The Fragile Vessels Rights and Obligations Between Spouses in Islam – 71

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AI: Summary © The importance of knowing one's own knowledge and ability to control one's life is emphasized in these segments. The need for healthy eating and drinking is also emphasized. The importance of being a good partner and avoiding advising oneself is emphasized. The importance of being a woman in marriage and being a good partner is also emphasized. The importance of being aware of one's own success and ability to control one's behavior is emphasized. The importance of being a good person and not just a good husband is emphasized, as it is crucial to build a successful "be good person." The segment ends with a recap of the activities of the day.
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Charla give your the Islamic greeting again. Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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sha Allah to all the brothers and sister we start the day with a morning prayer

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Bismillah R Rahman Rahim

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Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen Allahumma Salli ala Muhammad while earning Muhammad. Come on. So later on Brahim, what are the early Brahim in Academy doing Majeed? Allahumma because Barna are bigger I'm saying

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Salam bajada Muhammad, water it he was soft, big lie in 111 blood I mean, mean your blood I mean

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all places due to Allah, Allah Allah mean as the creator of all things, the center of all Prophets and Messengers, and the revealer of all truth.

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We ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to make those people who are grateful and thankful to Allah, so that we become grateful and thankful towards fellow mankind, especially to our parents, our good friend, families, the elders and the young one.

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We ask Allah subhanho wa Taala

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To bless our morning till the evening and evening to the next morning,

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we ask Allah to bless our living, so that we have quality life.

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And we ask Allah to give all of us a good ending, so that we were returned back to Allah, leaving a good legacy behind good memory for the next generation to come.

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We ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to make us people who are not careless about our future.

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People who always look into the future, like how we plan for our future in this life, if you're able to leave until 2080, we are going to plan for 2080.

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But there is one more important life, there is the hereafter.

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Everlasting life is something that we have to plan.

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And we ask Allah subhana wa Taala to protect all of us from own trial and challenges, sicknesses, viruses, that only Allah knows what is coming.

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And we ask Allah subhanho wa taala, to make us people who are very happy

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in

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worshipping Him that we don't worship Allah, out of fear. Few that we are forced to do it. But we love the worship team.

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We are so happy when we are able to worship him.

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Is that how happy we are? When we can meet the Prime Minister, the king? No, so don, we were sure to be very happy if we are able to see them.

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So this other thing that we keep on asking Allah, and we ask Allah Subhana Allah to make us humble, and now to follow the way that Allah has shown us,

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not our way.

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Not what people want us to do, what Almighty God the Creator, one has to do his way, is the best way,

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the way of all the prophets and messengers, from Adam, to Noah, to Abraham, the SML, to Isaac,

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and the guru, Joseph, Moses, Jesus, and the last messenger of Allah, Prophet Muhammad, some of our

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brothers and sisters, we know we are trying our best.

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To be the best.

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What we know is not easy. Neither is difficult. It is not difficult to be a good person, actually is harder to be a bad guy.

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And all the fear is there, the worry is that, but if you're a good guy, you don't have any fear. If you go to the shop,

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you go to the supermarket, you don't steal anything, what is there for you to worry, you can just go in freely and come out freely without worry. But if you do something bad, you try to steal something. Of course, the fear is there, fear that you will be caught.

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Good people actually is easier than to be a bad guy.

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And that's why we keep on asking Allah

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to make us people who live with guidance.

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Follow the Islamic way, the way of Almighty the Creator. We know what is the best for every one of us.

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His way would never feel any one of us.

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And then we ask Allah

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to make us people have knowledge, because we do not want to be a blind follower. We do not want to be ignorant of our religion.

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Our religion is a way of life, a way of life I mean, Islam here, Islam is here to show us what to do, what not to do, what to say what not to say what to eat, what not to eat, what to drink, what not to dream, everything. From the day we are born until we die, Islam have laid out an SOP, a divine guidance,

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but you must have knowledge. And that's where we have classes.

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To make sure that every Muslim who love themselves, they must free themselves from being ignorant.

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You have to free yourself because when you are ignorant, people can manipulate you.

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People can mislead you.

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People can cheat

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and lie to you very easily. Because you are

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ignorant, you don't know. You don't know the difference between right and wrong.

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Halal haram you don't even care about your food.

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So we ask Allah to give us prior knowledge, meaning, the knowledge that Allah have revealed to us, true prophet, Muhammad salah, that is the Holy Quran,

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the word of Allah,

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and the teaching of our beloved Prophet Muhammad, some of these are pure knowledge.

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These two will not

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allow anybody to mislead us. But if you are not guided by this to anyone can miss that you

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people know how to twist and turn use Word, and we get confused. There's a lot of good orator very good in talking.

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Is that choppy today's you know, all the online product we don't know. But the way they talk about the product.

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No, you don't have the way you get this everything saw.

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That's why we keep on buying

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relate the best.

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The way they promote their product, you know, is the best of the world.

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And that is what you when you have the right knowledge, you're very careful.

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You know, you do not just jump into it.

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You're very careful to check

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what you have come in even online command, we don't know who is this people to maybe it's just their friend, the company worker with a command or very good, very good, very good.

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Then we start order order order ratio, it looks a bit different.

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In the demo is so good. They come to you and you try.

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There's no impact at all.

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There is what knowledge is important.

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When you have knowledge, people cannot control you.

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When you have no knowledge that's why the Emperor the king,

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King Pharaoh king Nimrod before they made sure that the citizen are ignorant.

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Don't learn just listen to them. Just listen what they want you to do.

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So when you don't have knowledge that you cannot

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fight for your rights,

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you thought that everything they say is right. So they will control your mind. Control your freedom, they control you in every way.

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And Allah Almighty who have created all of us want to free us.

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But

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this is very important and keep on asking Allah or Allah provide for us risk provision that is halal and good. We need food. We need water to survive.

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We need drink.

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Everybody need that? Even animals

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but we do not just want to eat for the sake of eating, drinking for the sake of drinking.

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We want to eat foods that bring benefit to us.

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Increase our well being when we eat and we drink.

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There is a saying you are what you eat. If you don't care about your food, then your tummy is like a rubbish bin. Everything goes

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we don't do that. We keep on asking Oh ALLAH provide for us. Halal and I and tayyiba halal food and drink and good quality food.

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When you eat good food, you dream all the good thing.

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Inshallah your body will be healthy.

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Your mind also will be positive. Your feeling will be always connected.

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But to Allah Almighty,

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but when you don't

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eat what is right for you, then you see a lot of problem may come to your body

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and mind confused?

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Why because the world today is being controlled by the pharmacies.

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keep on telling you how could it discipline man, keep telling you this, but we don't really know.

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No one really know. It's up to them to say what they want to say.

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We just buy and eat.

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Maybe the one who's talking about their product they don't even eat.

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They just make it to market to the world.

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They come up with this saying this propaganda and all of us because of our ignorance, we just follow the call more leading the blind follower, we'd want to be there.

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That's why we keep on asking Allah to give us the right knowledge. Provide us the right food and drink

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and make us people who always engage. What are Milan Solly and Martha bulan

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we want to be active, active in doing what we want to talk. What is the thing that you want to talk about?

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You want to do business what kind of business owner is very important not just as long as business? I do get Halal haram

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as long again profit. I don't care about other people's life. No, that is bad.

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As long as I speak, what is like a bullet. If you're not careful, your word is not the easiest

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to pull back to retract colors once your shoe

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is out.

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That's why the prophets in Montana Human biller or yo Malarkey, Ophelia, Ali, yes. If you really believe in God, and mighty Allah, you claim yourself as a believer

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and the Day of Judgment because whatever we do, whatever you say, will be

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judged by Allah.

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You are not just given free, right to say anything right? Because Allah is going to judge everyone else.

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The Day of Judgment is true. And it's very, very important for us to understand.

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Prophecy you want to see anything we love to talk, you want to

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choose your word,

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choose the right word.

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I will share with you what happens if you choose the wrong word.

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And

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so, it is important for us to always remember

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we want to be active in doing thing that is good, positive, constructive,

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not thing that is negative and disruptive.

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And we keep on asking Allah

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to give us a good body, good mind, a good heart,

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the BMS body, mind and soul

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so that we all live in peace and we bring peace wherever we go.

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And that is important.

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Brothers and sisters once again for those who are just

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arrived our friend from PAW

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my nephew also came from Denmark and his friend

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now

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as a believer

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we know

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how to strengthen our email our E Manya. Z Yonkos is not stable our image increase decrease

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most of the time decrease

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Sunday's and they the Saturday May we have activity increased a while

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how many hours three hours we have activities yesterday one whole day we have activity today maybe three hours after that you are in a different environment.

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Then you can feel suddenly your Eman drop

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there is calm

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yes G en course.

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But if you

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You are always in contact with Allah, wherever you are tequila I used to put into the prophecy. be connected to Allah wherever you are. Still remember what you have learned for three hours where you go later on, you still remember what you have learned. And you are alert. You are careful

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that means unharmed.

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But if after that you forget

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then you know

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you have some problem with your email

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the Lord will Allah mean remind us as family today we're talking about family

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the fragile vessel family is very close to one another. That's what you call family

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because you're so close, your relationship is very fragile, sensitive.

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And families that from where

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it's not from husband and wife

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then only you have a family

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husband and a wife Allah remind us what we know in Walmart minute bow to whom Alia Oba

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Maroondah Bill Murray and how naman Cara we have a Munna Salah yo tunas aka you in Africa is

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a true believer, male and female,

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husband and wife,

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brother and sisters, mother and father

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be

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like a companion a shareholder.

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They complement each other.

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They do not sabotage each other.

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As family as believer they complement each other

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they keep on helping reminding each other because nobody is perfect

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you remind me of the saying a friend

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indeed Israel

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a friend indeed is

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a friend in need

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you only a friend when you are good time where you have bad done bye bye I don't know you anymore. I'm busy no time.

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What kind of friend is that

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father and mother's relationship very unique.

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They always find time make time for the children

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when they have to go through a lot of suffering

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but the children is always in their mind and their heart

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so easy for us to understand.

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show you one simple example do the murder of Moses love Moses

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and Moses love Moses

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wish mother who don't love the children

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but there is

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fitnah that time

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an order was given by Faro

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because he got the wrong

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advice from his people. The corrupted

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magician

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as you be careful of the newborn baby boy

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can can join us

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be careful of the baby boy.

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Any from today he said at a time

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when there is a newborn baby boy.

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You must execute them. No mercy for the newborn baby boy. They only allow a baby girl not

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why? Because they know that this

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baby will grow up one day and destroy the kingdom of Pharaoh.

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Other was given

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all the army

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Is patrolling the police around Egypt

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when a baby a child is born do a baby cry

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normally do the baby cry What do you think?

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We don't know we don't have experience

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cry

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there's my younger sister

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baby will cry there is the fitrah there in the new world there was so comfortable protected inside the tummy. Suddenly they're out in an open air. They know what they're going to face.

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They cry, they cry Why? Because of hunger they need food.

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That's what you see when baby cry, you know what they want?

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They cannot talk to you. You don't understand their language so they have to cry, you know, Okay, why don't you give him

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some mirror colors.

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So they're worried because when Moses was born Eve, a cry and hurt by the soldier, class date.

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But what happened?

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Allah command the mother.

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Put him into a basket and let him go to the Rebbe.

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Let him

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and the sister we're following

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to see where will this basket lead or end?

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Is that easy? Is that easy after giving birth and then you have to abandon your baby is that easy? Very difficult.

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But they have no choice

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for the safety of the baby

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and leave it to God to protect

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with the will of Allah although was out to kill every newborn baby by Allah send Moses into the garden

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of King Pharaoh palace

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with a wave was that they sort of bask.

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They pick up on

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a baby pie.

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And

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that one Asya the wife of Faro have no children.

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So when Pharrell came

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and saw this baby, Allah opened the wife's heart

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is a gift from God

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you have killed so many boys have said

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don't kill him

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but how Allah protecting

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baby needful keep on crying. They got all the help. The seven females when

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he refused to dream from any one of them.

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The sister saw where the brother younger brother was landed.

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And then she tried to edit it was allowed

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to see

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green Asya

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as I know, a woman

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who, every time when anybody had baby, the baby would drink the mail from her.

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She did not say that there is my brother.

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Why? To safeguard the life of the brother.

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And that is how God

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Glen send the mother to the palace.

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Immediately when she'll hold the baby

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the BBQ quiet and

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take the mothers

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and that's how Moses grew up in the palace of Faro.

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How Allah protect

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Now it's very important to have that understanding sometimes we don't know why. Allah no bears

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and dog parent have no choice sometimes.

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They just do what they have to do

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and have faith you will be okay.

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So you must have that belief.

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Be grateful and beat

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thankful of who we are today. Without their sacrifices, we may not know where we are today.

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So these are all the lesson that everybody who have the knowledge of the Book must understand

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Brothers and Sisters in Islam

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and to all those who are with us today, today

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we are shared with you Ahmad.

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The Mother of the Believers

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the Mother of the Believers we have shared with you earlier

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but today we are talking about Zainab Binti Josh

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first we understand who is this Lady

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Jane Minter just been

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the daughter of Oman Nima Binti Abdullah mortality bin Hashem.

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They have a family linked with our Prophet.

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She was born approximately 20 years before the beginning of the prophets mission.

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She embraced Islam in Makkah,

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early given the mission of the Prophet and was married to Zion been harissa

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as a is a slave boy belongs to Katya

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and Aditya free him

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to serve the prophet

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the Prophet love him so much the Prophet want to give him a new name

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they been Mohammed

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Gods it no

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if you are not the biological father you cannot put your name as the real father

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that is the law

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maintain his family trees

00:32:19--> 00:32:26

y'all can be adopted father, but don't add off that family tree

00:32:27--> 00:32:28

why because some

00:32:30--> 00:32:36

thing can happen strange thing can happen you add off the family name

00:32:37--> 00:32:59

and they have an adage daughters over there and you're away from the family. Suddenly you are working here these lady grown up when they and work and you meet up attract to each other you can get married and you are brothers and sister

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it happened

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and it happened again. Because we are not careful you want to adopt you are now you can be a stepfather adopted but don't change the name at that time.

00:33:21--> 00:33:27

So that the family trees is known to the children.

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I know who is my real father, I know I have a brother and sister from that

00:33:35--> 00:33:35

is important

00:33:42--> 00:33:43

Zane up

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Maddie To date,

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the free slave on our profits or loss. But their marriage was not successful.

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And it ended with divorce. When you get married

00:34:02--> 00:34:06

and you'll find there is no peace and understanding and respect.

00:34:07--> 00:34:17

There's always some disagreement, argument fighting, quarreling, you must find the best way to move on.

00:34:20--> 00:34:21

Maybe

00:34:22--> 00:34:30

you are not the right couple. As a friend you can be good. Maybe not as the husband and wife.

00:34:32--> 00:34:46

But because all these people is guided by our profit they know how to solve the problem. Not following the feeling. Keep on blaming because of you and the other You are the cause. No, no, no. Sit down.

00:34:47--> 00:34:48

Let us discuss.

00:34:51--> 00:34:55

If there's no more understanding, we cannot even talk properly.

00:34:57--> 00:34:59

How we have a good beginning

00:35:00--> 00:35:01

Let us have a good ending.

00:35:03--> 00:35:04

That's how you move on

00:35:06--> 00:35:07

Alhamdulillah.

00:35:08--> 00:35:12

But the unique thing, immediately after the the was

00:35:13--> 00:35:18

the Command of Allah king, a very unique command.

00:35:22--> 00:35:29

The command is to the Prophet, that you can marry Xena, after her into

00:35:33--> 00:35:35

the culture edit time you cannot.

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But if this is your daughter in law you can.

00:35:43--> 00:35:48

But this is not the daughter in law, this is the wife of

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the free slave is not your son is the wife of your son, you cannot, you are the father in law for life.

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But if you are not,

00:36:03--> 00:36:06

then after the ADA

00:36:08--> 00:36:09

you can get married.

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So, when this happened,

00:36:18--> 00:36:21

she always been a human

00:36:22--> 00:36:26

Prophet, wife and not prophet, but they're the Mother of the Believers.

00:36:28--> 00:36:30

She used to say to the CO wives,

00:36:33--> 00:36:34

your parents

00:36:36--> 00:36:39

gave you in marriage to the Prophet.

00:36:41--> 00:36:47

Allah, the Creator God gave me in marriage to Prophet Muhammad.

00:36:48--> 00:36:54

The command come from Sidra to remonda, the kingdom of God.

00:36:56--> 00:37:02

And Sunday is not easy, when somebody is so close to you, the wife of your adopted son

00:37:05--> 00:37:14

and the culture do not allow our jury is not enough traditionally. But the law of God said yes.

00:37:16--> 00:37:19

The God of law, the god is law always

00:37:20--> 00:37:28

overrule men meet law, because the divine, the Almighty Creator know what we know is not

00:37:31--> 00:37:35

of cause she is not just an ordinary woman,

00:37:36--> 00:37:41

a very child righteous generous and charitable woman,

00:37:42--> 00:37:55

before she got married with a profit, the profits and loss even said the one among the you, my wife, who were joining me, fills in is the one with the longest

00:37:57--> 00:38:03

meaning the prophet is trying to convey a very important message to the family.

00:38:04--> 00:38:13

The best among you are those who are very kind and loving, who like to help one another.

00:38:17--> 00:38:26

So, they now have this unique character she just love to help the poor and the needy.

00:38:28--> 00:38:30

Even Aisha

00:38:32--> 00:38:33

say,

00:38:35--> 00:38:38

among the wives on the Prophet Aisha is the youngest one.

00:38:39--> 00:38:46

She's hit all of them, the Mother of the Believers used to compete in being charitable.

00:38:48--> 00:38:53

They like to compete because when they know the Prophet said, you will be

00:38:54--> 00:39:02

the closest to me, so everybody is competing. But Zeinab Excel because she used to work

00:39:03--> 00:39:05

and earn her own money

00:39:07--> 00:39:20

in any way that she is allowed at that time, and give in charity, she's not a person who just worked and accumulate wealth, but always ready to give back

00:39:22--> 00:39:24

to the community, the poor and the needy.

00:39:32--> 00:39:34

So if you look at the saying

00:39:35--> 00:39:51

she was one Eisah describe she was the one who rivaled me in status with Allah's Messenger. I shall say I've not seen a more righteous woman than Xena.

00:39:54--> 00:39:59

No one with more Taqwa of Allah and more truthful in speech.

00:40:00--> 00:40:18

Have more kindness to her relative mom. Benevolent loving and more dedication in the work that she did for charity. Meaning when he do anything good he don't just do for the sake of the kids the past he organized it and make sure it is

00:40:20--> 00:40:22

one. They continue

00:40:23--> 00:40:25

consistently

00:40:29--> 00:40:35

except I did encounter with Xena she had

00:40:36--> 00:40:38

some temper

00:40:39--> 00:40:48

being a woman sometime we have a lot of challenges. Sometimes we do have our temper hit up very easily

00:40:52--> 00:41:07

but I shall when she had experienced with her, she realized but quickly he controlled her temper. She know when the tempo is that she know how to control her tempo. Do we have temple

00:41:10--> 00:41:13

everyone will have sooner or later USC

00:41:17--> 00:41:19

sometimes the miners do become big

00:41:21--> 00:41:23

because of the tempo

00:41:27--> 00:41:36

but if you know how to control this way the prophecy the strongest among you is not because he is a wrestler. He is a fighter.

00:41:37--> 00:41:43

The strongest of you are the people who can control his anger his temper

00:41:47--> 00:41:56

now I if I asked can you control yes no problem you have no tempo yet no problem yet. The tempo when you have this problem.

00:41:58--> 00:42:11

You know is growing the tempo is growing is boiling now is just a matter of time for you to let it out. It's like a volcano no two Arab suddenly your control that is the strongest

00:42:14--> 00:42:14

don't

00:42:18--> 00:42:19

just do other thing

00:42:24--> 00:42:28

sometimes we are gonna temper your children. You cannot handle you just hit them

00:42:31--> 00:42:39

and the place that you'd like to hit is not the lay the bathtub face because you don't like how he looked like now

00:42:42--> 00:42:52

why don't you give us let you do it wrongly Now he may have some problem injured the I injured the this area is very sensitive.

00:42:55--> 00:43:07

If you fall and you still managed to control the heat do not hit the ground you applied shave one the hit hit bang on anything hot

00:43:10--> 00:43:12

that is the beginning of some problem

00:43:15--> 00:43:18

there's a lot of wiring here

00:43:21--> 00:43:22

gets shot very easily.

00:43:24--> 00:43:25

So be careful on the head

00:43:27--> 00:43:29

don't play with the head

00:43:32--> 00:43:34

and these are very important thing.

00:43:36--> 00:43:40

There is a story about some woman

00:43:42--> 00:43:44

who they came to the Prophet

00:43:46--> 00:43:48

and they one of their parents

00:43:50--> 00:43:52

arranged the marriage with the prophet

00:43:53--> 00:43:57

the minute they saw the profit

00:43:59--> 00:44:00

they see something

00:44:01--> 00:44:02

example

00:44:03--> 00:44:04

our owns we learned

00:44:08--> 00:44:10

this it may God protect me.

00:44:13--> 00:44:16

For from you would you like to call

00:44:22--> 00:44:25

suddenly the magic and who do I like to call

00:44:28--> 00:44:29

me home

00:44:30--> 00:44:32

the minute that happened?

00:44:34--> 00:44:35

The Prophet said

00:44:37--> 00:44:39

you can return back to your family.

00:44:41--> 00:44:44

Meaning when you want to get married anybody

00:44:45--> 00:44:51

suddenly she or he says something very negative

00:44:56--> 00:44:58

something is out what

00:45:01--> 00:45:03

Then you don't want to anymore

00:45:06--> 00:45:08

and that's why in Islam when you want to get marry

00:45:09--> 00:45:21

you have the Egypt caboodle you remember Egypt Kabul those were be married they should recall without Egypt combo you're married is not valid

00:45:24--> 00:45:31

Egypt Cabo means the woman has agreed to accept this man to be her husband

00:45:34--> 00:45:36

but she must say

00:45:38--> 00:45:40

she cannot keep quiet her silent

00:45:42--> 00:45:44

is considered agreed.

00:45:46--> 00:45:57

Normally the authority the one who are going to conduct the marriage, the worry the pattern, they have to stick her permission

00:45:58--> 00:46:08

I have a range I have measurement you should use to it and so do you think you're ready to be his wife? You allow me

00:46:09--> 00:46:11

as your father

00:46:12--> 00:46:13

to conduct the Nika

00:46:15--> 00:46:19

if the daughter say no plan

00:46:20--> 00:46:21

you have the right

00:46:25--> 00:46:44

and that's why the Prophet said when you want to get married don't just let anybody plan for you. You want if possible then minimum look at that person. The man must look at the local the girl must look at demand before we do not know

00:46:45--> 00:46:47

don't just look on the YouTube

00:46:49--> 00:46:51

or maybe in a Twitter you don't know whose face is that?

00:46:54--> 00:46:59

They put the name they put a new face or when the face is all time when

00:47:01--> 00:47:09

you're one to see them with your own eye. We have the right to see from a distance okay.

00:47:11--> 00:47:24

Okay, you feel okay? You're silent when the authority asks you Do you accept this man as your husband? Your stylin means you agree

00:47:27--> 00:47:28

please remember

00:47:29--> 00:47:34

their time you should be silent their time you have to just say

00:47:36--> 00:47:39

Don't humiliate the other party

00:47:41--> 00:47:43

I don't like King you don't look handsome don't do

00:47:46--> 00:47:48

you don't like his look at a woman like his look

00:47:50--> 00:47:53

some of them a very beautiful lady.

00:47:54--> 00:47:55

Have a man

00:47:56--> 00:47:57

not handsome

00:47:58--> 00:48:00

How can she fall for this guy

00:48:02--> 00:48:10

is in the eye of the person the owner will look you look from different angles you look from different angles you cannot compare

00:48:13--> 00:48:18

you like somebody slim somebody like somebody fat you was all fat no

00:48:21--> 00:48:22

different value

00:48:25--> 00:48:29

you have the right to look the mirror also have the right

00:48:31--> 00:48:32

and if you feel that

00:48:33--> 00:48:39

you don't have good feeling you don't condemn belittle

00:48:40--> 00:48:46

or try to talk that other party. You just excuse it. I am not ready

00:48:48--> 00:48:51

a good word. I am not ready.

00:48:52--> 00:48:56

The future I don't know at present or not ready.

00:48:57--> 00:49:05

So I'm not talking or belittle the other party. I don't feel I don't feel good I'm not ready

00:49:09--> 00:49:12

now when somebody says I'm not ready Do you feel hurt?

00:49:14--> 00:49:18

says some guy said to you I'm not ready. Do you feel

00:49:19--> 00:49:20

normally

00:49:21--> 00:49:23

maybe sometime but not

00:49:25--> 00:49:32

not very deep. Okay yeah, maybe not ready financially not ready.

00:49:33--> 00:49:37

Maybe you can have so many good feeling

00:49:38--> 00:49:40

but you don't say

00:49:41--> 00:49:43

he's too black formula.

00:49:45--> 00:49:50

Don't look down our person because the color. Don't do that.

00:49:52--> 00:49:54

He's not handsome. Don't do that.

00:49:56--> 00:49:59

Because if you are not careful, You're belittling him.

00:50:00--> 00:50:05

millat anybody and that person was hurt He's very upset

00:50:07--> 00:50:08

what will happen

00:50:09--> 00:50:11

he will I will come in

00:50:14--> 00:50:15

I haven't experienced

00:50:16--> 00:50:19

not me but my family members

00:50:21--> 00:50:25

my cousin's sister's a very beautiful girl

00:50:26--> 00:50:28

every family look at her

00:50:29--> 00:50:31

admire her beauty

00:50:33--> 00:50:36

then there's a guy who love her so much

00:50:38--> 00:50:41

starting to come closer to the family

00:50:44--> 00:50:46

and trying his best

00:50:47--> 00:50:48

to approach her

00:50:51--> 00:50:53

the way she responded was not good

00:50:54--> 00:51:01

because she's a very pretty old and that guy no normal guy

00:51:02--> 00:51:04

you know sometime pretty woman

00:51:06--> 00:51:08

is a challenge for demand

00:51:09--> 00:51:13

every men like to have a pretty wire

00:51:14--> 00:51:15

beautiful one

00:51:18--> 00:51:21

because of her when she was not careful

00:51:22--> 00:51:28

this guy this guy look for black magic

00:51:33--> 00:51:35

and they start their work

00:51:36--> 00:51:41

you cannot imagine what happened to her caught us by surprise

00:51:43--> 00:51:46

when the mother called me in going visit

00:51:47--> 00:51:56

she just cremated me chase me out. Get out. I don't want to see you. He was not like that before. She is not herself anymore. She's not talking

00:51:58--> 00:52:03

and the other person is talking on her behalf now she got recommend you

00:52:07--> 00:52:08

and what happened?

00:52:09--> 00:52:15

She looked more ugly. All than the mother

00:52:21--> 00:52:24

then after a few months, she passed away.

00:52:26--> 00:52:29

Got that guy is it I made sure nobody will marry you.

00:52:31--> 00:52:32

Because the way you

00:52:34--> 00:52:35

humiliate him,

00:52:36--> 00:52:38

Be careful of our word.

00:52:41--> 00:52:43

A word is like a bullet. Be careful.

00:52:45--> 00:52:48

Even you don't like but use a better word.

00:52:50--> 00:52:54

Don't humiliate and belittle anybody. Don't do that.

00:52:56--> 00:53:02

Maybe you are somebody they are nobody but I'm humble. I'm not ready yet.

00:53:06--> 00:53:09

So people know that you are not humiliating them belittling them

00:53:11--> 00:53:12

they will leave you in peace

00:53:16--> 00:53:20

this is very important for all of us who want to have

00:53:21--> 00:53:24

a good life Be careful of your world

00:53:28--> 00:53:32

our Prophet keep on guiding us and he said one day

00:53:34--> 00:53:37

if all of you my OMA

00:53:38--> 00:53:44

can promise me that you will secure what is between your two lips.

00:53:46--> 00:53:51

And what is between your two lake I will promise you Paradise

00:53:55--> 00:53:58

and the most difficult thing to control

00:54:00--> 00:54:01

is your tongue.

00:54:02--> 00:54:03

Very difficult.

00:54:06--> 00:54:07

The boneless

00:54:08--> 00:54:09

no mon they're

00:54:12--> 00:54:12

very posh.

00:54:16--> 00:54:23

So we hope all of us learn a bit from the history of the mothers of the believer. Be careful

00:54:25--> 00:54:33

when you are somebody's wife, become the one the prophet is a great deal you become the mother to all the believers.

00:54:35--> 00:54:43

Every Muslim believer must know who is the wife or the path is like a mother to all of

00:54:44--> 00:54:47

your status has been upgraded to that level.

00:54:49--> 00:54:50

Very noble,

00:54:51--> 00:54:52

respectful.

00:54:55--> 00:55:00

So you must set good example. So if you become the wife of

00:55:00--> 00:55:00

Somebody's

00:55:02--> 00:55:05

royal family. Don't Forget To Be humble.

00:55:08--> 00:55:09

Be humble.

00:55:11--> 00:55:14

Go down to the ground. You are helping your husband.

00:55:18--> 00:55:20

You don't forget your roots.

00:55:22--> 00:55:24

So Denise, yeah, and I'm also Royer. Now.

00:55:25--> 00:55:27

My blood are so different now.

00:55:29--> 00:55:31

Some goal here, some rate here.

00:55:33--> 00:55:34

That's where you have the red carpet.

00:55:36--> 00:55:42

You have all these people want to honor you, okay? But don't be carried away.

00:55:44--> 00:55:45

Be humble. Just go down

00:55:48--> 00:55:52

to the ground, meet everybody. Help the people that you can help.

00:55:54--> 00:55:56

You're humbled, humbleness,

00:55:57--> 00:55:59

will be your legacy.

00:56:01--> 00:56:17

Your kindness will be remembered by all the people who you help. People will keep on praying for you and pray for your partner, your husband, because sometimes your husband too busy

00:56:19--> 00:56:21

with worldly matters,

00:56:22--> 00:56:24

but you are there to

00:56:25--> 00:56:29

assist him by doing all the good charitable work.

00:56:32--> 00:56:34

So to be a good person,

00:56:35--> 00:56:37

a good husband, a good wife,

00:56:39--> 00:56:45

a good father, a good mother, a good son, a good daughter, as a family.

00:56:46--> 00:56:47

Don't forget

00:56:48--> 00:56:50

to be kind,

00:56:51--> 00:56:52

to be loving.

00:56:54--> 00:56:56

With everybody that you meet,

00:56:58--> 00:57:01

show respect to the elders and love the young.

00:57:03--> 00:57:05

The Prophet said the same in

00:57:06--> 00:57:12

Milan, your Kabira Allah, Allah Mayor hum, so the arena, you cannot be

00:57:13--> 00:57:14

among us.

00:57:16--> 00:57:17

Be part of us.

00:57:18--> 00:57:22

If you will, the young one don't show respect to the elders.

00:57:24--> 00:57:28

And the elders don't show love to the young.

00:57:30--> 00:57:33

We have to do what we have to do before it's too late.

00:57:35--> 00:57:39

The elders have their own problem. The young also have their problem.

00:57:41--> 00:57:42

Everybody have fun.

00:57:43--> 00:57:48

But we must try our level best to go back to the guidance of God

00:57:49--> 00:57:54

and the teaching of our beloved prophet who is here to show us the way

00:57:56--> 00:57:56

how to move on.

00:57:59--> 00:58:00

So that

00:58:01--> 00:58:03

we will have a happy life

00:58:05--> 00:58:06

and happy ending.

00:58:07--> 00:58:27

This way, the prayer that the Prophet recommend as Allah McDonough will host nil call Dima wala attactive Elena, with Su in a coffee mug. Oh Allah. Grant is a good ending. Every good ending should start with good beginning.

00:58:29--> 00:58:45

Every day you do whatever you do, what type of job you are doing. Make sure at the end of the day, you get the best. That's how you train yourself to have a good ending. Don't train me. I'm still young.

00:58:47--> 00:59:04

After 20 years, I tried to become a better person 20 Who gives you the right to know that you're going to live for 20 years will come and the guarantee from God that you only die in 2040 or 2060s. No you can buy you can just die tomorrow. Nobody knows.

00:59:05--> 00:59:13

You sleep tonight. Close everything close your eyes. And there's one tomorrow no more opening. Pandora's

00:59:15--> 00:59:19

thing didn't happen. That's why we were taught by our prophet before you sleep.

00:59:21--> 00:59:30

Rich certain prayer. At least you say Bismillah Allahumma moto. O Allah, the Creator of all things.

00:59:32--> 00:59:33

God Almighty.

00:59:36--> 00:59:39

I am going to die with your name.

00:59:40--> 00:59:46

And only with your name and power your will I will leave again tomorrow.

00:59:49--> 00:59:51

Busy Bismillah Allahu wa moto

00:59:54--> 00:59:58

reminding ourselves sleeping is like dying.

01:00:00--> 01:00:03

If you pass the test of sleeping,

01:00:04--> 01:00:05

you don't need to wake up anymore.

01:00:08--> 01:00:11

Until today we fail the test of sleeping that's why we're here.

01:00:13--> 01:00:14

Why your pass

01:00:15--> 01:00:18

you don't have to wake up, you're going to enter the world.

01:00:21--> 01:00:30

So may Allah protect all of us brothers and sisters, guide us to make us people who are wise

01:00:31--> 01:00:36

people who love one another respect one and the care for one and

01:00:37--> 01:00:42

people were always ready to help one and for anything that is good.

01:00:43--> 01:00:47

But don't help one another for anything that is bad.

01:00:49--> 01:00:51

Our life is very short.

01:00:53--> 01:00:57

So make use of what you have before it's too late.

01:00:58--> 01:01:01

And I end my lecture today

01:01:02--> 01:01:06

by the reminder from Almighty God who created us,

01:01:07--> 01:01:11

is it all you believe stay connected to me

01:01:12--> 01:01:21

and look into yourself? Look into every one of you always look into yourself every morning you look at the mirror

01:01:22--> 01:01:29

you have been looking into yourself but we are just looking into how we look.

01:01:31--> 01:01:32

The surface

01:01:34--> 01:01:36

is a bit dry put some cream

01:01:38--> 01:01:41

is to pay to put some color

01:01:44--> 01:01:45

to look good, nothing wrong.

01:01:47--> 01:01:51

There's nothing wrong. But what is more important look into your character.

01:01:54--> 01:02:02

Look at the mirror. Give a smile what you see. What do you see when you look at the mirror and you give a smile What do you see?

01:02:03--> 01:02:04

Elsewhere

01:02:08--> 01:02:12

if you look at it you smile but the mirror show you enter the look

01:02:14--> 01:02:15

what is going to happen to you

01:02:18--> 01:02:26

I think you're gonna break that mirror. Oh what's happening? Who is this? I don't know. This is not me. How can this mirror

01:02:27--> 01:02:32

reflect the opposite? I give us more any she respond with anger.

01:02:35--> 01:02:42

I look at the mirror again. You say to me You're stupid. I don't like you. See what the mirrors hit you.

01:02:43--> 01:02:46

Live you. I like you to worry.

01:02:48--> 01:02:57

How you look at the mirror, the reamer the mirror will look at you that how you look at the mirror is your own reflection.

01:02:58--> 01:03:04

You want people to respect you respect other you want people to smile at you learn how to smile at others

01:03:06--> 01:03:08

mirror or mirror.

01:03:10--> 01:03:11

Very important.

01:03:12--> 01:03:15

Oh Allah Allah how you created me so perfect.

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Give me a good character. Make me perfect in my character.

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That's how you improve yourself. So Allah

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Polly Yanzhou

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loves to mock the mud. Look into yourself. What have you prepare for your next life.

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So all the prophets in the messenger of God from the time of Adam to Noah Abraha Moses, Jesus Muhammad was sent to remind everyone prepare yourself for your departure.

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This departure this trip that you are going to the next world is a one way ticket

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one you leave this planet earth

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you expired your life here. You will not return back anymore. You are moving to the next level to Alam Kubo to the live in the graveyard.

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Soul will be returned q&a will start

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then you will feel

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what was said to you is happening now. You don't prepare is too late to return. You can ask oh god delay my death send me back to the world. I'm going to be a better person. I'm not going to be right all meet new mid to late.

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Then after the q&a at the grave you are going to move transfer

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To alarm, the waiting world.

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And that is the world that all

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our good friend, our family member who have passed away, is that is waiting

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until the Doom days

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where every single soul will die Kulu Neph cinza cottonmouth, except the Creator Allah, then there is the end of this world.

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No one survived,

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the world will turn upside down

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the sky and the earth will join together like a pancake.

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And it will roll colors, every single question of God. And

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then the day of judgment will come in the resurrection.

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So we hope we all are prepared for that journey.

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And religion is here to guide you there.

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All prophet was here to remind everyone the same thing you are going there, remember, you are returning back to the creator, you belong to him, you are going back to him. Just get yourself prepared.

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May Allah make it easy for all of us?

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There is no problem we encounter as a family as an individual in this world that you cannot solve. If you go back to God, God show you the way

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you follow problems or

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the problem that we do want to follow we want to follow my feeling my way and then you have your way and they have there were so many ways

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in worldly matter, you can have many ways number one, I want to go to Singapore. I want to fly my way. I want to drive your way.

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Yeah, I want to cycle another way.

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Where are the annual rich Singapore Of course, from different directions, your choice.

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But really no go back to God only one way.

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Only one me

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and that way is a one way ticket.

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When you go back to him no more turning back.

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This is the world that God have created for all of us. For you to do whatever you want to do.

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You can be a destroyer. You can be a builder is up to you.

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You want all the good result, your plan or the good deeds now.

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And you'll see the fruit will be waiting for you.

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If you don't do anything good. There's nothing for you in the future because you don't plan.

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So may Allah make us a good plan

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and the best prayer God has guided us see,

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there are two type of people God said.

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One minute now NAS Maya Kulu Rabbana Tina dunya Amala. Who Phil Aukerman colop.

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Will mean who Maya Kulu Ramona Tina dunya Hassan, or fill our clara de hacer la Joaquina Azova na meaning

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there are two types of people

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in this world. The first group are with one dunya dunya dunya I want worldly thing I want to be rich. I want to have this everything to do with dunya he wants to have

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just talk about the world.

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This live. Allah says

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do what you want to do. Now you get everything you want.

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Just here

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you want to be rich.

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You want to be powerful. Do what you can. You can get nothing for you for your Acura

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because there is what you want for the world. I give you everything in this world

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but the bathtub group allows you one main home among them you have another group

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my brother Tina be doing a hashtag Now Phil arthralgia house in Okinawa.

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but not Oh Allah give us goodness happiness success in this world. You want to be successful, nothing wrong.

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But not only here and give me success, happiness in the next world, the next world bow here and the hereafter and save me from the Tommen of hellfire

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get ending,

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meaning save us from the bad ending.

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We hope we are among the second group.

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We won Best here and bears in the future

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and leave a good legacy for the generation to come and continue the good thing that we have left behind.

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If you don't do anything good, what legacy Do you have? Nothing. Zero. What can the children benefit zero? Because you don't leave anything good for them.

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May Allah bless his brother and sister if there's any question I only allow before we go for the next lesson. One for the male and one from the sisters female. Any online question today? Not yet. Good. Any question from the sisters first?

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Pass the queue that might

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have dinner

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in the Molly Kumar Matala, Abraca to share walaikum salam wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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We know that the upcoming 10 days of Zulu j is very important.

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Can you share advice? What are the Ibadah that the woman in menses can do to replace the

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fasting and solid that they can perform during that time? If they are in menses during that 10 days? Yep.

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JazakAllah she hummed in beautiful question.

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The 10 days of the hijab is coming very, very close. I do not know maybe tomorrow after tomorrow is that the first of the hijab

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I will prophet who was sent by Allah is telling us

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there is no debts debt more beloved to Allah than the debt you engage in the first 10 days of insulator.

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The main thing you can do but the day that Allah choose for you

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and He gives special rewards and special blessing.

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What is the thing that you should do? If you are having menses you cannot fast you are encouraged to fast if you are able,

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from the first to the nine of the Hijjah or the 10 You are not supposed to fast is Raya de fasting is haram.

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First Zahida until the nine if you can find if you just pass on the nine

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and offer from God is one year of your past sin and the future sin is being forgiven.

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Just one day on the nine, the day of Arafa where all the fitmesh

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is there.

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People who are not in Arafa on the knives are hija no harsh for them.

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Invalid they must be there.

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That day those who are not going the people who are going to harsh they cannot pass

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the people who are not going they can pass

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the people were performing your hearts if they do not sacrifice a sheep an animal then they for those who use in tomato hunt

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then they have to fast on the 11 to 13

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we cannot pass

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this is only special for those who are performing hard. They don't have the means to slaughter animals then they have to replace them days back home three days in harsh fasting.

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So the good deeds that you can do if you're having Mensa you cannot fall. You cannot pray there's no special prayer.

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No, there is no set

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Salah totally No.

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Prayer is the same. But you can engage in welfare activities.

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You can participate in

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offering of sacrifice.

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You can do

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With that, so if you said that I never bought

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a ship yet, I never participate in a carrier I want to do quickly you have to talk to our team before it's too late because when you decide to do then you start not to cut your hair, your fingernail, and all these things stop adding, you just have to be like in a haram

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so you can still do this. Be kind, charitable. Kadeem is campaigning also for those who want to contribute to our costs for our dark water activities, helping the poor and the needy is on you can do that. Of course, prayer. Solid No. Fasting no for Sister, we're having their period or their menses you are clear.

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Okay, good. Last question for the brother now.

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Cerrone Oracle Sombra Tanaka sometime around people knew us loser

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Ken okay. No cannot wait to be

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for an hour set or short of what we have. So that people don't look at us. Like loser. Sometimes the situation make me angry and challenge

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if I understood what you say, sometimes people look at us like we are a loser. Correct.

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So of course when people do this to us, we get angry.

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We get upset, normal or normal people why they look at me in that way. Why they think that I'm a loser.

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Everyone is a loser.

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Not to Allah said while asleep in insan the vehicle

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Allah swear with time all of us being human we are looser because we are palace.

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We always forget a good thing.

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Illa Xena Armando except this group who is not looser?

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According to Allah, you don't worry what people say. You worry what Allah says. You cannot please everybody but you must please the Creator.

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Except those who believe in Allah

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and righteously if you just believe and you are not a kind person, you don't care about the environment, you are still a loser.

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You become very selfish.

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You must be a believer stay connected to Allah know who is the creator? Is that how important for you you know who is your parent is important to know who is the creator who create everything who create our parents, our grandparents

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and serve Him and righteously be active productive

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even then you can still be a loser because you can be active just for yourself.

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Still he just for you. What our sabe Allah said then you must engage in doing good thing for other people. Share the truth. Share what is right what the wasabi SOP then you must have patient people say this to you. They look at you you are looser. They don't respect you don't worry

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don't worry about just

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be happy.

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As long as you are we've Allah

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remember this you cannot please everybody

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how good you are somebody will

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praise you somebody will attack you.

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You cannot please just please God, you know what you do is what allowing you to move on? You okay, brother.

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Our property is so perfect.

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So kind and loving. Still people talk bad about him. So who are we

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don't worry of what people say we are worried if God said that. We are a loser. We are worried. But God is telling us in general, everyone is the loser loser except those who believe in God. act righteously and always have the sharing spirit

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and be the truth. Share the truth. Don't be salvagers thing of you. Only you want to go to paradise you don't get what I

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The people you want everybody to go to Paradise water wasabi stop in life whatever we do you need to have patience sabar.

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Okay

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Hamdulillah, Chatelet brother and sister now we are proceeding with the second part of our activities today we have a

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sister's adding sister who is going to make shahada and we hope everybody can just stay on for a while give it some more support

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to you have to have them here you don't have as Malaysian where if you have Help me Help me is here. We need to Malaysian

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the male brothers to be a witness okay one and help me can be

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yeah

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we will close the class was reciting to speak if Allah Subhana Allah humma

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or Byham DECA a shadow Allah Illa illa Anta

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estar de Fuca, what to