Haitham al-Haddad – Tafsir Surah Talaq #07

Haitham al-Haddad
AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the importance of proving actions in disputes in Islam and the significance of "come" in the context of "immediate" and "immediate." They also discuss the importance of trusting one's parents and avoiding fear and punishment for actions. The conversation touches on the negative impact of depression and anxiety on people, including the need for people to trust and live in a changing world. The importance of finding people who are happy and content with their life is also emphasized. The segment ends with a discussion of the internet and its use in various media outlets.
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Spandau salatu salam ala rasulillah previously that the Surah Surah. And it talks about one of the elements of our social system which is marriage and divorce.

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And we said that it is a full disorder is full of Cameroonians regarding marriage and divorce. In the previous lesson, we spoke about the second, the beginning of the second

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which is which leads fade avellaneda home, FMC kumana, Bhima roofing, una de ma roofing wash II do the way I really mean comb

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them when they are about to attain that appointed, either take them back in a good manner or part with them in a good manner and take as witnesses to just persons from among you

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will actually do the way I didn't mean when we spoke about it that the scholars

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differ on what is meant by this is what is meant by this phrase. After they said that, Allah Allah Allah is commanding us to have witnesses for divorce, yes, to witness the divorce. And the other scholar says no, Alexander either wanted us to have witnesses on what we'll do. And we said that it is likely that this is talking about what we do. And we explain the purpose of witnesses. Is it

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is it a matter of rituals or act of worship just without no reasoning? Or is it meant for a total? Yeah, confirmation that that will do has happened.

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And we said that, if we look at what we said, then we can confirm that they wanted what they want it will do. Yeah.

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Which to confirm that has taken place. A brother asked me and said to me, can the Shahada be

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a ritual?

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An act of worship? Because we said that what is the shadow of the shadow? You can say the opposite of the Shahada is it meant by itself

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which means that it likes Allah, mother, we pray mother obsidian.

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Definitely prayer praying five times is better than praying.

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But Allah wants us

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yeah, if we pray five hours, it will be what rejected

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he would have rejected. So it is taboo that it is what it is meant to be free.

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Okay, now, similarly,

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if we say that this Shahada is a taboo, the Shahada is a matter of a data, then the Shahada has to be established and respective we could prove the incident or not.

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Is it clear?

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But if the Massoud of the Shahada, Yanni the effective cause behind the Shahada is to prove that the incident took place? then whatever proves that the incident took place, then it is what it we don't need the Shahada

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is the difference a clear?

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If we say that you have is an act of worship, then we need the Shahada.

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Irrespective of the outcome, we need the Shahada. We cannot build a ruling, except if the Shahada if the testimony is there, but

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that is not meant by itself. what's meant by either Shahada is what any proof to confirm that the incident has happened. Then, any proof will stand as a replacement for the Shahada. Is this clear?

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Yeah, okay. Can you give me an example of a taboo the Shahada?

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Because here we said that the Shahada here is what is it taboo do

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we say that it is for him, to confirm that who has What

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Give me a tab booty Shahada,

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the whole Islam Janya person will not become Muslim unless there are two witnesses.

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Yes, for witnesses for the punishment of adultery,

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we need four witnesses.

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So if a person

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Mathurin, they are able to produce films and films can be confirmed that there are authentic voms films that cannot be fabricated

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that this dinner took place or this adultery took place, Zina or fornication or adultery by but for for the adultery. So,

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scientifically has been proven that what Xena took place without the Shahada,

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the punishment of adultery will not take place.

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Is it clear?

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Yes. Even if you bring all types of scientific proofs, and all of them confirm that the Zener took place. Yeah, the punishment will not be subjected. Why? Because it is a matter of tabooed. There Illa is not known for us.

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Yeah, so that's why we say that it is what is a taboo.

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Is it clear? But for this Shahada. dinela is what?

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Timothy? Now you need we need to be careful because, in Shahada in the chapter of Shahada, there are different types of Shahada.

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Mathurin when the Shahada of a female is accepted, and when the Shahada of a female is not accepted, when there is something that replaces the Shahada of a person. Yeah, any kind of proof? Here it is, without getting because this is not our subject without getting into this here. Shahada Lila if we say that the Shahada here is meant for redo it is meant to prove the redo. So, if the husband can prove the redo without the Shahada, then the redo has taken place.

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Yeah, okay.

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There was a question there was one issue, we forgot to mention it last time, which is in order for that to take place, we said that you need to prove that your husband needs to prove that the rodeo has taken place within that period. Of course, this is in the case of a revocable divorce. Now, there is a masala well known masala well known masala which is and they sent me a reminder who sent this

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Yeah, by that we forgot to mention it last time.

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That if the husband had intimacy with his wife, without the intention of reducing or with or without the intention of candor will take place. Yes or not. Okay, this girl does have different views. Some of them they say yes, it takes place by like, some of the like the Sharpies, some other scholars, so the the Hannity's the other scholars like they share is they say no, there has to be what intention of you?

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And this case we take each case according to its own merit.

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Okay, that is the conclusion of this.

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anyway, if we talk about it to lead us to many other

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issues, okay.

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So this is what I should do the way I didn't mean come, what I should do the way I didn't mean come again, we don't want to discuss the conditions of who are considered to be what the way adelyn mean. What is the conditions for a data? Yeah.

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Yeah, and here they can be translated to those who have good manners, manners, maybe.

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But that data is a term that reflects that this person is a trustworthy person because of a certain standard of

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character here, or because of a certain standard of etiquette that he is observing or she is observing here. There is talking about what the way I didn't mean come the way adilyn is different from

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the mean come, which means what? Male witnesses male Muslim witnesses?

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Yeah. Some of these colors. And many scholars say that of London is a female era.

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Yeah, women can testify for

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females testimony is not accepted. Like it's not accepted, except in what?

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In, in transactions. This is according to

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the vast overwhelming majority of the scholars, and this will relieve them from this burden.

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Yeah, from this burden.

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This is the independent Shahada. But we gave examples of what of some of the Shahada were women, Shahada, female Shahada even if it is a single chair that will be accepted such as what last time you mentioned that example.

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can be when she testifies that her husband took her back. No but one clear one haha

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yes, Mashallah. Hanif is busy in recording Mashallah. And he is focusing What? Yes, we said that, if he said that had a day is over.

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No one can negate that. Yeah, provided that

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it is over within what within what is acceptable and

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what is acceptable from a shadow perspective and from

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the customer's perspective or the no prospective. But then a larger set of

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data leaves.

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Yeah, sorry, here if, if anyone said, Why did you say what I should do the way I didn't mean come refers to two male Muslim witnesses. Males, we said because Allah Allah, Allah says, what the way I didn't mean quote, what about Muslim witnesses?

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What do we take it from the ayah? minko? Yeah, men come from you from Oman, which means Muslim. Then Allah says, well, Shahada de la establish the Shahada.

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Establish the Shahada, because of Allah, this is the meaning Be careful. Take a witness to establish the testimony for Allah establish the testimony for Allah. Yes, what it means for Allah means for the sake of Allah, but not for the sake of people, because the size of them said well, it is to show

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this has two meanings either when you are requested to explain or to testify, then you say yes, I the witness that I have seen this.

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Okay. So when you are requested by the court by the Dutch, the second the meaning, and there is no contradiction. When someone is asking you see, I have taken my wife, for example, please be a witness. You can't say no, no. is not my business. I can't interfere with this. No, I'm not saying you to interfere. I'm saying you to be what?

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To be a witness. This is not a burden on you, even if it is a burden you are doing it for what? For Allah Shahada, the law, establish this for the sake of Allah. Then Allah Allah, Allah says, Daddy, can you Avi Montana, your men will be law he will mean

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this is an admonition for those who believe in a law and the Day of Resurrection. As we said that it is amazing that the Islamic way is taught to mix between

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the low and the in

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between the low and in between the legal code and what spirituality although I said to you that I don't like the word spirituality between law and human law normally is what

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is a very dry set of

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lows. Yeah 1.8 says this one point B says this and so on to point a says this and so on. But when you mix it with what fear of Allah, Allah Allah,

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which is a unique method Islam endorses, yeah. Then it gives a different dimension. And this is the Islamic way. I like to know Allah is talking about the rules of Allah from the beginning.

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Yes. And then what?

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in the middle?

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Here is the same thing.

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Well, outside the narrow, thin washy do the way I didn't mean come up the Shahada tele Yes, you're doing it for the sake of Allah, Allah, Allah, then this is an admonition for those who believe in Allah on the Day of Resurrection. Of course.

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Allah gelada always in the Koran refers to believe in him and in the Day of Resurrection. Why? Because believing in Allah.

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And without believing in the Day of Resurrection, this is not a belief. Yeah, this is not a correct Islam. This is not the correct email. Because it makes sense. Because if Allah is just, he will not allow

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to take place without compensation for the

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Yes, without taking the violin, the oppressor to justice. This is injustice. That's why there has to be a day of resurrection, where people would be resurrected and people will be judged according to what they used to do. Anyway, it is clear we don't want to dwell into this point, but

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that this belief in a lot and the Day of Resurrection is the essential component of our email and my dear brothers and sisters. Despite that, it is the most essential component of our internet. It is very, very neglected.

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People talk about a lot Yes, because we are Muslims, but they rarely talk about what

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they are. Yeah, even when we do some good

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good work good things. You are talking about it from just a humanitarian perspective. We are not talking about them from what they are or prospective. And this is a big mistake. Yeah, big fault. People for him that they have neglected. I think the matter is clear. Just because of time need to move on. Okay.

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Then Allah, Allah says woman yet up in the Houma Raja,

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the one who would have Taqwa of Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah Allah will find or a legend of Allah will provide him with a way from what he got himself in. Yes, a way out allegan vida will find him a way out a way out of what

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these colors of course the idea that I may

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have Taqwa of Allah, Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah will find him a way out. This is the genuine meaning. But these colors here, some of them express that the one who have Taqwa of Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah will provide him solutions for Allah.

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So he will be able

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to take his wife back, if possible, if not possible. It means that whatever he has done provided that he witnessed the taqwa of Allah, Allah, Allah insha, Allah will be the best for him. And they quote, The statement when a person came to an advisor of the Lord, and he said my divorce my wife 1000 times.

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Then in our best became angry in one direction, he said, You did not feel alive. I do not find any way out for you.

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In another generation, he said to him, yeah.

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You are mocking the IRS for law because of loss of generality of Palo Alto, Nevada.

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photostudio from bearson then Allah Allah Allah says, Allah, Allah

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Allah which means we have three para and Islam by so he said to him three is the Torah and 97 tala are upon you. Yeah you will be questioned about them because you did not follow. What Allah Allah Allah say said or what Allah Allah Allah legislated. So

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yeah, so the first one who said that he divorces his wife 1000 times or three times all together. Even as I said, you did not fear Allah because Allah Allah Allah says a palapa Moroccan Moroccan means after marva Yes, one after another, which means that you don't combine them all together. This is one thing and also we mentioned that

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when the whenever the norm of divorces his wife, when she was on her menses, the prophet SAW seven said he should take her back and wait until she becomes pure. Then he gives her one palpa Yeah, and also Allah gelada says

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that he Tina, Tina means in the beginning of the day.

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Then Allah Allah Allah says VEDA, Bella, Nigella Honda fancy Kona Bernardo Faria, Kona Maru, this means that this is what one

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otherwise there is no Do

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you following your brothers? Yeah. So, there is if that is the case, then there is no rule if if this is bought up here means the three thumbs together then there is no video, which means that this product here is what

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is meant to be once which is what as we said earlier, but a person. So they said that this refers to the one who have Taqwa of Allah, Allah Allah and divorces his wife according to Sunnah Allah, Allah will find for him What? Muhammad Ali out?

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Yes, our way out. Of course, he will get his wife back once twice. And if he does it the third time, it means half an inept, we cannot give him more chances. Because

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as we mentioned, I think in the first class, we said that some of the

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companions before that legislation have allowed us to divorce and take their wife's divorce, take her back devastated but now she became what? Yeah, this

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became like a game and she became like adult, he throws her and takes her back whenever whenever he wants her. But you know, this is not adjusted treatment. So that's why Allah Allah Allah revealed what

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Minnesota ohana, Dina and the rest. Yeah, so you don't treat your wife like this like don't divorce her take care about divorce, take care of a divorce take care of her. And moreover people need to learn need to

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learn lessons. Okay? So this is a meaning are many other is gonna say there is general it doesn't talk about para la de la Maharajah in any matters.

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If you have Taqwa of Allah, Allah, Allah Allah, Allah, Allah will find you a way,

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way out. One of the, the set of Yes, he said, No, I'm SMRT Allah Kanika.

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Allah duden la la la la la Maharaja. If the heavens and earth crumbled and collapsed on a person, and he had cut off from the Lalalalala we'll find him a way out.

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And we remember when we read this the story of what of those three in the Hadith of the Prophet SAW seven can female Ghana,

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our home and maybe to

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those who went to a cave to stay overnight, and then the rock fell down and blocked to the exit. And then they what what do they do? They ask Allah Allah Allah by actions in which reflect their taqwa.

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And that's why Allah dillo Allah mentioned it here and confirmed it here and then mentioned it there. And the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said, they mentioned this in this area. He said though,

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NASA has to be happy. I like at home. If people were to take this, it will be sufficient for them. It will suffice them for me.

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To know that she's

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the one who has taqwa of Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah will find him a way out. And Allah, Allah will provide him from sources that he never thought of.

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Yeah. And also they mentioned

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the story of Monica. Now Phil as one of the companions, he came to the Prophet Allah is Allah. And he said to me, Allah to the Lama, the enemies took my son, as a captive

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as a prisoner of war. And his mother, she loves and she's really very sad because of that. He said, The prophets of the light is Allah

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commanded him to have supper, and he decided this ayah to him.

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Then he said, By Allah, when I went back and told my wife like this, and she accepted the advice of the Prophet Elias, and it was a matter of few days. Then I saw my son come coming to me. Yes, on a cabin, with hundreds of cabins and hundreds of ships.

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And we were overwhelmed. We told him what happened. He said, when I was in the captive,

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something happened to me, and I found that I can free myself. So I run out of the captive, then on the way, I found the shepherd. Yes, grazing the camels, and the shapes of the enemies. So he saw me and he was afraid. So he ran away. So I took all the covers and all the ships.

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And I'm coming to you.

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So the man said, Wait a minute, until I go to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. And I asked him, whether that is helpful for us or not. So he went to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and he told him this story.

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So the prophets, I send them said, and recited the Iommi.

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Raja, where

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he said it is helpful for you.

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you know, we always need to remind ourselves My dear respect to the brothers and sisters of this.

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For me,

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this is

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a during the

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early days, the time of the solar system and the time after that, they had very few provision.

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sometimes they go through some difficulties in order for them to be what

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to be tested. And if Allah, Allah, Allah says that this person is being tested, and he is observing suburb and satisfaction, internal satisfaction, to what Allah Allah decreed for him, Allah Allah, Allah will give him more than what he took from him. Not in the era on late but in the dunya as well.

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But it needs what strong Eman

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from ourselves that whatever Allah Allah Allah chooses for us is the best. And moreover, we should not have suffered waiting for the relief from the calamity because we want something better in the dunya. No, that is sober but it is not the full sober.

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The full saga is to what to have several waiting from for what Allah Allah has promised you.

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Which is in the FL if it happened in the dunya then Alhamdulillah if it doesn't happen, then the person has to be fully satisfied that Allah Allah is more merciful to him than himself.

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You know, Sophia may 30 say that if I were to choose who will stand me for judgment, or for on the Day of Resurrection for Jasmine, my father all a lot, I would have chosen a lot because a lot is more merciful to me than my own father.

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Yeah. And in one of the authentic hadith.

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I think it is part of it is on sale body. It is our body that I have divided

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into what

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99 into 399. He kept for what?

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For the Day of Resurrection and one he what he's giving it to us, he distributed it among us. There is one narration,

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narration which is amazing. He said even on the Day of Resurrection, he will retract that one, in order to give more Rama to people.

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This is how the mandala is and how merciful Allah Allah Allah is. So if we put our trust in Allah, Allah Allah, my dear brothers and sisters, then we should not be really worried. I always say that.

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That if we really have the taqwa and the strong a man, we will not have many of those psychological problems depression, anxiety and so on.

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It might happen but in a very, very narrow scale. Very small scale. Why? Because depression and anxiety most of them happen because of a lot of thinking about what

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about the dunya about things related to the dunya but if we just leave it to Allah, Allah, yeah.

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said I have nine daughters, I have no, no sons, by Allah, I never thought that I will be worried about their provision any of those days, any day.

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Yeah. Normally when the person has two three daughters, he will think about the future.

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But if you put trust in Allah, Allah Allah Allah Allah, Allah will look after you and after them, for Allah, Dr. Ola coming up and Zopa kumai in the hopper in the home can

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and this is the

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who has three parts. For me.

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This is the first part, the second part where

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is the second part and the third part is what

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will mean a lot has to do.

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And the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said the Quran Allah Hafiz takato coup de

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todo el Santo befana. If you have strong toluna Allah, Allah will provide you as he provides what this paddles are the birds in general. How they go in the morning with empty stomachs and they come back in the evening with what

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with full stomachs how it is by a lot. It is by Allah. Some people say but we have seen some people dying before because of poverty and hunger.

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Yeah, they said in Yarmouk camp,

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where is your mo camp?

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In Syria in Damascus? There are more than 300,000 Palestinians there. Every day. 10 1520 people die out of poverty out of hunger, just out of hunger these days. Yeah. And the world is what is watching,

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watching and they don't do anything.

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Because the sun is revolt against thereafter the government in Iraq, America and Iraq. Immediately they announced that they are supporting what

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the Maliki government in Iraq immediately. So they were very brave and they sent weapons

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and they sent planes etc. But people are dying in Syria. Now we they are still thinking and considering the situation. Yeah. Anyway, when they die, they die. They go to Allah, Allah Allah here.

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he met his mum, ma his mother has not been terribly vocal, and he told her that

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marani live up to their own.

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Yeah, you know when hit the fight took place between him and

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So he said, What do you think? She said, If you fought for the dunya, then what a bad person you are. If you fought for the Euro, then what do you think? What do you expect other than death? Then he was killed. Abdullah Omar, he was killed and he was cross crucified. of the line Rama passed by him and he saw his mother as being a bigger raviolo talana. Looking at him and looking at his face, he was crucified her son. Yeah, her beloved son as ma raviolo Tada and had died when she was around 100 years of age. They said, Even she did not lose a single tooth.

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She was older than I should 10 years older than I should. Anyway.

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So after my grandma said to her, don't worry, don't worry.

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You see the body? The soul is in paradise.

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She said, Well, I never been worried about him. Yes, yeah, he was a carrier was killed and his head was given to a prostitute.

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Yeah, so this dunya is going to end this dunya is going to end the real scale is what happens in the alpha.

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So that's why if the more you are connected to the dunya and attached to the dunya you will become worried about the dunya and you will have anxiety you will have depression you will have all these problems. But the more you think of your alpha, nothing will happen to you.

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Yes, and that's why I'm delighted for us to say

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filati neuron philipa

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wahama dounia

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worry for the AF era gives you light in your heart. Worry for the dunya makes you hot, lives in dark or gives you darkness in your heart.

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Yeah, and that's why the minute people say we have problems, etc etc. Well, if you think about the Euro, you will come out from the prison of the dounia

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you need to be worried we need to be worried about what about our fellow Yes

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Okay, so

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Allah Allah Allah here confirm this in three different trade war May Allah Maharajah

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Why are so common Hydra woman yet Oh, that Allah was

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the one who puts his trust in Allah. Allah Allah.

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Allah Allah Allah did not say that he will give him so on so Allah Allah Allah says Allah will be what surprising him

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and that's why this caller said what else you want? There is nothing that a lot a lot I said that I will be for you. Except aku Romania Taka Allah wa he not he will get this under no for who has boo means Allah will be what sufficing him.

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A Tacoma My dear brothers, there is an Yanni appointed. Allah Allah Allah spoke about the duck wa and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said,

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as part of my Obafemi Zan and I do not know what the heaviest thing to be put on the scale of the person on the Day of Resurrection is what? taqwa law

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Yes, taqwa of Allah and having good character. Yes. And the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said that

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and taqwa is was here to MBA.

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law. We have given those here for the people of the book, before you and do is what to have Taqwa of Allah de lo Allah. We can speak a lot about taqwa. But the lesson is not about the law. But this will be enough the definition of a taqwa. Yeah, one very good definition. As I have been praised this definition is the definition of palpable Habib. They are one of the companions he said the taqwa and mela bill

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Atilla T and n od Mina la hittar du Bois de la

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Yes, the code for amalthea Tila be naughty min a la

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Yeah, you

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worship Allah, Allah Allah and be obedient to Allah, Allah Allah, our knowledge and our newly minted law.

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Yes, seeking their award for modular and to stop yourself from the mouthy.

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Not because you don't like them No. Because you know that they are mouthy.

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Yes. And you want what? To seek protection from the anger of Allah or the punishment of a law. This is the taqwa. And you know the story of Abdullah Massoud, when they say to him what is the taqwa he said, Do you have you ever passed by an area with a lot of thrown? He said yes. He said what do you do? He said, I take I fold my clothes and walk carefully. He said this is duck walk.

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Yeah, this is the definition of taqwa. And you know, it is very amazing that our the law Allah says always says, what will make

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okay and so on. He didn't say he didn't love Allah.

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Or hope put your hope in Allah. He mentioned those and very few verses, but most of the verses are talking about what

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taqwa taqwa Taka, linguistically means you be careful.

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And you put this Kitty in between you under law. Yes, you under law, how you are careful of the anger for law, the punishment of Allah, you fear Allah because He is Allah.

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Okay, and it is not love of Allah. Because Allah Allah Allah knows that people respond

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to fear and punishment more than they respond to love, maybe children and respond to love in certain cases. But if you want people in general to so they adjust their life according to a laws laws, they have to have fear of Allah, they have to be careful of a law.

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And as we said before, that it is Allah only nothing but Allah, who's once you flee from him, you flee to him. There is no one except a lot that you flee from to.

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Yeah, there is no one other than Allah. Allah is the only one you flee from, to fulfill.

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Not mean Allah. But in the long field rule means run away, but to Allah. And this is, taqwa, my dear brothers and sisters, I strongly advise my brothers and sisters, to reflect upon those I carefully, because I find that we are worried too much about dooney, especially here in Britain or in the West, maybe because we were not afflicted with many calamities and difficulties. So we are so worried about what the loss of the dunya we think a lot about the future, our children's education about my wife in the future, about me after retirement, what am I going to do, etc. And the person works hard. For what? Yeah, for the time, the after retirement, how long it is going to be?

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Yeah, the person will return on his word, when he's 65. How long is he going to live after that?

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10 years.

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Yeah, it will be 70 for 20 years.

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Not more than that. 30 years, not more than the I have told you many times. And I always remember this case of

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a family came to me the Islamic Sharia Council and they have a dispute.

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over the house, the family house.

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And they say that

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their father had

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that one third, one third of his wealth should be going for should go for a walk, as I said.

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And they said, We don't he did not leave any cash.

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He didn't leave any cash for us. And the only thing that he left is the house. Shall we sell the house in order to fulfill dorsia of our father? Or can we delay it until we earn money?

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Yes, and I told them fear Allah.

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Now you'll father have worked day or night,

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day or night in order to build or to buy this house for you?

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Yes, he his life ended. And he wanted just one third of the house to help him on the Day of Resurrection. And now, after he worked for those years, and he left the house, you say to him, bye, bye, you sort out yourself by yourself. We want to the house to enjoy.

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This is the reality. This is what we said in a taraba.

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If you remember, we said the those who are losing and regretting on the Day of Resurrection, we gave three examples. One of them is a person who worked hard and collected the money from Iran. It doesn't matter because I want to secure their

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future the future of my children. Yes.

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And then he died.

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they acquire the money in Holloway. And he's suffering in his grave because he acquired the money in a heartbeat.

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Yeah. So let us be careful, my dear brothers and sisters, and yet they do here.

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It is a test that only has a test is not really

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a period that we will dwell in forever. So let us put more tokens in Allah. Allah Allah. And let us also remember habit Abdullah Nasir very powerful

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manga gallon hamama man wahida Fira de la Hama Dean here dunya.

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Yeah, woman Tasha

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he RJ dunia Oman, Tasha.

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dounia Lem you back up again.

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The one who makes the concerns as just one concern, which is the concern for his para la de la vida will suffice him Allah Allah Allah will take care of his martyrs in the dunya. And in the family, we have seen this evidence

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we have seen this and see look at those people who are worried about the dunya I challenge you

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to find any person who is looking after dunya and worried about dunya that he is happy.

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Yeah, I challenge you to find the person who is looking after dunya that he intrinsically internally happy. No, it is impossible. However, you might find many poor people

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eating very little and they are very happy.

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Look at it around you. You might find some rich people around you. You might think that oh they are enjoying their time. I challenge

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you even if they laugh in front of you. It is fake. Just to cover something internally they are not happy Otherwise, you will find the big celebrities are the most to consume what

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alcohol and drugs,

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anti depression and so on. Are glioma.

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Michael Jackson.

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He was one of the biggest celebrities 10 years ago.

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When he died, they discovered that he was consuming every month. I don't know they said 10,000 pounds of drugs. Was it 10,000 something like this. And then they took his doctor to the court. They said you should have

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told the authorities that is consuming this amount of drugs and so on. Yeah, how he's happy. He's a big celebrity. Whenever he goes if people change him and stuff

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For him, and they just yet want to have just pictures with him. However, this was his

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reality. So just be content

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by your heart in your heart.

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This is more than enough for you, the rich people, the the poor people, there are poor people who are poor in the dunya will be poor in doubt, they are poor people, but they are worried about the journey as well Subhana Allah, they will never get done here and they will not get out.

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But you find some people who are not that wealthy, but they have contentment. And the world in Nevada will provide them from nowhere.

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Allah de lo, Allah will provide them from nowhere, even if they goes through some difficult time, they will enjoy that difficult time. When they eat, they find that they don't find enough food to eat even very little food, they will enjoy it. Very little food they will enjoy.

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And telecoil Allah My dear brothers, we can talk a lot about telco in particular putting your trust in Allah

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is missing in our life. In missing Why? Because the legal system here and the lifestyle here is putting so much attention to what

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to precautions because of what because they don't have to work with

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the children. And for us, and especially parents, mothers, husbands, mothers, fathers, they have to learn some torquil Allah, don't worry so much about the children. Yeah, this food if it is not the perfect food, it will affect the children and if it is not so clean, it will not affect children under the boy fell down injured little bit on the end of the world that we have to take him to the hospital otherwise this injury might get infection etc. Allah is dead.

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Allah is dead. Yeah. Same thing when we drive the car, we have to take all precautions. Otherwise, this might happen. This might happen. This might happen. Yeah, you might be sitting in your home. Everything is perfect and something might happen.

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agree or not? Yeah. And when you are, when you don't have Taqwa of Allah,

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then Allah, Allah will leave you to the one whom you put trust in.

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And if you have to work on him, Allah Allah Allah will be the one who will look after you. I remember when my brothers that I will conclude anyway.

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I remember that I was working for a company.

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And they offered us cards

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here to buy cards on any particular scheme. We bought 10 cars.

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And then when we bought them, the area we were living in. There were a lot of car thefts, a lot of concepts. So everyone said that they will insure the carts. I said to them, we're like this insurance is not the way you will not insure

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my car. Just leave it by

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law IE by a law I remember that all the 10 cars except two cars mica and another brother car were subject to bad thefts that even they could not get any compensation.

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Yeah, I remember that. And even one brother he was one the first one to have insurance and he was he said I cannot risk my car. It is the first new car that I buy Brian Did you know that I buy etcetera, etcetera.

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One time they they used to open the boot and take the spare cup days per week. So they did this. Yeah. Then.

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Then he did not leave any boot. Any any any any. Anything in there any spare? Yeah, we have in his book.

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Yes. And he managed to get an alarm system. And he put this security bar. Yeah. On the wheel.

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So one time What did they do? They brought something and they scrapped the whole scheme. The front is kidding. He went to the insurance. This

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This is not covered

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later on. Yeah, I think he went for another company, he did something later on. He took the whole car.

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He went to the insurance they said sorry, the whole car, we cannot cover it like this.

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So the whole point is a lot is that we have to have our own a lot. Yeah. When you start your journey, don't think that if I broke down who is going to help me? Okay, maybe a etc, etc. Think of

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things. First. You have your children think of Allah first. Otherwise, we must do anything in this dunya will not do anything if we just think of the materialistic measures because no matter how perfect they are, one day they will fail us. Yeah. And if we if something happened to us in the dunya

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we will lose some of our sins guilty or not lose some of our sins at the moment in our own way. Okay, we'll stop here inshallah. inshallah, we will continue.

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Next Tuesday. inshallah, did you have any questions?

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Any question? No questions

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mentioned earlier about for witnesses.

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Yeah. And when it happens, you discuss it. Now the brother is saying that. Okay. In the case of adultery, we need four witnesses. What about self confession? Yeah.

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Self confession is confirmed. The punishment if the person asked for the punishment. Yeah, that's why, as even gave me a lot of data said the punishment of adultery, which is, the stoning did not happen

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since the time of the peroxisome and kill our time until his time, except with the request of the adulterer or adulterous they requested

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us to do, how much future planning?

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How much do you think?

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What do you mean? For what?

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depressed? And in some cases, planning is necessary? So can you recommend the balance? How much is healthy? Yeah, no. Yeah. The question is, how much is it recommended or how much any

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healthy recommendation for future plans in terms of finance and in terms of something similar? Yeah. And it differs from one person to another person. Okay, it differs, there is no exact amount.

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there is some scholars say some scholars said that a year is enough. Yeah. Not for 20 years. Yeah, but I find it Jani is difficult to come up with a figure. However, what we need to remember is,

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see the discussion that has been provided by scholars has been provided in normal times. But these days, these days we have so many calamities happening around us, we cannot leave people dying because of poverty and hunger. And we just have to worry about our future and just keep stacking money and Yeah, good. Yeah.

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You can say yes.

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that, but if he divorced his wife, how does he have duck woman he divorced her?

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Divorce the way

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that if he divorces her according to sooner?

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Yeah. Then Allah will find him away out.

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divorcing diversity. Yeah.

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Same thing. Same thing. Yeah, we can apply this idea. Yeah. Generally, any when you have taco for lunch,

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Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah will find a way out for you. The person might go through a test, but at the end of the day, yeah, a lot, Delilah will find him away. There is a very nice study by somebody, I don't know that I mentioned this is 30 or not? Yeah, then it will happen. Somebody. He was a big scholar

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died in the sixth century.

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A very amazing incident. He said, I was traveling. I was traveling then, in a small area, in a small village. I found a necklace.

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And then I said, Okay, I was really desperate for money.

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I said to myself, shall I take Hmm, what shall I do? Because read I'm desperate of money, for money, I run out of money, I don't have any provision, etc, etc. What shall I do? Then he said, in the middle of that, in the middle of that I had someone who's calling for it, who said whoever find that necklace, then it belongs to me. Then I went to him and said to him, this is your necklace.

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He was very thankful to me. He gave me 100 dinar so I could continue my journey.

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He said the study did not end at that time. At that point. He said, I want to my destination.

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for another city, another city, I entered the main street and I was very angry, very angry. I ran out of money. So I sat down in the masjid. Then the time came,

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the event did not come.

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So they saw me and they thought that I am a person who

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memorizes the plan. So they asked me to lead the follow. So I led the Salah. So they were happy that I know. And etc. So one of them hosted me and I am I have eaten with here with the family. So he said that was the first thing calendula has given me. Then someone came to them and told them that the amount something happened to the amount and the amount will never continue. Here fleeting. So they asked me, can you work as an eval and continue the follow up? He said until nearly overwhelmed. So he said, Okay, I will leave. The Ramadan came about okay. And they said, Will you stay with us for Ramadan? He said yes. I don't mind. Would you leave? Yes, I will literally he literally. Then

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they told me that there was a person who was Thirdly, rich, and he passed away. And he left his daughter.

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He left his daughter and we although he passed away just recently, we don't want to leave her by herself. No one is looking after her.

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Can we you have no wife? Why don't you marry her? Then I got married to her.

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Then she became pregnant. And she gave birth to a very beautiful son.

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So Hannah was he became ill after that.

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And when she became ill,

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I found that she that's something for me. She passed away. I opened what she left for me and I found the necklace. And that this is story narrated by this is not the antidote. Fake stories. It is narrated by Mr. Davi NCR and

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yeah, so this is why many

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Maharajah there are many stories like this any other question.

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But ignore questions are from the sisters.

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No, you don't have this. This technology now. texting or something.

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And so when are we going to have exams, no exams when we can do this mystery exams. What?

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The committee don't do enough to have exams,

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exams on online, but we did not. We never announced any exam. Why? We did one thing we did two exams.

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Yeah we did not announce them How did they have the first one?

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No, no here here. Yeah Mashallah, we have many people now we want to reduce the number

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by no no questions from this, okay. There's a lot

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of people

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