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Yeah you alladhina amanu taco loco loco de la Kuma Malecon welcome de novo Come on. Rasulo fucka defassa frozen alima lm river de la and national Kalam. carambola terracotta Allah wa halal Howdy, howdy Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Mashallah Marina de bajo la Baku,

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Baku, livedata lalala, Baku, la de la infinite.

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Eva de la Mati brothers and sisters, when was the last time you were enraged and you get upset and angry. If you remember the last time when you were angry, and perhaps this last time, was just right before he came to Salatu. Juma

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as you were rushing to come on time, perhaps you had some issues with people in traffic, when you came in, he didn't have a spot. And perhaps you got upset and angry at other people. Even as you walk in, perhaps you get upset and angry whatsoever reason. But when it comes to being angry, that is something natural. It's a natural instinct. It's as a matter of fact, it's a defense mechanism that Allah subhanho wa Taala he gave us in order to show that then we are not happy with few things. So we can bring change.

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But anger is a very powerful energy.

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And if you don't challenge that energy in the right way, unfortunately, is going to take you the wrong way.

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How many people you know, they lost their marriages, just because of a moment of wrath and anger. You're very upset. How many people are in prison, because they have done something they could have avoided. And the only reason they did it because they say they were angry.

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How many students they got in troubles in school, just because I was angry. Some hand when it comes to anger.

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Not so many people admit that it's their problem.

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And that's why when you ask a husband and wife I don't know your mom, who deals with marriage counseling, the guy calls you asked you to shake. I divorced my wife.

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And you ask why? their immediate, very normal answer that comes from their mouth. She made me angry.

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I said no one can make you angry, without your approval without your consent.

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When it comes to anger, I understand that we all have stressful lifestyle specific living in the West. And you have to work from six o'clock in the morning until Allah knows the end of the day and so on. We all have this stress in life. That doesn't mean that you vent on your on your loved beloved ones, on your family, on your children, your friends and anybody else. There is no excuse. And if you have to deal with people, you have to learn the etiquette on how to control your anger. You know, there are so many people they pay hundreds of dollars to take anger management classes and courses. But if we just look into the gift that Allah subhanho wa Taala has given us as Muslims will

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lie we won't look anywhere else. And I mean by this gift is Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, his manners, his Islam.

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Then he says, You know what Allah, about the Messenger of Allah? About Rasulullah sallallahu Some are in Naka La Jolla. Hello, Calvin. There indeed, oh, Mohammed, you are on a very exalted standard of character.

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His level of love and mannerism was the highest. Why do you think that Allah subhanho wa Taala is saying that about him in the Quran? for a very simple reason. So that when people like me and you follow that example,

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some of the companions or the allow that animal down, they went around the houses of Rasulullah sallallahu, alayhi wasallam, they went asking about the manners of Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam. How was his etiquette at home? You know why? Because they see him outside.

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They see Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam outside in public is very well known. Which means that me and you, just like everybody else, we have sometimes sometimes As humans, we have double face, character.

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in public, you that gentle, nice, happy, smiling person.

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But in privacy, when you're at home, with your family with your children, you're that grumpy, frowning, angry person.

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So when the when when these young Sahaba they're asking the how

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Soldiers of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, they, they want to know what he did, how he lives outside in public, we see that we see him in the method. We see him when he walks in the streets. We see him in public forums, we know how he is outside Salawat, the lower sulamani I want to know how he is out in the house at home. And that's why every man's every man's, you know, in a dreadful question, if someone comes asking their children, how's that at home?

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Every man dreads the moment when someone asked his wife in public so how's your husband with you?

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Every man read that question. And here's these men coming around the house Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam asking how was Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam

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rhodiola

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rhodiola and Hamada she knew what she what they were looking for. So she gives him a very simple answer. She said listen, can a hula hula Quran

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his manners was the Quran itself, which means don't waste your time.

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Don't even try. I'm not gonna give you anything new about him. gonna follow Quran, what you read in the Quran, what he brings to you. That's Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam

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what you hear about him, the o'clock and the manners of the Quran. These were the flats of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he was telling them listen, he is not like me and you have double face. He has one character and his character sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was the Quran itself. That's the meaning when we when they say ethics, ethics, regardless whether it's business, family, anywhere you go, ethics, ethics is always the same, and Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was the best example. For that reason. For that reason, I would like to show it to present to you in this football, the clock and the manners and the etiquette of Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam. Whenever he

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got upset, whenever he gets angry, how did he do that? Or sort of like, how could he handle all this pressure? Salawat Allah was allamani and he could still continue whose life like nothing happened. You know for me, and you we get under so much pressure, so much stress. And when you say I take it easy, so how can I take it easy when I go through all of this? More than Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam

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Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam he was the Messenger of Allah. He has a divine message in his hand is responsible for before Allah, the creators of Hannon with Allah, not like you before your boss at work.

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Or even a teacher in school or your parents or anybody else. He has a responsibility before his maker his creator. subhana wa Taala he was a community leader salatu wa salam O Allah, and he had to deal with all the faction of the communities, the mohajir in the answer, the Jewish community, he had to deal with the machine with the hypocrites under 18 you name it. All these factions, he had to deal with salvato was that Amani, you saying I cannot do it because of my family. My wife Rasulullah has more than one household to take care of.

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Children Rasulullah had children he had grandchildren salatu wa salam, O Allah, anything that you can think of that brings stress to you Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam had to go through this. If you ask about anyone who may be more stressful than anyone else, perhaps on Earth, any job that is more stressful Subhan Allah is the Imams job.

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asked you, Eman. I've been in demand for some time and handle. I know that one of the most stressful jobs but still, you have to maintain you have to maintain specific standard of character and develop for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala first and foremost, following the example of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Allah, so how was the flock of Rasulullah when it comes to being angry, you know, when it comes to getting angry, again angry is an energy that can be channeled the right way, the positive way, and can be let go loose and it becomes very, very devastating energy. It's in your hand, to channel this energy the positive way, or litigious, loose to destroy your own life and

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never say after that she made me angry, or he made me angry. No, you allowed yourself to get angry

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Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam I showed the Allahu taala and how she said about the Prophet sallallahu wasallam Madiba Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Lin FC he caught the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he never he never got angry for anything personal.

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If you ask yourself, what really makes you upset the most? Most likely personal.

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If he didn't get angry because of personal matters, Salawat ally was allamani what would make him upset then in

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tintagel Mahara mala, unless the limits of Allah subhana wa Taala has been violated.

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When people violate the limits, the Muharram of Allah subhanho wa Taala when he made haram halaal that's when the Messenger of Allah gets upset and angry. But for something personal, why would he need to get angry sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, why?

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Even in Mecca? When Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam was delivering the message, the mushrikeen were harassing Rasulullah, sallallahu alayhi wasallam, everywhere he goes. And one of these popular things they used to say about him. Name Collins, if you ask the children, specifically the young ones, what they hate the most at school is name calling.

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Well, because they calling me names and they start getting and fighting with each other. And even siblings when they're young. They fight over name calling things. So they used to call Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam names like Majnoon, he's insane. He's a magician, he's this he's that whatever names you can think of. And on top of that, his name Mohammed, the most praise sallallahu alayhi wasallam they will alter his name. And they would call him Madame. Madame which is the opposite completely degraded one.

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So when one of the Sahaba of the louder and one day got very upset, he got so angry that Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Ali, he's the Messenger of Allah. How could you even say these words about all sorts of lies that Allah Solon? How dare you even say these words? About Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam. So he went complaining to Rasulullah Yasser Allah, don't you hear what they're saying? They're calling you Madonna.

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They keep you know, cursing him with them. He goes salatu wa salam Allah He says, Yeah, I've heard them. And it says, You're so buddy, why don't you ask Allah azza wa jal that they will stop. They stop, you know doing that. He says, Why?

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Because 100 Allah, don't you see how Allah Subhana Allah does protecting me and protecting my name? Because when they curse, they curse Madame. And my name is Mohammed.

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He took it so positively. mean they can curse mme as much as they want. That's not my name. That's not me. My name is Mohammed. He would never get angry or upset for something personal. So to LA to LA. He was at Armani. When a man one day he wanted to ask for some food or some money. He came to him and he was a bedroom. He didn't know the etiquette of dealing with you know, leaders and so on. So he came straight to Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam and he pulled his garments so severely that he left marks on his neck, leaving marks in the neck of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, you know Rasulullah he had so many people around him that if if he would just give the command they will

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finish the man.

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But then the man he said Rasul Allah Kalia Mohammed autonomy Mata Kala you gotta give before Allah has given you, which means that's not your money. I want from Allah Subhana has given you

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now you could come and ask and beg that's fine, but to be rude as the devil the problem, still Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam when the Sahaba they got upset and they were about to to hurt the man or hurt the man Rasul Allah is Allah Ceylon. He said no. And he smiled. He said, Come over here.

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He said, Okay, here we go. So, his smile in his face is Otto.

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So the prophets Allah sent me gave him he gave him something, and another generation. In another another scenario. The man said something about the Prophet sallallahu Sallam in public. A Prophet told him Did we did we give you enough inshallah to Allah we were generous enough with you? He says, No way, not even close.

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Can you imagine telling that Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam in his face in front of the public in the community among the Sahaba de la de la home. It was so hard on the Sahaba the companions of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam more than was in Rasul Allah Himself. salatu wa Samadhi. So the prophets Allah Sam told him, Okay, listen, this I don't have enough right now, but come with me. So the Prophet took him home. And he looked for things. He looked for things in his own house, sort of Waterlow ceremony, and he gave the man until the man was satisfied. He said, Are you satisfied now? He goes, yes. says you're so so good, Mashallah, you're such an honorable man, an honorable man,

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basically, that's what they pride themselves with. So the prophets, Allah told him, he said, you know, are you sure about the secrets? I'm sure about this. He goes. Earlier, when you spoke in front of my friends, one of my companions, they kind of got upset so they have something in their hearts against you. Why don't you come out and they will ask you the same question in front of everybody. And you just give the answer just like you gave me right now. So that at least they will be okay with that. So the Prophet took him out. He was teaching him how to be even grateful.

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He was teaching him not attacking him. He wasn't you're looking down to him Salawat de la Serra Molly, because that was the best he could do. He took him out in public and he asked him, and for everybody that I have you have given you so and so you were not happy with that. But then we are giving you this and that. Are you now satisfied with us? He goes, yes. Barak Allah, Allah bless you. You're such an honorable man,

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the Sahaba when they heard that, they were all pleased, and they were happy with this man that all the grudges were gone. And the Messenger of Allah would never get angry or upset for anything personal sort of water law. He was lmra however, he's a human being, after all, he also gets angry and upset. But how does he handle that? And how it looks like when he's angry. salatu wa salam RA, number one, when he gets angry sallallahu wasallam Can You are a fool Whoa, why?

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When he gets angry sallallahu alayhi wa sallam people can see in his face, that he's angry. What does that tell you about a sort of lie sallallahu wasallam that anger was not natural, to his to his character on the clock. salatu wa salam O Allah. Meaning that's not his custom to get angry all the time. You know, some people don't even know how to smile.

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But when it comes to this little lie is the last time the Prophet smile was something that was written books of history and Hadith. In many, many generations, like NSL della one, Abdullah haridra de la on the owner edit how much smiling was Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and as he said Carla will mala t to Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam omala t Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam cut a letter smbg says I never seen a sort of I never met Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam anywhere. But he smiled in my face, who said that and as the companion who served the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam for over 10 years since he was 10 years old, until he became early 20s rhodiola and

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throughout all these 10 years Rasulullah was smiling in his face when he was young boy, a teenager, a young adult, so he was smiling Rasulullah with everybody salatu wa salam money. Abdullah and hydro de la one he narrates this is actually what he saw from the Prophet Carla colocado the Allahu taala Mora harden axalta Suman, Minh Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam never seen anyone more smiling down or pseudo la sallallahu wasallam he was cheerful. Therefore, when he is not happy, when he's not smiling, you can easily detect that.

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That's why they said Canada Southern Europe autophagy Salatu was Salam

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ala Anima focus a few YG hub buruma

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he turns red, angry he turns red Salawat Allah wa salam O Allah, as if you can say you can you can say that the seeds This means the juice of pomegranate is red juice was thrown on his face a lot of silicon, which means he changed dramatically. But again, why? For what reason for the Mahatma law when the limits of Allah subhanho wa Taala been violated?

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One of these occasions, and one of these occasions that can be can be mentioned about his his being angry salatu wa salam O Allah when Mahadevan Jebel used to pray behind Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam salata, Lucia Mata was a young man. So when he finished his salata, Lucia rasulillah, one of these nights, he got very excited. So when he comes back to his own neighborhood, he leaves his people, his own tribe, leading them in Southeast Asia. So he prays for the Rasulullah first, and then when he comes back to his to his neighborhood, he leads his own community for Southeast Asia. One of those nights he seems to be excited. So he started reciting Surah Surah tillbaka.

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Can you imagine your memory Setsuna Bakara for solid inertia today? Can you imagine that? What would you do?

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Here's Matt satin Salatu was Surat Al Baqarah. But his mom was gonna tell him what to do. There was another young man in the crowd. It was a farmer. It was a shepherd. So he felt it was too long for him got extremely, extremely exhausted and tired. So he broke his Salah, and he went to the back. He fatally shot by himself, and he left home. When he finished, the people taught model says you know this guy that just if he couldn't stay with you, so he finished and he left Martha this he said, leave him he's a hypocrite.

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Carla nomina

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unfortunately, we are so judgmental in many Muslim communities as well. Someone is missing two threes a lot from them. So what's happened to him? I think he's changed. Or the sister She now you see things differently. Immediately. We start judging people

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mohandro de la de when he said that some of the Friends of this young man, they told him what man said about him.

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Another young man got very angry. How dare ma say something like this about me. So he was so upset that he went to Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam carrying his grievances against mud. Color Rasul Allah, we are shepherds. We spend all day in the sun, going after our cameras out on animals and so on. And then when we come with extremely tired, we're very exhausted. We want to get some rest so you could wake up next in the morning and continue what we do. And now when I come in society, Russia, here's what he's reciting and he just doing this long salah and he said Kira, Nila from Odin, Donna Takara. Denton, Omar says, you know that long humming I really don't understand that. So

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the man tells he was just a very basic man. He says this and I just want to make my salon go home. That's it. Just like modern people, they want to do that. You want to finish gym and go to work immediately. So I don't really care what you're saying. So eventually, this young man, he could enrich your sort of love with that statement, but also realize sallallahu wasallam he was very, he was very okay with this man. But he was very angry with mohandro de la one.

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One when they called Martin to ask him the question, the Sahabi who narrated the story, he said, Carla, I have never seen a pseudo law so angry while giving an admonition than the time when he was given the admonition tomorrow the law of the land. calamari Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam shut down Shahada one female religion, a Motorola tomado de la sala. He says a turn on intermod What's wrong glioma of a town and which ones? Are you going to cause people to live their Deen?

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Are you going to be the reason for people to quit Islam

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and he's told him throughout the lower ceremony if you ever lead Salah for people Manasa you have if you're going to believe in Salah you need to make it easy for the people. And then he said to him recite surah such as was Sham cildo Haha, when Lolita Yasha said because Mara because Allah and insurance, so that's how much you decide. But if you're going to be praying by yourself, and if you read in Salah for yourself, failure to nyesha then make it as long as you want. Rasulullah was angry. Salatu was Salam Ali, but as you can see here, his anger was for the oma not for anything personal. So Allahu alayhi wa sallam cannot either Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, you are a

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fellow who you can tell he's angry again. Because his anger sallallahu wasallam was not the normal thing. He's always smiling when he gets angry. sallallahu wasallam when people violate the limits and the roads of Allah azza wa jal

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number two, about the etiquette of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, when he gets angry Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam cannot lie akuna and even he is never he's never physical Salawat Allah wa salam O Allah.

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When he gets upset and angry, he has thought, you know, throwing tantrum and throwing things and chasing people and so on. He doesn't do that. So amatola was Rahmani

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lacuna and even, you know, just, I wonder if parents, I wonder if parents really when they get angry with their younger children, if they can really look at themselves in the mirror.

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You know, when your child does something wrong at home and you start chasing them around, where do they go? They don't come to you. They run away from you. You can even find them you know why? Because they're truly scared.

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They're really, really scared because you look scary.

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try that and see yourself in the mirror when you're angry. And you will see how young children Subhanallah how they visualize you, when very upset and angry with them. Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam never he would never turn physical when he gets upset sort of water loss ceremony. He expects people to do things. I just moves on one of these examples.

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I showed the law of the land how she said she was with Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa Salaam Ali and as Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was sitting with her a group of former from the Jewish tribes in that in that area they passed by and they said to him they greeted him by saying Assam olika Mohammed Assam, the old Assam and the Arabic language like a sin assume which means poison which means made death be upon you.

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So Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He said well Allah and YouTube

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Ayesha Who was there? She returned back to them and she goes back to Allah Kusama Lana, which was a death and curse be upon you. Rasulullah stop Kalia Shama crazy. Yosh Ma, which means cooldown. What are you saying?

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Mr. sometta makalu didn't you

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He what they said. He said, Yes, of course I did. And that's why I said and YouTube,

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which means if it's good, then it'll be good. And if it was otherwise, same thing to you, but he wouldn't be vulgar salatu wa salam ala like cursing and cussing and yelling, and he wouldn't do that. salatu wa salam RA, how many times? How many times I had the I had to counsel brothers and sisters, husband and wife. I had to counsel them. They're near divorce. Why? Because the man is disrespectful to his wife. When he gets angry, it's not just getting angry. He starts cursing and cussing and becoming very, very personal. And it's not worth it. Yeah.

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Sometimes it's the woman. When she gets upset, she shows no respect to her husband, and he starts cursing and cussing and she leaves no word that she knows. And that just throw him. Why do we have to do all this? Why do we have to do that? When ossola his solo salon, he always watches his tongue what comes from his mouth Salawat to LA he was lmra.

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The third characteristic of Rasulullah and he gets angry and upset. Salawat de la was allamani his anger never stays too long. He doesn't help graduate salatu salam he never held grudges.

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Some people they get upset for something considered trivial.

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There's nothing

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and they boycott their beloved ones, their parents, their children, their brothers and sisters, their uncles and their aunts and their in laws. They boycott them for the rest of their lives.

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Why? Because the other day when he passed by in that wedding, he didn't say Salaam to me.

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Or maybe when they came you know, visiting and saying congratulations, you didn't get any gift with them. Or because of this or because of that things that is not worth it to cry for Subhanallah let alone to get angry for and even you boycott your own friends and your loved ones Rasulullah never hold grudges. Salatu was Salam Wadi. One of these occasions A man was in the crowd. And as Rasulullah has alasa was answering questions. He was asked specifically about a particular opinion that he gives a lot to live a ceremony the answer for he gave the answer for one of the Sahaba of the law and he gave a feedback.

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He gave a feedback like he wants to have to change the answer. You also have Can we do it this way? How about if we do it this way? Rasulullah

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Rasulullah, sallAllahu 17 men quiet, called ohata who you can tell he's angry is upset. He didn't like it. He didn't like that, that feedback without a response from this man.

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So it was like an awkward moment in the crowd among the Sahaba de la And

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finally, this man, feeling very awkward that he brought this awkward moment to the crowd. He just withdrew slowly and he left. He left like perhaps embarrassed, or the Alon. He left embarrassed. But then during that same moment, Rasulullah Salalah Sam cooled down. They brought him a gift of milk. So when the Prophet received the milk, he looked around in the crowd. He didn't find the man he goes, where's that young man was the question. Colorado law college he left his column back. So they went after him. And they said also allow you relook now I want you to put yourself in the position of this young man. You left because because a very awkward moment Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam under

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Sahaba and as you're trying to escape with the with the, with whatever is left of your dignity, his you've been called back to Rasulullah sallallahu taala. I'm sure this man was shivering in his pants.

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So when he came to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa salam ala rasulillah looks at him, he smiles.

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He smiles in his face. It didn't frown, his smile in his face. sallallahu wasallam. And he gave him the milk and he goes, have a drink.

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And the amount of course I'm sure he was relieved big time. So he grabbed the milk and he had some, and he gave it back to the sort of Lifestyle Center. Which means it's alright, nothing happened. You find

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a never hold grudges. Salatu was Salam Ra? What exactly are we waiting for? Do we wait for one of our beloved ones that we have boycotted for the past few years to die. So we can feel sorry that we have done that.

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And I know many people that are waiting for that moment, because they don't want to be the first to say I'm sorry. Husband and wife. They're willing to break their marriage, break up their marriage, destroy the family, and split the kids even if it's possible, but not to say I'm sorry. It's my fault. They don't want to admit that. They keep holding grudges for so long. Although they could just say that's all right. I'm sorry, shallow will never never

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happens again. Why do we have to wait until that moment? And finally, one of these etiquettes of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa salaam aleikum. Wa Salatu was Salam O Allah when it gets when you get upset, he always channels this, this anger into positive, positive energy and something good always come out of that. So a lot of lawyers allamani Look how many examples so far I've shared with you and we're every moment of his anger sallallahu alayhi wasallam we learn something positive.

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We learn something positive for more are the Imams now they have one of these stable etiquettes of Salah. If you pray for Gemma, don't make it too long and the people if you want to play by yourself, they pray as long as you wish.

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We learned also for masala hasta la some other example. When Osama bin Zayed he was a young man as well. It was in his late late teen he was in the battlefield. And as he was chasing one of the people over the machine who were fighting with him earlier, perhaps if somebody could be killed by it on the hand of this man. So now Osama has the upper hand he's chasing this man. Suddenly the just write about salaries the sword over the head of this man before he hit him. The man he immediately he says i shadow Allah Allah Allah Allah, Allah Muhammad Rasul Allah, Allah, Allah Allah.

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He tells you somewhat. I'm a Muslim now.

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He doesn't I'm a Muslim. Now.

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What do you think the responsible sama would say? Throw the sword and hug him.

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He did like many people, unfortunately. They do even today in the Muslim communities. We judge people easily and quickly when someone comes in to give the Shahada after Juma. Some people, they hug others they have doubts.

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Why they become a Muslim now they want to get married.

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Or they're looking for a job or doing this or that Why do you have to talk about people? When they say la ilaha illAllah Muhammad Rasul Allah, and that's exactly what I thought about this man. So he called

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when Rasulullah heard about that he called to summer

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and he called him and also Allah did not even let me talk.

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Kala cataldo Baba and Cora La ilaha illa Allah, you killed him after he said La ilaha illa Allah there is no God but Allah. Who sam i want to give his excuse? Yasser Allah, Allah Tada, save and

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save. He was saying it because he was protecting himself from the sword. And also Allah kept insisting on him. You killed him after he said La la la la. But you're also Allah he did that to protect himself from the sword. You killed him after he said la Allah Allah which means I don't care what you're saying.

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I don't care what you think of him. The man said La la la la. What you're gonna do about this? Carlo Mata Allah, Allah Allah Allah, what you're gonna do about La ilaha illa Allah there is no God but Allah wanna meet your Lord, some hands on with Allah. The Prophet got very upset. So what Allah was allamani that we learned, we learned that we can never judge people. Based on their intentions. We can judge that Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam Kala shakta Matthew Calva. Do you dig in there watching his heart? Did you dig on it? Did you open his heart to see what's in there? That's what he was saying. Salatu was Salam Ali. So stop judging people. Stop getting angry because you're making

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your own interpretations, your own assumptions. I think that's what I thought and so on. Leave that aside, and only just listen to what they're saying. If it's good benefit from it. If it's bad, just avoid that like lawsuit ally sallallahu alayhi wa sallam did with a big smile. These are the flowers and the manners of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. These are the law and the manners of Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam when it comes to getting angry, and it's the best example. And the best son is the son of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam akula kolyada Sofitel La La dama de welcome what is a Muslim another stuff you didn't know before.

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Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa sallahu wa salam o Baraka Nabina Muhammad, wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa sell a Muslim and cotton

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over the law.

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This is just a flag or how the Prophet sallallahu ala how people they would recognize when a sort of law is the law some get angry or get upset, but the solution is longer than that. I don't have the time for the full scope but to do it, but this weekend, I'm having an entire seminar on the law and the manners of Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam called the Prophet smile. The Prophet smile, and tonight is shallow Darla Biddle

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The first session of this program will be the 10 points 10 points of anger management according according to Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam. From that lack of Rasulullah What are these 10 advises the Prophet sallallahu wasallam has given us that will help us control our anger. I would like to Charlotte to share this with you this evening Baden Illa hitter, Baraka wa Taala. Now, whether you're having this issue because of driving skills, or because you're having some issues in school, or your personal life or career whatsoever, the lack of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam and the etiquettes of controlling his anger sallallahu alayhi wasallam is the remedy for this 10 times 10

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points on how to control the anger. This is the flock of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam long maluna man fana when finally my alum Tana in the country alleman Hakeem Allah Martina fusina taqwa was Hiraman Zika Antonio hom Oh la la la la la mallacoota soluna Allah nebby Yeah, you alladhina amanu sallu alayhi wa salam o Taslima Allahumma salli wa sallim wa barik ala nabina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa de la Mancha. Rashida Viva la Mora was Nana Wali one ser Sahaba Jasmine woman, Terbium bearson, illuma Deen, welcome Salah.