120 – The status of the aged in Islam

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120 – The status of the aged in Islam 31 July 2015

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kondalilla Camry learn how to understand you know,

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on a token rally, when I will be learning in Cerulean phocoena Marina De La Paloma de la la, la la la de la

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la la la la la de la sharika wanna shadow Anna Mohamed Abu Rasulo salvaterra he was Allahu alayhi wa early he was heavy. Woman da da da what he you know me Dean avod brothers and sisters in Islam Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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Allows vahana tala speaks in the Holy Quran Allah says we'll assign an internal bhiwadi de Asana hamelech to omo Quran wa to Cora Lu salehoo. Salah Shara allows for handler speaks

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about parents in this verse of the Holy Quran

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was seen in Santa bydd as an alpha that says that we have commanded men

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to be kind to his parents.

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And Allah gives the reason Allah says harmala Tomoko Quran, for certainly his mother had born him both born him in pain for the Quran and given birth to him in pain, but hamdulillah for saloth, Allah tuna, Shara and the caring of the child and weaning of the child meaning the breast feeding of the child takes over the period of 60 months.

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Today, inshallah. And of course,

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being kind to your parents is an expression

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of your respect for old age, because generally, we get our appearance in old age. And being kind to them is a sign of that respect. Not only is it that, your gender and your now depends on your parents, we know that there are many eyes in the Quran which tells us we are responsible for our own actions. And no other person shall bear your burden. But when it comes to parents, your gender and your own are lies at your parents.

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A man came to the Navy so Solomon said they are allowed to repay my father for being my father.

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On to repay my father for what he done for me.

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And the prophets, Hassan said yes, you can repay him in the following manner. If you should find your father a slave and you give him his freedom, then that is payment 40 done for you.

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So of course today, there is no more slavery. So unfortunately, nobody will be able to pay your father's for the done for you.

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As for the mother's

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purposes, and there's no record, replay your mother what she did to you. Maybe you can repay a father you find him a slave and you can use and you said in three but your mom,

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there's no payment. You can pay out consumer like to pay you out for what you've done for me. Now how much love you give her how much respect how much money, all that is in your scale of respect for your parents and honoring your parents. But you can never say I paid my parents back. Never ever can a child who pays parents for what they've done for them.

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But today, we're not talking about parents. inshallah, today we're talking about

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I was wondering what word I should use for the people I'm going to speak about today and I couldn't come to a word which I would feel would be appropriate because I'm also referring to myself.

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So I don't know if I should call agent or mature

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or old or old

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for retirees, or pensioners. But if you consider yourself in that group and today, Charles lake is for you. Of course it is for all of us because all of us will eventually reach the age where we will ourselves become mature, aged

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and whatever else equal gender cheese, right.

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So inshallah we'll talk about the outcome or the laws relating to older people. Older folk. think it's an important subject. We haven't spoken about it yet.

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opening statement is that Islam, the deen of Islam,

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lays great respect and honor gives great respect and honor to the agent.

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above everything Islam honors the agent, and we'll hear how, first of all, we know that Islam honors men, Lakota Calacanis in Santa Fe, accent otaku allows founder and CEO

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And we have created men in the best of shapes and best forms and allows fatherless is lacava. Khurana Bonnie Adam. Allah says certainly we have honored the Son of Man or the son of Adam, with honor the Son of our meaning without all of humanity male and female has been honored our last panel Ouattara.

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So Islamic looks

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at men with honor and respect, and particularly older people.

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And we shall come to know why older people are accorded a higher status and more respected than younger people.

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Age Of course is the fertile ground in which is planted

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the akhirah the older you get, course whether we like it or not. Lamb Alger Illa Allah.

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The Quran talks about running away from Allah, running away from Allah talks about people to run away from Allah. But the Quran is very clear, Allah says you only running towards Allah, there's no other place you can run.

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And the older you get the case you will run to all those foreigners so the faster you run, the fourth, you run towards a loss, nobody can run away from a loss. So the older you get, the closer you come to a loss. And the closer you get to Africa

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and it is older people

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who have been given fertile ground our last 100 increase the good

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and the obedience is to our last hunter because if you only have more time, you can deflect data and so forth and so on. You know your body can't do what it used to do. So you have to sit down a lot and when you sit the logical level is too far, and so forth and so on. As I said last week, the agenda is in the empty place. And we by default, no

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need and we plant trees in the agenda for us.

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And the prophets of Allah Azza wa sallam encourages us

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to always hope to live long

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and then it turns on old people say you know data verify consent this pain or you know, I'm tired now, but in reality the perfect Aliza salon encourages us to always ask allows to have a long life.

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Sooner Maria sallallahu Sallam Teresa Salam was asked

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a university which is the best people which people are the best people.

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mantova Abu Hassan Rama Lu Nafisa Sallam said that these people are those who love long and do good.

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The best people are those who Allah gives long life and in my blog last which are last one it gives them they do as the best they can, that we do more than they normally do.

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And then when Elisa salon was asked, I said, You're a sewer line where the rest people and whenever someone said, call

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me sir, I'm saying those people have long do not do good deeds. And we'll hear why good data sample. So the best person on the dinner is the old person

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or person. This person

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is the best person when he has

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a scene of his armor, not only armor, but the scene of apple.

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Banana dounia Hasina. We asked a lot of fun.

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Tassie means

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adding the ribbons in the bowels to what you do.

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Not just doing it, but doing it with passion. Doing with knowing that you are closer to our last handler, doing it with conviction, doing it sincerely

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and doing it in order to raise your own self esteem. Because many people today suffer from a lack of self esteem. You ask any social worker, or any counselor or any psychologists or psychiatrists, one of the main issues that we have in life today's that people have very little self esteem or self esteem, they think little of themselves.

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They think they're nothing they think they weren't worth they're worthless, they weren't worth anything.

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And the best way to raise your self esteem is to remind us of Allah subhanaw taala to become conscious and to become conscious doesn't cost money because meaning many times people self esteem is taken away because they feel they don't have enough money.

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The most important thing oh then have enough qualifications,

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etc, etc. Or they were beautiful enough for the no dying seminar.

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And they forget that the diamond lies not in the bank.

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Diamond lies inside ourselves. All we need to do is to polish the diamond. All we need to do is is to say confidently Swan, a la, la la, la la la. And to imagine the agenda

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and to imagine the agenda, if you can imagine what I was preparing for you.

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It's like this great scholar went to America for the first time. And we're sitting in this five star hotel so panino five star doesn't look like so many of you have seen five star hotels and amazing American five star hotel, just golden glitz and glitter and this big chandelier hanging there and four soft seats under underfloor heating and flowers and, and he looked at and he smiled and he said to his students, he said to them, he said,

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if this is what man is prepared for man, imagine what Allah has prepared for us.

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He says, Well, the thing is what management papers imagine the castles and the lights and the glitter that allows harville has prepared for us.

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So let's hubby's about the best of men is reported in a man tell me the Hadith number 2330 if you want to look it up, so let's have even intelligence encourages us to do what to do good to increase our good deeds to increase our good deeds and good deeds you can sit and close your eyes and do good deeds and you can go out into the road and do good deeds or even give charity and do good deeds can do so many things. And these are good deeds in Islam allows founders graded good deeds in terms of your age, they send

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you over to class anymore these are able to stay alive anymore in fact there's gonna come a time you wonder the maxilla anymore

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and you get is your best time

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because that is the time when you can really remember our last caller will come to that inshallah we'll talk a little bit about that

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the Navy says allowances and

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give you the quotation or the citation of the heady days ago law

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in LA maybe so someone says that nothing can keep

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you coming back so this will happen to you

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there is no way you can run away from the law

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through blah

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blah keeps away Bella the artists way better. So if you make the art continues to ask how to protect you protect your children guide them allows on the keeps away the Bella Cava for you.

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Many people want to live longer. I mean, I met a young man yesterday 26 years old

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and I introduced it to my aunt my aunt is 91 years old.

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Mashallah. And she's a full sentence vanilla amazing woman. But only on this left, my maternal aunt. And this young man said to me, he said, I want to live like long like what must I do to live like to live like? I'm 19 years old.

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And he

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said even teleflow What must you do?

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in library.

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Doing good increases your age. We now have Institute research, visiting your family increases your age, and even research on spatial dimensions they

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may have been glad to

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be

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alive. Last one. This is a whole there's a whole verse in the Quran where Allah describes what duties there is no to turn your faces to the east of the West. Which means there is no just making Salah.

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They said to me

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when I cannot give them an AMA Billa Allah says to believe in our lunch openers do good to everybody that is to be conscious of our last panel. That will increase

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your honor.

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What do we say? What do young people say today what will increase a

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gym

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and then you read in the newspaper so and so ran the marathon for the last 50 years and suddenly just fell over and he stayed

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perfect heart perfect brain perfect everything. Then I when I go to the gym he dies in the gym.

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Doctor says go to the Germany who goes to the Germany gets auditing guys in the gym.

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I'm not saying don't go to the gym please. I'm not saying don't jump.

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I am saying that there is a guideline in our dean for long life.

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And the one who created as is given that guideline through His Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam.

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And, of course

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The best way to keep healthy

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which is also follow is to do what?

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To eat one third of your salmon for food, one third for water. And one third for a was 99% of our illnesses come from come from the stomach.

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And we all have a responsibility and a duty to assist the older folk, to help them to create avenues for them to express themselves. I mean, one of the one of the things that I always think about and something which I think we lack in our community completely absolutely, is that we have no centers for for all the people where they can meet and gather and do what they do. So the people

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in other countries even in the north in Durban, I've seen it in Johannesburg, with their clubs for Muslims, for older persons all over the world, Malaysia, I've seen it in Pakistan, I've seen Egypt, I've seen it, they have these are the Canaries clubs where people meet and they do whatever they have to do when they can interface with their own age people today doesn't get to sit down the whole day.

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Our fathers and our mothers in Cape Town Congo anyway, except of course for the waterfront. We they don't want to go to places you can take them to maybe for a drive and May, but there's no place where they can actually meet. And it's a command that we should assist all people to develop themselves. Because why Nagisa Salaam said that. All people in the community is the bedrock of the community,

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all people in the community just by virtue of their old age, they are the Baraka in the community.

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So this hobby is about compassion about helping the disallowances mother, Nina fatawa, de matar, amimoto, in congested wide. Now Lisa Sallam said, Muslims in the way they love one another in the way they respect one another in the way they are towards one another is like one body, they're like one body, meaning it's like one single body with one hand and two arms and two legs like one body

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allow

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me

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if one part of the body feels pain, the whole body feels pain. If one part of the body feels neglected, the whole body feels neglected.

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And therefore it is incumbent upon us because I see every day our own people just grow old and die, to grow in the room and bedroom. And they never leave that room. And everybody visits with them, they get home. And that's it.

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And the same effect is going to happen to all of us.

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And therefore maybe one of the projects that we have never tackled is that kind of project, we must maybe start that kind of institution for all the people not to live but to meet.

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And, and as I said at the beginning as we get older,

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our good deeds increase.

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And as our duties increase, we get closer to General. There's a lot of good news for people by the way.

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The pension may not be so good but a lot of other good news

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have been narrated by Abdullah inicia dad

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is narrated by Muhammad in this booster in his collection of Hadith habito 1401

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It's a beautiful Hadith. Listen to this hubby.

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I'm gonna be shot dead.

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In the races have even said in another forum selasa ato annamaria Salalah solemn Aslam

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he says three men came to the Prophet of Allah.

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And all three of them became Muslim accepted Islam.

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So the Prophet asked after they became Muslim asked now who was in charge of them who brought him here and who's in charge of them. So tell her

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tell us a little I brought him and they are under my care.

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And they became Muslim and they integrated into the Medina community. And then when Elisa Lam called for people to join an expedition to go make Jihad

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and one of the men who accepted Islam, he joined the expedition for jihad, and He dived in Jihad

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became Shaheed. Then again the Mandisa ceramcoat

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for people to join the jihad. And the other second one became Muslim he joined the Jihad

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and he died. harmonies left

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one left

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tell her says

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The third one died in his bed. The third one didn't go for jihad. And the third one didn't die Shaheed he died. Mashallah, in his spare

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time he says he had a dream. After the three of them passed away he ended up James

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when he saw these three men in Ghana,

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two of them are Shaheed and one died in his bed.

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And he saw that the one who died in his bed was first in Ghana,

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of the queue.

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And the second one was the person who died

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first as a Shaheed

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and then the person who died last is a Shaheed so the person who died in his bed in his comfortable bed he was first the was the bag on the battlefield. Two people died on the battlefield was second and third.

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So Taha was confused.

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So, how is this possible man died in his bed either to died on the battlefield? Why is it that the one who died in bed first and the two shades second and third,

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as we mentioned, it is a subsidiary. I had this dream for the people who became Muslim and to that Shaheed and one of them died in bed.

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So there is a sensor to tell her tell her

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what don't you understand? What is it that's worrying you? What is it that's troubling you?

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Maybe so someone said,

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Lisa hadn't

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been sitting there is no one better.

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In the eyes of Allah subhanho wa Taala meaning when a believer

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you under Islam, grows old in Islam, who grows up in Islam

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because we he

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worked at li li li repeat Hadith prophets Hassan said to him, there is no one

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of them. I am Bella Bella in the eyes of Allah subhanaw taala means meaning when a believer you are meaningful Islam who grows old in Islam, because of this does be

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any stuck be any steadily.

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What is honey bees

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have been explained by by another habit, which are called to

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do is the best person, the person who grows old in Islam and does a lot of B and tests B and D means what does he do? He says a lot of Allah.

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He says a lot of

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Subhan Allah. And he says a lot of La Ilaha Illa Ma

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and other does be happy for me.

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Even when it was old when he does that there's no better person in the sight of Allah.

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Who's the best president besides the person who grows old in Islam and makes all of us be

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because he has to make himself from his heart and continuously make it.

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So this this is connected to the three people died.

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There is another Hobbes's analysis I'm also describing a similar incident

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where the two people died on the battlefield, one person who died on his bed and the person who died. his bed was ahead of the other two agenda. And again, as a habit question this and the process, Adam said, Did not the man who died in his bed live a year longer than the other two could have some obesity determine who buy these gloves a year longer than the two persons who gotcha heat. And they said yes.

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They may not fast and make saliva and gives a car and give sadaqa for a whole year more than the two Shaheed and they said yes.

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Chanda Shahada is in Ghana we know that. But that is where the longer life and the motors we are no good. He will be head of the Shahada even on the day,

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he will be ahead of the Shahada on the death.

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So this is the blessing that allows the handler gives to the older person to the mature person, person who loves long. So always ask our last handler to prolong life in Sharla

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One of the words of old age or age, not just older but age, what is what is some say about age when you get a 40 to 50 to 30 what happens in those times? What are the words of every age that you pass through and I think this is important information. Man in one Marine One medicine Islam or by the pervert starts with 40 years old.

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The Quran speaks about 4040 being the turning point. The point when even when you when you oh now you started you

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have old age you opening the diet 14 I know the new 40s the ultra tea but

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be that as it may be talking about 40 years not

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what not what we think so the politics of our 40

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to double our diner Santa Monica should allow finances and when you reach the age of 40 you reach the maximum strength in your body when you reach the age of 40 years maximum strength

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from the 80s down.

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In LA Sol de la sala de Missa Salaam says when a man reaches the age of 40 Allah subhanaw taala keeps away from three tests three Bella's

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innocence in fact that Bella mini test one allows hunter

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Magnus

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if you if you say the age of 40, chances are that you will be saying inshallah, till you die. ask Allah for sanity. You know, that's a great you know, if you see the people with Alzheimer's and all that kind of dementia thing you realize how important the mind is, you know how much we should ask our laws to protect our minds rather than our bodies. We're always interested in, you know, keeping the body going. But where are the batteries fit in the mind is going to always ask our loss hunter

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to keep the banks that are generic or just thermal box

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allows to keep the leprosy

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and allow us to protect the mind.

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median

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age of 50

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and you die after the age of 50 allows panelo will

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lighten the punishment in the

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comments. Last handle, lighten up and of course if Allah founder of omega Safar and Toba and Allah forgives you every Sunday, but assuming you're dying, you've made a lot of sense. Because of the age of 15 after 50 our lasagna will be

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merciful merciful towards you.

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Has 18 if you reach the age of 67 love

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allows foreign to give you a gift that you love

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Providence a what it is, he just is allows one will give you something that you love. Maybe no free time.

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I don't know maybe grandchildren

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the lots of things you can think maybe you can think what happened to you when you were 60 and what gift allows for gift to you.

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In the center.

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This is important if you reach age of 70 100 bajo la who

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is

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the

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age of 70 Allah loves you and everyone in the seminar loves you

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as part of the mercy of the last mountain, one thing you know reach 70 you know, so Panama. So we should hold on to the 70

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at least as the first you know.

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So you 70 Mashallah. So Shama to those of you 70.

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Allah loves you.

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He says Allah

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Subhana Allah, could you reach the age of 70?

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Why is femenina

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and if you reach it

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at the age of 80, embracing the good deeds that you do is accepted by law Santana, because today we do good with no exception We ask Allah Allah accept our good deeds or luck and say yes or no, depending on how. And when you reach the age of 80. In receiving a good deed.

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You make the offer, somebody has accepted, every good deed, gifts. Everything is accepted from an ETL panel. So our next thing is you asked how to read so we can read it because it's easy to do that you make. It's written

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Every record that you make is related now not sure but at that age our last one guarantees you in the good that you do is written on your record whose final

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answer yet and every baby that you do is forgiven

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right everybody everybody you do

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have a mother or a father at home and eight years old, given the good news that every good that they do, every baby they do

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is forgiven.

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forgiven.

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Now comes the beauty in the cherry on the cake

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of age.

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Thomas told us to my heart When I see you next time, inshallah

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if you reach the age of 90,

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but now refer Allahumma amin then become a matter

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our forgives all the previous ones in all your future sins.

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So in your summary died at the age of 90% of gender.

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In other words, you've reached the stage of

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Allah promised that he forgave his previous and future sins, and via hammertoes Allah.

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Allah Swami forgive all the patterns and allows father forgave all the future sins. So watching the mouth of the we should aim for 90, isn't it? Subhana Allah COVID-19

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percent of

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you can't do of course you can't get somebody to keep you alive until 90

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to be alive at the age of 90.

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And your current client is always present on the dunya you know, the prisoner is

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24 seven Allah looks after 24 780 And finally, I think the greatest gift for the 1980s It allows allows you on the death kurama to intercede on behalf of your family

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CVM family who's 90 years old visiting a lot.

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So Kiana they remember you and they won't tell you in the general it's a waste.

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And say Allah I want to intercede for so and so.

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And that is why it's always important to visit people, not only your own family, but in your own pace of people to visit so they can ask Allah to forgive you.

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And it was their analysis on said America to Market America to my

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pro hockey, business and absurd. The Baraka lies in your own people. Your backup visit Oh people even Baraka go to the visit op older people.

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Talk to the young people. And what does it say to the young people mokra Masha show from the Sydney ilaqua the love of the whole nuclear

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medicine someone says if a young man honors an old person,

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if a young man shows honor, how you greet the old bed first, don't wait for the older man to greet you first.

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And if it is a C to give it first to the older person, there's not a race that they that they implemented buses and trains. Now this is tsunamis

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that he said

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if a young person honors an older person, the moment that you as a person alone at a point somebody will honor him when he's old.

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So anytime you have an older person attention will

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hold and he will honor you which is the

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people

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who should teach this to our children

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and finally a bit about old people. Now people are old

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some old people in my family

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and you know it's not that difficult I see them the difficult for them when they go to the bathroom difficult to take hobo difficulty maxilla they can't remember on the record, it's cold, they've got

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illnesses and so forth and so on. And just generally the memories are not so good. So they start making money

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and they start forgetting to make their and they start forgetting these things.

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Or maybe they're just old but they buy the food chain.

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As bad as difficult Salah becomes difficult in this cold weather

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in an old person has already been a matter of time. So that old person or the Gator for example for a child to take with you it's difficult. I mean difficult even for young, younger people. What about if you're 90 years old or 80 years old or 70 years old and you've got arthritis and you've got this and you've got that? Or maybe sometimes the older person is taking medications and Margarita makes him sleep

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so how does he make father's make a shot? What What is the deal say?

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The person sleeps a lot

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of sleep in five to 12 o'clock

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so how does it work? How does it How does the Sharia applies to an older person and also to older people the Sharia ties differently

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so we found that there are older people who by the census but they're too weak to make salad in the first place. So it isn't as we said, comics Allah.

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Allah

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or they cannot take we'll do some difficult to take

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for video review for many reasons.

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Reason becomes difficult, really difficult for them to fulfill. Application Windows is difficult to fathom, you know fastings older people sometimes come fast.

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What do they do? Is there a way out for the tickly for Salah

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in the absence of Angela

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Angela bassoon Abdullah Abdullah boss was

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the cousin of Vanessa seven his brother's son

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whom he loved very much and for me made made special that Abdullah boss should be the person to interpret the Quran for the Sahaba to add a special status, maybe got hold of him and and pressed him to his chest and said a llama factor did Allah give him giving knowledge of Deen giving knowledge of the Quran

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making you want to see the Quran to Addis Ababa says in Namibia sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Jana Bernard vizury velocity will never be stubborn with ammonia and minified whorfin What are suffering

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biases

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that he saw that he saw some combined Fallout over the loss of with Apple

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and Missouri both anti

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seminar items in Medina

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meaning without the excuse of travel

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nor the excuse of fear

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the base of Medina

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and we know that you can only combine Salah

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when you are traveling

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and that is only allowed by Imam Shafi in some other Medina Abu hanifa because there's no law that you still have to make the Salah connect to to wear the makeup make it on time Sharpie says you can make to two

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but you have to you can join it. So in this Hurry, Abdullah Abdullah says Marisa Salaam join the Salah verse about Farah castle. And so fast he joined it he makes a mockery and for for for HIV joined it. And he did this in Medina and did this when he wasn't traveling. And he did this when he wasn't ill

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or other when he wasn't

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traveling and when he wasn't when there was no fear. There wasn't fearful of anything.

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Stealing or even our best feeling in our boss was asked by the companions. So what about this hadith? So what about what an evisa salam did? Why did they not be do this? Why did he about seven or eight times that you saw him? Why did he combine any way you seen do it? You don't have to do that it's a hobby.

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Our heart which

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is the Navy's SLR did this

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in order not to place burdens on his own man.

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And the

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fifth

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would have seen this use it say that.

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The bedroom which Abdullah speaks about is the burden of old age and illness.

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In other words, where there is a burden of old age or illness it is allowed for those people to combine their photocards

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with acid photocards in the time of war, the author and mother of three rockets and I shall for a cut in the work of Murray

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Porsche.

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So, if you have a theorem that is old,

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particularly also parents who are old or family or old who are not by the full census, but they also by the filter does you know what I mean?

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They will deny 500% they go by that they know but in fact, we never talk about something you talk about you just accept.

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You know, the person now said yesterday today says tomorrow, the kind of person he says he did yesterday and then he says no, I'm gonna do tomorrow. But the person wants to make Salah the person wants to do everything.

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Of course, first of all, a person in that condition.

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There's no more salon the person, there is no more.

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That person is not good bukanlah there is no tech leaf from that person. Whether they present faster makes a law or gives a car or, for example, it doesn't have to be filled out that person Why not? Because the person is non bias full sets.

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And then

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a column and

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the pain is raised for three people. For three people, nothing is recorded anymore.

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The person who is not by his full senses until he regains the senses, number one. Number two, the child that has not reached adulthood. Number three

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is what

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Barack is the one who slept who is sleeping sorry, if you sleep the pain is raised.

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You can sleep out in the race for an afternoon for those of you sleep every morning oversleep for Pfizer, no, no, no, no, no, no. And the thing is raised, nothing is not raised for you, you have to be there every morning.

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So if you see, for example, and very rich lives was there and you get up off, then it is as if you and you make sure it is as if you might do on time. Because you could be sleeping, or you're an operating table or you're you are unconscious. Alright, so in the mind when the mind is taken away, what is the shadow say nothing is found in that person, whatever it may be. So in the case where your parent or your neighbor or your family is in a situation where you

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don't worry about that person anymore. They worry for the person who makes allow to take if they want to do it

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for me and said you know, family members

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a law now, and you know how to take hoodoo, but I've got some athlete's feet.

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Now you must tell me what to do. Next.

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So I explained to her to do I said you know, you first wash your hands in your face and your feet and then you don't wet your feet and you come and you sit on your bed and you take a little bit of water in a mug and you and you with your fingers and you rub on the whole food that is not sure. And you dry it nicely. And then for in between that is so those were the sores. You take for that

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after explain it about five times.

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So I say to

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just watch your ads in your face if you don't worry about your feet Bismillah Why not? Because the technique of Salas raised because the mind is not fully functional. When the mind is not fully functional. You allow the older person to do whatever they want to do.

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even older people that don't even know what they're making. I know somebody who makes

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Why? Because they forget by the first one that they made for the thing they only started the first one and so they go on and on and on and on. Now don't say was tequila Naima can issue me a ticket and you know you can't do that and you can't do this. No, no, no, no. Maybe the pain is bad for people who have

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senses that they're sick. For them there

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is given that they can join the Salah.

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But should not make a habit of it should not make habit of it. But it is allowed for older people. For booties difficult special winter to perform the photo and also shy all the time when it's time. They can join it also for two people,

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even for people who are in a situation where the legs are broken

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Very, very easy with pneumonia whatever illness people have very difficult they sleep most of the time they have to take medication

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the release, you decide the rule is in terms of the degree of illness and whatever it is you decide when you want to do that. Other people can't decide for you but you can decide for the person who said over 70 over 80 overnight for those people don't pressurize them leave the Mashallah especially when they were good people when they were young there may be people who might Salah

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suddenly they forget to

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call you know Thomas account

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he didn't

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know first that is the deal of a loss

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a loss

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and the week have CRM in the cloud sees that

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allows

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me to Michelle Ferguson woman karma Merida Allah suffering find the 2 million

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you sir

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allowances for the error and time for the traveler. They can break the fast they have to fast it in in the capacity in the sick person also find

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the law we cannot use Ravana you read the Kumasi remember allow us to make things easy and not difficult. So then plays difficulty of people

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for whom there is no difficulty.

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I'm amazed you know what I see on the TV that people are giving certificates to five year old children too fast.

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And I look at this and I say swannell what Dean is this? What team is this that I've seen on the team?

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What Dean is a dean which insists that children are five is ultra fast? Which team not Islam

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doesn't come from Islam.

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So why do we do this? Why do we put burdens which Allah has put

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on a child for five years old. And since he's a wonderful child, the more excited Your parents are, one of these days shall be held in the presence of mother's milk. And so you know, my one year old child passed about a month of Ramadan you know, they had the baby on the TV saying this baby sauce of the month of Ramadan

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I must say I'm saying ways

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in which the in which keytab which have been

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so I see how

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fast they make the five year old fast

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was established you walk off?

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What is this?

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from witnesses come

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and you're excited about all these new fangled ideas that come into the

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house.

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So the brothers and sisters, we talk about the deen of Allah subhanaw taala when we impose

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upon Muslims,

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what Allah has imposed on them, then the grain is on us.

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In the blade is on us, a child is only supposed to fast

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from the time that the child becomes an adult. Yes, and that is a solemn did say, maybe after 10 you should

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try and make the past half day like our parents did. You know,

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oh, I have breakfast in the morning at eight o'clock and then maybe come home after school at three o'clock, there must be some sort of training another five, five years of age, I mean, pushing the envelope too much to the edge.

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So now I was wanting to give each other that we will reach old age

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and will allow us to give that we will reach such an old age that you know we all our previous and future sins are forgiven.

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And this is the mercy of Allah subhanaw taala This shows

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that

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we can see by this one had even allowed his father his name.

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You know the banker to die graduate from a grave and it pushes you into a into a fire you know, people have this idea of a loss or a loss or loss to give you before you reach the grave as he wants to give you before he does it without even knowing it.

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Do you need to

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say to john,

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last Alexander said you charlo Tanana Salam alikoum