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Magnificent Seven 08

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Waleed Basyouni

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smilla rahmanir rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa salatu salam, ala MV mursaleen Nabina Muhammad in Allah Allah He will be admiring

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all praise due to Allah and His blessings and peace and praise be upon our Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and his family and his companions and his followers until the day of judgment. My dear brothers and sisters, welcome to a new episode of The Magnificent Seven.

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Those seven heroes, those seven special people, we are talking about in this series, the one the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam mentioned in the, in the Hadith which is reported by Allah man and Buhari and Muslim, and was narrated by several companions, one of them about whatever they allow, and that he said, that the Messenger of Allah set

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seven are whom Allah will put them in his shade in the Day of Judgment, in the shade of his throne, and the Day of Judgment.

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And they are a just ruler, or youth, who grew up with the worship of Allah, a person whose heart attached to the masjid and two persons who love a meet each other and depart from each other, for the sake of Allah, a man whom an extremely beautiful woman seduce him, he rejects her upper by saying, I fear Allah, a person who gives in charity

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and conceal it to the extent that his left hand or not know what his right hand is given. And finally, a person who remembers Allah alone

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in solitude, and his eyes, well,

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those seven people are so special, are very unique people, because they were able to defeat their desire control themselves. They have very strong self control. And they were able also to supplement the worshipping of Allah subhanho wa Taala in a very difficult time, and rejecting the call of their own desires and the shape on when it calls them to disobey Allah subhanho wa Taala we talking about the man who's an extremely beautiful woman, seduce him, and he rejects her offered by saying, I fear Allah subhana wa Tada. You remember last time we said, this Hadith, not only applying to men, but could apply to a woman as well. As a matter of fact, it's very common, that woman will be seduced by

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men, more than men who should use by woman.

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But the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam mentioned the man because if a woman's seduce a man, if a woman said use a man, he might,

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the only reason really can prevent this man from accepting that offer, that he fears Allah subhanho wa Taala because sometimes women will not reject the offers of some men, because some other reasons, such as she's afraid that somebody will find out about that she could pregnant she lose her virginity, or usually, men tried to seduce women in public. But if you looked at the other way around, when a man

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a woman tried to seduce him, he will prevent himself from accepting such offer, because he fears a loss of Hannah without only not for any other reason, because usually this happened in secret, and men will not be worried about the consequences of their actions later on most of the cases, but as I told you earlier, also

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There is so much so many pure women in this world. And in the history, we heard about so many stories about great woman who have been seduced by some men, but the rejects that offered because the fear Allah Subhana, WA tada only, not anybody else, not anybody else.

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Before I give you some examples, I just remember an example of a great man. in Mecca, he was called in that time, the priest of Mecca, Elvis, because he was that great worshipper. And he, this attach himself from the dunya and committed himself only to the masjid al haram and worshipping Allah subhanaw taala. Most of the time, that man, for some reason there is a woman loved him so much. And one day, she approached him, and she tried to seduce him and she told him, I want to have you and I want to have a relationship with you. And he told her, I can accept that offer, because it is held on for me to have a relationship with you, and you're not my wife. Then she told him, just don't

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think about it this way. Allah Subhana Allah to Allah, later on will forgive us. Let's just do it. And after that, Allah subhana wa Taala will forgive us, you are such righteous person. And after that, I will repent and nothing will be there is no problem. Like today so many people might say, okay, later on, we're going to get married, he will date a girl or a girl will date a boy. Then later on, they said we're going to marry and everything will be fine in future. It's the same logic, the same, the same mentality. But listen to what that man said to the woman, he told her and who can guarantee for me that I will stay alive until I repent. Who can guarantee for me that I will not die

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while I'm doing this evil deed with you. While I'm disobeying Allah subhana wa Tada. While I'm committing this sense, will remember the story of Yusuf Ali Salim when his brother said

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kill him, threw him in the well. And later on you will be a righteous people from Mexico and woman by the postman finally he later on you will be good, don't worry. In future we repent we're going to change. But this is not the right way to deal with Allah subhana wa tada because no one know when he is going to die. When he said that to her, she realized that she was mistaken. And she became and she repented to Allah subhanho wa Taala that moment, and the whole entire life change.

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In the Bissell Allahu Allahu alayhi wa sallam told us the story of three people who entered a cave.

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And because of earthquake, a big huge rock fault and block the exit of that cave.

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The three people inside the cave, they found themselves stuck inside, they cannot exit and they don't have food they don't have drink. So what they did this start supplicating to Allah, calling Allah subhana wa Taala to release them from this problem. And every each one of them start asking Allah Subhana Allah to Allah was one of the greatest deed ever he did. One of them said, Allah. Once I had a cousin of mine, she's a girl. She's, she's poor. And she needed money. One night, one day, she came to me. And she approached me and she told me I need money. And I tried several times before to seduce her to have a sexual relationship with her out of marriage. And she always rejected that

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and refused to accept my offer. When she came to me asking for money, I told her, I will not give you the money that you need, until you let me sleep with you.

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She finally accepted that. But her heart is still rejecting the idea cannot take this idea but she needed the money badly. And she and the prophets of Salaam said that the man said Oh Allah, when I was so close to her, she told me it tequila, Fear Allah subhanho wa Taala fear Allah subhanho wa Taala and don't do that. If you want to do it, marry me, so we'll make it Helen. When she said that,

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immediately I back off, and I told her go, you're free to go and take the money you want. He said I did that only for the sake of Allah. And because of that Allah Subhana what Allah has

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given them

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or move the rock a little bit so they can exit after the other to also supplicate to Allah and ask Allah subhanaw taala by their good deeds until they were able to exit from that cave. My point here, look at this pure woman, look at this great woman. She's a such hero, that she reject the offer. Even she knows that she needed the money. And she in great need of the money but she said, Please, don't do that in the wrong way. If Allah Subhana Allah give us an opportunity to fulfill that desire in the right way. Why not?

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Another story in Basra and the story told to us by Abu Mohammed, the shape and he said they were a rich man in Basra. And he has a lot of farmer work for him and his land

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is like a landlord. And he had a lot of farmer work for them for him. One of them has a beautiful woman. One day he told that farmer, send your wife with

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he gave him something and told him, let your wife take this to the palace. Or to my home or to my Bella my palace.

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The farmer asked his wife to go, the poor girl walk into the palace. But she noticed that the palace is empty. When she enter all the way inside the palace. The owner of the land, came to her and approach her and tried to touch her. She said what are you doing? He said, I want you I love you. And I want to have what any man want from a woman? And she said, aren't you afraid? He said don't worry. I locked all the doors. She said Are you sure? She said yes. I like the gate, the front gate, the doors, all the doors unlocked. Then she told him what about the door between us and the last panel?

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Is that door lock? Also the doors and the gates of the heavens? Are they locked in the last month I can see us. Immediately the man realized that he was mistaken because of this woman on with her words, shake his heart, wrote back to his mind his senses and he realized that he's mistaken and you let her go.

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Also, how did you have any Ziad said I love a woman in Kufa. I love her so much. He said, whenever she would leave her house going through the method, I will follow her one day she knows that I always follow it. I'm always following her. She told me what do you want from me? He told her, I want your love. I want to have a relationship with you. Like what we say these days, I want to be your like boyfriend. Then she told him

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if you really want my love, if you really want me if you really want to be with me, wait until the day of judgment. When we both intergender then we can be together and Jenna.

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These words were enough to change the life of this person. This pure woman, this hero, this pure woman was able to change the life of that person by her words, also an imbecile Ah, another incident that a man he knows a girl and bustle and he loved her so much. And he tried everything possible to get to put his hand on her, but he couldn't. She was so protected by her family. To the extent he purchased 300 camels and he said, Every single person in this city, I will take him to Hajj. He took them all to Hajj in the caravan. And in the night he sneaked in the night and she was with the group and he came to her in her tent and he said and he said I want to stay or spend the night with you.

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Then she told him

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what he said don't worry, everybody's sleeping. She told him what about Allah? Is he sleeping as well. Another words were enough to change somebody's life. Because she is a pure woman. She protected her chastity she said no. When somebody tried to seduce her now we'll take a break and we'll come back inshallah. Soon.

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Why? righteous companions. It is Islam that given us their sense of dignity. I love all of them in a way that you cannot imagine that

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no one would say something and the Koran with come down matching what

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He said, What's your Kunal una Mina al muhajir Rena one sorry one Latina

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Robbie en la 1101. Just compare, compare what you did for Islam with just one of them.

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Welcome back to continue our discussion about those great men and woman, her refused the offers of someone who tried to seduce them, tried to offer them to do what is not permissible to do the indecent acts. And they said no, we fear Allah subhana wa Taala those who had control over their desires over their loss, and the only protect themselves, and they protect themselves from involving in in any indecent actions. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, as reported by him Allah to Allah and His Muslim net lambda, the Muslim and New Zealand have said, the Muslims should not put himself should not humiliate himself should not put himself in a position where he will be

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humiliated, where he cannot protect himself from such humiliation and keep his dignity. Alamin Rahim Allah said, when you put yourself in a position, when you put yourself in a position that you cannot handle that, that position or in that time you will be humiliating yourself. And remember that Rahim Allah said,

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Give an example for that. He said, I haven't seen any better example can fit in this outfit, this Hadith, like the love which is take over the heart of a person towards another creation or another human being. When you love somebody, and this love what I am referring to the love which had happened between men and a woman or a woman and men, which is love, mixed with lost love mixed with lust,

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this type of love, when it takes over the heart, it can humiliate the person. And this is absolutely true. When you read about the stories of those who love someone so much, and he was not able to have that person. And he they never get married. Or for some reason they separated from each other. When you hear about their stories, you feel so sorry for them. When you know about the brothers and sisters who sometimes complain about that they love someone so much and he can marry them or they cannot have them for any reason. You feel so sorry for them sometimes because really that love have a control over their hearts to over their mind. And sometimes humiliate the person, sometimes even

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humiliate the person.

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It's the different Subhana Allah from loving something for the sake of Allah, loving Allah subhana wa Taala the love which is happening because of religious reason. It's all bring dignity to the person, but the love which had happened because if a human reason, because of the lost, it's always lead to or it might lead the person to be suffering from this love. As if no am Rahim Allah said, anybody love anything in this dunya he will suffer for that love, because you will struggle until you get it. And if you get it, you will be always already about keeping it not losing it. And if you lose it, you start feeling sorry about losing it. This is the nature of this of the love, or the

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love for this dunya or the worldly love. Anyway, what I'm trying to

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mention here are to emphasize that the love which has happened between usually men and woman, and that love which makes with the last and also that love which is in a knot in halloway. The love between the husband and wife is something great is something great, the love between two people who is going to marry each other and they engage and there's they made the contract to something good. That's the natural thing. But when they talk about love between people between two people who are not related to each other, who are not going to be married

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Or are not married at least. And some of them even not planning to get married like the love between boyfriend and girlfriend and dating and things from this nature.

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This is something not acceptable on slack. And that would lead to these

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great sins that I talked about in previous series like the fornication. Allah Salah Mata, when Allah subhanho wa Taala ordered us, not only not to fornication, not to come closer to fornication, any anything will lead to this indecent act is forbidden as well, anything. That's why in Islam, there are so many rules, to protect your chest, to keep you pure, from being a slave to your desires, from being a follower only to your last, the only thing you care about to fulfill your desires, and to fulfill your last and this dunya such as what's in Islam will help you to stay pure, and protect your chastity. And you became here she a person who not involved in any indecent act, how can we

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protect ourselves in a such time and society, whereas desires around surrounding us who is fit and all over the place open that when you turn on the TV, when you walk into the street, when you go to college, when you when you go to the mall, when you open the when you check in the internet. Or when you log on in the internet. There's so many colors, there's so many people inviting you to do what is not allowed, or try to break that purity that the Muslim male and female

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you used to have, or they should have

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one, and Islam has emphasized a lot or talk about about the dangers of the Xena fornication, adultery, and told us how an evil deeds is and what is the punishment for such people. And Allah Subhana Allah told us and whoever will be among those people, his punishment would be severe in that severe in the day of judgment and hellfire. And also in this dunya there are certain punishment for those who were who are considered fornicators or committing adultery, also told us that those people will be punished in this dunya by diseases and reading about all these different kinds of sexual transmitted diseases. It's enough to know how an evil deed is this thing.

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And Allah subhana wa Taala told us that men will not marry a fornicator woman and a female believer will not marry a fornicator and men are fornicator male fornication is an evil deeds is an evil deeds. And Allah Subhana Allah said he Connect for an occasion to share, connect for an occasion to shirk.

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Also, homosexuality, it's forbidden in Islam, and there is a punishment for those who practices in Islam as well.

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So, all these kind of indecent acts that we hear about today, and Islam talk about it and shows us that's forbidden. It's not allowed to do it. And there is certain punishment for such people. And Islam also, on the other hand,

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told woman to put hijab on to help them to stay pure, and to keep that the community on the society pure. That's why he jab is why Jeep on woman, Allah subhanaw taala said, What are you Dina Xena tahune we should not show their beauty in public or to anyone except their moms, their husbands, their fathers, their sons, their uncles, and so on. And Allah subhana wa Taala said, What about rajnath abajo jelly don't go outside in the public and showing your beauties, the way the people used to do in the jelly and the ignorant days before Islam hijab my brothers and sisters not meant to bring more attraction to you. He just not meant to make you more attractive to look attract more

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attractive and men's eyes, he jobs cover your body should not be tight should not be something you people can see through. Should cannot be like, has so many colors and things added to it that bring a lot of attention to you while you're working. And it should not be in the same way or it should not be similar to the main clothes or to the non believers.

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clothes.

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And I mean by that, it should not be like in a way the form of the nun, for example, the church, you cannot wear that as a hijab. But if there is a common cause between Muslim and non Muslim, let's call a common clothes that you can wear in the beach or somewhere close which is made in Rome made by the Romans before the turn romea also an Islam order Muslim not to mix between the different opposite sex the any separation between men and woman is something Islam. Allah subhanaw taala ordained it for us because this mixing lead and lead to relationship which it might lead to involve in something not Hello. That's why in prayer, we don't mix why we line up in the prayer we walk in

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the street the profits are seldom said woman walk on the side and men walk in them in the middle

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of Islam also told us it's not allowed for a man and woman not related to each other to be alone in one place or one room. Because this is might lead to

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what is not right and what is not proper for the Muslim to be involved from this kind of forbidden act. Sophia only 30 said Don't be with a woman alone in a room. Even if you're going to teach her Koran Latin Luanda Martin Welcome to allemaal Koran. So what about those who stay alone a man and women to study together or going to have fun together or to play or to do whatever they things from people might be doing? These days. Also Sherry and I have decided that there's something called our that is part of your buddy need to be covered. And this hour is something unique and it's something known all religions and Islam have has a great deal about that emphasizing where's the out of the

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men the man has out as well, that he cannot uncovered his private parts in public or his thigh in public. He should cover that also in solid in the basis of them so a man praying in public in the masjid has nothing on his shoulder he ordered him to put something in his shoulder. Also woman they have our they should not expose it in front of women and in front of men, but it's different. So in front of other woman's she's not allowed to show her thigh or her breasts or allow her private parts unless there is necessity for that such as going to deliver a baby or going to the doctor. Also an Islam told woman not to put perfume in public. Why is that? Because this is what attract a lot of

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attention to her and might cause

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for some men to try to seduce her approach her and not in a proper way. And Islam also ordered us to lower our gaze. Not only men, men and woman as well. Not allowed to keep Oh, it's so windy today. Okay?

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It's

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also Islam order us to lower our gaze and that means that you don't keep looking to the woman or to her to a woman and keep just staring at her. She lowered her gaze and move your face and wait, especially if something like this when you know, come and uncover her legs or something like that. You should turn your face away out of respect. Also Islam said when your children your own children reach an age of 10 you should separate them in bed and not let them sleep together. There is more rules inshallah. We'll talk about it in the next episode. So until then, I will see you shala wa Salatu was Salam ala nabina Muhammad

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for and he this attach himself from the dunya and committed himself

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Only to the master that haraam and worshipping Allah subhanaw taala. Most of the time, not men, for some reason there is a woman loved him so much. And one day, she approached him, and she tried to seduce him and she told him, I want to have you and I want to have a relationship with you. And he told her, I can't accept that offer. Because it is how long for me to have a relationship with you, and you're not my wife. Then she told him, just don't think about it this way. Allah subhana wa Taala. Later on will forgive us. Let's just do it. And after that, Allah subhanho wa Taala will forgive us, you are such righteous person. And after that, I will repent and nothing will be there

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is no problem. Like today so many people might say, okay, later on, we're going to get married, he will date a girl, a girl will date a boy, then later on, decide we're going to married Everything will be fine in future. It's the same logic, the same, the same mentality. But listen to what that man said to the woman, he told her and who can guarantee for me that I will stay alive until I repent. Who can guarantee for me that I will not die while I'm doing this evil deed with you. While I'm disobeying Allah subhanaw taala while I'm committing this sense, will remember the story of Yusuf Ali Salim when his brother said

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kill him through him in the world. And later on you will be a righteous people from Mexico looming by the hippo man, follow him later on, you will be good Don't worry. In future we repent we're going to change. But this is not the right way to deal with Allah subhana wa tada because no one know when he is going to die. When he said that to her, she realized that she was mistaken. And she became and she repented to Allah subhanho wa Taala that moment, and whole entire life change.

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In Nabhi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told us the story of three people who entered a cave

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and because of earthquake, a big huge rock fault and blocked the exit of that cave.

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Three people inside the cave they found themselves stuck inside they cannot exit and they don't have food they don't have drink. So what they did they start supplicating to Allah, calling Allah subhana wa Taala to release them from this problem. And every each one of them start asking Allah Subhana Allah with one of the greatest deed ever he did. One of them said, Allah. Once I had a cousin of mine, she's a girl. She's She's poor. And she needed money. One day, one day, she came to me. And she approached me and she told me I need money. And I tried several times before to seduce her to have a sexual relationship with her out of marriage. And she always rejected that and refused to

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accept my offer. When she came to me asking for money, I told her, I will not give you the money that you need, until you let me sleep with you.

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She finally accepted that. But her heart is still rejecting the idea cannot take this idea but she needed the money badly. And she and the prophets of Salaam said that the man said, Oh Allah, when I was so close to her, she told me it tequila, Fear Allah subhanho wa Taala fear Allah subhanho wa Taala and don't do that, if you want to do it, marry me. So we'll make it Helen, when she said that,

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immediately I back off, and I told her go, you're free to go and take the money you want. He said I did that only for the sake of Allah. And because of that Allah Subhana what Allah have

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given them or move the rock a little bit so they can exit after the other to also supplicate to Allah and ask Allah subhanaw taala by their good deeds, until they were able to exit from that cave. My point here is look at this pure woman. Look at this great woman. She's a such hero, that you reject the offer. Even she knows that she needed the money and she in great need of the money but she said please don't do that in the wrong way. If Allah Subhana Allah give us an opportunity to fulfill that desire in the right way. Why not?

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Another story in Basra and the story told to us by Abu Mohammed the shibani he said they were

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Rich Man in Basra. And he has a lot of farmers work for him and his left

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is like a landlord. And he had a lot of farmer work for them for him. One of them has a beautiful woman. One day he told that farmer, send your wife with

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he gave him something and told him, let your wife take this to the palace, or to my home or to my Bella my palace.

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And the farmer asked his wife to go, the poor girl walk into the palace, but she noticed that the palace is empty. When she entered all the way inside the palace, the owner of the land, came to her and approach her and tried to touch her. She said, What are you doing? He said, I want you I love you. And I want to have what any man want from a woman? And she said, aren't you afraid? He said, don't worry. I locked all the doors. She said Are you sure? She said yes. I like the gate, the front gate, the doors, all the doors are locked. Then she told him what about the door between us and Allah Subhana Allah?

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Is that door lock? Also? The doors and the gates of the heavens? Are they locked in Allah they can see us. Immediately the man realized that he was mistaken because of this woman, on with her words, shake his heart, broke back to his mind, his senses and he realized that he's mistaken and you let her go.

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Also, how did you have new Ziad said, I loved a woman in Kufa, I loved her so much. He said, whenever she would leave her house going to the method, I will follow her one day she knows that I always follow it. I'm always following her. She told me what you want from me. He told her, I want your love. I want to have a relationship with you. Like what we say these days, I want to be your like boyfriend. Then she told him

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if you really want my love, if you really want me, if you really want to be with me, wait until the day of judgment. When we both intergender then we can be together in general.

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These words were enough to change the life of this person. This pure woman, this hero, this pure woman was able to change the life of that person, by her words, also an imbecile Ah, another incident that a man he knows a girl and bustling, he loved her so much. And he tried everything possible to good to put his hand on her. But he couldn't. She was so protected by her family. To the extent he purchased 300 camels and he said, Every single person in this city, I will take him to Hajj. He took them all to Hajj in the caravan. And in the 90s sneak in the night, and she was with the group. And he came to her in her tent and he said and he said I want to stay or spend the night

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with you. Then she told him

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what he said don't worry, everybody's sleeping. She told him what about Allah? Is he sleeping as well. Another words were enough to change somebody's life. Because she is a pure woman. She protected her justly. She said no. When somebody tried to seduce her. Now we'll take a break and we'll come back

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soon.

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Righteous companions. It is Islam that given us their sense of dignity. I love all of them in a way that you cannot imagine that

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no one would say something. And the Koran with come down matching what he said was vo Kunal una Mina al muhajir de

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Great men and woman, her, refused the offers of someone who tried to seduce them, tried to offer them to do what is not permissible to do the indecent acts. And they said no, we fear Allah subhana wa Taala those who had control over their desires over their last, and the only protect themselves, and the protect themselves from involving in in any indecent actions. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, as reported by email, a document low to Allah and His Muslim net lambda, the Muslim and

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the Muslim should not put himself should not humiliate himself should not put himself in a position where he will be humiliated, where he cannot protect himself from such humiliation and keep his dignity and drama Rahim Allah said, when you put yourself in a position when you put yourself in a position that you cannot handle that that position or in that time you will be humiliating yourself. And remember that time Rahim Allah said,

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Give an example for that. He said, I haven't seen any better example can fit in this outfit this Hadith, like the love which is take over the heart of a person towards another creation or another human being. When you love somebody, and this love what I am referring to the love which had happened between men and a woman or a woman and men, which is love, mixed with lost love mixed with lust,

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this type of love, when it takes over the heart, it can humiliate the person. And this is absolutely true. When you read about the stories of those who love someone so much, and he was not able to have that person. And he they never get married. Or for somebody that is separated from each other. We need to hear about their stories you feel so sorry for them. When you know about the brothers and sisters who sometimes complain about that they love someone so much and he can marry them or they cannot have them for any reason. You feel so sorry for them sometimes because really that love have a control took over their hearts took over their mind. And sometimes humiliate the person, sometimes

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even humiliate the person.

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It's the different subpanel from loving something for the sake of Allah, loving Allah subhana wa Taala the love which is having because the religious reason, it's all bring dignity to the person. But the love which had happened because if a human reason, because of the lost, it's always lead to, or it might lead the person to be suffering from this love. As if no am Rahim Allah said anybody loves anything in this dunya he will suffer for that love. Because you will struggle until you get it. And if you get it, you will be always already about keeping it not losing it. And if you lose it, you start feeling sorry about losing. This is the nature of this of the love, or the love for

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this dunya or the worldly love. Anyway, what I'm trying to

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say mentioned here are to emphasize that the love which has happened between usually men and woman, and that love which makes with the last, and also that love, which is not in halloway The love between the husband and wife is something great. It's something great, the love between two people who is going to marry each other and they engage and there's they made the contract to something good, that's the natural thing. But when they talk about love between people between two people who are not related to each other, who are not going to be married or are not married at least, and some of them even not planning to get married like the love between boyfriend and girlfriend and dating

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and things from this nature.

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This is something not acceptable on slack. And that would lead to these

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great sins that I talked about in previous series. Like the fornication, Allah Salah Mata when AFI Allah subhana wa Taala order us not only not to for Nikki, not to come closer to fornication, any anything will lead to this indecent act. It's forbidden as well. Anything that's why in Islam, there are so many rules

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To protect your chest, to keep you pure, from being a slave to your desires, from being a follower only to your last, the only thing you care about to fulfill your desires, and to fulfill your last and this dunya such as what's in Islam will help you to stay pure, and protect your chastity and you became he or she a person who's not involved in any indecent act, how can we protect ourselves in a such time and society where his desires around us surrounding us was fitted all over the place open the when you turn on the TV, when you walk into the street, when you go to college, when you when you go to the mall, when you open the when you check in the internet. Or when you log on in the

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internet. There's so many callers, there's so many people inviting you to do what is not allowed, or try to break that purity that the Muslim male and female

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used to have, or they should have

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won. And Islam has emphasized a lot or talk about about the dangers of the Xena fornication, adultery, and told us how an evil deeds it is and what is the punishment for such people. And Allah Subhana Allah told us and whoever will be among those people, his punishment will be severe in that severe in the day of judgment and hellfire. And also in this dunya there are certain punishment for those who will who are considered fornicators or committing adultery, also told us that those people will be punished in this dunya by diseases and reading about all these different kinds of sexual transmitted diseases. It's enough to know how an evil deed is this thing.

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And Allah subhana wa Taala told us that men will not marry a fornicator woman and a female believer will not marry a fornicator and men are fornicator male fornication is an evil deeds is an evil deeds. And Allah Subhana Allah Allah said, he Connect for an occasion to share, connect for an occasion to shirk.

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Also, homosexuality, it's forbidden in Islam, and there is a punishment for those who practices in Islam as well.

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So, all these kinds of indecent acts that we hear about today, and Islam talk about it and shows us it's forbidden. It's not allowed to do it. And there are certain punishment for such people. And Islam also, on the other hand,

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told women to put hijab on to help them to stay pure, and to keep that the community and the society pure. That's why hijab is wajib on woman, Allah subhanaw taala said, What are you, Dina Xena tahune we should not show their beauty in public or to anyone except their moms, their husbands, their fathers, their sons, their uncles, and so on. And Allah subhana wa Taala said whatever

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don't go outside in the public and showing your beauties, the way that people used to do in the jelly and ignorant days before the snap, he job my brothers and sisters not meant to bring more attraction to you, he job not meant to make you more attractive to look attract more attractive, and men's eyes he jumps cover your body should not be tight should not be something you people can see through should cannot be like, has so many colors and things added to it that bring a lot of attention to you while you're working. And it should not be in the same way or it should not be similar to the main clothes or to the non believers clothes.

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And I mean by that, it should not be like in a in a way the form of the nun for example, in the church, you cannot wear that as a hijab. But if there is a common cause between Muslim and non Muslim, let's call a common clothes that you can wear in the business of selling work clothes which is made in Rome made by the Romans before the turn omiya also an Islam order Muslim not to mix between the different opposite sex the any segregation between men and women is something Islam a las panatela ordain it for us because this mixing lead and lead to relationship which it might lead to involve in something not Hello. That's why

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Prayer. We don't mix why we line up in the prayer, we walk in the street, the profits are seldom said woman walk in the side and men walk in them in the middle.

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Al Islam also told us it's not allowed for a man and woman not related to each other, to be alone in one place or one room. Because this is might lead to

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what is not right and what is not proper for the Muslim to be involved from this kind of forbidden act. So if you only 30 said Don't be with a woman alone in a room, even if you're going to teach her por en la Luanda. Martin Welcome to allemaal karate. So what about those who stay alone, a man and woman to study together or going to have fun together or to play or to do whatever they things from people might be doing? These days, also sherea have decided that there's something called an hour that is part of your body needs to be covered. And this hour is something unique and it's something known all religions and Islam have a great deal about that. Emphasizing words the out of the men the

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man has out as well. That he cannot uncovered his private parts in public or his thigh in public. He should cover that also in solid in the basis of them so a man praying in public in the masjid has nothing on his shoulder he ordered him to put something in his shoulder. Also woman they have our they should not expose it in front of women and in front of men, but it's different. So in front of other woman's she's not allowed to show her thigh or her breasts or law her private parts unlisted as necessity for that, such as going to deliver a baby or going to the doctor also in Islam told woman not to put perfume in public. Why is that? Because this is will attract a lot of attention to

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her and might cause

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force some men to try to seduce her approach her and not in a proper way. And Islam also order us to lower our gaze. Not only men, men and women as well. Not allowed to keep Oh, it's so windy today. Okay?

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also Islam order us to lower our gaze and that means that you don't keep looking to the woman or to her to a woman and keep just staring at her. She lowered gaze and move your face away. Especially if something like this when you know, come and uncover her legs or something like that. You should turn your face away, out of respect. Also Alice Lam said when your children your own children reach an age of 10 you should separate them in bed and not let them sleep together. There is more rules inshallah. We'll talk about it in the next episode. So until then, I'll see you shall Allah wa Salatu was Salam ala nabina Muhammad

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