Friday Night Etiquettes Class – July 16, 2021

Daood Butt


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Bismillah Al Rahman Rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa salatu wa he was a mobile Allah and Nbd Karim, Allah He of monosol to automata, slim, rubbish. He suddenly were suddenly Emery, awkward at me the Sony E. coli, my brothers and my sisters sent him why become water Rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh I hope that you are all doing well in sha Allah to Allah, that you are enjoying your Friday, and the last few minutes and hours of it or hour of it, I should say.

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I hope that you're enjoying the rain that we're getting in the last few days and the rain that insha Allah data will be coming in the next few days. I hope you're enjoying the heat. And I hope that you're benefiting from these 10 days of little hedger that are upon us right now.

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Or what I wanted to do today in sha Allah to Allah is to go over a few things with regards to for those that attended you know, Jamal or my Jamal, but you've benefited already from

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you know what,

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what we discussed last week with regards to the first 10 days of the head jet today, we spoke about the day of alpha and the importance of it, we'll go over that generally. But I also wanted to touch upon the data IID how to celebrate the date, but also how to pray that each day or the etiquettes of the each prayer Okay,

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so let's take a step back and shot a lot to add and look at these 10 days last week we focused on the fact that these 10 days as the last panel data says Wolford while al in action will shift very well whether we're lady either yes or healthy Daddy, can someone lady hedge in such a nice way I love her settings and fauja. But Allah subhanho data shows us there within the first two verses the importance of this time of the year these 10 days. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam as we learned last week just to refresh our memories and remind ourselves once again. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says

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yum, the hedger so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says that there are no days that are more beneficial. Or sorry, let me rephrase that. There are no days where good deeds done on these days are more beloved or loved by Allah Subhana Allah than these days and he was referring to the days of the hijjah. Today in the clip where we spoke about the importance of the day of alpha and fasting, specifically fasting on the day of alpha. Of course, for those who go for Hajj, we look at the fact that, you know, Hajj is an important aspect of the life of the believer. Also the fact that a person is there probably for the one and only time that they may go for Hajj in their entire life. And then

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also the fact that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says an alpha that Hajj itself is out of and that is the most important most beneficial time you need to use the day of alpha right maximize from the day of alpha.

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And so having said that, in seeing that, now we see that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, you know, points out the importance of the de vida for for those who are gone for Hajj, but also for those who don't go for Hajj in and this applies to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam as well for the years prior to the year that he went for. When we think of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam going for HUD usually we forget of all the previous years where you did not go for Hajj. But the last year just before he passed away, he went for hygiene he completed that hygiene he never had the opportunity again after that to go for Hajj. And so the Prophet sallallahu adding in those

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years, had fasted on the day of alpha, right?

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And he says co mu alpha so yo yo Mia alpha, right fasting on the day of alpha in the wild a lot. And you can feel it and you can feel a certain lady a cobbler. Was was it better? The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says fasting on the day of alpha. I hope that Allah Subhana Allah will forgive the sins of the year that had passed in the year to come the preceding year and the following year. And there are multiple narrations of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam saying this so that's a recap as to what we took last week what we learned today in Juma but also as a reminder, like I said, I want us to touch upon the day of varied and the technique not saying that we rot, you know

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from the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam is that we say the Technion to Allah Akbar Allah. Akbar, Allah.

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Allah Akbar, Allah Akbar winning

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that's the generic

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It could be a lot and then you can continue and add certain things there that we saw that being said by the prophets and a lot of it was sending out all the love and you know, narrations and different narrations that we find with regards to that Alhamdulillah he kathira and so on and so forth carrying on from there

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now that's to be done on not only the days of air eat, right, but just before read as well. And so some of the scholars say that we could start from the morning of out of the morning of alpha okay saying that took me a lot because we're not there for hedge we haven't gone for hedge to people who have gone for hides they will continue along by saying the Tobia let me come on man at bay lebay can shed he cannot cannot bake in the lambda one near meta, like oil milk, Sherry can

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have brings back some memories.

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So how about my last panel data except from every single one of us to go for hedge? I wish we were I wish we were in the airplane right now on the way there, you know, saying that, in fact, I wish we were there already not on the plane. I wish we were already there. And you know, we're going to be heading into the tents and preparing for alpha patola

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May Allah accept from every single one of us.

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the judge are gonna be saying the Tobia until they are clear from you know their stoning of the Jamaat and then shaving their head or trimming their hair and also sacrificing the animal right? And then they will switch from the tail via the back along with a big tube a lot, a lot, a lot. A lot a lot.

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And that's a huge thing for the herd judge. That's a huge thing. But for us, right considering we haven't gone for Hajj, we continue along in praising and glorifying Allah subhanho wa Taala as much as we possibly can throughout the day. My brothers and sisters remember the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam taught us

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can you get any below 10 aledmys and how FIFA tiny island listen to things that are very light on the tongue and heavy on the scale. two phrases and those phrases are some how to load behind the use of how to light our team. If we were to simply go about our day on a regular basis, saying these you know, short phrases to Pamela will be handys of how to light LVM right? Allahu Allah. Allah, Allah. Allah, Allah Akbar, Allah Akbar, Allah Akbar. Somehow the laws of how Allah Subhana Allah Subhana Allah Subhana Allah, and it doesn't have to be at that pace. It could be much slower. It could be you know, you see things. Right. You look at something else. You're thinking of something a law.

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Right? You're driving a kondalilla right? You come across something else. Red light comes hamdulillah managed to stop. Right? And the light turns green. Bismillah and you start to go right, and you're turning the corner. Bismillah No, I have a friend amber in Malaysia. Right. So Pamela, this brother, Victor was like his thing. You know, everything we're doing, because they can I think it has something for it. Right? We still have a swindler. Right who's driving the car in the corner Bismillah right, you go say Bismillah like so many times turning, indicating. And then turn the corner after your attorney straight down handed in handling. The law is so so nice. So nice. So

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gentles power law.

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And so remember that these are some of the things that we can do.

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In addition to that, and I'm going to share this specifically for you know, those that are that are doing the HIA those that are taking part in the sacrifice. I know that some of you you'll see me going like this a lot. That's because I hate when my moustache grows beyond a slight amount, right and it's like, tickling me and itching me, right and nails. I really want to clip them but we got to keep going right just keep going. Think of this, the head judge that go for Hajj. Usually when they're putting on their home before putting on their economic they you know, we'll trim their moustache and you know their net and you know, whatever pubic hairs under the arms and so on, click

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their nails, groom themselves get ready to get into home because they can't do it for just a few days. Right? It can't remove their hair and nails for just a few days, right they'll get into a home on the eighth and then the ninth and the 10th they'll come out of home and they can then you know clip and trim and so on. So just a few days and it seems like an eternity when you're doing Hajj right because you're wearing at home and you're going from place to place to place and it's difficult and it's hot and you know there's a lot of people in the rush and the hustle and the bustle and everything that's going on in the exhaustion. Right and the dehydration and the headaches

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and the hunger and all of that but it seems like an eternity. Now think of it for us though. We have the luxury of our homes. We have the luxury of our cars and

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comforts of, you know, food in the fridge and all of that. And the small things that allow us to ask us to do like refrain from clipping your nails, right, refrain from trimming your hair right? My beard is like a shallow feels like the Amazon forest is hanging off my face, right I really just want to you know, group a little bit and more particularly just this, just that, but we got to be patient with it, we have to be patient with because the patients that we are giving to Allah subhanaw taala in the kitchen, the little things here and there. And you know the nails I don't know how women grow long nails, because a lot about it is one of the weirdest feelings to have long nails

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are the most weird, awkward feelings, but they do it and hamdulillah as Muslims, we, you know, are very hygenic so we refrain from growing our nails long, right, we refrain from collecting and keeping dirt under their butt for these days. These are days patients days to learn insurance time to reflect time to appreciate the Simplicity's of life like the simplicity of doing a little trimming business here, and the Simplicity's of doing a little clicking business there. Right? How simple yet how much of pleasure we get from it as human beings.

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So as believers we turn to a loss of panadol what to add in submission, but also with patients in during these difficult times. For what for the rewards from Allah subhana wa what you see I don't even need to say something, just letting the you know the hair and the nails grow and being patient with it. That is rewarding in and of itself. And so my brothers and sisters of the reward from Allah subhana wa tada is abundant. Now the day of our flow for us we fast right and we ask Allah Subhana Allah to forgive the sins of the previous year and the sins of the year to come. Now, what about the day of alpha in particular, and I'm just rushed through a little bit because I forgot my charger, my

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laptop charger at home.

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And I'm at 19% so you do Facebook, you might cancel out? Instagram, we're good to go and shop. Okay, but we'll try and finish up as quickly as possible.

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Check the chat. Okay, nothing important there. Good.

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So, the day of aid, what do we need to know first of all on the David aid, we continue to to be hot, okay, and we don't stop at the prayer, we continue after the eighth prayer as well. So, you know, going to the eighth prayer after Salah till fudger. If you you know pray for it and the Muslim went home or you pray at home and you're coming to the masjid for the each prayer or you're going to the prayer wherever it may be.

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Continuously say the tech can be a lot and the men It is to be said out loud for the women, they could just say quietly, right?

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In the little moment.

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You they don't need to say out loud, okay, we draw the attention to the men, we don't draw the attention to the women. Right? And the men have to, you know, put a little energy and effort into it. Right? So a long, long, long, bone.

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Long, long, long, a long wedding.

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Right? Put some energy into it not like

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none of that business, right? Be happy. Be proud of being a Muslim, right? Be proud of mentioning the name of a law on the day of aid and our celebration, you know, people say oh, it is a day of celebration. Yes. The beauty about Muslims is that we celebrate by beginning that day of celebration in submission to Allah subhana wa Tada. So we're going to submit to a lot, okay, in prayer

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to say that took a bit off, go to the read prayer using one route and keep in your mind that you're going to take a different route to come home. That was from the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam when he would go out to the ground, they used to pray at the outside of the masjid in the open, right.

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And then when you arrive at the masjid or at their, you know, place where you're going to be praying, of course following all the protocols in place that we need to follow with regards to the provincial guidelines and whatnot within your respective provinces wherever you are.

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Then there needs prayer. So what do we need to know for the eighth prayer? First of all, they need prayer here at ICM the way we're gonna pray it is we are going to begin with tequila haram Allah.

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Okay, and then

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just make sure this is good.

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And then we are going to follow it up with another six to kvyat. Okay so Allah Subhana Allah

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wa Taala arcus mahkota Allah gender, Allah Allah, Allah Akbar. Allah lot of work well.

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that six more, right? So we did one plus six, so a total of seven. Now if an Imam or myself doesn't matter who is leading, for example makes a mistake on the numbers and says it only five times or says it more. That's okay. Because it's a sin not to do a certain number or to say extra technique not. So six extra a total of seven at the beginning of the prayer. Again, if there's a mistake on the number of Technorati, that's fine. So after that additional six right to the last minute shavon rajim Bismillah R Rahman Rahim al hamdu Lillah you're on being alanine? Allah hernias laughing in Bernie key only thing you can argue he can stay in the recitation of sort of 230 and then a saw

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usually some big historical areas from the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam.

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along, go into the core.

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Then come up from record going to make two Sundays stand up. Okay, and then along. So you said one, Allahu Akbar coming up, right? The man will say Allahu Akbar from such that and you stand up so it's going to look like this.

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A lot want to come out

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and now, five more took a lot. A lot.

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Bismillahi Rahmani r Rahim. Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil aalameen on Walkman You're my homie Manny kiyomi Dini he cannot do it, in a stereo and so on. And then after that, again from the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam attack Hades she would you even call she are

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no sleep cussler now on how to spell Amina in here and so on.

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And then the slide goes till the end and finishes after the solo there's

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okay now Jamal Jamal. Before I read the hookah is after so after the solid, it is from the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that we sit and we listen to the hotline.

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Okay, it is not compulsory, though, there is the hookah is not compulsory. In fact, there is prayer is not compulsory itself. Okay. But it's a synonym of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And it's something that all the Muslims come together to pray, right. So the football happens afterwards in the mustard, we're going to keep the football short. Read is not a day where we sit and we get tired and drained ourselves and, you know, getting exhausted, that's the day of celebration is the day to be happy days to rejoice in data, you know, praise the Lord glorify along on and so forth. And so we, you know, we'll have the afterwards and then we're done. And then we're done. I need to

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come about I don't want him to fail, come on long enough income. But because of the COVID protocols that are in place, of course, we're going to be refraining from the notorious three sided shake, right? and hug hug three sided one are you like hug someone three times, and the next person comes in is when I go

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to go

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and buy then you start going dizzy, who will huddle around anymore right now so we're going to refrain from head shaking, we're going to refrain from hugging

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because of COVID protocol and guidelines provincial guidelines that are in place that we need to maintain six foot distancing between us, okay.

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Aside from that, go and celebrate to eat. Now one thing I want to share with you that I shared with everyone at Jamaat today was to make the day a very happy for our children make it something happy and special for them to enjoy. Look, my brothers and sisters as Muslims living in Canada, our children when they go to school, they have holidays such as Christmas and Easter. And they also learn about Valentine's Day and Halloween and and and and and and and right but our Muslim youth

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Children need to learn more about Islam and the Islamic holidays, but it's not only our Muslim children, it is the Muslim children's friends as well that need to learn about Islam. And so, one thing that, you know, I learned from honestly is my wife who Subhan Allah would constantly say, you know, we got to celebrate, we got to give, it's got to be big, it's got to be grand, right? Part of the day or eat for Muslims is to do sadaqa, right, we sacrifice the animal, and the meat is usually given to others sadaqa seeking rewards from a loss of habitat,

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many of us, you know, are having the animal done either somewhere else or through an organization that will take care of the giving of the meat, right?

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Why not gather some, you know, treats and sweets and something nice that we can give out to our Muslim friends and to our non Muslim friends, as in our neighbors and colleagues and people that we know that live around us and, and that we interact with. And you might even see a family just walking down the street, for example, I know we would drive around and my wife would always, you know, she always makes sure that our trunk is filled with candies and goodies and stuff like that. And if we just see a family anonymous and family, you know, they're outside playing or you know, going for a walk or something will stop and you know, very nicely explained to them. You know, we're

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Muslim, today's a day varied. For us. It's a day of celebration, and we usually give out treats to you know, our Muslim friends and family and we just wanted to share some with you Are you okay with that? And almost always, they're like, sure, a free bag of chips or free, you know, chocolate bar, you know, free candies, who's not okay with that, right? So hamdulillah as Muslims, we need to just step outside of our box a little bit and explain to others what exactly we do, and why we're doing it. And therefore, you'll see that we can spread Islam and allow the education of Islam to reach others, right to reach others, so that they can know. And when I say others, I don't mean like

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others like something strange.

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No other human beings who are deserving of receiving the message of Islam from you and me, right from you and I, we have a responsibility as believers to convey the message that came from us to add it to the prophets and along with it, send them and so my brothers and sisters really that's all that I wanted to share today was to go over some of the importance of this time these days and go over some of the lessons that we need to learn from some of the things that we need to do. If you are still not familiar with that Reed's prayer, you can go back and watch this. Very simple, very simple, just think one plus six in the first and one as in the tech beer or coming up from sajida

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plus five, very simple one plus six plus five. And again, if one of the Imams makes a mistake on the numbers or completely forgets and remember I said a long walk model

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Alhamdulillah harrowby learn I mean and you're like oh all luck about a lot of

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times like he can attribute the way he can stare at it and you have 30 people 40 people 100 people standing behind the you know I'm going along

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and the Imam is ignoring you because the Imam knows once he started reciting Surah Fatiha he's not going to backtrack and go start saying Allah Allah. Allah Allah, Allah. Allah, Allah.

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It's past. So there's nothing wrong if the Imam forgets. Okay. Extra Technorati is the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, it does not invalidate that prayer. And prayer is still intact. So correct. And your prayer was done. hamdulillah. Okay, we'll open it up for some questions. If anyone has questions for a few minutes, I have 9% left on my laptop here. And forgive me, I forgot my charger at home today.

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So any questions feel free to type them in in chat a lot. I do have, you know, more battery time on on my Instagram

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feed. So

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if anyone has extra questions before end this.

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You can always head over there. Yeah, feel free to ask anything. I'll give it a minute or two inshallah. So someone's asking, Can we bring our young kids for each prayer? So the question of hamdulillah is allowing families to come for this year. And so you'll register the mother and the father and then just keep the children with you. When you come read. You know, if you can, if the boys can stay with the Father and the girls can stay with the mother

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and stand next to each other in prayer, right? So you're not going to be six feet away from your daughter and six feet away from your son and six feet away from the other son and Sufi? No, you're going to be all standing together. And then the next family or the next person will be six feet away from the end of your family. Okay, that makes sense. I know some people were like, oh, it doesn't make sense. It's gonna be hard. It's too difficult to do. You know? Stop complaining. Stop.

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complaining Shall I will get this done right as an owner, we should be able to take care of putting 60 between us, you know, while we're praying for the sake of you know, following the provincial guidelines hamdulillah right, it's not rocket science Okay.

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All right, any other questions

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and if you have no questions feel free to you know, log out or log off and make your way to the masjid from other come and pray. I know we all in our minds are like a prayer we got to get get there we need to register How am I going to register? Remember that the five daily prayers are more compulsory and more beneficial and more rewarding. Then the prayers that are not compulsory, like the prayer, right? So come to the masjid you have a half an hour to get here. If you live in Milton anywhere in Milton you can get here in half of that time. So take five minutes to make will take 10 to 15 minutes to drive to the masjid. Get your family in the car right now. And hamdulillah come

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over to the masjid. Right. Let's pray all together in sha Allah to Allah. Bring your prayer pants, bring your masks and make at home. Very simple. Come to the masjid and let's pray Salatu Mara inshallah. Alright, I don't see any questions coming in. So I'll assume that there are no more questions. Once again, we have you know, just under half an hour until the end from avoided and about 30 minutes until the Salah starts so please do make your way over to the sonic Community Center. Melton will be here from a group together in sha Allah who Tad and

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enjoy the last few minutes of Friday in the worship of O'Connell what's that and making Dora just like them? Hello Clayton robotic a lot of them are some Allahu cinnamyl about kind of you know, Eddie Messiah Salim was said Mr. La Kumara to ye over a category