Ibrahim Nuhu – 90 The Disease And The Cure

Ibrahim Nuhu
AI: Summary © The speakers emphasize the importance of sharia in bringing together individuals and their culture, sharing good things and avoiding the idea of being associated with religion. They also emphasize the importance of sharia in bringing together individuals and their culture, sharing good things and not being afraid of comments about one another. The speakers emphasize the importance of sharia in bringing together individuals and their culture, sharing good things and not being afraid of comments about one another. They also discuss the benefits of working with a therapist and the importance of women empowerment in society.
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Have you know have you been hammered instead? Allahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salam. I'm about a Leo

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if Nando issue will eventually suffer Alfa Romeo Thalassa Dinnerbone and wife ugly Serophene Michelle September Alpha no headway actually no I'll see you there Santa Fe have academic Mobarak at that word so Allah subhanho wa Taala and you ready convener of human at our level? One young Pharaoh Elena as alert were fairly lucky where Vida Jetta houfy rally.

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So inshallah we will continue from where we stopped last session. So today inshallah we'll be dealing with a new new chapter which is about a voucher alright if it bit of out in the loop, Allah subhanaw taala is at hecky he doesn't he doesn't place a level

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the sins with one

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level Allah subhanaw taala put

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on every sin minasi boohooman alcova what fitted in terms of punishment, so this person might be receiving the punishment harsher than the other one because the sin he is committing is greater than less enough, is brother and this person might be receiving a sin harsher because he is a position that he shouldn't do. Even the other also shouldn't do about this one should know this one is a scholar, this one is happy to Kitab Allah this one is Hadith this one is funky, and the other one is just a normal person. So both of them are sinners. But when it comes to the punishment, the knowledgeable person might receive punishment harsher than the one who is not upon the knowledge.

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Both of them if Allah subhanaw taala wish we will punish them, but the punishment will be multiplied in relation to somebody who knows. Or when it comes to the ignorant person somebody who's not at that high and prestigious position might be lower than the punishment that alas Montella is given the scholars or the student of knowledge so it's very important to know this any internet so that a person will be very careful when I lost my to bless you with an AMA you're supposed to preserve it in the country now Martin Varaha mlmrc to zero now some

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of them said if you are appointed to Nirvana from Allah subhanaw taala Fetta

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means take care of it. You know, preserve it, for in Alma I'll see to Zeeland now, because mousy to zero now allow see the sins they usually take away.

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That word encode the name of Allah subhanho wa

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Taala mechanical Zulu moto via WeChat and feeder Raja at home of ICT, the valid or Koba to dunya will be has to be to have our local MCs since the sin you know, the sins it is a matter of fact that much of our time, which of our time means they're not equal in terms of nature, they're not equal equal in terms of negative results they're producing in the community or on an individual level, they are not equal, they are different in terms of their nature and in terms of the facade, the corruption and that the fitna the cost the community, to our terracotta dunya well after the punishment also is different in the dunya. And the punishment also in the Africa is different.

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So this is what it will claim is going to be talking about have a look at the punishment of Zanni somebody who committed Zina, if his Moxon, he already had a relationship with a spouse in an illegal marriage, you know, an illegal marriage. He already did that he married before, you know, and he has a relationship with his spouse, that he has to be punished with death penalty, very harsh punishment, you know,

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look at the person who did that, but he'd never married before the punishment is lesser the punishment is is less than one has a place where he satisfies his desire. And also the danger in him is much greater than the danger in the one who did not satisfy His desire yet, because that one knows what is there and this one does not know it keep on imagining. So when he has this Islam is a bit lenient, you know, on him,

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beat him 100 times and send him to jail for one year. But the first one you can see the punishment is different because the facade

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is also different, you know, especially when that person is committing Zina as we had mentioned earlier with a wife of a jar or with a wife of a job that is maharam You know, and that we go and a lot of things a lot more to the point on that I mean put on that person because of the evil consequence of his of his attitude and somebody who do it on that on another person

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who is similar to him in terms of gender. The punishment also is very harsh in relation to the to the male situation. So even a game says when another coffee Have you only like as though Gela or has an HOV faster than wedgies in German Federal Code. It says we are going to Inshallah, talk about this matter, bathed in light Allah in a very brief manner. You know, we ask Allah subhanaw taala to grant us Tofik but we'll be dealing with it in a very brief manner. It says Asana it. So it says there are two routes for that for the sense.

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Number one, tell Kumamon it will fail.

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These are the basis of this in either you are leaving that which Allah subhanaw taala asked you to do well,

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or you are engaged in that which Allah subhanho wa Taala asked you not to do the law says do this, but Allah subhanaw taala says don't do this, but you did.

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Well, Homer, them Bernie leathery, truly, every teller Allahu Allah subhanho wa Taala Bahama, Abba, we Elgin New Orleans and these are the two sins that last one what Allah tested, you know, these are the two things that are lost 100 What Allah tested Abba, we Elgin Collins,

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the parent of the human beings and the genes alas one that tested them with these two roots of all the sins

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delko my morning coffee look,

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you know, leaving that which Allah subhanaw taala asked them to do or

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doing that which Allah subhanaw taala tell them not to not to do.

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Why Killa Houma young Kazuma Betty Valhalla he Illawarra hidden Ireland joke about didn't feel cool. And both the saints Turkey Memorial were available during that which Allah subhanaw taala asked you not to do or stay away from that which Allah is going to ask you to do. It says they are divided also into two categories, two parts

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looking at dimension that some of them they are hidden and some of them are exposed

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or creativity more allottee in a happy life or in a happy Metallica Haleakala huella hacking ID.

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So, either you

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look at look at the Mahali in the place where the sin exist. So it might be exposed, or it might be it might be exposed through the Jawara limbs, or hidden, which is an act that is practice through the through the heart

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what he bought and sometimes you might

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divide these two things mentioned by him Yokine into

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these two roots of the sense you might divide them into

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I'm sorry, you might divide them based on the metallic metallic means something that they are connected to.

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If you look at the connection, if you look at the place and the position, why they exist, you divided into hidden and exposed one. If you look at the thing, they are connected to you divided into two also.

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Sometimes the scenes might be connected to that right of Allah or the right of His creation.

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We're in kind of cool, happily healthy, He for whom whatever mentally happy, although every right which belongs to the creation of Allah subhanaw taala at the same time, it is also the right of Allah subhanaw taala so we can keep that division, although we know that any right that is related to

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the creation of Allah subhanaw taala it is also the right of Allah subhanaw taala

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like it Soumya

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How can live sulky ya know who you have, and who he would be might be more thought about him was called to be scalping. Why do we call it the right of his creation because we look for that right when they look for it. We have

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To look for it and give it back to them, and where school will be is caught him. And also that right will be gone if they, if they dropped it, if they drop it down. That's the reason why we see

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the right of the creation. It is right to the last one and initially, but since the last one, make it in that way, that if they look for it,

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that if they're looking for it, and we have to grant them that right. And also we

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we allowed them to, to cancel it, you know, they do have a right to cancel it's like a sauce is the right of Allah subhanaw taala. But if the owner of the right, you know, amongst the human being the creation of Allah, if the owner of the right cancels, it is cancelled. You know, we're not supposed to execute that PSRS at all, like vantus Tofik.

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Karla Where's kotoba? Is copy him. Why did he have the Wu Tang customerid arbatax summit, Maliki at Maliki attend worship on eating was several yet whereby he

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will claim says these sins in general are divided into

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the sins in general are divided into

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these sins in general are divided into four categories. Okay, the one that is on the heart, the one that is on the limb, the one that is

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the one that is the right of Allah subhanaw taala and the one that is the right of others, you divide them into four categories.

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Number one, al Maliki of the normal Malkia

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number two ever over shape on

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number three as the number seven yeah

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number four as you know Al bahini

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well I took a generic he said there is no sin which is not one under one of these categories.

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What is the normal Malkia

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color for the noble Malkia these are sins which are connected to the Mallacoota the milk

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mallet and what does that mean? And yet ah man is the fella who means if it means if it to be removed via color Algoma or cavity wall Jebel Welker Why was there a burden healthy when hedonic as the noble amalickiah immunochemistry referring to the sins which are related to you know, the attitude of the person where he took the SIFAT of Allah subhanaw taala and put on himself

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you know, SIFAT of Allah azza wa jal to put it on himself. Like what? Showing arrogance, you know, putting your head above everyone, and also

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behaving like nobody can correct you, you're always right, you know, you know, nobody can guarantee you're always right. And you You behave that you're the strongest, you're the greatest and nobody is, is in in the capacity to fight you. And you think that you are somebody that cannot be resisted, you know, and you you put yourself on top of everyone, you know, these are that the SIFAT of Allah subhanaw taala only Allah subhanaw taala has that only Allah subhanaw taala has disavowed SIFAT there is no creation with the sivert even the Ambia and the angels

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Subhan Allah you do have across the history is people who think this will be have this nature and they have this power and they are they are there

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was to imagine Hulk and enslaving others because when you have this job route, you become so tyrants so, so, I mean, you claim that you have the power and you have the strength and you have the ability to do whatever you want and nobody can step on your way to stop you from doing what you think of doing.

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So, the survival of Allah subhanaw taala he qumola Guacamelee hooked me, across the history we have been seeing and reading about people who are behaving in this way.

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And nowadays also we have, you know, we have those criminals on earth without mentioning name, you know, who they are, who did not want the world to relax. You know, sometimes we look at their attitude as if they are trying to tell you we are the controller's of everything. So Allah, they're really done, let the world relax as the last one to talk

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By the predecessors he says I fell off he helped me sad.

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They they cause corruption on earth. You know, act federal feel facade pay do so much corruption on earth.

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Allah smarter says for sub Isley or a book has sold out that Allah subhanaw taala. He hits them with the wit of the of the punishment. He visits them with the punishment

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that says for Kulina sadhana, we then be That's what I said in their Buckler building facade, everyone could be led by Allah subhanaw taala to do whatever they want, but nobody escaped the punishment of Allah subhanaw taala at the moment he he wanted to get that person in a bucket of illness. He says for me, each and every one of those nation generations lost power to assess we got them with that with they deserve but we know man hours Manasa Natalie, how Seba well we know Monica to say how are we in home medicals have now been OB OB no money.

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Last it says some of them we sent them a very strong and harsh hurricane. It took them from that I mean from the root you know, it caused them to disappear.

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he says

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each and every one of them some of them will cause them to drought. Some of them we take them like this. So Quinlan within the Alaska hotel says each and every one of them has been caught by Allah Samantha because of the because of their sins.

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So nobody has caved the punishment of Allah you Hill Well, are you Hamid Allah, Samantha can give respite. But up to the time when I last minute I wanted to take a person when the time arrives, that person cannot cannot escape.

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Either for the aisle Malkia kit when a whole Delica were cool if he had a shield could be Robbie as a soldier. And it is also a part of that I shouldn't call the rugby Tada or whoever won, you know as part of that the noble amalickiah person to associate partner with Allah subhanaw taala This is the norm which is related to the kingdom of Allah subhanaw taala and his mother could

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show could be fee as my he was he thought he was an Ohama you know, when somebody attribute a partner to Allah subhanaw taala His names and his attribute and he believes that there are other earlier you know, objects that deserve to be worshipped other than Allah subhanho wa Taala Why should configure a b V mobility, why the Thani collided up to hola Na, and sometimes also a person might do shake you know in terms of the Miranda of Allah subhanahu wa Tada

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the way he deals with the last one or two that he committed ship, this sherek might not necessitate, go into the * wine bottle I'm Allah, Allah the Ashra confy him Allah He, although it destroys the righteous deed, but it might not necessarily mean that person is going to *. It destroyed the deeds he loves it. Now he believes in Allah smarter he has it or heating him in that nature. But unfortunately when he prays, he prays for the sake of others, you know, he wants other people to see Him and praise Him. So that's a shift in terms of a guy that he's worshipping Allah subhanaw taala with the intention of Allah subhanaw taala alone but he wants others also to talk about what he's

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doing. He wants others to praise what he is doing. Do you want others to make comment on what he's doing to praise it you know to be happy, so he fixes it and make it makes it beautiful because he wants other people to to give their own input in a good way according to him

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follow her they'll be smooth out Anwar is an OB were full of he called Allah He Beeline and this is the greatest, you know the worst type of sins that ever exist. You know, smile law to have a shift in Allah's mountain and the noble amalickiah These are the worst type of suits because they easily take a person out of Islam and they easily take a person to * forever and ever or they take a person to * for a very long period of time all the earn the President very harsh treatment about last Montella in this dunya and also the ACA so do remember that a global Malkia Tanaka the dough heat you know it goes against our heat. Absolute

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so me look I'm says Wait, hold up and it is part of this global Malkia I'll call you are liable to talk about Allah subhanaw taala Billa I mean

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She hoped he would normally when it comes to his creation and his command, you know, to talk about Alaska or Darla dealing with his Sharia without having the knowledge and the permission but Allah subhanaw taala to do that,

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it is well we have to be very careful because up to date, we have this attitude of attack, you know, a person putting himself at the position of the scholars claiming to be one of them, but he is not you know, a person posing and putting himself at the level of the student of knowledge, but unfortunately he is is not and people will take him as Mufti is what is going on. Just a person graduating from the university, you know, he has the degree, then he becomes actually an adviser of companies, just a person has the ability to choose some courses and nowadays, how, how is it you know, now sometimes everyone can do what many of us are doing,

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because it's all about preparing the lecture and then just just go and deliver

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it just go and deliver. Know the one who should give fatwa in terms of these matters should be a real scholar, somebody who must have that discipline and has the capability to do is Tim Bob and he had this is when you will not see the problem. Otherwise nowadays when you see our Islamic vanishes system and the economic system, you know, we're not moving anywhere is like we are stagnant in one place. We have to be like that. Because if you look at the nature of those people who are advisors of those finances, you know, finances or who are they, people who we know who they are, you know, people who we know who they are.

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So, just graduating from the University, going through those classes doesn't qualify a person you need more and more to be at the position where you can talk on behalf of Allah because you have to look at it in this way. It's not about somebody do it. Now it's about you looking at the position, you're putting yourself you are talking on behalf of Allah, you are saying that I am a representative of Allah as well to talk on his behalf. Swan Allah. Quan read the book written by him came

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nominal work in Arabic.

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Very tough statement. Very harsh statement he mentioned in the Mocha demo, when he's talking about the position of the Mufti and Taliban. When you are given an answer to a question or the fatwa, it said, your position is very, very, very, very sensitive. So he says, It is watchable upon whoever is sitting on this chair, to make sure that he's really prepared. Because the question on the Day of Judgment is going to be very heavy. Every single person who takes your fatwa and use it in his life will be questioned by last month on the day of judgment, and you have to come and defend yourself, where did he get what you give him to be doing? So we really need people to understand this that one

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of the worst type of sins is to talk on behalf of Allah subhanaw taala without having the knowledge, you know, to talk them we have a lot to say this is what Allah smart Allah wants to say this is what we should be doing. Islamically you know, this one, you must make sure that you have the knowledge do that otherwise, a person would definitely put himself into into trouble.

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He remember I always mentioned that fatwa without knowledge kills both the Mufti and the most Tufty. You know, the majority might die and most Tufty might also die.

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You know, remember the person who killed the 99 people, and he went, asking somebody to guide him whether he can repent or not. And he made a mistake by choosing among somebody who is a worshiper, and he doesn't have the knowledge, you know, and he asked him and that person does not feel a loss for hotel and not to talk on his behalf with that knowledge. He exaggerated against himself and talk on behalf of Allah with that knowledge. What happened to him, he lost his life. That guy before he repented, he said, If there is no way for me to repent, if there is no way for me to repent, because when he asked me, What can I repent? It's what did you do is that I kill 99 people. He said, No

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cannot. How can you think of repentance after killing 99 people? Is it there is no way for you to come back? So the guy says what is the point of repentance and seriously, this is what will happen. Some religions, they tell you, you can do whatever you want, because Jesus Christ dies for yourself.

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Imagine that people are going to believe in this, you know so much, you know, they believe in this and they accept it. How can the government control the situation on Earth? Because everyone is going to be committing sin because he believes that Jesus Christ, according to the way they call him or Sally salaam died because of his sin.

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Nobody will be punished. Everyone can just go and commit sins in the name of

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why religion because they believe somebody

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already died for them so they can do whatever they want. And subhanAllah I use this example, but then go too far. This way the Christian, you know, we do have amongst the Muslims who believes that they can reach certain positions whereby the kalam Allah depend that is right in the deed is going to be removed from them. Do you know that there are some people who believe that the pen is not writing anything against them, they can do whatever they want. And they call themselves Muslims.

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They do whatever they want

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it you can see this there are so called scholars also drinking wine, but they managed to convince their people and their students that they are not drinking wine because there is something which is given to them that is so special, you might not be able to see it, because only the special people can see that. Boca shafa has the quality even to talk about this so much as he does with these type of devils. They eat in Ramadan in the daytime, you know, and they come with Xena, some of them you know. And so Allah didn't feel shy of Allah's attention, shout out the community to narrate this in some of their books and some of their lectures and to praise those people who are doing that. And to

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claim that other people in the community they cannot see the reality, that that is knowledge which is hidden, only the spatial one can can understand that.

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So back to the fatwa about Allah Samantha with that knowledge, it kills the person who was given the fatwa that move tea lost his life, because he gave fatwa without having the knowledge

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and go to the person who lost his life also, during time of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, he was injured during one of the battles and their companions of the Prophet Allah sama after he asked him, he was injured, and fortunately when he slept, he woke up with Genova. He woke up with Genova. So he asked the Companions, his friends, do you think I can have I have an excuse not to touch water because I'm really afraid of touching water. So he was injured, badly injured on his head. So he said, I don't want to put water on my head because I don't know what what will happen, you know what kind of reaction I'm going to have.

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So can I have excuse not to touch water? Because now know how to take Gosling.

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So they told him no, you don't have this because you have to wash yourself Subhanallah out of obedience, ie that this is what to be done. You know.

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He thought they are giving him fatwa based on knowledge. Why did he do? He took the shower, he put water on his head. The pain increased at a level that he cannot bed anymore. What happens? He dies.

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He dies. When the report

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reached the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam so lice Allah Azza wa said kata Lu, Allahu Allah. They killed him Allah kill them also. He says hello, sir and H J. Liu in Mr. Schiff.

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Why didn't they ask when they were ignorant? They should know that the remedy of the deficiency the deficiency here is referring to the ignorance. He said the remedy for ignorance is to ask you whenever you don't know. Allah says Allah Vickery in quantum let's

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set up a shadow and he says, From uncanny and what and you Ramadasa Dara, where Corolla we'll see what

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so you should learn the knowledge and you should make sure that

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you don't talk if you don't have knowledge, send it to somebody, it is not fancy. It is not it is not beautiful, you know, it is not fancy at all for you to be given fatwa is a heavy responsibility you know if you know how, how, how big it is, you know, you will never agree sometimes even if you know you would like to send them to somebody else. A seal to talk about this in his book that he talks about the adverb of alpha to Alma well Mufti almost of T.

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He talks about these attitudes of the seller for Salah whereby they used to refer people to artists, go to this person, go to this person, sometimes the photo go go go and come back to him, you know?

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And some of them cried before they give fatwa. Nowadays, we're looking for it nowadays, whereby nowadays we signed void nowadays, we were so happy that it comes

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to law and since we look for it in this way, that's why many deceives us you know, the company will give you and pay you, you know, so that you can give that you're not allowed to talk beyond that which is dictated

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to you by by the company. How do you think we can move if this is who we who we

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Last month like Grant is good. You know the moment this call has started being restricted to the wishes of those people who are leading them, then you don't expect any good in that nation anymore.

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Carla cola hibbett I mean to help you, he whatever he, someone can I mean it had a falconers Allah subhanho wa Taala if you will, bat or monkey watch Allah who need

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whatever has, you know, these type of sins with him. So these are the people who are sharing with Allah, you know, trying to share with Allah subhanaw taala in his room Obeah you know, and also in his kingdom, you know, they're trying to put an equates themselves with Allah azza wa jal returning his robe Obeah and in his also kingdom, and they are making a partner who to Allah subhanho wa Taala Carlo had all them then obeying the law, he will no matter who I am, and this is the greatest them in the eyes of Allah subhanaw taala and no righteousness work with this one shade can exist no righteousness can benefit

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that has no basis for this righteousness. So, no matter how much you do, that is no place for them to be to the base a person will be will be in trouble, he has to fix it, otherwise Islam will be will be useless.

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So these are the first type of denote remember he says there are four right? The noble Maliki as an oval shape and here as an oval Bohemia as a surveyor.

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So it will kind of says what are the other is going to be in the law? Well,

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first of all, so the second type of you have an oval shape on here. I'm not gonna shape any fatter shaped blobby shape on the noble shape Ania is to have a person trying to look like shape on Yeah, if you

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ask him why he did this, he would never tell you that I'm trying to imitate chetana His intention was not that but his action is towards

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towards that imitating Shiva.

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In his attitude, there are sins which are known to be you know, routed back from that devil.

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What are they like hazard?

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hazard is envy or jealousy.

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What is hazard?

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A hazard is defined as

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to monies,

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monies or oil or near metal are unable

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to wish

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seeing you know, tuition I've seen the name of Allah subhanaw taala been removed from a person

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to wish that the name of Allah subhanaw taala is taken away from a person

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a person has a net amount from ALLAH is blessed about Allah with something

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you want to see him losing that. That's acid

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according to a definition, there is another definition which is more accurate than this and stronger than this, which include this and other more, which says Kara to near Matilda, yada, I love

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to hate seeing the name of Allah smile or doubt when a person smiles a lot. You know, there are some people who are like they're

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really got a job.

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They really got a job because Allah will never stop blessing his creation.

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There are some people, they just want to be the only one. They hate seeing somebody being blessed.

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You have this attitude in all categories. You have this attitude in all categories.

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As at the individual level,

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at the nation level, in all categories, Muslims are living in a place.

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You know, they're jealous of each other. And you have others, you know, who Yanni Subhanallah whenever something happens to their brother, they will not like it. You know, why is that because he is not from them. He's not from their tribe is not from the language is not from their country. You know, he's not from their race, you know, we do have this in almost everywhere you go.

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Everywhere you go.

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A person will be so annoyed when he sees another person out of jealousy, because he thinks he is coming to the place to share with him the risk that the last one until I granted him and

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is keen doesn't know that every single person a lot smarter has prescribed for him the risk and Subhanallah it is very bad when it comes from the from the Muslims. And it comes from the Muslims is very, very bad

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because you think that you believe that this is your brother, but he can see the intensive amount of jealousy that is in him just because you don't belong to his family, just because he doesn't belong to his country, just because you don't belong to his language. Whenever something happens to you have to keep it in hidden, you know, otherwise, there was that having the jealousy and sometimes it doesn't stop here, the plot against you, you know, subhanAllah you know, I have seen a situation whereby people just want you not to dress in a nice way not to drive a nice car, or to have a nice house. Why is that? Because you don't belong to them, you know, I found is so silly. I'm 20 I found

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a city.

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And this is an absolute interference, you know, to the affairs of Allah subhanho wa taala.

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And this is your Muslim, you know, if your character is doing and sometimes of Han Allah, you might find a cover, my phone could fall, they're not paying attention to us. But we too much pay attention to each to each other. What does he has? Where does he get it? How does he have it and we talk about that it's disease is disease is disease. Imagine you live next to a person that you know that he hates to in this name of Allah subhanaw taala knew how do you survive next to him you know,

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we do have these type of mentalities and attitudes among us, which are none other than sickness, he will Allah is disease is dunya what what is the dunya he comes next to your house or inside your house and get everything and you don't get so why can't you look for it from alas mountain and get it? You want him and whatsoever this dunya will pack all the things that leave this dunya Nobody stays here.

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What's so interesting in this, you know, for me to have jealousy against others. And jealousy is criticism against Allah subhanaw taala. Because indirectly, you're sending a message to him saying that he doesn't know how to choose. It doesn't know how to place his blessing. This place doesn't deserve it. Why is he placing the blessing in this in this place? Why is he giving this person this thing? This is the indirect message we're saying we're sending to who? To Allah subhanaw taala but Allah,

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Allah to Allah, Allah subhanho wa Taala does not consult any one of us when he wanted to bless a person. It doesn't talk to anyone should I do Should I not do this is the attitude of human being. Allah's motto is the best and the most accurate and never make a mistake. You know, in whatever he does, yeah, qumola Machiavelli helped me. So when he granted person something, it is his you know, and Allah knows what he's doing. That's the best place to be to be placed. That's why Allah smart is doing it.

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And as such, my dear brothers sisters, always be optimistic and positive. I love seeing good, the hair of the Muslims. As long as the person is a Muslim, be happy with him, be happy with what he has, be happy with the NEMA last month has granted him congratulate him for that and make dua for him for that NEMA to sustain

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and ask Allah subhanaw taala His blessings for your own self. And for this reason, Rasulullah sallallahu has given us one of the best principles for us to be doing in order to maintain this good manner towards our Muslim brothers and sisters. He says mankind human a biller, while your mill lay had to cook law you had to come head to head but he may humble enough see here.

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He says a person will never be a true believer in Allah subhanho wa Taala until he loves for himself, he loves for his brother that which he loves for himself. If you have this hadith in your heart, the Eternal Light Allah you will never be jealous. You will never have the attitude of envy envy against any Muslim.

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You will focus on the demo of Allah azza wa jal and you and you will be happy to see Muslims getting good and the best in the eyes of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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at the noob al Maliki was an oval shape and yeah, so these are the normal shapes on here. The first one he mentioned is the hazard. Okay, we have we talked about the hazard and the best definition I take for this is the one that says Karachi near Mattila elevate to hate seeing the last month and a blessing somebody that says has it. It is your partnership and doesn't see doesn't want to see the name of Allah subhanaw taala upon Adam Alayhis Salam he hated because he thinks Allah smarter fevered I

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Adam, upon him, and as and he was correct in his thought. So why, why is he jealous? You know? Why is he jealous angels are way better than him. They don't have this jealousy

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while battling and oppression, you know, oppression. And this also is disease. Why do we oppress disease, disease in our heart, you know, otherwise, if a person understand himself, he will understand that, that is nothing that fits him except humility and humbleness.

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Well ish and cheating. So had a lot, this is also in our communities, cheating in all of it involves

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cheating and business, cheating and tgr teaching cheating in their examination, cheating in our visuals,

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we cheat ourselves, we cheat our brothers and sisters, the wife is cheating the husband, the husband's cheating the why children are cheating, you know, subhanAllah can apply for a living nowadays, Allahu Allah.

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And also, sometimes at the government level, also, we introduced this, you know, nowadays, you know, even that the business among us, it's all based on this, you know, so sometimes some of the laws that are prescribed, you know, in the, in the government, they are provoking these type of bad attitudes, but they blocked me and certainly don't make life easy for people you are telling them indirectly to go and look for their own solutions.

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I remember in

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one of the countries without mentioning names, you know, subhanAllah, but you have to take permission for you to visit a place, you know, you must get this permission.

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That authority in a company is tell people why do you need permission? Don't you know what people are doing?

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That's long, long ago.

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Know what kind of things are introduced nowadays.

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But that's, well, as you see, because of this this matter. Politically, we have to be very smart to understand what to do in order to avoid people engaging into cheating and deception.

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Because of Damson, we pushed him so much we don't make life easy to them, then you are telling him to go and look for solutions and alternative from his own way. And shaytan is always business.

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So cheating is impermissible in Islam, the Prophet sallahu alayhi salam I said, Man was Russia follows me now. Wherever she is no one of us.

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Well, Hill, this is the second

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hatred that exists in the heart.

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So that one I'll get you can take it as a fraud, while Qaeda and the deception, deception, while mucker and plotting against others.

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Deception is rejected in Islam except in the battles that have a hole there. Because you can't tell your enemy the truth. And that's why the prophets Allah cinema make it permissible for you to say that which is not correct during the battle,

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to gain the victory, while massacre, and also the plot.

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Again, somebody

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was able to beat him, I'll see, well, I'm gonna do my Aussie law and commanded others to commit sin. Now, we do have this a lot, a lot, a lot,

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commanded others to commit sin, what I see now making it beautiful to them. Nowadays, we have it at a government level, individual level, you have on this platform, Swan, Allah, things which she didn't invite, they're coming to you.

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That's what we have to be very careful. We have to be very careful, very, very careful on what you watch, the ads nowadays are coming to you without invitation. You don't ask for them.

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And they come randomly.

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And some of them look at the content, you know that there is no good intention of this. There are some hidden agenda concerning that.

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Because sometimes some of these things, once you see them, you have to fight your brain to remove those images from your brain. They know that that's what they're bringing in. So if you don't need it, it is always better for you to keep it aside. When you need it, go for it and understand what you are engaging in and know how to control yourself and your emotions.

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Will Jessenia So nowadays, you have people who are committing the sins and they commanded people to do the sins, you know, you know, as I said, at the government's level, also you have some of the Akuma they're introducing evil to their own communities.

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The worst half of things that hurt at the individual level. One of the worst type of things I heard

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the statement or

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I heard about

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a single from one of the Muslim countries. she repented, you know, she used to do bad things, you know, those, they call them modelers or whatever, you know, she used to be in that, in that in that industry.

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Portraying herself with all of those kind of BGP vacations and corruption and dancing and no, Allahu Allah, where she stood. The point is stupid.

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And somebody one of the losers May Allah is one to guide him and guide his uncle.

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You know, I saw him also speaking,

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saying that this is an incorrect decision this woman is making. Can you believe in that and a Muslim? He said, This is an incorrect decision this woman is making because we're having shortage of sisters who are in this field, you know, subhanAllah that is the field of Massey. So we have an shortages of citizens in this in this bill, those dances and all of these things in public. He said we have shortage of them in this country. Why do you Why did you stop it? You know, and he was begging, it was telling, he was begging her to come back. He was saying I wish you will consider coming back, you know?

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Because Wow, Allah and Well, it sounds statement. She was saying I ask Allah subhanaw taala to forgive whatever I did, which is wrong. And I ask Allah to to accept my repentance. And to make me among the good one. She stopped all of those stupidities, and she started wearing the hijab.

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But that is somebody who is even advising her not to take that decision, because according to him is a wrong decision to be taken because they're having a shortage of sisters who are committing sins of that nature in that country.

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Nahan thought it can also be commands a person to engage in commission of democracy and also to command them to stay away from obedience to Allah subhanho wa taala.

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What Tanzania and they try to make that the righteous righteousness, they make them look so ugly, you know, when you're committing when you're doing a righteous deed, they make what you're doing looks so ugly, so hard to be practice.

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What if today, if you didn't, and also the beautify is a mat is related to the religion when a person escape the trap of shaytan in the hazard and unreal, and evasion. And when that will fit out? Well, macro, I'm gonna get my ask you what I see now. Now I'm 30 Or the person skip this, these things shape out will come from another dimension.

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To let him understand that he's had the capacity to introduce new things in the religion of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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were dealt with either be dealt with. And also they caused them to invite people to the bed and also adult

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as well. So that's probably fine student of knowledge that religious people are doing, you know,

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shaytan knows that he can't tell them drink wine. She doesn't knows that he cannot tell them go and sit with a sister or a brother who is not related to you and do all of those stupidities, she knows that he cannot deceive them in this in this way. So he comes from the religion itself. Tell them you have the capacity to introduce some new things and add them to the religion and make them look nice. Instead thing that we call a bid.

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No bid that is correct. That is no good in beta at all. That is no bid. That is good at all. The purpose of Surma said quote a little bit at every bidder is going this tree is a tree every bit is a street.

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What have there are

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no kind of a doubt a little bit of wood by law, and also they invite people to the bidder. And also the law is great. It's hard to know easily. And now I want in my facility when cannot map slider to who do that. He said this level is the one that is the category that comes right after the first category, the noble amalickiah And then as a shaper Yes, so there's a second level, although the evil consequences that is resulting, based on the commission of one of these sins is lesser than the evil consequence of that first category. Allah smart Allah grant is good, I guess is the best place to stop in sha Allah. In the next class we'll be dealing with the next type of sensor group as

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Serbia. Serbia was the Nobel Bohemia. These are tools is almost equal to each other. The base on the D

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One types of animals a person is imitating you know, because it's sometimes the person is imitating the animals of this nature or the animals of the other other nature

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allows more to like guide us to the truth and granted Sophie can live in OB ecology meaning Kofi Carlin illogical Mike Shala.

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Strategically Shala

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I have a question

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in Islamic inheritance with regards to the inheritance of the wife

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the inheritance the game

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with the husband right, Sal is money for us and then you ask about inheritance.

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I just wanted to

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say you said the question is

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the inheritance of the wives equal irrespective of the time they spent with the husband, right. Yeah, all of these cultural practices that you have in different countries, these are all cultural practices that are not part of the Sharia of Alaska hematol.

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That is Allah subhanaw taala already fixed inheritance for everyone. So, no modification, no cultural practices she stays with with the husband for 1 million years. She has no right except that which allows me to prescribe for her one out of four. If the husband doesn't have a child, or she takes one out of eight, if the husband has a child, the same goes to the husband if he stays with his wife for millionaires, millions of years. But then she dies he has no right in his inheritance except

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what he called accepted have one of the two

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or when that is when there is no child or he takes one out of four, or when there is a child. That's it. As for the culture that says they share the property when he dies, he has half of his property or she's going to take the whole thing these are all the parts of the Jackie Lea era

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we didn't have this in Islam.

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Everyone has a share in the law of inheritance according to their nature

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the inheritance of the cool life

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whether they will make for one day or 30 years, they share the same the feminine

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is one second husband just married than that.

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It goes

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there same thing you give them 1/4 Or one eight, they share all of them equally. Even if it is one second, they just finished a marriage and speeding car came here last month to protect and getting a date.

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The wife deserves the inheritance

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The first question is from sister

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curses that project is real because

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it is that solid Akershus versus tarsia. That affects progeny because of parents. So for example, a parent does something wrong or somebody curse them, but it also affects their progeny. There is a Hadith that talks about this but this hadith is weak. He says Allah subhanaw taala is saying that he should be aware of his curse. It's easy to fall anity Tableau was savvy. I mean what he said when I curse, my curse reaches the seventh generation of that person.

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So in terms of Hadith, you don't it doesn't go right if you look at the Knossos Allah's Muhammad says his letters it was written with okra if the child is a righteous person and he makes his attitude, be the light out of the thing that affects his veterans will not come to him in sha Allah be in the hands

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of the other

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tourney in Utah

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falls into more than one category like arrogance, malaria and so on. Yeah, yeah. Could be. It depends on the nature can fall under more than one ticket one category. That's true.

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Because when a person is having this arise as yet shape Ania and also Maliki also

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and if you look at it all the censorship and all of that

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but it just means talking about pace and why they are more related they're related to tweet more

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next time bye

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this tutorial session

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no good that Allah Allah Allah bestows on us. And if so, to what extent

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should we conceal the good that Allah Allah bestowed on us? And if so, to what extent? Yeah, it should, you should you should share with those people that you believe they're good.

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You know, people that you know that these people they're not hassling. Don't share the good things. Alas, Montez giving you with others unless if it is necessary, when it isn't as necessary, then you should because you will be provoking this hassad from people there are some people that we will like there are a lot the moment they know something happened to you which is good. They might start plotting against you. You Allah there are some people when they know that you receive some lessons they'll block and they will do everything possible to make sure that they block you from getting

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that blessing or from that blessing to be continuous. Allah subhanaw taala grant is good. So if it is not necessary, you don't share with others. But if there is a need for that, you met somebody who needs to know that yes, Allah subhanaw taala gives Allah is not stingy Allah subhanaw taala protects you know and help and you get these type of things you should share with we should share with them. But as I said, he should be very careful because sometimes some people when you share with them, it will be confusing for them.

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Because Allah said and one

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follow up question

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regarding the curse, use the parents.

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What if the children are not righteous?

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It might affect them might although as a slight as it was written with

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Allah subhanaw taala will not punish a person because of the sin of another person

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will not put it on you. Because sometimes the spiritual punishment that is dominating the place, which is because of the sin of somebody might affect whoever is there. Or whatever is related to that person. Get it this is a fact. That's why he says in the Quran what type of fitna let's even AlLadhina vilimoni comparsa stay away from fitna beware of a fitna which is not going to afflict the sinners amongst you alone.

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Get it? But generally if a person fixes himself and become righteous in sha Allah, the evil consequence of the sins of His parents or anyone who is living next to him will never affecting inshallah.

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Allah has three more questions. The first one is, is having raw milk better, according to the Sunnah

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is having raw milk without boiling.

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Know It depends. I don't know how they use it before.

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But they used to take it directly from the sheep and drink directly from the camels and it

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pays to do that.

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Whether they always boil it, you know, some of the indicators we got from a hadith they don't do a takedown immediately they drink.

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So, this one you refer to the advice by the doctors No, I guess if I'm not mistaken, they mentioned that it is always good to boil it first before you

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okay, I'm not an expert for me to talk about this session.

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But what I know is in the term of the prophets a lot so sometimes they drink it directly without boiling it. They get the milk and didn't

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buy next question is can a man take more than one wife at the time?

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What does that mean

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to marry me he is so greedy. He doesn't look at the others who did not marry yet and he married for at once.

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Yes, I think that's the question. Yeah, as long as

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Doesn't he doesn't, yeah, as long as he does not have a wife, and he doesn't have a wife,

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as he can go to Maddie for it once, if they are likely to stay with him and for at once, but if he has another one, then he has only chance to marry three of them. I mean three more other wives if they agree to stay with him

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having marriage any at the same time, at once, it is not what he call it is not

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against the Sharia of Allah's muhurta there is no place where it says that you have to do it gradually.

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the same time, also a person should think you know, wisely, but they do have a right to do things but you have to think what kind of comment people are going to be making on you. You might say I don't care but this this might affect your

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marriage two wives three wives at the same time.

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So help the people and protect them from making negative comments about about you.

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Yes, this is part of our responsibility to do things in the in the proper way so that people will not be commenting on us negatively.

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So if I'm to advise this person, chef, I would tell them just marry the person stay.

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And then when he thinks that he goes for something else, and that has to come back at the same time come together.

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Her next follow up question to this is what is your advice to a man who intend to marry more than one about the duration he must wait before taking another wife.

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No advice. That's absolutely after.

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He knows himself because you have people who are married, they have different purposes and they have different attitude and they have different things that are pushing them to marry.

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Sometimes he is married because he couldn't tolerate the one he's living with. And he doesn't want to leave that.

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Sometimes he is married just because he wants to apply the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, his wife is fine, it's okay 100% She's doing her job you know they're having a very good and excellent life. But it just wants to do that which was done by Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam and sometimes the one that he lives with with cannot satisfy him a look for somebody else you have different purposes. So to come and say that it should take at least this amount of years is the amount of days that will be wrong.

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Because looking at the nature of the people, everyone has their own I mean his own thing that is pushing him towards this why he got married again. So we don't propose and we don't tell people this is what to be to be done. Allah Allah

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is that can you say all sins are haram?

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Can you say

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yes, yeah, for sure everything is halal.

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So everything

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is everything that is sinful is haram and when you call it a sin is haram. minor or major all of them are haram.

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I need them call it a sin then it is not haram because it is not listen.

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Let's go.

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So let's continue.

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Two questions. The first one is,

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is it normal for a person to notice that what he has done is wrong? Or he has dissipated Allah subhanaw taala? Or does it depend on the state of his heart?

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Is it normal to notify a person that what he does is is is for a person to notice

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that we have done is wrong or disobey them? Yes, very normal. And that's actually a blessing from Allah smarter to grant you this sensitivity

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where you know that you're going in the wrong direction. Yeah.

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It is really really really good. A person should thank Allah smarter when he has this attitude.

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Last month, Allah grant us this correct attitude whereby we, we are aware of what we are doing, because this helps you to know that you're going in the wrong direction and fix your attitude and lessons

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her next step

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based on the statement of having good access

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of Allah subhanaw taala. And

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I used to think it is a mistake, that Allah will forgive us. But unfortunately this kind of feeling possibly drives us to repeat that mistake. Because we think it's okay Allah, forgive me. So how do we balance? We think about Allah presland committing wrong

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when committing wrongdoing and having good expectation of Allah, but at the same time, with the hope that we stopped mistakes.

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Yeah, this is this, this should be very,

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very simple when somebody maintain the balance between the hope and the fear. That's what we have been doing in the past system, only the hope and the fear. Yes, it's true Allah's mantra forgives, and it is also true that Alas, martela punishes. So a person who is committing sin and

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thinking in this way, she always remember the fact that Allah subhanaw taala might take his life well, while he is committing the sin. Now we tried to do so he doesn't like that. It is not about repentance is about you being able to repent. You know, today, our last one had granted your ability to repent. But tomorrow Allah is smarter might not give you that ability to repent in a way that a person will be in trouble. So, maintaining balance, you know, between the hope and the Rajah is always good and it is necessary actually for prison to survive, otherwise, you will be inclining towards one. Yeah, I know that allows me to forgive so I have hope in Him, it helps me to come back

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to Allah subhanaw taala and fix my attitude and move forward. And also at the same time, I know that Allah has Mattila punishes, and also he I might not be given chance to think about repentance, and might not be given chance to repent to Allah subhanaw taala. And as such, I should really fix my attitude, you know, and stay away from the sins as much as I can, because life might be taken away from me, while the commission of the of this.

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Word you and your family will mean all of us, Zack,

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can the husband dance for his wife? And vice versa in order to feel the love between them?

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If not, what are some of the things from the selection lead to this that one can do to increase the love between

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having a good relationship between you and your wife? Your wife should understand that the best thing for her is to follow the wives of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, you know? And she does she does that where they look into the life of the prophet slightly selama and they make sure that what they do is not going against his interests. As long as the last one I did not ask her to do something or ask her to stay away from something she should always listen to their husband and follow his interest. And he should also always, always and constantly show mercy, leniency gentleness, sheer love, kindness, you know, make her feel that he's She's living with somebody.

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Don't let her hear from him any bad words, any bad comments, you know, any negative comments the way we listen and hear nowadays from the student of knowledge, you know, people who are still have knowledge, telling their wives, all sorts of bad words and all of these stupidities that we hear nowadays Subhanallah kind of life people are living in Allah Allah Allah. So, this thing that is between the husband and wife, Allah kept it between them, they should do everything possible without putting restriction on each other. Unless if it is necessary for that restriction to be to be placed when Allah smart Allah has something to say concerning that matter. So what is known is the wife

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dance because this is what fit them. So if the husband also do something, which is part of the culture that fit the brothers, and is well I don't see anything wrong

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with that, if it is not going to make him look like those whom Allah subhanaw taala doesn't want him to imitate them. But naturally, the question comes in the other way around

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that many other ways to please the wife and she will be happier than seeing the husband dancing.

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I don't know anyways, it looks so weird to me when it means that but anyway, but from her side when she danced for him, what she is you going to get rewarded? Yes, she'll be rewarded, you know? Yeah, because she she's supposed to be doing whatsoever can restrict the eyes of the husband to the house. She's supposed to be

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Doing that anything that can help him to restrict Himself to His house without going and looking at other sisters out of the house, she should be participating in that. And the wife should be very smart, although nowadays unfortunately, you know, we have a lot of problems concerning this matter. The wife is not doing what she's supposed to be doing and, and at the same time, she doesn't want to see the husband thinking of something else.

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You know, many things happens like that, you know, husband will go look for an alternative because he feels that he is trapped, you know, in a place where his wife is not interested in any in relationship that is making him comfortable and making him happy. She follows her own way you know? Yes, life nowadays. And we are we made the system nowadays in the way she doesn't feel that she needs him at all. So She does whatever she she wants, because she she believes that even if there is a divorce, she has her own way you know, yeah, last Mottola grant is good and tofi can help us to follow the life of the Prophet alayhi salam

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with his family in the home equilibrium meaning Caffee holiday I guess this should be the last question and we even have some live questions. He says what is the wife request the husband? Yeah, that's between them you know, issue between husband and wife is between them a worker anything that that is nothing from the Sharia which says this is haram. They can both do it to make each other happy. You know? That's That's it insha Allah

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