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A La Creme de la salatu salam ala rasulillah Allah Allah He was so happy woman What are we starting a new chapter in keytab Jimin v keytab roll muram lil half live in hedgerow himolla Tada This chapter is called Babel a total heap min master will love warning from bad manners and there is another copy of the book it says babble Rahab min masala flap

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warning and making you fear bad manners. And in this chapter Elif Rahim Allah the author

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mentioned 39 Hadith and it's interesting he started with warning from bad manners then he followed followed up with bad macadam would allow a terrific Makarem Allah Allah encouraging us to possess good manners, since we have an audience,

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online or on site

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why you think you start with warning from bad manners before he starting with

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encouraging or advising or recommending people to possess good manners? Why you start with the bad manners before the good manners? What do you think that the wisdom behind that

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that make any sense to you even

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know what to try

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to see the online

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to

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Yeah.

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As long as you can translate it to Arabic or English

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so, so the brother saying is it is important to protect yourself from what is wrong then to do what is right.

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Actually, it's not that it's not more important any

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more men,

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ATM Balaji valic failed YG bad gentlemen failure Muhammad

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any fulfilling the obligations is more important than committing sin

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and which which sin is worse to do haram or to live watch. If they are on the same level

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the majority of the vocal would settle so and that's the the the strongest opinion that the leaving the logic

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is worse.

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That's why the sin of Adam was what doing haram which is don't eat while the sin of bleach leaving water which is prostrate stood an order

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next to Jude.

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You see how the difference in the seven different levels anyway.

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One of the reason that it looks familiar allow

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that there is a concept called utterly, utterly,

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utterly, utterly Dahlia definitely a hotelier means that you free your heart and your character from the bad character traits. So you will be receptive to adopt the good character traits. If you filled your heart with hatred, animosity, a jealous envy

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all these negative feelings there is no space left in your heart to be filled with goodness.

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You have to remove and to clean up before you purify. That's what a Dahlia Dahlia means. You have to remove the dirt you have if you have a cup and it filled with dirt in and you want to put in it

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gems and jewelry or gold you can't because it's filled with dirt. What do you need to do to take that dirt out? Take that rocks out these rocks out first. So that's what the concert Talia La ilaha illAllah. negating the dirt is anyone worthy of worship except Allah. Take out of your mind and clean your head or clear your head from being attached to anyone except Allah now you are open

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laser chemistry he shade there is nothing similar to him

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is absolutely unique. So now since you cleared your head from any kind of doubt that he resemble or he looks like any one of his creation

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It's impossible, I understood, understand that Now, the next step is well, who is semirara bossier. He he's he hears and he sees. So when you hear he hears and he sees you will never think he he sees things like the way I see things.

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And the way he hears things is the way I hear things with my ear on ear now and the same process, why because I already cleared the mind and the heart from any kind of STEM field from any kind of, you know, tissue me to say Allah subhanaw taala resemble or he is resemble by his or he is similar to his creation. So that's the constant that rely on that to learn how to apply him a lot. When he put it together, that's what I would assume that it's for me it's an it's a great idea is to make sure that to clear and to cleanse you first, then you can now receive the good manners. Let's get rid of these bad things and us. So we'll be able to adapt the good habits. So be able to practice

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the good habits. And a lot of people don't pay attention to this. And this is a very important steps. When it comes to mannerism. I'm going to share with them the Babel Allah is to work and cleansing.

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Sometimes we don't pay we don't invest time and effort in getting rid of the bad things that we have. And I give you an example.

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In relationships,

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I'm trying my best to do the nice things to my kids to my spouse, you know, to my friends, to my co worker, I'm trying my best to do all these nice things that I hear that people should do and add to be had the gym elf and Mamma Mia. But the problem also I don't put any effort to try to get rid of the bad habits. I didn't put an effort in no getting rid of the wrong things that's ruining it for me.

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I don't know if I need more example. Any somebody want to lose weight

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no Mashallah start exercising and eating good food, but he still eat also fast food and double cheeseburger, and fries, and all this kind of good stuff, you know, the non Good for you.

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You need to get rid of the bad habits, you need to get rid of it in order for really the good habits to be effective. So

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that's that's a good point. And I believe that Lima Rahim Allah to Allah starting with the bad man.

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And I will tell you the truth, that the issue of mannerism is

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is a big issue.

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And unfortunately,

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it is an issue that

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the problem and it is growing.

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Even though Islam puts so much emphasis on the importance of good manners and good character traits, but you still see the Muslims in their practices,

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lack of non Muslims, but to since we are talking to the Muslim, the Muslim addressing us and primary

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humanity in general, by the day the issue of mannerism and good character trait is going down the drain. Unfortunately, you know, even simple things, you see people losing this, this this concept and they talked about today about the concept of nobility, to be noble, you know, to to elevate your status,

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to feel like you know what,

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I have a higher standard, that I hold myself to it. Today in this world in the world today, this is not something common Unfortunately, it is sad, that when we talk about management and character traits, we see how things are just look at online and how people behave. Just look at like, you know, these social medias and how people behave on social media.

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A initiating, you know posting about themselves posing about themselves, or whenever there is like a discussion or a debate or something like that.

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Look at people on the top. And unfortunately, this is something also complicated and i think it's it's the outcome of many things. And one of it is because parents they don't teach children anymore. A high standards of morality.

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There is no concept that like, they, it's important for us and if your father and mother didn't do that, or you're not doing that, make sure that you start thinking about this I have to hold myself to certain principles.

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I like for example, for me, generosity means something important. We have to invest

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To make sure that my children understand the concept of respect as a concept, it's important for you to teach yourself that to hold yourself accountable for it.

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It's important for you to ask yourself what kind of character trait that I stand for.

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In Asia, Viet and Cobra ality an atomic fell heavy hayati? That's a big question that you should ask yourself No matter how old are you young or old?

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What what what standard that I hold myself

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according to what standard I hold myself

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Sherry

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is Pamela have a lot of any focus on the issue of Allah. Individual Salam was giving us as a role model and mainly because of his awesome role model and embed that and also in we're in NEC Allah Allah, Who do you think of him?

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reason the top of all of us will allow you to assignment per se, the best of all manners.

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And you will not be praised with something unless that thing that I'm praising you with is something of value. La Yun de la Vina Jani and Amanda. She shocked me she cannot shake that McDarrah Obama

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she didn't want to be so solid moody a bit. When I praise someone I praise you with something that it's it's worth it's worth praising and I don't praise you with something having no value

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Mashallah, you know what those brothers absolutely a role model

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Mashallah, what he does, he is and you mentioned something have no value, he can put 11

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matches you know or small sticks above each other.

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is not a value,

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but to something of value, which is almost praised with which is a lap manners that he has the possessed of. He presents the best of manners in Mr. Booth to 10 min muckety muck, Muslim

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and Muslim, Navy so someone said I was sent to perfect the manners that you have the good manners that you have.

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In Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said al baru usno Hola.

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Allahu Akbar. What's a better and better is the highest level of Eman albir Allah Raja Imani enemy

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is Bill hadn't been added the Roger lantana will Bill had a bone you will not reach the level of a man in Islam because the man is level Albert has one of the highest level and you will not reach that level. Unless you spend from what is the best of you do you have to individually in the headset I'll bill

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and Bill is is basically is good manner and in good manner take you up to the highest level of a man

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wanting to be something sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said for me there are a few me's and the heaviest things in your skull on the Day of Judgment is good manners

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and no doubt. Almunia to our tune. The movements are in levels when it comes to mannerism. Pardon me so so long as they are levels in the amount they are level on that kind of social

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media it can mean a man and a man whom our son Colaba.

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The best of their and their Eman and their faith are the best among them in their manners.

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In a hurry can I send

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the best among you the one who possess the best of manners for Buhari

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in Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam beheaded amraam tribe and enjoyed

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fuel efficient car bureau comm Do you want to know how to become the most beloved one to me?

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What a Krav Maga Mini Militia and the closest of you to me.

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In the Day of Judgment, yarmulke people remain silent. He asked what twice or three times?

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Then said jasola absolutely would love to know. Then in Nevis, a solemn said central comb Holika the best

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The one who possess the best of manners.

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They are the one that our bring them the closest they will be the closest to me in the day of judgment and is the one that I love the most.

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holliness H behala can Hansen deal with people with good manners in Nabi? sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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parlez sallallahu alayhi wa sallam also flutterby quite an extra into the national agenda. Hello, hello. What's up Allah

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The thing that will cause so many people to go to Jenna good manners and taqwa

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to show you how important this is

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Canon nebby salsa lamb wawasan double o'clock and has Anna and he's the one who possess the best of manners

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was no doubt listen to what the person I'm used to pray for. God Allah has sent the Hello key for us in hola

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yo la you perfect

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yeah and in my shape. Perfect Me The Way You created me in a perfect way. So perfect my manners. Few Muslim.

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Wolfie Muslim, Allah hum Dinelli, Sunny La La, La La Land was certified Nisa. Yeah, for in Odessa for Annalisa Highland. Inside Muslim. The problem is to see Ya Allah, I asked you to guide me to the best of manners,

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because you're the only one who guide to such men. and protect me from the worst of manners and character traits because no one protector can protect me from it except you.

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If we go to the verses to the IR to the ahaadeeth mentioned every character trait by itself and how Allah praise it, and praise the people who possess it will be a long talk.

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But my point is to show you how many, there's so many verses like this, there's so many general have talked about the concept of personal holdup, warning people from bad manners, talking about specific good character traits, and praising it, talk about specific bad characters or warning people from it.

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So that shows you that [???]ty I've put so much emphasis on the issue

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and how much we put emphasis on it in our life.

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Look at reality. People like those who have good manners. I mean, I'll tell you the truth.

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People like controversial people, like sometimes

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aggressive people.

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But that's not the norm. If that shows anything, it shows how brainwash and how ugly we become.

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Like, I don't want to go political here. But you know what, like, if you go like 2020 years ago, 10 years ago,

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and you tell an average american like a president will speak that language talk like this. No more people like that, that level, low level, low standard of behavior.

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Nobody will. Nobody would accept that.

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There is people more than a public notary public. I'm nothing, you know, but I mean, there's people like the standard of morality is becoming very low. And the use of all he is like he calls who speaks his mind, he doesn't use mine. He speaks for health.

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It is sad.

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He's a jerk. You know, he's this and this became appraising now in society, someone who's a jerk someone who's bullying someone who's like, tough. Oh, that's like, that's not attractive. That's disgusting.

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Look at the social media. If somebody talks about exposing people's you know, videos, taking buying, you know, hidden cameras and showing you know, a mistake that somebody is doing or in his private life or like million viewers and you know, and share people love stuff like that. tabloid and like, you know,

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these things are like, it shows that there is something wrong and as a side we need to, Hey, hold on. That's not how it's supposed to be. It's still I do believe when you go back to common sense, the average person doesn't like to hang out around somebody who is with a bad character trait. Even if you claim that even if he liked him in online or learn does, it gives him curiosity, but the reality is, you know what, if your boss is nasty, if your core if your spouse if your parents have bad manners, nobody wants to be around someone like that.

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People like hamdulillah Oh, I hope not. And I hope that we we promote that

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I hope we watch out what do we do? It's it's named schapira, Nick to silver buddy.

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It's not, it's not a good thing that you are rude

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or disrespectful.

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It's not a good thing. Everybody can say bad words, everybody can act to tough.

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It takes a lot. That's why the second Hadith is very beautiful. Talk about like, the strong person is not the one who will rustle and tough the one will control himself.

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I doubt it Allah cannot be done without good manners, what are called default value, the

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few says bad manners people will run away from you, Mohammed, even Mohammed doesn't

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worry that he can handle some of the people upon the truth, the lost the case is because of the manners because of that way, the talk about the how

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it turned people off, it turned people away.

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And that's something we should be very careful, don't lose your case, just because you didn't know how to speak properly and

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in an appropriate way.

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You know,

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also, I wouldn't want to say that today.

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Islam loves any horror Bayani, a lot of the Islamic values became something very

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something

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unique or rare to be found. And one of it when when people have

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any good manners and excellent manners.

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Just to give you an example, I'm by the way I fully understand. And I fully agree that some of the interpretations of some concept in mannerisms and character traits can be different from one generation to another, from one culture to another. And it doesn't mean because in this culture is this way, and that culture is that way. It means the bat, I understand that. And I you will be surprised if they tell you that I recognize that. But still, there is

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I'm talking about

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something having no explanation.

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Like just being straightforward, rude. Using false language.

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I understand like somebody, for example, when he hears, oh, he didn't sit while his father standing,

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you know, out of respect.

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So somebody said,

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Okay, oh, what do you want, like you want me to stand up just because my dad is sitting in the couch.

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As you missing the point. The point is done this The point is that this person don't want to be sitting, while his mother standing is not about sitting or standing. It's about the feeling it's about he cares to show respect. So you show it in your own way.

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If it's not sitting or standing, the concept The point is for you to care about that. And to every generation can demonstrate that in their own way.

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But to be rude to your parents, as no different generations that's wrong.

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To be disrespectful, to be physical,

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as not acceptable.

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To use false language with them. That's not acceptable.

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to cheat, to lie, to betray

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when you disagree with someone tough, Jennifer Osama.

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You became so

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evil and there is no limit how low you can go when you disagree with someone

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lying, twisting, manipulating people for your own best interest.

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All these bad bad character traits

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mamoon of the Maharani tabin was asked on Scaife our spot how's your morning, sir? hamdulillah

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I'm missing being around people who possess good manners.

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Around people, as have hola Kareem. We're fiddling Jamil around people that when they do things, they do it in the best of manners to

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those people that I used to live with and be around me. Home data tore up they died.

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That's my motive. No moron. What he will do if you go to

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facebook,

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twitter at

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Instagram,

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what he will do if he comes to the meetings on the side and debates? What do you goofy see the political parties? What do you do if you go to the Muslim streets, Muslim country streets?

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What do you will do you see how people treat each other how people cheat one another how people put everybody putting his hand in his

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next to the man or the person next to him pocket to take. And my goal is how much I can take out of you and take from you.

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What he will do if he goes to the market.

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There's a lot of work ahead of us.

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Also, a lot of work can need to be done, or change must be done.

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And it's an important thing for them and for us. See, it was an important concept within even though the change was very little. So how it's not an important thing for us, as a community today. And I think we as Muslim community, we're responsible as they sit today in Mahatma, we have a level of responsibility as part of the society as an American, you know, part of American society here and whatever you live if you live in Saudi Arabia you live in, you know, in Kuwait in Egypt you live in, in India, you live in Indonesia, you live in Nigeria, you live in Canada and living in whatever country you're listening to me right now from or you belong to you carries Islam, there is a

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responsibility upon your shoulder toward that society

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is to promote good manners is to encourage people to be better people.

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That can be just done. View your daily activity daily interactions, as a chef everyone said, are going to be Amery. Later Bukhari Chevron said you can make the hour you can basically invite people to good through your action, not a single word.

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And Omidyar dakara karma Buddha Dalai

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Lama center Loki Hold up. Fasten Hooray.

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For Katya de la Canada. Okay, Elena indivior solo yep Dada. The whole night you praying? crying and asking Allah Subhana Allah to give you good manners the whole night you pray about this. What's happening? His wife telling you

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Takada Madonna.

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Madonna

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in the lab the Muslim yeah soon Hello.

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Hello, hello. Hello Hello, can you work in your manners and your character trait until you perfected and that will take you to gender

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where C coloca and the Muslim his character trait will go bad and his manners will go down low and will start losing good manners and adopting all these bad habits and the way you talk the way you speak the way you deal the way you think. The way you behave.

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And not until your bad manners will lead you to a fire

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while I'm doing Muslim yo formula ohana in Poltava. Dada Okay, feel alone? I'm Cara como hominin Lane. Fetch to head federal law has

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faced ajibola when he faced ajibola houfy Yes, sir. He said and the Muslim

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a Muslim person can be forgiven in the night while he's sleeping.

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So how can you be forgiven while you're sleeping? And what did you do to deserve that night for a lot to forgive your sense? He said your friend and your brother will be somewhere else standing up in the night praying for you and for your forgiveness

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and Allah will accept from him and we'll accept his intercession for you his draft for you so you both will be forgiven while you're sleeping.

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What about the dat here? Also making us to pay attention that Bob part of being a good person have a good character traits that you care for your friends you care for your brother's

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cancer Fiona 30 abort and severe 30 is a man of being one of the Great's of scholars Don't yell at the good etiquettes having a good etiquette and good manners and good character traits. You

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will take away a lot of anger at you.

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And listen to this. They've been sitting here Can we are on the olders among the tambourine and the companions used to believe Harrison and hornak out

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aladeen

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good manners will help you to be a good religious person. Like what that was praying for

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you and you religiosity is connected to your manners. That's why when I see people have no manners have no manners. Their manners is the least thing that they care about. And we act religious, I know they are fake. And I know they never gonna make it.

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And I asked Allah Subhana Allah to guide them they never he would never make it.

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I don't want to give example but heck definitely

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even among the

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various people possess bad manners.

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And they have so much information Nakita Bella homina Babu mythen Makita Valeria

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Allah did not give them that sub priority in ailment knowledge like others

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people turn away from them

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can have Junaid your poor Linnaeus heaven facet has an envelope I have em in our in an SR

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used to say I prefer to be in the company of somebody faster but not good Muslim but as a good manners then to be in the company of someone Mashallah researcher of the Quran and have the Quran but has no manners

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and he said once four things would raise your level agenda even if your deeds and your abandon your actual worship will not take it out for what are they?

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What

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was the How was the hollow

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double hostile emulation regimen?

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Good manners, but he specifically mentioned from good manners three points.

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So for good manners, but he specifically start with three for burying

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a tomato down to earth as haha generosity.

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Since we talked about bad manners, I'll start with Andromeda MADI he said Leah Tucker virtual dinner at 10 o'clock Can I attack in Harlem

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you should be so careful and so worried about that bad manners. The same way you are so worried about what about how long like you saw or not to commit Zina. So we're enough to drink alcohol Oh, is this us pork? Is this to be happy? Is this how gelatin you see people how so careful to sacramental head thank you for that. But also it is important not saying that this is a mocking that's something I respect those who care about eating the hell out and drinking the Hannah doesn't have alcohol. There's this is this gambling shift and people ask me questions sometimes. Sometimes it's down to be the overdoing it. But you know what, at the end of the day, they care about the dean

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not to involve her.

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She said my income haram

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somebody called me from overseas been trying to call me and I see this call from a country that I'm not used to receive any call? I don't know anybody there and Pakistan. I don't you in there personally to call me but this call keep coming? And an answer somebody for whatever reason. Want to ask me a specific question about a very interesting questions in relation to head on head on relation to business transaction. Chef I did not eat from the food in the house because I'm worried that my food is from heroin is still I like the concept of this people have what are

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people worry about heroin,

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which is something we talked about in the previous chapter. But as we worry about this, we should worry about our tank.

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We should worry about how I treat my friends. How to Treat scholars, how to treat elders, how gene my parents, how did my siblings

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how I treat my spouse.

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I should worry about backbite gossip.

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I shouldn't worry about marking. Putting people's down hurting people's feelings. being rude. being offensive.

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I should worry about lying.

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I should worry about cheating.

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I shouldn't worry about breaking promises. I should worry about promoting rumors.

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I should worry about

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Thinking bad and wrong of people have no good faith in people.

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That's why you should worry about these things the same way you were worried about how long as well

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that no Chi Rahim Allah said, I've seen people

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the care about their actions in a bad way. But they never cared about their tongues. And he said there are Misaki

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feel bad for those people.

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So it's a serious issue. I'm glad that we will be investing or spending the following few weeks and talk about many concepts in good manners and bad manners. And as I said, If I had to start with a total hip mensual warning people from bad manners because men Babbitt Talia, to free you from any thing that is negative and bad habits. So you will be able to receive the good manners after words.

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And he started with Hadith.

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Ever heard of the Allah and Kala Kala Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam yaku will hazard in and hazard yaku has an ad cam at ACU now I'll help up.

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Heather hardy trabajo de magia de manera de anacin Ravi Allahu taala. And who

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Barrera narrated that last messenger sallallahu Sallam said, avoid envy. For envy, consume good deeds, just as fire

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consume the firewood.

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related by abou doubt.

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Imagine related a similar Hadith on the authority of Anasazi

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hadn't had ether Rama Nama sure did then Atlanta last one in abyssal olavarria.

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Even though this hadith is very, very famous, but this head is weak as an it's not wise this week, Laurie Wyatt with us and Helen murottal imagine for her as well that magia

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but the concept of the Hadith is correct. The meaning is correct. But that's not the Hadith and Dalit as a as a state of the problem it is weak because a Buddha would narrated this hadith

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from a warrior or the Allahu anhu Ah, lacking the lady Rawabi Herrera Allah and

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the one who narrated the Hadith from Abu huraira the unknown person, and we cannot accept Hadith directed by someone who's unknown to us, we don't know who he is.

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So then eration inserting the terror instead of new magic from us. Can it be used to backup this honey since we know the full chain of Narrator And one of them and imagine can we use this as a backup for our videos and we say Yo karasuma matassa Leah Yeah, ya

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know, for a simple reason, because the problem the integration of magic is very weak. And Risa is handicapped. I will hide out your car a lot. wahama truck he is a person that avoided his narrations is very, very weak. So you only can backup and aerations if the other narration is sound or hassen, or you have multiple ones but the weakness is not that severe, but have someone like Isa,

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Isa, no way you can use this to backup the duration. That's why Mr. Milan mentioned the weakness of the Heidi, but it is commonly used and referred to because

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a

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rewire till Heidi Fabiola la hora Jaffe

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will have an ability to binary Wyatt and Hadith provided our man will Amell will have the whole life for caviar.

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Mr Heyman will not differentiate between narrating howdy that it is weak. And for viral the deeds which is recommended and virtues and related to

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the virtue of deeds. You can read Hadith like that. As long as the meaning is acceptable. Okay, but dilemma they don't say you can practice

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a hadith which is weak and provided Imam

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any I might narrate a general Hadith the Hadith said another half a minute a man or this

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cleanness as part of a man so we can

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or the part of

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Faith. That's okay. But the meaning is good. The meaning is acceptable. I can read, but I cannot tell you I cannot accept that you tell me Oh, it's a weak Hadith. Pray a truck after Mahara between Maharaja that's like that's narrating it different than saying practice this based on 105 which is you should pray ettercap between motivation a that you cannot practice something interior analysis based on something authentic. And some people thought because Allah allowed narrating the hadith of viiv it means they allowed in also practicing inhabited by Allah. And that's not correct.

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So

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he started with this Hadeeth Can anyone think of why we start with the concept of hazard envy? as the first thing you need to take it out of your heart?

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I thought about this for a while actually, I've been asking myself why would he have been hijab is color he knows that this week?

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Why would he choose this heading in particular to start with?

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He could start with the honey fukuhara Muslim that the hazard

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but he choose this? He never explained. But that's our role to figure out because we always think the best of the roadmap.

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Can anyone think chateaubriand mustache is least abundant?

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Why?

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Yeah. Yeah. And why the concept of hazard to start with as the first quality that you need to get rid of.

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Yeah, but leash to two issues. Why you start with the concept of hazard as the first bad character trait he's warning us from?

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If you would write a book about the bad character tree, would you choose hazard to be the first thing?

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Yes, yeah.

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So it's a bad manners with Allah. I'm bad manners with people. Because hazard means you hate them. You don't want an hazard it means you're objecting Allah Subhana Allah has decreed and blessings that you have given so it's the worst kind of bad manners because it's bad manners with a lot of people. Very good.

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It's one of these bad quality that can lead to so many other bad qualities. It's like the mother of sins. You know, it's like an asset. Whatever you think of bad character traits can comes after it could somehow you link it to a hazard because if you have so much hazard, you lie about the person you hurt the person you kill you take the money you say bad words about you think evil of them. You backbite them. That's right. So it's like the mother of all evil or bad evil beautiful.

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That's that's one of the things that they said the bad manners if you think about like omax will soon

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pass either the routes and the cars, the cars so many other bad manners definitely. Envy is one of them. Definitely.

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And to be Avon, I shall eliminate and and Jimmy Carter we mentioned something beautiful about

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the hazard in general that I thought it could be

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very relevant to why he started with it. powdercoated Rahim Allah Allah lm n has had a word with them been lcfs sama were outward with them in Russia lobby for a lot

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and has said is the first sin

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was committed and Heavens and the first sin committed on Earth.

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Because it blease before he refused to

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mix the jute he envied Adam

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and the children of Adam have been what Bobby?

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Okay. minella has an attorney.

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Bill invid hobby.

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He envied him, and that's why he killed him.

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Okay, so. So this is basically

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the first thing on earth I'm saying. So since it's the first

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Had character ever known in history? And the first one would it be interesting to start with it as the first idea

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another point in my head about this hurry

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here Alicia is my job site Why did he choose this one in particular?

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Because this had it has an interesting concept

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and cannot couldn't help

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it's like a fire

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fire

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basically eating and consuming that firewood like what salary to stay early

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if you have hazard no matter what comes next it will burn it

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no matter what comes next the hazard will destroy it no matter how much you try to beautify yourself the acid will ruin it for you

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it's like the fire burn everything

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Absolutely.

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Absolutely escaping up yeah and yeah of course my bad it's like it's exactly it's like fine it's in the heading this is fire. So

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and hazard

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like a fire

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that burned the fire woods and hazard burn what your hazard not burn your good deeds. Burn your pot come upon laulima buddy fish office and everyday wood

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so it hasn't is an evil thing that we should avoid chillin next week. When we or after that if we have few minutes we'll take some of the people questions. I lost planet Allah in the Quran criticize those who possess this quality which is envy has said I'm actually doing a NASA

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public

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what the cathedral mineral Kitab below you're doing a human body mannequin could fall on hacer de minang Diem to see him in body matter. Bayonetta would help sort of Baccarat 109 certainly SAP 54 and insalata Nisa also verse 32. When ataman Noma football Allahu Allah kumada about delivery Jelena Cebu Makita Sabu? Well, in Nisa, in Cebu mimic the sub was probably in Allah can it be cliche in Halima? All these verses almost metalla is criticizing those who envy other for the blessings that the last one that I've given others and these blessings in this ayah either refer to religious blessings like Eman and faith and Islam and double knowledge, or blessings of wealth or equality to

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men Noma football Allahu Allah commanded

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female football Ba ba ba ba ba what a man what Islam or not, but it is general.

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welfare of missionary Mahara Sharia rasa penita wakaba Machado Nefertiti rocket woman surely has seen either hasn't asked him protection from the evilness of has an envious person. Catarina magilla Luffy aka Surah Al Jamia the worst of all of them.

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That's why he comes the end. The last one has shown he has an either hazard

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and for sa Hainan Nabi sallallahu Sallam said, Let the hazard do not envy one another. hazard is a disease of the heart leads to hatred leads to

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all kinds of other sins. What I mentioned early hazard it means that you hate to see other people or certain people specifically it could be some people envy others. And there's some people no envy specific people, specific person or group of people.

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He does he it hurts that person. And they hate to see those people and goodness

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it

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it's painful for them

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to see you doing well

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to see you in a good status.

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Ages painful for them. And we wish that this blessings will be stripped away taken away from you or from from those people

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and the wishes.

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And there are two kinds and has no one who wants you to lose the blessings

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and the other one who wants you to lose it and he received it.

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He said

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So there is people even doesn't care if he gets what you want what you have as long as you don't have

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any This is what you do with people like that

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hazard

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leads to transgression leads to injustice leads to physically harming people killing people.

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Plotting you're going to speak

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that's why that person's his punishment or that person's punishment in the detachment is severe.

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Hazard comes from the heart but take over the whole body. Take over the mind take over the eyes. Take over the ear. Take over the tongue so you don't think he didn't say you did?

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Allah He became completely consumed by your hazard. That's why the word the fire eating the firewood is very beautiful because it consume you from your insight.

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And I've seen people have hazard my life not many

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that people some people have so much hazard so much me to or others

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that unbeliev so much hate

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will lie whatever they do it will never satisfy them.

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So dangerous. So sad.

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It is so sad.

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Yamaha via coolness

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in the hassle Dyneema for

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everybody you can satisfy except someone who envy you. Because the only thing satisfied him you losing what you have. I'm not going to give a buddy how.

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Not a lot of

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so

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see before we go in.

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Okay, there's a lot of people marschallin and this list doesn't usually I like to mention the names. But there's a couple here for all those who are joining us tonight. And inshallah next week we'll we'll talk a little bit about why hasn't happened how can you protect yourself from hazard? And I want to mention also about how physically hazard can affect people like people who became sick and we said I have hazard odor live not going very well. They said it's because of hazard is that really hazard can do that can physically affect you and affect your

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life and what it leads to.

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Then after that we'll talk about the other hardy Zack mumble here with Santa Monica mama to lie or buy cat