Yasir Qadhi – Mothers of the Believers – Episode 05 – Khadija bint Khuwaylid Part 03

Yasir Qadhi
AI: Summary © The conversation discusses the history and importance of Prophet sallavi's death and the lack of narrations about her. It touches on the loss of the mother of R hangs to her daughter and the difficulty of living outside the city. The speakers stress the importance of writing and the aftermath of the death of Khadija and the Prophet's actions for his success in marriage and life. They also discuss avoiding offense towards the Prophet system and affirming father's statements. The conversation ends with a discussion about the loss of a family member and confusion surrounding their name.
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hamdulillah Isla is niram

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Al Hamdulillah Al Hamdulillah Camden Kathy

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una Masada tuber slim Elon Musk global Kareem

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salatu salam ala rasulillah Allah Allah He will be here.

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So, today inshallah tada we are finishing off the final lecture about Khadija Binti hoilett or the Allahu taala.

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And in the last lecture, I had gone over, in considerable detail the various reports about the beginning of the revelation, and the

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various matches of Khadija de la Juana to console the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam with now from that timeframe, which is of course now we're talking about the first year of the Dawa, up until the death of Khadija, which is essentially 10 years after this, the reality is that we don't have any narrations about her directly. And the reason for this is obvious. And that is because she is living her life in the privacy of the house of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And all that we can do is to reconstruct based upon side narrations based upon other things that are going on. And the one of the reasons why deja or the Allahu anhu has the status that she does, is because she

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was the wife of the Prophet sallallahu sent him during his most critical and stressful time of his life. And this is something that every author of the Sierra mentions. So when you look at the chronicle of the trials of the process, and you look at what was happening outside of the household, and you realize that Khadija is present during each and every one of those external incidents, then you see the role that Khadija plays. And there are a number of trials that are particular. So basically, every single incident of the Sierra, that takes place in the first 10 years, Khadija is directly involved in the household of the processing, but we don't know what's going on. So all that

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we can do is to reconstruct, and of the main things that we know that definitely one of the things that

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rhodiola one had to deal with was the reputation of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam, the ridicule the rejection, had been Abbas said, that howdy Joe was the first to believe in Allah and His Messenger, and the first to support him in his call, she would never hear anything of the corporation's rejection, except that Allah would use her to lift his spirits up meaning the Prophet system and to affirm his resolve, and to make it easy for him. So this is a boss who is one of the household of the Prophet system. He's the cousin of the Prophet says, Adam, and this one narration is really all that we have about all of these various incidents that are taking place of the

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ridicule of the rejection of the persecution of the torture. And Khadija is the one that is consoling the Prophet salallahu it he was sending him. And also there are other things as well that will particularly affect her as a mother, because in the end of the day, things happen to her daughters as well. And in particular, Rokia and omega assume it was a very humiliating incident that you all remember that miracle film before the time of Islam, they had been betrothed to Abu lahab. And of course, before the time of Islam, Abu lahab is a respectable family. He is, you know, one of the elder sons of Abdul but it and it's a very noble match. So you have the daughters of the

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Prophet, Mohammed, then you have the sons of Abu lahab. And as we all know, marriage is a very delicate thing. And when a marriage is turned down, when a marriage does not work out when a marriage is rejected, when after, after the public announcement, and the ceremony takes place. So basically, you know, we call that these days, of course, engagement. But of course, they had their own their own version of that, to have publicly a note, it is a matter of shame that every parent understands, especially when it comes to daughters. And this is exactly what happened, that

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a Buddha basically demanded from his two sons that you are going to, you know, reject the daughters of Mohammed, never will their daughters come to my household. And so both of the sons, they complied, the older one of them he did so in a somewhat gentleman, gentlemanly manner, and the younger one, wrote a business name, the younger one actually publicly announced to humiliate and to make a big deal of it that I know that I have rejected Mohammed and the message of Mohammed and the daughter of Mohammed. So he made a very, you know, crude manner to reject, you know, Omakase film rhodiola hotel.

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Lana, and although this is taking place when Khadija is alive, we don't know how she reacted, but it is understood you don't need to know me, obviously, this is a mother. And now her daughter's reputation. Her daughter's honor is being besmirched. And by the way, when this happened, you know, the process of made against this younger brother, not the older one, because the older one, basically just did it in whatever dignified manner could be done, he made against the younger one. And it's so happened, obviously one of the processes against somebody, it is also generally accepted by Allah subhana wa Taala. And so either a lion or a rabid dog attacked this son of Abu lahab, on

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one of his journeys to Syria, and he died a miserable death which was going to happen when the prophets Allah said, it makes two against you. So this is things that are happening now. Obviously, one requires marriage, betrayal was ended. So then we'll call you married with mine, as we know about the law to align her. And one of the painful things that would have happened is the departure of Rokia from the household of Khadija and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And remember, in those times, no, we are accustomed to traveling. I've said this multiple times for us to go to another city. Most of us not, maybe all of us, in fact, are not from the city we live in right now.

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And that's the nature of the world today, realize that that was not the nature of their world, that for generations for 30 generations, 20 generations, these people have been living in Makkah, and it's not something that is common that your family leaves you you live with your family and that is why it's such a big deal that they made hedgerow That is why those who made hedgerow Tabby SR are given such a high level and there was a toll affected on the people who left under a year was of those who left and again we can only imagine the pain, the separation, the crying, the loneliness, the frustration between mother and daughter, that Rokia has to leave, she is the only daughter of

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the Prophet sallallahu Sallam who migrated to Abbey sr, obviously with her husband are a matter of the law one and

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during as well. In all likelihood, it is possible we're going to come to this at the end. But maybe even the children of Rokia maybe even have deja did not see them, whether she saw them or not to her own grandchildren. I'll discuss towards the end of this as well. Also of the major incidents during this timeframe that Khadija was a part and parcel of was the time of the boycott, the time of the the encampment in the shop and the body of the venue Hashem, which is basically an area that the Banu Hashim had claimed for their own and it is outside of MCC. And as you all remember, what had happened is that when the boycott took place, the boycott basically said, we will not sell food and

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water, we will not sell merchandise to the venue Hashem. So how can you live when you cannot buy food? You cannot buy anything? How can you live when all you're ostracized, and so the bundle Hashem said, if that is the case, we will live outside the city. And so for two or three years, the books say either two or three, maybe two and a half years, the Muslims lived outside the city, the bundle Hashem now, Khadija not being brainwashing by blood, she does not have to be with the boycott, okay, but obviously, even the thought of basically going back to her tribe cannot even cross her mind. She is basically now the wife of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And so she seeks out a very,

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very difficult existence. And of course, I've gone over this incident in detail. And we know that this was that those two years were one of the most difficult times in all of early Islam. And the stories that are mentioned are truly horrendous, that they would be forced to eat leaves from the trees, or that at one point in time, one of the Sahaba found a scrap of leather, basically an animal skin, and he became so happy that he boiled it and would drink that, you know, for days that now I have something or that, you know, one of the Sahaba said that we would dedicate like goats like we just get droppings like goats, just like that we don't have anything to eat. And of course, the the

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mechanism by which Allah xojo protected them and they survived was the generosity of those who disobeyed the boycott. Some people disobeyed the boycott, and they still supplied the Muslims. And one of them who disobeyed the boycott was the nephew of Khadija, and that is Hakeem in his arm. So Hakeem even his arm was one of the people who occasionally was able to smuggle in goods occasionally was able to send you know merchandise or send you know, and also multivitamin ID these are the two main people must have an ID as well. Once in a while he would in the middle of the night to go and load some food onto a camel and then send it into the the valley so that the Muslims could then eat

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for weeks or months on end with what was on there. And Hakeem even his arm was one of those people and it is narrated that once I came in his arm, was caught with his slave basically

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Walking towards the shop and Abuja has stopped him. And Abuja has said, Are you taking food to buy new Hashem will law, he that's not going to happen, I will stop you and I will embarrass you, meaning I'm going to expose you for going against the boycott, and one of the other corporations, and his name comes up in a number of times. And he is also of the main people who helped cancel the boycott. And his name was Teddy and I mentioned his name multiple times as well. And he seems to be one of those who did not really persecute the Muslims. He was a, we call them the noble enemies, I call them base, basically those that didn't resort to the slander and the fear mongering and the

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persecution, I will block that he is one of the very few. So by the way, I have said this many times that generally speaking, the noble enemies were guided and the ignoble ones or not, I said, this is the general rule. There are always exceptions. So for example, it could, Emma is one of the exceptions. He was one of the bad guys, Allah guided him to Islam. I will say that he was an exception. On the other way, I will say that he was generally one of the good kafirs, meaning he never persecuted, he never spat, he never threw things on the Muslims. And he in fact, worked to help the Muslims, including right now we'll see. And also he was one of the main people who

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engineered the destruction of the boycott the paper that was theirs. That was the destroyer of evocati. So he's generally on the good side. Yet Allah willed, He never embraced Islam. And in the Battle of butter, he in fact, could have been saved. But he said, let not the people say that, you know, my friends were killed, and I just stood here while they were killed, go ahead and kill me as well. So there was an element of, you know, I guess we would call it patriotism, that sense of like, principles that are loyal to tribe. That's what he was like, I'm loyal to my tribe. So he was against persecuting Muslims out of a sense of tribal loyalty, not because he believed in the

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London's messenger, nothing to do with that. It's just a matter of these are our people. This is my tribe. Why should we hurt our tribe should be one. So I went back to the CS Hakeem and Abuja, basically having it one on one, I will buck 30, intervenes, and he says, oh, Buddha Hill, here is a man wanting to help his aunt towards his aunt Khadija here is a man wanting to help his aunt, right? his and his holla is there are you going to stop him from giving her food? So here Khadija comes in, basically as a secondary person, like in this sense, the story is not about her, it's about her nephew, and her indirect mentioned comes up and Abu Jamal refused to let the the the the caravan go.

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And so I will book that he in fact, takes out his you know, whip and he hits a Boogeyman, and they have a fight together. This shows you how again, I will walk the desert interesting character. Maybe we'll have a story about him. But he didn't die Muslim, so I can't really talk about him in lives of the Sahaba. But he's one of them who now he physically defends Hakeem to send the food in and opposes Abuja, and lets the food go in. And the thing that he uses is this is food for his art, are you going to stop him from giving food to his or not one type of person? Are you in this regard. So again, these are one of the things that we see about Khadija or the Allahu taala. And now it appears

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that those two years or three years they exacted a toll on Khadija it appears that those years really harmed her deja immensely, because in the end of the day, food is scarce, you know, difficult situations, they're living basically intense. There's no permanent structures that are built there. And therefore, in the 10th, year of the DA, not to hedgerow, the 10th year of the Dow, which is two and a half years before the hedgerow the boycott is lifted, and the Muslims come back into America. But Khadija passes away, essentially, very shortly after the boycott. Okay. So it appears therefore, that the toll of the boycott and the harsh realities of living in that, you know, outside that land

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for two years, and the scarcity of food and all of this, it appears that it was just too much for her deja vu alota unhappy and so in the month of Ramadan, in the 10th year of the doubt was a, this was, by the way, the same month that I will be either passed away, or some say, father passed away in Siobhan. So there's two opinions. Some say that I will thought it passed away in Ramadan of the same year in which case Khadija dies three days after him. So there's two opinions. Either Khadija dice six weeks after, I will call him or her did Jesus three days, three days after six weeks or three days. So the timeframe between obatala and Khadija is a very, very short timeframe. And on in

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the month of Ramadan. In the 10th year of the data, Khadija passes away, and she was either 65 or 53. As you mentioned two episodes ago, the whole controversy over the age both ages are mentioned and I explained to them

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In my humble opinion, the 53 ages is more correct but both are narrated in the classical books either 65 or 53. And at that age, the prophet system is 50 years old. Okay when that happens he is by unanimous consensus. He is 50 years old, and she is she is buried in their graveyard of early mcca. And their graveyard at that time it was called June or June, and it is now called a modular graveyard. But back then it was called June and the Prophet salallahu it he was setting them himself buried her with his own hands, and there was no janaza legislated at that time. Hakeem in his um, narrates that Khadija This is his nephew, the same one. He himself narrates that Khadija died in the

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10th year of the Tao of the call in the month of Ramadan, and we took her from her house to allergen so he is participating in the janazah. We took her from her house to her June, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam himself, descended into her grave and himself put her body and basically covered her up. And Hakeem himself says,

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at that time, the son of Salatu janaza had not been legislated. So we didn't do janaza Okay, so Khadija there was no Genesis not because of any reason other than the concept of serrato janaza began in Medina, there was no other janaza in Makkah, so Hakeem clarifies why there wasn't sold out to janessa, one of his students said, When did she die, and he said, she died before the hedgerow by three years after they returned from the shop by a very short period of time. Hakeem was not in the boycott, he was in Muslim I remember his insight to the city. So he came is not in the boycott game is in the city. And when he is asked, he says, Khadija dies three years before they hit it off, and

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a short time before, you know after the return of the Muslims from the shop. So essentially,

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a digital the olana dies around 606. So 609 C, basically 610 c Around this time, so she dies, basically at the turn of the seventh century. Ce II, and event is how, mentions the famous phrase that have been his health tells us and I mentioned this back in the when we did the syrup that both Khadija and Abu Talib, they died in the same year. And the agonies and difficulties piled up on the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam because of the death of Khadija This is how writing because Khadija died, the other problems that used to be resolved now began to pile up, because she was there was you to sit in the true helper and friend to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So

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essentially, the death of Khadija obviously, was a very difficult moment in the life of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And again, this is something well known that I will thought it was his supporter outside of the household. Khadija was his supporter inside of the household. And Allah willed that the both of them die within the span of a few days, maybe even or maximum a few weeks. And that is why the tragedy and the shock and the distress was so much that the whole year is called

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the year of sorrow. And it is said, there's I didn't find an actual it's not. But it is said in some of the ancient early books that the Prophet system was not seen happy for almost a year like there wasn't a smile coming from him after that time, and that is fully understandable that it was a year of distress, a year of sorrow, that the grief of the loss of verbal body and the grief of Khadija was simply a very, very distressing moment. And this is one narration that I did find, and we'll talk about this narration and next halaqaat inshallah, because it deals with soda rhodiola Anna, how will a venti Hakeem comes to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and she is the one who's going

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to start the marriage initiation so than others, so she says Yasuda law after her deja you appear to be in distress, you appear to be sad, after Khadija means I wanted to cheer you up. And so he said, Yes, she was my partner. She was the one who you know, more of beer today. She's helping me in the house. And then

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how it goes on and says, Why don't I marry you too? And then so then so that we'll talk about next week? insha Allah who Tada. So this is the life of a digital de la vida. verde already mentioned some of her blessings. And I'm not going to go over the ones that are mentioned in detail. But obviously, some of the main ones that I do need to reiterate is that she is one of the few people who recognized the beauty of our Prophet sauce and them even before he became a prophet. She is like, literally when she's introduced to the man. Then she realizes this is not a normal, you know, regular human immediately. She wants to, you know,

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Tire for the two caravans and journeys. And then she sees the good o'clock. And then she is the one who makes sure that, you know she's going to marry the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And of course, therefore, not surprisingly, she's the first to believe she's the first to pray already all of this I mentioned last week I went over the whole psychological impact. And I still reiterate what I said last week, that if some psychiatrists and psychologists goes over that narration and expounds it even more how profound and mature it was, what the digital the loved one had did, and how she supported the Prophet. So I said to them, also of the things that the books of Tafseer mentioned,

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some scholars have mentioned that Khadija is indirectly referenced in the Oran universe that we all know that while we're Jeddah Ln fOr Elena, what were Jeddah, Ln fOr Elena, we found you without any money poor is without any money for Elena, and we gave you plenty of wealth. And the scholars of tafsir say that this is a reference to Khadija rhodiola Juana that Allah subhana wa tada is saying for other now, I gave you her deja. Okay, how do you choose the one who supported you? And this has proven and the famous Hadith as well of the Prophet system in which you said that she supported me with her money, she supported me with her money. So this too, is then something that allows our job

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mentions Khadija indirectly, this is a blessing for her that Allah says we gave you wealth basically, through Khadija, and of the things as well even hedger mentions this, that have her blessings is that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was always cognizant of her favours upon him. He was always aware that she did him a very many, many blessings and favors and of the ways that he then showed the favor that Khadija has over him is that he never married another lady throughout the life of Khadija, and even 100 comments. So Allah protected her from the regular that Khadija was protected from what a natural feeling is going to happen. You know, our mother Ayesha,

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all the other mothers are

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hiding him Jimmy on that they've had these natural feelings, but a lot protected her deja from ever having that. And not only because of the strong love that he had for her, but also and this is a very interesting point that some people have alluded to. And it's a very interesting point. So the question arises, why didn't the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam marry more women in the mccunn phase? And as we all know, he was younger at that stage as well. Why did all of the multiple lives come in the Medina and phase one, he's basically 53 years old, and and beyond this, you know, generally speaking, is to the younger man who wants to marry and it was the norm in that time. And

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in that society, it's nothing Islam came with for Islam restricted for as we know, Islam, restricted for Abdulmutallab had five, you know, this was the norm that people had multiple wires at that time. Nothing was strange at that yet, our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam never took another wife while her deejo was alive. And some allude, and this is a very interesting point. And the end, we don't know is just an assumption that is not just because of the strong love that he had for after all, he loved Ayesha as well. But it's also because he wants to show her the gratitude because in the end of the day, it is her finances that supported him. And so she is the financial supporter and

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provider. So it would not be appropriate for him to then repay that generosity, that she's the one who supported him because at the end of the day, it was her house. And it was her to Jada that gave them money in so now to use that money. And it is now obviously it's his money as well, because he's married, obviously, so is their money together. But the point is, at the end of the day, she is the one who agreed to do this. So for him to use that favor, and then in a way in a way, not not turn it against her but do something that's going to cause her hurt, that wouldn't have been proper etiquette, proper adapt, and so to repay the generosity or to show the favors upon him or to

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acknowledge the the the blessings that Khadija had done. This is one of the reasons that our Prophet sallallahu I said never took another wife. When he goes to Medina, he has his own income. When he goes to Medina, he is not beholden to any of his wives financially, as he was in Makkah. And so in Makkah, there is this element of acknowledging the blessings of Khadija and the favors that you had done by not hurting her by protecting her feelings. And so there's an extra respect and rank that is given to her that none of the other wives work given. Also I mentioned as well last week, and I want to reiterate this

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pointed it's very important that when Allah says in the Quran in UD de la Who do you have an como rich lol bait allow us to purify you from all filth. Oh lol bait and the famous Hadith of the cloak, who is in that cloak, ID and Fatima and has said and Hussein and the Profit System and all of them their common linkage is Khadija Khadija has raised it since it was a child and Fatima is the daughter of Khadija and Mohammed Islam is the wife husband of Khadija and has an understanding of their grandchildren. So when Allah is saying, Allah wants to purify you or Hillel Bates, Khadija is included in that because by text of who the keys are, who the cloak enshrouded, they are all ages,

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children, grandchildren, husband, so therefore Khadija is included in this verse as well. And so Allah wants to purify Khadija, as well and to make her Utah hero come talk hero to purify you a very blessed purity. And as well the famous Hadith in Sahih Muslim that and by the way, interesting point, most of the blessings of Khadija are narrated by two Sahaba. Okay, most not all, most of them. Number one is either the law one why Ali? Because Ali is raised in the household. And Ali knows Khadija is like a second mother to Ali. And number two very interestingly, Asia very interestingly, why we will see in a while. Okay, so of the blessings of Khadija, and I'm going to

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coach you now basically all of the Hadith that I came across about the blessings of Khadija many of them are Bukhari and Muslim so of the blessings in Sahih Muslim audio the Allahu anhu said that he heard the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam say

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the best of its ladies is muddy and Benton and Milan and the best of its ladies is Khadija Binti hoilett and I did on the last one pointed to the heavens and pointed to the earth. So the best of its ladies is Marian been to Milan and the best of its ladies, is Khadija been decoded now this idea is interesting because we have an explicit Hadith that out of the four mentioned two are even at a higher level. Okay, and that is Maria and Khadija so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam then restricted the best of all ladies of the heavens and the earth are Imodium, vintera and blonde and have deja Binti hoisted and this Heidi doesn't say Muslim. And one of the things as well that has

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been mentioned. And I've mentioned this again multiple times is that the the the jealousy that I Chateau de la Juana had of Khadija and interestingly enough, most of the blessings of Khadija are narrated by Arusha.

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Why, because she is the one who is hearing these things from the Prophet salallahu alayhi wasallam. And it is,

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obviously, she feels a jealousy that has had to feel. And yet years later, when it's time to narrate them, she narrates them. And this shows us as well the amount of our issue of the law and she didn't have to narrate them. But in the end of the day, she heard this from the prophet SAW Selim, and she's feeling something in her heart. And so I'll mention three or four of the famous narrations from our issue of them is a body this one isn't soluble hottie that issue said Mother needed to either I had a minister and Debbie mal here to either Khadija I was never as jealous over any of the wives of the Prophet system as much as I was jealous over Khadija one, a too hot and I never saw

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her. Now remember this because in three, four weeks, we're going to come back to the very big controversy of our times how old was Russia? And that's something that I'll get to when I get to but remember this phrase here, this isn't cyber hottie and Sahih Muslim, both of them with difficulty and Khadija is saying, I never saw her, right? I shouldn't saying sorry. I never saw her. So I was explicitly denying, never even saw Khadija, okay? And that's because Aisha was four years old, five years old when he passed away as we're going to come to, so I never even saw Russia, but I was still more jealous of her than all of the other wives. And that is because the Prophet sallallahu alayhi

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wa sallam would always mention her. And that's why so many a hadith about Khadija narrated from Asia. I choose when narrating, because she remembers and she's a lady and it, you know, she feels something and yet when the time comes, she narrates them, and sometimes it would so happened that he would sacrifice a goat, and he would then gift some of the meat of the goat to the Friends of her Dejah to the Friends of Khadija, and it's so happened that I once said to her, as one said to him, that is there no other lady in the world besides Khadija

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Is there no other lady besides Khadija and the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam said she was like this and she was like this. So I could not narrate what he was saying, in the cabinet in her cabinet praising, and I should just covers it up. She was like this, she was like this, and Ayesha does not tell us the exact phrases, but one of the things that she says, and he said that Allah blessed me with children through her, Allah bless my children through her. And we have as well a hadith that is narrated in such a body that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Khadija came to him with a container of food or a drink, and gibreel came to the Prophet salallahu it he was setting them and

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said, Yeah, Rasulullah Hadid is going to come to you with some food when she comes, then send her the Salaam from her Lord and from me. Okay, this hadith is in Bahati and also as a version of it is in Muslim as well. When she comes then give her Salaam from her Lord and from me. What by should have a tiffin agenda team in possib in LA Sahaba fee How was hawala nossob This is a famous famous Hadith because it rhymes and it sounds good what but should have be baiting female gender demon possibe Sahaba v Howard nossob and give her glad tidings of a house in Jenna made out of Sahaba and there is no a made out of Kasab and there is no sahab and nossob in there. What is all of this So,

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give her glad tidings of a house in Jenna made out of a sub plus sub is the outer layer of a pearl and so basically the house will be made out of pearls. So is going to be a Mojo wolf is a carved out pearl. So her house will be externally made out of pearls. Last Sahaba was nossob there will be no sahab or nossob sahab is clamoring loud noise, and nossob is tiredness and toiling. So the houses of Jenna there's not going to be the din and the noise all the time. You know, people are screaming outside or things are happening or the commotion taking place, there will be peace and quiet. And also there will be no no sub tiredness because, again,

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every single person, especially house housewives, does those that have to cook or whatnot, or house husbands however have to be gender equal these days, right? So whoever is doing the cooking and cleaning, they know how irritating it gets to do all of the cooking and cleaning is the number one complaint of the one who does it all the time. It's tiring, it's a chore so there will be no necessity to engender. It's not going to you don't have to worry about the dishes in general. Okay, no dishes in general hamdulillah everything's taken care of. You don't have to wash and cook and clean. So Khadija is being told that Allah has prepared for you a house in Jenna made out of pearls.

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And there won't be any noise any you know, problems and there will also not be any tiredness and any toil. So this hadith in Bukhari and Muslim and it is one of the greatest blessings of Khadija, this hadith.

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So Haley, the famous author of Syrah he uses this hadith to prove that Khadija is the best Lady of all times, including over our other mothers because none of the other mothers were sent Salaam by Allah directly like Khadija none of the other women at the time were sent Salam By Allah, other than Khadija. So Judy comes down, and he tells the process of Khadija is coming with a plate of food and tell her that her Lord is giving her Salaam and that I am giving her Salaam as well.

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No other lady has that blessing that Allah is giving salams to her directly. We don't know any other lady in the entire Sierra, where this is taking place. And therefore Khadija as well becomes one of the mobis Charlottesville Jenna

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when I did those, the Hadith of the 10 promise Jenna, I cleared up a misunderstanding that many Muslims have many Muslims that there's only tend to over promise gender, no, there are many who are promised gender over 30 or promise agenda that we know from authentic IDs. And hadiya is one of them. And one of the first ladies as well that has been promised gender. So Khadija has been promised gender as a lady, and that's one of the rare things most of those that have been promised gender and the title the process of our men and body and Muslim has this that but should have the beta into genetti.

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Bin oslob in LA Sahabi. We'll see how well and awesome sunon Anissa II and also the other book was said that I can hack him they have hideous response, the response is not in body, but as soon as it will have the response and the response is the famous responses.

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Very beautiful response that when the prophets of Salaam said jabril has come, and he has said Allah has sent him to give you his, and jubilees salam as well hadiya automatically responded in Allahu wa sallam, wala gibreel As salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa salam O Rama. Okay, so in Allahu wa sallam, why did you be a Salam? Why they care rasulillah salam O Rama and even hedger comments that this response demonstrates the superiority of Heidegger's intellect over that of the majority of the Sahaba the superiority of hostages and understanding over the majority of this Harbor, because this is early Islam, it is the Macan phase 10 years later, or maybe five years later, when Allah subhana

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wa Tada, basically, or sorry, not when, when the Sahaba began to pray, and they are told to praise Allah in the Tisha hood. Okay, so they are told that in the child you must praise Allah. So the Sahaba began praising Allah by saying a salam alayka Allah Assalamu alayka Allah, okay, this is how they are praising Allah Assalamu alayka Allah and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam corrected them. And he taught them that the Shah who decided in Bahati that this is five, six years later in Medina, and the Sahaba don't know how to praise Allah. And so they're saying As salam, O Allah, and the process of them said, that no, don't say Assalamu alayka Allah because Salam comes from Allah rather say,

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adhere to the law was salatu salam or aleikum. nebby, not to celebrate Allah, right and then the head it goes on. So he taught them to the show, so that the Shahada was taught when the Sahaba did not know how to praise Allah. And they said, As salam, O Allah, Allah, the process of how to teach them, you don't do that

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Hadith without being taught, without being spoon fed, her intellect and her fitrah instinctively understood, and I want you to really think about this, that it is really a sign of a very deep and profound understanding. Because the average Muslim and I have heard with my own ears, something good happens to the average Muslim such as I call ahead Allah, like, what do you mean just collected Allah? Allah gives Just who are you to say just like, no, they're innocent Muslims, but that's not how you thank Allah. You don't say jazak Allah, Allah Allah, but it's the ignorance and just the good you just want to do something as well. Okay? And you you hear many ignorant things, you know,

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oh, Allah, just give me this. I won't ask you anything more after this. What are you talking about? You need a love for every breath. What do you mean, you're not going to ask for anything more? Don't allies, not stingy allies get him. But again, these are ignorant. The you don't know how to ask a lot. The other is not there. You're not taught the other you need to be taught the other Khadija rhodiola Juana her. Her intellect was way superior than the Sahaba. So when on the spur of the moment, jabril is the news comes that Allah is sending Salaam and the immediate response to rewild acres set him no she didn't. She didn't. Because she understood. How can you say Salaam to Allah

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when Allah Himself is Salaam? How can you return salams from the one who gives it? So there's nothing to be done other than praise Allah because he is a Salaam. So she didn't say Wiley casa mia Allah. She said in the law who was Salam. And this again shows the man the the leader, the Tory, the intellect, the IQ will go on and on. This is really a profound lady. Instinctively without thinking she immediately says in the law who was Salam Allah Himself is a Salaam Salaam comes from Allah He is the source of setup. I cannot say why like, I will simply praise a law by acknowledging he is the source of a sentiment. So in the law who was sent out, but Salaam can be sent to mahalo. So why why

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Allah jubileus salam. So she is now speaking to God in the third person, because she cannot see God. So she says, Why did you leave the salon? Then she goes to the first person. Why are they clear? rasulillah salam again, how beautiful this is right? She cannot see God right now. So she says, and upon Jubilee to set up then why are they clear? rasulillah salam wa Rahman also a Rama, she adds a Rama as well to the so this again shows us the profundity of Khadija or the Allahu taala and and of course already mentioned the famous Hadith in the Muslim by Mohammed, but this is a bit longer. So I mentioned to you that even Abbas said that once the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam drew four

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straight lines in the sand, and he said Do you know what these four lines signify? They said a line is messenger. No, no best and he said a floater. Lisa Ellen Jen net

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Khadija Binti hoilett without him I've been to Mohammed bin to Milan well as he had been the Messiah him in Morocco around so he drew four lines in the sand and He then said the best of all women of gender are and he mentioned the four. So this hadith mentions the four and additon Timothy as well mentioned this club wouldn't come with them in originally, Kathy, what a miracle Mona Lisa in our bar, many are the men who perfected their Eman throughout history, but amongst women only four have perfected their Eman that he mentioned these four okay. So once again we have these four are are mentioned very explicitly together. And

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of them as well as the, as we said the the blessings of hudy generated via Chateau de la Juana. And Aisha was the one who said in Sahih Muslim there's a hadith that the Prophet says and never married any lady while he was with Khadija until she passed away. We already know this. Why is our issue saying this because Isha feels that is a superiority that Khadija had that Khadija was alone with the process that she never had to share the profit system so I she is the one telling us that as long as the process was with Khadija he never married any other lady and again there is this sense of positive jealousy is hella nothing wrong with any of this. And as well, we have in Sahaja Bahati

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sorry this was sorry not in sideboard This one is in Mr. COVID had come that I should have said that once an old lady came to visit the prophets I send them and when she came across them said men Auntie Who are you? And she said, I am just some just sama Amazonia. Now just sama in Arabic. It means the one that is very, no manners very coarse, very, like she doesn't she's not refined. And as you know, in j Hillier, it was common to name your child a negative connotation. You thought you thought that they would save the evil Sheltie in the in the evil eye and something so this is their superstition, and is still around, unfortunately, in some Muslim cultures that parents say bad

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things about their kids. And those are luck, Jackie, you know, so they put they put their kids down or something and it doesn't. This is not from the traditions of Islam. But the point is that it was pre Islamic custom that you would name your children that the negative names, so just sama means the course the mannerless the one that is going to be rude and obnoxious like that. So she said I am just sama Amazonia. So the profitsystem said, No, you are a son Amazonia has son and he the one who is good and what not. How are you pay for health care for America? How's everything? How have you been since we last met? And he was polite and kind with her and he our issues are a kindness that

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you know she did not expect? And she the the old lady has center. She thanked a lot and she praised the processor when she said May my mother and father be given and sacrifice for your rasulillah when she left it, she said I use a comms. Why this kindness who is the stranger? What is this kindness. And so the prophet SAW Selim said she used to visit us in the time of Khadija she one of her teachers friends. She used to visit us in the time of Khadija and keeping good relations is a part of a man. Okay, this is a beautiful Hadith memorize it. Keeping good relations is a part of a man. What does it mean keeping good relations as a part of a man? It means that

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geothermal used to be

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howdy just friends, good friend. And now the hostage is gone. So my loyalty to Khadija and my Eman in Allah subhana wa tada to reflect the love that I had with Khadija a part of Iman, is to keep good relations with the Friends of Khadija. Right? So he is explaining to Asia that just because of Khadija so obviously how she's feeling like okay, Khadija is friend now she gets this VIP treatment because of this, right? So we see all of these incidents coming from our Asia. But it was one incident that as the proverb goes, is the straw that broke the camel's back. That was one incident that I could not take it anymore. And that was the one time that the Prophet salallahu idea he was

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setting them got irritated at her. But before that there's another one in Sahih Muslim it is mentioned that once the process of you know, gave some some gifts to the Friends of Khadija, and she became irritated and said, Will you stop mentioning Khadija Will you stop thinking of Khadija and the process and smiled and said and there's a famous phrase and it's just like a Muslim? In New ruzicka to Baja. Okay, it's a beautiful phrase in me who loses to hope. I have been like Allah has sustained me that is Allah has given me okay. Allah has given me the risk of her love.

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Okay, so he called her love it is from Allah sustenance from Allah. Okay, so our issue is getting irritated that every time a gift comes every time money comes every time you get some meat, the first people you think of is Khadija is there no lady other than Khadija in this world one time she said, this is what he says, right? Is there any lady other than Khadija, and the process of them? Let it go? No big deal. She's not saying anything bad. She's feeling. And by the way, all the way out, one of the famous scholars of Andalus he remarks on this, that this feeling of Arusha, we should not at all criticize her, it is natural and normal, and it does not affect your status and

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human in the eyes of Allah. This is natural jealousy between co wives, and it does not diminish the amount of Arusha that she feels a little bit of jealousy. It's Hello, jealousy in the sense, she wants to process that love more. And so she wants that attention more, nothing wrong, that she feels are always mentioning Khadija Is there any other lady besides Khadija. So the process have said in the Rosarito Baja, that you can translate it in two ways that

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her love has nourished me, that's a beautiful understanding of the Hadith as well, right? Or that Allah has blessed me, through her love. Both of them are there, okay? And it's a very powerful Hadith that shows the importance really, and I mentioned this in the first half as well, that Allah Zoysia created, you know, men to really, if they have a loving and caring wife, this is something that really changes the dynamics for them. And this is why Khadija de la Juana has that status, that she really supported the process. And now we have from his own mouth, his blessing tongue, we have the admission that her love sustained me. Her love was what helped me when I needed, you know, so

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much of so in a resume too bad. But as we said, as we all know, alluded to this many times, there was one incident that Ayesha

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she could not. What's the polite way of saying this as well? The only she said things she should not have said and she regretted Okay, rest of it are processing overlooked. And this is interesting, by the way, all of the other incidents, he lets it go, no big deal. But the one time that he sallallahu Sallam became genuinely irritated was when that red line was crossed. Okay. Little bit of jealousy is normal little bit of like, do you have to think of her all is there? No other lady, okay, no big deal. But the one time that I show her jealousy really got the better of her. It is mentioned in every book of Hadith disciple hidesign Muslim was named Mohammed. And there's a number of reports

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that mentioned it together. And basically, I'm going to have all of them in Arabic, but there's no point going over each and every one of them. The point is that he says one day the process of them was with me, and had been to Hawaii led to her deja came to visit. See, that was the one time where he's the the expressions on his face and the tenderness that came out. Ayesha could not control her jealousy. When she saw what she saw on that day. That was when she said what she said, and so had a came and asked the Prophet, so certain permission, and just hearing her voice, just hearing her voice. The process of them said, Allahu mahadasha. Like she's just thinking Allahumma harleigh. And

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just when she said that Heidi just said for him to I had a jealousy just by hearing Hylas voice holla.

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Holla is the sister What am I saying?

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I just said just by hearing Honda's voice does what I said, I'll say it again. Okay. I just said, just by hearing Hylas voice, and the expression on the process, Adams face. I felt a level of jealousy that I had never felt and how that came and sat down and the process of them fell out of America. He's polite and kind, you know, to her until when she loves it. She's controlling herself, right? She's just waiting. The guest has to leave. Okay, then when she left, that was when it lashed out. Okay. And her anger is building up and the anger itself is halaal or the jealousy is off is hella what she said was she is forgiven all of this is forgiven. It's not something that is going to

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be more hospitable and the irritation of the process and understandable as well so these are things that shallow there's no hisab over this basic stuff that is something that between husband wife these things happen no problem. So I shuttle de la Juan has said that I felt as if zero and that's the jealousy I had never felt before. And I said will you stop mentioning? I use magic is your crush. An old lady from you know the

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Ladies of orange hamara Shalane and they basically, I don't want to try that every phrase here, but really what she said was that she's an old hag like that's basically what you're saying, okay? She described her in a manner that you describe old ladies in a derogatory manner, the cheeks are going down, you know, the, the teeth are falling out, you get the point, okay? And she said, I never saw Khadija is just her own, you know, projection, basically. Okay? She never saw her. She just angry and she's just saying whatever she wants to say halachot for she died, you know, years ago, she died an ages ago. And Allah has given you someone better than her.

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So, her the issue said, our issue said that I saw the Prophet systems face change, like it never changes except when the wind is coming down. Or when there is the time of war, like something like, you know, jihad or something that the processor will not get angry for personal issues. That's his sooner or he never get angry. But now he felt Khadija his honor insulted. Now he felt his wife's on receive the previous things. Look at what he said. She said before, will you stop thinking what is no big deal? Okay, everything howdy tjahaja. No big deal. But this phrase, which I'm not going to repeat, you get the point these phrases, this, the process, Trump's face changed its expression. And

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I never saw him get that angry, except you know, when something big is happening. And He then said that law will law he know by a law, a law did not give me someone better than her. Like, be careful what you're saying. No, by Allah. Allah did not give me someone better than her. For she believed in me when everybody just believed in me. And she affirmed me when everybody comes up and he rejected me. And she gave me her wealth when no one else gave me wealth. And she gave me children. Allah bless me children through her when our children have been basically deprived from all other ladies, you know, than her. And so I she said after that Carlos never, never more is it going to be

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mentioned? Okay. She learned her lesson. Like you cannot compete with Khadija Khadija has a status that nobody else you know, has it again, like we said, these are things that are forgiven, you know, and these we should not read into this about the status of Arusha natural to feel this way natural to become irritated and natural. The defense of the Prophet system all of these are things that are just narrated, and it is a sign of issues. Also maturity that when the time comes many decades later, she narrates this Hadeeth she didn't have to. And if she didn't, we would never know, because she was the only one who's a witness. He's the only one there. The fact that she narrates it, even

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those to her own detriment. And I have multiple times shown as well the character of Ayesha and that's what we have in the Hadith in Sahih Bukhari as well. That's the process and it mentions the blessings of, of medium and high deja and then he says, and the blessings of Arusha over all other ladies is like the superiority of studied over all other food and 13 was their best food. Okay, it was a combination of

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bread and and and, you know, meat and whatnot. So basically I joke This is their banana. Okay, and I mean it it's a semi serious joke, it is their banana. Okay, the out I was like, What is banana? You don't know what you're missing with this video. Okay, may Allah bless you with the video any agenda even better than what we have in shall okay. So that so it's just superiority over all other ladies. So the point is that even Lucia is blessing and we're going to get to her blessings as well. And this is a part of her blessings. She talks about the blessings of Khadija imagine that most of the Hadith about Khadija come from Asia, including, by the way, the hadith of Korra and Zen Maloney and

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death Irani and Hadi Djokovic, this is coming from Asia, because the process is telling I issued the stories, and then I should tells us the story. So again, we see as well the film and the and the superiority of Arusha as well. So and again to to to basically conclude as well, because I wanted to squeeze this in. And I will, you know, I mean, come back to this point later on. But I wanted to squeeze in this, this issue very quickly as well, that who are the we know who the children of Khadija are? Who are the grandchildren of Khadija, and these are the grandchildren of the Prophet salallahu idea, send them as well.

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And unfortunately, sadly, most Muslims are totally ignorant of the names of maybe even the children definitely the grandchildren. Hardly any Muslim knows the names of the grandchildren of the process of Khadija, and they only had very few so we should all memorize them. So even if I've done this before,

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I think it's healthy to go over it because I really want all the Muslims to the family of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So as we know how dangerous two sons they did not grow, they did not have children. So Khadija has four daughters the process of his four daughters, so very quickly, we should know all of their names. The eldest daughter is zeyneb. The eldest daughter is Dana and Dana married Xena married

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above us Ebner robbia, who is the son of the same high that we talked about, okay.

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Alice's the harlot son, right, her teachers, daughters, Khadija sisters, son, and Xena what else were married pre Islam. Okay, so Xena was the eldest daughter, and she marries pre Islam. And this means that zeyneb is probably around 13 or 12 years old when she gets married, which is common for the time. Nothing strange there. Okay. And who idea was the marriage Khadija? Her dangerous idea she wanted this marriage, and she's the one who approached the Prophet system. And she said, You had a suit of law, my son, my daughter and my sister's son, I would ask you know him to be a good man. You know, Let's marry him to to Xena and so just because she said so just out of happiness for Khadija.

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The process I'm agree so whatever you want, again, without anything, whatever you want. So she marries. Basically, Zainab marries a blouse. And Zainab converts to Islam By the way, all the daughters of the process and they converted along with Khadija Horta when others mentioned this that basically the daughters become of the first conference has understood and would ask did not convert to Islam in early mcca, Khadija converts to Islam, sorry, Xena, Zeno converts to Islam, and

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Zeno tries to get her husband to convert, but he gives the reason why he will not convert. And that is the same reason why most of the correlation that is my tribe, my people, and he brings another another thing. I don't want the people to say that his wife, you know, is going to be embarrassing, you know, my wife caused me to convert because she's the daughter of Mohammed. So she he had this male ego, okay, all of us male egos know what, what it is right? We all have that problem. And he also had ancestral ego, okay, pride of my ancestry in my tribe, so both of them, because how can I leave the religion to my tribe, and the let not the people say that his wife influenced him, because

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she's the daughter of Muhammad. So it was basically ego. That's all it was. Right? And that's, you know, that's good for to have your ego in the way. But he was a very loving husband, otherwise, to Cena, and the both of them they, their love was legendary and known in all of MCC. And that is why, you know, even after the digital, they did not migrate because Dana is in safe hands with a mouse there's no persecution of what else is protecting his wife, Xena, as we know, an officer reluctantly participates in butter and he becomes a prisoner. And the story goes as you know that the hostage is Nicholas is sent the process and feels any compassion and sends us back with the secret agreement

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Bilal is sent with him and others are sent that Bella is going to wait behind the mountain. After a few days you send you know, Zainab Zayn is going to come back to me, because even though at that point in time, it hadn't been revealed that marriage is how long between Muslim and calf era, the Quran hadn't come down yet. But the family of the process is not befitting. It's not befitting that the daughter of the process of is married to a Muslim, right. So even though the Quran had not come down, the process of did not like this. And so he puts the conditional oblast are free you if you send my daughter back, and there is no way that nobody else could have been forced to do this once

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he's in Makkah is a free man and McKenna who is going to force him to do that, but a blouse fulfills the bargain. And remember what happened the famous story I went over this that's about Alice naively thought, Well, what are my people going to do to me, I'm a blouse, you know, I'm the person they love. So in the middle of the day, he packs his bags, packed his bags and begins taking Zane about to meet bill and the others behind the mountain. When the Porsche surrounds you, where are you taking the daughter of Mohammed? Where are you taking her? And he said, I promised to send her back. He does. He's naive thinking this is the common thing that people don't understand animosity and

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enmity, they have these good thoughts of others of us did not realize and they surrounded him, and they said no way. We're gonna send the daughter of Mohammed Dr. Mohammed, no way. She's gonna be with us here. And He then took his bow and arrow out and he goes, anybody who comes close, you know, I will, you know, strike him. And one of them they actually did come up close Allahabad even is what I mentioned, the famous Habib in us what a distant Cora sheep who actually did make his way to the camel and slice the throat of the camel.

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To kill the candle and the candle basically fell down. And Zane up happened to be pregnant at the time. And so Zainab fell down from the camel and miscarried because of that. And in fact some say the pains and the trauma and the sickness from that eventually was what you know eventually caused her death whenever it caught Allah knows of many years later but you know, because she died basically in the ninth year of the Hydra so Allah knows best that was that the case?

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Why but she she miscarried at that stage. And by the way, I mentioned as well how about even us what therefore, in the conquest of Makkah, his name was on the list of those who cannot be forgiven? Because that's a major crime you caused the miscarriage of Zainab that's not going to be forgiven. So he was on that list of unforgivable peoples. But how about standard you know, thing he went into the camp of the Muslims and he embraced Islam, you know, behind the scenes as they say in the process, and then forgive him once you embrace Islam then you are forgiven. I had mentioned as well. When I did that Sierra class, what is it eight years ago now seven years ago, that will live other

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lives truly amazing and it's very amazing to me that this same hotbar eventually his descendants, six generations down five generations down, they form the first Muslim dynasty in Buxton, Buxton not focused on incent there was no Buxton back then. So Trick question in sin that the time

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they been Matsuura, in that area, and it's called The Hobbit dynasty, after her bought us with the dynasty was called and named after the person who was their ancestor who happened to do this to

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Zane of robiola, her enemies, because he embraced Islam at the end, he died a Muslim, and so he dies a Muslim so the dynasty is ascribed to the Sahabi, because he's also Hubby, whom they're descended from. And so they're his descendants, five generations on four generations down, they become the first Muslim governors of basically Matsuura de Ville, as you call it, the area of the city is called Matsuura. And they stayed in that city for 300 years, there's eight or nine.

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They're not what fl viously they're basically governors. It's like a dynasty that that's formed there until my modem and a civic to gain comes and conquers them. And then the pseudo dynasty comes and then the and then the

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witch dynasty comes after them the dynasty that's before the Hmm. But within the which one is called the IL. What's it called ultimate? ultimate dynasty comes after that, right. So, but the point is that for 300 years have bodies ruled that small region, FYI, when I was doing when I was a deal many many, many, many years ago. Now my thesis on the habitus dynasty, my distant Tamia master Mandala, my thesis is not going to be on the Hubei dynasty, I wrote a paper, I wrote a graduate paper on the hobbit dynasty is still there somewhere in my computer, about all of the the the people of that bondage. That's why I know all of this stuff from any case. So this is a nip out of the Allahu taala

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and how now, so Zeynep had a child who miscarried what other children is in about, she had two other children. Okay, so these are grandchildren of Khadija and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. zeyneb had two children, ID and Obama, ID and Obama. Now as for Ali,

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I, this is my theory, I have not found anything explicit. It appears that Ali was in fact born in Makkah. I haven't found any narration that says where he was born. Nobody tells me where he's born. As far as I can see all the books that I want to I could not find where he was born. But what we know is that he died in the lifetime of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam as a young boy, and that he was on the camel of the Prophet system during the conquest of Makkah. So he dies, basically, Niger around Niger, he dies. And the fact that he's on the camel of the process of indicates he's not 234 years old. Okay. And a blouse, we're going to come to his story later on. A blouse was away

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from Xena for many years. Okay, the two of them did not live together from the Battle of bugger up until essentially right before the conquest of Makkah. So, if they had a child,

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they couldn't have had a child at the conquest of Makkah. They couldn't. So it must have been born basically. Before the hedger okay. And the How did he end up in Medina, there is one report that says the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam took him from the tribe that was breastfeeding him because you know, that is the law thing. So he basically took him and basically raised him in Medina. So this appears if it were interesting that it is

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the grandson of the Prophet system, his name is also Addy. Therefore, he is raised in Medina. But then since he passes away at a young age, we don't know much about him, but he is the son of Zeynep. And, and I will ask, I will ask, of course, the more famous child that they had his mama. And the reason why she's more famous is because she's born in Medina, and the famous Heidi the process of is playing with her in the Salat and what he's doing the Salah, he came out one day with Obama in his hand. Okay, and he led the whole sila with Obama. And so this is that Obama, this is the granddaughter of the process of Obama, that he is now leading the setup, and then Oh, mama grows up.

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Mama grows up as well. And the question is, so the question I have over here is did fault did Khadija see it or not? It mainly the grandson, I forgot to answer that question. And the reality is we will never know. Maybe Khadija did it depends on when he was born. If Ali was eight years old, Khadija did not see him. If it was 11 or 12. He just saw him. We don't know how old he was. Okay, so Allah azza wa jal knows best now. So I forgot that point. As for Oh, mama. Oh, mama very interestingly, she grows up and she marries.

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Who remembers?

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Who remembers?

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We did this many many, many years ago as well. she marries Ali even it'd be thought.

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Why? Because when Fatima is on her deathbed, Fatima says to Ali, that you will marry my niece after me. Because this is Fatima is nice. Okay, so Fatima is the one who says to her husband, that when I die, you will marry my niece. I want you to marry my niece and so I literally love and then Mary's mama his niece and that is the granddaughter of the Prophet Sall Allahu Allah who was sending them and perhaps they had children as well. There's again these things seem to get lost at this tight at this stage. So this is Zane up and I will ask the grandchildren of ultimate veto of Hadid we talked about the other grandson of Khadija is through a year without a married Earth man. I've been a fan

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for sure. Khadija did not see their son. Why? Because their son was born in Abyssinia. So we have one of the grandchildren of the Prophet system born Abbey seniors very interesting. The only grandson of the process and born outside of the Arabian Peninsula, born in Abyssinia. And so clearly, by the time they come back, Khadija has passed away. Okay, so Khadija never saw this grandson, and this grandson is the son of earthman for the Illa one and the son of rokeya. And what was his name?

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That's about it. Man. That's somebody else. Nice try. That's another son of earthmen. From another wife.

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I'll do law.

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I didn't hear you.

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The guy next to you did not hear it.

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I said it in my mind. It was there. Okay.

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The, the grandson is Abdullah. So Abdullah Ibn earthman. Even our fan, and this is the only child from this relationship of lokoja and earth model of the law one, how did Abdullah die? Remind me

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It's a sad story. infection from infection from an animal that it was a rooster or a hen that basically pectin between the eyes became infected. And maybe the doctors will know better what exactly happened but basically, the infection continued to grow, grow, grow until he passed away. Okay, so some animal basically, you know, some bird basically maybe some type of flu thing that happens, you know, so it affected the the grandson and he passed away in Medina, and this is in the fourth year of the hegira. And he was six years old. So six years old, he was born in Kenya, and Khadija has already passed away then Okay, so how did you never saw this grandson and the next

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daughter omic also married with man they did not have any children. So muku did not have any children. And then the final daughter Fatima how many children family have everybody should know this.

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Fatima and it had how many children guys

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so that at least then

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four. They had four children.

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No. Two to

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three sons. Where's the third son with the

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suns we should know about. No Mohammed didn't hanafy The reason why he's called Mohammed Hanafi is because his mother was in Fatima. His mother was from the tribe of the bento hanifa. So to differentiate him from Hassan Hussein, they said Mohammed yBnL Hanafi, even though is Mohammed bin Ali, but because his mother was in Fatima. So Ali had three famous sons. He actually had many more three famous sons after Fatima ID and it had hesitant her singing from Fatima. Then he had many sons after Fatima. The most famous amongst the non faulted sons is Mohammed even had a fear. That's what he's got even ahead of fear. From Fatima. He had four children, two sons, and two daughters and

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SubhanAllah. How can you not remember, Fatima names the two daughters after the two sisters that passed away? She names her children after her own sisters. And this shows us how close those sisters must have been omega three woman Xena, right? So Fatima names her own daughters after her dead passed away sisters. And this shows again. I mean, we don't have any reports of how the four sisters would have live but it's obviously within a very tight knit family, a very close family. And this is enough of an indication that you know the daughter that she has she named them in all likelihood after every sister died that are that are common she would name after them. So oma costume named

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after Makoto and Xena named after Xena. So these are the four children of ID and Fatima. And so these are the grand daughters, their sons and daughters of Khadija about the love of Diana. And so how many grandchildren did Khadija have in total?

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So we have right now four, and then five from there, and then six, seven.

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From there, so a grand total of seven is that correct? Even I didn't do the math here seven grandchildren from Howdy, Joel de la Juana. These are the seven grandchildren that I went to went over them and Sharla in our next Hadar we will start the next mother and that is so that Binti Zuma and her story will be inshallah quick one it is a one lecture stories that would have been desert. Any questions about how digital the long run how Yes,

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we will get to that because I hope to in sha Allah.

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If Allah blesses me with time, I hope to just finish off with going back to the family of the process. And one more time, because I want everybody to know this because again, these are things that it's sad people have no clue. You know, most Muslims have no idea. And these are the sons and daughters, grandsons and granddaughters. That process I mean, people don't even know. So we're going to go back to this.

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Yes, it seems like there were children from that Union as well.

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No, eventually, they fizzled out.

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Yeah, sure. That's good.

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And actually, we know for a fact from childhood about the way that he the greeting was from Allah.

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Now, the question is, is that the sin that the normal view of making a mistake about that we thought that Allah greeted us with?

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So the question is that the the famous theory, that adhere to the law, is the conversation that takes place in his stolen marriage. This is a theory that has no basis in the texts of Islam whatsoever. Nothing of this has been narrated. And so this is something that later scholars have just derived on their own from their own imagination. Is there anything wrong with affirming this? Well, these types of things can only be affirmed with evidence. This isn't. This isn't just some theory that comes out. This is a you have to bring the evidence. Where'd you get it from that this is the conversation that takes place. So yes, we should not affirm it, it should not be done because

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it is literally a figment of the imagination and it contradicts the explicit Hadith in Sahih. Muslim literally, it's right there. The Sahaba making a mistake, and the process of saying no, you can't do that. Let me teach you how to praise Allah in the Salah. And so he is the one who directly teaches them adhere to the law, or Sadat will tell you but there is no conversation in gender taking place. This is on earth in Medina, and the processor is teaching them how to praise a lot in the end of the Salah. Okay Sharla any final point before we conclude Yes, go ahead. Yes.

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No, only awesome died before Prophethood Abdullah Of course, dies in profit because we will go through this about him. And nothing I could go through Shani COVID chapter because when he died,

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allows him in what is called the Butera Mohammed katutura Mohammed, so Allah

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indochine aka who an avatar

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I lost him died before Islam

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so all of the children that passed away before coming of puberty the children of Muslims by unanimous consensus are engender by unanimous consensus. As for the children of non Muslim there are 10 opinions about this and that's a long theological discussion but and Charlotte the correct position is the children are sinless they're not there's no likely will understand it. But there are long discussions about this anyway, but the children are Muslim there is no question and the fact that they died pre Islam even more so. Even more so there is an excuse pre Islam, for any case inshallah. inshallah, with that we will conclude and resume next week inshallah with us.

Shaykh Yasir Qadhi gives a befitting conclusion on the topic of the first and blessed wife of the Prophet ﷺ – Khadija Bint Khuwaylid RA.

In every major incident that takes place in the Seerah of the Prophet ﷺ in the first ten years of the Hijrah, Khadija RA is part of his household during the time.

The refutation and ridicule of the Prophet ﷺ had to be dealt with by Khadija RA and she never listened to the Quraysh against her husband, the Noble Prophet ﷺ.

In the 10th year of the Dawah, the boycott is lifted and the boycott and the harsh conditions in which Khadija RA was living took a toll on her health and she passed away soon after the boycott was lifted in the month of Ramadan.

She was buried by the Prophet ﷺ with her own hands.at the time, the Sunnah of Salat Al Janazah was not legislated yet.

Khadija RA is referenced in the Qur’an indirectly. Which is the verse? Listen intently to find out.

The Prophet ﷺ was always cognizant of the favours Khadija RA had done for the Prophet ﷺ. How did the Prophet ﷺ repay this favour? Shaykh Yasir Qadhi elaborates beautifully.

None of the women were sent Salaam by Allah SWT directly other than Khadija RA.

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