Siblings Without Rivalry?

Yaser Birjas

Channel: Yaser Birjas

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Is it possible to have siblings without rivalry?

What’s the Islamic ruling on it? Is it even halal or haram? Is it right or wrong?

How should we treat this?

Episode Transcript

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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. So is it possible to live a peaceful life without having any siblings rivalry? Is it even halal haram wrong right to have you know bickering between brothers and sisters and brothers among themselves among themselves and so on so many Muslims Mashallah because again, they value the meaning of upbringing and, and parenting and so on. We always want our houses to be perfect. And we think that if there's any problem in the household, that means there's something wrong with our therapy or something wrong with our values. And then eventually, the parents are fighting each other and cause a big damage to the entire fabric of the family and the

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entire society afterwards. So what how should we treat that? So if you look in the Quran, Allah subhana wa tarboro some examples about siblings, some of the siblings were handler of the most righteous, others not necessarily Some even though they grew up in a household of righteousness, but still did not go up in the way that it should be. Look at the two examples from the Quran, the example of Musa alayhis salaam and his brother Harun, when Musa alayhis salaam received that guidance from Allah subhanho wa Taala. What was the first thing that came to his mind? Allah His salat wa salam. He said, what he Harun my job, my Lord, please send to my brother Harun like no,

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like Musa alayhis salam, he knew that this is so much higher in it. And he wanted this higher to also be shared by his brother and with his brother. So he asked Allah subhanho wa Taala, to send to her own analyzer responded to Musa alayhis salam, and he sent send a message to her own as well. So Han Allah, I'm sure all parents would fantasize that their children will have this kind of compassion to one another. Like Musa alayhis salam had to his brother Harun Ali Salah, but we'll see the other example that was mentioned or an example of the household of Yahuwah Salim Yusuf and his brothers. So how the shaytan was clever and that's what Musa Valley Sam said to his father says min

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daddy and NASA shaytaan Albanian Vayner equity my father remember when the shaitan he calls the fitna between me and my brothers. So use the valet Sam was responsible when he became older and he threw all the blame on the ship and none of his brothers. That's such a wonderful forgiving nature when one brother is also a sibling and his brothers as well. But the point is in this household of jacobellis, Sarah, it wasn't a perfect, perfect siblings relationship. There were some bickering there was some problems there were some dangerous even encounters among themselves. But at the end of the day, look how Yousuf prevailed in the way that he forgave his brothers and he forgave his

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siblings. This is how it should be more about the subject inshallah. Baraka Ouattara, I'm going to discuss in my new class in sha Allah azza wa jal protect this house is coming your way. Check it out to shala we'll see you there. Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.