Ahmad Saleem – Quranic Character 008

Ahmad Saleem
AI: Summary © The transcript discusses the history and actions of Hadees, including their murder, the implementation of separation of marriage, and their use of "fit and" in certain circumstances. The conversation also touches on the negative impact of leaving behind certain items in public, and the use of alcohol in media and the lack of diversity in media content. The transcript concludes with a discussion on the " Haley side" of Islam, where individuals have a flawed understanding of the end and need to be more knowledgeable about their actions. The segment also touches on the difficulty of finding a gentle person to lead a community or group of people, and a class on "ENTEC" for those who want to be knowledgeable about their actions.
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Allahumma salli wa salam ala Nabina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salam

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All right.

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Come on

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Allahumma salli wa salam ala Nabina Muhammad Ali he was happy he was Olympus even cathedra

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la mas I never said

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la masa newest Mr. Mohammed Allahumma salli wa salam ala Nabina Muhammad Allahumma salli wa salam ala Nabina Muhammad

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there's a lot of men that Rahim Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah he will back there'll be sure it said anyway silly Amity. What Hello, look at the 10 minutes any of the holy if you guys can get closer all the way that people that are at the back so that as people are leaving, there's less distractions if you've done your son as you can come forward, be the line Tada.

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Like Mr. Milla, so we're carrying on our discussions in the Quranic character. And in specific we are in the details off of how to listen to things that were inflicted by with our tongue. And last time we mentioned some, you know, a hadith that obviously were quite shocking for all a lot of us many, many times those types of Hadees We've not heard publicly

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once upon a time Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam just had this as mentioned by Burera that marries Radi Allahu, and he committed Zina. And he came to Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for our brother and also the man who so he presented himself Hector kala Irvine, he said to Prophet Allah Salam four times, Allah her Autobahn

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that I have committed to now I have committed Zina, I have committed Zina, Bulama, carnal camisa at the fifth one.

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Rasool Allah said, Zen eight

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Did you commit Zina?

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Polynomial Rasulullah

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sallallahu Rasul Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had to submit in the HoH, Xena. Then he asked around, verified that this happened and it was verified.

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For Amara bid Raj me for Rajim he was commanded to be killed by death with stones and he was killed for semi I Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Raju lane. There were two people standing in the audience that were throwing the stones.

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Yeah, according to whom the Sahibi he one of them was saying to his other friend

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I am Tara ILAHA the levy Satara Allahu Ali, did you not look at this one this person? Allah had already covered his sins. Allah had concealed his in

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for them today Oh, who loves to who he could not sit quietly. His nurse was not content with this that Allah has concealed your sins. Hatha Raja Raja mal killed, that he came in now he is stoned to death like a dog is stoned to death.

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So masala Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam so provinces that have overheard this conversation as he was going out of that he saw a dead donkey

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for call and Nabi SallAllahu, alayhi wa sallam Aina for Lanois. Falon he mentioned the names of those two individuals. Where is that and that

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unzila they both came

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from some call them get down and get down at you wherever the animal was get closer to the animal, for coulomb in the middle dzifa eat from this donkey. That donkey

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for coulomb in Jeeva Jeeva had him out. Allah Allah for Allah Hola, kya rasool Allah. They both said Yara so Allah may Allah forgive you. While you can ohada if you will kind of lead us is this something you eat? Highly okay do Haida

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paella Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Farmar needle to mA what you received an eight min a key coma from your brother Mize. And if I told you that value right before a few moments ago

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Oh, shut up, do UCLan Minho. It is more wretched than eating this donkey right now.

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Well Levine fcbd Inaho L and Luffy and her ill Jana and this MA is that you are talking about. He is in the rivers of John V unhardened Jannetty yen ALEMI Sufi ha.

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In order Maga tells me what a cara, he's enjoying his. He's like diving into the rivers of Jana and you guys are talking about him like that.

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This hadith says a lot of lessons for us. Number one, obviously this hadith is one beautiful thing that you find in this is that the robbery of the Hadith he mentioned, Marisa the Allahu and because it was a public event, he was Rajan was done those two other individuals who spoke. It was not as grave of a sin, as you know, compared to Mary's in that context, but more importantly, maybe those people committed Toba and they have rectified their issue. So, in this narration of theirs, they also remembered not to mention the name of those two individuals Falon and fallen so that how he says that and this that person and that person

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he was there the present he saw the incident he knows who these are, these are right.

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What happens to us when the Rebbe conversation happens is again any this event happened in October, Toyota, Moscow, tell me the name of this person, what's the point of you telling me the story, you're not telling me the name?

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I need to know the name at least or impeachable? Like we all really after that person is like no, no

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Charlo law, how do you go about doing pura? You told me everything. Now you're not telling me the name of this again, at least naming general sa matado just tell me just like this. We have these conversations.

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Over here, the sahabi he's educating us about LIBOR but also remembers that yes, ma is was a public case it was like a public record case. Everybody knew about it.

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And Maya is in this Hadith also has a testimony from Rasul Allah that he's in Jannah. But as for the other two, he did not mention tell you the names of those individuals. That's the first lesson.

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The second lesson over here in this hadith is

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that Rasul Allah has just as a legislator, of the land, he is a laws appointee, ie he is

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over here in this dunya Khalifa Tala. He is the legislator.

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This legislator I II sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has just finished from not a trivial crime. somebody's life was taken in that moment.

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And that moment, his concern is that he should not be spread.

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That is a reason a lot of times people don't know this ruling. So for example, if it has confirmed Between a younger boy and a young girl, an act of Zina

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an act of Zina is confirmed.

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I take the word back Xena and act of premarital * confirm Zina is like when two married people commit *. So

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that is confirmed one of the punishments after they are punished. You know, Sharon in a country like Indonesia, Malaysia, these countries they carry out these punishment all the time. Saudi Dubai, Somalia, they all carry out these punishment from a government level. Okay, if it is confirmed, one as part of the punishment to protect the society from Riba and protect the society from the spread of all the CA, did you see Did you hear for landfill landfill and one of the conditions is that asked whenever any type of this type of a Xena situation happens or premarital * between two unmarried people, what do you think they do to them after the the flogging?

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What do you think they asked them to or what Shetty has mandate for them.

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get married. That's in certain circumstances. But more than that.

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For one year, they're asked to leave that town.

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Both the boy and the girl and the family.

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Why? So that nobody talks about it? It doesn't become the talk of the town. It doesn't become the gossip. So even in there and then they also have moral Fresh Start somewhere else. up to nowadays it's all Instagram, social media. One person does something in Toronto and we know about it. Now one person dies in Dallas and we know about it now. It's a very different times. It's I mean, even now more so we have to be careful about these things. But that's what they're done. And then one year later, they're allowed to come back into their city. So if people have

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forgotten by Gouda Jackie brawny becomes old and people forget about it. So one of the things is that you know from this this also story about the outcome of Zina, or outcome of doing you know, getting involved in premarital * is that to protect the society, Sharia has legislated that separation and also you leave a ledger you must leave

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that land

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and Jin Jin W bin Abdullah, the Allahu

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Allah semiannual Rasulullah sallallahu it he was cool, most of these Hadees that I'm going to be saying today, they're all authentic. They're either husbands or harassing the lady. So he and very few are dive as if they are mentioned but there's a but more importantly most of these Hadees that you're going to read are not very commonly consumed in our English content. So there are a hadith that are there sometimes in Muslim and stuff and we'll hear about it Inshallah, this hadith, he says mon Shah,

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whosoever made things difficult for for people

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are in you're in a powerful position Allah has given you you made one sharp, sharp, sharp, Allahu Isley, Allah will make your life difficult.

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I'll give you a real example. So I recently learned that I came off when I was, you know, I think 2011

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First time I came across the column of

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those perfumes that are filled with alcohol. So obviously, the books that were written by the previous callers they had, did not have this concept of D net D, not alcohol and all the varying different types of chemical alcohols that we have, they had only drinking alcohol. So the older cams are based on drinking alcohol, but never the less most of the FIP for schools of thought.

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So far the opinion in that is that most if it's alcohol, like the drinking alcohol then that if it falls on your clothes, it's not just right, it is not just except one specific type of alcohol in the Hanafis which is never youth. So

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I read this gum and I was like, okay, Palace, it's like time for implementation. So I can't I come back to Canada. And I told my wife was like, where's my closet of all the Cologne so I had maybe I'm a very big like, perfume collector. Like this is the one thing that I waste a lot of money and

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I'll tell you this now, like so, you know, so I

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I took all of them.

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And I my brother's like don't throw this away in my mud habits allowed just give it to me. I said no, I cannot allow you to have haram and I threw all of them in the garbage.

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Right? And then I threw everything that my wife had in the garbage, everything my mom had in the garbage. Right and I was just because you think at that time this is Dean, I just got the perfect Dean I need to make things difficult for people. And I remember my chef came back and I said to my to my chef, when I came back next week, he's like Chef, I implemented this last time when I removed you know this, this this and you know Subhanallah I went for vacation and I

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cleared everything. He looked back to me and he said and as for me, my wife still wears alcohol perfumes and my daughter still wears alcohol perfumes in the house and in private gatherings of the ladies. And my son also wears I'll call it as for me I don't wear I don't you know I prefer more denatured alcohol so what you did as the following month SHA you made difficult life difficult for people be careful Allah will make your life difficult for you.

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SHA Allahu Allah He are not only here another Hadith says shop Allahu Allah He Yeoman.

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Is there any difficulty where Allah you want Allah subhanaw taala to be the most lenient to you? In that moment Allah is going to be the most difficult to you

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so make easy for people that don't doesn't we're not saying turn haram into Halal right if within the halal there is variances, then to choose the strictest opinion and not having the cognitive awareness of the society we live in and where we are. That is absolutely against the heckler.

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In other Hadees prophets Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam he says

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they were they were all sitting with prophets. Oh, Salam.

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O Sinem promises him give us I WILL SEE YA and advice for all.

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In Alibaba, yatta yatta yen, oh, in a world my attend yen, mineral insanity buttonhole, the first thing that fills with stench and that explodes when you're in the grave is your button.

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Your stomach

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where you start having the stench of a dead body. It begins with the stomach.

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So bravo just said I'm saying minus delta

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Yo Kula Illa even funnier fan of Cicero said just make sure that you only eat put in your stomach Zack which is pure and if it is possible for you then you put in your stomach Zack which is halal

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wa if you don't do that Illa you hire lubaina Who are banal Jannetty mill aka minute damn minute dumb hurrah, cotton failure fine. Otherwise if you ate ie if you took somebody's money if you killed somebody if you did their riba that little portion of blood that will come to your heart and your stomach, it will become the barrier between you and Jana.

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Allah protect us the last Hadees Prophet Salla Salah meter to ah okay problems those are like really nice and uplifting listen to this uplifting dua not very uplifting. Allahumma Diwali I mean, among the Almighty, or Allah whoever is given a command ie from my ummah, somebody is made in charge when you are in your household or in your workplace or as a teacher or as our principal or as an imam or as a community leader. Man What do you mean I'm the almighty che and if you're being given a slightest of that response, a che and basically means an ounce of that responsibility

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for shocked by Li him, and you made life difficult for the people.

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sha Allah Who it

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Allah will make life difficult for you.

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And another Hadith says SHA chi like him, he was very quick fast Shaka Tau Alpha Phi means he was very quick and making things difficult.

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For Shakti IE, Allah will make difficult for you right away things in your life.

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Now when does a person choose?

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The more strict path because sometimes in our mind, the more strict opinion it is, the better the better. It is the better Islam it is. Absolutely not. Prophet sallallahu wasallam in Buhari says if you were given a two choice, I'm Ryan, difficult and easy.

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He would always choose the easier Halal option.

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Okay, and that's what sometimes as a community we have to get used to it's not difficult. I got like these emails yesterday, we had the McRib, Speaker over here. And I think some of the girls they asked this question, can you use an eyeliner? And she said, Yes, you can because we have a hadith of using curl. And that hadith is not specifically for men or women. It's in Bukhari and Muslim. So it was allowed in that time. So some of the parents messaged me, how can you have a speaker that is promoting liberalism and Islam? How La Quwata illa Allah, the problem is this image that we have specially coming from India and Pakistan and Bangladesh, the harder the deen the better it is.

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That's not part of the the minute you have my chicken used to say either eight or 10 Fish shots in detail that you need. If you find a person, he's making life difficult for himself and others in his practice of Dean funfilled men who run away from that person, that person is not on Dean.

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Because a dino user teen is easy. Then prophets Allah Sallam he says, While manually I mean Emery Almighty che and federal furrific be him. If you are given a chance to lead a community or group of people or your household, be gentle to them.

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First, it's a command or province system furrific beam.

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And another Hadith that says philosophy him which means to one is a command. The other is he was nice to them. One is be nice to them. The other is he was nice to them. Then the Hadith says for roof FIPPA

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i Li Allah will be nice to you.

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Allah will be nice to you. All of these IDs is what they're telling us. Why are they mentioned in the Bible of Libra? Because Libra is when we're trying to make somebody else's life difficult.

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And the reason he's bringing the higher level of Libra is because Libra when it is done at a level of community leaders is a lot more harmful than when it is done at an individual level.

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When it is done in a public gathering, it's lot more harmful than when it is done individually in a jungle all both are equally harmful. Right? It harms both of them. And the reason why people choose the harder path in between. And this is like a tangent and I'll end with this. The reason why. The reason why people sometimes believe or choose

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the harder path

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is because we've been conditioned to believe

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because all the examples of Dini people that we have, right in our subcontinent, even in Egypt, even in Jordan, if you go to these countries,

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the masses of those, right?

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Are they like gentle people?

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We all know the answer to that.

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They're not very gentle people.

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Every now and then you will get a gentle person. But our Imams and stuff, like look at our massages, right? We have so many Muslims, we have 220 Muslim 22 million Muslims in Pakistan, how many people read your mother? Not 222 million? Let's say half or half of them, not 120 2 million. We all know that.

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Right? We all know that.

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But if it's a cricket match,

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right? No. So have to. So what is happening? What is happening is the so we had a solution.

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Right? We had the solution, which was the Quran and the message of the deen. And we have somebody who's a solution provider, which are the Imams, the local Imams, there are the solution providers, and the gap between the solution and what it tells you and the solution provider is so much

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so much, that people are being turned away by our own religious people from thing

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and which is which is sad and ask any any Imam that does counseling,

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they will tell you enumerate like I was with one of the prominent scholars of North America and he said to me, like if you if I tell you his name, we're going to be like, Oh my God, this guy is saying this. He said, I will never marry my daughter off to a religious person.

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Because the amount of time I've seen the disconnect of somebody's religious, but they have no HELOC and character.

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It's the easiest thing to wear the cloak of religiosity

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is easiest thing to do that.

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So why do people make things difficult? Jehan ignorance, absolute sheer ignorance, nothing else.

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Absolutely, they don't exist, they don't know. And this ignorance is two things. You have extreme on both sides, the Salafi sides and the Sufi side, both sides, they become extreme because ignorance.

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They start bashing these people, they start bashing these people and both never get to talk to one another.

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Right and that divide the extreme is because they have ignorance. The leaders of this and the leaders are right, they're just they have never taken the chance to actually go and sit down.

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And I can tell you vouch for that from a personal experience. When I would study with somebody from the salary side or the Sufi side. I feel like you guys need to talk to one another because you don't understand one another. But they wouldn't even take that moment because they've been calcified in their understanding and then little knowledge that they have they're like colors, you cannot do this, we cannot move beyond that.

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Right. So broadening the horizon and whenever you see somebody being very strict, you know, right away two things are happening. Number one, that person has a very flawed,

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he has a very, not a holistic understanding of the end but a very small portion of an understanding of the which he thinks he super imposes as the entirety

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whereas that might be just the slice. May Allah grant us Adelphia to stay away from Riba and protect our hearts and our tongues. The the next session that we're going to do Inshallah, in Riba is a lot of people have been holding this off, they're like Rebbeca because

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when can you do diva? I'm a manager I need to talk about my my employees can I do Liba so we're going to do is we're going to talk about the ASVAB you know, which types of riba are allowed in Islam? And before that, we're going to have what happens when somebody is doing lever to how should you respond?

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So that you know how much you say you listen and listen and listen, or should you tell the person to stop? What if that person is your mother? What if that person is your mother in law? What if that person is your father? How do you respond to those things inshallah. So those are the two things left and then we'll move on to the next part, be in the night and

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inshallah we'll have the class on Thursday for sure. Mid evening. We'll go back to Shemitah

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