Yaser Birjas – Isha Khatirah 2012 01 08

Yaser Birjas
AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the meaning behind "slow is easy" and the difficulty of achieving success in various situations. They emphasize the importance of breaking fast and maintaining a common meaning for personal success. The speakers also touch on the topic of establishing a site and avoiding regret and mistakes. They stress the need for a steady mindset and focus on one's goals, emphasizing the importance of avoiding regret and mistakes.
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chart Ron Clements and gentlemen Spanner my eyeshadow the Allahu

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Allah mahira Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam been on the pot till after the Isola Houma, mela mechanismen she said,

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she said the Messenger of Allah Azza wa sallam whenever I was given a choice between two matters, he would always choose the either the easier course as long as it was not sinful to do so. So if they have choice, he would always be taken down, which is easier. And then he said, Unless of course, it's considered a sin or harm. She said, the encounter with a man can either nassima because if it was sinful to do, it was sinful. He was most strict in avoiding it is very careful about this issue. Or that woman Taka man woman Taka Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Molina caught the Messenger of Allah sallallahu sallam, he never took revenge upon anybody for his own sake, in anti karma to LA

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LA to Allah. But when the laws legal bindings were outraged or Vich was provoked, he would take revenge for the loss of data sake on Friday.

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So the prophets of wasallam in favor never had any choices would always choose that which is easy. The question is, what do we mean by easier?

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Unfortunately, many people misinterpret this idea. And the last panel the professor says yes, you will not assume means make things easy don't make things difficult for people. And the last panel Darla he mentioned many idea

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about the use of animals to do so. With every difficulty and harsher there's always ease comes ease with that. And the prophets Allah Sam says novelist serene Machina

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Welcome to bathroom when you were sent Nova Shireen given good news and glad tidings you do not send to people. When I say immediate right you you repel people from coming to the last panel, what are you what sets and for that reason? So but what is the meaning of sin is, for instance, if someone was given the choice between praying Salah to our home and praying in the mosque, which one is better as a man

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message right, but which one is easier?

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So which one is easier?

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In your calculation at home is easier, right? But will Allah subhanho wa Taala which is easier.

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It's actually a moment in Gemma.

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Because if you always calculate the short term benefit, yeah, Frank at home is easier.

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But the long term benefit, if you think of that, grain at home is very dangerous

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is detrimental and make things difficult for you in this dunya. And

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so, whenever I look at things easy or difficult, should always consider what Allah subhana wa Taala considers to be easy or not, because Allah subhanaw taala says, live only for long enough. So, he knows whatever the last panel that has met has prescription or obligation, it is according to ability to achieve it as a human being the last panel will not overwhelming will not overburden you with that which you cannot bear.

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So whatever has been prescribed is something that you can, however, if you are traveling, if you are traveling,

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you have it in Ramadan, you have the choice of breaking fast, and you have the choice of staying fast. Which one is easier?

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To break the fast, right?

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You don't want to go into the hassle of you know, getting thirsty and tired and getting grumpy because of travel and so forth. So break through fast and enjoy the meat.

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But which one is

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is more rewarding in this case.

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What isn't also breaking also breaking the past because the Prophet sallallaahu salam he said that in the life of

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Allah loves that you take the concession as much as he loves from you to take that which is considered the norm in the in the rules. So you see that even though here it's easier and even more rewarding in this case. So you'll be given the option and the choice. The problem would go with breaking the fast yes, sometimes he would consider you know, establishing specific rule like teaching us it's permissible to fast he would fast

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In the famous hedge fund they will go into Mecca Overture when they were traveling on journey Ramadan. The prophets of the day said that it was in the summer was extremely hot the month of Ramadan. And they said no one was fasting except for acrosser. Allah is Allah Allah, Allah, Allah wa. They were just fasting, they said there was extremely hard that we used to put our hands in our heads to cover our head, because there is nothing else to us from the sun from the head, still the Messenger of Allah and Allah miroir fasting everybody else was not fasting. So this is not kind of a difficult. What is the process of Allah seller take the easy way in this case, to teach us a lesson.

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That is you know, you can test if you want to, when you better break the first one of the prophets of Allah Salaam was in the head, and it was the only time the prophets of Allah seven performed Hajj in Islam, after he returned to Mecca to Medina, was the only time it was only 100. In Salalah Salam since he moved to Medina,

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which was the last time the prophet SAW son was an alpha, fasting alpha. Is that a virtue? We all know that. You can force another module of Kabbalah it gives you an explanation of sins of two years. So when the prophets of Allah wa Salaam was in the mindset, he was an alpha, he was on his scanner. People were wondering, is the professor assigned faster? What should be fast? Oh, my God is too much. It's hot. It's crowded. It's difficult. So Can someone you know report confirm that? I guess the answer to this. So one of us I have one of Solaris, Allah, Allah. And he said, jasola in the nastiest people are asking

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for that abuse, Allah sanctify the human level. So the property ordered that they gave him a cup of milk. He grabbed a cup of milk while he was on the camera. And he stood up, keeping his feet firmly on the side of the camel legs. And he stood up and he grabbed the milk. I said, Bismillah

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for sure, one nostril neuron, and he drank while everyone else was watching.

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What was it? What did he do? So last Sunday, he was given a practical answer. He let everybody watch as they were watching. So this banana was drinking, which means not fasting. That means I know it's a bit of a virtuous day too fast. But for the judge, which one is easier for them? Not too fast to break their fast it's easier for them. So if he had a choice, he would take that which is easiest. But it was something halal haram and he said that Haram is easier than the Allah. Now for instance, which one is easier Gemma getting married, or committing the Harlem and the zero?

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Those who are married forget about

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talk to those who are young right now. under the age of getting married, guys, is it difficult, it's harder to get married or either the lack of medicine it's hard to get married these days a long time. It's getting so hard for them. Because they come on complains that all you have all these lists of requirements and qualifications and to do the header. And the harm is just a few bucks down the road. And then just around the corner edible and different places. So who's holding them from not committing this in their belief that it's Hmm. So if you want to say how the easy is always, you know, generic meaning of easiness now it's not when we say the proper was always taken down which is

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the easiest. He also takes in consideration what is easy in terms of the deen and the dunya.

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So yeah, something last part I prefer to have it like breaking the fast one Ramadan while traveling, he will do that.

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But if it's something between something virtuous and less virtuous, then he would also last a long try to reach that which is the best one.

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Any question?

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came in San Antonio, I don't know if it requires a hug or not, but not too far.

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Establish the prayer in the Quran. What is the intended meaning of establishing a saw? Now that's not that's not the second answer.

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The question is about what's the meaning of Joaquin Sala the English word is established. Actually the diploma if you look at the old Academy, okay when the Arabic language and it's an amazing expression, it's not like establishing and establish is just basically in the Arabic word for clauses to establish this disease associated with a system. But the environment First of all, you assume the Salah is not that you're initiating anything new. No, you just it's it's already been established. You're wrong on your job.

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Just to make sure that you maintain that a common salon and there is no doubt about you know, salon is well established, you cannot be there won't be any time throughout the life of human beings until the day of judgment that any day will pass without people making some

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meaning here is that you know, establishing a mosque, and that's what I'm gonna come to. So eventually establishing a site already been established, your role is to be a part of, of basically the account of Salah, which means to

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standing up for it. Like we say you don't stand up for something, meaning what? To do everything possible to achieve it and do it. When you say stand up for your rights. For instance, how would you stand up for your rights

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by speaking, by writing by marching by donating by recruiting by what else you can count many ways of achieving them, right? So Allah says, Allah standard for the Salah, which means you're not just establishing it's fulfilling everything that is required to do and fulfill that song, whether it's establishing the massage it, learning how to do it, making the loo So essentially, it's a deep, very deep meaning for the water fountains are so shallow that you know, the more details would come if we give an electron or a photon for pleasure, we can give money to

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another unrelated topic.

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As far as consuming and selling alcohol, we have very well established How do you know for those who you know, not a lot

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but as far as selling

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consumer related to pork related

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pig related products? Yes. Is there any equivalent

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as far as the law now or basically we know that import is prohibited? Is anything related to pork? Or basically pigment material coming from pages? Are there any prohibition on it? It's clear and the height and the son of the Prophet sauce and the answer is yes. One of these are added under the civil law system so era and definitions of the Mater which means the facts like law for example, that is usually used to in I used when when they when they create when they make boats I don't know what they call the process actually. But they usually they coat the bottom of the boat with this material like seal to seal it. So these use facts at those times basically. And he was asked if it's

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permissible to use this for that purpose to seal the bottom of the boats when the fact of the matter Franzia also use this fat or this oil, you stopped by hoping for the for the lantern masabi so they burn best at this to create the fire in the life. It is permissible not the Prophet sallallahu Sallam he says in a lot in the hardware cache and how am I

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going to last panel data forever Sunday would prohibit any the profit that comes from it. That means it's very clear that you cannot sell that data the prophets of Allah Salah mentioned specific items are analyzed feminine, but there was some my

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son so like you know selling for example, statues selling

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dogs also edible if someone commits Zina or prostitution right the money that comes out of it is all concerned harm by all means So based on this if anything that has this product selling it

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online so for example if someone says someone is selling

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pig skin or let's assume you know the football, Jasmine manly of thick skin, if it's big skin according to the majority of the vulva, the vast majority of the vulva even if it was tan there was to be considered nudges and you can't use it even the leather jacket because a lot of jackets jackets are made of thick skin deep skin yes

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they made it from goat

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Cow Cow sheep land and it is the mistake they were allowed to consume is considered okay if it's properly big time, but the pig skin of animals does so dispute particular the dog and and the pig.

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Some fuqaha they allow it was properly done. But the majority of them are

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prohibited even if it was properly. You shouldn't be worried. You shouldn't be worried that it was it was originally from pigs.

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medication, no medication, no medication, the medication we're gonna have to go into details of alternatives.

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urgency necessities and all these things. For example, if you have capsules that are made of gelatin, which is source, pork sauce, for example, or pig sauce, in this case, I will say look for some vegetarian cases,

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swine flu vaccination, which

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people were getting

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from last year.

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So, in order to get the treatment, the vaccination is created from from

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swine flu, I don't know what exactly that vaccination coming from? I honestly can't give an answer to this, I can't judge it. But if there is any necessity for any necessity it has to be measured.

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Based on its circumstances, I cannot give a blanket answer to this is very particular question. And I don't have the answer for law. That's what I can say. Now.

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For people who

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relate to this, whenever you

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know, some people when it comes to the issue of using a diet, if you have two options to take the easiest or the most difficult. What about those who always try to use the path of water, just the path of asceticism and carefully be too careful. And in this case, they don't want to fall into the shadow or the darker matters. And they do that the professor submitted very clear stuff on the new album, this person, he just is making his jet engine very clear handle on fuel, keep it himself keep himself pure. However, if something is doubtful, that does not necessarily mean it's allowed. Unfortunately, the practice of people doubtful matters means I can do it, unless proven otherwise.

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That's how people acted. So it's only a few catalyzers, you can do this.

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It's not hard on the

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difference of opinion on decision. So once they use the word difference of opinion of mind and this issue, they mean it's doubtful. And if it's doubtful I can do well, why would Why did you choose the path of doing it and not taking the other path when they're both equal in this regard? So if someone would choose the path of Warren handler, they're on the same side there is okay. However, it's also sometimes the part of the law is to

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take the easiest way on the opposite side. Like for instance, the mammals has heard about him a lot Darren, yeah, he mentioned the example of another football like him and Mac. So he says when it comes to food and dress and luxury of life, element, Maliki began his life.

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In a very aesthetic way, he reached a point where he had to sell the beams the wooden beams that actually meant the roof of his house in order to survive. Mmm. But then later on, when he was recognized by the Apaches dynasty and the philosopher, he became very well off Mashallah. So he said that he was always eat meat every almost almost every day, he would eat some meat, he would eat fruit, his house has relative luxury compared to other people. He dresses very nicely when he was asked about this. He said, this is all from our last panel data Hello. And he wants to become globally and strong to teach the students comparative and Rahim Allah to Allah, he was leading a

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completely opposite way of life. So a man aka Mr. Love Dahlia would say these are two paths of regret scars. One of them he took the easiest way, in considering, you know, if it's available, it's harder or consuming because that last part allows me to do that. And in this case, I'll do it and teach the students

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even though it's hard, I'll try to avoid this, as you know, making myself closer by doing a one hour suit in this case. So whoever chooses the path of war, they're always on the safe side and shall not die.

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The provision of benefiting from those

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transactions right or

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party if someone is an employee,

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for example, someone's working in a convenience store and they sell the alcohol when it comes to the cash. Is that what you're saying? Well, I would definitely would not recommend someone to put himself in that position, specifically, the cash position. Why? Because you're going to be the one who's

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finalizing the deal. In this case. Even even with just passing and scanning the items, you're the one who's financing the whole thing and signing the papers and the receipt and all those things. If someone works in a big retail store, let's say which is maybe have 5% 2% of its products,

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like one of these big retail, for example, stores. In this case, hopefully if they work in a different department, like gardening, for instance, that

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they're earning a gentleman shallot that has cut out some of the animals recommended to take percentage equal to the harm element in this in the business to make sure that they take that

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I'm founder founder I sorry, I don't see that actually necessary, it's up to them. Which brings us to the other side, just they just they get out of being too careful and shallow data for this.

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But if the majority or the business has a great percentage of how long, let's say 30%,

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sort of an abuse of assumptions about through to Kathy, one third, and the third is actually too much. So, if more than one third of the business goes into the wrong element, I will recommend the person to walk over there, even if it doesn't work on the cache will lie.

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For So, so I have a situation where a

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person is running a restaurant or actually owning a restaurant and he has some some pork items.

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Now, knowing what I know, about

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what advice would you give me to kind of

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deliver the message without sounding like,

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you gotta go to *

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won't be that.

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You know, someone was telling that in his restaurant, the best way sometimes Ola is the direct way. But in a very polite manner. It is sometimes being too diplomatic and giving someone advice, we make things we always given them an exit door.

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But we tell them, you know, what I'm coming in will lie as advice. You know me very well. I'm your friend. And I love it for the last panel with Amazon. And what it really hurts me to see that you're, you do think that I would not accept for myself, like selling these kind of things in your store. So as advice for you would like for me to find a way to get out of this thing.

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And try your best. And I'm honest, I don't have the answer for you. But I would love for me to be more successful and shortline dystonia, and even in that. And if you need any help with that, let me know, I thought I'll do my best to show you offer me this advice. I hope each other whenever it is. But most people who are involved in that kind of business, it's because they don't see any other alternative.

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And because of the kind of lifestyle we live in, we have a lot of bills to cover and take care of. So it becomes very stressful. Yeah, he his answer was because he had a he had a kind of

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restaurant chain, you know, just a one day but you had like a free association moment where he was kind of going back back and forth between, you know, speaking out loud to me about about this matter and, and he said basically, it's less, and his mind was less

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central to sell these products, the courses. There is no such thing as lesson four. Because when we do when we did with the last panel,

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that's how you measure the sun and come up with

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less than less than less

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nasiha but I can

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Well, I can only rely on me Manasa

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don't look how tiny the sin is. Look how great the one who against whom you've committed that sin. Allah. Allah

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I mean,

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the lobby I mean

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it's, it's a form of an imperative verb and form of a noun. I forgot that actually that mnemonic title for that. Let's move on Medina, what's this? This is an English lesson on

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nonverbal, that's a translation of the word itself or is that something existing in the English language,

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this month will exist in English.

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So this one will be sometimes some nouns, some nouns They come in a form of a verb basically, or use the imperative in a form of a noun. So I mean, this move fairly, I'm gonna be monastery, which means a lot, except is that Arabic, it's Arabic, because the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said that and he spoke that word.

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So why we had the English they say, Amen. Is that coming from me? Allah, I did not do the research on it. I'm not sure if it's really been taken from the army on from Aramaic, or Hebrew, or all these Semitic languages. Sure, this

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could be

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I mean, it's I mean, I mean, Mata conquer Allah, Allah now

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owning an example

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owning an app, for example, or going back to

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At a Walmart worried now for example, this Walmart sells a lot of work product and and below as well, what?

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What's the judgment on owning a restaurant that does sell for almost you can't get away from having pork in a restaurant almost well you can you can

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you know that's true, but can you survive without owning a franchise? If you want to? You can? Yeah, so eventually when it comes to this dinner, I cannot accept the argument that I have to own this restaurant because

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I can't say that. So eventually. Is it necessary that I survived? Absolutely. I agree with him. But that doesn't mean if I stopped, you know, I have I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I'm gonna stop. So the person has to be business intelligence. And he has to be smart, you know, and that's in the making the decision that Allah subhanho wa Taala would not request from you to go and in vain ritually make a make a business plan to get yourself out of that haram as soon as possible. And not as products of a larger size and sort of sort of

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Falcon feroza sobre como Samana contento. De Monaco, if you really depend on us, Panama, take your capital, that's what I do with people in terms of interest.

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But in terms of business, try to slowly and gradually get out of a charlatan as soon as possible sometimes, which is, the worst thing is actually is not in the calculation is not in the account itself. As much as it's something in the end, the problem becomes actually mental. stressful. Why? Because just thinking about quitting that job, is I'm gonna die, I'm not gonna find a job, I'm not gonna be successful, no one's gonna, how are we going to do this? How are we going to do all that stuff and so, so they become so paranoid, that they feel if I stop this, that's it, that's gonna be the end of the world. That's the

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obsession. Absolutely.

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And I've seen it but personally, I'm sure that many of you perhaps experienced that in their lives. And on the other hand, the best opportunity might not come your way until you give up the one you have in your hand.

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But we all just like the subject of job security, income, income coming in right now, job security, I don't want to quit that, unless I hold on to another one. And you know that you cannot keep chasing two things at the same time.

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So therefore, no, I'm secure with this. So if this succeeds, I'll move there. But how is this going to succeed if you only give it 10% of your attention?

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And I've seen people do quit that job completely. Now that they're free and their mind is free from that stress. They start becoming more focused, another project that becomes more successful will come out

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