Be Nice With People – Be Kind To Others

Yaser Birjas


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AI: Summary © The conversation covers the most precious thing that will bring the love of Allah Azza wa jal to the United States, emphasizing the importance of not being too busy with pride or pride in the face of the pandemic, not being too busy with pride and not feeling like they are just getting out of debt, and the need for individuals to care for others and promote them. The importance of good deeds and the need for individuals to show appreciation and gratitude to guests and everyone in community is emphasized. The speaker also discusses the importance of showing kindness and caring for others' needs to avoid embarrassment and confusion, and the need for individuals to show appreciation and gratitude to guests and everyone in community.
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Have you know Muhammad Ali or cyber cinema but how many of you would like to be loved by Allah azza wa jal

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Masha Allah all of you right?

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What is the most precious thing that you can think of? You can think of tonight to earn the love of Allah subhanho wa Taala what would it be?

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To break away? MashAllah good what else?

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The most precious thing you can think of that will bring you the love of Allah azza wa jal what would it be? Yes.

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So again

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sincerity beautiful what else?

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They care vilazodone

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worship Allah subhanho wa Taala ladies Yes.

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What is it? Dua Masha Allah

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is you might look at you

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love for the Prophet sallallahu wasallam How about volunteering?

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Have a volunteering and I'm serious about this.

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Why is that because the prophets of Assam says in the Hadith, I have been nursing it Allah and foul homeliness, the most beloved people to Allah are those who are most beneficial to others.

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Those who are most beneficial to others, these brothers and sister that you sitting around wearing these blue vest and yellow vest, hopefully inshallah they're earning the most out of the love of Allah subhanho wa Taala tonight, so be kind to them.

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Be kind and be nice to them. The repeat the love of Allah azza wa jal tonight to make you enjoy your DUA, Your Worship, your sincerity, your zakah, your Abba, whatever that you're going to be doing tonight over here. Brothers and sisters, I want to make this message very clear. When the prophets of Allah Selim was sent to the world what was his the whole mission of the professor's and what's the purpose of it, he made it a few words he just called in Mr. Boies to I was sent to the world for what and when I was

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little Tammy Masada Had Allah to help people perfect their characters to perfect the character. This is the most important things. Many people they come on the 27th Night Alhamdulillah and as you can see, it's much a very popular even with children, because everybody wants to bring their families as well to them as it is a very special night a very precious night. It could be one of those potential nonvolatile cuddle. So everybody would love to get the best out of it in short loads of Oracle data. But unfortunately, sometimes we come with some sort of like a very individualistic view about it. Like I want my space, I want my place I want to be in the masjid, I'm not going to pray in the tent.

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I'm not gonna love this I'm not gonna have that and unfortunately in the process of trying to acquire the best accomplishment of this night, we sin we send by becoming rude. We're becoming very obnoxious, and we Subhanallah hurt other people in the process.

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Unfortunately I have to speak about this because a few nights ago and in the last night as well to some of the volunteers for sure complained to us and came in crying even how they'd be misread by some of the guests who come to visit if you would like to be in the masala and pray in the masala come early come like everybody else who came maybe half an hour 45 minutes an hour before and some I know they come from outside of the state until after thorough we're not even a little further actually come early. But if you're going to be coming becoming late even if you drove an hour, I don't care if you're going to be coming after the places or the fault capacity and we've closed the

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doors you cannot push the volunteers away so you can go through you can't

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there go getting the love of Allah subhanho wa Taala for the service they're doing for you. So don't think that you're going to be better than them just be getting through into the masala area where there's not going to happen. I want us to understand that these precious knights can go away from us if we don't do it right. You see, you might come here hamdulillah and get your spot in the masala and have your own personal space and do a badass Baraka Rahman you know from from the moment you enter until after fajr Allah subhanho wa Taala give you the reward for Catriona Bellarmine you might get it but in the in the Day of Judgment The Prophet said Allah said um says Cara Saracen through

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nominal modulus Do you know who this who the bankrupt is? So Sahaba said yeah man the one who call him Allah drama Allahu Allah denote the person who's out of gold or silver like has no money. The Prophet says so Carla, no, no, no, no, this is easiest way. This is the is the easy bankruptcy. That's easy. If this is what you think of bankruptcy, this is easy. Kawada can remove plus the true bankrupt is the one who comes on the Day of Judgment. They are a man. Man Salatin was yeah man was sadhaka catchy bell to hammer, the brain ribbon loads of good deeds, mountains of deeds made of Salah, fasting, charities, all the things that we're trying to do tonight, right? Mountain does have

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these diseases Salah Salem, Kovalchuk,

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And Laura bajada Washington Maha well I call Amanda Hannah. But all these good deeds come with liabilities. This person heard this one curse this one insulted this one unicast at this one so so many insults are coming now attached this way by that. So the Prophet SAW Selim says the man has to do or the man has Hassan RT under current reconciliation moment back on the Day of Judgment, it's not going to be with cash and money doesn't matter how much money you have in this dunya doesn't matter how many royalties you have, how much you know how smart you are, it's not gonna happen not gonna benefit you. It's gonna be with deeds. So the purpose of South Korea who had them and Hassan

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RT so they start taking from your house and art and put others your hard earned Hassan at

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your heart and has an art are just gonna disappear.

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All the efforts you made to come at this night and spend on this 90 for that as well the purpose of the Ibadah might go away. If it comes with attachment like these, like you're hurt one of the volunteers or one of the neighbors next to us, or one of the brothers and sisters no and the parking lot. If you just if you don't make sure that you keep everything and candlelight clear, those good deeds will come with a lot of liabilities. So the take from this hasenhuttl There has an ad and then if you have more people on so many people still you owe many, many other people, they start taking from there say at their bad deeds, and they dump them on your records of bad deeds, even if you had

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a clean slate

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even if you had mashallah clean record. But unfortunately, you have hurt other people and that fascists are taken from them. And that probably maybe because the person or or the biller to end up in Jahannam

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all these good deeds, not enough to take a person out of the Wrath of Allah azza wa jal because we hurt other people. Brothers and sisters, Allah subhanho wa Taala said the Prophet saw some Rahmatullah Alameen mercy to the world and that mercy is delivered through people like you and I, and that mercy comes to other people as well too. Which means part of our mission is to make sure that we observe personal hook, personal hook in NEMA birthday tournament silent off law, I was sent to the world to help the people perfect the characters and to prepare the character ALLAH SubhanA wa Taala gave us the best example. And that best example is Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam whom ALLAH

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SubhanA wa Tada said about in the Quran,

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Allah, Allah hooligan, other Indian Muhammad who are on a highest standard of character.

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And Allah subhanho wa Taala commands us to follow his example, look at cannula confy, Rasulullah, Sultan Hassan, there you have the best example and Your Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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So we need to follow that model,

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part of our API that part of our API that is to care for other people. When we live in a society that promotes individualism to the extreme, we start losing touch with other people. We start forgetting about you know, the the need to share space with other people to help one another to squeezing to fit somebody else's shell into Yes, it's hard and difficult, but you know what? The joy of a handler helping someone else to earn that award would be great inshallah Zildjian. Making sure you know, if someone needs help with anything, I would help them out whatever their kids were, the Lord was there back wherever we help and assist each other instead of trying to fight against each

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other. Just for the sake of having a spot here or there for the Regatta. That is the best. That's how it used to be at the time of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he himself was the best example with that robotiq Rahim Allah Tala once was asked Carlo. How would you summarize hustlin cola if you would like to someone who hasn't heard of how would you summarize that? But if I want to someone who's hustling in two words, simply called Corcovado stop being angry,

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don't get angry at anything.

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And nowadays, unfortunately, you can't have a lot of sense of entitlement. Will you start getting angry or anything

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like anything gets you angry these days and you are very vocal, you're very expressive of it. Unfortunately, that will lead to hurt other people. Some of them are close to you like the family members as well to make sure that your husband HELOC starts from home and spreads around in shallow Tabata, Kotara. Brothers and sisters. When it comes to the community as a community, we can't survive as a community if we are going to be such thinking about ourselves. Just me I want to go through the doors no matter what. I want to come here no matter what even it means that you hurt somebody else. It's okay for me. I'm gonna have just so my dedication. You can't do this. You can't

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do this. In Hatha Rasul Allah Azza wa sallam he is so on top around the Kaaba. As he was making Tawaf and Amara Dylon was mashallah was a tough guy. And he when he walks through the crowd, he's just gonna crush them probably. So the Prophet says him as he saw him, he's trying to go on into the huddle. So he goes, Yeah, this is easy.

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Easy, like take it easy. You don't have to basically he's telling him you don't have to get there.

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Take it easy with the people

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If you've been tortured as was recently Rama or Hodge anytime actually throughout the whole lifetime, you know how it looks like over there right? Does anyone care about courtesy or their Wallah? If they do, it becomes easy, everybody will get a chance to touch it hydrolyzable

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Everyone will have a chance. But because we have this selfish mentality, me, we push through and we don't care about other people. I don't want this mentality of 100 us but to be our situation in our misogyny in our communities. I want you to think about your brothers and sisters who around you just like you would love to enjoy a bed over here. They also would like to enjoy their bed over here. However, since we have limited space, it doesn't make sense to open the door to anyone who wants to come just because they came from far away or they thought you know what I live here. I'm close to this place. answer's no, there is no entitlement, no sense of entitlement of in that regard. So

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please make sure that you show courtesy and show kindness to one another. To the brothers and sisters around you over here in the masjid make sure to show kindness to the Michelle extra kindness tonight. Because if you'd like to be loved by Allah azza wa jal This is one of your best chances in sha Allah one of your best a by that is to be kind to other people. I want to I want to close with this hadith Rasul Allah has similar sentiment about Ayesha della Anna about the Prophet sallallahu sallam, which he said when the prophets of Assam received Accra Bismillah because of the color and he was terrified. The first revelation of the Quran read in the Name of your Lord who created He

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rushed to the house of Israel of the love and said, cover me and she wrapped him with his blanket and he was terrified. But then when he come down, she asked him what he saw he told her the story. Then she said to him, no, no, no, Allah will never disgrace you, you'll never be ashamed. Why, and she counted five qualities of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. That is the essence the essence of the best character. So she said about him caught up in Nikola Tesla, hum, you maintain that as of kinship, you can't do family, water Heaven will can and you carry the burden of those who are overwhelmed with taxable Madam, you will revive the hope for those who lost all hope. We're not

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gonna dive generous to the guests, no matter who they are. What you mean, I don't know. I will help and you help people I guess atrocities of life. What are these five qualities of your man they're all about what other people, nothing about him.

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It's all about other people.

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And that's what made the Prophet sallallahu wasallam the best character, you want to be among His most beloved to Allah subhanho wa Taala then work tonight as for this rabada that Ibadah is to be nice to other people. And be kind to those around you. Make sure to keep that in mind in sha Allah Allah on your way out anyway, enter the masjid make sure to say thank you and Xochimilco for all these volunteers because they truly they truly abandoned their revive their individual Avada so we can all enjoy it.

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They could have been sitting with us over here really but they chose to volunteer for you and I so you can enjoy what I'm about and shallow data so please make sure to make a lot of drive for them tonight inshallah So John, and thank them greatly when Elijah Baraka Ouattara lastly, before we started our Salam analogical shake hands with those around you as you just said chat with them, get to know them by name where they came from just quick minutes for that a second a shallow Darla bring that spirit of love to each other and sha Allah Allah BarakAllahu cul de sac Malacca