that he somehow Salem was told to give his wives this option. Scholars different, was he giving them the option of dunya or Acura?

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Or was he giving them the option of marriage or divorce?

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Because this could also be the meaning. Because if they had chosen

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a dunya, then maybe they are choosing

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And that's why it's called was different on this issue. And there's a lot of fix, which we won't get into, about whether it is divorce, when the husband says to his wife, you have the option

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of dunya or Akira, or you have the option of divorce or staying married and so on.

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Did any of the wives choose? Dunya?

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No, they all chose Allah and His messenger.

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And this shows their status. And the first one who chose this is

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Nina Hi.

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An hour mother Aisha.

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When she answered yes what you told.

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She said don't tell any of your other ones. Well, I chose

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she's hoping that don't choose. She chose Allah His messenger. She's helping the restaurant choose how much they have jealousy and how much they loved but mouths are selling. And this is why she says about herself in another narration, that when Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam sometimes used to choose one woman over another or to give time to one woman over another

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because he was

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tired, he was given the option sometimes that he can go to the wife that he wants to go to. When he would ask

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the wife such as say that I shall have the law on her. She would say to him, if you leave it to me,

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I would never choose anyone over you. In other words, it would be my turn all the time. Right? But it was not up to them.

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This is how much they love being with bottom outsourcing. So she chose Allah and His messenger and the hell. She didn't want anyone else to know what was Arsalan did not go after that. And they said No, Allah subhanaw taala has sent me as a giveaway of ease.

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So he told them, when they asked, What did I

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choose? He told me and in fact, when he gave her that option, which do you choose? He said, You don't have to be in haste until you consult your parents

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On that said, Is this something that I need to consult my parents about? What will my parents command me to do anyway?

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Right? Are they going to Command her to be profitable? How's, God forbid, but this was what is called

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at the field one in okay, this happened after he had abandoned his wives for the 29 days, for which he abandoned them. And then he came back to them. And we said that this shows that they weren't the best. They chose only Allah and His Messenger of the Aquila and the pleasure of Allah Subhana Allah and His Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and that they were the best that Allah subhanaw taala had promised in the Quran, who had those beautiful qualities that he mentioned in the Quran? How long?

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Back Allah Subhana Allah, Masha, Allah, Allah and the staff you will find

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that there was groupism involved that all the wives it is no, they will not individual in demanding something.

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What was it like?

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No, in this situation, they were all asking for this. And this is why whenever the ken Coleman had come in, in the Hadith, it says that they weren't they were allowed. They were sitting around him and asking, it means all of them were asking for more for more spending and what's collected and this is why he abandoned them all.

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You know, when you when you are when you are wanting your needs in a collective manner.

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It is like putting

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stress on pressure. Definitely. Definitely. It was more serious. Yeah, sure. So it is mentioned

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that they work together. Yeah, it wasn't one or two. All of them were asking for one.

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This is January famous incident that happened. They were asking for more spending and this is that's why the Prophet Muhammad SAW Selim abandoned them okay when he got angry. And

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this is why eventually you gave them that option.

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Do you want dunya Russia, the life of Prophet Muhammad Salim was not easy.

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You and I cannot live that life unless we really try and we

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strive otherwise.

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For him, he did not

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enjoy a full meal, maybe two in a row or two days in a row.

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And this is why some of the pious generations when they describe zoo hunt,

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they said it is to be full one day and to be hungry the next. So can do this every other day. They live their life, difficult life

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and 2323 years he had to achieve what he needed to achieve. And let me conclude something about the verses that we had mentioned.

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Because this shows us

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when we talk about the wisdoms of having these verses, there are very many brothers and sisters, and one of the moment we have discussed others, but one of them that I want to stress is that this is the life of Prophet Muhammad wa salam. It's a real life. It's a real life. It's not something theoretical. Too many times Islam is in the books and it's not being implemented practically. And we talk about it, but we don't implement it here is Islam.

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In these verses, you few see the real married life of Prophet Muhammad Salah salah. His life is an open book for all of you and me to read, for all of the world to read, read about the life of pablo who was also as idealistic as he was and his wives work and as ideal as their relationship wants. Because if we talk about the relationships, the relationships between them, you will find it was a very ideal married life.

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When I travel villa, I'm gonna ask the Prophet Muhammad Salam, how is your luck for me?

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And he says, it's like a knot.

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You see, literally you can talk about the life of Prophet Muhammad Salah will say that I shall reveal the hunger as Allah as a love story, a love story which people wish for today. So in that sense, it was really ideal, but it shows you that having an ideal married life does not mean not having problems. There is no such thing as married without problems. It doesn't exist. Forget it. But idealism is how you deal with those problems.

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And here is the best of humanity of the males.

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To the best of humanity and the females,

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and they will read life issues, real life marriage issues. It's how you deal with those issues. This is what makes your relationship ideal. And this is the person of Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and also to lesson for all and especially in the callers to Allah.

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Don't let problems in your married life ever get in the way of

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this stuff Prophet Muhammad SAW send them from his dad.

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Then in effect, is that our course? Absolutely not. The hour continues.

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Shekinah Nadodi Rahim Allah, he has a nice saying he used to say, make your problems like stones in a river,

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with the river stop at the rocks. No,

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it will just find a way around it.

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So your problems may not stop, find a way around it, never let it stop.

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They never let it stop you from your aspirations or your ambitions are your goals have focused and maneuver around the problems or try to solve the problems.

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And similarly here, and really, it's amazing, I cannot understand how Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam achieved as much as he did with all of this, though you see how much he was a real human being. Allah subhanaw taala is showing you and he is recorded in his Quran to find until the day of judgment. He was a real human being with real life problems. Don't tell me Oh, he was probably or even have the problems that I have in my marriage. Subhanallah did you abandon your wife for 21 days?

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Has anyone done that raise your hand.

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If you're shining, you might not raise your hand. But I gather from the fact that no one raised their hand that no one did this.

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They were real life problems.

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It never stopped them. It never put them in despair. Life goes on. You fix those problems. With time those feelings go away. It's most natural. This is perfect my house I learned from him learn from him and the way he dealt with his problems rather than having an idea of marriage and just you know constantly reading out the instructions to your wife Garni parents you should be obedient and you should be this and this and there was a prophet Moussa Salah more ideal and this definitely, absolutely. That is true. But at the same time, try to apply that to yourself. Also the way you deal with your life. Right? At the same time, understand that there is realism involved, that we are

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human beings. And here's Prophet Muhammad salah. And we see that despite these problems, he was who he was. And he was known to always be smiling.

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Though he's holding these mountains of responsibilities on his shoulders, he has nine wives, he had this big problem, and he still wouldn't be. He is worshipping Allah subhanaw taala. His father will not stop him from worshiping Allah. And actually the opposite. Your problem should bring you to Allah is.

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In some situations, Allah will test you with problems because that's the only time you go to Allah. Isn't that true?

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When we're happy and everything's great, we're busy with the internet and with our Nokia's, and God knows what else and cars and other things but once a problem hits your your Allah please do give me this and do this and help me solve this and this and that. That's when we go to Allah subhanaw taala. If that's the case, expect more problems, because Allah wants you to go to him and submit to Him. So despite all of these things, Prophet Muhammad wa salam continued on his path.

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It's a lesson for all of us. It's a lesson in reality.

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Be learn from the example, the best example Prophet Muhammad Allah. And may Allah has peace and blessings be upon him, his life even these issues Subhanallah an open book people people reading about and talking about until the Day of Judgment SallAllahu

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No, it shouldn't be. Why

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he's referring to the verse of Psalm one Oh, you believe your Allah genuinely as he deserves to be here and do not die except instead of Islam. Not Imam because Iman is referring to

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Something that increases and decreases. And the man if you say and do not die, except in the state of iman, but the man has many different levels here is telling you beware of dying as a non Muslim.

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You see the difference? Beware of dying, as dying as a non Muslim. And you have to be like, this reminds you because the shaitan comes to you as your attorney.

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There are many authentic stories that happened to some of the pious generations of the Imams, and so on. Where am I the shape one comes to you before you die? And he's persuading you to become a Jew or a Christian? Well,

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because this is his last chance. So he comes with all his power

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to convince you because if he gets you now, and he persuades, you know, perfect, you're gone. And it was so simple. Just at the deathbed, he will come to you, beware. And this is why May Allah subhanaw taala grant us stability and firmness, even at that state. It's a difficult state. You've lived your whole life. Allah subhanaw taala has given you and has blessed you, and has given you the opportunity to worship Him and you have had your whole life

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to strengthen your Eman. You are coming to an ultimate test before you die, the chiffon will come to you with all of his power to persuade you otherwise, before you even remember this. Yeah, and you're gonna talk a lot while I come to the 11 do not die except instead of Islam. In another meaning do not die except instead of submission.

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submission to Allah because Islam means to submit to Allah subhanaw taala so if you are dying in a state of submitting to Allah subhanaw taala it means you will only die in the state which Jani is pleasing to Allah subhanaw taala on Islam and not on any other religion Allah Allah

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some opinions regarding the wife or the

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parents referring to us or something

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I've come across it I have read it but it is

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not very it's Yeah, Allah Allah Allah Allah

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I have read that but it's very I mean it's not to be mentioned and this is why I didn't mention because I have

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gone through so many seats and it was mentioned in only one yeah

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anything else

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