The Islamic Personality – Episode 04

Abu Usamah At-Thahabi


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Loving or Hating Moderately

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bossa nova to LA he was cinema Whydah Nabina. Mustafa.

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What a shadow an EVA in La la de la sharika lahu eyeshadow. Mohamed Anam to rasuluh

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beginning shall lies with gentle third Heidi from the book that we've been dealing with. And as it is our custom, we'll begin by just singing who memorize the Hadeeth.

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So we want our brother

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go ahead read it

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A prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sent an authentic hadith inshallah that was collected by an amateur movie, and other than Him tremendous ID. When dealing with the personality of a Muslim, everybody's responsible for building this within himself.

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Because if you lose this characteristic, you're not going to be a complete Muslim, and you won't be fair, you won't be just

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and it touches upon many aspects of our lives. This class is not a class for just coming here to read off some ahaadeeth and some of the Koran, but it serves as a reminder for all of us. This idea is tremendous. And you'll find in today's climate, especially with social media, just the time that we live in right now. vast majority of Muslims, Arabs, non Arabs, the old, the young, the educated and the people can't read and write men and women.

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The vast majority of people fall short of the mark in this particular Hadith. And there's a need that talks about the permissibility of falling short of the mark. Abu huraira May Allah be pleased with him. You said that the Prophet says on the law while he was sending them, love the person who you love your hubby, whoever he is, whoever she is, your mother, your father, your wife, your husband, your child.

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Love Your Habib moderately. Because the day may come when when they become your enemy or person who you hate and hate the person that you hate moderately, because they may come where that individual becomes Your Habib

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once again, Habiba kohonen ma I sang a Kumari, the common man. Love Your Habib, moderately. The name the day may come where that person becomes your enemy or someone who you have to hate and hate the person who you hate moderately, because that individual may come one day and he becomes Your Habib, as is what happened with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in many instances. Some of the non Muslims of Quraysh used to hate him. They hated his guts as they say. So a lot to lie he was sent NYT and the companion to mama even file when he accepted Ellis lamb he said yada so a lot there was never a face that I hate it more than your face and now your face is the most beloved face to me.

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Yeah, it also the lot. There was never deemed that I hate it more than your deen but now your dean is the most beloved Dean to me. Yet also Lola there was never a city of Medina that I hated more than your Medina and now your Medina is the most beloved Medina to me.

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This howdy that honey before we deal with a inshallah, there are some issues of empathy laugh between the mother and Hades as it relates to the authenticity of this Heidi. Some of the scholars would slam said that the Hadith is weak and from them and Imam etc. Maybe who narrated this hadith and Borden his book at Jamia and after bringing the chain of narration How many of you sitting said that he heard of a horror say that the Prophet said something it was send them the Hadith. Allah Muhammad Amelie said we don't know this Hadith, this chain of narration except this one right here. And that was his way of saying it's not authentic. Although he put in his book, some of the evil

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Islam they said that this hadith is not from the Prophet sallallahu it was said it but is the statement of it benign be taught Ridwan Wiley and from them that tremendous scaleable Islam and Eman adara. Totally who is one of the ima alerion that science that detects the hidden weaknesses in the chains of narration. And remember, Courtney said this hadith is weak as relates to it being out of the mouth of

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Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he said it's from it even it taught him and another people took that position. And then there are some who said that the Hadith is Hasson is authentic is not Sahiba this has been a little lesser than so he nonetheless is acceptable. And from the contemporary ama who took deposition as an Imam, and then Benny Rama tuloy Ali. So from the angle of a man to an elmia that there is a type of

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a manner you have to have the Amana you can't be like some of these people who say, a Heidi and they make stuff up. We have an Amana if it's not in Bahati don't say somebody so I'm being fair and then being just in Charlotte and taking care of the trust. I have to say this if the laugh in this Heidi there's some Nisa some pulling and tugging and pushing between the marvelous lamb. So I'm of the opinion that the Hadith is Hasson inshallah, and the chef who brought the Hadeeth is of that opinion Rama to light on on a half a the hula hoop on a ship. I didn't handle it.

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As it relates to Abu huraira the narrative that Ethan everybody knows Abu huraira in sha Allah May Allah be pleased with him. Not really the majority of the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He is that companion from the companions who was known by his Konya. Abu huraira is the laugh as to what his name is, but the vast majority of our lemma said his name was Abdul Rahman Abu huraira was the poor companion who stayed with the Prophet all the time, someone law when he was sending them and as a result of that, he was prolific any superseding surpass all of the other companions as it relates to the narration of the idea of Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa it

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was centered. As it relates to the Hadith whiney, the idea that we're talking about today is from the July met al Kalam and the meaning of July, Matt, and Kevin, I want you guys to remember that July, man and kill him. It is one of the five things that Prophet Mohammed Salah when he was sent him was given that no other Prophet was given. And that was his ability to say something that only had a few words. But what he said had far reaching implications. It had a lot of fifth to it, it had a lot of understanding had a lot of benefit. It had a lot of a lot of information and benefit comes out of what he said. So Lola while he was sending, and as I mentioned, there is not a person sitting

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here, except that this hadith is a challenge in your everyday life. Love the person who you love moderately, because the day may come when that individual becomes your enemy, and hate the person who you hate moderately, because they may come with that individual becomes your hobby.

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This Hadith is talking about a number of things. It's talking about the importance of being balanced in Ellis land, and having justice in Ellis land. And this justice and this balanced is determined by the religion is not determined by your culture, by your understanding, by your desires, no, is determined by the religion. The religion made us and ordered and commanded us to be bounced, as Allah commanded in the Quran that we read solothurn Fatiha and in that door that we read and it's from the greatest source of the Quran, guidance to this rotten stuffy Idina so rotten stuffing, that's the middle course not that people went too far to the right, or the people went too far to

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the left. So that's the religion telling you to be balanced. He says Hello, darling, the Quran worker there Lika Jana

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Masato, with aku Shahada Allah NASS, ye akuna rasuluh la Koo shahida. And for that reason, Allah made you people and oma that is in the middle, so that you will be the witnesses over all of the other people that you'll hold and the nesara and the sea and the Hindus, the white, the black, and that the rustle, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam will be a Shaheed over you. So balance is not determined by what you say. The religion tells us that you told your parents they should be halfway up your sub halfway, not up to your knees as we see some brothers trying to practice the Sunnah is up to the knee. That's extreme. You went too far and shouldn't be below neither shouldn't be below

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your ankle bone. The profit the religion told us be balanced with your hair. Don't cut the lower part and leave the top part haraam. Don't

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Doing is to hair cut has a

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cousin, he told us a lot while he was selling them either walk in both shoes or walk without both shoes. He told us a lot while he was selling them, half of your body shouldn't be in the shade and the other half in the sun, either get all in the shade or get all in the sun, either this or that. All of that is talking about the balance and the justice of the religion of Islam. So this issue we find some people who go overboard in the religious Boko Haram, Qaeda, Taliban, a Shabaab of Somalia, you're going overboard, he says you're going overboard. The religion is not like that the way you interpreted killing people left, right and center, kidnapping people left, right and center. That's

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not the religion, that show interpretation. And then the other extreme, the one who doesn't want to pray, he says he man in faith is in my heart doesn't want to wear hijab, you got to be balanced. It's bile, all of that the religion is telling you be balanced. This Hadith is talking about that, that the religion determines for us what balance is, because there are those people who suffer from what is known as a 10. Year at 10 year, if you want to water down everything well, we're in the UK and we're in Europe, and what are we going to do? So the fact that the Prophet sallallahu it was sending them as our mother Isha, may Allah be pleased with her told us that he married at the age of

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nine. So the person comes in he says, what are the non Muslims going to think if we say something like that out in public? Yes, we have to be wise and giving dabbled a lot. And we don't open up doors and windows that is too early to expose this information to everybody. There is $1 rich in knowledge right here in teaching you brothers and the Sisters of our community, given the hotbar we have to know the condition of the people and not talk about those things that will be a fit like even if it's true, people are not ready of that. They're not ready for that. I'm loving my screwed said and even Abby Trollope said had the finance and Academy apulian Atari domain UK Viva La Hawa

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Rasulo who talk to the people according to the level of understanding that you want them to reject the line is messenger. Abdullah You must not be taller said Rwanda lahemaa ma into the Maha Devi Coleman Hi. defin Lamia blue ro Kula whom in the academy bad in fitna, you as a teacher, speaker, a team. You will never say speech to people that they don't comprehend. Except that speech is going to be a fitna for some of them. So the person comes and says, we cannot believe that the Prophet married is at that age sallallahu. It was setting them because the non Muslims will never accept our religion. That's not hikma. And that's not being balanced, that's established. That's established

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now religion. So with 10 years is a problem, to me in watering things down. And a touch deed is a problem as well. Being rough and being tough unnecessarily. We have to be in the middle.

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As it relates to the religion that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is a religion that tells us, you have to be moderate, and you're given and you're taken. You have to be moderate in your back. You have to be moderate in your resting. You have to be moderate in your loving your hate. You can't love someone to the degree where you go overboard, you're in a toxic relationship. You're in a relationship. It is toxic, and is no good for you. And that's why the Prophet said some of the law when he was setting them, then I think you had the rule of law for now you stay jabel know whom there are three people will make do and the a DA won't be accepted. One of those people he said

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someone loved what he was saying. Roger can attack. Emre attune to Hola, Fernando Tanaka, a man who's married to a bad wife

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and he won't divorce her. We're not talking about the wife who he gets upset with her. She gets upset with him. But overall, she's a good individual. No, he said about her. It is not okay for the believing man, the husband to hate his wife. If he sees in her character trick that he dislikes. Let him look for a character trait that he likes. Everybody has that. You're not perfect. I'm not perfect. She's not perfect. Your wives are not perfect. There's our defense not talking about the lady who does things sometimes when she gets upset. Sometimes when it's that time of the month, sometimes whatever. She's not a bad person. It's that lady who's dipping out on him. That lady that

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won't pray. That lady that has no respect for him. And he stays with us and I love her. I love her is toxic and he stays with her as well.

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All of staying with her. There's a lot of drama going on between them. So Ally's angry with him. The curse words, the hatred, the problems in the house, they're corrupting the children, they're going to make them now Muslims, he should have divorced that lady and had to walk on Allah. But his love is too much. He knows what she's doing. And he tends to do that. So the point here, we have to be balanced in this religion, and everything balanced in everything, love.

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I mentioned a few times and I will mention again, this issue is a challenge for everybody that chef Mohammed didn't know Heidi was the allameh last year was a llama, the big scholar of Islam, when the people were on that stuff loved him. But when there was some hatred that presented itself, he stopped being the Habib and he became very consumed, not cas9 console, very, very, very lazy, has no books. It's a problem. He's your friend today. And he's the greatest person. People ask you about them, you have a lot of really good things to say. As soon as something goes wrong. He's the worst person that you know. That's what this Hadeeth is talking about. How is it possible that just last

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week, he was okay. And now a week later because some drama transpired. He is the worst person will reverse it, then the Jow

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bursting in

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Abuja when you went overboard in your love, and as it relates to the hate, you hate people, to the degree that you can't be fair, you can't be just, you can't say the truth in their regard got to be balanced, as it relates to the poor and there are many, many is in addition to the two is that we already mentioned that commanders show us the importance of being balanced, a large region mentioned in the Quran, what 30 FEMA takala adaro what I tensor no Siva committed dunya Allah commanded in the Quran and told us the things that you have the job, the money, the car, the good health, whatever you have used that whatever you had a lot gave you money, whatever you have intellect, use that in

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order to get the hereafter. And don't forget your portion of the dunya. So a lot and make this dunya haram for you. It'll make it hard for you to have a Mercedes Benz and they make it hard on for you to have a mansion. And they make it wrong for you to have the nicest clothes and everybody in this city and they make that around. Don't forget your portion of the dunya The one who shuts down the dunya and makes the dunya haram and people who went astray. So there I am, that were revealed, stopping people from doing that. That I tells us be balance. Allah mentioned another ayat of the Quran, there are many when I touch her bisa Latika when I to half Bihar, Terry Bain and Danica

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sebelah. When you pray a salaat then don't do it so quietly, and don't do it very, very loud. But choose the path that is between this and between that right in the middle. Some of the scholars of Islam like Asia, like a blood now dance, may Allah be pleased with both of them. They said that the Salah in this is talking about the DA salaat talking about da when you make dua, don't scream out loud, making dua to Allah azza wa jal, as the Prophet told his companions on the love line he was sending them, what are the Align? They were traveling, when they went up a mountain they were screaming, Allahu Akbar. When they went down the mountain, they will say So Paulo LA and they were

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screaming. The Prophet told them be easy and be gentle on yourselves. finicum latur una are some whenever I eba what I can tell rula Semyon basura Hey, you people have mercy upon yourself. Take it easy on yourselves. You're not calling on someone who can hear you're not calling on someone who was absent. You're calling on someone who hears and he can see. So Abdullah in our bass in Asia said don't make dua out loud.

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Some of the other mufa ceiling and the Quran they said the meaning of solid here is the Salah. This is in Surat Al a Surah Surah one Mirage, the sewer was revealed in Mecca. When the Prophet used to pray with his companions on the love line he was sending them around de la Jemaine, if he read out loud, the non Muslims the machete comb, we hear him and when he read the Koran, they will start cursing, the one who's revealed the Quran, the one who was revealed on and the people who embraced it. So a lot told them in this if you don't read out loud so that the mystery King will become upset and curse Allah. Don't

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Be a reason why nine non Muslims curse Allah

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when I had to sue Bula Dini, I don't really mean do Neela for you, Sue Bula ha Don't be of those people who curse the other guys. Don't be like that Don't curse the guys in them mess around in their curse Allah Don't be the reason why people hate this religion blowing up people being extreme

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given a bad example of Islam first thing they say is look at the Muslims who did it, we give them information or we give them fodder we give them we give them ammunition ammunition to say it was so true in Islam was so true, then why is this situation like this this this is so Eliza told the Prophet sallallahu it was said to them Don't be sold out with a non Muslims here you so they start cursing a lot cursing the prophet SAW Selim because of his companions, Christian religion. And don't worry so low that the companions who are praying with you cannot hear, stay in the middle and stay balanced from those iots in SoTL for Khan, Al Furqan. Allah gives a number of characteristics of the

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rebadow rock men and from their characteristics those people worship a rock man and we asked a larger gel to make all of us truthfully from the those people who worship Him. He mentioned in the Quran we live in a world levena event and football Lem us three four what a total

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total. We can have been in that coma, that the people who worship Allah the true worshipers of our Nana, those people when they spin, they don't waste nor they miserly. They don't spend all of their money, nor these people nor are they those people who don't spend at all. The Prophet told us in unauthentic caddied some a lot while he was sending them in Allah. Hello Rama aleikum.

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pocan mahat woman ang lahat y del Burnett, Allah has made it wrong for you to be back to your mothers, disrespectful disobedient to your mothers, and he made it haram for you to be a person who always says give me this Give me that. Give me this Give me that. When he goes to your house, and he goes into the toilet a comic Milan to wash his hands get ready for the full AC some oil perfume, you come out and say, Can I have this? He says that he sees a book Can I have that? Everything he sees? Can I have that pin? Can I have that? Can I have that? That's not permissible in our religion.

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To always give me had this, let me have this then he had that let me have that. And the opposite is not permissible to be a person who never ever, ever gives gotta be in the middle. So the bad the Rockland the Muslim is the individual who he doesn't waste the food that he buys. He doesn't waste it. And the food that he buys, he doesn't buy such a little amount of food that it's not enough for him. Not enough for his family, not enough for his guests. Those are yet in other bundles if they show the importance of the legislation of being in the middle. When man was given advice to his son, he told his son What said michika Hey boy, and giving you this advice. When you walk, be calm. Don't

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walk with arrogance. And don't walk in a way in which you're showing people you're weak. Like Omar saw that man from the Muslim. He wanted to show the people he was a Zagat he had taqwa. He was humble and humility. And he was walking me kasara he was walking with his back like this. And like took the stick and hit him. Don't Don't walk like that. Don't walk like that. Do you want the non Muslims to look at you and think you're weak, your chunk your punk as a result of that they're gonna take advantage of you. Don't walk like that. And on the other hand, don't walk around with that swag. Like you're somebody. I would like to ask some of you young brothers to stand up and show us

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what kind of walking is impermissible? I don't know if you guys know what I'm talking about. Anybody know? Anybody know this walk of the American people? Anybody?

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Show me Show me how did the Arabic stand up? Stand up, stand up. You don't want to show us stand up man. Show us. You know, anybody know? You'll get rewards inshallah, because you'll be educating the people anybody know?

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show a stand up, stand up. Hurry up, hurry up. Show us. What's the walk. That's haraam.

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Yeah, that's one of them that you'd walk in like a mummy like Frankenstein. That's, that's kind of like it. That's the shy version of it. But you'll see the hip hop culture and these people. It's part of the African American culture. How we used to walk like that to show people don't mess with me. Oh, I'm accepting and I'm calling I'm down. That's not the walk of the Muslim. You have to walk in a way where you

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Don't want people looking at you saying Look at him. So the point here is all of those ayat and other than them, they go to show the importance of being balanced in our religion and they're more ayat. As for the Hadith of the prophets on the love why he was sending them, and there are many those are yet we chose it just a few many were 10 met Kenny matorral beaker sitcom, Abdullah Lamb who bet Dylan Lee curry Mati. Allah describes his religion in the Quran. He said, The words of your Lord have been complete this religion, the Quran has been complete with truthfulness and justice. There is no change in concern in the words of Allah. Justice is our religion, you have to be in the

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middle, you have to be just against your friend, against your fault for your mother, against your mother, for your tribe against your tribe, have to be fair, as for the Hadith of the Prophet, salallahu alayhi wasallam for her death when a hostage

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Abdullah minimus owed, may Allah be pleased with them said that they were sitting with the prophets on the law while he was sending them sallam. And he drew a long line in the ground for everyone to see. And he told the people had the subito law, this is a life's path. And then he drew lines to the right of that line, and lines to the left of that line. And then he told the people who are happy he su balloon, Allah clearly, Sybil and min Ha, ha,

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ha ha. And these are divergent paths. And each one of these paths is a shaytaan. inviting people to that path is against the Seraph of Allah That's Mr. P. And then the Prophet read the ayat of the Quran. And sarathi Mr. kamin tiberiu. When I tell you it was suitable for the ferrata be commensurability all Muslims follow the Surat of Allah, the sanathana stocking, that's a bill that is straight, and don't follow the divergent paths. They're not in the middle. They're too far to the right. Too far to the left is the person of a soul worth, he wants to make the decline of a lion, the czar we are all day and that's it, and not go out and earn money and defend himself and his mama

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and his Dean and his family and his honor. That's a problem. That's a problem. Then you have the individual wants to go out, and he wants to shed blood to show that he's not a coward and he's a warrior. He's not afraid. But he does that without knowledge. So problem. You have individual who has Jamaat is about politics, and in his understanding the ends justify the means he can lie, he can cheat. He can warn against people were beneficial. The important thing is, we have to get the courtesy no matter what, that's not okay. You have to be in the right path,

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the middle path, and that's why the scholars of Islam they said the Serato monster came in Surah three Fatiha is the serata of Abu Bakr and Omar Athlon and Adi Ravi Alon the sirata the companions rug one

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another Heidi from those many many it is the companion jabber Eben Sameera Raja Lauren Khan selectel. Juma ma Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for qanat salata who koston mucho burrito pasta. He said, I pray the Juma prayer with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. His hookah was moderate, and his salaat was moderate. You go to some of these massagin especially in America, that people come from the Nation of Islam, Louis Farrakhan, Elijah Mohammed when they became real Muslims when they became real Muslims, they embrace the Quran and the Sunnah, but many of them are still lacking behind in terms of knowledge. So on the day of the Juma is not strange to find them praying

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salat, to Juma for one hour or more. You go to some massage in in Egypt. The man gives the hopper for an hour or more. rustlers could but was not like that. So a lot while he was setting. It was short, moderate, and a solid was moderate. And the middle people have to go to work people have things to do. Then maybe you suddenly love what he was sending, sending authentic ad from what shows the importance of being in the middle in the Rebecca alika hapa we're in nearly as mechanic. We're in nearly Nazi konica haka, fatty kalevi happen Harpo, your Lord has rights over you. Your family has rights over you and your knifes you have rights over yourself.

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Your own soul has rights over you. So give everyone who has a right over you give them the rights. Don't be in a monster all day every day. Don't stand a mosquito every day, at the expense of your wife and your children you spend no time. dolla dolla dolla traveling traveling dow and dow and dow and you say the Nabi sallallahu wasallam when your wife says, Hey, spend some time?

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No, it's not our religion. You have to give your family their rights, your own self. Some people work themselves like animals. Animals can work like that. You have to be moderate. You have to be in the in the middle. One of the youngsters he wants to be a student of knowledge. And he takes the statement of the wisdom of the past and they say those scholars said, If you give knowledge all of yourself, it will give you a little back. Because the knowledge of Islam is like an ocean that has no shores, it is endless. What do you want to major in? Do you want to major in fifth or solo fifth Tafseer Hadith, the Quran? What aspect of the Aloma the Quran, you want to know the Sierra, there

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are many things you can major in. If you give knowledge all of yourself, it only gives you a little back. And we talked about how the senate used to make a lot of sacrifices, FISA bill knowledge, that's true. But that requires fifth that requires fifth, don't come telling me that you're going to lack you're going to lacs off and your secular studies because you want to learn that knowledge is of Al Islam. You got to give it all yourself. No. It's not acceptable. So all of those are Hadith and even more when the Prophet heard someone love what he was saying about those three men. And he came to rectify those situations. And he told him Yeah, are you a nice and neat Shakuni law? He was

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like, No, we're in the suddenly, we'll output we'll assume we're after.

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What is the Nisa for my Raja and Sunita Felisa Mimi, are you people. I am the one who has more taqwa than all of you. And I have more Russia than all of you have a lot of fear more, and I have more knowledge, and the best one from a monk shoe. And yet, and yet,

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I pray pmla and I go to sleep. I fast, and I break my fast. And I get married to women. Anyone who abandons him for six months sooner is not for me. Because it's extreme to say, I'm not going to get married is extreme to say I'm going to fast all the time. I'm going to pray all the time. All of those ahaadeeth and other than them, they go they show they indicate have to be balanced in Ellis land. We come to the statements of the Sahaba to Diwan ally and he made many statements from them as well, but we only rely upon one of them and their meaning. And that's the statement of for the for the man Rama la he and he who they said to the people yeah, Masha, Allah Cora is the Ki Moon. All

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you people who are students of knowledge. You people were trying to read the Quran, you're trying to be knowledgeable. He said it's stucchi move beyond st karma be straight up and beyond the middle path. He said to them, if you do that, if you do that, you would be far far ahead of everybody else subtheme soup and by either you would be far far ahead of everybody. And then he mentioned rhodiola. When to me mean, where she Marlin, dolla, dolla, Merida. But if you guys if you people go to the right or the left of that certain stuffing, you're gonna go straight.

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You are going to go straight, just stay in the middle stay in the middle. That's from the benefits of this Heidi

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be imbalanced. Also from the benefits of this, Heidi, is the issue of part of how to love in Ellis lab. Let me tell you, if there's anyone sitting in this audience in this Masjid right now, hearing my voice right now, and you are a person who you never loved anyone and never you were never loved by anyone.

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I'm not going to say that you are a human being. But you don't know what life is. If that's your situation.

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If you're sitting here and you don't love people, and you never felt love from people, your mother, your father, you grew up not feeling loved. Some people grew up, they didn't feel any love from their father, but they got it from the

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They will feel love for the mother but they got it from the Father. We're not talking about that. We're talking about the person who can honestly say, I don't know anyone who loves me. I'm not going to say you're not a human being, I'm not going to say that. But you don't know, the real life problem. So because loving people and being loved by people is part of what it is to be a human being. And Islam came the Quran and the Sunnah, and said a lot about how to love there is fit and loving fit.

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Like the event was that MSG recently, in America,

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the brother who made the event, young African American brother had a beautiful voice and pronounce the words correctly and beautifully. I told him afterwards come in your that was good, because I want him to continue, I said, but it's not enough to just have a beautiful voice and just learn that event like that. You have to get out of the event. There are different things to say the things that you shouldn't do, you should know a lot about the event which brings me to this point. As you brothers sit in this audience, you can be a scholar of the event. You may not be a scholar overall in this religion, but you are a scholar, real scholar.

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You are a real scholar when it comes to an hedge. The person knows how to make hedge and he knows the life of a hedge. And he knows what he's doing left right and center in and out frontwards and backwards. So it's possible for an individual to be knowledgeable in one particular massala then do that. If you can get everything do that.

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There was a chef in Saudi Arabian is still living from the balance sheet you can earn a mother said if he a share. Solomon, Abdullah Abdullah blue sun and Ruby Lang her feather hula hoop it used to be in high end

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when we used to go to visit him, his students, if something came up in the language, he was saying smile, what's the answer to that?

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Something came up in some aspect of fact, he would say hey, Nora Dean, what's the answer in that he has students in his Madras who were prolific and upper most. And he had that humility to point them out. If he didn't know, they didn't have the overall knowledge of the ship, but they knew aspects of the religion where they surpassed him.

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So as it relates to this particular issue as it relates to this particular issue, when there is fit in the Brotherhood of Ellis lab, how are we going to be brothers to one another, and we don't even comprehend how to be a brother. So a lot has been said about loving in Ellis land. For an example the virtues of loving there are many issues, the prophets on the love while he or it was seldom mentioned,

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I was shaved and they shaved seven people yomo Piana and from them, two people who loved each other for laws courts, from the virtues of loving people. If two people love each other for loss, cause then that makes it wadge if they have the heart to be loved by Allah,

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the prophets and the Shahadat people were killed and given martyrdom, they have ellipta or jealousy for people who love each other. So this brother loves this brother and he only loves him for a lot. The prophets in the messages have the permissible jealousy for what's going on, because of the reward of that. And who is the Prophet going to be jealous of?

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They'll only be jealous, the permissible jealousy is like, you know, when a man who gives a lot of sadaqa and you're jealous and you say, I wish I had that money to do what he's doing. So you have that jealousy, not the one that's haraam. You hate that he's been given that money, the profits and the show hide that they had that jealousy? Why? From the rewards of what we mentioned, they'll be under the shade of Allah, they get the heart of Allah loving them. They will be on members made out of life. Yo Kiana. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he mentioned as well, that there are three people the latter two

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men are men. caleffi men cannot be allowed to email. Anybody in the body. Doesn't have to be from the odd avola someone who memorize the Quran, someone who's praying 200 every night, fasting every Thursday and Monday. Anyone who has these three things, he finds them within himself. He will find me with taste the sweetness of men. First thing that he mentioned, and your coonawarra solo who

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Either human masiva human, that alone is messenger, or more beloved to him than anything else. Number two, he loves a man and he only loves him for a lot. Our wives, if we love our wives because of a love for Allah, her virtues her righteousness, her subber her holding onto the dean and vice versa. She loves you for the same reason. And in addition to that, you love unnaturally, because there is the NC jam and the harmony between you and her. But you love her first and foremost and you've chosen because of Allah, that's what it's about. From the benefit of that is the sweetness of lie man. He told the people from the virtues of loving for lies region, and the danger of not loving

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for a lot. He told the people some of the love while he was not alone and janitor hated to me, no new people will not intern to the agenda. And to you love one another.

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You will not go into the agenda until you love one another. Should I not tell you something that if you do it, it will force the love between you. They said what is it jasola he says say salams to one another gifts, the Lamb something as simple as that. And I think most of us if not all of us, we see the manifestation of when our relationships break down with people. We can even give synonyms.

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We can say a simple word, Salama, Lani. Can't say that to him, and he did not say it to you. So there are a lot of virtues of love info Allahu subhanahu wa Tada. And this is one of those a hadith and they are meaning to hide due to hibu. give gifts and exchange gifts between yourselves and have caused you to love one another. If you love someone, you should tell them individually that I love you. The Prophet said if you do that, it caused the love to foster between you and to remain between you some Allahu alayhi wa it was said this is one of those ad the benefit of the Hadith balance in Islam, the benefit of the Hadith. This is from the ad that teach us about love in this religion. Our

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religion told us from the lesson of El Faro, Mr. ruddy Allah I know he told the people don't love like a child.

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And don't hate like a child.

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How does the child love, he said that the child is the one who loves so much he's immature. So when he loves something or someone, he's not balanced, and when he hates something as someone he does not balance. So if something happens, where you take the candy or the halau of the sweet from the child, he'll say to his mother, I hate you. After all she did, he doesn't really mean that, but he's a little kid. Don't be like that. And don't hate someone to the degree where you want them to be destroyed. That's how the little kid is the little child because his mind is not complete. You do something to him that he doesn't like he's not balanced, he wants you to be destroyed.

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And so panela we found that amongst many of the Muslims, many of the Muslims, our religion, a wedding is a religion, where we should want guidance for people, especially for Muslims, we should want guidance from them. We shouldn't be the type of people who we want people to be destroyed. So we make dua against people because they didn't follow our points of view and issues that he had and must LS a sec may have a break your back. May Allah destroy you. That's the love and the hatred of a child, take it easy and relax. One good for the Muslims, if he doesn't agree with you make dua that Allah guides him to the truth that you perceive that you're upon. Take it easy. As for the one who

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was a leader, and Cofer, he's a leader in innovation, he's a leading fitness facade, then that's a different issue. But that fitness facade shouldn't be your interpretation, because he doesn't agree with everything that you say your shift your Jamaat, your messaging, your method, then he wants to fit in for selling the earth. No, no, you have to relax. Which brings us to the last issue of honey. And the last issue is what happened recently with this fight concerning this brother from the miss the mixed martial artist Habib Habib milazzo gel, give him good and give it us good. After that fiasco transpired, you look on social media, and many of the Muslims who are given down on social

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media, we find a lot of our youngsters think it's your religious obligation to hurry up and jump out there and give you a position in your opinion. When in fact when things like that happen is better for you to be quiet and to relax and let the dust

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Everybody has a religious responsibility to get down with Allah, everybody believable and he will tell people about me even if it's something small one, I have one Howdy. So you get in where you fit in you get down with a lot. But in giving Dawa, you have to have some knowledge about what you're talking about. You have to have some experience, you have to have some hikma, you have to have some common sense. And when these big issues take place, big issues that the whole world is talking about, you should relax and take it easy, who said you have to speak the very next day Who said that?

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Who said that? You know what that comes from part of that comes from this culture of getting the most hits.

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Getting the most people to come in on your page or something like that. Just relax. Just relax and let things calm down. And then make a point.

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As we raised this issue after it happened, we heard and we read what people were saying, this brother is an example for the Muslims. He's a hero for the Muslims in nananananana. And that's extreme. That's not in the book that's not in the middle. That's not in the middle at all.

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Because without any shadow of a doubt, mixed martial arts the way they do, it is haraam. Allah doesn't love it. Prophet Mohammed doesn't love it. sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Listen, there are many things that prove that you are Muslim. Prove that you have the man you're wearing that phobe is a proof you have you managed shala you stay in in this dance after selecting a shot. You don't get any extra credit. You're not getting an extra credit in university. You're here because you want to be and some of you have your your will do believe in that the melodica asking a lot to forgive you. That's the delille of your Eman. Some of you want to stretch out but you don't put your feet out

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like this.

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You put your feet in because you're respecting the Qibla. And you want to sit like a student of knowledge. And when that was mentioned, some of you put your feet in. That's a sign of a man and Sharla it's a sign of a man, the beard that you have the sign of a man. Many, many signs that prove that you are Muslims in Sharla

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one of the best signs to prove that you have a man is this issue of loving the Muslims and how you love and what you love, who you love. He said as Abdullah Abdullah scroll mentioned sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, alpha Eman and fulfiller will book

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the strongest most important band like a band on your ring, band, circle, institution, the strongest band of any man is loving for Allah and hate him for a lot.

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Love the people you love moderately, the day may come where he is your enemy.

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If your mother and your father fighting and Shewanella Islam, you have to draw a line and take a position against them.

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If your wife or your husband win against this religion, you have to take something and draw a line and you tell them look on Dino comb. When he D, you have to take a position you have to

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and that's why we have all of those I got the Koran many, many, many. You won't find that people believe in a lot in the last day loving those people who wage war against a lion is messenger.

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The curse in the companions gotta draw a line,

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your community, your community, that people will listening to you doing the hook, but they're listening to you. And you know, people believe this, people believe that about the companions or whatever, you have to address the issues. You can try to placate them all the time. Every answer that you give, the answer is trying to make people like you. You don't want to make people not like you intentionally No. But the truth has to be said. So when someone asked you the truth, it's gonna make you unpopular.

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What is the reality of a cell of fear? what you have to say what the truth is? You can't say if I answer it correctly, they're not gonna like me. Now you got that wisdom.

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And some of the two this is this issue. This brother who fought now we have to be balanced. Don't get me wrong. Don't get me wrong now. Mixed Martial Arts, I would advise everybody to learn that.

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Don't be fat. Don't be out of shape. Don't be a person who people can beat you up.

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But watching that stuff, that stuff is more harmful than what Amazon is doing. You know King Khan. No

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Talking about the boxer. That is haram boxing. Mixed Martial Arts is more haram because it's pugilistic breaking people's arms, you understand putting people to sleep knocking them out, not permissible. Not to mention Not to mention the way they dress, the lady walking around the gambling that's going on the camera, all of that stuff is designed to take people away from the remembrance of Allah azza wa jal.

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So what is loving for lon Hayden for law? He says, I love what he was telling them and I have been in law, he will abrogate the law. He was wa Taala line woman and in life after the statement of a man who anyone who loves for law, he's for law gives her a lot and he refuses to give for law he has completely met. Loving for law means you love people according to how close you perceive them being upon the obedience of Allah, and you hate people, based upon your perception of how far they are from the religion.

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So the non Muslim, the non Muslim, you're not going to love the non Muslim more than you hate the worst Muslim. Because although the worst Muslim is far from Ellis lamb, may Allah protect us from that. Nonetheless, he doesn't have chicken coffee, and we got to be fair and balanced. Listen to what we hear. It's not fair. It's not balanced. Listen, because this may be you may be your wife or some your sister,

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the Muslim sister, she wants to Hola. And it's not easy to get a holla because sometimes the brother she's married to he doesn't treat her well as if he wants her and wants to keep her. He treats a bad forces that have come to the masjid here at Green lane, they have this problem. She wants to hold up the economic green name administration, that green man can't just say, okay, you have a whole lot because she walks into the room. They have to call that man up, come in for a meeting. He doesn't come for the meeting. He runs away, he doesn't answer the phone, two months, three months, four months, one year. And she she didn't get a hold a. And she's tired of that. And rightly so. And then

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she gets so tired. She says you know what? You Muslims don't want to help us. You don't want to help the women. You guys are against women. And I should go to the kuffaar because the non Muslims you get justice with them. That's not balanced for her to get upset and to say that.

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What can MSG do? What can the message it really do? You're worried and when the girl can't force him to do that? If he's not cooperating. And it can be her own cousin, her father and uncles. They make that force and you want the message at the force? What are you talking about?

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Can't do that, that statement of hers. I'm going to get justice from the Kufa can't get it. God only the Quran and the Sunni. There's justice there is no justice in you. Were you talking about justice with the non Muslims? Is that just what they're doing to Palestinians that just what they're doing to Iraq and Syria? Is that justice what they're doing? What do you what makes the ladies say that, that anger

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to Muslim businessmen, the same thing? They come to the man, the man judged for one, but it can make the guy give him the money. The brother gets upset. And he says the same thing. I can only get justice with the non Muslims. That's not balanced. That's not fair.

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So we love for law we hate for law based upon many issues. So why is Habib or Habib, the perfect example that the example for the Muslim, the example for the Muslim of the prophets in the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when he made the example for the Muslim or the companions rub the Align home and we judge people based upon that. But we have to be fairing just don't get it twisted and don't misunderstand what I'm saying. One of the reasons that make a lot of Muslims like what happened and support this man is, whenever in an environment right now there's a lot of Islamophobia, where people can talk bad about our religion and misconstrue our religion. Draw

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Muhammad and be disrespectful flower religion, curse our religion and say all kinds of things. And as Muslims of the Sunnah, we say, We hate that, but it's a way we're going to go about showing our displeasure, we're not going to go overboard. Now when you get an individual, one on one in the ring, someone was saying those things, and then he almost cracks his jaw and makes you say, good job. Another thing is, the Muslim knows how the warrior nature of the Muslims used to be

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not like now, while we're countries are trampled upon, the resources of our country is stolen from right under our feet. And we're weak as the Prophet said sallallahu wasallam weak like the form of the ocean, but now we see there's an individual

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Who is not just defeating people, but I have to be honest, he mold that man. You know, tomorrow someone in a ul mall Tim mall decimated that guy. So when a Muslim sees that it reminds him, wow, that's the strength of the Muslim. So that resonates with us. But you have to stay balanced. That doesn't mean MMA doesn't make it. Hallam doesn't make that brother our example. Muhammad Ali rajmata lai la the boxer Muhammad Ali. He used to bag bragged us boxing the man and he told the man say my name is Muhammad Ali. But the man kept saying caches claim he just beat him up,

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beat him up. A lot of Muslims during that time felt proud. Because of that moment, he's not apologizing about his religion. So here you have that brother saying that hamdulillah you have that brother defending is on his religion, his wife, his father, his nephew, so we can understand that, but don't go overboard. Does a lot like or love mixed martial arts, not like that. Well, law he not like that. Not like that at all. So as Muslims as Muslims, we have to be truthful and honest, upright enough, knowledgeable enough to be able to say the truth in those issues. Mixed Martial Arts is haraam like that, watching it like that. Now, if that man had covered up his hour, and was being

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displayed in another way, then it would be even better than boxing it because they always punch in the face and boxing, if they took that out of the equation, just wrestling and all that kind of stuff. That's my religion. If you recall, in the Battle of better the battle better. There was a duel that started the battle off and it was the practice of the Arabs, three people from the Muslims came forward, three people from the non Muslims came forward, and both sides will look in and they were spectators to see what was going to happen. Finally, the two armies met each other. But before there's a melee, these three come in these three come. And when the Muslims defeated those three

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people, what it did in the minds and the hearts and the spirit of the Muslims, it goes to show Yes, when he beat that man up, winning Maltin and did what he did, it made him submit that happiness that the companions felt at that dual, the same kind of happiness that a Muslim will feel someone speaking back about our religion, about our religion. And here we have someone as if he is representing all of us. So we understood that.

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But stop right there. And don't say that he is the example. He's the example in terms of if a Muslim has to hold on to his religion, but you can't say this guy over here is selling drugs. And he's fearless in selling drugs. And he's very smart, the way he's selling drugs. And he made a drug Empire is a Baron. He's a good example for the Muslims know what he's doing? Is he wrong?

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Although in what he's doing, he has it can you know there's a hadith and Allah catalysts and Allah cliche, Allah wrote perfection and everything. So he's doing it with perfection, is that what that had, if meant

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to be perfect drug dealer.

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That's not what that Hadith meant. You can't use that Hadith era contexts. So a person is not a good example in that which is impermissible. It's not a good example, and that which is impermissible. This is what we want to present concerning this third Hadeeth of the 40 Hadith of the Muslim personality. What if we learn stay balance, stay balance. I know people who really love boxing, they could tell you the fights that have taken place from now, this year, all the way to I don't know how many years ago they are experts when it comes to information and how to box but they have enough Dean to say enough game to say but boxing is haram.

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I know some people are very good in chess. Very good chess players. Very good. And chess players. You don't know what you're doing. Those guys will check make you in 789 moves. But they'll say but chess is impermissible. The least is the last but it's impermissible. Don't be one of those people come and you have no fear about how to love and about how to hate. Okay, if any of you guys have any questions, inshallah five minutes to do with your question really quick, about the dose and if not shala. We'll call it a day. Hi Linda Khushi

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for the

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When a person is making sure his application be completely absolutely quiet. This idea that we mentioned as well as the idea that we mentioned in the other eyes of the Quran, Urdu rub beaucoup de de Rama, Hosea 10, no hula Dean, make dua to your Lord, with humility will hopefully attend and quietly, a lot doesn't like those people doesn't love those people and those people go overboard by making too loud. So it's better to make dua quietly when you hear yourself, will you hear it yourself? Will you hear yourself because it's less apt to be a sign of area the person is not showing off. As for just making a dryer within himself, and he's not moving his lips. The scholars

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of Islam said this is not reading in Islam. So when you read for the five prayers, or the silent prayers, you shouldn't stand there reading and hamdulillah in yourself like this and you're just not moving. That's not called al Qaeda to the Arabs. It's not called reading. So you read and you move your lips. So in this instance, he makes low, Unless Unless the situation necessitated or dictated that it should be loud. He's making Dr. Canute or something like that. And the people going to say I mean, he's making too often the member which is the son after the hookah and the people are going to say I mean without raising their hands.

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Any more questions or whining Any more questions?

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For the he

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was the ruin of watching boxing, I'm not gonna say is haram to watch boxing because there can be a situation where the ring and the actual match is being regulated. They have head guards, and they both been instructed, don't hit to the head, don't punch the face. Prophet told the man Salalah when he was sent him got into an argument with another man and he slapped him in his face. And when that man who was slapped came and complained, he said to the companions of the loved one, he will send them a letter to the Bluefin rojo in Allaha, Hara Adam and authority.

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Don't punch people in the face. don't slap in the face, because Allah created Adam in the image of this person who gets slapped in the face. So you have to honor Benny Adam Carolla, Benny Adam, we have honored Adams children and we put them up walking on his feet, put them up. So don't dishonor allows creation by slapping and beating the head being the face. So what happens is, if that's regulated, it's permissible. As for the boxing that you're asking about right now, it's not permissible to sit and to watch those boxing matches. It's not permissible to sit and to watch those boxing matches the way we see it right now. The fighting, trying to knock the people out, it's not

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permissible trying to knock them out, not permissible. It's not permissible, trying to hurt the guy. And we gave a talk about that after our brother, Imran Khan King Khan, when he gave his fight and Liverpool that he won, not permissible. So mixed martial arts is even worse than that. Any more questions? And what if that for the

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average is gonna say but if your wife wants to box you or something like that I was given a sense panel.

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If a lady wants to go to the gym, it's permissible for her to go to the gym. Just have to wait he jobs, you Bab anything like that. But she should stay decent. She doesn't have to cover up all of herself. As long as that there's not going to be any fitna. She knows that there's no CCTV, taking pictures of her taking recordings of her men have access to it. She knows that in the gym, no one is going to go there to tell a man as someone else outside what he saw of her mahasin so it's permissible, permissible for her to appear in front of the women with her arms expose women what she normally wouldn't where she could appear in front of her sisters in front of her daughters like that

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it's permissible even in front of like her servants and things like that. And some of them I said and others slam even women from other religions in the world one nesara but she has to have some level of awareness as to fear lies with Joe. Just fear lies with Joe. She shouldn't go to small Heath Ledger center.

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Over there and go swimming with those people with that which is not appropriate, because she doesn't know if anybody was going in there. So she has to have some level of awareness, some level of comprehension. And we've what she doubts for that where she doesn't vow, but she's one Muslim woman doesn't have to cover up in front of other women provided there's not going to be any fitness. We're going to stop hearing shall lizer Gentlemen, hi, that was a law who was suddenly robotic and in abena Why not only he was hobby he made the brothers of Greenland and ax me yesterday. send out a message about the class encourage people to come to class. Maybe some of you came through. We're

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going to talk about Habib, as it is not about Habib is about loving which is bigger than cubby or Habib, love in a balanced way. And I have to say in your book,