Message To The Urban Youth

Khalid Yasin


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For the opportunity to

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visit another city in Australia,

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the city of Adelaide

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We ask Allah subhanho wa Taala that what we are able to share is one out of brotherhood and naseeha

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and the companions of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam

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they heard him say, Edina naziha

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and they asked him

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nicely how to Lehman. He said Lila

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mollica Tavi?

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Well, it was all he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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while the amateur muslimeen were mad at him.

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He said some of the love and he was

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the dean. his advice and conformance

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and they asked him advice and conformance to home.

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He said advice and conformance to a law. It means to his to hate,

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advice and conformance to his book, it means to the

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advice and conformance to His Messenger. Some a lot of them it means to his Sunnah,

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advice and conformance to the leaders of the Muslims, and this is in their authority of the Gema.

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And then he said advice and conformance to the generality of the Muslims, and that means brotherhood, respect, cooperation. jarwin What ourselves

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the Hadith is a very profound one has been commented on by many other man fuqaha

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and we cannot do better than them.

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The verses of the Quran which we proceeded with a standard verses was the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he used to recite when he used to give world

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he used to say,

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after praising Allah subhanho wa Taala, sending salutations upon His messengers, a lot of them used to say about for in the ethical Hadees Kitab Allah. Verily, the very most truthful speech

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is the book of Allah subhanho wa Taala.

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And the best guidance is the guidance from the Sundar Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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And the worst of all affairs, meaning guidance, leading inclination, feeling following the worst, Masato is that which subverts those to

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deviate from those two.

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That he says boku mo, da da, da da. And whatever subverts or deviates from those two is a bit.

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It is a going astray. It is a novelty. It is adding something on to the dean after a loss it is perfect. We cannot add something to the dean for loss. It's perfect.

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draping the dean in decorating the dean. When a lawsuit is complete, we cannot break or decorate something which is complete.

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And then he says we're kulu Bedard and Delilah, and every draping, every decoration, every novelty, everything we add from our own feeling our own ideas and our own culture. It is a bit of the ladder are going astray.

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Allah subhanaw taala Mrs. Woman you Shrek been left

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by EDA and whoever associates partners with a loss upon what Allah they have went astray by a great distance. So the profits allows them also said

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every novelty in every fabrication is it going to stray? And every going straight is one of the paths that lead to the hellfire.

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Heather, this is the speech of Mustafa sallallahu Sallam who Assad must do

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is that the speech of Khalid speech of Mustafa sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam

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Allah subhana wa tada mentioned in the Quran Are you believe?

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See Allah subhanho wa Taala which the fear

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The consciousness hacker to hottie which is his exclusive right

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and do not die.

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Meaning Don't let death overcome you. And since no one has any control of that, it means fear law in every time in place, because you don't know when you will die tomorrow tonight whenever

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don't die, except that you are Muslims. This doesn't mean Muslim in the tongue. It doesn't mean Muslims in the food. It doesn't mean Muslim in the culture. It doesn't mean Muslim in the name. It doesn't mean Muslim in the culture. It doesn't mean Muslim and wearing something around your neck or some clothing. It means Muslim in your behavior and your consciousness. That's what he said.

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And then he says, Oh, you will believe

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fear Allah subhanaw taala lapu colenso Dida

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speak words which are straightforward and truthful. Don't lie. Don't deviate, don't deceive, don't fabricate don't lead people astray.

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Don't say something about the religion which you have no right to say what you have no knowledge about. colo Colin sadita said that means straightforward. concise, to the point, truthful, honest. If you do that Allah subhanaw taala says your slender Kumar medical.

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He will give you his display. He will make in your company, in your families, among your children, and your environment, in your community. In your own personal affairs. Allah subhanho wa Taala will give reconciliation, stability, your home and what matters and your actions, he will reconcile them for you in this life and in the Hereafter. On the day when you will meet Him He will reconcile them.

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We are feeling under overcome and something else which we need. He will also forgive our sins. When you see a lot of water salute advisor falls on our team and whomsoever obeys the laws Panama Allah and His Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, they have achieved a very great success.

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And Allah subhanho wa Taala he said, Oh, you believe?

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Yeah, you heard Dina Manu. Always the last panel is addressing us with this. Yeah, you hola Dina Amano, always in the Quran. He is not saying oh Muslims.

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Oh, you who have a contract of a man? Because a man is a man.

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Oh you who have a trust with Allah. Oh you who have a connection with Allah. O you who have a contract with Allah. O you who have a faith connection with Allah. O you who have struck a deal with Allah O you who believe.

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He says she Allah. Be conscious of Allah. Watch out. That's what he says. That's what he's saying to you. Be careful. Watch yourself, check yourself. Be mindful. Well,

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look, he says Subhanallah look at this as

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well. He says, look, look in front of yourself, looking back to yourself. Look at your own life. Look at your children. Look around yourself. Look to the present, look to the past. look to the future, while not so much.

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Look what you have sent forward for yourselves on tomorrow. subpanel Ah, look at this ayah

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he's telling you that if there is good, praise Allah subhanaw taala. And if there is other than good, you have nobody to blame but yourself.

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Because you have sent it forward. And he has given you the tools. So if you got all the tools the Lord gave demand the land, he gave him the seeds. He gave him the equipment. He gave him everything. He gave him good weather. He gave him the water. He gave him everything. But the man he didn't walk the land. He was having fun. He was sitting down smoking, bubbly, bubbly.

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He was dancing, singing.

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He was in the club. He was watching the television.

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They were enjoying themselves

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eating plenty of food costcos baklava blah blah.

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And while their children was growing up, and while their life was was was leaving them

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there was not looking around there was not making any preparations only there was doing for a loss upon what Allah on Friday, just maybe j go to the mosque. That's it. After absolutely go to the mosque, go back to whatever they're doing

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and the mosque remains dead.

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They hear his arm five times a day.

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And some of them had fractured.

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They don't even move.

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Nothing dead people. This is the Muslims today. Dead people, sick people, lazy people, criminal people. Allah subhanho wa Taala made us

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to despise people of the earth. So Panama.

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So he made us easy. pickins

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Allah lifted us up by this Deen you estimate your shadow, or you will do my yoga and he throws down by it.

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Why? Because we didn't listen. He said, one time though not so much. And look forward to what you set for yourself on tomorrow. What do you stand for ourselves on tomorrow?

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You sent you I saw the hat. That's all you have. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, When any one of you dies,

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when any one of you dies, and everyone will die. Last week, somebody died.

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There was a janazah around here last week, and the week before, and there will be tomorrow next week, people is dying.

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So he said, Look forward, look towards what you sent forward, what you sent forward. He said Somalia, Sudan when one of you dies, all things are cut off, everything is cut off, except for three things.

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One thing

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is the southern baton geria, which you used to give

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some something you did you built a mosque, you dug a well, you build a school,

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you helped an orphan,

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you facilitated the Muslims, you made some great sacrifice that people are going to use for now on. So this will be as you said about running geria.

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Awesome that you gained it, and you taught it and that and as a tree, it will continue to bear fruit for you. Because it will be at the moon. Now if you're young you will be

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then which you and others have benefited from which will continue for you. And the last one is, well I don't saw that.

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One I don't saw they had

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the son or the daughter or the grandson or the granddaughter whom you gave them knowledge. And they love the law and they worship the law. And because they love the law and the law love them when they may drive for you a lot accepted this drive.

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Everything else for you is cut off.

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So a lot of say look towards what you will send forward for yourselves on tomorrow.

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In the love abirami my time alone, and the law is heavier. That means he knows the secrets.

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In the Muslim countries, you know what is

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the secret service, everyone's afraid of the Secret Service.

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The Mahabharat

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they check in the phone lines, they check in your mail, they look in your houses, they check in what you're doing, and you're afraid of them. And even most of us ran away from those countries because those people was oppressing us. The government's was oppressing us to the Mahabharat

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Yes, I know that. I'm not speaking to somebody from the outside. If there are 23 different countries represented in this room, I've been to all of those countries and the most of the people who was run out by their own governments. It was not the kaphas it wasn't the British it wasn't the Americans that when the Germans it wasn't the French It was your own governments ran you out

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how a lot of disgrace the Muslims, he disgraced them by their own cells.

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So our last panel data is using the word the title one of his name's Elsevier.

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Because if you are afraid of the Mahabharat in your countries, are you afraid of the Mahabharat in this country,

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as IO or whatever the name might be?

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See, CIA, FBI, t w all whatever.

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If you are afraid of them, Allah said be afraid of me. Because he is the man.

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He is knowing all the secrets of why you did what you did.

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And he will hold you to account

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while at ACU gala dinner not so long of answer. Unfortunately, there are a lot

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Do not be like those people who they forgot about Allah. And so Allah cause them to forget about themselves. That you know

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how you ask the question, How can a Muslim forget about Allah?

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in the shops they have a lot of Mohammed

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some volumes that in the masjid, they have a lot written on them on the ceiling

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and their cars they have something hanging on the on the on the mirror. They have the core annual semi printed all over themselves

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could replace the name of allies every place. Everybody's named Mohammed Ahmed Fatimah, Abdul Kabir, Abdul Ahad Abdullah Abdul Rahman How could they forget about Allah subhanho wa Taala This is not what he means. He means they forgot the book of Allah subhanaw taala

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he didn't mean that they forgot how to recite the book. No, they forgot to implement the name of the book.

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So the book without the outcome is nothing

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you see is like this building with no floor, no walls, what is it? It's nothing. It will not disappoint you or not save you from that with no roof.

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The outcome of the call and the outcome of the Quran is the body of the Quran. It is what regulates the people to it. reading the book is nothing you can call it blessings you can call it whatever you've got a Decker Allah don't need no blessings. Allah don't need you to remember him. He said the Quran to regulate the human beings what are what what know what

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for Allah subhanaw taala is the hokum and for him as the camera so when he says to us, while at the kooky Latina Sula and do not be like those who forgot about a lot he means they forgot about implementing

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the law of Allah subhanaw taala among themselves, they became a lawless people are criminal people are selfish people, a personalized people are people who have religion over on one side and on another side they do nothing. So he said and another is another Sora

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Are you believe

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limita kolomela

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why you do why you say something you don't really do?

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Why are you crying in the tarawih prayer, you come to the to the to the title, we're proud.

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You're setting her arm all year. You're eating haraam all year. You're dealing with her arm all year, and even while you're in the mouth, your shop is open dealing with her arm and you're behind the Imam read listening to the Quran and you cry. The whole hour La quwata illa

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Muslims, this is our condition, every place when I speak about Adelaide, I didn't walk the streets I just got an hour ago.

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New York.

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Chicago, London,

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Paris, Rome, Copenhagen. Wherever the Muslims are. The Muslims have come to the west. Muslims have come to the other countries instead of they're bringing the Quran and the Sunnah. And the Islamic civilization and the law. Muslims is bringing

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crime Muslims is doing criminal actions. In every country where Muslims is residing as minorities, they are selling the most drugs

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they're selling the most alcohol

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they have it all they own all the belly dancing clubs.

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They're selling in all the shops, the for his magazines. They're selling the lottery tickets. All the stores that sell this most of them belong to Muslims.

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This is the same Muslims who will be here on Juma

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with their heads down telling you that it is time for solo solo Why are you talking so long as Solo Solo?

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arguing with each other about is the meat Hello or not Can we eat McDonald's can read from the supermarket Can we just can we debt arguing about fifth arguing about myth have argued about ideology This one is Salafi. This one chef a this one humbly this one this one is that

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but if you examine each one of them individually you will find they're living in houses they bought from river

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the driving in cars which they bought from the river

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they are owning businesses that they selling heroin

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So the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he came to some people who was doing that. And he said to them, no, don't feed, boo to him, fire in your houses, not on people tuning him, fire in your stomachs, and fire all around you. That's what he said to them.

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How can some people as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he said,

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a man he came to Allah subhanho wa Taala he came to the masjid. And he was holding his hands after making a long trip, whether it be the life or some journey, and he was asking Allah subhanaw taala for help. And he was saying, yada yada, yada yada.

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So the prophet SAW stem said, Well matana who haram?

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Well must rebel who haram?

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Well matter better who around? Well who they are bill hora. How can Allah answer him?

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His food is love unlawful, his drink is unlawful.

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His clothes is unlawful, and what he nourishes himself and his family from his unlawful. How can his robe answer him what he's asking for?

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And brothers and sisters, if you want to know what our condition is why a lot doesn't help us in Palestine. Why he doesn't help us in Kashmir. Why he doesn't help us and she shed why he don't help us in this place in that place and have replaced all over the world. He is helping those who believe everywhere, but the majority of the Muslims is receiving no help, because how can they call in a lot asking for help? When they are the ones who have discarded the dean.

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They forgot about the law. So he said what a Taku

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Do not be like those people who not so law transaero. So when they forgot about the law, the implementation of the law of Allah subhanaw taala for unsere home and foster homes, so they lost their own identity. And this is what has happened to the Muslims Not today. We lost our identity. We lost our way. We don't know who we are.

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The best thing we can call ourself is sudenly sumali, Afghani Turkey, Philistine, Pakistani, Hindi, Punjabi.

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as best we can call ourselves, we forget ourselves. This is not our identity.

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Our identity, this is the identity that the enemies of Islam gave to you.

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Allah subhanaw taala says was symmetrical muslimeen he named you as Muslims.

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This is a Muslim ummah.

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And the poison have come into the oma where Muslims start to see themselves according to a flag. According to a passport, according to some ethnic ethnicity, according to some language, according to some food and the first thing when Muslims come together, they want to know Oh, actually, where are you from? Oh, Mashallah. Mashallah you from Bangladesh?

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Or sister? Mashallah, are you from Afghanistan? Are you from Kashmir? They don't say the other thing is, I don't really like you. I will never be around with you. You will never marry my daughter.

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They don't say that. But that is what they are thinking.

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Because you will hardly ever ever find a Palestinian who will give his daughter to a Nigerian

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only because of color. For what maybe that Nigerian is better than his whole family.

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You will never find a Pakistani hardly ever a Pakistani will give his daughter to an adult

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or an adult give his daughter to a Pakistani

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or Turkish Muslim give his daughter to me.

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Why not?

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Receive ye from Allah subhanho wa Taala about Asia. radi Allahu Allah, Allah subhanho wa Taala he ordered him to marry Asia. Not from his desires. Allah subhanaw taala said he desired nothing, whatever he did is from Allah subhanaw taala.

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So then he came to overcome this Deacon said abubaker Allah subhanho wa Taala. He inspired me to ask you give your daughter to me. And at that time is only nine years old. So Pamela

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dello on how much he loved the profits or loss of them. He was not surprised he was not angry.

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The only question he said, he also lost the lesson but we are brothers.

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But the message of lost him said we let those kind of brothers.

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We are brothers in faith, but your daughter is Holland for me.

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Once Abu Bakar de la, went to his wife and knew that this was from where he's from a loss upon without a what was his response.

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He and his wife, they brought a shadow on her with her toys, with her toys.

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To the profits have lost them and said, homeschool philosophy, let her stay with you until she received the age under which you can fulfill the marriage with her.

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Sources stayed with the profits last time with her toys.

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And he gave her toys different names the horse with wings and this one over there. And they used to choose to play with them. And he runs with her and stay around her until the time came in which he could consummate the marriage with her.

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This is the Brotherhood in Islam.

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But we are far away from this brothers. We have lost our identity this would have lost dollars means when we forgot about the law. So Allah subhanaw taala causes us to forget ourselves. The Muslim world is lost. Where is Islam? Islam is in the Battle of the culture.

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And it cannot get out. Islam is calling let me out.

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Let me flow let me be free. Let the people see me.

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But the people with their culture, they are holding Islam prisoner. Islam is being held prisoner in the Battle of the culture. Islam is the prisoner inside the prison of the culture, the Arab culture, the Asian culture, the African culture, the European culture, the American culture, or every other culture. Islam is inside the prison. And the Muslim is the one who is holding the key.

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We Muslims, turn the key

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and let Islam out. Let it flow. And I will guarantee you something. All these people that are around you, when they really see Islam if they don't become Muslims, they will respect you.

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And the loss of pinata Allah will give you the properties all around you. I understand this is supposed to be the city of the churches, isn't it?

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They should add another name to it the city of the empty churches.

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Kenny safavi the father of the empty churches, how Allah He disgraced them. They built the churches,

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huge buildings.

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They just sitting there.

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And as I wrote from the airport, I even saw some signs say for sale.

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If the Muslims deal was strong in this city, we'll buy everyone if we will buy it, even if I just live in it.

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I just bought a home church for me and my family.

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And I put a musalla I put a school there. I just live in it until until we grew up and we develop the whole area. Muslims go out by every church.

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Not because we want to disgrace the Christians, but because those are houses of worship.

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And they should be maintained as houses of worship.

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And if they will not worship in their, we should worship in there.

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And if they will make shirk inside there, Allah Subhana Allah subhanaw taala brought them darkness from this shirt. We should bring the light of toe hate

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by the church and live in it.

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Four or five Muslims come together by the church split it up and live in different sections of it.

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Yes, because when you Islam becomes strong, not because of culture, but because of your Eman. If they don't accept Islam, they're going to respect you as they did in the past. And also you're going to find as I'm finding one out of 10 of the Australians in this country, if you talk to them and you have good behavior, one out of 10 is ready to take Shahada right now.

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Right now. You don't think so? Bring 100 of them tomorrow night. I guarantee you bring them bring 100 tomorrow night. Eight will take Shahada or six will take the Shahada or 15 may take the Shahada, the average I'm finding that among 100 people who you bring Islam to them and explain to them move the Muslims out of the way. Move the Muslims out of the way, move the misconceptions out of the way

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Leave the image of the Muslims away and let them see what Islam is. They want it.

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They want to be Muslims.

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And the last two and a half years, we have seen just to some lectures, more than 700 accept Islam here in Australia.

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Why? Because

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Because the loss of panel data this is his promise. This was the prophet SAW stems promise. What is the problem of the dour? The problem with the data is that the dour is stuck in a traffic jam.

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What is the traffic jam Muslim's

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the vehicle of the dour it cannot move because of the traffic jam with the Muslims.

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Let the Muslims get their cars and vehicles out of the way. Get those cultural stuff out of the way and the Dow will move. Maybe you are afraid that Allah will give this dour Allah will give this Amen. Allah will give this religion to someone other than yourselves and you wind up being ruled by some other people who are now Muslims.

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Because he promised us that that if you yourself do not practice this Deen Allah will bring another people who will love him and they will who will love him and he will love them.

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And this is how Allah subhanaw taala has progressed this Deen all throughout the history

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and Allah subhana wa says what at the Kunal Kela didn't know so love and so on and so on Allah he got home

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hola como, se Khun? They are they have become fast hip while they become facet. Because when the fudger avant is called from this mosque, how many Muslims have in this area? I don't asking you.

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What is on this call from this mosque? How many Muslims in this area here is getting up washing themselves coming here? This place is supposed to be full for fetcher.

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How many people is here for facha? You don't have to answer.

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Maybe 15, maybe 20.

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demands it three or four or five?

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La hawla wala quwata illa.

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This is what this is the evidence. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, you will know the Mona Phil Koon from my own mother from that time until now, because it is difficult for them to get up in the morning to pray fudger prayer,

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especially the men, they cannot come from their houses and come to the edge of prayer in the mosque.

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So how the Muslims want to fight jihad, you want to fight the Russians. You want to fight the Americans. You want to fight the British. You want to fight everybody you want to make jihad, but you can't beat the sheets.

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How are you going to beat the Americans and the British and all these people? How are you going to fight tanks? How do you want to die and go? How do you want to die you want to be a Mujahid you want to kill everybody. You want to establish Islamic State, but in the morning, you can't beat the sheets.

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And in the evening, you can't push away from the television or the dinner table and wash up and come to the mosque and pray. So the Prophet lost him said you will know the monastic wound from my alma because they are the people who they cannot pray the prayer and the Isha prayer in Jamaica.

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I'm not calling you Mona. I'm not calling anybody that. I'm going to give you the hadith of Mustafa sallallahu wasallam.

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So Allah subhanaw taala has called us Fassett.

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But we have a way out. We can change it.

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We can change our situation. And that's what I want to talk about.

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I understand that one of the major problems here in this city here is that we have a problem that young people are going astray.

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Young people are dancing and drinking and drugging and fighting and stealing and creating problems so that the police have to come to the mosque or to their parents and say you must control these children or otherwise we have to throw them in the jail.

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You have a problem where the young people do not respect their parents. Young people don't want to stay home. Young people want to do what they feel like doing and we cannot do anything about it.

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Because the young people have an identity crisis.

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They don't know who they are.

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They don't know if they are Australians

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or if they are Muslims.

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They have been to Australian schools. Learn the Australian values and culture

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You have named them at met Fatima, Mohammed.

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So and so you told them don't do this?

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They don't know why not.

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You told them read code and they never see you read it.

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You tell them to go to the mosque. When it comes to the mosque, they see nothing but a group of old men sitting down.

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Why should they come to the mosque? What do they see in the mosque? What do they do in the mosque, you pray 15 minutes and then after that, what they should do.

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Second thing is

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you have generation gap

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because the young people become rebellious. Because the young people have become loud and rebellious and they're no longer obeying their parents and they're not respecting the mosque. This is not so the older people said get out.

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Don't come back. We don't want to hear in the mosque. Okay, so you don't want them in the mosque? So the mosque is for the old people.

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And whether young people they in the street

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so the old people is inside?

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reading Quran making Salaam making Vicar Mashallah hamdulillah. But their children is in the street? Or if they're not in the street. They are in the house, maybe doing something worse than in the street? Yes. They're in the house watching the fish on the television.

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They're in the house.

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And they are on the internet. Your daughter's on the internet talking with Katherine in the chat rooms.

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Don't say no, not my daughter. Don't be foolish.

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Don't fool yourself until she become pregnant of unchi don't get pregnant and don't tell you she go and have an abortion. Because she could do that in Australia. She don't have to tell you.

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I'm counseling many sisters on the internet. They are ready to me on the internet and telling me what should I do about the situation I'm in? I'm in love with some Kaffir she's in Australia. She's in love with a cafe in America. On the internet, she never even saw him. You don't know she's a he's a gorilla. What is

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she fell in love with him on the internet. She don't even know who he is. He could be a rapist. He could be a serial killer. He don't know she don't even know who he is. But she's in love with this guy.

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And she'd been in love with him for a year and a half.

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To the point where she don't know what to do.

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She's thinking about running away and go to a market to meet him. All he's thinking about coming to Australia to meet her and what they got to do when they meet what you think after a year and a half.

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This is one of your daughters. Not one of your daughters but some Muslim daughter. And I guarantee you out of every 100 Muslims is at least five of your daughters who is doing some kind of like that and if they're not doing that they sent into SMS messages to other boys.

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All the sisters got mobile phones you know that? You know they got mobile phones just to be calling each other

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they send these messages now Bluetooth all that everywhere. The boys is right here right now. The sister upstairs brother down here they send a Bluetooth messages back and forth

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see you they don't even have to come to the house no more

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the technology and they know how to use the technology better than you could day is fooling around with the technology every single day Mom and Pop is still watching television. The kids are they don't get SMS they're watching stuff. mp3. They're watching videos on the on the phone. They don't even have to come to the house and watch television.

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They can watch for a while hitch from the internet right on their phones.

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Just delete the issue for a few minutes if you can. I won't come back for a year.

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You don't mind inshallah.

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Fine Habibi Sharma.

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So I want to talk to you brothers and sisters about some reality.

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I have 12 children, my last child Mashallah Abdul Hakeem was born in December. Maybe he will be a better Muslim than the rest of my children.

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But I have seven daughters. So don't tell me. I know what's going on. They're not angels. You know, sometimes they say the preacher's son, sons and daughters is the worst ones.

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So I know exactly what your daughters and sons are doing and know how they're feeling and what they're going through. And they are not all it is not all their fault. Some of the fault is that the parents have neglected them.

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So the fault is theirs because they are away with and now they are adults. The fault is out because we neglected them. So if we keep pointing at each other the son said dad is your fault. No son is your fault. They

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Just keep blaming each other. No, they should sit down and make reconciliation,

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laugh together, love together, cry together, work together, come to understand each other and try to resolve the problems and the differences to save their family to save their honor, and to save the community and to save the dean and the presence of Dean.

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If you if you don't do that,

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you will lose all your children one by one, even the good ones, you will lose them because they will lose their identity. After your daughter's graduate from the University, your sons graduate from university and go away Come back, they will be strangers, they don't know you and you don't know them.

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Brothers and sisters inshallah, I want to say a lot to you. I don't know how much time you have for me. We can play the slot to Asia, and may I don't mind to continue to talk with you if you have more time. If you don't have more time inshallah, I will end at this point now, and I asked the last $1 to give me the medicine of what I said if nobody else will take it

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100 a Rockefeller Salatu was to learn while I shuffle MBA.

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So long run he was

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he was heavy was was the woman whatever about

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brothers and sisters to continue my naseeha

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I want to tell you that if there is anything which is the most critical issue facing Muslims today,

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it is not that we Muslims, we do not have access to knowledge we do.

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Even though Unfortunately, most of the Muslims they do not have

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proper knowledge.

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Neither the fathers nor the mothers nor the sons or the daughters. They do not have the proper knowledge.

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Most of what Muslims

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understand about Islam is from culture.

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What they learned in the house what they learned just when they came to the mosque, what they heard, maybe they listened to a tape or lecture or something but they did not study Islam.

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So if you did not study Islam, how you will know Islam.

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Islam is not like the rain. It is not like something you just stand outside and you get wet.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala sent His prophets of love and he was Allah

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with the order you only mobile you Allah mahalo kita

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he taught them

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the Gita and the Hikmah.

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The Kitab is the Quran the heck was the Sunnah he taught them

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but in addition to just teaching them the Quran and the Sunnah, that is teaching them the Quran and also teaching them the sources of the Sunnah his behavior. Allah subhanaw taala, ordered the profits lost them and he said, also his job was Europe beat him for us the key

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Europe beat him by user key him.

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He cultivated them,

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he nurtured them.

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As we would cultivate and nurture our children, the prophets, Allah loves them, he cultivated and he nurtured the believers. That means watching them, monitoring them, talking to them, admonishing them, pushing them, pulling them, wanting them, encouraging them,

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you're up to him,

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to cultivate them, will use that getting him and also he reformed them.

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Use that key him he purified them from what from the J Leah.

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So Islam is a religion of

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and Islam is also a religion of Allah.

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And Islam is a religion of a man.

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But this L and this man and this animal, it cannot bind together. It cannot come together without test gear.

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Test gear

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every Muslim must apply the rules.

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have just gear to themselves and to the household.

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You cannot blame your children if they are going astray.

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Because if you see what they're doing in front of you imagine what they are doing away from you.

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And this is because you did not set the premise inside your house for the scale, the scale enough.

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Allah subhanaw taala mentioned in the Quran cadavre harmans aka wakad habermann Desa

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so successful is the one that makes test gear upon himself

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and ruined

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will be the one

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who allows

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themselves to become dentists.

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They become corrupt.

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Usually just through negligence.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala gave the Muslims the Salah five times a day. What did he says? In the salata? 10 La Mancha.

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Allah you don't need I was a lot we need it.

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When the Muslim doesn't pray he thinks that martial law is no big deal.

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Allah He knows my heart

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that just like saying you live in somebody's house it's no big deal the landlord he knows my heart

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It's like you live in your house and you don't pay the light bill Mashallah the light coming to you know, my heart

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There's no food in the house. So the mother she says Mashallah, Allah He knows our heart.

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You never repair your car, you know, put oil in the car, you know, put water in the car. You never changed the brakes. You never checked the tires, but Masha Allah, Allah, He knows your heart.

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The Salah is the same.

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The Salah for the believer is the maintenance check.

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When you pray five times a day, you are guaranteed a maintenance check.

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Because if you play the federal prayer, and after the federal prayer, you think about doing something wrong.

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And you start going towards it thinking about it, planning about it. And then before you know the outcomes,

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so you perform good you watch and you pray. This haraam action is gone for a moment after the hour later you start thinking about this haram action again.

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So you call the lady up you go to meet her other sister she go meet the brother for lunch and they already think about some haram action.

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So they meet and they talk in this next thing the answer comes

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so either they will continue their conversation of going towards this foolishness or they will pray so if they are both of them is more suddenly they'll say oh excuse me says I have to go pray. So you go pray. So that's how I'm actually inclination goes from him. And he continues that way until the Salah will overcome him. And Allah supplemental will write down for him a hacer net even for this bad intention.

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Why? Because even though he or she had the bad intention, they did not do it. Why because the salon interrupted them.

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And this is a blessing for the salon. What about the people will not make us a lot. The whole highway is wide open, no stops and it's all downhill

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and the television and magazines and the newspapers and the billboards and the music and everything is facilitating for you.

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So those of us who are not make this a lot you have no chance in this kind of dunya Forget it.

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Don't even fool yourself is better for you to pack your bags, go back to your war torn country and stay death where at least the footage is not at this level.

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pack up your family and go back.

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You will never last.

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The only way you will last in this kind of society is minimally you are praying five times a day.

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Secondly, you are reading code and

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thirdly, you have built up a love for Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam.

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And the combination of these three gives you what is called duck wa

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duck walk taqwa and the person who has taqwa the closest they get to something which is haram. They feel like they've been driven into a fire.

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They thought about it You and I are

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Thinking about um things you know how your eyes see something your tongue even start salivating.

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You know, your ears hear something, then all sudden your heart stopped beating.

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You want it she want it whatever it is but because you have Taqwa you say so Pamela I stopped start for Allah the Howard I wanna quwata illa Allah. I'll start from la hora demon Columbian wa to Bulik

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la Illa inland sapan occur in the terminal dalemain like the Sahaba hood,

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Eunice la sera.

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So we Muslims, fathers and mothers, we have to start to apply to ourselves this gear. If you smoke inside your house, stop smoking, go outside the house and smoke go around the block and smoke. Don't smoke in front of your children because if you smoke they smoke. If you smoke cigarettes, they don't smoke reefer.

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If you smoking a happy, bubbly, they smoking a joint round a corner.

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I'm telling you the truth. Don't take it.

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If you're if you're drinking x beer, the beer is supposed to be 99.8%. Alcohol is out. That means you drink it to point to point to filth,

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impurity, intoxication, and ominous photography, low unsaid whatever intoxicates in a large amount is haram in a small amount. So the people who is drinking beer you're drinking, you're drinking from

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only the only thing there's only point oh 2% combo. It's like saying I'm drinking some water but only one drop of urine inside.

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It's the same thing. There's no difference. So if you are doing these things, if you are gambling, and your children know you gambling, you go out and play the lottery, and your children know it, they're going to gamble only thing, they're going straight, they're not going to be playing the lottery. They're going to the gambling house, the real place. Good to get the dancing girls to get everything that we can fool around going down the street.

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Cut off the music inside your house. If you listen to music, your children are going to The Club.

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If you curse your wife and your wife Curse you,

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your sons and daughters will never have any respect for each other.

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We have to reform ourselves.

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If it takes a year or two or three or four, one day at a time, we have to reform ourselves, you will find your children coming back to you and you coming back to your children and that gap. That generation gap starts to become like this here until father and mother daughter and son. All of them they start to coming back and closer together until you start eating your dinner together. Because what has happened to the Muslims, the same thing what has happened to the Australians, McDonald's, Burger King, Pizza Hut so forth. You don't even eat dinner together anymore.

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Your families have been destroyed.

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Your mother she's cooking the food. But by the time you get home, you already had pizza.

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You had Burger King, you had McDonald's, or you have some Chinese food or whatever you had. This is Okay mother no problem. No Nevermind.

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And dad, he was on his way from from work. So he was rushing. He got there late so he had said something. So after a while what happened to family has disappeared.

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Fatima is in her room watching her television and was in his room watching his television. Mom and Dad got a television inside a room. And there's another television room for the guy in the living room for the guests.

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And I met his got his door close. Fatima got her door closed and mom and dad got a door close. So they'll shut each other off with the television.

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You don't know what I'm inviting was watching all night long.

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Now they got the computer knowledge on the internet. And mother and father don't even know how to use it.

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So we got so many things happening, that if we don't control it, it is controlling us and we have lost our children. We have lost our way and we have lost our Deen

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and Allah He knows we have become Australian Muslims instead of Muslim Australians.

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We should be Muslims who live in Australia, not Australian Muslims, that is Muslims who have become dominated by the culture of Australia or America or France or Europe or anyone else. No Islam first. Always Islam first.

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Our Islamic consciousness has been reduced to rituals. That's why our children they don't want

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To come to the mosque because they only see us doing some rituals in the time of the Prophet. So last name, the masjid was the place where the sadaqa and the Zakah was collected and distributed.

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So people who had the need would come to the mosque and receive and those who had it would come and give

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the but we're not collecting and we're not distributing

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the moss was the university, anyone who had to know about anything, and the knowledge about Islam, the place of fatawa, the place of the place of Tafseer.

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The place

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for the poor people. The mosque was the place they came to eat to rest.

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Even they were never a Muslim homeless person, never should have Muslim homeless person be left to go among the cafes and sleep and eat someplace, never. We make a place for that homeless person. Somewhere among the Muslims. The prophets, a lot of Islam there was one woman, a black woman.

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She was homeless, so he pitched a tent for her inside the mosque.

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And she slept inside the mosque for some time.

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How the profits lost him. Some of his companions like Abu huraira Dylon, they will suffer. They used to sleeping sunrays place some mounts on platform inside the mosque because they had no other place. He didn't tell them go and get rid yourself a room? No he made a place for them.

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So panela and look what that produced.

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I was surprised myself to find in reading the Sierra

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that Abu huraira what the long run he was only with the Messenger of Allah loves him two years. So panela two years. Yet there is no Companion of the profits and loss now that related to us and preserve for us more from the profits A lot of us setup.

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Why? Because they called him the shadow of the prophet to last him he was always there.

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Playing with his cats

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and the prophets a lot of them used to tell the companions Leave him alone. They used to push him leave the prophet SAW similan Why do you keep hanging around his doorway keep sitting outside his door get away from it. The process of total lithium

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Leave him alone.

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Today, none of us can leave him alone.

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Because you read the Hadith any page you turn to use an Abra donavon

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analysis. allies of commerce utilize them from Abu huraira

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more than more than 4800 a hadith

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from Abu huraira Dylon

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the message isn't the time of the Prophet Sawsan was the place he dispatched the armies.

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The message and the time of the prophets. The last one was a place where he gave a special lecture for the woman.

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The Masjid in the time of the Prophet ciloxan was the place where the men used to come there to practice and wrestle

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to do martial arts.

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To prepare themselves with the husba

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he made a place on the outside to let them do that.

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And on one occasion, the profits lost him even he was watching them. And he said I wanted to see them too.

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So I put my chin upon the shoulder of the prophet SAW him and I stood like that for a long time in the process and he never moved because he wanted to let me see

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the message it has to become the center of everything.

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The machine is a place for whatever. Whoever has a problem has to come to the mosque, the Imam of the mosque, the chairman of the mosque, the scholar of the mosque. If he cannot give the fatwa he has to get the fatwa and he has given to the people because if the people don't get fatwa, it means we can't solve their problems. If you don't solve their problems, they will take their problem somewhere else. The Australian civil court will solve the problem for them. The Australian High Court will solve the problem for them. But the problem they will solve for them is in a different way.

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The question is a place where our sons and daughters should want to come and ask the man

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a man my mother or my father. They're not seeing about the issue of marriage for me. Can you talk to them for me please the man he should go and talk to them. Make arrangements.

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Talk to the mother and father get these young men and young woman get them married. What's the problem?

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every father has a son. Every father has a daughter that Father their daughter.

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has a room of her own. The son has a room of his own. What's the What are you waiting for? Like the brother get married and bring that young girl home in his room?

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What do you got to go by? How far are you waiting for your son to graduate from the University and her graduate from the University, and for him to buy a house in a car, and for them to get married, they may never finish university, and they may never, ever get a house, but they don't get together.

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You Muslims are losing the point. Mothers and fathers you get this traditional thing. I want my daughter to marry somebody, I want 50,000 pounds. I wanted $50,000 for the

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25 for me and 25 for her.

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I want the brother to have be a lawyer.

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I want him to buy her house. Your daughter is 35 years old, she still haven't found Prince Charming.

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Your son is 28 years old. He's still not married, because he didn't get that kind of job and you don't have that kind of money. And he's going to the clubs.

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Whose fault is that it is our fault.

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Because I could have taken my son

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to that girl that he likes in her family and said, Look, if there is room for my son in your home, my son will marry your daughter and go to your home. Or there's room for your daughter in my home, my son will marry your daughter and bring her into my home. And so the prophet SAW Sam said, you will add more water to the soup.

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And they will be under our care. They will be young, they will be going to the university. But they will hold hands together going to the university they will be young and they will under our supervision. And they will not be doing any for fish

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until they are able to get their own house and move on into whatever and if they if the woman get pregnant, your grandchildren are right there in front of you. What is the problem Muslims?

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Generally we have a lack of knowledge and we have moral deterioration.

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As a result of that we are starting to deteriorate as Muslims. Our morals. Muslims don't have a problem today to steal from the non Muslim they said we can we can steal from the non Muslim dare kaphas

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we can lie to non Muslims they kaphas

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I came to this country and to get asylum. Not me. I'm just talking to general.

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So Manny cam, he said I came here for asylum.

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But he'd been here for 13 years on the asylum

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here raised the children under silo.

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The children were born here in the hospital. He's still living on the dole.

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How are we Muslim men living on the dole of the caverns, eating from their hands living off of their taxes. How can they respect us?

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We call them kaphas. But we eat it from their hands. We eat it from their taxes, how are children is going to respect us all Muslims.

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I advise you that we men should be like the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And when he shook hands with a man and his hands was very rough. He said this is the hands of the agenda.

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Because this is a man who's working hard. Brother, you get up in the morning and you go out and you sell socks. Sell bread, sell shoes, do whatever you have to do wash dishes, but do not take charity from the kaphas

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Okay, if you came to this country, you have nothing to do six months, one year two years you get yourself on your feet. But how many how long it take you to get yourself on your feet.

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No, we Muslims as have dignity. We must have honor. And we cannot keep going down to the people down at the social service. I don't know what you call it here. The don't people lying to them. Hmm.

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Those go What?

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Yeah, lying to them.

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Telling them I'm ill. My wife is ill.

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The sister she goes down insane. I'm pregnant. I don't know where the husband is at. I don't know where the father is at. I need the money. She got five kids, all of them. She don't know where the father is at.

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Because she cannot say that the Father is living with me. Then they will say how's he living with you? And he's receiving the dole and you're receiving the dole. So the line

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so if you're lying, you have nothing on your face.

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You lost the honor for your wife. You lost the art

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For your children, you lost the honor for yourself. No, the Muslim must do business.

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You don't want to work for the cafe's do business sell to them.

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The Muslims are divided by ethnicity.

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ethnicity, Turkish Pakistani Somalis to Delhi, this Arab, Syrian, Jordanian, Lebanese, Saudi, Yemeni,

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this color that color?

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No, we have to leave these divisions behind.

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Allah subhanaw taala says in the moment, we know that

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the nature of our relationship is together as brothers. And nobody's better than other brother I don't care if he was born on top of the Kava.

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For you, because you're Saudi, you're supposed to come and leave the salon.

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Because you solidi No, we don't care about that. But if you are a man

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of Qur'an, and a man of fitna, and a man of n, then we give you the first seat.

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Why? Because the professor Sam said an older man, what is it an MBA

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in archroma, gone, and the law, a taco

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these ethnic divisions has to stop.

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And the way we stop it, the way we show that we are brothers, we crossed the lines. Crossing the lines means that we love our brother, what we love for ourselves, the Somali brother, he invite the Pakistani brother to his house, purposely when you come into mosque, you don't sit with another Somali brother, he's going to sit with his brother who from Lebanon,

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the Turkish brother, he goes sit with a brother who is from Nigeria.

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We do not keep sitting with the people of our own background and language. And we do not call the people to our houses from our own background and language. We break through the divisions. And secondly, when we seek to get our sons and daughters married, of course, it is always the natural thing that my daughter will look to marry somebody like her. That's natural. But it doesn't have to be in Islam.

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Because if that was the case, the prophets a lot of them he would only have married out of women. He did not

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the Messenger of Allah

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sallallahu wasallam Allah subhanaw taala sent why he bought him. Look at Omaha million how Allah subhanho wa Taala he gives them to the prophet SAW some as example for us.

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All Muslims, this ideological things we have amongst us. Muslims always pointing the finger at each other brothers are sitting over across from each other say, Oh, he's a cell. he's a he's a Sufi.

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And the other one say Oh, he's a he's a selfie.

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And this one over here is a Bashi.

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This one over here he shade

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this one over here he is Hanafi may I'm humbly I'm sure we can follow this and that.

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So what these divisions mean for us, I understand what they mean. I know where they came from. I understand the the historical evolution of them. This is not what I'm talking about. I mean, in the mass in the community for the leadership and the unity of the Muslims. What is it it's nothing but trash

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is what people gave to us to keep us feeling like we are different from another Muslim.

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if you believe that by being self Salafi, you want to call yourself that it's okay. Nothing wrong with that. If you want to attach yourself to the the generation

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that Allah says nothing wrong with that,

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but don't become a criticize of the people.

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Because the one who becomes a criticized of the people a lot is going to criticize them.

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love for your brother, would you love for yourself? If you have good knowledge, be patient with the people be tolerant with them. Allah subhanaw taala says when he gives us the characteristics of brotherhood, he says what are ourselves sorry what of ourselves bill Morrow Hama and Sabina water was so bill hoppy water was so this summer in sort of acid

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to us, oh,

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Taiwan. What I want to add a battery water Aqua water other ism what would one

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Taiwan What are these two things Muslims have to do?

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To do that you must be tolerant and patient with each other.

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Whoever has the real knowledge, it will come out the cream will always come to the top.

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But the real knowledge it is not in the column, it is not inside the books, the real knowledge, you will see it come through the behavior

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of a brother he has so much knowledge, but he is always condemning the people criticizing the people blaming the people after a while no one wants to be around him, because his behavior is bad.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was receiving ye from Allah subhanaw taala but he was not blaming the people. He was sitting with them, being patient with them. Sometimes he did not like what they was doing, but he was patient.

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So Allah subhanaw taala told him, if you are too harsh with them, you will force them away from you.

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And finally, brothers and sisters, we have a lack of leadership. Unfortunately, I don't mean you don't have a leader. It's not what I mean.

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The Prophet sallallahu Sallam said earlier on this one, it was soon to qualify Rashidi van de upon you with the following of my son and the son of the one of

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those ones, right the got it. So it means we understand from that, that we have to accept the Sunnah

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of the Prophet so a lot of them as it was practiced as it was sitting as it was understood from home first qualified Russia do they have to have the proper saucer after that type of aid? And today, we have to accept what they understood. That's first. So let me tell you what Bob said. This is an aside from Omar, he said, there is no Islam without Gemma.

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This phenomena said no Islam without jamaah he didn't mean that you cannot pray. He meant that no Islam without community. Without the organized community, he said there is no essence presence of Islam. And then he said further and no jamaa without an Amir

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you must have a leader a commander, somebody who has the right to tell you stand, sit, go out, come back in Wait, somebody who you will go to with your problems and he will get the hook them and you cannot deny it. Somebody who resolved the problems, somebody who adjudicates as a law made the Prophet sallallahu Sallam hakam

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he says

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in the Quran, Omaha's awesome they cannot really believe until they accept you as a hack him.

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And after that they also accept your cover.

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So you must have an Imam, a leader who acts for you as a judge.

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And when he makes Kava on you, you cannot say Okay, ma'am, I respect your opinion. No, no.

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If he had some power, you're not just respect his opinion. Because if you went to the civil court, or you go to the Supreme Court and the judge make a judgment on you, you don't say to the judge. Okay, thank you, Your Honor. I respect your opinion.

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So how we get this double standard, we respect the opinion of the Imam, but we don't take the judgment, but we don't but we don't respect the judges, but we take their judgment. So last until he punishes us for that. One. There has to be Jamal, organized community under one leader.

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The Muslims, the best of the Muslims should nominate someone, not just his appointed, nominate. And after the nomination, everybody said yes. After Yes, give them the power. Because all mercato said, what'd he say? And there is no Amir unless he has an

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immortal authority.

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So don't give a man the title and do not give him the pledge.

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Give him the title, the responsibility. And after that, give him the pledge. I'm not saying give back like he's califa. That's not what I'm saying. I mean, give him the allegiance.

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say to him, brother, I'm going to obey you and whatever you ask me to do.

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Unless you allow me to do something which Allah subhanaw taala said I can't do because there is no OBE. obedience to a creature will evolve disobedience to alcoholic

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and the last one that he knows best. I've just traced some points which I believe to be critical for our behavior for our reform, first to correct ourselves. So the parents who don't blame the children and the children, they don't blame the parents, but that we bring the parents and the children together through the community, we start to bond them together. We start to heal the body of the Muslims to our consciousness to our love for Allah Subhana Allah and His Messenger some of our lives.

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them through our obedience to Allah and His Messenger sallallahu wasallam.

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Through our conformance because the prophet SAW them said,

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conformance is a part of this religion conformance not just to say I believe but conformance. So Muslims, we ask Allah subhanaw taala to guide you and your families, your children.

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We ask Allah subhana wa Taala that he filled our hearts with at least a small amount of Eman.

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We asked the last panel Horta, Allah, that he raised your sons and daughters, as museums, not as Australians.

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We ask Allah subhanaw taala that the fathers become examples of the sons, mothers become examples for their daughters. The mothers and the fathers themselves become active in the community and they assume the responsibility We ask Allah subhanaw taala that all of us take the Quran off of the shelves. When we enter the mosque, take the Quran off the shelves and read five minutes free 10 minutes while you enter the mosque and just sit down against the walls, take the code and off the shelf. They're just collecting dust.

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We ask Allah subhanaw taala that the Quran that we are reciting that we are acting upon some of them yet.

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We ask Allah subhanaw taala that the Muslims since Salaam Salawat upon Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam developed the love countries of him. We ask Allah subhana wa Taala that our children that they memorize 1020 names of the companions of the Prophet some a lot of them to replace the 10 or 20 names of some other people whom they are wearing their clothes and their names right now.

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Because the heroes of your children, if they are not the companions of the Prophet son loves them. They are they're the heroes of Kaffirs. And I'll tell you something, most of the characters whose names that you're wearing on clothes, they are homosexuals and lesbians.

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You're wearing these clothes and these names. And you don't even know they are homosexuals and lesbians, most of them who are designing them, and you are promoting their names. If you want to wear t shirts, you want to wear some sports shirts and trainers with somebody names, put the name on there.

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Put the name Abu Bakar on there.

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Put the name

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obey the live in gela. alley, or the long line, put those names there and take those Kapha names off.

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What's wrong with the Muslims? Why we can't make a shirt.

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But all the hats come from Hong Kong.

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No, we have to think Muslims.

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We can make. We can do. We can change. But we have to think we want to have to want we have to offer our children something different. Otherwise, if we don't offer them something different, we will not blame them. But Allah would blame us.

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Brothers and sisters please pardon me. If I use any graphic expressions you can take the man out of Brooklyn but you can't take Brooklyn out of demand.

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Understand you have a broken here too.

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On the way here so Brooklyn Park is not the same Brooklyn.

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I guarantee you that is not the same Brooklyn.

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But I think the last panel Darla for the invitation to come here inshallah, to offer some naseeha to offer my advice for you to share some time with you to take up your time. It's very late. Mashallah, may Allah reward you for staying this amount of time. And if there's some questions, somebody wants to ask about what I said, I don't mind to answer. But don't ask me about. Don't ask me about the war in Iraq. And don't ask me about Osama bin Laden. Don't ask me about those kinds of things, because I don't know nothing about that. So if there are a few questions, if there are a few from the women, I will take them first.

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The sister said can you please briefly talk about yourself your background, your journey to Islam? To be honest, it is not doing anything special?

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No, I'll tell you what inshallah. It is it is it is kind of late and I think I needed a little bit more than four or five minutes to talk to you about my background. I'm born I was born in Harlem, New York.

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I was raised in a city called Brooklyn. another planet.

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I became a Muslim in 1965. The same year that our brother, Alhaji Malik Chavez, Malcolm X, was assassinated. And he did not give me Shahada. But Mashallah, he was one of the people whom I lost upon data helped to inspire

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And hamdulillah by the grace of Allah spawn that I spent a small amount of time, sometimes only few days, sometimes maybe a year or two and more than 23 different Muslim countries. So I came to know the Muslims by traveling, because there was one scholar I really like him to scholars I really liked very much. And when I was doing my master's degree, I concentrated on these two scholars one was even battuta.

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And the other was Bill Khaldoon.

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And I did my thesis, I did my thesis on the

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keep tabs on a bar of Ibn khaldoun.

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I don't want to say more than that. I have

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12 children and 23 grandchildren.

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I won't say how many wives I got.

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Okay, look, it says, I've got brothers. I've got brothers in I've got brothers who are teenagers. I'm trying to teach them and tell them to pray. But they make excuses and get busy with other things. You know, teenagers? What can I do? Just for that gear in Nevada de gras.

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Give them the reminder. That's all you can do.

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Remind them, let them see you pray. Tell them the benefits of the prayer.

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a kind word and the covering of the faults that's all we can do. Says Is there any way according to Quran and Sunnah to dispose, remove tyrannical secularist ik leaders in the Muslim lands? First. First of all, before we start talking about removing leaders, why don't we concentrate first on ourselves? Allah subhanaw taala says, Who Am fuschl will alikoum nara.

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First save yourself, save your family, save the community that you're in and stop always blaming Muslim leaders.

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I'm not a supporter of tyrannical leaders. I'm not a supporter of people who are oppressors. But that is not the issue. You can't blame all the villain of the corruption of the wrong on just leaders. blame yourself first correct yourself. spent a year looking at yourself in the mirror?

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Check out yourself how you talking how you live in? How are you dealing with your neighbor? How are you dealing with your co worker? How are you dealing with your fellow Muslim? How are you dealing with the Imam of the mosque? How are you dealing with fellow Muslims? How you looking at them, how you live in with them, how you fulfilling your oath with them. We keep talking about them the macro situation. We keep talking about the countries and the leaders. But we're not talking about ourselves in our homes and our children and our lives. And most of the people who wants to talk about Islamic State and about the leaders. I always say to them, I'm willing to talk with you. But

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Meet me at fudger

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talk with me at 5g I'll meet you at 5g and we talk about this because 5g is a much better time than in the middle of the day. In most cases.

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Some of the big things that we talk about, we never get to fudge it

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says when a man wants to marry a second wife does he have to ask his current wife he should

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say he must. But he should. It's a courtesy is the best thing for him. If you don't want a whole bunch of problems, he gonna have problems anyway. But imagine coming home with another way. And you didn't say nothing about it. You got you looking for some problems.

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However, if you want to ask the question, according to the outcome of the Quran, according to fit, do I have to ask my wife's permission? I do not.

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I do not. But that doesn't mean that I should not. So use your wisdom. Don't be a fool.

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Well, lo Anna,

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do I have to wear a scarf? Of course you do. If you are if you're the age of miseration you are Muslim. Of course you have to cover yourself. So I will ask you the question in a different way. If you got a whole lot of money, do you just leave it laying around the house or you put it inside the bank.

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And if you put it inside the bank Do you give everybody your PIN number. Now you don't your scarf, your hijab is like putting your money in the bank. And, and and and your taqwa is like holding your PIN number.

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So none of you would have any problem about putting your money in the bank. If you got a lot of money or something

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Money. And none of you would give anybody your PIN number. So what's the sister walking around? She's already at the age of menstruation. She walked around without no scarf on her head. And she wouldn't know whether she should of course you should. Every Muslim woman should cover herself, not because her husband said or the mom said, but because Allah subhanho wa Taala ordered her to do that. You're not better than the wives of the Prophet so awesome. And you're not more beautiful than they are. And when the the I came down about hijab, they told the aprons and they cover their faces. I didn't say you had to cover your face, but that's what they did.

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So if they cover their faces, minimally, you know, you got to cover your head just in your body.

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It has become culture among the Muslims to label anyone who avoids mixing with the sexes music wear hijab, as well, hobbies, but it's just foolish people. That's all.

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Why somebody calling somebody Wahhabi. First of all, who is Abdullah Wahhabi, just a Muslim?

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If there was somebody I was gonna call myself after I'll call myself Mohammed.

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But I'm not a Mohammedan

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Allahumma salli ala Sayyidina, Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam but we're not Mohammed ins. So once you might want to call me a Wahhabi

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or whatever you want to call somebody just these kinds of names. That's just some foolishness. Shame on the people who do that.

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No, Allah subhanaw taala made the game the rules of Islam that Abdul Wahab Allah subhanho wa Taala orders about the aqeedah not Abdul Wahab Allah subhanaw taala gave us the fact he said menu the menu to the low behind on the prophet SAW Sam said when you read the low behind on your deen this what Allah subhanaw taala told us in the process him said whosoever has given understanding is giving the greatest gift who have a loved one's good for them yet the right correct correct understanding the religion so if somebody says follow these rules, follow the Akita follow the prophets Lawson's companions follow the terrain, follow the Hadith follow the Sunnah, they become Wahhabi Subhanallah

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Muslims, so Panama, there's just some foolishness

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whoever, whoever calls to a good action, Allah will give them the reward of it with nothing be diminishing from them. whoever calls to a bad action, Allah gives you the compensation of that action, like the one who does it, nothing will be diminished from them. So if a man calls us to the Quran, calls us to the sooner causes to the causes with the Tafseer caused us to this and cause us to that explains to us the effect of Islam.

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Because of that he becomes a Wahhabi

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or some other names. So someone will call somebody Wahhabi. And those people who themselves is teaching fifth they will call somebody called to be

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So he had the name start going whenever you hear Muslims, start throwing out the names, leave those Muslims alone.

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Even when the Muslim call himself a name, and this and that.

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Tell him Okay, Mashallah. Mashallah, no problem about that.

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But we leave the names alone. A man can be whatever, he can call himself cabbie. I mean, he was born into Kava

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Khomeini. He born somewhere between the datamine

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doesn't call himself whatever you want. This does not mean that he has taqwa. And it does not mean that he's anything in this Deen at all.

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brothers hope you don't mind I'm answering the question of the sisters first. Because if I can get their questions out the way I will have no problems.

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Why is it that the parents have double standards for boys and girls?

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Because there's two different standards.

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A lot did not make the boys and the girls the same. They are equal in the sight of Allah subhanaw taala. But they have a different role. So if the parents let the boys go out, to be more exposed, and they keep the girl inside to protect her, that's not the double standard.

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That is what the dean allows us. Because the girls they are softer, they are more gentle. They are more delicate.

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You see, they break easily. They bruise more easily. their reputation can become endangered more easily.

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I give you an example. clear example. If you see one of the girls from the mosque out in the club someplace. You say she's a hall.

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Yeah, but if you see the boys Oh, he just having fun.

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You see a man standing by the tree down

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The street urinating cuz he couldn't make it to the toilet. In the daytime, you say other brother, he don't have no manners.

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But if you see the sister lift her dress and do like that.

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So what you say about her?

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She have no morals. Who wants to marry her after that she did the same thing the man did. You see? You see, I'm giving you a graphic example. That is double standard. Allah gave the double standard. Why? Because the women they have, you got to give the handle them with double cab. Because the law says original comunale he said

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that is a different is a different subject. And I don't mind inshallah, to come back another time and talk about the issue about the women's rights and their responsibilities is a different subject. But you sisters should thank Allah subhanho wa Taala that he gave you double standards. Because that double standard is double protection is like double glazed

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double insurance.

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You don't have no problem about the fact that when you inherit money from your father, and you make money on your own, you don't have to spend it on your husband. You don't have to spend it on your son. You don't have to spend it on your father. You don't have to spend it on nobody. You keep all your money. Why? Because the Father, the Son, the husband, he has to take care of the women. Is that correct? So why does double standard why the woman shouldn't take care us?

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You don't have no problem about the fact that when you get married, you could ask for a mountain to go what a man he should have asked you for a mountain ago. know Allah subhanho wa Taala said this for you. Allah gave you double, double protection. And the Lord told us to be careful about the women and the prophets often said to us, be careful about the women. So therefore, I believe the mothers and the fathers they are doing what the Lord has messaged us and said they'd be more careful about their daughters than their sons alone. She said, if your husband requests you to wear hijab after marriage, do you listen? Or else he says our divorce you

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all look sister, let me say this to you. The husband, if he marry you, if he wants to divorce you, he can divorce you. He should not do it like that. He should be patient. He should follow the Sunnah. But he has the right if he paid the dowry, he has the right to divorce if that's what he wants to do. Not that way. But that is right. That is not the issue though here. The issue is that if you are not wearing the hijab, or your husband told you to wear it, you supposed to obey Him and everything except in disobedience to Allah subhanho wa Taala. So if your husband told you to put on the hijab, put on the hijab, well, you need a question about that for put it on. He's only telling

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you what the Lord told you to do. If you feared Allah, you wouldn't have to husband would have to tell you to put it on.

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So if you don't feel law, maybe you will see your husband.

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It is binding on the Muslim woman when she gets to the age of menstruation, binding on her to cover herself.

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No one has a right to see her hair.

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Nobody has a right to see her body, to see through her clothing, to see her form to see her shape.

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To for her to be mixing in and out of the men

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to fall to be wearing jeans. for her to be wearing tight sweaters, no one have the right to see that of her. She has not the right even to bring that fitness and expose it to the people. Allah subhanaw taala told her to believe in women are those who God and their husbands absolutely the law would have them God to believe in women lower their gaze and God their modesty. They believe in woman and those who bring their their garments around themselves so that they don't become a fitness for the people and no fit when it comes to them.

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So why the woman asked about this issue when the matter has already been made clear.

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This is not new Islam Islam.

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Either you submit to Islam as the last one that says autofit Islam.

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enter Islam can

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enter Islam completely. And Islam has its conditions. It's not your lamb and my lamb and his lamb and her lamb is Islam.

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If you want to drive, you go down to the driver license place and they give you a book and they tell you the conditions and you follow the conditions. So Allah subhanaw taala made you a Muslim and Islam as conditions so why you keep asking about the conditions as if somebody's going to stand up and said well Mashallah, this is the year 2005 if the sisters don't want to wait, no, he jabbed just take them off.

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Know, the dean will remain as it is from the time of Law Center until the day of judgment and you will never change it.

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Sister said I know that is supposed to be a question she but I don't ask for anything from you except that you make dua for me inshallah sister I will make dua for you. I have received so much bad drive from a lot of my life I'm afraid that I will.

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I don't know who gave me bad do I for you sister, but inshallah to Allah I don't know your name. But the sister who said this, we say may Allah have just set for you. May Allah reward you for all your good intentions and for all your prayers May Allah forgive your sins and keep this in mind when we make Salah we make dua for all the Muslims we say, I tell here to delay for Silla to tell you that Assalamu alaykum rahmatullah wa barakato wassalam Alena while Yvette de la sala he'll shawanda in the law, Mohammed Abu salam wa sallam, so always the Muslims can make dua for each other.

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We can speak a good word for each other, make dua for each other. That's all we can do. Do I doubt that our to the non Muslims do I for the Muslims?

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The prophets awesome said let's let him who believes in Allah in the last day is the same What's good, or keep quiet?

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So when we meet each other, have good words. Don't criticize somebody if you ain't got nothing good to say. Just close your mouth man says por la la la la la La Habra. You've been saved.