Haitham al-Haddad – Tafsir Surah Talaq #08

Haitham al-Haddad
AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the importance of the heart and the use of it in relation to actions of the heart. They also discuss the "ta tatiana" award and the importance of education in protecting from illnesses and problems. The conversation also touches on the history of Islam, including the implementation of Islam's act of stopping praying and fasting, the creation of tools and measures for achieving goals, and the importance of power and education in achieving the highest level of power. The conversation also touches on the concept of past actions and interpretations, including the age of hate, deeds, and the importance of trust and the number of people affected.
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Hello, Al hamdu Lillah wa salatu salam ala rasulillah. This is a continuation of surah Allah.

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the previous lesson, we spoke about the taqwa of Allah, Allah Allah. And we spoke a little bit about a little bit

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on taco What about taco?

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Why? Because a lot Ilana says here Hey Devin, Nigella una

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una una vida por una demography do the way I did him in Kumasi Misha the tele la Derek niobium. In Ghana, you know Villa, Romania tala yellow Maharaja, the one who have Taqwa of Allah, Allah Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah will find him a way out. Then Allah, Allah Allah says, wherever Zoho mean hatred if Allah Delano provide him from places that he never expected, and then Allah Allah, Allah says Romania, Taka La la la, He who has done who puts his trust in Allah and they rely on Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah will be sufficient for him.

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We spoke about these three phase three phrases. And we spoke a little bit about

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we spoke a little bit about our

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what is our call my dear respect to the brothers and sisters tawakkol is a short

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And mainly it is the action of the heart as even as Mr. Muhammad said, he said a toe kulu

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and as Edwin Bayer said, at Doku Jima email, at Oracle is the essence of an email or atovaquone encompasses an email

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and says in number of

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if they are believers, then they should have tawakkol Allah Mandala. When that is when the disbelievers attack the

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believers the believer said, Allah Hito cannot know banality genetic nothing the body mean on Allah we have tower in Allah we have a delight.

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And we mentioned Hadith, the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam No. Coronado Mahabharata de la. cama Yokai. If you rely on knowledge in Nevada as you should, or as it should be relied on him, Allah, Allah would have provided you as he provided the birth.

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It goes in the morning with empty stomach and it comes back in the evening with a full stomach. All of you have you know, Hadith, Sabina alpha, the 70,000 people who, what

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the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam do send them said that there will be 70,000 people interviewed him without his app without being held accountable without recording.

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one of the components are captured no Mohsen said the others will ask Allah Allah Allah to be among them. Then he said you are one of them.

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Okay, another person said the other soon Allah, Allah, Allah Allah, that will be among them. Then the prophets I seldom said no. Okasha, civica, Kavita

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Akasha preceded you and he got it. always the one who is productive, he gets the reward. And the one who waits The one who waits and procrastinate, then he will lose. Anyway.

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The Prophet sallallahu Sallam explained the qualities of those 70,000 who will go to Jenna without his app. He said como la Vina la una or mala de la Yes, there is a Muslim that they are the people who does not make raffia yesterday yester pool means they do not ask raffia but this anyway as many scholars said this part is

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the correct anyway Is

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that why

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the wire that is authentic livestock and dairy wire. That is by IEF.

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Yeah, so,

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They are making growth there, but they do not ask for growth there

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is the boon is weak by they do not ask for what they are, but

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they make growth there that is not a problem. So, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam described them that they do not ask for ropa de PUE

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and they do not make this activity

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what is Ke Ke?

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What is it? Okay?

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branding it No, no there is another

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file cauterization they don't do this cauterization

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Yeah, they don't do cartelization

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law yet.

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And then when

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they don't have this bad omens and a big metal column, and they rely on a larger law,

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okay, this

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is talking about the highest degree of the code, which means that there is the highest degree of token and there is the word token, the token.

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Okay, we can say there is the highest grade of Tohoku there is the word of tawakkol. And there is the minimum token, the minimum token is the minimum token under which the person have committed Coco,

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the word under which the person committed amalthea the perfect token is the highest level of the Oracle. If the person did not attain that, that is not a problem. The perfect Oracle leads the person to be among those of the 70,000 people who will go to Ghana without help without being held accountable. What are those people? They do not ask for work?

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They do not ask for repair. What does that mean? They do not ask for Rokia. But they make clear that is not a problem.

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Yeah, as we said, that is the Dave

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is the authentic device. Yeah, nice. They do not ask for raffia. What does that mean? That they do not ask for opia?

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What's wrong with raffia? What's wrong with North Korea? North Korea is not a problem but asking for what they're

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asking for.

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Is negates the highest level of

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asking for rokeya negates having the highest level of the worker.

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Yes. Why? It's going against the highest level of the Oracle.

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The best answer that I came up with is the answer given by even Tamia Rahim, Allah Allah, he said, Because asking for raffia means the person is putting a little bit trust on the person whom he asked him to form.

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That's why those who asked for Rokia, they don't go to anyone, they go to specific people. And when they go to specific people, their hearts are a little bit attached to the person's to the personalities. So they go to sin x or y or z, they have kind of relying on x or y or Zed.

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And that little bit of relying on the personality negates full reliance on Allah Allah.

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Is it clear,

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negates full reliance on Allah, Allah. That's why the person who is asking for opia is tawakkol might be wajib. He might have accomplished what he could but he did not attain the perfect tawakkol because the perfect dog could mean that you do not look at all at the human beings. Whoa. At any of the creation you look at a lot below either only

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this is the highest level of the good. And the highest level of our call, my dear brothers and sisters is difficult, extremely, extremely difficult and it means that the person is doing good training.

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Until he has that level and when the person has the highest level of tawakkol Award and Nevada will suffice him in the dunya. And in the era we mentioned Hadith, manga Muhammad wa

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erotica la Medina dunya. The one who makes all those efforts, just one a third, which is what? The worry for the ophira Allah Allah Allah will suffice him they do.

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But the one who is worried about the dunya I'm the legend, Oh Allah will not be bothered about him. What is he going to die?

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And we said that Allah Allah, Allah might test the person. But eventually, Allah Allah, Allah if he sees that your heart is relying on him fully and you are putting your trust in Allah, Allah Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah will suffice certifies you. Yes, and we mentioned that some of the verses about this area and the importance of telecoil might be respected the brothers and sisters, some scholars also said the Hadith says now Yes, double wala Yakubu

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Yes, when they this case, which is branding yourself or call when you have this cauterization fertilization branding yourself okay. That technical term is characterization,

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what is characterization certain illnesses can be cured by branding yourself and the experts know this

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the brand the person may be in the scope or in the back or in the

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heel here

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and so on.

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The Prophet sallallahu Sallam said if there is Madison then it is in three things

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having some honey or

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copying or what ke cauterization and I for baby k Yes, I for bed k.

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Now, for big k means or I dislike k

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it is allowed, but it is disliked?

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Why do those people who have cauterization do not attend the highest level of tawakkol

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is the question clear? We said Why do those people who asked for raffia

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yeah failed to achieve the highest level of the Oracle we answered that why do those people who

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do this cauterization or branding? Why do they fail to achieve the highest level of Oracle? This is another question. Again the best answer that I came up with is to

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categorize the deeds or the actions or the means into three levels.

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The means yes into three levels.

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We know that from a Sharia perspective and from rational perspective. There are means and there are results

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Yeah, in order to be full, you have to eat in order to have children and you have to have sexual relationship through marriage or through something else. But you want to be able to have children

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remotely without sexual relationship Yeah, or over Skype as many people get married nothing that is impossible.

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Why impossible because Allah Allah Allah made the sexual relationship okay as a means to what to have a children without that means there will be no pregnancy and there will be

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no result. So that to mean or that reason is an essential component to achieve the result or it is a condition to achieve the result means that is out is conditional to that mean?

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Yeah. Is it clear?

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Okay. Same thing if you have a broken arm, it will not be it will not heal in a straight way unless you treat it okay.

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This is a requirement or condition for achieving any result this is one classification or one category of what

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have means.

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Then on the other side we have doubtful means or weak means

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doubtful means or weak means such as what? Yeah,

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all of us know, for example cold when you have cold, you go to the doctor, he tells you, if you want I can give you medicine that is before an HSE and he goes through this year and he cut cuts by the Tory government. Now, they don't give you any medicine, okay, from an angle it is good, but from another angle they are the only

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one having too many cuts from one angle is good that we rely on ourselves without Madison. Anyway, so they say to you, this is Madison,

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it doesn't really affect it that much it might help you what may help you is just any have some liquid lemon, yeah, honey and just relax a little bit Don't be tired and so on. So, that Madison is what is not a condition for the Cure agree

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that medicine is not a condition for the cure. So that is a weak means to achieve the result

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in between there are means that get closer to what to the first category which is what the conditional

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the conditional means those who are considered to be conditioned to achieve the mean and there are

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on the other side means that may be doubtful or very weak means.

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Now, for those means that you have to do them in order to achieve what you are what you want to achieve. You must do them and this is part of our code. So no one can say I want to have the children without having sexual relationship by unless any they do IV What is it IVF This is something else or he wants to say that you want to have children without having the sperm and the egg being fertilized together. Okay. That is impossible. So if you want to have our cool you have to have that means or that suburb. Okay, that calls

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Is it clear? This is part of toggle you cannot have you cannot enter Jana unless you What? work hard for it. No one say that I'm relying on a lot to go to Jenna. And he doesn't pray

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Yes. Or he does all the bad deeds and then he says yeah, just to rely on Allah and then he will go to Jenna know Allah and Allah make Jana a result of what a result of deeds. Yeah, hello Jana Tabby man condom tamiu followed

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by your deeds that you used to do in the dunya okay.

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On the other side, those weak means or doubtful means, they said that in order to attain the highest level of power couldn't

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leave them.

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Yes, leave them in order to what to attend the highest level of power.

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And this teaches us a very important lesson especially as we said the last time

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we need these lessons

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here in the West, more, we need them somewhere else because here people have been taught to look after the

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the details of those precautions that might protect them from illnesses from troubles from everything.

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Yes, and as we said last time, Allah is there. If you want to be worried about everything, you will what some scholar said they want

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Who is worried about everything and allow you to build further let me know who is

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the one who is not putting the trust in the other he will not be satisfied and he will never live peacefully he will never have peace of mind

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because he is worried all the time

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okay. So, this is this level of tawakkol okay or this is this level of means, and this is on the other side that Tao means woman yet aka Allah wa for whoever has to boohoo if there are means of the first category then you have to do them in order to have the correct power.

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Is it clear? Yeah, you will never have the correct or could without doing this type of

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of causes. However, in order to have the highest level of power it is recommended to leave the third

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type of causes okay or means

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is it clear? This is token and mighty respect to the brothers and sisters It is very good if the person is sauce training himself educating himself and get a train to have some token Allah Allah Allah reliance relying on en la jolla Don't be so worried about or don't be a tow Don't be so worried about the details of those measures that protect you from illnesses or problems or theft or so on. Okay, this is

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a lot can be said about Oracle but in Java, this will be in a woman he fell out of law school as we said that one of the amazing things about Kotaku is that it is the only option that are the low Allah said that the reward is what is hempsell Romania Taka Allah, whatever the low Allah will give him Allah is what going to surprise him. Allah is his law is fighting him for who has who then

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says in law ha ballyhoo me he

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the meaning of this simply that a lot of them know Allah is fulfilling or is accomplishing his purpose or a lot will accomplish His purpose. So, whatever Allah Allah Allah wants to accomplish No one can stop what Allah Allah wants to accomplish this is very important

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phrase to be mentioned after Taku why because whatever you do, whatever means you do at the end of the day Allah will accomplish his matters or accomplish his matters okay for his purpose for his commandment.

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They mentioned

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Sorry, when

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he when it's a question yeah. Okay.

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They mentioned a different that I have this one of this was

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in Allaha ballyhoo Emory he This is the well known law in Allahabad, you Who am re valuable is mobile and remember filet There is also in Allahabad,

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Amro who in Allahabad

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amaura, who Yes, different.

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For example, in Allahabad, Umrah Who here

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is what,

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Surely, in Allahabad,

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you can say our motto is haba or you can say it is fairly easy Will Ferrell Valley,

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or in Nevada,

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by Leon amaura Who Am rahimafrooz V by the horn, Hua Amara who Allah will reach you will accomplish His purpose or his matter anyway. And there are some other there as well. Then Allah Allah Allah says for the law

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But there are five

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other what is the translation of this a legend Allah indeed has set a measure for all things this is like the aim could

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be applied there further work on Amala here are

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those that talk about that a lot Allah Allah have created things Be careful have creative things in according to certain measures, he wanted those measures yeah

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means a lot and they create something and that was Allah created things according to measures. Once we say that the law the law that created things according to certain measures, this is referring to the act that we have no what no control of Yeah.

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So, those acts that we have no control of, they are the other of

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those acts, that we have control, on or off. Yes.

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For example, I can close this or not, can we say that those are beyond or outside the pattern of Allah? No, they are part of the pattern of Allah. How how

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in the previous type of Acts, that we have no control of Allah Allah Allah sets them for us. Or Allah Allah Allah decreed them Yes, as the prophets Allah wa sallam said in the la de la,

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la, la Casa La to

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be Sabina alafair Center, yes, that the ledger Allah decided the measures of the heavens and earth everything before he created everything. Yeah, 70,000 years before creating everything, okay. They those actions that we have control of a la jolla and knew them from before and Allah, Allah Allah allowed us to do them, yes. And Allah then lo Allah created the ability in us to accomplish those things. So we decided to do something or not. Yes, and then we used the limbs and the tools that Allah has created them for us. Yeah, in order to do these things, however, whatever we have decided to do it is within what Allah Allah Allah knew from before and it is within what Allah Allah Allah

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allowed it to happen. So, that is the meaning of other for those actions that are under our control.

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Yes, so the actions of two types of actions that are under our control and actions that are not under our control, what is the other four this what is the other four that the other for those actions that are not under our control? As we have said in solar Ababa that

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sets everything

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okay, and it is not in our control, okay, for example, it is not in my control where I was born, it is not in my control, how big Am I it is not in our control, how my eyes look like and so on. Yeah, Allah gelada created me like this, it is not my control, when the rain comes, it is not in the control of human beings.

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Similarly, many scholars say that this is not in your control, provision is not in your control, and so on. However, there are many actions that are under my control. This is the second type of actions. I can pray and I can stop praying, I can force and I can stop fasting. those actions were known to Allah from before. Yes. And

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then Allah, Allah allow them to take place. And then Allah, Allah created the ability in us to decide to do them and more

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Over to do them. So he gave us the tools to do them, the hands the eyes, and the other means that we can do this. This is the meaning of further for those actions that are under our control. Okay?

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In the law valuable Amity Allahu

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Allah, Allah Allah sets, measures for everything then Allah Allah Allah says, Allah He is in Amina helium in Nisa equal

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to hoonah thalassa to asuran Okay, those who have

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those women

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who passed the age of ministration of hate, if you doubt, if you doubt

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then there it is three months.

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it is very dark for those who have not

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attained or have not reached the age of what of Hey, this is the translation of this phrase. So, this phrase is talking about the depths of who those who passed the age of hate, or those who did not reach the age of high. This is the general meaning of this verse, when he is snapped snap minella team here there are a number of things to be

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to be to be understood. First of all, this is the meaning of this phrase is decided upon the word upon the phrase inevitable. If we understand this phrase and talk to him, we will be able to understand the rest of the verse. What does it mean? The translation again, and those of you women who has passed the age of

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of high there,

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okay, if you have doubt, okay. What if you have doubt doubt about what two main interpretations

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doubt about the hookworm? So what is the outcome of those women who passed the age of Hey,

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this is the fear of injury, recovery of injury recovery believes that this is the correct mean.

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And they narrated that when Allah Jalla revealed input in the Quran in surah 228. When Allah says, well, mobile LA,

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unfussy Hinata Taku

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holla you're having those divorcees, they should wait. They cannot. They said some of the companion said Yasuda Allah,

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Allah Allah, Allah did not clarify for us they have those old women who pass the age of hate. And those young women who have not reached the age of hate, and those who are pregnant, who do not see how Allah Allah Allah did not explain this to us, then Allah Allah Allah revealed this.

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So I want the levada explained in this ayah that of those women who passed the age of five, and the idea of those women, the young women who have not reached the age of five and later on a large another, explain the data of pregnant woman, pregnant women in general,

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okay. So, here, Allah Allah Allah, according to this interpretation, that inevitably, means if you doubt their ruling, then there

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is what is prescribed here. There are other meaning, the other main meaning otherwise there are some other meanings, the other meaning in an attempt to see how you the hint,

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if you doubt whether they are observing regular pay regular ministration.

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this includes those women who do not see their higher

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Yes, they don't see their monthly cycle. What is their adult

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three months

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It includes, according to one interpretation, those women who are doubtful about their home, they have is to have the blood is flowing, and they don't know the beginning of it and the end of it.

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So if they don't know, and they know that it's coming, definitely, but they don't know the beginning of it and the end of it, then there is what, three months because they cannot calculate the ADA, based on what?

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Based on the hate, because they don't know when it starts. And when it ends.

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Yes, according to one interpretation, however, according to the other interpretation, the scholar said, No, this is not talking about women who have is to help Ah, yeah. Okay. But most of the scholars believe that this is talking about those women who do not see their hair,

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then there is what there is three months, learn up months, not Gregorian months.

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Yes. So according to this, those who have reached the age where they don't see their monthly cycle, what is there a

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three months, not three periods, three months, they don't see a period, they don't see the cycle. Okay. Similarly, those young girls who do not see there,

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they don't see that higher, then there is what, three months as well. Okay, what about those women who don't see the highs because of illness?

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Yes, because of illness or because of what

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pregnancy? They said, according to many scholars, or most of the scholars that this ayah does not talk about them.

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Statistically, so those women, for example,

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those women who are pregnant,

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those women who are pregnant, they don't see how.

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So what is their agenda? They mentioned Hadith, sorbet, Al islamiya. Her husband divorced her.

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Okay. And then

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he the was heard when she was pregnant, and then he became ill.

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He was afraid that if he dies, she will inherit him. So he consulted the Sahaba.

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Okay, he consulted in our bus and others. Then they consulted me whenever. And I think given our birth, and they said no, she is his wife, because she is still inherited. Even. She passed three months.

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Because the IRA does not talk about

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Yeah, the IRA does not talk about her. Because she is not equal to what she is not equal to those old ladies who do not see the period. She doesn't see the period not because of age. Yeah, either too old or too young. He doesn't see the period because of what because of pregnancy.

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So had a de is different.

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Yes. So they said no, she will inherit him.

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Okay, and that is the decision of most of the Sahaba.

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those women. So this is the idea of what the idea of a woman, a woman who does not see her high out of what out of pregnancy. If he divorces her in the beginning of her pregnancy, then she might she will stay eight months or maybe nine months without seeing the idea.

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Without seeing the

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pipe that is headed. We cannot say that three months and that is yours.

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Okay, what about those women who

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have certain illnesses?

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So they don't see the hype because of certain illnesses. What is that?

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We received a number of questions from many different people.

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Either you too, maybe the weather are due to stress due to medicine or due to the nutrition due to other reasons. They don't see the health except in two months or three months. Yeah, sometimes all of a sudden they don't see the period.

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What is that many opinions, it may be the opinion that most of the remote accept, she should wait for nine months

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to make sure that she's not pregnant

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followed by three months which is dead. So they say nine months live is the bra and three months for that

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there are some other details but I think you I have confused you. Okay. inshallah, okay.

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You are not confused when you confuse. So there are different women, those women who what they are. So we can say from the beginning, those women who see their regular period will

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be unforeseen metadata. As we said, Yeah, they wait for through either three periods or three cycles. Those women who have been divorced and they are too old or too young, they don't see the period because of age, then there is what

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three months those women who do not see that because of pregnancy then there is until what they give birth, yeah, even if it passes what three months, those who do not see their period because of certain illness.

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Okay, they don't see the period because of certain illness, then there it is nine months plus three months 12 months, those who see that it but they see the period, but they are unable to calculate it properly. Because of is the however because the blood goes on in the blood flows and they are unable to distinguish the end of it and the beginning of it. Then there is three months according to many scholars. Yes. Yeah. Brothers. Okay. And sisters, by law. Yes. And Amina Haley minister equal in the

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metadata to assure him when he left me.

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Ali, Agha Luna yamana. amla home. Those have those who have pregnancy what is there a duck

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to give the

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Okay, whether they are divorcees or whether they are what

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Yeah. Okay. Elijah Allah says in Surah Baqarah.

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Well Edina in our phone and income way the owner has widened yet a bassinet, the unforeseen Alba shootin rashleigh insulted those who die, their women should do it. I have, what, four months and 10 days we have mentioned this before that they have the widow is what,

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four months? And what 10 days. What about if they sorry, what about if the widow is pregnant lady? What is her?

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Four months and 10 days or until she gives birth? Which one?

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Okay, if the lady

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Yeah, was made widows a widow in the beginning of her pregnancy.

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And the first month her husband died.

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Okay, so, four months 10 days passed and distilled. She's pregnant.

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We say that she should

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wait. Not for nine months until she gives birth. Even if the pregnancy continued for 40 years.

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Yes, by Allah. Allah Allah Mata.

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Mata Li

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What is that? And surah? Allah knows the pregnancy. And when it becomes long and when it becomes what? Sure, by the way, you don't

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even know him. Yeah, one of the taboo when he was called the bahat. Why? Because when he was born, they said that he had tea.

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Why? They said that he stayed in his mom's room for four years.

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Okay. This is by the way. Mallesh okay. This is nice, nice. Any mental training? The last year, two years ago, three years ago, there was a case in Makkah, where the lady put, gave birth to a child

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after four years of her husband death,

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yeah, this 40 years ago, something like this. And then she went to the court, to what to ask for what?

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To prove the lineage of this son.

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Yeah, I think three years and nine months or something like this just less than four years.

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Is it clear?

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Some doctors said no, the body wrote the decision that the Federal out of the verdict that this son belongs to the Father.

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And he said, Allah, Allah, Allah says Eliana, mathematical

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solution, endo, Tao, and most of the scholars believe that that the Hamon the pregnancy can continue for what? Four years? That is

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the name Lucy Bella. Bella do by Ellen. Yeah. Okay.

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So he said that the Son is

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his, okay, or the Father, Son, and he takes the colossian He is the son and he takes them a lot everything.

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What about DNA?

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DNA is not considered in these matters. By anyway, this is not our topic. Okay.

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Yeah, well, not many idea lunigiana

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even above the allowed data and who? Okay, so we mentioned the first scenario, the husband divorce his wife in the first story. The wife

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became widow in the first month.

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Yeah. And the first month.

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So she waited for four months and 10 days since she's pregnant. We say that she should wait until what she gives birth. Okay. The husband died one day before what?

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Before his wife

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before his wife gets.

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Yeah. So how long will be there? For his wife?

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One day

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for about four months and 10 days.

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One day? Yeah, yeah. We mentioned severe let's let me do this. Let me add this one I

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I configure I got confused between both of them had severe is this one. That one was another lady. Yeah. But to be honest, let me uh, gave birth.

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Okay, after 40 days.

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Then she received proposals. One of the companions said no, you will not get married. She said no, I can get married. Then she went through the process of it, send them and the process allowed her to get married. So the eight that ended after what, four months, 40 days. Similarly, if the wife was made, we do one day before giving birth.

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She gives birth the second day. Her idea is over. She can't get married the third day.

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Is it clear?

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Yeah, Pawan married without What?

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No, yeah. I feel like the marriage without the marriage will not be any there will be no consideration of marriage because he will be inherently false. By Yeah. Okay.

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So this is what would happen.

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Then Allah, Allah Allah says, Allah, Allah who mean me He is the one who feels a legend of Allah for the one who

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have Taqwa of Allah, Allah Allah. Allah, Allah Allah.

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Allah Allah, Allah will make his matter easy for him. Allah Allah Allah will eat his matters, which matters. Again, as we said about Romania de la jolla. Maharajah, some scholars referred or said that this is talking about what Bala, some scholars were talking about. Some scholars said that this is talking about the dunya and this means that this ayah is comprehensive, the one who have done well for modular Allah Allah Allah Allah will find him away out. Similarly, the one who have Taqwa of Allah, Allah Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah will make

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things easy for him for will ease his his efforts. Yeah, we'll make his math easy for him.

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And again, as we said about the top wall for Latin oil and the Lucha Libre will make for the person who have Taqwa of Allah, Allah Allah. Allah, Allah, Allah will make things easy for the person who have Taqwa.

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Okay. Now, as we said before, that Allah Allah, Allah might test the person, this is not a problem. But eventually Allah, Allah will make things easy for him. We ask Allah, Allah Allah to make things easy for us. Let us stop here by and then inshallah Next.

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Next lesson, we will explain the second, the next verse. Yeah, we took 1111 hour, almost one hour to explain one

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by one and a half was no problem.

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Okay, don't get bored. Don't be bored. Are you getting bored?

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By dessert?

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Okay, questions.

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Many questions by the

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legitimate your

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cartelization. Yeah, it is a legitimate one.

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And you have a question on the live stream.

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What do you mean by DNA is not considered.

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DNA is not considered.

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What does DNA is not considered DNA is not considered.

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What it means?

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Maybe, yeah, maybe she meant what?

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Yeah, but we, I think we have explained it before. Maybe. Anyway, there is a difference between the biological father and what

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they shot a father.

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Yeah, we have done the same. This point also had a law hit. I was in Birmingham last weekend. And the case came to us and they will come to us. And they sent me carrier counsel, they said the person he came here long time ago, he wants to bring his children today. Okay. So they called him? I don't know, for whatever reason, his children are not registered in his official documents. So they told him, You need to have a proof that they are your children. Yes, four or five children. So he went, they told he told them how they said you need to get to the DNA test. So he went he sent to his wife or his relatives, I don't know why. Well, who anyway, they he said to them, right in one of those

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countries that are not very developed. And they went to the hospital and they said, Yeah, let us have the DNA. So they have the DNA. They sent it to him. They did not know what it was that is the DNA. So the DNA came the first is his job. The second is his job. The third is not his job.

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And the fourth is his job. So when he took it to the solicitor, he was not aware of it. The solicitor said we can bring it three but not the fourth or four, not the fifth. I don't exactly remember how many children? Yeah, he said why he said, according to the DNA test is not your child.

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He said come on. This is a joke. I've been living

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For 10 or 15 years, whatever that this is my chart. He was born in my wedlock. Yes.

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So then they said, Well, he said no, no, no. So the solicitor anyway, he said maybe if you if you believe that he's a child, your child and he lived with you as you were a child. Okay. Hello, you betcha. So they, he consulted me the solicitor consulted me. I said if he wants, yeah, he can come to us and we can issue him a verdict that if the conditions are met, then he is his legitimate HR. Forget about DNA. Here. Okay. Maybe we can talk later about this DNA and how to approve the lineage. Yeah, this is on life is streaming.

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How many people are on live stream? This is just not many people only go five 339 39. Okay. And what is this question from? This question was from the live stream? Which country? I'm not entirely sure.

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By no problem. Yeah. Second question. The question, follow up question from a brother who watched one of the videos that we uploaded. He said a sister's husband has become Shaheed in Syria as part of condition for her being into is in the form of months and 10 days is allowed to talk to a potential husband and vice versa. If two people are interested in each other, but the ladies in the does that mean it is not permissible for the potential husband to contact his potential wife by email or text during this period.

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Jenny, this sister is she lost her husband as a Shaheed. And she's worried about next husband.

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And then I sent the video you

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probably have

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a brother who's asking he's worried about his sister when she gets married. Yeah, just before I left, yeah, I was sitting with my wife and my daughter. And my daughter received a WhatsApp message. And she said to me, it is a story well, not a story by five that have jet

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and have jet. No, he was a Titan, he ordered that the three men will be killed from one family and then he noticed that there was a lady whose wife who was weeping and crying. He said, What's wrong with you? She said, Those three are mine men. One of them is my husband and the second one is my son and the third one is my brother.

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Then he felt sorry for him by and instead of freeing them all, he was a tyrant.

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Anyway, he said I will be one of them. You choose.

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So home did she choose?

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Yes, this My wife is reading.

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we know it in Arabic. I knew before she said.

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So do Bye.

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Why Malibu

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Yanni desert, he can get married and have

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children and we can get other children. But the brothers Yeah, if we lost him, we cannot replace him.

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So I said, Yeah, this is how you think of husbands.

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My daughter was busy doing something. I mean, I said this she stopped to laugh.

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I said you liked it. Yeah.

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Okay. Yes.

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We answered the question. What was the question?

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The question was

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the proposal can see have conversations over text and email. Basically.

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The question anyway,

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if he if he is a widow, if she's a widow, they cannot

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talk explicitly. Yeah, as a modular Allah says female to begin inhibiting Nisa

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in die

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But explicitly is how.

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Yeah, explicit discussion by you

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is Hello. Yeah. And as I said, I've got too many indolic that are I'm really interested in marrying

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a good wife. Yeah. pious lady something like this as the opposite. But they should not speak any explicit by use explicit confirmation or language that Okay, once you read there is

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finishing, then I'll get married to you. And then they thought and thinking about it and talk, a plan for it, etc. How long? How long?

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Yeah, they know. So did the brother Yes.

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three levels that you're talking about here.

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or the

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you probably act.

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And then

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for somebody?

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Yeah, that we met. We forgot to mention this. We said we have three levels of rokeya. Okay, or treatment in general. But rokeya rokeya.

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Asking for rokeya is not prohibited, but it goes against the highest level of torquil provided that the person believes that Allah is the one who kills not this person. If the person believes that this person cures, then he negated the basic level of taqwa. And I that he committed amalthea or he committed a co

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authorship. Is it clear? And this is a problem of

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this is a problem. Many people have those who go for Rokia, they go they ask, do you know a good graphic? Yes. And when they go to this withdraw fee, then they have some nuts. I'm sorry. They have a lot of trust in Him. In fact, they believe that he is the one who kills by you. And this if they believe like this, then it is an act of faith. Can you do Rokia for yourself? Of course, this is the recommended and as even taymiyah said that the Prophet sallallahu wasallam did Rokia for himself. And he did raffia for others, he never asked anyone to do it for him. However gibreel

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voluntarily Yes, conducted Raka for the Prophet sallallahu

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Is it the clear brothers by so voluntarily if someone said to you, yeah, I will do that for you, then that is not a problem. But to ask for it.

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By so what is the solution? You go and do it for yourself?

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But we mentioned sorry

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for another one, but I think he decided to do it if I can say why he was stung by a scar. Spear? Yeah. And then his mother said you must do what?

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He does not want to disobey her.

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He had it on the right. The left hand when he went to the lobby, because he doesn't want to disobey his mother. He gave him the other hand, because he does not want to be among those who ask for what they are.

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Could be because you will put some trust. Yeah. So would you be the same for if someone went to the doctor?

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And also does the weak means means is a different group of people because one means might be to be there.

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Yeah, good question. Yeah. dividend Tamia. The question is, as even came in and said that the person who goes for raffia he has put some

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Yeah, some trust. And he has some tawakkol on the person who gives him up there. What about the person who goes for goes to a doctor? Yeah, for treatment. Same thing to be said. If he's going to the doctor

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Because the doctor just is just a means to to help him to know about the cure

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then that is not a problem at all. But if he feels that this doctor has an influence on the cure, then it might be problematic by same thing Moreover, we said that the types of cure can be classified into three types. One cure is what is essential you cannot fix your hand unless it is what fixed by a doctor. Yeah cannot be. It cannot heal the state until you go to a doctor to fix it or someone who knows how to fix it. On the other side, there are certain illnesses like for example, cancer.

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Even doctors say that many cancers cannot be cured by chemotherapy or other types of therapy. They are just

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trial and trial and error. We say if you want to achieve the highest level of torquil and you have strong Dr. Lena Medina leave it Yeah.

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Okay, bye. Yes, brother.

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Sahabi Sophia.

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Okay. 70,000 people

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to interpretation station sounds gonna say 70,000 people in number.

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And some other scholars said some vintage tie 70,000 people in type? Yeah. Which means a number bigger than that. Okay, two interpretations, Okasha, the Prophet sallahu, wa sallam he knew, according to an interpretation of this Hadith, the prophet SAW Selim knew that he can

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leave those things here. He does not ask for okay. And he is having trust in a legend of Allah fully. The prophesied Solomon knew that the other person cannot do it.

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you, yeah. Yeah. question is regarding tawakkol. And there's a hadith on the story of Ibrahim Alayhi. Salam,

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many talkers, to talk as mentioned, some stay away from his house one day to the heavy sound, weather When the angels came to me to defy him. He rebuked them or turn it back and said, I've talked to a lot of you heard that.

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This is mentioned in the books of Pepsi, the engine jabril came to him and he said, Do you want anything? Yeah. But he said Minka Fela Amidala even

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as from you know, from Elias,

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yeah, they mentioned it in the book.

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But the other one that is fabricated at MOCA, the Harley only anzali this is fabricated about him. He did not make you out and he said yeah, you know my situation. So I don't need to ask you law.

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This is fabricated, by the way they said

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Salim and bin Abdullah bin Omar

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is signing up Abdullah or Salomon Dharma, Salim.

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he entered the carrabba

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with his shamokin Abdul Malik.

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Then they were in Cabo. He was the candidate at that time, he said to him, all Sal them you are the son of ama asked me anything, he said, in the house of Allah, you want me to ask you

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this is the house of a life without a law.

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So, he said, no problem. They can.

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Then they went outside the cabin. Then he said Salim now we are outside the cabin. Do you want anything? He said things related to the dunya are things related to the ophira. Then he Shama grabbed Malik said things related to Africa. It's not in my hand, they are in the hands of Allah, but things related to the dunya. He said I did not ask Allah, Allah things related to the dunya although Allah

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Hello Allah owns everything in the dunya they want me to ask you something from the dunya and you don't own anything in the dunya.

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alone. Yes.

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relate to the question asked, Is it 70,000 or 700,000? And does that include?

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No, it is 70 170,000

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what is the cinema muslimah who does not enforce their donor so a native appearance enforce it on her after being divorced with this enforce that

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she does not observe that she got married.

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Yeah, this what it means. She got married. We mentioned this number of times.

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She got married during the marriage is invalid. And if she knew this, she has committed

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big not small, long big

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Yeah. And if she knew this may be the children will not be the children of the second that maybe

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Yeah, we need to yes God.

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Okay, that lk pipe

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negates the highest level of output. Yeah. Because the prophets Allah Salaam disliked it, because it includes harming the body. Yeah. So they said that the person he became so desperate, and he's not relying on Allah, He is relying on me that has that cause harm to the body? Yes. And it is not disliked by the profits of the virus, which means that his dog could become so weak. Yeah, yeah, by the way, there is a hadith. I think I'm Lila men, men, men, men, men. Many stuff for a week. tawaf, but very a minute Oh,

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yeah. Man, he stopped by the one who asks for

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five and the one who is doing this. Okay. Yeah. Then he is free from

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free from a taco means that he did not attain the highest level of a taco. By Haha, Mohammed.

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Yeah, there is a narration but yeah, there is an addition. I don't know the explanation for the

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by is on that question. I have divorced my wife and took her back. Does it count? Does it counted as one product? And does that mean? I only have to give.

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People think I forgot to mention this. People think that if you

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divorce your wife and took her during the day, taking her back can sils double up?

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Is it clear? People think some people think that we had some cases, a brother I remember. I think he divorces what seven or eight times.

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He divorces her and takes her back and thinks that that once he takes her back cancels the law, which is not true. No, once you divorce your wife

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one has done is valid. So you will have to put up

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If somebody has gotten married well during the period, yeah. The wife or the female or the male, female and many years apart. What should they do? Yeah, they should come to us and we should think about their case.

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is a big problem. They problem.

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Yeah, it's not a small problem.

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Yes, yeah.

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And the period Yeah. We talked about those

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periods. Yeah.

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Yeah, yeah. For example.

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A person that married to a young girl

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but before she sees her

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Married not the legal marriage the Islamic marriage because then he got married to the Islamic marriage okay or if method and

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two young

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children got have their nikka or their parents arranged for their nikka is nine cheese eight or even if they they taught them that they are very young and they agree the parents agree to have any gap between them nikka means what? The awkward Yeah.

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I saw the Quran way.

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they say

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you will need to foster 60 days

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Yeah, that is yeah the brother is asking about if you divorce your wife in the Quran if you divorce your wife before taking care about you have to free slave or something like this. That is called the li ha.

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Yeah. I

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don't understand it more than they are when the person says to his wife. You are like my mother Helen Alia. You became hot. Um, yeah. To me. Like my mother held on to me.

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Yeah, then he cannot go back to her.

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She's not divorced, but he cannot have any he cannot resume the matrimonial rights with her except he do the expiation

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more questions.

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The previous question we asked online about

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Not observing it mean this woman continues to go out for reasons other than work and put makeup on etc. Yeah, there. We said that. There is a difference between the idea of

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diversity and the idea of a widow.

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The widow should not put makeup, she can go outside at home for the need for a need on the that is the idea for a widow but there is therefore a divorce. He is different and she can put makeup and she can beautify her cell for her husband and they can go and have dinner together. Maybe I'm going to learn how to put love between themselves. She can go work if if this is had known. She was going to work from before she can continue like this. But the key thing is she should live in his house, which is his house by barakallahu condesa

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