Channel: Haitham al-Haddad
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Okay, I remember, there was a scenario that I heard of,
in, in this particular issue, a brother and his excuse that he was reverted, although he been Muslim for some time, but that was his excuse. He asked me the following question.
He said that he divorced his wife because they agreed that they cannot continue it's not working.
he said, because I have a child from her, I was looking for a good husband for her. Because the husband will be will look after my child or she will be living with my child with him. So he was looking for a man to marry his ex wife, he found a good brother. Mashallah, okay. Then he acted as the value of his ex wife.
Not only that, not only that, but he agreed that the new
husband or the new brother will marry her. And he got married to her after less than a month from the divorce.
So I said to him, so she got married to him within a month. He said, Yeah.
But he said, that was not the problem. I said, What else? Is that any other bigger problem than this? He said, No, I'm talking to because my heart was broken. And I don't know what to do. I said what he said, because he was living in my house, the brother who proposed to her, came to my house, and I was heavily. So we have done any cash in my house.
I said, interesting.
We have a meter. I say in Arabic. Ah, ha, Raja vantara. java. If you live until the month of Roger, you will see so many amazing things. I said, Okay. He said, after we conducted the marriage, this brother
took her and said that you are my wife. This is in my house. So he took permission for me to go to another room to sleep with his new wife.
And he slept with my ex wife in my house.
I said very interesting martial law.
We love but we should cry for these incidents that we see in our community. All of this mighty respected brothers and sisters is because of what
We don't study our Deen. And then we put ourselves into so many problems.
I told you, I don't know whether I told you previously about that sister who her husband took care of during that period, or she slept with the husband during that period. And she became pregnant and then she got married to another man because her husband, her father refused or did not allow her to go back to her husband whom she slept with him.
So many problems are happening because we don't have enough information about the basics of our Deen. And that's why this kind of said, fallible might be
seeking knowledge might be obligatory if that knowledge is needed to correct your actions.
So if you are about to divorce or you want to get married, then learn the basics before you put yourself into the problems. Okay, so during the period please brothers and sisters pass this info