Islamic Q & A 03-07-22

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Santa Monica Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh it's your brother Yeah. Hey Ibrahim coming to you live from Perth, Western Australia here at Islam channel, masha Allah, our wonderful vehicle for Islamic q&a. It's an honor and a privilege of him to love to connect you once again at our regularly scheduled time of noon Wednesdays, for this Islam q&a opportunity. I pray that Allah subhana wa to Allah except from all of us, that makes your questions and our attempts at sending some type of sense and answer to them in our scales on the day of judgment and a charity that we share with others who Alhamdulillah are given an opportunity to listen from all around the world. May Allah subhanho wa

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Taala allow us to be of those whose hearts are wakeful, and in a greater opportunity of doing good in our own private life that we seek to extend in our relationship with others Allahumma Amin in sha Allah as is the norm, I do anticipate and look forward to your questions coming in my do take this opportunity to call and share in sha Allah with something that could be of benefit to others. And in the meantime, I wanted to speak about the importance of resilience. Resilience is a really proper way of talking about sub. Usually when people translate the word sub or patience, they refer to it almost as if it's an inactive process that I'm just need to be patient, I just need to sit back and

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wait. Things will change eventually. Allah subhanaw taala of course gives us a very important mandate in the Quran, where Allah Subhana Allah says, in non law there you have a Euro map if Coleman had the euro, maybe unforeseen, that Allah does not change the condition of a person or a people until or unless they make the change themselves. They're on a mat understand this, of course, that Allah will not change your positive circumstance to a negative circumstance or from a negative stance to a positive stance. Unless you make a movement, a movement of your heart, through your intention, a movement of your will and power, an action or movement of asking for help, whatever it

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may be, there must be something that you put forward towards it. You could see this all throughout the Quran, that the strategy of a believer is always action rather than passive or inactive inaction. We pray that Allah Subhana Allah to Allah allows us to be resilient throughout the tumultuous life that we live. The opportunities that we have to find patience and Sabra with Allah subhanho wa Taala will always be many Allah subhanho wa Taala says with lamb will amor with the pretext of the letter lamb as meaning and incumbency, a definitely a definitive stance well in a blue one napkin I will certainly trial you and test you in life knowing this of course is a

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reassurance of a believer when you know that Allah subhana wa timeless love is hidden in the test that you passed in the opportunity of proving your love and commitment to Allah not just in the good days, but also in the days that are a challenge Allah Subhana Allah to Allah wants you to prove to yourself not necessarily to the Almighty Allah Who knows what will be even before it happened, that Allah wants you to know that you have chosen and after over the dunya that you have chosen to give from that which is loved by you to those who are other than yourself in your family that you have chosen to put others before you at times because of their need, that this empowers you and gives you

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an opportunity to soar with a growth mindset that I want more for my asset than just the mere scraps and crumbs of the dunya that you stand before the King of kings and you are not just going to simply ask for a small print patterns and a small penny from the one who is a US yeah Subhan Allah to Allah the old giving an all encompassing, make Allah Subhana Allah to Allah allow us resiliency and belief in him. I wanted to speak about recovery from hardship and trial Subhanallah each and every one of us is tested, and Imam of Milka yummy speaks about our tests and trials as not being seen

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bleed of that reaches a hardship or a difficulty, but it could be disguised in an ease in a facility and a comfort. He says and I conclude with this as we take our first caller, and if Tila will be Noreen OXA, I should do well if Tila immediately will talk, that Allah to test us with providing for us facility, ease and comfort and happiness and delight is a more difficult test at times to pass than for Allah to withdraw from us some of the luxuries that we love and we seek in life, may Allah give us stability allotment. I mean, we have our first caller on the line as salaam alaikum. Caller How can I help?

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Shane, I have a question because a bit of time ago was going around and it was related to

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people was actually wondering that when they were told that if your device

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then in the next slide, you will get it for that apparent reason they abandoned because it is what is the next level they wanted this said if we don't get in this life, you know, what good is it? Was it the next month, etc? And it is it can you just explain this matter? To me?

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It's an important question and I think it's relevant to everyone. The our brother is asking that there are people who kind of have stopped or have not maintained the same level of conscious drop of invoking ALLAH asking ALLAH begging of Allah for their immediate or future needs, because they heard that sometimes or many times your DUA in this life will not be answered and it will be deferred for Allah giving you something in the answer. So well, you know why even bother Allah will give us what he did. That Allah Subhana Allah Allah says in the Quran in surah de la fille or su the movement depending on the naming, nomenclature, Allah subhanaw taala says in Alladhina stek be rude and

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dirty. I am Dr. de sade, hallucinogen, Damodar city, those who are bending, invoking me, worshiping Me by making petition to me supplicating to me, they will be of those who enter extreme punishment of Allah. Allah also says to us, that dua is an aspect of our relationship where either set adequately Betty when they asked you about me for Indian curry OG I answered, so Allah has said he entered. Now July is of two levels of two types. The first type of dua is the dua where we praise and magnify a lot that should never be abandoned. Where Allahu Akbar when Anita Hill happens to Pamela what we have next to Pamela hit I'll leave the ILA la devilishly color level model color will

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have to work who are other coalition co de la hawla, wala Quwata illa villas, are we that is always received in trouble by Allah. The second category of Euro is to add a column, or do I wish to add where you ask Allah of his father, the prophets I seldom said mainland, yes. And in that Jakob Ali, the one who is not regularly asking Allah for things, it is due to the anger of Allah or they have angered Allah, meaning that their heart has abandoned Allah subhanho wa taala, that they don't feel that connection that they will be heard. And that's a result of Allah being angered by some of the deeds that they have done. So to live off your art of asking Allah for things is that is a sign that

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there is an imbalance in one's relationship with Allah. Do I also Al is a regular habit of the believer. If you are not asking Allah, who could you be asking? Are you asking of yourself? Do you assume yourself so powerful? Yeah, you have an insane amount of what can be wrong. Oh, mankind what has deluded you about your Lord who is the most generous even when he withholds Allah subhanaw taala from us, it's out of his wisdom and generosity and what he knows of its future consequence that if we knew that I will do it for what is not right for us was entered in the knowledge that is known to Allah that is unknown to us, we would not have made up for it. So I will do I being entered in the

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Astra is actually one of the greatest Mercy of Allah upon a believer when he knows what they are asking for, in its immediate sense, is not as essential and important as what they receive in the actual you're deriving the dunya is entered in three ways. Rarely, but does it will be given to you in the way you've asked at the time you've asked in the shape you've asked, and that is not something that is always preferable. Number two, is that your DUA will be granted for you in a way different to what you ask but better than what you were seeking

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It'll be given to you as you want, but in a way different to what you've requested. And this is preferable for the believer, but the Bestival state is that Allah Subhana Allah to Allah enters our dua, but gives us its pleasure in the Astra rather than in the dunya. That was the preference of the prophets I sell them. The prophets lie Selim says, and I conclude, Tibet to try it, I hit my one dua that Allah said he will answer for in the dunya so that I can have it in the answer, and that will be the chef that the intercession for my ummah, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, may Allah make you an eye of its people willingly accepting the shutter, Alba and a VAs ally Salam Alaikum means we have

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another caller on the line as Salam Alikum caller How can I help?

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Hello, yes, Sister, how can I help?

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You? I actually have a question.

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Sister yet she's supposed to like 60. Now she's not married, according to her

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was I'm not to practicing according to Christian marriage.

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Just because you don't want to work counseling, you know, I don't know how that works up

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on stage to her, because she's dressing like a married woman. But they're kind of each other. For my

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turn that was actually Jackie, to, I don't know, to take friends. So is that counseling, right?

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betray us because she's a very nice person.

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She's thinking now that that she's met somebody who's a Christian who said,

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religion or practices or religion. So I don't know how to

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watch listening. So if

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you've added people, so there's a number of separate questions in there, I will take the most general one that most immediate one. Allah subhanho wa Taala is the one who has determined our cover our measure in life, and all of us, we are ordered by Allah to seek the best that we can in the dunya. So whatever means that we can take to attain success in that which is halal, we should pursue it. So to keep ourselves fit and healthy to gain education to practice our faith, to save our well to make ourselves more marriageable, to network with other people, to let fellow brothers and sisters within our community know we're available to do all of the means that are within our power

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to find somebody suitable. All of that is part of our cover. The second aspect of it is to make dua to Allah that Allah sends us and assists us to find and to partner with those who are righteous, who are moral, who are upright, who will hold our hand into our waning years of life, and lead us to a good heart in a good end. And that will come with those who are playing keyboard litho, you bet. Those who have a sense of goodness within them and righteousness within them, and uprightness within them and to heed within them. An Eman within them will help us to maintain it to perfect it to hold on to it into our twilight years, I would be very reluctant to say to our dear brother or dear

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sister in this situation, to partner themselves with somebody who is not petitioning and practicing that process of Celada and sleep and leading them to hedge I would say to then put your hand in the hands of one who is lesser but righteous than one who seems greater in the dunya but is not from our community and not going to lead us upon the path of a Serato Mustafi. With regard to the advice about changing one's hijab may be a cultural discussion that is being had a job there isn't a hijab for married women and a hijab for unmarried women. This might be a cultural thing in terms of colors or shape or style or cut. Allahu Donna and I can't comment about something that I'm unaware of, or

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unable to picture its reality. May Allah subhana wa Taala open doors that are closed for this sister, may Allah Subhana Allah allow her the comfort of a loving Muslim, honest husband and spouse who will hold her and hold onto her until they are finding finding themselves in Jannah along the mean, and Zach Allah here for that question, my dear sister, we also have questions that are coming into our online service and

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Some of them have just popped up to me through the WhatsApp services and other things. One of the questions that is asked is why is the month of Muharram referred to with that named Mohammed sounds like haram. So there are four months that have been denoted and marked in the Quran as being months that are found, where you are prohibited from activity that may be permitted in others. So war is prohibited in the month of Muharram. In the month of making haram, it's meant to be a month of amnesty, forgiveness. And Allah has made the three or four these four months in the year months where people are to pause their anger with their neighbor with a fellow country with another person

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and just pause and reflect how can we make peace. Number two, the month of Muharram is also a month that is the beginning of our hedgerow calendar. And it's a speciality for us as Muslims that we mark the date from the hijab and the departure of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam where he found comfort in Medina and departed from Mecca, a woman although the Prophet did not leave in the month of Muharram, he left him Robbie, Allah will, although we didn't leave in the month of Muharram. It was the month that was chosen because it is the last month after Hajj and Hajj is one of the significant calendar events. So they said the next month on the year of the Prophet teacher, will be

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the time that we make this important start of our Islamic calendar. We have another question in sha Allah. If somebody committed Zina May Allah subhanaw taala protect us man mazzucato To Allah protect our men, our women, our young and our old problem, sexual immorality and maintain our sexual ethics and our manners and our character along with me.

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The question goes on to say, and it was during the month of Ramadan, may Allah Subhana Allah forgive us and forgive all others, their sins, Allahumma Amin, and this was done a couple of times or a number of times, but they can't remember exactly how many times they broke their fast on that purpose. The person also did other things that they believe was incorrect. They found out about the expiation that you have to fast two months if you defiled yourself with a sexual activity in the month of Ramadan. Does that mean for every time that they've done it, they need to pass two months? And the answer is no, it is one time and whether this was in wedlock or out of wedlock, it is

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something that needs to be expiated. If one is physically unable to meet that of fasting two months, day after day, one after another than they are to feed people of equal days of amount. Ask Allah subhana wa Taala to send his Rama upon all of us to protect our eyes and our ears and our mouths from that which leads us to gem Xena that Allah protect protects us from that which leads to sexual corruption in a morality. Ask Allah subhanaw taala to allow us the freedom from our sin and the ability to battle ourselves against our shadow our desires and our lustful leanings that are natural within human beings but are that meant to be controlled by us in a way that uplifts us from the

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other animals that walk upon the earth? May Allah subhanho wa Taala send his light into your heart and it's forgiveness into your home? May Allah Subhana Allah Allah allow you to redeem yourself with an exceptional repentance to Allah may Allah Subhana Allah Allah grant you a cleansing if I do comment, I don't know if you were a brother or a sister. I asked Allah subhana wa Tada to forgive us and you and I recommend for you to intend in sha Allah to perform hydrogen sooner rather than later. You may not have the means but set your intention now and set your knee and now and begin a savings plan now and put it as something that you make another that you make a vow to Allah that oh Allah

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give me the life that I can live clean until I return back to your sacred land that I make a HUD when I return home pure from my errors that I have a fresh start in my life. Allah Amin May Allah Subhana Allah Allah give you hope, and allow you to maintain a course of righteousness. May Allah allow others to support you knowingly and unknowingly. Allah man I mean, you're often right. I mean, we have another question that has come through.

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And if there are other questions that are coming in online, we look forward to receiving them in sha Allah. Sure cola. We have a caller on the line and hamdulillah Salam aleikum. Caller How can I help?

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actually I had a question regarding adopting children or fostering them right. So, for example, like know if somebody adopts a child, but he is not mentioned to

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him or her.

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So, I heard

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from a famous scholar, you may know, he said, The nowadays like no, it's more, obviously,

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what we can do is to become a foster mother or to let that child so that he becomes a mentor to you, you can get some medication, I can get some medication or some injections that can induce lactation into the mother. Right. So by that you can obviously, participate, obviously, that would be that won't be natural, but that would be inducing lactation into the mother. Right. So, in that case, the mother could obviously elected the child, the newborn, and then, like, you know, can conditionally become obviously, the foster mother for him and in that case, he becomes abandoned.

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So, is that okay? Or is it permissible to do it? I can't believe that there have been either me or salat wa salam O Allah say you will most I mean, when it comes.

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When it comes to the laws that relate to breastfeeding and lactation or a nursing mother, there are very specific laws and they are interpreted in different ways. One of the ways that some of the scholars have interpreted it is that if a child cycles from a mother, then that child becomes one of the family as being one who is no longer obligated for them to veil from him. And by them not being able to veil from him he has greater access to the home as he begins to mature. It is recommended in sha Allah within our deen to attend to have this ability of bringing young people who don't have stability in their lives into a home that is stable. So if you are able to follow a process where a

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young child is able to consume from you or consume from someone, that which benefits them and that which gives them the ability to enter upon you without you being a Madhab than it should be done in the best manner. Some of the processes may be to induce

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lactation within you. It may be through hormonal therapy, some of it may be that you are able to produce it yourself. All of those are different things that are different avenues. It's important to research it a little bit more. And rather than just relying on an immediate answer for myself, or a clip from our honored scholar, Dr. Chef, Bobby, I do ask you to kind of dig a little bit deeper insha Allah what you said is not wrong. But there is more to it that I hope that you will kind of discover along the way, may Allah subhana wa Taala reward you for your Nia, of seeking to protect a child from the dangers of the world and bring them into your home as a functional, healthy adult

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into the future in sha Allah. We'll have our first break in sha Allah and we'll come back to your life. And we'll come back to the other questions that are waiting for us your brother Yeah, hey Ibrahim on Islam q&a on Islam channel join me back in a few minutes in sha Allah wa Salam o Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.

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Solomonic Warahmatullah wabarakatuh as those of you who are watching on my live Instagram, Instagram and on my YouTube and on my Facebook, I'm able to take some of your questions now. It's on pause we have five minutes together I like to remain productive in sha Allah. We have a question on YouTube infallibility of the prophets. Can you explain the prophets of Allah Allah says in the Quran when Allah He or she will come in and ask Allah will protect you against the harm of others. And Allah subhana wa Taala has protected the prophets isolate them from infallibility from the mistakes and the scenes of committing that which will be displeasing to Allah. Allah is the Turner of hearts he

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turns our hearts to righteousness and away from it. And Allah puts people in our life to make our hearts firmer upon the truth. And when the message of truth resonates in the heart, it is easier to rely upon righteousness. The prophets of Allah are infallible to committing sin, but they have their share of being corrected by Allah

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In one way or another, another question Is it allowed to recite from the Quran electronically do do and during your menstrual cycle, I will go further dear suits there and say to you even if it is not in your menstrual cycle, to recite from the Quran to recite from the Scripture, there is no statement from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam where he said ever to any person who was in her menstrual cycle, do not read from the Quran, do not touch the Quran, do not pronounce the Quran. If this was a reality of the time of the prophets, I seldom it would have been clearly said, there were far lesser things that the prophet spoke about very definitively. This is not one of them. All

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of the form of that they do say that a person should not hold the Quran in their menstrual cycle because of the interpretation of an idea. Allah masu inland Motoharu no one but those who are righteous should hold except those who are pure. That great Imam in between me and others countered that understanding by saying a believer never becomes defiled meaning that the horror that is spoken up is the Tahara of heart. And another interpretation and motorhomes are the angels in the local Mfold not the actual Quran. Nevertheless, at the very least, yes, you can recite from the Quran using an electronic tablet and means Wallah who to Allah acronym. If there are any questions on the

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Instagram send them through before I turn my attention back to Islam channel. We have other questions in sha Allah as sunnah. Amane come from a sister named asiyah. It is recommended to pray for rockhard before

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for the Juma prayer is this recommended I noticed that in the magic we do not have time to do so. There is no scripted Sunette for a lot of slots with joumana Except the Touriga of greeting demonstrate. However, there are no rachets were the prophets I seldom used to pray at raka or more or less on the day of Juma but it was not as soon as the Sunnah of other Salah meaning it is not sunnah rotti but it is not a regular practice of the prophets I seldom those who say to pray for Raka before Juma usually they are referencing it to the full rocker of sunnah before Salah to book but Salah to do and salatu Juma are two separate completely different Salah even if they are

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happening at the same time and that's a lot of July substitutes, the place of salaat a volver they are not the same and the same sunnah for those is not meant to be applied in the same equal measure for Jumeirah wala hooter Anna Ireland, I do recommend that you do pray your Doha prayer aitoc or more that you do pray so lots of shuru on the day of July after the sun has rises after your federal prayer. All of those are established from the Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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And those are some of the questions that have come through. I ask Allah Subhana Allah to Allah to grant that success Allah Ameen. Are there any questions that have come through on Instagram? I'm just taking a look now in sha Allah

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Smilla if there are any questions with those watching on Instagram to kind of kick them forward? We'll do my best to answer them. All right, we have a question when they come back. There's a caller waiting all right, just like Hola. Hey, we have a couple of minutes and listen. We have a question from SR follow. What is the best way to study and easily digest the Quran other than reading the zero Bhumika theory? normally recommend reading the tuxedo with Matthew even in English, what I would normally say to you is study the Quran. So the prophets of Allah are you seldom taught us

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men dad is

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the one who learns the Quran and then teaches it. So there are always classes that are happening in your local Masjid. There are classes online, there are people who have done, you know, wonderful contributions in book form, where it's about a particular surah. So tafsir implicative is something that's a little bit more complex that people dilute for you. So when I do you know, a study of the Quran or to double, I'm trying to dilute it nicotine after studying at Russia, I was half or whoever to dilute it. So then I can give you something that is accessible to me, my family, my friend. So I would say search for the Quran in that sense, the more the better.

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Gibreel Alayhis Salam as his teacher, I want to be your soul Allahu alayhi wa sallam

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an alumna who

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was taught by that will go back to Islam channel insha Allah desirable Locker was salam ala he orchid

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coming to you 76310 And

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I said I'm on equal one. Lucky AutoCAD two. It's your brother. Yeah. Hey Ibrahim rejoining you once again for Islam channels Islamic q&a. It's an honor and a privilege that we can gather together asking and learning from each other but the sunnah of our Nabil Mohammed's I sent him the great Orion that sent to us by Allah, we have a caller already online waiting for us. I do recommend that you do call in Inshallah, we will take your questions live on Eric. I said I'm on ECAM. Caller How can I help?

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Very well, just

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before I ask my question, I just wanted to personally thank you so much for sharing, checking

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on your Instagram. They've been really really hot. What's

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your relationship with him?

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Allah have mercy upon him in the comments a lot. He was salam. May Allah sent light upon his grave and upon all of those who have departed us a man I'm also gonna want to ALEC Well, our thoughts and our emotions and allow us in sha Allah to work a righteous path as they have done as our predecessors, that we may rejoin each other in sha Allah in a day's time, Allahu Allah, you know, our dunya is just an hour, it's just the day, may Allah subhanho wa Taala was to complete our life and good, and that we have a good return to Allah, may Allah make our best of days that they will return to him a lot more. John, are you right? Yeah. I mean, I don't want to talk a lot. I mean, how

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can I help you with your questions?

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I know, we have a lot of emphasis on maintaining kinship, relationships, and not to break ties anytime.

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And it's for this reason, I have been maintaining a tie with a family member who is involved in Zina. She is living with a non Muslim person and in a relationship with him. I just wanted to know where I stand in this, like, Am I still Islamically supposed to be maintaining kinship, even though my thought is just not with what she's doing? First, it was just a distant like, okay.

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But now, she seems to think it's okay for her to like, you know, get more involved and come to your house where she's living with this man. And I'm just not happy with my children and being around her children as well. Because of this. What does it say about maintaining someone who is doing

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with 100 level salatu salam ala Rasulillah Salam O Allah, Allah says, We have a principal in Islam in our school in the Maxim's of our tradition, which is led by Mr. Weller the RA, do no harm and expect or do not allow harm to be done upon you. Don't be of those who have vile misbehavior, vile words, vile representation to others, but certainly don't expect or allow it to be brought back to you. And you know, the example of our Nabil Salah where it was elements is really quite clear in many of these instances and a lot of the discussions that are found in the Quran kind of speak very similar circumstances. So what I would say to you, my dear sister, one who is loving of Allah, the

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way of the prophets of Allah are you a Salam is where there is necessity for you to uphold the ties of kinship, where there is an illness that you need to visit for where there is an important milestone that needs to be acknowledged, where there is something that needs to be

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support provided in it, where there is always an outstretched hand from you that I will not ever abandon you. But I cannot make what is illegitimate, legitimate. Now that's a really important stance that the person understand that my love for you is a love for you that is meant to be pleasing Allah it's not a love for you because of who you are or your place in my life. So I will love you as Allah commands me to love you in in the boundaries commanded by Allah subhanho wa Taala but I will turn from you and I will recoil and protect my

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Sell for my children are, you know my family from that which is falsehood or that which is immoral or that which is corrupt or that which is illegal or that which is haram, whichever it may be whatever shade it may be. So what I would say to you is, there shouldn't be communication that is established, that allows you to be a person who is active in his or her life in her life in this circumstance, in a way that empowers them into faith in a way that calls them to a moderated practice of law, law Mohammadu masuleh, that they never lose touch with those who have a calling for Allah. But in the same token, and in the same breath, it's important for us to also allow people to

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acknowledge what is halal is halal. What is haram is haram. And many places there isn't that gray area where you can choose to have wrong and masqueraded as right. So, in that place, this is not accepted by us. This is not tolerated by it. This is not good enough, in our tradition, but you remain my cousin or my sister or my family or my my relative. And you're right upon me in that and of love and duty for Allah compels me to remain with my hand outstretched to you as Noah's hand was outstretched to his son, even though he reviled faith and truth. I ask Allah Subhana Allah to Allah, to grant you wisdom, and to grant you ease. But certainly do not put yourself in harm's way do not

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expose your children to an unbalanced kind of lifestyle where they grow up to assume, well, this is acceptable, and this will be tolerated and this will be glossed over. And this is something that you know, people will just forget and just assume that you know, do whatever you want, and later on down the road, people will just allow it and overlook it. It's not something we overlook, but it's not something that we browbeat a person over. Decency is always the Sunnah of the Prophet I met so I sell them self preservation and self protection and maintaining boundaries that protect our future generations in sha Allah explaining to them when they're old enough, why we have certain boundaries,

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why we have certain regulations is always important in sha Allah. Does that come Allah here for your question? Allah He abetik Tiki and may Allah grant you ease and comfort and open our heart alone me.

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We have another caller on the line shot law said I want to call her

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Oh, mashallah, we have a question that's just popped up on my screen as well. My daughter has refused to listen to me with regards to a bring bringing a gentleman home, who doesn't believe in anything that we believe she is intent on being with him and has remained with him for the last few years. And they may even have a child together in the near future? How should I deal with it? Well, as I you know, as we that were previous question, these are things that we are very pragmatic with as Muslims, these are things that have happened to the lab, Allah has given us a path of showing mercy and love and compassion, while at the same time being resolute and allowing ourselves a

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balance of recognizing what is right is right, and we cannot change it. And if somebody wants to get married to somebody that our our Dean does not authorize, they're welcome to find the other avenues that they go to and kind of seek it through, celebrate, celebrate and other ways, and that's entirely within our freedom of of scope. But we cannot ordain and sanctify with holy matrimony from Allah Subhana Allah to Allah, that which Allah has forbidden and condemned. So what I would say to you, my dear sister, is to continue not simply to advise but to make sure and to support and to ask Allah to guide and to know that it is not a sign that you have failed as a parent if a child kind of

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finds himself straying from the ideal path. But to maintain your faith in Allah, continue your uprightness and continue your call to that which is good, continue to build of her faith and to invite her to go to descend her good messages and to remind her that whatever may come she remains one who understands who is a lot strengthen her faith color to Salah and build her self confidence build her self esteem in Allah subhanho wa Taala It is not about

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condemning or holding a person accountable as much as it is seeking to inform them of the blessing of faith the blessing of counting Allah subhanho wa Taala as the one that we worship and the deen of Islam as our way of life and then our Nabil Mohammad sorry seldom is the one who we model our behavior after. And as the years go by, sometimes the genuine feelings of infatuation that we have, or the desire and the love that we think we have for a person kind of is undone. And what we're stuck with is a difficult situation that could have been prevented. If we maintain the course of La Vida Loca Muhammadan rasul Allah, I ask Allah Subhana Allah to Allah to protect us with that regard

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Allah from me.

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There's a question that has also come forward does the Prophet Muhammad so I sell them need, I will do route and salam and celibate. It's a very interesting question. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam does not need our due route and solar and solar work, we are in need of maintaining it upon him to better ourselves. So when I say Sal, Allahu alayhi wa sallam, it is a dua that I'm asking Allah to send peace and blessings on the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, in fact, that is returned upon me tenfold. The Prophet Isilon encourages us to do that as a celebration of him, which in fact extols and returns upon us the virtue of that righteous action. The province is

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zelalem segments, Allah Allah Yamato sallallahu alayhi Housh, the one who remembers me in their own vocation and makes their art for me with Salah and salaam, Allah returns it upon them tenfold. Allah responds to you tenfold which means that your hardships are lessened your difficulties are removed, your your Baraka is increased, and for making mention of the prophets of Allah al salam, for remembering the one you love. You then are remembered by the intern on the Day of Judgment, may we be feet for the shift and intercession of our W Mohamed Salah Allahu Allah, you are sitting alone to me, the prophets I send them tells us and before we take our next caller, he said that those who are

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most most worthy of my intercession of my do ask for them on the Day of Judgment or the prophet will ask Allah to protect us and to forgive us or those who ask Allah for my salah and Salaam in the dunya sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. We have a caller on the line said Mr. Lincoln caller How can I help?

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especially to do with the

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Quran, actually, poo is the first time

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I remember 114 artists read in the English translation, which is to learn how to do

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the prayer of a primally Salaam for forgiveness of his father was only because of a promise he had promised. But when it had become clear to him that his father was an enemy to Allah.

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He primally Salam is only loyal

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along with soft of heart long suffering. This is one I am but

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we also need to re prime again, about rugby payments, the last one may have been our purpose. Could you explain the difference between these two? And we're not just read for you in English translation please.

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Allah He very frequent. I'll continue that second. Rob will fill you when he when he they mean oh Allah forgive me and my parents and the believers on the day the account is established. I think this is the dua that you wanted to conclude with just like Allah Harris. So wonderful, wonderful question. So Allah subhanahu wa at the ANA

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caused Ibrahim Annie SLM to be a major lesson for the believers that were we love someone, sometimes they may swerve away from the truth. And Ibrahim would continue invoking Allah Oh ALLAH forgive me on my parents and in sort of the sharara Ibrahim would actually name his father, he would say, well, fatally Eddie Oh, ALLAH forgive my father in Navicat, naming a bar lien. Surely he was from those who were misguided about the truth who followed the wrong path. So he maintained Dirac for his father, until it became known to him that his father died upon that falsehood of worshipping

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other than Allah in a way where he knew Allah was the only one deserving of it. And that becomes really important that the prophets Allah Allah Allah Salam says to us and teaches us that we should not make dua for somebody who it is clear to us. We're not upon the truth that they knew the truth and rejected it like the father of Ibrahim, he almost he wanted to murder his son for worshipping Allah. He wanted to he threw him in a blazing fire to extinguish his life. He says as Allah quotes in Surah Maryam let in lemon Tehila or juman neck if you don't stop I'm gonna stone you to death. Why journey leave our land, I never want to see you again. So that person who then dies with that

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was a vile hatred for the truth in his heart, hatred for his son in his heart, Ibrahim maintain draft for Him until the very end, where he knew his father passed away. A very interesting Hadith My dear sister is found in Sahih al Bukhari, in the chapter of the prophets or the Tafseer of the Quran in different places. It's a embodies where the prophets I seldom said, on the Day of Judgment, the Father, as of Ibrahim, will find him on the day of judgment. Ibrahim's father is going to find him and he will come to Ibrahim and he will say, Yeah, Boo name, my dearest son. I made a mistake in the dunya. Ask Allah on this terrible day, this terrifying day where my punishment is imminent, to save

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me from the punishment of hellfire. And Ibrahim, even at that moment, will invoke Allah and will say, Yeah, Rob, you promised me that my family name will be uplifted, and that you will not cause me humiliation? What are you crazy, and what greater humiliation than to see this moment my own father being cast in hellfire and ALLAH SubhanA wa Bucha. And I will say to Ibrahim learn you but then we'll call do the day that my judgment will not be swerved or changed. And Ibrahim will see his father take on the effect of the sins of His rejection of the truth and be cast into the hellfire. Abraham will say to his father, did I tell you and warn you of this day. So this shows us that the

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reason we don't make do is not out of spite or anger, but it's because we know that the power of forgiveness is a loss alone. And we are not the ones who forget, Abraham forgave his father for throwing them in the fire. Abraham is willing to forgive his father for exiling them from his land. But Allah Subhana Allah Allah is the One who is the only one who forgives the sins that are incurred between them and him as the Virgin. And what I would say to anybody who finds themselves in a situation where they have a loved one who has passed on into the next world to simply make their dua. Oh Allah, give them what you know of them. Whatever good that they've done in their life. Oh,

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Allah, your wisdom and your knowledge is enough. I trust you, oh, Allah. And I want you to know, my dear sister, I want you to know my dear brother who's listening, that on the Day of Judgment, there will be three different categories. And this is part of our Arpita. The first category are the people who are the people of faith, who heard the truth and accepted it struggled in doing good and evil and did more good that they are from the people of Ghana. And then there are the people on the opposite spectrum. They are the people who knew the truth, understood the truth heard the truth, the message was delivered. And they chose to go against what is in their hearts understanding of right

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and wrong. They are the people of the people who hid the truth under the desires of the world and the doubts of their life.

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They are the people who are punishable by Allah, the people of jaaneman. In between these two are the people who they're referred to as mushiya the people under the will and the knowledge of Allah. They are those who passed away without the message being clear. They are those who passed away at a young age where it was unknown whether they chose right or wrong. They are the people who Allah on the Day of Judgment, who will know the course of their life and judge them on what Allah knows of them. That is not apparent from the act of faith or rejection of it, that we see. We ask Allah subhana wa Taala to show us his mercy

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I Jamaicans from those who are the people of Ghana with ease and without punishment allotment. I mean, our final color in shot was ceremony from color. How can I help?

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Welcome Sandra Yeah.

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I always listened to your thing and today

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I just wanted to add something which I,

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which I've read somewhere that

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when the Prophet Abraham and Prophet Abraham will ask Allah to forgive his father

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to bring him in, you know, kilo alone will fade down. And when he does down, he'll be his father

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of high enough into the, into the fire. So I just wanted to add this to

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and I just love your program my shallows

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to give

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many a time

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and your children,

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everyone and guide us all on the right path

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accept you, on our behalf returning to you in greater favor. A male boss will allow us the honor of the shift out of our neighborhood slice and then the chips out of Prophet Ibrahim, that we enter into janitor for those with them Allah. May Allah subhanho wa Taala Well, unfortunately, the difficulties that we all face a lot when we ask Allah Subhana Allah to add up.

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To grant us ease and comfort, we have a question that's coming in the Arabic language. I'll just translate it quickly in the last minute that we have somebody from our, from our my husband's family or from my husband's friends has passed away, they had written that they want their body to be repatriated back to their homeland. Is that something that we should do? And the answer to that is a little bit complex. What I would say is that certain conditions that are put in the will that contravene the normal understanding of our tradition, which is where you die, you should be buried, where you die, you should be buried as soon as possible. Then the invasive procedures of removing

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your bodily organs and your your and your blood and the liquids from you is not something that's worth the hassle, I would say bury them with the dignity where they are allotment. I mean, may Allah grant all of us forgiveness, and Rachmat. Allah Mahoney was salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato Subhanak. Along Morbihan decrescendo

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was salam ala moana