DONATION APPEAL!

ALL our Projects are FREE and with no advertisements.

We serve millions of downloads a month... Now! Imagine earning on-going rewards of every lecture and quran audio and so on.

As well as helping us cover our running costs and future projects!

mufti menk image

"I really think this is one of the greatest causes one could support"

    Become a Patron
    Donate via PayPal

More Information and Options

Tazkiyah Retreat 2019 – #04

share this pageShare Page
Haifaa Younis

Channel: Haifaa Younis

Episode Notes

Episode Transcript

© No part of this transcript may be copied or referenced or transmitted in any way whatsoever. Transcripts are auto-generated and thus will be be inaccurate. We are working on a system to allow volunteers to edit transcripts in a controlled system.


00:00:00--> 00:00:04

We'll be learning in a shame on you're watching

00:00:06--> 00:00:07

Bismillah

00:00:13--> 00:00:15

Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala rasulillah

00:00:16--> 00:00:19

a woman when a woman with no microphone I will find out

00:00:20--> 00:00:23

nikka semiological along with me how to become

00:00:25--> 00:00:41

an FC notation I would like to SMA or been around to support luminova inhalator we'll have a little coffee in the cafe will have will be slightly sundry with severe Marie, why not with Emily Sahni of cold calling. So as we talk about the floss comes within me.

00:00:43--> 00:00:54

So what is Me? Me is my intention. translate to why I am doing it. So, last, the answer is day.

00:00:55--> 00:01:05

One lost sincerity is for Allah. But me is when I am doing it when I'm opening this book. Why do you open this book so I can read from it? That's my knee.

00:01:06--> 00:01:11

showing me the famous v Haley's offer near is

00:01:12--> 00:01:13

hamdulillah

00:01:14--> 00:01:23

I'm an avid orbignya and I always remind myself a new wall is so amazing. That seemed normal is the one who graduated this

00:01:24--> 00:02:06

is a normal is not unheard this. See normal is not a famous for narrating headings is not actually that's how a lot of one Huggies Latina rate look at you in normal Albania. When you medical memory, nano wordly surely deeds are by and are going to translate literals and we will comment, these are enamel orbignya worldly surely these are why the intention went away No matter every man or every person has what he made the intention for that's the literal translation.

00:02:07--> 00:02:09

What does it mean to things

00:02:10--> 00:02:20

the correctness of the deeds that you are doing, the action you are doing is correct or sound based on the idea

00:02:22--> 00:02:27

and the reward that you will get you we'll get based on the knee

00:02:29--> 00:02:37

so am I doing this deed is going based on the Nia Will I be rewarded based on the knee

00:02:39--> 00:02:42

easy to understand not to apply with.

00:02:43--> 00:02:51

combine it with a floss so if I say I am doing it for Allah, and people praise me, what are the words you will get?

00:02:53--> 00:02:58

I say only for one law and I really did it then I will get the reward.

00:03:00--> 00:03:19

So a minimal amount will be needed in NEMA in the Arabic language for those of you who know Arabi. They call that hustle meaning everything comes after it. It's only this there's nothing else in nama Burnley, only these are judged or are rewarded by the judge and rewarded both.

00:03:21--> 00:03:45

Now, these are Africans. Think of yourself today. What did you do this morning? All of us did an act of worship. For sure. White, maybe some of us or none did an act of disobedience. Maybe Maybe not. And the third one, neither this or that.

00:03:46--> 00:03:51

It's not disobedience, another obedience through. Okay, so what is this third category?

00:03:53--> 00:03:57

For example, eating breakfast, right? washing my face,

00:03:58--> 00:04:00

taking a nap because I was tired.

00:04:02--> 00:04:09

It's neither an act of obedience. And for sure it's not disobedience. I'm talking about there's no distributors in the food I'm eating

00:04:10--> 00:04:23

each of these, the first and the third, the act of obedience, and the act of neither via change it and multiply the reward.

00:04:24--> 00:04:28

Change it and multiply the reward. How's that?

00:04:30--> 00:04:33

So you are good deed. Think of a good deed.

00:04:37--> 00:05:00

Let's think of it I want you to want to start about good deeds. I need our thinking to be wider. Don't think of Syrah and Sam because we all think COVID Give me something more. For example. So let's see here. So when we went, I'm going to go back right probably we will, we will see. Other people are not religion. So I am going to say for example, good morning.

00:05:01--> 00:05:03

What morning is the good deed?

00:05:05--> 00:05:06

What is my new year

00:05:09--> 00:05:17

kind of to be a time good deeds not one I just said good morning it's two words and will be 20 deeds actually 200

00:05:18--> 00:05:33

I mean it's because the one good morning with a good new year that's 20 already is Rama lucania good is one that's 10 morning is one that's 20 Can this 20 becomes 200 meaning Can I have 10 me for the same Good morning?

00:05:35--> 00:05:51

Yes that's how they need to multiply the reward the intention multiply the reward and this is why we need to learn this because it makes the life easier it makes the book heavier with not extra work

00:05:53--> 00:06:19

they see what i'm saying I don't have to do to work for 20 hours to get 200 rewards I can work two hours but I get the 200 rewards by multiplying my knee so let's learn this because that's really good concept for us so saying good morning working here for a non Muslim group which I we saw many of them last night right so how do I what is the thing good jeans

00:06:21--> 00:06:24

let's let's start with to maybe Allah will give us this will

00:06:28--> 00:06:37

so you want to change a little opinion about a Muslim woman This is to serve not me Jean they're about me about Muslim woman that's a good

00:06:38--> 00:06:48

I'm sorry if shouts and I'm surprised peace Socratic greeting and that's one of the things I was wanting to set up wanted us to do two three

00:06:51--> 00:06:52

I'm sorry

00:06:54--> 00:07:11

smiling so determine if they are men there's a little bit difficult right here because this is tricky question always comes up so let's assume it was a group of woman and children right smiling Exactly. It's a good deed three it's harder so

00:07:12--> 00:07:20

you're probably especially if they're Muslims and if any of you were yesterday in the Duma what is very nice beautiful

00:07:21--> 00:07:41

how to make your fellow Muslim happy it's a very beautiful concept you don't hear it a lot. your need for smiling in the face of your sister not because you're sweet you're nice or because you love her or because she usually smile in your face or it doesn't make sense not to do it.

00:07:42--> 00:07:44

It is to make her happy

00:07:46--> 00:07:47

and even if you don't like

00:07:48--> 00:07:49

which is harder

00:07:51--> 00:07:51

that's for

00:07:53--> 00:07:55

let's say let's say with each other that's gonna be easy

00:07:59--> 00:08:01

what's your knee of saying Salaam to people

00:08:04--> 00:08:06

number one should be

00:08:07--> 00:08:14

it's it's something a lot loves and also it sought to some love and this is what I say what most of the youth

00:08:15--> 00:08:17

you know we're losing this Hi, how are you?

00:08:19--> 00:08:25

Or I'm not in a good mood Don't talk to me. That's up to you. You lost the 200 the scan will be lighter.

00:08:26--> 00:08:38

So everything you do if you practice this exercise this exercise do it everything Do you drink while you drink? Whoa Bismillah

00:08:40--> 00:08:41

so drinking water is

00:08:43--> 00:08:44

always

00:08:48--> 00:08:50

okay to change your mind right away.

00:08:53--> 00:08:59

Usually it is Hannah unless two things it's stolen. Or it hurts me.

00:09:02--> 00:09:20

So it is not something it would hurt me and it's not it's not stolen so hamdulillah it's not stolen was not gonna hurt me. So this is at I'm thirsty. I'm drinking it because I'm thirsty but now I'm learning that as I am doing something my body need also I can get a lot of rewards. Bismillah Yeah.

00:09:23--> 00:09:24

You said Bismillah

00:09:25--> 00:09:26

you raise your right hand.

00:09:28--> 00:09:31

Three times, preferably sitting.

00:09:32--> 00:09:34

Exactly. Alhamdulillah

00:09:35--> 00:09:55

then you Mr. Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, liters Rabon. Do you see the water that you drink and you say a loss of pack within him? Six already I did not even put it in my mouth yet. Six times 1016 how many times you would drink water if you want a healthy person eight glasses a day.

00:09:57--> 00:09:57

Do the math

00:09:59--> 00:09:59

and Nia

00:10:00--> 00:10:09

That's why I'm sure now you're probably understanding why it is so important they put it in the beginning on anything is your knee and

00:10:11--> 00:10:20

your knee, one thing in the knee. And we have to make this very clear. This obedience of a law does not change by the knee

00:10:22--> 00:10:25

at all laterally, you're near to law. See, that's how they say it.

00:10:27--> 00:10:40

The disobedience of a law is not changed by a good knee, give me an example. So you're stealing and I do it for a while. Or I am going to say Bismillah it doesn't give me practical Hello, don't cerium

00:10:42--> 00:10:48

Give me something. Again, this is what I want. That's why I keep asking you these questions, it's going to make you think.

00:10:49--> 00:10:57

So here you go, you're gonna say, you know what, I had this $100 I'm going to go and invest them in bonds,

00:10:58--> 00:11:04

because I will get a good reward return and I'm going to spend it on the poor people.

00:11:06--> 00:11:10

It's not going to change it that you don't with a higher with a haraam.

00:11:13--> 00:11:13

Dealing

00:11:15--> 00:11:17

give me more, we don't have money, we don't do

00:11:18--> 00:11:27

something more practical daily law. This is a lot with the youth we do it to what we don't look at it. I am old or somebody

00:11:28--> 00:11:57

I don't want to be different. Because I have a better Muslim than them. Or they are if I'll be a friend with them, they will make me worse. So my media being rude, so they will not come to be close to me and be my friend. Right? So the Nia is I don't want them to be fun. I don't want to be friends with them because they will affect my team. So then he has good the ways along

00:11:58--> 00:12:00

the ways how long

00:12:01--> 00:12:17

so that's how I said there's a saying in our resolve that those of you who know how to be here will know this is not to be rude Waseda, the groom, the goal does not justify the mean or the mean does not justify the goal.

00:12:19--> 00:12:23

So the boy I want to go talk to hedge so I go and rob a bank.

00:12:27--> 00:13:00

My new year is good. But the action is how long it does not change it at all. And I want you to give me practical things from your home to justify a disobedience of war This is why we use the media we use it to justify the disobedience of our now you're smiling. Get TV so you can watch mica I was like really? So nothing else in that TV. Except my car so when I say okay, what about put TV puts my car on your computer

00:13:02--> 00:13:03

no one's

00:13:05--> 00:13:09

okay so that what I said is you correct someone in public

00:13:10--> 00:13:17

that depends on the situation because sometimes I correct you in public and I'm not correcting you I'm correcting somebody else

00:13:19--> 00:13:47

if it's a group of people you know so this is this is tricky depends. It depends. Yeah, but I'm talking about exactly the TVs are good very good example. It's something it's how long but I put any year in it to justify it. I don't say I like it and i a week. Yeah, so you list your you miss your obligations, because of an extra good deed

00:13:49--> 00:14:03

and an obligatory action that's that's, that's, that's a different thing. But in general, any home, put it in your mind this is like a statement and you can look at your life and you can any home.

00:14:04--> 00:14:11

Clearly home will never be a hand except in one case.

00:14:13--> 00:14:14

When you are saving the life

00:14:16--> 00:14:17

it's

00:14:18--> 00:14:34

it's saving your life, saving the dean saving the knifes saving the oven is the five main thing that this system this gift came to preserve. But anything else how long media does not make it hang on.

00:14:36--> 00:14:59

And we do this a lot of the time man especially these days we are living in a time where there is mesh surrounded and bombarded by with a shabby art by things which is doubtful and we're confused. The best way is don't justify it. The safest path is safest but stay away from so 3ds and Nia does not change it

00:15:00--> 00:15:06

The good deed Nia change it in better and multiply the reward

00:15:07--> 00:15:08

a bad

00:15:09--> 00:15:18

act of daily things daily actions can be changed to an act of worship by the NEA This is the second thing I want to talk about

00:15:19--> 00:15:36

the something that I do daily after for ship it's not it's not so young it's a bit annoying but I will become an act of lucky during the waterway the example we gave taking a shower

00:15:38--> 00:15:39

think a show

00:15:40--> 00:15:55

some some people they take a daily right can this shower becomes an act of Ibadan yes by making it also do the also the way it was widely sought or surrounded or just the main things have also become an act of worship

00:15:58--> 00:16:05

entering the bathroom before you enter the bathroom you say that you are you come out to the bathroom you say that you are you go to work.

00:16:07--> 00:16:29

So don't forget the Union, the Union and the Union and the last cantata said this is the Quran Surah Nisa. Now hero v Kathy remain najwa ilam and Omar Omar roofie always smiling being a nurse well if I then get to amaravati ly also for you to join us at the forum. There is no benefit in what they say.

00:16:31--> 00:16:34

This right is now such as this week.

00:16:36--> 00:16:48

Now higher figures dealing with marijuana then isn't that many good or benefit in what they speak? This is about talking in the

00:16:49--> 00:16:53

news not too much good. Is in what do they say?

00:16:55--> 00:16:56

Except three things.

00:16:57--> 00:17:12

Three things Illa laughing because eliminate 111 Amaro that person in his speech is enjoying the following one of the followings I'm going to be sort of an act of charity

00:17:13--> 00:17:17

our roof act of goodness

00:17:19--> 00:17:23

always slashing Venus rectify between people

00:17:25--> 00:17:29

these are three things we say it these are good three things

00:17:31--> 00:17:52

she comes in complaining about her husband your answer is this idea comes in my mind and immediately I start sliding in this rectify between you and your reminder of all I heard him doing this I saw him doing this I heard him say this about you she looks at you says really don't lie.

00:17:53--> 00:17:55

Don't lie to you most of the times true.

00:17:57--> 00:18:24

So Islam all these good deeds now I didn't come to the knee again because the knee is coming. Well my yes I'm gonna get I'm gonna walk in whomsoever whoever does this, for the sake of the pleasure of a law now comes setting for so funny, cheeky, I don't know, we will give him a great reward. You have it in your booklet and it's an ISA 114. So to me, I have 114

00:18:25--> 00:19:28

so your minion work on the NEA. So you know what the law says? The best you do? The best deed you do. Look at this general statement. This will help you to write it best did i do number one, do the obligation what's on what made this obligation and again, obligations are not only Colossians a current obligation is excellence to parent obligations not lying. obligation is not hurting people. obligation is not wasting, these are all. No backbiting. No NEMA no standard. All these are what a lot obligation one on one chosen to be obligation one. Number two, while we're on the horrible law, stay away from what Allah made it forbidden. Stay away, don't justify it. Stay away from it. Stay

00:19:28--> 00:19:36

away from what was said it is haram. And third, this is where it comes to us. In our subject was super nice

00:19:38--> 00:19:52

and truthful. You're truthful in your intention. Seeking the reward from a woman. You are truthful in your intention seeking that you weren't from us.

00:19:55--> 00:19:59

And one of the righteous people says we're dominant. So he called me and he

00:20:00--> 00:20:10

Have a small deed we will not will multiply it and could be a big deed, a huge deed, then we'll make this

00:20:11--> 00:20:16

give me a big deed, a big one huge million will make it less.

00:20:18--> 00:20:33

And I was that I was thinking the same way I had a huge Kosti to take time off, who hardship travel will this, how it can be this, how it can be small by me

00:20:36--> 00:20:58

your intention mainly mainly because shopping and hedges allowed. It's actually a loss it's in the Quran. But mainly I go to hygiene so when I come back, people say, Oh, she wants to hide. That's my intention, or my friends want to hide. And I am the only one everybody called them hygiene, I am not ongoing.

00:21:00--> 00:21:10

That's a huge deal became much smaller, because you wouldn't be rewarded. Because you didn't, you wouldn't be to be accepted. Because you are training you want to

00:21:11--> 00:21:28

be aware of the things we do and then because of the new year it will be much and much and much less. Last thing I want to say about this topic which very beautiful CTA will give you also a very pious man is a dialogue with me learn and

00:21:30--> 00:21:45

learn linear to another linear thing to have a blog on Amazon learn the near the intention, it is much more effective beneficial. important than the deed itself.

00:21:47--> 00:21:48

It is noise

00:21:50--> 00:21:51

beratan haha.

00:21:53--> 00:22:13

In the abluminal a minimal learning tension, it is much more important beneficial than the deed itself. And we shared a lot of examples think Don't forget the drinking water. Simple deed how much by the Nia becomes a huge deal the

00:22:15--> 00:22:22

other way around how many big deeds are what put it in front of us and we throw it away by Nani Nani and

00:22:23--> 00:22:27

throw whatever you can think of without the knee,

00:22:29--> 00:22:46

work, school, obeying the law getting married, having children raising children, all these all these these the things that we do with daily life, being successful being good at all these 100 up with the lighting here. I say How are you?

00:22:48--> 00:22:49

Good, I'm good.

00:22:50--> 00:22:55

I'm rich and comfortable. I have everything everybody has at all this I use it for

00:22:57--> 00:23:13

What a lucky woman is versus the opposite to me enemy. Practice it today. Practice today everything you do. Bring your near Why? And usually two questions you ask yourself before any action

00:23:15--> 00:23:25

why I am doing it? And how I am doing it. Why? For Allah? How pleasing for what following the reason

00:23:26--> 00:23:35

why and how? Why is your new year? How is the deed itself? How are you doing it? Any question about something not clear here?

00:23:36--> 00:23:37

Yes.

00:23:39--> 00:23:42

Okay, very good question. So something I like,

00:23:43--> 00:23:58

right? I like reading the book. I'm a person who enjoy reading. How can I I'm doing it because I like it. How can I make it for Allah number one, Lucky you. This one gave you things that you long and you can do it easy.

00:23:59--> 00:24:09

For example, even in the act of worship, some people like fasting, it's easier for them and some people so that it's easier for them I was like lucky.

00:24:10--> 00:24:22

It's already easy for you meaning I don't struggle versus some people struggle on wanting fasting. So that's number one. Number two, this thing that I like Hello, pleasing to Allah.

00:24:23--> 00:24:24

I just keep doing it.

00:24:25--> 00:24:42

Because I'm not struggling so I do more of it. I'll get more reward and the things I don't like I'm going to struggle to do it follow and even if I don't like it, and actually which reward is more when I do things for a law and it's hard for me

00:24:43--> 00:24:51

it's definitely more rewarding. Latina jaha Davina, the more difficulty once I do, the more reward I will get.

00:24:52--> 00:24:55

But if one made it easy one when I sell those

00:24:56--> 00:25:00

items, so don't say like oh I like it. I'm not going to

00:25:00--> 00:25:03

Do with no hunger? That's easy. Do it

00:25:04--> 00:25:09

and work on the other words, now come to the next step into skill. Yes.

00:25:10--> 00:25:16

And Nia is my intention, and he lost it. What is my intention?

00:25:17--> 00:25:34

Did you get it? So intention, I want to do something that's intention. That's a new, I want to drink water. That's intention. Why I am doing water for whom? That's an if clause. So the clause is a state absolutely follows the knee or comes with it.

00:25:36--> 00:25:40

Easy? No answer. So I'm assuming Yes. So if you

00:25:41--> 00:26:20

in doing actions, had a pleasing tomo, there's two possibilities. I like this thing that I'm doing, or I don't like it. They're both pleasing to Allah. Meaning I don't like to think it's harder on me. For example, some people fasting is very hard for them. And some people fasting, it's very easy for them. Both are pleasing to Allah. So the question was, well, I'm doing it because it's easy, and I like it. And I say I have to do more of it, and get more reward. So I shouldn't say Tom comes to me says, oh, you're doing it because you like it. It's almost pantalla like it, and he puts the love of what he likes in

00:26:22--> 00:26:48

Korea. Yeah, and he don't be this Don't be too hard. Because shavon comes this way too. And you have to really know Is she was talking I always say this was talking shavon It's me. So you have to learn this. Can I take the questions in the evenings like this, I finished the heart. So now we're gonna come to the central point of the scale. And that is the heart,

00:26:49--> 00:26:52

the heart and I'm talking about the spiritual heart.

00:26:53--> 00:27:02

spiritual heart. First thing you have to know and you have it in your handout. We will be asked about our voice.

00:27:04--> 00:27:12

We will be asked about our hearts and I put you the iron in the summer, while masala waifu Adam kulula

00:27:13--> 00:27:36

What's the business What is wrong? And it's an ayah 36 wehrli this eyesight what I look at what some what I listen, well for other and the heart, Quaalude, I can undo all the about all the previous ones, we will be asked about.

00:27:38--> 00:27:49

We will be asked to love blah, blah. And he hummed a lot lies off more Rahim because radio will have no chance. Every Look, I look at, I'm going to be asked

00:27:51--> 00:28:08

every word I hear every music, every phone word, every parent, every good word. I'm going to be asked about animal welfare was another word of an unbelievable, wonderful art the heart, I'm going to be asked about the heart.

00:28:10--> 00:28:13

So when do we do? Don't get depressed?

00:28:15--> 00:28:21

Why is that? Because it's good that we're learning. No one is teaching us. So what is the heart?

00:28:23--> 00:28:28

What is the heart? It's not the physical heart pumping heart. What is the spiritual heart?

00:28:30--> 00:28:31

What's the spiritual?

00:28:34--> 00:28:34

Where

00:28:38--> 00:28:58

is is the creation of a law? The actually the scholars follow this. It's a lot different. It's a subtle thing, a work created, we really don't know where is it? And what is it? It's not the heart that's pumping? It's a lottery for total Bernie. It's something subtle, over created.

00:29:00--> 00:29:11

But what does it do for me? And what is what's the role of the heart in me in my relationship with Allah, that's what I need to where is it and how is it is not the issue.

00:29:12--> 00:29:21

The main thing, it's the organ, the part in this body that Allah created to know him

00:29:22--> 00:29:27

at the heart of what created it to know him. So remember yesterday we said

00:29:28--> 00:29:41

the certitude is to know a lot like how do I know Allahu Allah through the heart? My heart knows Allah animal dial one. Number two, is the king of this body.

00:29:42--> 00:29:44

The Kingdom of the body.

00:29:45--> 00:29:47

It's the part that control

00:29:49--> 00:29:54

and use the ago I learned this special love that if you look at a computer,

00:29:55--> 00:29:59

what does a computer consist of? Doesn't matter a laptop or a desktop?

00:30:02--> 00:30:03

There's a hard drive

00:30:04--> 00:30:06

and there is software

00:30:09--> 00:30:09

and there is

00:30:11--> 00:30:11

I'm sorry.

00:30:13--> 00:30:14

I can't you

00:30:15--> 00:30:16

want to

00:30:18--> 00:30:37

monitor right under water motherboard. So here you go. As I was saying sound heart, don't get depressed. Okay? It's my goal. This is where I want to go the day I die I want to be there. Or at least I'm in that path.

00:30:38--> 00:30:41

So to say I'm not there, it's it's very hard.

00:30:42--> 00:30:54

I want to be there. I'm going to take the path of love and make it easy if I die tomorrow and what knows I want to be I'll call my son was twice in the Quran, and it was insanely bright.

00:30:55--> 00:30:57

One time he described

00:30:58--> 00:31:24

with a heart that is slim and one he made a dwell in his wallet a shout out say that Ryan made this to a yo yo have it in your hand. That was in the bathroom when I am that old man when I balloon you learn a lot of convincing your mind during this crease. On the day when nothing will benefit except the one who comes to Allah with a sound

00:31:25--> 00:31:33

except the one who comes with a sound heart. That's one and another is our fat loss cantata said described

00:31:34--> 00:31:43

or in dementia it either you or him. He was talking about rude signaled and he said form his family is evil or him his job or Obama when

00:31:45--> 00:31:48

he came to his board without sound. What is a sound?

00:31:50--> 00:31:55

Think of the sound heart. Think of something in the kitchen or something in your room.

00:31:57--> 00:31:58

That is clean.

00:31:59--> 00:32:00

sparkle.

00:32:01--> 00:32:04

spotless. Think of something.

00:32:05--> 00:32:13

Give me an example. Something in your room. In Your House in your kitchen in your car. That is spotless.

00:32:17--> 00:32:18

I can't you

00:32:20--> 00:32:35

trophy so trophy. trophy. You clean sparkling and I'm so keen about it. I love it. I want to keep it clean. has no spots. trophy something in the kitchen.

00:32:36--> 00:32:38

Okay, coffee machine.

00:32:39--> 00:33:02

It's okay. We love coffee, obviously. Okay. coffee machines spotless. If it any job comes in. I'm cleaning. Right? And I want to smell good and look good and bring you the best coffee. Okay, what else? Exactly, usually glasses. And that's actually even the scholars of horse they tell you usually look at that. As a glass.

00:33:04--> 00:33:18

Clean You know, when you are clean freak, and somebody holds the glass and they leave their fingertips. Mark you get so annoyed because you see it that's not on the same

00:33:19--> 00:33:25

unboosted him boosting has nothing. You see, from the outside you see the inside the inside, you see that?

00:33:28--> 00:33:57

This is the definition I get I put a couple in your handout that I'm gonna share with you one which I think will make it very easy. Even me as a human being, there's two forces that drives me to say something or do something or not say or not do two things. Right? Either it's feelings, I like it, or I don't like it. Or it's my brain and says this is good for me or not good for me, true or false.

00:34:00--> 00:34:10

The thinking in the spiritual term is called shubha. shubha is thinking ill thinking ill thinking in spirituality.

00:34:11--> 00:34:46

And shall what is desire? I like it. I love it. Whether it's food whether it's drugs, whether it's all It doesn't matter whether it's a human being something I like I love I inclined to it, or something I thought of it and my brain is justifying it and liking it. What is this has to do with the publicity. Here you go and call whistling sound heart is the heart that is free free, clean, spotless, of the two factor following to

00:34:47--> 00:34:49

no inclination

00:34:50--> 00:34:54

and no inclination other than what one loves.

00:34:56--> 00:34:59

No inclination other than what are more

00:35:00--> 00:35:07

Loves sound safe from any inclination that goes against the order of

00:35:08--> 00:35:21

Give me an example of my heart is a free of an inclination meaning inclination I like it but I removed it because a lot isn't like

00:35:22--> 00:35:24

give me an example

00:35:27--> 00:35:28

you're not doing it

00:35:30--> 00:35:46

this is a mystery so you're you like it you like listening to music you know I don't like her so I love to when they gossip about her makes me feel so good. I like watching this movie this series this whatever I like it. That's why it's shuffle

00:35:47--> 00:35:56

but I am not going to do it at all slugs as the trophy is spotless every time I see one of these the trophy has a spot

00:35:58--> 00:36:03

so unconditionally no inclination in that heart, other than with a lot loves.

00:36:04--> 00:36:18

Again, remember, this is the goal. This is the end this is a plus so don't get discouraged. At least I know where what do I want to do like when you study everybody when they're studying your children you ask them what do you want to do?

00:36:19--> 00:36:22

Right and you get very upset until I had no idea

00:36:23--> 00:36:26

I'll go to college NC and they change major three four times

00:36:27--> 00:36:30

versus somebody says you know what? I want to be a neurosurgeon

00:36:32--> 00:36:55

was like wow 16 years old know what he wants? And I had actually somebody said this to me I was like wow, this is really amazing. So here I am, I want to have an obesity This is what it is every thought not thought you had every inclination every law every I want every I don't want I don't like is what pleases on

00:36:56--> 00:37:00

so give me feelings. Please Allah give me feelings does not principle

00:37:03--> 00:37:07

jealousy, this diseases that you will get to

00:37:09--> 00:37:12

hatred, arrogance, anger,

00:37:13--> 00:37:14

pride

00:37:15--> 00:37:17

all these feelings

00:37:20--> 00:37:21

others

00:37:22--> 00:37:23

love

00:37:26--> 00:37:34

Love is a natural feeling we all have it unless it's in the Quran. Quantum Boone Allah factor be only

00:37:35--> 00:37:41

if you really love Allah Follow me. So the love is there. How many times he said in Allahu

00:37:42--> 00:38:07

Allah loves that it gives a description. So feeling of love, natural feeling highly recommended. And we are supposed to be as Muslim have a feeling of love. The question is love watts. That's where the adversity comes in, or the disease or the dead. So what do you love? Write down for yourself. Don't show it to your show to anybody heart.

00:38:08--> 00:38:11

What's your feelings in your heart? What do you love?

00:38:12--> 00:38:27

Whether it's a human being whether it's a local address, whether it's whatever, what do you love? I will always say sharing sound heart. Every some some squirrels will teach you every beat in it goes with what on what works.

00:38:28--> 00:38:31

Then comes the fight. And this is a huge problem these days.

00:38:33--> 00:38:37

Because the more educated we are, the more we start.

00:38:38--> 00:38:56

Exactly questioning and arguing. So thoughts is my thoughts I am thinking is pleasing to Allah. one. Number two, if they are not pleasing to Allah, can I push them away and they are not staying in my heart? That's

00:38:57--> 00:39:01

an ascending couple of

00:39:02--> 00:39:08

things. You will tell you your understanding. This is how you know.

00:39:09--> 00:39:30

So how do I know I have a few? When I'm tired, and I'm sneezing. Now I have a runny nose and I have a fever. How do I know I don't have a few when I don't have any of these. So how do I know my heart is sound. Give me fuse a few things I can share with you. If you know, give me a few things.

00:39:33--> 00:39:37

For example, responding immediately to the order of

00:39:39--> 00:39:46

responding immediately to the order of a more I have had at that moment my heart is saying give yourself a plus.

00:39:47--> 00:39:59

Give yourself a plus it's not going to be 100% all the time. It's just very unrealistic yet, but at that moment, I heard the other day and my heart moved language for sale.

00:40:00--> 00:40:10

Think I heard that noise or sound and music or something that I noticed displeasing to Allah, I like it. When I said I'm not listening because a lot of loves it

00:40:13--> 00:40:47

you stay away from the disobedience although you like it now comes into like it see how much this will be much more rewarded by the way than you when you do something you want. staying away from something you like, for only reason, because it is not pleasing to Allah. That's opensim lower your gaze gonna come to this for another new lower your gaze for only one reason so pleasing to Allah and lowering your gaze not only looking at when looking at the TV, and watching things.

00:40:48--> 00:40:57

So running to the obedience of Allah, and staying away from disobedience of Allah. Number two, what happens when I disobeyed a law? What do I feel?

00:40:58--> 00:41:32

If you feel horrible, you feel sad? You feel bad? Your heart is saying there is signs of Sonoma this kind of sadness. When you disobeyed a line we all do. How do I feel? versus I justified? You know what everybody does? We live in 2019 on what has been for more than my heart is not sitting and the more I feel about it the sounder is my heart the more I'm sad The more I cry How did I do this? Your Lord helped me I turned to him please do this. My heart is sound What else?

00:41:38--> 00:41:39

Extra deeds for

00:41:41--> 00:41:46

extra you look for good deeds. You look for good deeds for

00:41:47--> 00:41:48

your heart is serene.

00:41:50--> 00:42:00

No one and this is actually if you want to put it in between two big stars. No one is more important in your life than

00:42:03--> 00:42:04

no one.

00:42:05--> 00:42:11

No One No One meaning no person, no one meaning no, no career, no money, no self

00:42:13--> 00:42:16

is a law number one. And recently

00:42:17--> 00:42:31

and this is probably going to become easier when you all know the story of saying that right here when I was asked him to start out his son. And why is that? Because he loved his son. He was 96 and he had a son

00:42:33--> 00:42:34

and the son was so on.

00:42:36--> 00:42:37

No one asked him to

00:42:38--> 00:42:48

slaughter him. Because a loved one to save him had nothing in his heart so far hamdulillah who matters to me in this because we're not saving

00:42:50--> 00:42:54

anything in my heart had and pleasing to Allah comes second.

00:42:56--> 00:43:00

In my heart the focus is almost hangtime what else

00:43:02--> 00:43:05

you have it in your handout you can read some of it if you want

00:43:08--> 00:43:14

this is one of the things I also want you to look at what I put for you give your grade yourself on this

00:43:15--> 00:43:18

grade yourself 10 is the best zero is you

00:43:20--> 00:43:21

huh

00:43:22--> 00:43:24

exactly stop living for junior

00:43:26--> 00:43:29

don't put Delia as your number one.

00:43:30--> 00:43:32

Junior is number one.

00:43:33--> 00:43:44

I work because I want to be rich. I studying because I want to go to the rest of school. I exercises I want to look good. I don't need to because I want to lose weight. What is

00:43:45--> 00:43:49

where does a live equation where it is a lie.

00:43:51--> 00:44:05

So stop it. I'm not saying don't live in the example of Sahaba and also on a slideshow Sam is the best way to teach us how they have a balance. Now our problem these days in this day and age is we lost the balance.

00:44:06--> 00:44:18

I think of alone when I have time and I pray when I'm done with everything else. So I was sitting in an anon nutshell hottie masoumeh is empty from anything but

00:44:20--> 00:44:23

every single second one is of Albania

00:44:24--> 00:44:25

that

00:44:26--> 00:44:31

then know a lot in the period. That could be a good Kaffir

00:44:33--> 00:44:39

for sure. And that could be I will use them to certain extent need

00:44:40--> 00:44:40

nothing.

00:44:42--> 00:44:55

They this oh wait a minute, remind them nothing happens. They don't see they are disobeying. They don't see they are destroying this. They don't see they are spreading mission. They don't seem justified and it's fine and you're not going to teach me I will mean it.

00:44:56--> 00:44:57

And the third one

00:44:59--> 00:44:59

six

00:45:00--> 00:45:00

COVID

00:45:01--> 00:45:03

which is us,

00:45:05--> 00:45:16

us an eigenvalue of Hollywood medela sicart there is this there is a waffle shoe and there's everything else

00:45:17--> 00:45:24

love of dunya love of me love of people you know prior to hatred jealousy all the diseases you said both are there

00:45:25--> 00:45:35

How sick is this heart? It depends which one is stronger This is very simple way of learning which one is stronger

00:45:37--> 00:45:47

than the heart is more healthy or more sick or I can be one time very healthy one time sick one time very sick

00:45:48--> 00:45:53

and in a moment I can have a big heart in a moment and temporary that

00:45:54--> 00:45:59

when I completely disagree a lot and I don't see that I don't see it's a big deal and I just leave it

00:46:02--> 00:46:13

so this is easy and there's a hadith of Roswell so to say that you have it in your handout and there's a saying of de familia man which is as a hobby and it's almost both are the same.

00:46:14--> 00:46:15

And our

00:46:16--> 00:46:18

hearts are for cons

00:46:20--> 00:46:25

This is because in the sooner King the fourth one in action and Purdue

00:46:26--> 00:46:26

I would

00:46:28--> 00:46:35

heart that is walled, barren, free, empty,

00:46:36--> 00:46:37

liberated,

00:46:38--> 00:46:43

agile fisi Rajan his image is a lamp shining lamp

00:46:45--> 00:46:46

what is the shining lamp?

00:46:47--> 00:46:48

Yes

00:46:50--> 00:46:55

nothing else he didn't say from the dunya he didn't say inside is a love of dunya

00:46:57--> 00:47:06

Angela Angela meaning you know what do you use if you come to this room? And there's nothing in this room nothing no picture nothing is just the walls

00:47:07--> 00:47:12

and you say oh for downloading I'm going to say this rooms empty nothing. Why?

00:47:14--> 00:47:16

So the meaning is empty for anything but

00:47:17--> 00:47:34

without undue warming That's what he said. And this is the heart of the brain that's what I am you should have was given to us by the way majority almost all of us in this room was given to us as a gift. We were born as Muslims and one as believe what I'm getting

00:47:35--> 00:47:39

what I'm getting Don't you feel sad for the people around you? They don't know.

00:47:41--> 00:47:46

Literally Don't you feel sad? Don't feel down? Don't look down on them. You feel sad? They don't see it.

00:47:49--> 00:48:00

Yeah, you should because you have the power and Allah gave it to me at the level I didn't work hard for just given to Alban urgent. one. Number two, album,

00:48:01--> 00:48:02

cover covered.

00:48:03--> 00:48:05

envelope, wrapped.

00:48:07--> 00:48:08

On good Catholic

00:48:10--> 00:48:16

doesn't see a law. No one want the heart at all covered completely. second,

00:48:17--> 00:48:19

third, and boom unchoose

00:48:21--> 00:48:26

hard heart that's upside down. What's upside down

00:48:27--> 00:48:28

on offer?

00:48:30--> 00:48:34

He knew she knew and rejected. We are not doctors.

00:48:36--> 00:48:46

May Allah protect us. I'm not talking about the faith itself. Part of this heart is the faith. Somebody was a Muslim and then rejected me a lot with actors.

00:48:47--> 00:48:54

I'm talking about things I know. And I did it. And I know this is pleasing to a lot. And I noticed a lot once lost.

00:48:57--> 00:49:07

I change on goose goose is actually is when the cup you turn it upside down. This is what the word in our mongoose a cup, we turn it upside down.

00:49:08--> 00:49:19

So I knew I knew. So that was an obligation. At some point in my lives, my surroundings like thinking dunia took me away and I thought justify not praying. So you wonder is nothing more.

00:49:21--> 00:49:23

And I knew I saw that as an obligation and goes

00:49:25--> 00:49:29

into a lot of the things you hear these days that we are bombarded with.

00:49:30--> 00:49:42

So I seek refuge from a law that it will be mean. It's actually this is called buena sub. This is the hypocrite who learn new that he rejected

00:49:44--> 00:49:52

me a lot with actors and again maybe I didn't say this at this time. Don't think of people you know Oh, I know somebody is a woman who's

00:49:54--> 00:49:55

is the question Is it me?

00:49:57--> 00:49:59

Or is this key is about me. Is it to me

00:50:00--> 00:50:14

Sometimes I'm a little goose sometimes I'm open saline sometimes I'm Pablo Maria is it me sometimes I'm funny how this upside down and sometimes I'm sound hot sometimes I have a sick heart sometimes I'm dead

00:50:15--> 00:50:29

what protectors? The fourth is the majority of us I want them the moment they turn a heart that has two substances in it for him or her opposite direction

00:50:31--> 00:51:00

two movements to material two things pull him or her opposite direction get up for federal law loves it. I'm too tired. Fast Monday, but I love my morning breakfast to forces lower your gaze and what would they say about don't say this word is not easy to remember everybody else is saying it and we do all the time

00:51:01--> 00:51:04

each one of us in every step of our life

00:51:05--> 00:51:09

go alone but how much they will pay me

00:51:10--> 00:51:23

attend this class. Oh I've done this before all these all these and the fight is constant. Are you always mean Is that real? How real is this

00:51:24--> 00:51:26

value? Give me an example.

00:51:28--> 00:51:36

I mean, have you had the time this morning? Did you have to forces this morning? Okay, share it with us.

00:51:38--> 00:51:39

I can't see you

00:51:41--> 00:51:44

sleeping and waking up. Okay, but that's not bad.

00:51:45--> 00:51:48

It has to be more than just sleeping and waking up meaningful.

00:51:49--> 00:51:54

Okay, so getting up for 200 Absolutely. I was actually getting off the phone

00:51:55--> 00:52:08

right i mean this is this is a piece of cake come federalist 630 What is this? And how long did it literally I was like yo we don't be I was like can we have this all year please?

00:52:09--> 00:52:28

It's in the summer when it is for Tony so we need to get up for tangela three so hit him yeah wake up for time and then you he'll wake up something new says wake up for nice Allah. Right. The junk removal mining Maharajah back reject the

00:52:29--> 00:52:30

band's

00:52:32--> 00:52:51

relation of removing premium The night is to honor of the believer that comes in that's one policy, and you're about to get it about to get it and then I'm too tired. Anyway, I have an obligation and the other side is on to some sometimes they will do it. She's my daughter

00:52:52--> 00:52:53

who's going to win.

00:52:55--> 00:53:03

In general, in general, what you find the hard disk will be the winner.

00:53:05--> 00:53:10

Now you'll collect everything together. What did you do before you went to bed

00:53:11--> 00:53:13

will affect your waking up

00:53:14--> 00:53:15

a lot every day now.

00:53:17--> 00:53:24

You spend the night before you go to bed watching all these How long? working off of that it's going to be difficult. will be difficult.

00:53:25--> 00:53:37

You went to London were very tired, went to bed and says Jamar, please sleepy wake up 10 minutes before you didn't do much you just made sincerely floss you're up to

00:53:39--> 00:53:40

a lot of you don't know

00:53:42--> 00:53:52

is what you feed. What you feed, you feed you see, you're good, you get good. And when money food helps

00:53:54--> 00:53:59

each one of us, each heart of us we will be asked about

00:54:01--> 00:54:12

Panama we will be asked about it and it is what Allah sees from us as we speak in a word I Oh, you know sorry. When I got into San Jose

00:54:15--> 00:54:22

and one is like look at the way I look or my shape and form. Well that can handle either. So what will happen number

00:54:24--> 00:54:42

nine, he looks at your needs and your hearts. It doesn't matter. I look very beautiful and very elegant. While I am five eight. Well I have green eyes while beautiful here. This is what people it's very important with a lot which means nothing.

00:54:43--> 00:54:44

Nothing.

00:54:46--> 00:54:59

But what's in the heart. This person that I think is she's ugly. Because my standards of doing a shepherd have the best part that Allah looks at and says name and what else

00:55:00--> 00:55:09

Sorry went offline. And this person or I could be the most beautiful everybody praise me Look at her and my heart harmed, my heart is ruined.

00:55:10--> 00:55:12

And Allah does not even look at it.

00:55:13--> 00:55:32

So let's work as we say we all want to be healthy, we eat healthy, we all eat organic, who will be earth friendly, all this beautiful actually it's part of my dinos. It's I can make it as an act of worship, but also before that, mature Lord organic.

00:55:34--> 00:55:37

I mean it don't put chemicals to

00:55:38--> 00:55:40

expose it to come.

00:55:41--> 00:56:12

Why chemicals ruin food, and gives us all the diseases and all this change in the weather that we are seeing. Right global warming, all the toxics we see we buy we watch we read affect my heart and it's brings the same effect a non organic or a bad food brings to my body but that one brings to the heart. The difference between these two, the disease of the heart I don't see it.

00:56:13--> 00:56:45

I don't feel it. While the disease of the body I see it and I feel it. So the last panel and this is the do I put in the beginning of your handout among the attina fuson it was in keihan to havens your love purify our nerves purifies You are the best want to purify your water give us all the same I can do it alone I can do it. I can play whatever I want to clean you can do it in

00:56:46--> 00:56:47

either order now and

00:56:49--> 00:56:51

Allah said this was sort of our

00:56:53--> 00:56:54

our order

00:56:55--> 00:57:00

if I want the losses if I want something to be done I say you I say do

00:57:02--> 00:57:14

your Lord purify our hearts purify our nerves give us compulsory keep us on the straight path keep us going and remove this is the hardest and the most easy

00:57:15--> 00:57:29

medicine is to remove all these toxic toxins remove them away. I wish I would have there was no TV created. Don't you wish that I wish there was no internet.

00:57:31--> 00:57:42

Right now they are talking about Facebook and all the problems Facebook is bringing I'm sure some of you may have known seen WhatsApp on Friday. Was it Friday or was Thursday

00:57:43--> 00:57:45

Zuckerberg was in Congress

00:57:46--> 00:57:59

they grilled him literally they grilled me if you watched it and through all these ads that comes to you and me and I don't want it which comes pop up what happens to my home

00:58:01--> 00:58:28

I wish this none of these is there then what is the problem like a child a baby you give him Bambi you give her a dog nappy hamdulillah but it's not this a much chose for all these tests to become around us quality Naja had a female Nigerian Savannah, those who struggle for our sake, we will try them and we will live with this. There's a lot of freelance panic a level of defending that stuff.

00:58:29--> 00:58:34

So what I see now Mohammed Ali was hugging Steven Kotler for the

00:58:36--> 00:58:38

lovely loudly