The Disease And The Cure #176

Ibrahim Nuhu


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so inshallah we continue from where we stopped last there's no covenant

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Okay according well for him hola

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according to what either Arad and Asara and you know Sue Alessi era are over Murata and Jamia Latin, whatever Rue and to to the mayor who Phoenix in a hot day that kind of hug Booyah, Ben Colby Heba. EFSA in the California.

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So Malika is a bit Allahu livina, who will call the service will have to do any of it at Hera or either Lulu Valentino Allah who may shut. So last time, we talked about the method, the marriage of the NESARA when they want to

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deceive somebody to get him into their religion. You know, amongst that as he sad in those people, they they took us hostage, the Muslims taken by them what they do, they bring a very beautiful woman and let her go and do everything possible.

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Until the time the love of this woman you know, is firmly establishing his heart and then she will tell him you have whatever you want as long as you accept our religion. Whatever you want, as long as you accept our religion.

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So if your claim says it's a bit Hola, hola, Dena Amory, we'll call it fair, but if it had to do now we'll add Hera or Ed Lulu havalim ino fr Allahu Masha. Even if Allah subhanaw taala does not support a person and protect him.

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The person is going to get into

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into trouble because this type of fit and as we said, it's not easy for a person to open the door

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to the fitna of Aneesa and pass it is not easy. That's why that door has to be locked all the time.

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So Allah Salam al Afia Carla village community Nicola hidden minute ash rule Metropolis IV Hebei more I wanted to healer who I'll furnish it with will be hidden FC.

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mater at the elevator combat Academy where are the Metallica Ville Mohammed Abishek, key factor middle age bahwa Nicola so, he says

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if you find all types of oppression you know

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both the developers of each other the Ashik and the martial

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you know, because they are supporting each other and helping them to reach their goal

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is in house a lot of

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and each one of them is valuable NFC wireless IP you know, they combined or present themselves and also present

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the the other partner their partner

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and also the Luma, which Abdullah daily

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Saba can the kana you know when they oppress each other this oppression sometimes becomes a transitive it doesn't just harm them it reach somebody else.

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And the greatest volume that is involved in alleged is

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a shift. We talked about that last time. So by saying this, then you will understand that almost every type of volume is an issue

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well, Matt Schuco eval me tequila I have no we are a dual Ashley TANF.

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In my show in a tequila, the mushroom the one that is

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loved that kind of love by that person if he doesn't fit Allah subhanaw taala is going to lead that Ashik to tell us the structure

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but Alakazam amino and up Mia hopefully

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UFC heavyweight has a yellow

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yesterday who they call it that you can have

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your curry Jamara who mean who man who went out?

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Well, I am Aquino MyTaxi lazuli.

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What are the human who? Others whom whose will add up? He says,

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Why do we say this because

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he oppressed him. By always, you know, don't forget, we're talking about my shoe right? The person who is loved by that person. So you will keep on dragging him doing everything possible. What does he want? He wants to meet him. You want to sit with him? You want to sit with her? You want to meet her, you know, at the end of the day, he wants to have her honor and dignity to satisfy his desire, but she knows what he wants or he knows what what she wants, you know, kept on dragging them.

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And why is he not giving them what they want? Because if they get what they want, what happens after that, we just stay away from them. Yeah, they get what they want and then tomorrow, they will not come.

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Therefore, they will keep on dragging and delaying. You know, them from reaching their need.

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Karla Makino minoxidil allez vous la hora de Holika Viva pari.

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So, he will not let him get what he wants, because if he let him get what he wants.

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The way he called the need is gone now. So, you will not come back to him again.

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So, what does he want? He wants the money. He wants the benefit, you know,

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the more she dragged him the more he gives her gifts, the more you give them money, the more issues like that.

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Carla for her, I assume who sue Allah that will ash Obama cartella Masuka heliosphere. NAFSA hoomin, who was here my injera duessel

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Literally, you know, sometimes the ash because of this punishment, you know, try his best every time spending spending and he couldn't get what does he do? He killed

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it killed.

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Sometimes he killed the ash, the marshal sometime he killed the mushroom. The ashes sometimes kills a mushroom because he spent a lot and until now she's not giving him it became says especially when she gave herself or he gave himself to somebody else.

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All right after all of these punishment, and at the end of the day, she married to somebody else.

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So he doesn't feel Allah subhanaw taala as it happens also in the time of sola Salah Salem,

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that person, you know, he

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loved a woman and

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and then

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unfortunately she doesn't marry him and he killed

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whether he reached the situation or not, but this could be used to support the fact that when he couldn't get what he wants, sometimes he might go and kill

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Carla even Okay, Infocomm Lynch, mill Katina mill genuine, how many times you find people who lost their life from both sides?

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ashpole mushroom.

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Welcome as aluminium metal. Well, I've got I mean, again, it was copper Membertou but it was shattered. I mean, Shamli you know how many times you know, the NEMA was gone. You know, a person becomes poor, and also losing your position and your job. All because of issues are shattered. I mean, Shamli things that are combined. In well organize, there'll be scattered because of the issue. Will come I've said I've been added there. Oh god. Well, why are they here? And they're not at either at balharshah. Lady ha. It took her that here. Ma Shu Lin fcr. Is your original material didn't Boehner corroborate? hibbett talathi obaidul pr that's it.

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For a minute Nancy, you will feel harder I mean, who may use

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that I can, I will have it says how many times the issue destroys a house destroys a person and his family. Destroy the children of a person

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and destroy the family of a person. It says because a woman if she knows that

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there are bad hash rate when she knows that the husband loves somebody else.

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What does she do if she doesn't fear Allah subhanaw taala she will also

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take Marshall, you know and as

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you know, not sure.

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So she will also take somebody as how much

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Because the husband also is doing the same thing.

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If she doesn't feel a loss for her to Allah she will do that.

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Those who fear Allah or whatever the one who will cry and complain,

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a look for separation if the marriages are going to, I mean if the husband is going to listen,

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but other than that she will take revenge. Okay, I restrict myself to you, and then you're going to look for somebody in the Haram way. And subhanAllah we have people like that anybody has a villa

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like that where the Alchemilla

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leave his wife and go and have haram connection with others.

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And in God, Allah subhanaw taala is making them very blind. You know, in the way Subhan Allah Allah opened the door for the one they live in with to know what is going on.

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This is very dangerous, and that he is living with her. Having those martial cards and also having a relationship with somebody else will let you know that it's haram for her to stay with him.

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It's haram, for her to stay with with him because Allah subhanaw taala make it prohibited for a person to stay with a Zani.

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It's haram, to stay with Zanny knowing that husband is committing Zina, she cannot stay with with him.

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So if this happens, the husband knows that his wife is taking martial. She loves somebody. She talks about him.

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Imagine a tragedy like this.

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That's why he says Sen. Reginald Matera didn't buy that Atala

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or why not yada? I would.

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You know, say he will be between two things either to divorce

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or to accept the other.

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The US is somebody who accepts evil, you know, to exist in his family and he doesn't care.

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It says Ya rasool Allah Zojirushi lateral duyet alarmism is era so like my wife doesn't reject any hand that comes to her

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latter day that she doesn't reject any hand that comes

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to her.

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The province Allah sama said, Philippa

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DeVos Yeah, because as a man How do you accept to see any person who comes and stretches on to your wife she's submitted herself

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and you think you okay?

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This happened only in our time.

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Yeah, it's happened only, you know, a time otherwise that person who told another person this is my wife, what do you think?

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This is true story.

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The one who is in the picture was telling me he says, This president just met him and he said he's asking him what what is his?

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What is his opinion?

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I think these are some of these things. Well, I feel like

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in the past people think about that. So Rasulullah sallallahu SIRVA said Palika DeVos.

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Is Ileana Sula, new hubba hubba

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that's the title of

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the first the last one was okay I'm sick.

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I like was Eliza Lazarus

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says they are so like nobody who ever comes Yes.

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Latter Day Larissa Carlota Lika I also lived nearby today. It doesn't know how to stay away from her spicy okay, I'm sick. Keep up.

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Good idea.

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So, if your claim says this type of people when this happens, you will be motivated to divorce or to accept to remain in the way it is if she's but this is only if he's not committing Zina.

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Because if she is committed Zina, then it is not permissible for him to see with her otherwise he will be one of the zoonotic Yeah, amongst those people who are committing Zina with her

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says, you have some people who favor this, these are the region divorce and you have some people who will take the data, this Ashburn region,

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You Allah because at the end of the day, that be surprised this type of people they will be having doubt in their children.

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It's really really his child or somebody else's child.

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So, let's see heifers. She doesn't want to listen.

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You know, then

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given us a hard game, let's say it doesn't want to listen the best is let her go to that person.

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Yeah, it's as simple as this. Look for somebody who's decent that you can trust

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you know, and stay with her to Chordoma level adequate otherwise, what do you think she will give kids? If she's like this, what kind of Toby I think she will pass to the kids. And also the kids

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grew up and and find their mother like that she has somebody other than

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and the father

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can if she managed to convince them that this is okay, you know Subhanallah

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so that's why

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opening your eyes, you know from I mean, talking to both male and female is really necessary.

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Especially in our time in our time, this one cut off

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here from here and that is when Catherine says complaining brothers and complaining Eve Allah so Allah Salam, Al Afia

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we favor our Facebook, more than

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more than their relationship with a spouse.

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And we become negligent. That's everyone should have the freedom in the house. Yeah. She has friends in and you don't mind. And then tomorrow, when this friend you know, practice what he's supposed to be practicing as part of the nature. And then you complain, you blame her, you find it, you'll be it, you do so many things. Why You Shouldn't be too she said, well, that you're doing the right thing because you're the one who tell her to go ahead.

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Even though he was supposed to praise her and reward her for this, that she's doing an excellent job in a plus.

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But it doesn't happen like that originally to hotel J llama shuffle, and masiva

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and this happens when she's already deep in this thing.

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They were eating food is another story. They're eating food husband and wife you know, and then suddenly the phone the phone rings

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so happy so Mashallah. It's like, you know that this is very old friend that she missed, you know, among her sister's friends.

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And she was so drunk drunk because that Facebook already and the guy took her brain she forgot that this is the husband.

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He asked her who exactly are you talking to? You know, because you see the wishes to have been conversing with this person. You know, she said this is my Facebook friend.

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And this is a brother Facebook friend, not cousin you know, cousin also is enough to be bad because he can marry her still but

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Facebook, he took the phone, hit it with the wall and destroyed completely.

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But the damage already happened. Yeah. So we really have to be very careful helping each other you know, at first do the right thing for getting somebody who believes in Allah subhanaw taala correctly. And also she believes in fixing the marriage more than somebody else. And also the husband as well. She takes somebody believes in Allah subhanaw taala and believes in taking care of the family more than any anything else. That's why it is my personal personal advice and sincere advice to any husband and wife, Wallah he to cut down the amount of the usage of the phones they have in the social media. Because it is taking a lot of time. Father doesn't have time for his kids

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in the family. The mother doesn't have time for for the kids every single moment you can say with no exaggeration. 90% If not 95% of her life is on phone.

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Yeah, and then tomorrow somebody will tell us oh don't have children because because you cannot give tarbiyah to them. Of course you cannot.

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Because you don't have time, the time has been taken by

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by something else. But marriages are getting weaker and weaker. Of this media. And you go home as a man. Be very strict on this. Now is a time for family. Sit with your family, sit with your wife talk and laugh and jokes and play games. You know, Ebola is the best interview that

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you Allah is assumed to be that I'm telling you based on experience, the moment you combine the family you come and spend one hour two hours. Everyone is involved in the plane, any plane you know, any game ask the kids if you have children to introduce anything

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that is good. In our home sometimes, you know

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don't tell anyone you know.

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They play football. We joined the plane again.

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Yeah, we divide the house and we play. Trust me well lie

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This is one of the best moment in the house. Because every one noun class we come together happy this one hurt this one this one hitting football you have to be hard to know.

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Yeah but then you can understand before it finished, everyone is happy. The one who is moody the that moodiness is gone we need this rather than she's there with the phone the kids are there the father is there everyone is separately doing things a lot you Allah it is separating between now amongst our families, destroying the families slowly slowly and gradually.

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But anyway, sometimes nothing fits as accepted the sign of the poet

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smarta Luna data, hey you know what I can let her to limit tonight.

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Of Hamdulillah we have the phones we have these things their name from Allah subhanaw taala but in most instances they are turned into Nicola.

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So be smart. Be wise, understand that your family is more actually is disrespecting. The family if I say is more important than than the media, you Allah is disrespecting the family life. There is no room of competitive comparison between social media and your family.

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One hour you spent

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one minute you spent talking to the family making them happy they're making you happy, is greater than 60. You know, countless number of hours you're spending on the show on social media getting one haram in most instances, watching haram in most instances, no matter how much you try to close your eyes, the eyes will not be closed. It has to see that which Allah Subhan Allah doesn't like and then you hope to have a good life in your family. They had

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Karla for Intel, Marathi they're at ba Chapelle is it ha it talks about here ma Shokan okay we're done with this Calif Allah Allah, Allah you Kima Allah and fch Kasuri the Allah you addicted dedicada heavy helium a facet our carrier, actually over the

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moon for Anadarko for almost 32 NFC Hill mobile Ruby. So it says it is wajib upon arcing somebody who has occurred. Yeah, he has to speak to our caller. Because Akhil is the one who thinks properly

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is he says is wajib upon him not to let this ash dominate, you know, becomes firmly established in his heart.

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Because it's going to lead him if he's not careful to all of these Mufasa that we mentioned earlier.

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Or to most of them, but this is something of Allah's motor vehicle up.

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You do this, the result is this. You are not different from others. You do it the result is going to be like that. You stay away from it, the result will be different.

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So he says whoever doesn't listen, and this is the one that we call negligent and heedless people who deceived themselves and he's going to quote a lot of abuse of some people who even believe that Ashley actually the best way to live this life. A comfortable life is

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Karla fader Hala fader halachot but who are lady Annika? When his heart and his soul is gone? Destroyed? Who destroyed him.

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He's on who put himself in struggle.

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Carla Falola to Coronavirus in our GMAT. Sure He was who He was sadly he led me to Machinae school in Kobe. If he doesn't keep looking.

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Look Look looking at this matchup, you know.

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And also always thinking is how to get that first.

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And I'm telling you a lie. This is one of the worst thing to do. Done, remain empty not doing anything and your heart. Don't let your heart think about my show.

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You plan to marry even in the right way you have to target this girl or this boy for the girls.

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What does that mean? Remove them in your in your in your heart? Is it possible?

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I'm telling you 100% is possible.

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One and represent as possible. Whoever tells is not possible is lying to you or Allah is possible. You just try your best not to let your brain course it will come this way. You cannot stop it from coming.

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But to push it out, yes, you can push it out.

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Just get busy with something else. Let your brain think about something else. Put it aside and focus on something else. It really helps and it gives a lot of relief.

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And that's one of the best way to get rid of all

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have these thoughts that comes to the people who repent, repent from this evil thing, but then they will tell you what you think doesn't want to go? No, we let it come, we let it stay. You know, that's why we get into trouble. Otherwise, when it comes, push it out, be the light, Alico, God, get busy with something that is beneficial, a lot have you taken away? It says slowly take it out to keep repeating and you keep on having tomorrow, you know, the strong hope that you're going to meet them, they might, they might, they might allow me to come, you know.

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And then so, if you do this all the time, of course, it's going to be firmly established in your heart and then how is it possible for you to take it away

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kind of in the world as well as as well as the sense of ontology another now. So, the first cause for the issue is Alistair

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you know, saying something beautiful and interesting in God nice to be

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any look for whether this conclusion is based on the novel you know, you look and then you make this conclusion

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or you hear something

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you know, because sometimes, either somebody told you or nobody told you, but you hear that their voice anything, they should be so smart.

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This angle is igvault

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as ugly as you wonder reality happens, a person will be able to do let me show you what did I do to myself?

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Yeah. So,

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scholars have seen that highlight many instances the person will go and have the mushroom and go and do the Haram you know, after the Haram then the reality will appear, you will look at them. Is it really true that this is the person that

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I was doing this and that yeah, it is

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the same one.

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You know, look at the Adam will remain in his heart, And subhanAllah on top of all is that the door that he opens for himself which most likely it cannot be easily closed? It will Allah Baba Zina in the future, most likely is easy for a person to close it.

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Carl if I lend me your car in who? Palmer own Filou Salli wa Farakka who an ES mindat Lika wacana Who es from indelicate let me just the whole adage

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if let's say Alhamdulillah a person sees or hears about that person that he thinks is the most appropriate for a person for him but Alhamdulillah this

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look looking is not connected with a Palma strong you know interest and wish to meet that person

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and also especially when he has you know that's

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that kind of despair from reaching that person you know he viewed it as something that is not easy for him to get it let me have to throw lash escuela so he sees something that is very beautiful very handsome and yet it

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he turns away from it and try to divert his heart from thinking about it

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especially when also when let's say she or he is from the high position that people like him in this community it's almost impossible for them to go

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and good idea if not in public

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and he is there ever No

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sir have him up

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yeah yes I have a Mr because usually when you see a person with a donkey

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that's that's indicate how much

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poor is this person

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he wants to marry even athletic

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and he's looking at her paying attention and focusing so much when he told him it tackler Carla and only desire watch a man evaluating Malik

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is one sometimes talking about them also can take can take you to TJ Yeah You're tarnishing the image you know personally like you talk about them as mean you're trying to say indirectly that their quality has reduced this level

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k whatever can make a person despair from reaching if this helped him be in the light Allah the issue will not come to them.

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By Nick Tirana be hit Tama for sarafa and victory.

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While I'm Yes, well culpa, who will be he let me hit it slowly.

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But if let's say hey look, and then the strong interest comes, which is very natural, right? Yeah, it's very natural for a person to see something which is interesting and have a strong feeling towards getting that person with a good person over

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at first

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but then Alhamdulillah the finger comes to the his brain and he pushed it out if followed it and he managed to take it out

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and he doesn't he try not to get busy with it. Yeah because the problem is we get busy

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yeah that's why a person who is tested by this shouldn't go to sleep

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until the time he is very sleepy

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Yeah, she knows stay alone doesn't go Don't go to sleep until the time he is very sleepy

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because go into the room alone you know and then you have like one hour left for the sleep to come. What are you going to be thinking?

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equalities haha

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oh Hadith happens to have been silent Bukhari Never. You will lie even the kids also this is what dance scholars have Tobia will tell you kids shouldn't go to sleep if they don't need to sleep.

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Allah is very dangerous we do that we send them to sleep. You know you stay you and you and your wife you know, talking talking, talking chatting, chatting and they were there in the room.

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But they did do

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Ah, yeah. Only Allah has Mahara to add

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that divide not be doing justice to the parent. But trust me, there will be thinking about so many things, including those dc on the social media.

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And this show of

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shoes will come you know.

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Yeah, she

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was talking to

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a boy ago in the secondary school that masturbation is haram.

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This Ebola and they were shocked. And for the first time actually come to understand that yes, definitely. This thing is an epidemic. They were shocked. And then he was telling me it was tears. But is there anyone in this dunya among the Shabbat coders who is not doing this? They cannot imagine somebody which means Allah Allah, I don't want to have some fun but their sacral the people they know you know, Allahu Allah.

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And how does it get to be developed? developed? When a person is born? He was born with this No.

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Most likely is an absolute negligence of the parrot. Trust me is a negligence from the parent. Let them watch everything and they don't have resistance. Do you have a let them sleep in anyhow and send them home? Home here? I'm referring to the to their rooms. You know when they don't need when they don't? They are not sleeping. He's gonna stay she's gonna stay there for one hour. Two hours doing what on the bed? She what does she do? What is he doing?

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Yeah, we didn't need to be very careful. Right need to be very careful.

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control what you've given them and also try arrange their life properly, you know,

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arrange their luck properly.

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When they sleep in the daytime, they shouldn't sleep at night.

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Yeah, unless if they have school then that means your management in the house is wrong.

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When they sleep in the daytime, they should stay at night until the time you perceive that these guys are sleeping. Send them to the room.

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Yeah, in few seconds. They already gone Alhamdulillah that's a success. But you cannot make them you know, awake in the daytime. And then the night comes you tell them no, no, no, no, no sleeping at early is very good. Send them to sleep. And you know that these people? I mean the kids they are not sleepy.

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Yeah. What do you think they will be doing?

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You will know who some of the neighbors at all don't have hospital.

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Most of the people who go with this for some event they were disappointed at the end of the day.

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So back to that.

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The old people those people who are tested with this said they shouldn't stay alone. And they shouldn't go to sleep when they're not sleepy.

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Carla fey lemmya car in California nectarean to be hit tamo fissara. For who?

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And Vicki will a mescal culpa who let me just throw Delica in a pile of identical FIQ FEMA has it in Machu Picchu Waqar and a cow who? Mei Hua Akbar Wa Cara who how Maha Kabara in the middle of the two Salah he

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iMac awfully good holy now, all the villager Bob Whitechapel.

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Have a how Allah delicate Baba will fake him. Let me know who that

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implicate him is talking about situations where if a person is blessed by

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Last Mahershala with them then the Escuela.

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He said, however, if a person couldn't defeat the the tama, you know it keeps coming. You try to defeat it, but he doesn't want to go try to push it out there.

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And he keeps on thinking about it thinking about it. Yeah. And usually these type of people, there are people who have no, no good friends.

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Yeah, because trust me good friends really help in this regard.

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Because the person who is tested by this, the best to stick to the friends, even if he doesn't tell them, no need to tell them what he's going through, but try his best in the way he will not disturb them, to be with them. Their existence next to him is a protection for him.

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Because he will not go through these things when

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he leaves them if they don't get bored of him, leaves them on when he goes to sleep, or leave them and go on to something else, take the Quran take book

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and read or go and do some work in some jogging, you know, if he's in UAE and Hamdulillah we have enough place what awfully father will do.

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All University go around Inshallah, it will say that change has speaker either has origin. I mean, the person in the UAE shouldn't have problem, you know, although sometimes also the way people are dressing the way people are behaving is really bad. Last minute issues today people will be righteous and make this community one of the best if not the best community here in this country. But what I'm saying is you have a lot of good friends, you can go and hang around with them, you know,

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rather than being alone. So Abraham says, if the thing doesn't want to go, you try your best the president tries his best but he doesn't want to go but at the same time Alhamdulillah

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this is you know, accompanied with a strong how he has a strong fear, he wants to go he also want to talk to that machine. He wants to go and do whatever he wants to do. But at the same time he has a strong fear. This fear might be because of the D

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could holy now. He knows that the innovation is going to help.

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Yeah, there are some people who stay away from doing the wrong thing because of what help

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you is it good? Yes, it's good.

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam interact with Allah Kanika Tara limiter Conterra Hoffa. Now your

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son is to worship Allah as if you see if you don't see Allah subhanaw taala he sees you.

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I was call us to mention that this is monotonous. It also lessens our Caslen customers elektrische mean.

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There is a person who knows Allah subhanaw taala properly and understand his responsibility and stand with his responsibility. While while while he is praying, he might not be reflecting upon if I don't pray and go to hell. No, it is believed that this the best thing the only thing that can lead him to success in this life is this. He enjoys praying to Allah subhanaw taala

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he might finish the prayer without viewing. You know, the fact that if he doesn't pray, he goes to hell.

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To get idea, these are the best people. These are the best people. The second one also is good, because he does. But these are the ones that they are doing because they know if he didn't do they go to hell. And they do it sincerely for the sake of Allah. But what is pushing them to do it is the fact that if they stay away from it, they go, they go to help. Both are good. But the first one is, is better than the second one. So sometimes the fear this is what we call one zero. A DD right? Yeah, you don't person doesn't feel shy. If it is between him and others. He doesn't care. But he is afraid of Allah subhanaw taala

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Yeah, that's why we need good manners, right? No, I'm telling you some people we need good manners when it comes to

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to marriage right looking for a partner. We need good manners and you need what else? Religion. Religion is the hardest.

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Please do understand this correctly. Religion is the hardest. Hardest means

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security the one that is current in the manners

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Yeah, because trust me if the minors are there only no religion. When that person doesn't see what they are expecting, you know to see. They might change very quickly,

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very quickly. But if they are religious religion would tell them no, this is inappropriate. Although they're bad to you. It shouldn't reply them with the same

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colitis original Attica Illa mintpay said Don't marry your daughter except to somebody who here fears Allah subhanaw taala

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He said because he's the only one that has

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to commit a chroma when he loves her. He will respect and honor you know, and do everything to make her happy. What either Kelly

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let me hit her while when he doesn't like her, he will not disrespect, you will not humiliate, and he will not harm

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you good idea. When they hate what did they do?

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Beat? You know smack. That's a good one who beat

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otherwise others she will hear all kinds of words. Why do I say that one is a good one. Because sometimes wahala between you is much easier than some of the words that comes to those one affects the heart and destroy.

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This one just affects you physically.

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Get it. That's why it says although they will cover

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a shed do Murata and Alan neffs in your work. So, how will Manetti sometimes trust me words, they do worse than salt and stick.

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And especially when it comes to the essence, this you know, you might go and tell us of anything insha Allah never you know, the handle.

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If his family is to hear the same thing, she will cry, it will affect her she will remain for days. This is not weakness is natural. And as I always say this is good actually for us to have this resistance like the brothers life will never be good to Allah whether they agree they don't agree that emotional feeling is good for the OMA is good for the human humanity

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for it to remain. So,

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thinking wisely is really necessary. So, this religion should take it the first thing you should be looking for and then good manners. person might be a religious person in the masjid, right? Somebody prayed in the budget of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam when he comes out he says mashallah,

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you know, he says I wish people would remain in the way they were in the masjid

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at clear and pay up here, but when they come out, I will be mentioned as if he wasn't the one who was your brother in domestic.

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In his shop, he is somebody so a person might be religious according to the way he thinks otherwise. Although we have comment on this

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because what is religion? Religion is all about minus minus either with Allah or to itself go to x. But there are some people who understand religion to be mosquito

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aitikaf and seeking the knowledge or religion is much wider this Yeah, the one who doesn't behave correctly in righteously nicely to others as religion is deficient.

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Karla Ketu culinary Wahhabi Jabbar he's afraid of the anger of Allah subhanho wa Taala whatta COVID Ozar and also to have a lot of sins been accumulated in in his account. Well hello Bahasa Cove, Allah Delica Tama will fix let me know who that clash this one usually it will stay away from the edge because of the was it a DD

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Ben Cardin who either Cove

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Bacara fine fighter who have who for r&r know how often dunya we can have each life in FC I will marry here with a happy Jackie he was supporting mortality and the nurse was support or support him in it man Yeah, man it was only as a as zuari

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when he has to Allah he will forever harder how late they are alleged.

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together and how they alleged death Oh

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God I will dedicate the half I'm inviting my boo boo hoo hoo in the USA whom indelicate mushrooms are cut them habitable and I'm happy to directly mushroom in the fall and polish is sometimes personal. Last there

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there was evil dini.

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But there is another one.

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You know, how I mean for what to do?

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He doesn't want to Jr to be to be gone. And he realizes that if he is to keep having the issue towards this person, he might lose his dunya he might lose his life. Yeah, that's true because he keeps going. Sometimes it goes on commit. Zina, what else do we learn if he's married? What happens to him? Soon until death. Yeah, or while he has Villa homosapien

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duality with some people what happened to him?

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death also? Yeah, so let's allow some acid mumbo jumbo. Yeah, I'm gonna I'm gonna call mute in fact to invite Alma for the chrysalis Allah sama said, he said kill both of them, the one who's doing and the one who was gonna upon if he agrees, of course, because if he's force, we then kill him because of somebody force him to Yeah.

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So he's afraid of losing his life losing his wealth, you know, or losing his job or losing his position, you know, or being,

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you know, humiliated and disrespected. And also, that person that is really important to him is going to see him with the eyes of this respect. So he doesn't want that.

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So if this fear has the strength and the power to divert him from thinking of the edge, it says different modalities, so he's going to stay away from the edge

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to get an idea because sometimes it might be staying away from it because he is afraid of losing something which is more beloved to him than the Marshall

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you get it idea and that's that's how it is because if I, if this person doesn't want to lose his job, that means the job is more beloved to him than the machine. And he knows that if he keeps doing it might lose his job, might lose his life might lose his wealth.

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So if this is attached to that Ash

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be in line as the agenda he will stay away from foundation.

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Identify Malika

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Callie Wirkkala Baba habitude Metropolis Erica injure Bailey him culpo equality Amala delay enough suku

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it says if none of these protectors and defense exist

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yet and the person keep moving towards thinking about the machine look

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what happens after that the heart will be inclined to that person

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and also well, you know, inclined to it completely.

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And that issue is going to dominate the heart and the HELOC which immunocal You mentioned is going to is going to take place

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Allah Saboten Afia so what is the best thing to do in this talk Paula has a certain level of Elbasan

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fear in the last one Rotella and lowering your gaze as a person is interested in something Allah subhanaw taala has opened a lot of doors for him

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What are these those those of marriage

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going to marry if his place doesn't have people that fit him? Then wait for his place go to another place

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because sometimes in your place you can't afford

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because there is nobody in that place except holy.

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And will there McCullough duel?

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Yeah, the bar is like

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I don't know how to describe it move to another place. There are some places which you can easily manage there in a very simple way.

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Go to that place and listen to anyone who's telling you all you have to go into your country and all of these things. Look at yourself and your relationship with Allah subhanaw taala first.

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Otherwise, follow your country members in your statement and advice and harm yourself at the same time. You know Allah smart is not going to excuse you at all because what they are telling you is not written in the book of Allah subhanaw taala in the Sunnah Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam is supposed to do everything possible, which is halal to protect yourself.

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Really want us to pay attention to this statement of claim about this issue, especially in the time we are living in

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a lot of lots of lots of cases like that in the past they have you know, in the present time we have more than them more than them. And subhanAllah you see also in the in the student of knowledge because if I see the losers the gangsters and the bad ones, you know when they have asked What else do you think they should have? If they don't have asking you how you have dealt?

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You get it but the problem is when you have to level good people salehoo be tested.

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Heather and Heather person should be very careful on the last one to Allah and always ask Allah subhanaw taala to protect you and do the right thing. And quickly elevate yourself and do everything to protect yourself, especially the marriage as I always mentioned, Allah grant you good until we can be with you wherever you are, there will be Colombian coffee. So how to Colombia we have the Kushala start from country really

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the first question gifs is from Sister Masha. Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh. Your chef

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is long. She has two questions. The first question someone stepped on cat feces with their shoe on whereupon they put it off and kept it with with some other shoes. exited accidentally some water came into contact all the shoes in that area. Do all the shoes have nudges on it? The one that has an adjuster, the one that we're not sure we go with the

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with the certainty that there is no new Jassa until you see. Otherwise you're going to have a lot of doubt. You know, we have people who are like that. I stepped on Nigeria and I work on the space. And then I have to announce to everyone that whoever work from this space also isn't there this

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is this is exaggeration and Gulu.

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So you see an agenda you work on that. So let's assume I say when one of you comes to the masjid you should look at his shoes if he says no Jassa issue wash, remove then adjust and pray if he doesn't seem to justify citizen

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there might be he step he might be stepping on a very clear you read of a child he doesn't know that urien is an adjuster.

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but he doesn't see it doesn't know and he goes and pray with the shoes. His prayer is it accepted? Yes it is supposed to have assumption more lie maybe maybe you know some kids when they pee in this place. Yeah this is very good for the sisters because they always have this doubt

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maybe maybe know what she sees she works on it Islam is very simple. What she doesn't see just go with the general principle that says things okay

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yeah very simple religion otherwise having doubt Yeah, maybe my prayer is this my prayer is that

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If he smells that means that is because one of the sign we recognize that just smell

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they say that the

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intercom intercom hookman

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I can talk to her that's it

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thank you

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when you see

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you can see this but with that even smell you can see it go with the know that there is no nature so

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even if it does exist it doesn't affect you at all. Otherwise trust me life is going to be very difficult.

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This chair that I'm sitting Did you ever was there any chance when the

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baby comes and sit on the chair? Yes because sometimes they have event you know

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get it they pee on it

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Allah Allah but possible right possible the child that doesn't have an MP but he enjoys it it must be like that that could Arabi he peed on the chair

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the mother when he peed that she wash it? We're not sure

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and also

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the Akita of that person who is having these questions that appear that says it has to Hallett in the USA let us let us know just tell us to Hallett

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he's going to have doubt in all his clothes that he used to sit in that place you know

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how many times we sit in this place you know throughout our life in this place we're sitting on this mashallah humble chair. Yeah, and then we're going to count from that time how many then I will have a lot of confusion. Yeah, this close I was using it to this to sit on this face. Did I wash it that time gone ask my family online we forgot when did you yeah I think we wash it after a long time you know then I would go and calculate the days

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you get my attorney use

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thanks excuse me in spite of they're

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completely gone. It is the HANA

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either bizarre that the Vatican does not have a

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couple of tools.

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Lacking was a he

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was a he is to highlight in the desert.

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But then there was low xalatan The Jessa bishops lira wallet

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and tomato honey. And if the Ninja is gone completely, because of the sun, all the wind is taken taken and then the data is gone. We don't see is I mean small amount of

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I just found that place and it does you don't smell it nothing remains

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yeah when they have worst example actually then this

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low Dhaka caribou female and

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you know you have a dog that died in the place which has a lot of salt you know Salt Salt preserve

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but how will kaboom will

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change rather than becoming the sun it can be

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or we'll

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even the caller will have an

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Akita tonight

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and help me do Rama in the in the antenna deck a guy that you have guided assists and helped me do my ability would you do whatever

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goes with the elder would you

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hide from our

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web interface interface?

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No less

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legal ruling goes with the law. The law exists the hakomi exist the law doesn't exist the Hong Kong doesn't exist.

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You didn't pray why? Because of the JSON your cloth

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your wife told you I have a lot of soup.

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I cook last time by mistake a lot of soup. And now I'm going to throw it away because I don't have a place for it in the fridge.

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Good idea. And then she told you why can you use it to wash the part which they just attach?

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Yes, you tell her elaborate kittila

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You wash it

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you know and pray your prayer so how about Allah colinton majority is popular.

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Because he everybody can test Actimel mark up the whole

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enough will tell you know it's time

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so let's focus here. While the host lady and a luxury coffee.

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Because lash Why Why can't you pray in that cloth because of the NASA five now if you ask even the majority whereas the Jasna is gone. The only thing is it is not been removed by the top

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then to them no it cannot be gone completely because you don't use what Allah has wanted to ask you to to use. But if his son we couldn't see the ninja you know use it juice

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watermelon juice and use oven use watermelon which use with the like

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any reduced

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banana pie yeah that one that one is really not good. Papaya eat it a row but we'll make use this bit and sometimes actually,

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you know papaya, something like that too. It's one of the fruits. Yeah. That is good. Very good. Actually in the booty mentioned is very good in medicine. Very very good. Actually the joint is that affects the kids, you know when they are born. Many kids they have to go for this therapy, the light you know to put on them until the time they join join this is gone.

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Pile works a lot in this is take the use multi property and let the input drop it in for the child to drink and let the mother to drink a lot. Be the light electric vehicle and you see him 5000 6000 ringgit, but don't tell the doctors.

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I heard somebody mentioned a lot of benefit, especially in

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in the leafs also.

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Anyway, the juice is not nice. Get it? So you're going to use that used to clean

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and you clean it and the adjuster is gone because of that. Why can't you pray in the cloth? And what pay somebody will tell you you can have us

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good luck grantees. Good. So if you don't smell anything, you don't see anything colors. No smell, no anything. Why would you say that the clothes is affected by them.

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Unless if you see them adjusted with your own eyes, you know, and this is a baby peed on your clothes and it's very clear and doesn't smell. You cannot say no, I don't smell No, it's good because it's when you see it with your own eyes. But you cannot just come and say that, Oh, maybe maybe my clothes touched. What life is this?

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Second question is from Bloomerang. If parents don't want the children to know something, and they use a different language to communicate in front of them, is that also impermissible? We should tell them? Yeah, this very good question. They should tell them they shouldn't say You said we're going to charge you, you and fidelity shake.

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They should they should tell them.

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Kids please tell us something important. We are going to use another language which you don't understand. They should do

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Otherwise, if I talk to my family in the language which my children don't understand what am I telling them tomorrow so they can do it with with others.

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And they think also we're talking about them. And tomorrow they will talk also about other others. Because the father and the mother also do

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this is a question from one of the Nottingham graduates. He's asking that we paid money to learn in the university to obtain material and courses as the university gave us access to print these courses and download them. So assuming the university does not allow us to share it with anyone, is it can we do these modules and material become our property? Can we use them to teach other people Yeah, it depends on what if you're paying for that this is your right you can give it to anyone you want it cannot just sell it and destroy their competition. This one shouldn't be shouldn't be done it get it but just sharing with us I bought something from the university and I have him I have him

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he wants he needed a pass to him to copy from me

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i people's and given the Michael let somebody else's

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exaggeration is no good. I can use it to also teach somebody else because I bought the materials from

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however, I cannot sell it to others, you know, can I sell it to others which will affect their competition

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because I'm gonna sell it cheaper than what they do.

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And they will get harmed also

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cannot have them just passing it to friends who want to benefit from it. So I bought a CD legally, you know, original copy from the company. And then they told me I cannot give it to my friend a line. This is my CD I pay for the for the effort and I pay for the thing.

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I can give that one to him

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Okay, the second question is that this is like some of the brothers we saw. There's a hadith that

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I'm not sure exactly what the Hadith was but the reward of working for the gematria so for us, the Masjid we go to is about 45 minutes away the PGA mosque. So more or less

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is it worth it can come under the heading of this hadith to work to that message and

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he says well mashallah

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Hadith says mashallah he walks

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he walks with he doesn't write anything

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at least bicycle Tinder in case you don't like this you know but car or motorcycle that's when the most likely is not included. However the efforts you're making to go and catch up a prey and listen to that fatwa this one also is counted for even the hazard you

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should you

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should do her the walk or make sure that you come before the other make sure you come before that and walk through know

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if you know that if you walk

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because it's very big very big and important reward that you shouldn't miss come early and work

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but it's okay. Again if you cannot come earlier then a person should just drive and come early and catch up the fall before that

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it says someone

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is sick

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soon as

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someone says something

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that like to see in between zero because

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someone says that it really means that

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slave ratio

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is there

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is there

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anyone to?

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meaning if I if I understand your question around there you're asking about somebody who indirectly accused another person of committing sin right

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okay, I think I get I get it because in Islam these are these are court cases is a court cases me and you cannot judge cannot decide but a person who is affected, you know one person look at another person and tell him Alhamdulillah I never commit Zina.

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Alhamdulillah My father never committed Alhamdulillah I'm not stupid. You know,

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you get it. These type of things. We'll call it Atari. Yeah, these are court cases, the one who's affected has the right to take him to the court. And the judge will look into the statement. If you find it Atari. You will ask him to provide witnesses or else they'll beat him. At lashes. It happens all the time of O'Meara de la mano, when somebody says Alhamdulillah he needless to resign yet less to resign. He says Omar says, you have to bring evidences, the companion said, but he did not remove any but he did not accuse him. He said but I can know.

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What does he mean when he says alhamdulilah has to resign? You look at his vent. He says Alhamdulillah I thank Allah supported that I never commit Zina, what does that mean?

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Of course does he need to tell that guy the other guy, other guy with his sheep, he understand that this person is accusing him getting out there. So just keep it like this. This is a court cases if a person who is the person who's affected wants to take the case further and he takes it to the court. The authority should look into the statement and the judge based on that the the gift shop Thank you very much

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is accusation. The judge decide they check first and then they will see whether it is accusation or not. Yeah, if I'm a judge, inshallah will never I will say yes, it's accusation. I beat him at times if he doesn't provide witnesses for that.

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But I'm not a judge. Then I will tell them go to that maxima. The hockey dad called He will judge in Sharma.

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Because in that

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because court cases, these are court cases, sometimes we decide here against the court.

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You get it. But the judge when he decided his judgment is stronger than ours.

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That's why if a person hurt his wife, Ibrahim, this one cannot tell him. Your wife is divorce.

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But the judge can say your wife is God can separate between them and it works Islamically also Allah will accept that kit. He has do everything possible not just with the moment they just come he tell him no, she's not. Right. No, it doesn't do that. But Judge I mean look into the case and analyze it and study if they conclude this marriage has to be gone. Then is go it is gone. Yeah. So that's why when when we mentioned that something is a court case, we just refer to the core, but as we say, Yeah, this is accusation but indirect accusation has happened. If the person who is affected decided to take it further, it goes to the to the court and then we leave them with the decision of the

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court shall

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so don't want to go

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I can reach home.

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Two minutes, Christopher. I'm sister chef Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa

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sallahu. Illegal for dunya.

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A woman has seen purity within the 40 days of universe and so she prefer purifies herself and prays. What should she do if bleeding begins again before the end of the knife universe and continues until after 40 days?

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She sees the purity

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only after a woman has seen purity within the 40 days of the fast and so she prefers herself and prays. What should she do if bleeding begins again before the end of the universe and continues until after 40 days? better understand manner the purity comes right as you phrase right

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And then blood comes back. What should she do bleeding begins again before the end of the new

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she sees the purity hulless finished, there is no specific time for any faster and according to the best opinion thinking by Shazam in Tamia

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got into the best opinion taken aback *less I mean Jamia and the fast is not restricted with 40 days

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although the companions have yet said we used to stay for 40 days in December of awesomeness Allah Allah, but the best opinion is one that says it is not restricted to 40 on Shafi said he knows his sister who has in the first 60 days 60 days, every time she delivered a good idea. So the point is she sees purity she takes shower and tables will

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continue with the life and then blood comes in I will advise her to check and see this blood Casper was probably might be the height

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you get the idea and then she judge it based on based on that inshallah. But if this if the thing is blood blood,

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right, as for the sofa and cuadrados, yellowish and brownish thing that comes after the purity, this one is not counted at all, she's a throw it away, which is often free. If the thing comes before the purity, then she she counted as part of the height. She She shouldn't be patient. Because Because height doesn't come usually doesn't come directly. It starts with those things slowly, slowly, gradually increasing, increasing and then it decreases until Until then, you know, and I advise how to take the book of economics I mean, at the mouth of the Academy. We read it a lot Sharla she has something she doesn't understand that we might be dealing with that

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Subhanak law now we have the Gusher. Allah Allah Allah and Stanford got to make sense