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Bulugh Al Maram – Book of Etiquette & Manners #05 – Hadith No. 1236

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Now we will talk about one of the etiquettes that came in the first Hadith, which is the Schmidt will help us to Schmidt allowed us which it means is to make up for the one who sneezed by saying to that person, your hammock Allah and this is one of the rights upon every Muslims toward his brother or sister when they sneeze, and they say Alhamdulillah Okay, and the word to Schmidt when it comes from

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tissue meat

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shamatha What's shamatha Have you ever heard the word shamita?

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The process of them said, Oh Allah protect me from shamatha to

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protect me from

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any situation that will make my enemy happy.

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That will make my enemy feel

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Oh, you know, he's in trouble. You know that feeling that? I'm so glad that GLA in trouble or you lost? Are you bad? That's what chamada what will be a word for it in English?

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What do you think?

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What do you think?

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shamita it means when someone happy for your losses. happy for you for you being in trouble.

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I agree. It's a fun but like, you know, like somebody so like, internal feel so happy that you like messing it up and out or you're in trouble. And you will be happy for that or you'll be happy that is when they when they're feeling call in English. Any any words for that?

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gloat?

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Glory.

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Okay, so you got the point? Shemitah? You're the point so Shimada to why when someone sneeze, you say that we call the chairman? To Schmidt. How can this

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because the ship can get mad when you say it hamdulillah. Because the ship can get mad because sneezing. It's basically something if it didn't come out, it will harm you.

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If your sneeze, go, don't go out, or go in the wrong direction. You know, it will basically harm you. And the Chapin wants that. But because it came out and you're grateful and thankful the last panel Dalits and hamdulillah that will make the shape on unhappy. So as if the shamatha is actually has to do with the ship on being such an hobby, and you hobby that the shape on is not happy.

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That's the famous explanation for it in the books of

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language or Arabic language.

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tishomingo arpus. What's the ruling of it? We said that the rights of Muslims some of them obligate are obligatory and some of them son so what do you think when someone's a

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hemmed in law?

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Is it obligatory upon each and every one of you guys to say hamaca law to me

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or one person is enough or it is recommended for all of you to say Alhamdulillah.

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And basically, the majority of the scholar said it is sooner.

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That isn't the vast majority of the heart said it's a sinner. But

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some scholar said no it is not sin. It is far buki fire. And that's the position of Abu hanifa Rahim Allah and the Hanafi scholars, as well as some of the Maliki scholars. Okay.

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As well as the Maliki scholars

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like a borscht for example, is Amanda scuttle said that he said that it's totally fine. what's called the key fire means five key fire the word forgiving means that if one person did it,

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it is sufficient for all of us. But sufficient It doesn't mean you don't say it. It means it's not obligatory upon the rest, but it is what recommended for the rest.

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It's like what praying eat praying at

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In this problem if I have some Muslim did it good but still recommended for all of us to go to a prayer

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Okay, so when someone sees it hamdulillah you say hammock Allah and also that's some of the shafia said that and even hijab Rahim Allah it looks like and is charity scholar lean towards that and he said yes the head he said every Muslims should say or hammock Allah because the right upon every Muslim but it's he said there is no contradiction it's like when you say the Muslim should pray eat but you also means it is fortified some must and the rest is recommended

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other scholars like Abner Adobe, which is a manic escolar guess what he said? He said it's a it's a must upon every person to say your hammacher Allah

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and also there is some of the Maliki and some of the Hanafi said that as well.

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Here we say that the nippy Salah low audio Sallam said

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in the lie you hit bullet with us where Corrado Allah loves sneezing hates yawning for either others when you sneeze and you say hamdulillah it is the right upon every Muslim heard him saying such thing and you should admit that say your hammacher amakhala as for yawning the process on him said it is from the chiffon. So close your mouth as much as you can don't relax you tried to stop it as much as you can. And if you say

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like this, like you basically you make a noise clindamycin phaser cada ha

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if you say like basically make enough noise

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like a ship on the ship and we laugh at that person reported by a body. Part of nucleon Rahim Allah in Tishman forebrain in Allah coolamon semi an artist Yama de la

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What are you Jewish me to La Jolla and home. Wow the Agricola a Luna Tara Abizaid, abubakr Abdullah Arabi al Maliki Yan wala Daffy Allah dafina no pain Rahim Allah, Muhammad said it is must upon everyone, not forgive if not sooner, it is wiser upon everyone and there is no proof to say otherwise.

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So, in conclusion, we have three positions. One position said it's full of key five.

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If you if some setup, it just became recommended for the rest. And that's the official position of the Hanafi. The majority of the Hanbury the majority of the Maliki and

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admin team era him himolla mentioned the shin that this is a famous opinion in

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the second opinion that it is must upon everybody. And that's the VA Hurry, it must have like even hazard and others. And some of the magic is and also nokian Rahim Allah zambelli scholar, the third opinion that is just recommended, and that's the majority of the chef area and some of the madaket as well. That's what Allah said, or Madhava chef II was habit. Marine, and fish meat. So not only nominal add up, that it is recommended because it's part of the IDA and it's not watch.

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So you say and hamdulillah Why would you sneeze you said hamdulillah

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hamdulillah is not thanking?

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Allah unhemmed is not thinking that is different between thinking and in ham, ham, the T shirt karela

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so what's that hamdulillah means

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praising you praise Allah, you praise him for what?

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Because you praise the way he his knowledge, his wisdom. That's right, and work his mercy.

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How this appear in your sneezing? How does your appear in your sneeze?

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Because sneezing is such an amazing thing happened to your body.

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If you know about sneezing you'll be amazed by how Allah make this happen. And you will praise His infinite wisdom, knowledge abilities that he created you in the best way in the best form.

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So it is a way to

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handler to remind you of the name of Allah subhana wa Tada. And that's the opposite of Jani. Because yawning remind you of what laziness and sleeping and tiredness you know. So that's why it is from the ship um, because you don't always want to see you're lazy and not doing anything. And from that we know the problems yarning from the shape on, okay? Also, you can say that laziness from the shape Ah, that's why

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I asked you to protect me from an ads an alkyne from being lazy.

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So please make sure you're not lazy person.

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You're always active. laziness is not a good quality. Anyway.

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If you don't sneeze, and you held your sneeze, you will put not you will not only miss a lot of benefits, sneeze bring a lot of benefits. And by the way, scientifically, nobody knows why a person will young yawning have no scientific explanation to it. And I found a lot of people wrote about it. And they don't know why, why there is no like science behind it yet. They couldn't figure it out.

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Okay, so but sneezing has, there is no also any size, any scientific research about the awning shows benefits or advantages or disadvantages nothing. But in the contrary, sneezing is a very beneficial, so you not only lose the benefits, also, if you don't sneeze, and this will be inside your body, it can be very dangerous, it can be very dangerous. And that shows the Lord the mercy and the delusions of Allah subhanaw taala sneeze is the best way for the body to clear its passages. So you can keep breathing clean air,

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you don't sneeze, it will affect the cleanness of the air that you bring into your body. According to the Mayo Clinic,

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the expelled air from one sneeze can reach speeds of 30 to 40 miles per hour

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or more. And it can go up to 100 miles per hour.

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I know someone like that.

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So how

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do you know someone like that? Who this needs maybe 100? You know, miles per hour.

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In 2019, researcher from the University of Pennsylvania discovered that sneezing is the nose noses natural way to reset.

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The study found that

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the cells that line the tissues inside the nose are rebooted when you sneeze. And in other words, a sneeze reset the entire normal environment.

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What's more, the researchers found that sneezing didn't have the same recent effect on people who have critical nose or nasal issues. Like basically

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some kind of what do you call

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conjunctions or like

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what do you call the

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sign and signs?

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signs is

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a 34 years old in Leicester in UK ended up

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basically

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rubber Rob Richard

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restructuring Rep.

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rubbishing his throats and I get it wrong also, his basically at throat at while trying to hold in a forceful sneeze has caused damage to him. The man said he felt a pumping sensation in his neck after pinching his nose and held his mouth close while he's sneezing. Actually, the pressure didn't have anywhere to go, but it but it tore the soft tissues inside his throat. There is another study as well said that a person who had to be

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the man has to be fed by tube and eventually made a full recovery but he stayed for that for a while. researchers who just basically described the case in a general

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In a case study, they said that trapping a sneeze can be dangerous and can also result in something as serious as a brain.

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We call that like, you know, football.

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concussion

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if you hold your sneeze if it's strong

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so if you just go good, and you will find tons of information about sneezing and the benefit of sneezing and the dangers of holding it, can you imagine how this air comes from your body and go through your nose and go through your basically your hat? can imagine a lot of these like just go to the wrong direction

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goes from your ear.

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Or or your your eyes?

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Just imagine

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I'm not gonna go say go down. So going up.

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Yeah, that force?

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Yeah, I mean 100 miles an hour.

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Okay. So you see it is very, it is very interesting how to think sometimes we don't think about the last panel.

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So that's why when you sneeze remind yourself and say 100 Allah praise due to Allah, the way he made it this way so beneficial in that passage. And the way it goes, it just it shows an unbelievable amount of wisdom and knowledge.

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Pay.

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By the way, there is different forms of fish meat and different way of seeing and hamdulillah what people familiar with Alhamdulillah is there is any other word and came in the center and Buhari reported that NW Salam set it out this I had to confess diakonia hamdulillah and his friend should say your hammock Allah and when you say hammock Allah what the person should reply. Yeah, de como la while you sleep.

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That's the very famous one.

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La bajada Rahim Allah reported this by the way and

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not a Messiah.

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He said, and that's this the most authentic narration in this area. But a Buddha would also reported that you say Alhamdulillah Allah coolie Han.

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And it's authentic knowledge. And you tell him your hammock Allah. Then you reply by saying Yeah, de como la cabana.

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Also a tournament reported from headed salad near Obaidullah, they tend to be sallallahu Sallam said, If you sneeze say Alhamdulillah horrible alameen

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so how many we have so far and hamdulillah Al Hamdulillah Callahan and hamdu Lillahi Rabbil aalameen and this time he was sent you say your hammock Allah

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but the reply here is different.

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The reply will be young Pharaoh la hora Nevada May Allah forgive us a new

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okay.

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Yeah de como la habana Kumi an email like guide you and usefully Habana que en e make your

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affairs and your worries all fixed. Okay.

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This one young federal law on our Roku

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and [???]al Albania Rahim Allah have considered as

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weak v. avi though,

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but

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it is an authentic narration from Abdullah. Omar and as he said himself chobani and so

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the third one with Odin tirmidhi both

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have been Ambassador they allow an said

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when someone say to him your hammock Allah he sneezes hamdulillah and somebody said that hammock Allah wasn't ambitious to say I found a La Hoya El Camino.

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May Allah protect us I knew from unknown

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and also the mathematic reported that NASA said the time to live

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and his father both

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in the US and they say hamdulillah and they say your hammock Allah, he would say your hamona La Hoya yaku Alana welcome

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your hammock.

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Well, if you rolana what

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I'll call the famous scholars medics co said element debated over or have affair over how

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Should you save him the land? How should you reply? There is many narrations, some said Alhamdulillah Samson and hamdulillahi Rabbil alameen Alhamdulillah Allah Cooley Han had been juryo poverty the creature of his concert. And you have the choice to say any one of these, all of them are correct. They all agree in one aspect that you should say what Alhamdulillah and you can choose from one of these ways. As for

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your hammock align, you make the app back for him. As I said there is your DNA equal Larson radical This is the most famous one. What is it? de como la habana?

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And it's amazing how yeah de como la when

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you're asked a lot for that person, he diet guidance and the tea, his worries would be too he would be resting. You will not be worried. And imagine and he died and the resting and not to be worried is all comes from the heart and the mind. You know, as this sneeze clear everything you want to be also clear your mind is clear and you live in like you'll sleep baddeck your mind is clear which is the best way I can say as a mistranslation I can think of for useless robotic and you had a comedian last month Allah guide you as this error was guided also out of your body.

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They if somebody sneeze more than three times, especially in this season, we have a lot of allergy you know and a lot of you know

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especially this will live in Houston. Like if you keep sneezing sneezing, sneezing, what should I do? hamaca la kalangala

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and Emma Malik Rahim Allah important and is more from Abdullah bin Abu Bakr that his father said that the prophets of Salaam said when someone sneeze, say a hammock Allah to him.

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So then his knees against their hammock allies knees against their hammock Allah, his knees again, which is the fourth time for call in Nakama MOOC mob nuke

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cada Abdullah andreeva the Saudi Arabia after three or after four times

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one sedima Aqua basically mo Ganesh

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Ganesh smugmug

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mob nuke Mina bunk

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ocean banquets bunk

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acertain banca

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pressure

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strict narrow tight so what this has to do

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with the handy isn't if keep sneezing telling your MacBook

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because it means you're what

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have cold and when you cold you feel stuffed your nose and your sinus everything there that's why you feel like you barely can breathe that's a bunk it's tight. It's not clear that you barely can breathe that's why it was called Luke out of the call the person who basically have a cold and can breathe easily mobile nuke and he barely can breathe. You see the roots of the words connected Can you see it? So well bunk it means tight like Lawson in the Quran. asiata Monk as live will be tight. But more for someone was called because also barely can breathe.

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And in another generation by those who had to suddenly acquire an imager, tell him in the camera school.

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My school and you have cold

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question. If someone sneezed and didn't save hamdulillah

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should you tell him or her macula

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and maybe sauce on them?

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If he says Alhamdulillah you tell him how macula is right. But if he didn't say you shouldn't say it's a response

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and abuse Allah Selim in his presence to people sneezed.

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He gives the Schmidt to one but not the other one.

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The one who the President didn't make the ad for him by saying of hamaca lots of jasola this man you told him a hammock. Allah is nice, and he didn't tell me anything.

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He said this man said that hamdulillah and you didn't.

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Okay. And you didn't. Reporting by Al Bukhari

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and yes.

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Coming.

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Also Musashi, the person said it

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The opposite I had to come for Jaime de la Hashemi to for inland magilla Fela to shame me to

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say Muslim if he didn't say hamdulillah you don't say a hammock Allah to him.

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Okay, question

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Do I need to hear him saying or amakhala?

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Yes.

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Or you might see his lips moving and you think you have a decent handle? And if you know that isn't hamdulillah

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does he need to be in front of you?

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Because you may or may not have the phone or these followings and hamdulillah

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but there is a story actually shows you that the enemy cared about

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the Schmidt so much detail mmm abodo Rahim Allah The one who narrates the sin

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once was

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traveling,

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so he stopped by, you know, when you travel? Have you been to a cruise? Anybody been to cruiser? I didn't. Okay. And cruise I've been told that sometimes they give you a small boat to go to the basically to the shore to the island and come back. Not the whole entire big one goes. So same thing. So the big ship far away from the port. And he was in a small boat went all the way to the port. And in his way back, somebody sneezed

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in the port.

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But with him Allah didn't tell him what? your hammock Allah. So by the time he arrived to the ship, he said I need to tell him how to come along. They said hey, it's like a taxi. Every time you take it, you will pay for [???] how much so the guy said, I'll charge you five D not

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a lot of money.

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And he was taking advantage of him. He said I'll pay it. He paid the five did not just to go back because he missed a tell him he heard himself hamdulillah and he left the villa. So he went all the way back. And he said your hammock Allah

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just because he feels that this is the right of his Muslim brother. And he missed it

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when they came back in the ship, and by the way, this narration was mentioned in his biography. And many of the elements like Abdullah Rahim Allah said, Pedro, he is the assignee the Sahaba This was narrated with authentic narrations after he came back to the ship and the ship was sailing or leaving they heard a color somebody calling a voice

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and in one of the ratio that says somebody saw in a dream, but it was famous that somebody called he said yeah Anna Safina all the people Sabine among you someone earn dinner for five dinner

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and deserve Jennifer this five you know that this

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is not about the five dinar it's about how much he honored the rights of his Muslim brother.

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How much he cared.

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And that's a lesson we should reflect upon. By here. Should we remind the person who sneeze

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should remind him said hey, save hamdulillah

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in America mama live debated over this big time.

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And we noticed that in Ibiza solemn, he did not remind the man who said who didn't say it hamdulillah he didn't say it hamdulillah in two equations. And individual didn't tell us to do that. And that's why Shama Shama, Rahim, Allah said you should not ignore him Rahim. Allah said

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there is two groups. Some said it is recommended for you to remind your Muslim brother to say hamdulillah because that's not the advice

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and some said no.

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Ignore Arabic Rahim. Allah said don't remind him to say and hamdulillah that's ignorant.

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Because that's not right.

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But no, you're Rahim Allah.

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I just want to say something for those who read a lot in the books.

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In Arabi Rahim Allah

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has a very sharp tongue.

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He's worse than even has him.

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Yeah, and Maliki The one who wrote

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Come on.

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And he's very disrespectful to the Hanafi

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Special

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is the most disrespectful scholar I've seen

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when not the most, but not very good

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with the Hanafi, and sometimes he will use words very appropriate when the Hanafi and Shafi and but he's a very sharp tongue and many scholar criticize him. So that's why when you hear him saying, hey, what if I had a ledger? this jar Who did that? Do you know that say he didn't say the great amount of the time but instead you should remind the person

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so this strong language only ignorant people do that. And sometimes you said, this is ignorant kofod only do that.

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And you will find who said this opinion someone like him either remember hanifa No, I never like he was very strong in His Word. So be careful from them.

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Anyway, and know your Rahim Allah said that's wrong of him to say that

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you should actually you should remind him to say hammock Allah.

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How dumb are we you

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know, I said that

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and it is from a

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town Alberta for helping models to do what is right and

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he said

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in a bee sallallahu Sallam did not remind the person not because it's not allowed. It is because it was a punishment for that person from the processor lump it to show the rest that following the sun now will lead to the bulk of that in abyssal alarmism.

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But anyway, he mentioned the two opinion

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and neopian Rahim Allah said in the end it looks like him no Chi and Rahim Allah

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Yeah, and he he leans towards the issue of not to be reminded, but to know your Rahim Allah leans toward the opinion it should he should be reminded. And even Rahim Allah had a nice story.

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model of the human life We shall now mention it a man sneezed in front of us.

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So he didn't say and hamdulillah

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anyway, Rahim Allah waited for that person Jim hamdulillah

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and when he is about to leave,

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he called him

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let's say Jihad sneeze

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his knees he didn't say a hammock Allah

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is a handler

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waiting waiting waiting. Keep looking. So you had about delete Sonia had called him and he said

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Son so come he said what

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let's imagine that person is mg

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jack

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what the Muslim site when the Muslim sneeze

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yeah hammock Allah

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said yep hammock Allah because no, he said Allah See how nice he did it when he said your hammock Allah

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said your hammock Allah

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and I would say this is goes with the principle of Sharia of reminding one another. And I do believe that

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if he did not remind that person in one incident you cannot generalize rules from one incident then how odd is it? I

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mean what I can you cannot build a general rules based on one incident because maybe maybe someone did remind that particular person for a reason we don't know you're not there.

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So you can just generalize that but you look at the principle surely I would just order us to be to remind one another to help one another to advise one another. It leads us to that

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the What about non Muslims

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if they sneeze Can you say our hammock Allah

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obviously gonna say didn't said hamdulillah because your hammock Allah is respond to 100 Allah

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okay

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Bless you. The person did the problem said Bless you.

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Listen to what in the sun

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Abu Dawood reported and Abby Musashi Lila and Pat Kennedy Leah hood, to our lists are in the Navy salsola Raja Ania podila, your hammock como la.

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The Jews used to sneeze in front of the prism because the want the prophet to pray for them by single hammock Allah. They want this blessing out of the process.

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And in the visa Salam used to say yeah, de como la jolla roboticle

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May Allah guide you and basically useless robotic and

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rectify your body your body and your worries and you know take care of your for

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the sneeze one thing the president said hammock Allah like he does with the Muslims. He didn't he say yeah the common law is

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the Prophet said to them

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didn't say anything.

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Yeah This needs justice needs. So the Prophet said that said to them, yeah the common law to survive this is the base for us to say if you see another Muslim sneeze you tell him like what Khalid said bless you

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because this heading shows you you should make you can dig up for them.

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Okay, so you can make the

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time what if you sneeze inside the salah

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and a prank? I sneeze?

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Can you say hamdulillah?

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You can

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but it's not allowed for someone else to tell you your hammock Allah. What's the proof? The proof of the famous Hadith that in the be savasana one day a man came to the master

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and he was laying up on the Sahaba so one of the companions sneezed and he said and hamdulillah so that man told him your hammock Allah

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so the Sahaba told him like this, don't talk. He said What's wrong? he sneezed and he said that hamdulillah sinner hammock Allah the

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worst. He kept talking.

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Then he said after he finished the jump all over me. What did you do? What

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is it?

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Mr. alleman Hiraman?

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I never see a teacher like him. Chief kalamalka Ronnie. Well as a Giovanni wanna borrow money.

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He started from the lighter to that most severe. He did not give me a bad mad look.

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To look at anger. No angry look. No, he basically said rude words or strong words to me. Normally didn't head to me or physically abused me.

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He said this salon. You cannot do in it when people do outside the salon. You can talk

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like how this heavy prove that it is allowed to save hamdulillah in the salon.

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He approved

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the one who said hamdulillah but he this approved the one who said your hammock Allah.

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Is that clear? And also because a Salah is what brought up

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so you didn't add anything out of the nature of the salah

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and Rafi Rafi I will come to you in a second. Carlos la Alfonso de la sala for our past, Rafi I said I pray behind the proscenium and he sneezed. Suppose I said Alhamdulillah Hamed and Kathy are on Mubarak and Fie.

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karma yogi Babu erba when the person finished Allah, he said, who the one who talked in the Salah. Nobody said anything to three times no one.

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Everybody's quiet. Then raffia I said, I said and I'm so full of fear. I said, Yasser Allah, that was me. He said, Tell me what did you say? He said I said Alhamdulillah Hamdan? caphyon eva Mubarak and Fie. Can I hit Bora Bora? Well, I praise your last so much. I praise you so many times. I praise you a praise that is blest. That is pure. That is good. I praise you the way that you love and the way that it will pleases you yes or no.

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Then in Navy civil allies are limited by the one who's my soul is and which is a lot. I have seen more than 30 angels, trying to write it down in the records and to run with it to the heavens. Everybody want to go show it to Allah and to be proud of it. The D haven't written in there.

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So in no era him Allah said, it is Sunnah and good to say it hamdulillah but secretly not out loud. And also in America Rahim Allah said that said that.

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And the Hadith also talked about AI that will marry that you visit the sick person

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and he

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Jada comes from a cloud which is coming back. And it means that sick be a person, usually people come back to him and come back to him and come back and see him.

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And it does mean to visit the sick person not only to visit him and to make him more in trouble or feel more bad, no to visit him to make him feel good to visit him to try to reduce the pain and the worries of him and his fame

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by him, and to help him as well. And know your Rahim Allah said there is a consensus among the Muslim scholars that visiting the sick person his son play, even though

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I don't agree with that concern. So if it's referring to the oldest colors, and here five,

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be careful from unknown when he says consensus in Japan, New York said Iijima Shafi kathira Maya, so

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it means there is a consensus among the sharpest scholars not all scholar especially in his book and much more especially in individual why I'm saying this because at the moment but Hydra mala has a chapter of Zen Maha part of bamboo be reality.

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A chapter of it is obligatory to visit a sick person.

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They do you think No, it didn't read it.

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He did.

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Bashar Al Assad

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and Jamal Assad Buhari.

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It looks like he wants to make a point specifically, that there is a consensus was established before and Bahar

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always say that he meant the Shafi but the problem is Al Bukhari considered also Shafi scholar

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anyway, but will allow him

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nowhere hemella anyway he is basically no not meant to salvia cater edema is not a very

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he used the word ijeoma a lot.

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I'm just trying to remember if there's any example like that.

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He said, for example Salatu cousine.

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And there is a consensus on that, but that's not true.

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The end is some

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sort of coup is not any as things of that nature anyway. A little Maria at the Center for men and woman to men and woman you visit a sick woman or have a sick man and your as a man or a woman. And it doesn't matter even if you visit even if you visit the opposite gender. Actually Allah Anna, she visited bilad when he was sick.

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And then Nabi sallallahu Sallam visited, you know, women and men. And Rahim Allah, and it's not a legislation, but just to tell you how this common practice through history, he heard the trauma that we are sick.

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And he went and he visited the labia. And she basically had a curtain between her and him. And he said, Eleonora, give us a reminder, even though she's sick. And when she did he, she puts him in tears.

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And in Love is a part of a Muslim, every Muslim, including men and woman.

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And there are so many virtue in visiting the sick person. And nebia solomani some of them said in the dev judgement, Allah will say, oh, son of Adam, I was sick, and he didn't visit me. He said, Yara, you're the Lord. How can I visit you

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work? What does that means? Then he said, My serve and so and so was sick and you didn't visit him?

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Mara to our Manhattan Hadith

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dilaton Allah tabula.

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I never in my whole entire life, have seen a hadith shows how Allah is the most loving Lord like this hadith.

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How

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I never in my life come across anything shows how Allah so loving Lord like this.

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Because he referred to himself as the sick one. When his servant is sick.

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It's like when your wife tell you

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sec said heavy duty, I feel the pain.

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It just because you're so near, so attached will lie. When your son and your daughter are sick and in high fever and crying, you feel you are in pain.

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So for a lot to say, I was sick because my son was sick, that shows how much he sees himself.

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So near to you.

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It's unbelievable.

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Lord, and He doesn't need you.

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If Allah sees that of himself was his servant, how you should see that and your Muslim brother

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should care and a lot color that way to make you feel that you know what philosophy is that way I should also care about my Muslim brother.

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I don't know if you remember one of the brothers here. He was a doctor. And we'll end with this.

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I asked you to put a 40 minutes 45 minutes.

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alarm. But

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anyway,

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he's a doctor.

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He told me, I want to quit medicine.

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He's ER doc. I said Why?

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He said, I'm just sick of this. I'm like, everyday working so hard. I'm so tired. I'm so overwhelmed.

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I feel no idea. I want to I can give lectures. I love to give Dawa. I love to do this. And I'm just I want to quit what I'm doing.

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I said Dr. Ali,

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you're heavy.

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The prophets of Salaam said that alasa when you visit the sick person

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alone will be there for you

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know just at the end if you visit the sick person you see a lot you will find a lot there last month that will be there rewarding you seeing you appreciating you. By being though. I said this is for me. What are you assuming I go to someone who's sick and just make him feel good? By seeing the share? Or make him feel good by making dua for him?

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What do you think of the person who goes to him to physically heal him?

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If I just put a smile on you

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and help me a little bit psychologically How about the woman who physically and psychologically hope you

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know down the to the to

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the visit of the doctor is higher rank than me.

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If you have the right intention that every single room you go to Allah there for you.

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Every time you see someone, and you check someone, Dr. Abdullah, you remember that this is my intention.

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Imagine the amount of Agile he said well lionshare after a few months, he said that change my perspective completely about my job.

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About my job.

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shallot, when we come back next week, we'll talk more about the attitude and the rules and some of the etiquettes and you'll see that some people have no shame when they go visit the sick, didn't know what to say. You know, they make the person more sick.

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Yeah. And sometimes, you know, somebody who can't stand you do go to him or not.

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An amateur himolla person came to visit him. An amateur was very strong against

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certain people and then Kufa

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and when he visited him, he told him I hope I'm not bothering you by being here.

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He's just kind of a light and antibiotic. He said I am bothered by you when you are in your home.

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So do you think you'll be here?

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So, is it recommended for you to visit someone when you're the guest and you you know, we'll talk about some of these etiquette such as shall have also funny stories. Next week shall Thank you very much.