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After 11% mR Alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

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Welcome to amateur radio Islam and very, very warm welcome to our guest for the elite homies. I'm speaking to us from the very far east from the other side of the world in raised by a Solomonic. Kumara mythological barakato

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when it comes to number

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two, how are you my most beloved Mawlana? Very, very well hamdulillah Shaka, it is by how you keeping in Malaysia this morning

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on Shangri La, London in life so good night such European people are so friendly, wonderful actors here. You can hear the sound in the back on amid this shopping center a lot of people in places they're going to sell a place a Alhamdulillah so good to meet, you know, our drivers in our system.

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Mashallah, that trip to Malaysia last week when we spoke to you, you are in the were

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you were in a flight and on your way there is already a week that you are the law. Tell us about your trip

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to the monastery. I say you were you're already a week in in Malaysia, what's your itinerary? Not your whole trip about

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allowed me to reply it was I came here to do a marriage seminar with other people. It's a very interesting concept. It's a brilliant concept they had. And also

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I did yesterday, a at the International University of Malaysia, the art of public speaking and I think we need to talk a bit about this whole marriage conference they had, it was so brilliantly organized, my brother called Sajid Alhamdulillah. And he invited scholars from different parts of the world. And I did three presentations. One was the, for the general audience. The other one was the workshop. The other one was what they called a speaker's corner. And basically,

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people an opportunity to learn about the different aspects of natural life and about family life. And, and then they also have had an opportunity of people dinner with a missionary a prospective couples under supervision, you know, trying to connect to other people there. And they actually make that represent the profiles. And they felt there was some compatibility in the parents and family got involved. Then there was also a debate between the elders and the youth. There was also a section for children Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah, it was so beautifully done enough. So I need to conceive, I think the greatest you can do as similar to the South Africa, become a challenge lie

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everywhere, because the divorce, according to the statistic every 10 minutes, is a divorce in Malaysia, and some people say every

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four minutes, and what was a wonderful reassuring that, you know, there are 3000 people there. But there was so much of reciprocal respect, there wasn't this idea of electing demeaning and all that there was respect for each other. And they made it very, very clear. And hamdulillah it was, for me an enriching experience. And and not a great deal. You know,

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sometimes I'm not so so basically, this

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workshop covers all the aspects concerning marriage, but it's so well organized that it caters for entire families, children, and also, it's been overwhelming how many days it is

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a full day one.

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The talks are not longer than 15 minutes. They were parallel sections that were done in a while, some of you on the other workshops. And there was a program for children from the morning, right through the evening, an umbrella. And

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that was one aspect. The second aspect was that it was quite clear it was professionally done at a convention center and

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wonderful solar facilities. And they also afforded a great deal of dignity to the guest speakers, and there's enough food there and also the way

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Not enough wonderful stalls, people selling Islamic books, so on and so forth. And clearly, it was something that I said, wow, you know, because offering good causes Africa for young people saying, you know, you know, they have not met people, they, you know, they like to meet people, they like to get married, and so on and so forth. And I think we need, especially in this day and age, to create a situation within this area, to call this opportunity, you know, and they do it in a very, very irresponsible way. In fact, you know, I would recommend when I get back there, that's one thing we can interview, before making originally,

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from the UK, the second year is decided, and it's a wonderful bond. In fact, already people want them to do the program in Dubai, in Hong Kong, in Australia, and other parts of the world. And they want to do it my surgery winner, brother, I would like you to do the same thing South Africa, because we can learn from this experience. And then after he can keep only shipping.

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Okay, so that's excellent. Now, I'm going to be returning to the workshop now, or do you have a meeting to attend? Every quarter until 1130? What's the program coming up? Now?

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I know a number is not

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quantified five, believe me, we have six hours ahead of you. And so today, I did a bit of shopping. Last night, I spoke at the International University of Malaysia, on the art of public speaking. And Alhamdulillah. And they were students from throughout the world, apparently at the university, because students on 95 nationalities, and the only two languages of instruction, English,

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stroke Arabic, and just so good to see people from India, from Bangladesh, from Saudi Arabia, and other parts of the world.

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Okay, so my this is very, very interesting.

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It is by Have you been having any personal interaction with the people, the counselors, wanama, etc, people who, who are highlighting for you the issues that Malaysians are facing?

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Yeah, you know, what I actually

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what happened is a give us an opportunity, each of the speakers we add to counsel to couples. So we did a bit of counseling there. And the challenges are quite similar. And the big factor is also, you know, the brother did research on the number of weddings, the number of divorces, and these increase in divorces, and also the the weddings and sells, on average, would cost around 150 to 200,000 range for each reading. And so there's the cortex is also something else. That is a you know, so similar kind of issues.

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But you know, what, I'm gonna tell you this in a while, so to be yours, then I was very, very disturbed. You know, when I read about the increase in the number of couples involved in our own country, in the swing couples scenario, you know, I mean, that, to me, is very, I was aware of it, but I wasn't aware it was done, you know, and such magnitude. And it's such a frequency. And I think it's very critical, that, you know, we, you know, in our massages in our recruitment jobs, we need to open we need to talk about this, you know, we need to look at solutions. And we need to ask why people are doing what they are doing. And it's a very sad indictment, that, you know, we all make

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mistakes, I mean, no one,

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no one is an angel. But the inverse is done, when you can, you know, be with someone else's life and she can, your wife can be with someone else. And you do it to infinity, you know, and oh, what is happening? And yesterday, I decided to do, you know, a Google search about seeing seeing couples in Malaysia, and are shocked to see some links to it. And the idea, you know, so I want to talk about that what I'm talking about is watching what what is going on, and yet we

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pride ourselves and say that we have the best Muslims in the world. And this is, you know,

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Very, very great concern. Well, Anna, and I don't know, you know, maybe you be aware of it, I'm not too sure

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what will be done by the olema. But I think we need to have a program regarding this, and you talk about it, and you can, what is the motivation, and what how, what people can do to wean themselves off because people can also be addicted to it, you know,

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it is it is, it is a sensual pleasures that people acquire. And the reality is the sense of the deep innate sort of craving that a person would have. And this is something that you are perhaps dealing with upon all the time that people have this, you know, in sets, you've been craving for something and maybe reach a certain level, they want to go further when they reach a certain level, they want to go further. And I think that if if that can be cured, then there will be home problem would be cured.

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Yes, you see, United nutritional

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people who are trying to

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enliven as it were, their own fantasy, and, and I cannot understand how anyone

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to be able to respect the institution of marriage, knowing full well, what he has done, or she has done is completely wrong. How and, and you have no idea when they do in or become intimate with the husband and wife, whether they realize they are intimate with their husband, or the person with whom they've been having the other relationship, the extra marital relationship. And this is disturbing stems from a lot of money. He steals from a lot of free time, he stems from insecurity. He says some people wanting to massage their ego, he said some people who never like more fantasy, rather than a night for reality.

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It is my purpose marriage workshop Mashallah that you that you've been to and that you've attended any thing, definitely anything that we can bring back home, in terms of how people in South Africa can deal with the issues that they are facing.

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You know, what I one of the most beautiful talks I heard was on CGI, a blind, painful in such lovely detail about the romantic nature of medicinal value was seldom. And we spoke about the relationship with his wife, and something very few of us speak about. And I think, you know, we may sometimes be too macho, not to be expressive about our emotions, I think it's important for us to be expressive our emotions, to talk about it, to demonstrate it. And, and that's important, so that our children themselves will also understand the beauty of marital life and the need to be expressive, the need to demonstrate the emotions and there are many, many talks now, this call is also and reliably

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distrusted rarely for short, very, very emphatic. And I also enjoy the talk by system Yes, we design children, position woman to settle in America. And she made a point that seems so obvious, but very few of us embrace the idea that you know what the source of true love is Allah that we mustn't depend on other people for friction, we need to connect with Allah in directory then we to be able to deal with people, but once you become dependent on others for your happiness, then you will be disenchanted enough so very simple method and hamdulillah but approach should be very dynamic and very key.

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So somebody

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is by

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a huge crowd Yes. I'll have to speak to you again I returned inshallah molana rally, we will speak inshallah when you return to Milan haven for your time this morning. salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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That was Idris camisa. speaking to us from the middle of a of a workshop conference that he has been attending in Malaysia to come to Zealand to Idris by, he will take a short break inshallah we'll return just after that. Stay tuned.

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salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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Are you keeping

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continuing the program inshallah we are discussing the characteristics of Rasulullah sallallahu alisson. inshallah, maybe just a brief recap and then we can continue. inshallah Rahman r Rahim hamdulillah salat wa salam ala rasulillah, Karima maba prospective and honorable listeners of Reggio Islam international reading, describing or other discussing the eating habits of Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is sublime example that he had left insofar as eating is concerned. Just to recap and so far as the headings are concerned, we discussed washing the hands, both before eating and after eating the tremendous amount

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Baraka that a lot of Barack Obama had placed in it, and then they after we went on to discuss reciting Bismillah, before we eat, and also the participation of shape and then one forgets to say Bismillah the effect that it has on shaytan and also we discussed eating with the right hand and the prohibition of eating with a left hand. And then we went on to discuss eating the food directly in front of a person. And then we went on to discuss the meaning of the utensil, the plate or the bowl or whatever we eat from, we should clean it, because that bowl supplicate to Allah subhanho wa Taala saying overlap, save this person from the fire of jam as yes save me from shaytan. Today we go on to

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the next part of our discussion, and so far as eating is concerned, and the Mubarak habits are following the via cuttings from the low Elisa num. One is licking the fingers. Now that carbon will be allowed on arrays that are sort of less than allowed to send them used to eat with three fingers. And nobody's allowed to lick your fingers before either washing or wiping them off the Eaton. We also find Suzanna Butera via Louboutin, I was so many things that maybe some allowance and I'm certain you should lick your fingers after you have eaten, because you do not know which of the fingers contain the Baraka in the food that our last article what Allah has afforded us, in either

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the port that has been cooked, whatever has been dished out, we do not know in which part of this food with the grain or which morsel lack of our Potala has placed the Baraka and hence very, very important indeed, is that we lick our fingers because perhaps that little grain or a little morsel a little bit that may be on our fingers, is in which a lot of our what Allah has placed the Baraka, and perhaps we just wash it away. And we deprive ourselves from the Baraka that Barack Obama has placed. And another very important aspect is that licking the fingers, obviously, we show full appreciation and gratitude of the numbers of Alaska, Barack Obama, and like the people of this

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world, in this world, people tend to leave a little bit of food in the plate, and they eat with the spoons, or the knives and the forks, they believe a little bit over there, and then suddenly not very calm Olivia Karim some Allahu alayhi wa sallam. And when you look at the signal via credential, allowing them to very important aspects that show out. One is maybe sallallahu, alayhi wasallam, being absolutely particular, about even how he had lit the fingers. And the other aspect that comes to light isavi kurama. We allowed our minds how they had observed, maybe creme de la la wording was alum, and that's transmitted that to the woman of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi Salaam. So we have

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the entire signal that we still allowed Islam in front of us so that we can practice in the on the summer of nibio personal allowance alum

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Ronald Coase as a cabbie will be allowed Alon was saying, I saw the beginnings of the lowliest alum, eating with three fingers, and these were number one, number two, the index and number three, the middle finger. Those were the three fingers and Marisa Lowery's alum utilize that maybe similarities Mm hmm. And then he says they after a sort of soul lesson Allahu alayhi wa sallam licking them in the following sequence, first, the middle finger, then the index finger, and lastly, the thumb. I just repeat that hobbies, I saw the vehicle use a lava lamp, eating with three fingers, which were the thumb, the index finger and the middle finger. They after I saw him, licking them in the

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following sequence, first the middle finger, then the index finger, and lastly, the thumb. Now, our mohabbatein So allow the scholars of Javi and Newman explained the reason why possibly individual allow Elisa Lam lick the middle finger, because if we utilize or employ these three fingers to eat, then you will find that the middle finger is the longest finger and that was the fourth first. And obviously in certain times, it will become more food, the food and the leftovers the food more likely will be on the mother's finger, then on the index finger and more on the index finger than the thumb. So the whole ama has given these two interpretations that when we put our fingers down,

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then it is first the middle finger

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As assesses before, and then the index finger and then the thumb. So hence Nevis will allow you seldom use that sequence. Alternatively, we will find that the middle finger generally will have more food on it, and then the index and the index will have more food on it than the thumb and Levison Allahu alayhi wa sallam, even to that fine detail. The vehcile Allahu alayhi wa sallam showed how meticulous he was in doing whatever he had done, then we find many, many hobbies of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi Salaam with regards to that, and also as a tabula magical Viola without

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that maybe a Korean salallahu alayhi salam used to lick his fingers thrice. So we find that they are the three fingers that need to be laid. And sometimes we should turn lick the fingers thrice and hence trying to fulfill the very beautiful sunnah of Nivea creme de la while he was in them. So on the one hand, you will find that movies are heavy, the important aspect of eating with the three fingers. And the second important aspect is of licking the three fingers. Many, many Sahaba have narrated the utilization of three fingers from the vessel allowed to send them as established molecules, the allowed anomalies that may be occurring still allow us to eat with the three fingers

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only mean it may be revealed now,

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which will allow them using three fingers only a nice to lick them When he had finished his meal. So we find that those are the two signals that we learn today when we are eating, and if it is possible, we should eat was the three fingers. And after we have completed our eating, we try to lick the three fingers beginning with the middle finger and then the index finger and then the thumb. And the second aspect of it is that we find in the one happy hour that copy of mnemonic will be allowed that nobody's allowed is a lovely teaching with rice. Now, the issue may be that there are certain times that certain forms may demand or require that we utilize more fingers than the

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three fingers. So we will find this at minimum so refer to it as narrated a heavy, which affirms that a times Marisa Laval is lm e using all five fingers. So this will generally be the interpretation that in the general sense, and the general habit of navies will allow the seller must be utilized the fingers, but sometimes depending on the type of food that we sell allow only seldom would use more than the three fingers. So someone might say that he really is not a solid dish, then sometimes five fingers may be utilized. If a person is for example, consuming rice, or would that be some gravy, or there's some bad or any other similar dish, the three fingers would not suffice when

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it is acceptable to utilize five fingers in the RV and amatola they said that if a person wishes to use all five fingers, one may do so. But obviously the most preferred way to eat will be with three fingers and some of the allama have given some very very important advice with regards to that is that when we need we are encouraged to eat slowly we are also encouraged to take smaller muscles which will be healthier for us and also again to create within as restream these changes so far has invested indulging in the food if we begin to eat bigger muscles then obviously from a health perspective also it is not the best habit and secondly, we begin to indulge more in the food. So let

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us do it slowly and doing this inshallah you will find that we will be following the Sunnah of NaVi Salah maladie Salaam in which there is tremendous amount of benefit.

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Then we find the hora de la vaca Allahu Emirate. The Levison allows us to set the shape on each with one finger, other than people they eat with two fingers. And then we are the Masato salami, two three

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shaytan is one finger theragun people with two enemies salatu salam, it was three. So insofar as eating with one finger is concerned, we should be also cautious that we do not do that at any given a particular time. Now we go into another aspect with regards to the food that we need. It is possible and sometimes it is quite normal that a morsel of food may fall down. So as Anna cinematically allowed our honorees that maybe a Kareem still allowed his cell and said if a morsel falls down, clean, clean meat and eat it and do not leave it for shaytan now

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You know, if you find a generally people may feel embarrassed to practice on the Sunnah as they fear, it gives the impression to others, but for us as Muslims, the fact that it is a Sunnah is a sufficient reason for us to practice upon it. And hence, we should consider it a great honor. In fact, to carry out the sooner of Navy including some allow us and them in passing, we will remember the incident of those travel a calamity allowed anonymous remain within one Sahabi was eating his food and a Muslim has slipped down and he went to pick it up and they were in Paris, they were in the Persian Empire and somebody said to him, that here this is regarded as manners or bad manners.

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And if you pick it up, people may really be curious and you may think that we are really simple people or we are uncouth and we do not have manners. So he asked the simple question that

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Habibi.

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Should I leave the sooner of my Navy, my hubby Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, because of these foolish people, they have not sat at the feet of the Navy of Allah sallallahu sallam, to know what is right and what is wrong to know what is the pleasure of Allah and what ends the displeasure of Allah subhanho wa Taala. So hence, it is of importance. Obviously, the mohabbatein have also noted that if the food gets dirty, like Vianney, salatu salam explained, if it is sold in the clean that path that he saw, and we eat it, obviously if it falls in a place that is absolutely for the nice images that are included the on the floor, then obviously we are not expected to eat it, but we should move it

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to a to the side in which no disrespect is shown to the fourth and near the slope of Allah subhanho wa Taala will then partake and participate in that means

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that Gabby did not of the larvae allows rates that are pseudo less than allow Elisa Lam said she visits each one of you to the extent that he visits you at meal time also,

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if anyone drops a morsel, you should clean it and eat it and you should not leave it for shape and lick your fingers after me as as you do not know which particle of food contains the Baraka. So here again, we find the very same theme that if a monster falls down, we should pick it up, clean it if necessary, and consume it. We should never consider it to be below our dignity to do so. Perhaps the most well that we discard, maybe the one that has the Baraka and maybe it is the one in which Allah subhanho wa Taala has placed the burrata of nourishment and also set nation that just eating that one morsel may be sufficient for us to set eat and manage our bodies and we do not have that

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knowledge. So let us rather fulfill the Sunnah of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam. Further, the owner might have also explained that to eat the muscle that has fallen down is symbolic to humanity and it is extending from the soma is in actual fact, an indication of one's pride in one's haughtiness, that because sometimes of mannerisms of those who had never had the opportunity of learning the Sun 930 called the VA credential allow and you send them sometimes becomes more preferred to us. And in doing so, we want to follow them and we discard the Sunnah of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam. Now, we will discuss afternoon what happens and how do we up after we have finished our meals what is the

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Summa and what is the trick of the VA box and allow them on the one hand and the reason allow and you send them and shown us that after we have completed our means, we make our fingers then as a javelin Abdullah reveal now, relate that as soon as the loudest alum said, Do not wipe or wash your hands after news unless you have licked them already. So that is the one very important aspect. And then as a juggler it allows and also narrates that in the time of the recent allowance alum food was always minimal. We had we have h to our full and we never had close club, any club to wipe our hands with. We used to wipe our hands on our palms for arms and feet. We will then perform Sadat in this

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condition without washing our hands.

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To the saga idea now that I'm home we're not accustomed to washing their hands after meals. Similarly, cloths and towels were not in use during the time of luggage.

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And allow us to send them in abundance in frequency how we find today. So they would either have their hands together or wipe the soil hands on before arms or the feet. In view of the beneficial soil, or the fat content of certain foods, the ripening of the hands on their bodies was a source of protection for the skin against the cold of winter etc. and

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Rasul Allah said that it is most apt to rub their hands together and wipe them in the manner that as wd nampula really allowed anon was shown. However, if we wish to even be also correct for us to wipe our hands with some cloth for this purpose, say that Alma de allows Alon who used to wipe his hands on his feet, obviously, we need to understand that they the food that they had was very simple food. So the oil that was in the food or the fat that was used, was definitely not was an odor of the spices that we may be using. So hence the average number the allowed and we're more concerned about utilizing the oil and or the fact that must not get wasted. And hence That is why they would write

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the hands on the forearms, and they would write the hands on the feet, etc. Then

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write that to wash their hands is preferable and encourage Huggies narrated in the salon of your mom del mundo de la de contains the Hardy, whoever receives any harm, that is insect bites, etc. Due to not washing and cleaning the stickiness that remains on his hands after eating as no one but himself to be blamed. So Carly Yamato Lally writes, that in the case we're watching is not really necessary, the hands could be wiped or it could be robbed, or evil in the hands are really sticky and grimy washing them will be an act of medieval compulsion. Washing the hands is encouraging the hobbies and not washing them. In other words, leaving them unwashed is just curry. Similarly wiping the hands on

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a cloth or handkerchief is also a sadhana, on condition that it just is done to the fingers have been licked. Your mama has a motto Laurie was explaining the methods of washing the hands right, hold the soap in the left hand and rub it on the three fingers of the right hand and wash them the three fingers that we have used to heat the after wash both lips, using the finger to rub them clean. Use the finger fingers to wipe the slate clean. First the top row and then the bottom and rub the palate as well. Finally was the singers thoroughly with soap. With this repeat that I want to lay when he explained the method of washing the hands right, hold the soap in the left hand and

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between the three fingers of the right hand and watch them they are both lips, moving the fingers to rub them clean. Use the fingers to wipe the teeth clean for the top row and then the bottom and they after up the palate as well. Finally was the singers thoroughly with soap. So hence we find that this is a complete deal and a complete way of life that we can use what Mr Medallia has stated. Alternatively, we should understand that we should thoroughly wash our hands thoroughly clean our mouth, our lips our deep in our palate and obviously we can also gather and clean our mouth for many particles that perhaps lies in between our teeth etc.

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Another aspect of the salon the vehicles allow or disallow them is using a tablecloth. Now that'll be in the hobby that you find means any club that is laid out on the floor will be regarded as a tablecloth and hence reason other than to be allowed or allowed only the movie experience will allow this and never ate from a bowl. No that is a table and he was asked what the sumo wrestlers allowed to sell him eat upon. He replied a paperclip Susanna cinematically allowed and ammo said we will get him some of our SLM never ate from a bowl bowl means the very small little bowls that that's in our context. The woman for us to place the chutney or the place they need those very small type of bowls

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or bowls and then we sell allows them to not eat from and nor did you sit at a table and eat. He was asked what is the vision allow listen and eat upon. He replied a tablecloth that was placed on the floor on the ground. Our mother who moved me

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As a bit of anxious to be currently allowed on the race with the angels supplicate for the mercy of Allah subhanho wa Taala as long as the table club is spread,

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as I said, we allow that and generates the angel supplicates for the mercy of Allah subhanho wa Taala as long as the table plot is spread

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Now, the key is to not use a table plot, and to abstain from it will be in actual fact, contravening the Sunnah of Nivea creme de la la Vallee seldom, certain narrations indicate the merits of allow the synonyms table plot was circular.

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The Heavenly table profited descended upon as easily Serato ceram was made of rape leather, according to some of our commentators. So in actual fact, we are nakara speaks about the Mahabharata, in Santa Monica, the tablecloth and lateralus piece about as a mercy to others, Isa de Salatu was salam, and to show his closeness to Allah and His great favor that Allah had bestowed upon him and and we have more dessert. That tablecloth was made of a bit never.

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As I'm aware of the allowed talanoa rates that a person once presented food to the vehicle himself allow additional levies will allow me to sell them citri and put it on the floor on this format.

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So you can understand mnemonic or DLL, talamona rates and levies and the value of them never sat at the table.

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elaborating on other noble states or maybe some of our recent sales analyses. The Silver lesson Amani sullom was also had the habit of sitting behind someone on an animal is tablecloth was always placed on the floor, and used to always accept the invitation of slaves, many times maybe sallallahu alayhi wasallam, several on a donkey. So you're not necessarily allowed Allah mentions all this is just so to show the humility of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam and to be a servant of Allah. And to have the quality of servitude also requires that we have humility and humbleness within ourselves as a bride as he will be allowed anomalies that are super less than allow us to send them always set on

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the floor. And

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now it's super nice to be on a bench or even the bed

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and eat is not established from the life of movies allow them to indicate that a sort of lesson melody silom never said it a few on

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and on Am I explained with a few ones any structure that is supported with legs, such as table events etc. Malala perilaku, Laurie and others have written that generally worldly and proud people eat at the table as they do not have to lower their heads when they are eating.

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The rights. The Kings normally sit on chairs and eat

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the rights that the tablecloth was always laid down for a decent amount and he ate on the floor. And we find the daughter of the day and night of Nabi sallallahu Sallam also affirms that was for less than the lower lucilla model we set on the floor, never had a table or a chair. What I may suggest is that if we are not in the habit of slipping on the floor and eating, then what may be a good idea is that at least one meal in an entire week. We try and set the hand on the floor and we sit down with the pure intention of pleasing Allah subhanho wa Taala and trying to follow and emulate the Sunnah of Olivia Karim sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and we sit down on the floor trying to fulfill

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all these beautiful Sunnah of the VESA mount system that we have heard and inshallah inshallah with a burqa Of

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course, Allah will give us the trophy and unless one what Allah will give us the ability to practice upon the soul of the visa lawani Musandam and inshallah in this manner, we will get close to Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam and perhaps from once a week, we can perhaps go to twice a week and in this manner slowly, we will move towards the Sunnah of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam and inshallah, when we do it for the sake of Allah for the level of the vehicle emission allowance and then obviously we will find that rosmah of Alaska Marco wacana will descend because if you obedient to Allah and obey

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Due to the soul, then perhaps the mercy of Allah subhanho wa Taala will descend upon us and obviously when Mercy of Allah descend upon us, it will also include guidance from Allah. Allah tala include the Baraka will include that sukoon the ease and peace and the tranquility that we're all searching for. And the most important aspect is our lovely weeklies and allow the orders in the after so many mathematical attallah give us all the trophies and ability to practice upon the beautiful some of the names and the marvelous, some allow and in the VAT law he was happy

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to come up here in Montana for a time in Sherman as he will speak next week with in Shalimar Florida born in

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Kansas even to win an Amazon ship into my studio operated to the center of asuni and especially to you listening to the program from Geneva Cyprus Rahmani como rahmatullah wa barakato.