Bulugh Al Maram – Book of Etiquette & Manners #15

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The conversation covers various topics related to addiction, including trusting one's heart, laws and precedent, drinking, and reconsolidating narratives. There is discussion of various rules and regulations related to alcohol, drinking, and standing, with some confusion and misunderstandings. The speakers also touch on topics like alcoholism and the use of negative language in media. The segment ends with a suggestion to look into the issue further and mention a study on drinking while walking.

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We're going to read harriton Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, which is reported Boko Haram on either Otto Sahaja Come on all of us needs narrated Abu huraira the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said, when one of you sneezes he should say Alhamdulillah praises to Allah and his brother should say to him your hum como la may Allah have mercy on you. When he says he should reply, yogic Milan while you sleep who but

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may Allah guide you and give you well being? Well being our Bukhari reported it

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Yes, parlane w Salatu, Salam Alaikum folia and hamdulillah Walia cola who who also hibou your hammock Allah His brother or his friends and generation your hammock Allah for either carella who your hamaca la familia por la Who? Yeah de como la or La Habana, come

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a Santa Ana Rahim. Allah said I wish that he brought this hadith in the beginning of the chapter you remember in the beginning he mentioned the Hadith the right of every Muslim upon every Muslim and he mentioned it when when you sneeze you say a hammock a lot to him. So there was that he brought this hadith in the beginning but maybe been handed over him Allah delayed this hadith to this particular spot. Because the Hanif before and the headed after is speaking about relationships about interaction with people in society. If you notice all that had in the previous one about how to eat in public how to talk to public how to give salam to Muslim non Muslim so if somebody in public

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sneeze basically how what to say to him or to her and I don't agree with him a whole lot that him mentioning this honey that in this particular place is a is a bad thing. Actually. I think it's a very thoughtful of him or

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something Sinani for you to know. He wrote the most famous explanation for the collection of Hadith benhadad below El Mirage that we study, this collection of honey, the one who explained it and his explanation became very famous. And remember sun Hani has a book of four volumes. It's called Subaru Sam Fisher Hey, howdy people over Milan. Anyway, this hadith is

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in Buhari I give you something interesting and I want to ask to see what you guys think of that.

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Yeah. Oh and how that Hadith is snazaroo who kulu Medina Yun

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this hadith is not effort all of them matinees, any all of them from what from where from Medina accepted Buhari everybody from Al Bahar his teacher all the way to the process of them to the companions. Okay, all of them in Medina.

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Why am I would mention something like that. Why would we care? Why do you think the scholar of Hadith care about this?

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That means anything to the head, it means that the head is more authentic.

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Yeah, the Medina more authentic than Yemen, Yemen more funding than Egypt than Pakistan. I'm sure.

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This is not

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what it will be.

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Like, imagine if Apple says play.

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Oh, sure. Mufti menk told us,

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you know, Mufti menk heard of him. Mufti menk said this on the stars.

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They are

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by knowing him, he is his Estonian

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or he is Lahore Ian, from the heart.

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So he's either lorien or Houstonian.

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That's where he lived.

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He never went to Mozambique.

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So when he said Mufti menk told me,

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I have a question mark. Maybe he didn't hear from him directly. He heard it on YouTube. He heard it from someone else, you see, but if he says share what he told us

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he lived in Houston where he lives in Houston. So most likely he what

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he heard he heard him so I have more trust that the met each other. That's why the Hadeeth became more authentic and more powerful.

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If we know that they lived in the same place in the same city, or they lived or the maid had in the same time, and they said I met and had or he told us a mecca or something like that. So whenever I can establish the connection between the narrator I feel more comfortable with the authenticity of the hubby. That makes sense. That's why scholars care about how the hydrotherapy Hejazi Madani Mackey basri and so forth. But he said

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your hammock Allah

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Yeah, I need your hammock Allah.

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May Allah have mercy upon you, Allah's mercy upon you.

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Is that a statement or a request?

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You have hammock Holla

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Holla Holla Holla Holla Holla

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sounds like a statement.

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Allah have mercy upon you. It's like when I see somebody who

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has a harbor what can the hobo Morocco Allah hi Nick una hora Suna taco pahoehoe ninja insha Allah it is behold it's a purification Sharma that's one of the why of that you make it a statement. Why? Because you have full trust in a law that you will accept your job. And apparently one another commodity of guide. Take this as a rule of thumb, cool lemma album A authentic philosopher and a Java law.

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When you have so much trust in your heart, when you make the app Yours is the closest ever to Allah. Why

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to pick a terminal Lamanna Listen, because it really comes from the heart not from the tongue

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and one of the most important element and that is what is your heart that you Your heart is so into what she's saying with a kind of a model the line here pulled in Nila Muhammad

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when I made a homily jab I care about a derivative I don't care about what will be given answer to how to like what most concern is itself that it comes with sincerity that I really mean what I am saying and I have full confidence in the last part that like yeah, the common law he sneezes is 100 Eliza dig your hammock Allah and we said before if you remember because if this needs did not come out the way it comes out right now it would have been a disaster you remember we talked about like the speed of the air the speed of the air is equal to remember

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at 80 miles an hour

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the speed of that air

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imagine that goes on right like it goes to the wrong direction

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it will damage maybe your brain your eyes something like but almost went out and made that so it's a loss of mercy appear and that's nice to see how macula so it's really a statement because the way you sneeze it shows the mercy of the mercy of Allah is to type

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dunya via Rama

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Rama duniya wa

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konia allows nurses to type a mercy that related to this life an emergency related to the

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a mercy related to religious issues. What he loves what he

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he loves to forgive, allows mercy to to give your sense of love mercy He guides you to pray allows mercy to this thing. But also there is another mercy which is has to do with the universe. Yeah, I mean, man Rahmatullah

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that Allah subhanaw taala made your hair the way it is.

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Can you imagine if your hair have the same the same sense of nerve system in your scar?

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Wonder in your skin

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just Can you imagine that

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you can accom all Mashallah bearded did starch and hair long nobody gonna cut his hair. Because to cut your hair you need to have anesthesia. You have to put your sleeve to drug you because you know it's became a surgery. Can you imagine if your hair or your nails have the same nerve system? But out of Allah's mercy He did it something that you don't feel it you cut it there's no feeling doesn't hurt. That's right.

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So that's just simple thing.

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Can you imagine if a loss of autonomy

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The oxygen is not available as it is right now

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as nurse

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so the universal mercy question for movement or for a Kaffir or for everyone,

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even gin ins animals for everyone. I remember I got a phone call when I first came to United States Mansa I got a phone call from

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what's that city in North Florida big city North Florida. Jacksonville so in Jacksonville they asked me about

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the the want to make a pray for rain because it was drought and it was very bad. So the ask if it's okay to do a prayer that is discard to ask for rain.

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And I said yes, because a loss of rain is a mercy. The rain is mercy and the laws mercy in the rain is for what for everyone? So you're allowed to pray Absolutely.

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As of how long and he just for the ship that you've come that that year when they do there is by like five years or seven years no no drama frame. in Jacksonville

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there is nothing protect any rain.

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So the amendment that time has graduated from Medina. He went outside in the public square and he took a permission from the mayor

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so became a public news and they made the selected a spot in the morning. At Azur it was soaking wet.

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So that's what made the news go crazy over this mustard and if you ever go to the Islamic center of Jacksonville, when you walk in the left hand side that a bulletin board they still have all the newspaper and all the talk and the articles was published at the time the Muslims prayed for rain and God acts in the ends of the call.

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So the point is, this is allows mercy so here when you say your hammock Allah which mercy you meant, what do you mean

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when I say your hammock Allah

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is it the thing has to do with the religion or the thing has to do with the worldly life? Like Allah have mercy upon you to be healthy to be wealthy to not never be poor in need of anyone? Or I mean ALLAH forgive your sin Allah guide you Allah make it easy for you to memorize the Quran all the religious things you can bring up or both

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when I say your hammock Allah

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that what I mean which mercy I mean?

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Can we say both?

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The one I make may Allah have mercy descent which mercy both of them

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can you guys not convinced? When I say may Allah have mercy on you? What I mean by Mercy all kinds of mercies related to this world and to the next related to your religion and religion to you

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basically welfare

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That's right It's a beautiful app Yeah, can you imagine how much hair comes if all of us except this from you? When you said to someone your hammock Allah it's unbelievable amount of clear and goodness can comes out of this that's why you're applied by something even to tap this to say, yeah, de como la Well usually Hobart May Allah guide you, to guide you to what, to Islam to Sunnah to religion, or guide you in your business guide you in the study guide you in the way you raise your kids guide you to have the right spouse guide you to have the right deal guide you to eat the right food or all the above. Oh, so reply even is very general that's why he had to lie no and guide you in this dunya and

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in the UK, you need to be guided in the UK or on the Surat to be guided to answer the right questions in the grave. So the guidance is also very large, very common.

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Will you sleep tobacco? Anybody knows what tobacco means?

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Few minutes are already

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Shadow one

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shadow one

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albourne ianni schatten chatni so you say de humongously houbara shadow

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ban means your affairs so Allah will guide you and will fix your affairs okay

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and the last part Allah will guide you and will grant you well being he translated the sign

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or fix and

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give you well being by ballot means your affairs okay. So he will guide you and He will make all your affair fixed and good and so forth. Also Alabama in Arabic language it means and Han had their own capable look any kafer handbook we say in Arabic kayfabe Hello, how you doing?

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Okay. So, basically it means a law well fix and help you to have all the things that you do to be good.

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I even unban filata economy be mad at

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code Mahabharata barely any Mahathir Allah kalbi.

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We say I never thought about it. Mahabharata bad any never I never thought about this. So were the thoughts that you like you like your mind or your heart. So all valid means so Allah subhanaw taala will mean He will guide you and will make your thoughts and rest okay will take care of your worries and affairs and the thing that you think of a lot and your pile as bad demand and I wish you and your your well being or he will ban you live for you.

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And look you see a hammock a lot to him he replies to you with all of us

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like with something even more wide more great.

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Ask for all the ruling related to the advance we talked about this previously or in a previous Hadith is not going to repeat it again.

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by next Friday.

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You'll see Hobart narrated Abu huraira Alice messenger said some none of you should drink standing Muslim RuPaul at this

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none of you should drink standing. Yes while standing up.

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And it'd be

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a solemn lie. Robin had to come home hakima

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in the visa Salam said you should not drink while standing. reports the believer Muslim Rahim Allah Tada. There is an aeration or as an addition to it.

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In Muslim as well. Okay, woman nesea folia stop it

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and if

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You forget, you should throw out what you just consumed.

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Okay? So this also an addition and Muslim and if you forget you should throw it up and we'll talk about this what that means this

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extra additions to the Hadith, which is to throw it up also came under the hood or the Allahu, and that in nebby sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said lo yallambie Lydia shrub

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wahaca Eman Murphy Buckner helistop mama

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Muslim met in a Salalah Salim said if you know what come inside you when you are drinking while standing, you would rather to throw it up.

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So the narration was right. He didn't say what? He didn't give an order throw it up. He said if you know you would rather to throw it up then to consume the water or the drink while you're standing.

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but this narration for you.

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In Muslim where the addition it says if you forget you should throw it up came from a narrator by the name of Amma than Hamza bin Abdullah Omar. And there is a huge debate over this narrator is he authentic? Is he trustworthy? Or he is weak? So remember, the nusseibeh may even have been head up consider him weak and because of this Buhari never reported any headache for this man and his side.

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And this is one of the things that people criticize Muslim for that generate this addition from that man.

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Okay. And

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Malik Rahim Allah

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used to reject this a hadith and he said, this duration that says don't drink while standing is not are not authentic.

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But that's not true that there is authenticity.

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And there is many ahaadeeth in the visa salon. He encouraged us

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okay, not to drink standing, for instance in St Muslim and headed the NSL the Alon that didn't have is also an issue because

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he dislike he ordered them not to drink standing. I will say that he said the processor limb forbade us from drinking standing Nana and it should be called Emma fee Ahmed, Al Jabal Allah Allah and he said the prophets of Salaam forbade us from drinking standing in cinema tirmidhi Abu hurayrah in Muslim ashmit and how he

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said that the prophets of Salaam said Nana and Yeshua Baba juluca Emma one Yeshua min fee so he forbade the person to drink from drink while standing and to drink from where feasts are what that means

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for you so

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you know this Have you ever seen the skin water curve? It has an opening that's right to go to the skin or is not for you it's for everybody. So in addition to not what you go to that opening and you put your mouth and you drink directly from it

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discuss them some are not safe is not good. What about people coming after so maybe some don't do that? I give you example some kids do. I hope no I don't do that. The fountain the water fountain they go and they stick their mouth Have you seen this this take their mouth at the opening of

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the opening of the water or like this. So the touch the water fountain you don't touch the water fountain if your map is

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or there is like the sink like you know the the faucet you go on you put your mouth on the fast you can do that. Or let's say one time

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I saw something also in the gathering that is

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picture you know the picture that is a area where the basically the liquid comes from it like you know like

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opening. So somebody left the home by the end from that opening. He put his mouth a drink from it that somebody after you're going to come maybe pour from he can't do that.

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So or somebody told me Can I try your juice

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It was last night.

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Okay, man, it was a very nice lemonade with meant with a hint of ginger you know it's like professionally done is so nice and it's expensive to okay I'm enjoying my drink and it's really like the guy who really balanced the menten the ginger and the you know no sugar just a little bit of honey on it like I said that's gonna route like bustline unit and this brother Mashallah said check Can I try it? I said sure Good guess what?

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He drinks from the straw oh my god yeah drink from the glass if you only have two

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from the straw

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This is like because I have to Dutch worried that you know my wife Hannah.

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So nobody's

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teaching us the the best of etiquette and I want you to imagine this guys. We live in a very advanced modern world a dedicated etiquette society as

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well we talking about 1400 years there is no concept of etiquettes in this desert some Bedouins and the and the world and Europe and nobody cares about stuff like that. But the Navy says he did not raise just an oma that knows how to pray but she knows how to pray. It knows how to talk how to eat How to Deal how to respect other feeling people's feelings. And it's amazing how most any religion is

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this edition filius throw up I don't believe it's authentic and a the best I can say it is a statement from the narrator if then rater said individual solemn forbade people from drinking standing, then then rater said, Okay, one of the narrator of the headset, and if you forget you should throw it up. It's his opinion, but not a statement from the Prophet sallallahu. I mean,

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I guess that leads us straight to the first issue in this study. What is the ruling in regard to drinking standing? Is it hot? It is dislike is it permissible? What do we do with all this a Heidi that I just mentioned earlier? It's very, very explicit is you heard me sing five six Howdy. very explicit do not drink standing

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for forbade us from doing that.

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So what do we do with this?

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I've been hesitant on him a whole lot and in the amount of sun and he said this hadith established the ruling of pervasion. So it's prohibited it's haram but not the majority this opinion of these two scholars and very few the overwhelming scholars number of scholars and the majority of the scholars said no in the mahoma crew disliked

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Miss dislike it doesn't mean it's okay. dislike still dislike

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you should not do it. Why? Because it is number one. contradicted by another ahaadeeth shows that individual salemme consumed water while he's standing.

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So in Ibiza Southern said do not drink Why are we standing? Then we found out that he drink some water while he's standing. How can we reconsolidate one of the way we understand this, that in the business Elon did this to make a point that when I told you don't it doesn't mean how wrong it means just dislike just to make the point. That's one of the way to understand this. Also because usually that etiquettes of eating and drinking it's something has to do with that Mr. Have bat recommended

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by so if this is the case, how Runa understood these narrations

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how Allah understood this duration which he says he forbade us from drinking and standing, don't drinking standing. How can we understand this a hottie?

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Number one,

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some scholar said that the Hadith that says don't drink standing, it's forbidden to drink standing. I prohibit you and I forbade you to do that. These Hadith were abrogated no secret.

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by another Hadith to show you, it is permissible. So for those scholars said drinking standing is like drinking

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Sitting no difference why because they said it's what was abrogated

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abrogated by what they said had Italia on the line. And in Azad even sobre kinda italiano the Allahu Allah Baba beneficiary Baba Emma for call to in una Sandhya Kahuna UK Accra home and Yasha Baba Juan Carlos Neeraj a to nebia salam, wa salam ala camara to moonee Valley football. This is the so early drinking standing. So this is there is people said no, we should not do that. He said, Don't worry about them or something like that. Then he said I saw the process that I'm drinking standing.

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And this hadith in Bukhari

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salatu salam drink from Zamzam standing

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and had this isn't Buhari Muslim.

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The third hand his hand is a beloved member of the house that had his

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visa salami and vegetarian Yemeni family. Why to use only half Vietnamese Tyra what I do yes Robocar. Eman Papa robot

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in the bisazza lamp when he finished his Salam Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah Sara Marie Kumara Matala then you want to turn do you turn from this side or this side?

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Ron Howard said I saw him doing both.

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Sometimes that's why sometimes the swipe from the left to the right so it doesn't really matter. And he said I saw the person I'm praying sometimes with the shoes and without shoes.

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So nobody said Oh, you should pray with your shoes because it's praying without shoes. of somebody praying sometimes with his shoes, no take off his shoes. Not on the mustard obviously because we have carpet now but let's say traveling or someplace public place or on Park, you can do with your shoes, as long as it's clean. And he said I saw that was I'm drinking while he's standing and while he is sitting, reported by handicap shoved into saboteur of the alarm. She said an abuse of solemn entered our house and he drink from a skin water terrible. It was tight to the pillar of the tent or the house.

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And basically she said I opened it for him and let him open it and the water start basically going down to his mouth. He didn't touch like from a distance.

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He was standing. Also Anna's had eaten the live Nero model the Allahumma he said, Could Nana kulu Allah rasulillah namshi wanna shabu wanna know pm. He said him you know what we used to drink to eat while we were walking and we used to drink while we are standing during the process on top. We need the companions and he never forbade us. He saw us in there. There is nothing wrong with that.

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The Hadith number six that Anasazi Allah answered that it'd be so solemn he drunk Leben milk while he's standing. And in his right hand side was Arabi the bedroom and in his left hand side abubaker the Allahu and

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then he said and as I saw the prophets of Allah be unknown person just somebody from the desert came but in the midst of Salaam yet he give the Arabi the rest of the milk.

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He didn't give a walk up because he's in his right side. And that'd be whatever he drinks something he would pass it to the one on the right side.

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And he said, Amen, amen. The process of them said when you finish it give it to the one who's in your right hand side when you're finishing with a gun on the right hand side.

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We put the bell bizarre also actually allow Anna she said an obese or solemn drunk while he drank and he consumed water while he is standing and sitting.

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Okay, and he walked with shoes and he walk barefoot. And when he finishes salon, sometimes he will leave the salon or the he will turn from the or leave from the right side or the left side.

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And Abdullah had new razor the answer to nebia sallallahu alayhi wa sallam also,

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Parma in a little bit more alaka for Hannah Sahar machete, Birmingham kapa haka machete woman. He drank from a skin water was hanging. He made a cut on it's like

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opening minute opening and he drank from it.

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And also saddened me or asked the previous editing attorney the cybernetic acid that in the base of Salaam used to drink while his standing reports about Pavani

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I have like five more hobbies, but I think the point is established. Okay? So here, this is a hobby that it's abrogate, okay?

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The other hobbies.

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See, Mama when they look at this a hadith that says it's okay and this

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is how

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they established three opinions. One it is permissible

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based on the large number of narration said that the process of them drink while he's standing. And this is the opinion of Omar Ali aside in the past with new Omar Abdullah Abu Zubaydah, Asia, where a man will have a hora de la ceiba and it's been said the bass Salim said image Rubio posted Nikkei San

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it has an basally about him in high school at the mercy of that which I had been Jabba from the tabbing Lord Lord number of scholars, the Maliki the Shafi the Hanbury

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also that's permissible it's not even macro Joe jobs okay

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the second opinion

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It is dislike

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it's okay you know it's not sin but this dislike and this is the opinion of ns jabber also been said that

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and it has an anniversary and this is the most common narration or authentic ration from him. And even shabby Rahim Allah and this is an opinion among the Hannah Bella and the position of the HANA fees. Okay, and one opinion for an amendment No, you're a Hema home law. And that's the opinion that chosen by Sheffield a stamp had been Tamia mo law.

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And even some earlier my said there is a consensus that it is macro but there is no Mr. Mini scholar said other than cut off some said harm Some said it's permissible.

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haram forbidden it's an opinion to some hanafy

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Okay, and had been hasn't

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been Menaka Rahim Allah said Whoever said haram his opinion is shall weak.

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Why it is weak because there is plenty of narration to show you permissibility of drinking while standing.

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So what we do with this a hadith that looks like contradiction, it's a case study that I want to show you. So you understand there is no narrations contradict each other in Islam. It's a good case study. So you have a large number of narration said no larger number of narration said it is okay.

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As I said some sent at abrogates.

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So, the one who said it is permissible. They said that howdy that shows you the permissibility of drinking or the drink while standing abrogate that Heidi that said don't.

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But even has him and his guru who said hold on. They said no, no, no. It's the other way around the Hadith that says you're not allowed to drink while you're standing abrogated the Hadith, that it shows the permissibility.

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Do you see how that because there is no there is no narration said this one abrogate this one.

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So here, what do we do in a problem like this? We always say we have a rules. And this is a very good rule by the majority of the vote. We don't go

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with abrogation unless we have a very clear evidence that one of them abrogate the other.

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Land and hublin NASA in

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the process of them said I forbade you to visit the graveyard. But now I encourage you to do so.

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So we have one abrogate the other if we have something like that good.

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But if you don't have any explicit evidence to show you that there is an abrogation, we don't go the obligation. The one who always like to take the abrogation approach out of the Hanafi scholars do more No. One of the reason the scholars the majority scholar don't like the approach of abrogation because when you say this one abrogate this one that means one of them will be canceled. Want to begin kind of useless.

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So this is why they can only Jim I will a minute to reconcile better than to cancel one of them. If you can reconcile between them

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Definitely if you're going to go with the abrogation route, you should go with the route of the premise abilities abrogated the forbidden Why? Because in Ibiza, Sam drink while he's in hajj, and then Hajj is in the end of his lifetime. And also because the Sahaba is continued drinking like added on the line and others after the death of the process of them. So it shows you that in the end of the person's life that they used to drink while standing. So if I'm going to take the route of obligations, no doubt that this is the correct one.

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But there is another approach which is tried to reconsider to say, let's say one is more stronger than others, one week and one strong.

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So they said that a hadith of an iba that shows permissibility are larger number more authentic in Bahati or Muslim the other one either an Bahati by itself or Muslim by itself or tournament, but this one in the body are Muslim. And there is a huge number of narrations. Many companions reported the permissibility of drinking standing and that's what an informatics approach is. So he said I cancel all generations about saying no, because there is large number of narration said

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but also this direction I don't like it as well as the majority of the farm why because again, you cancel one group of Hadith. Why you can reconsolidate We call this for those who are interested in know what the terms in Arabic Nicole and a man a woman and a man

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to use both a hadith better than canceling one of the of the growth of the hobby.

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The other way is basically also it's a some hanafy said that some Maliki said that they have an interesting approach he said whenever we see duration conflict with one another, we drop them both

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jaquard taraba Fetisov Papa

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so if I ever find two generation collision, I drop both. And I go back to what to the default rules. What's the default rules

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that you can drink anyway? You like it just drink? It's add that so that's basically an approach but that's also something we don't agree with that why because you can reconsolidate between these narrations How can we reconsolidate some scholar set number one, the Hadith that says drink while you are sitting.

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This is in case when you have chairs where you have a suitable place to set your Tom next to you like a couch or like bench okay.

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And drinking standing worrying rush you leaving this hall Mashallah you take one of these cold water from the front. Okay, you grab one in your way to drink coffee.

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Nina Hadassah, that's why if you notice in the be drink, while what while he's in had Bo off Zama too many people so there's no space really for him to

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to drink.

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So some said no. Maybe standing while you are away. The second opinion said

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you drink standing if there is need.

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Like if you look at all the Hadith interviews of Salah drink standing when the most the most authentic hadith in MK and had the Hajj it's so crowded and you imagine in the base of Salaam, anything he doesn't have he should be what

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Cabot saw you copy the processor. Can you imagine if in the visa Solomon had set

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that means all the Hajaj on the drink zones and they have to set how traffic jam this will be.

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To be exhaust.

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That's right.

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So that's why newbies or sudden did not set so nobody take it as a sinner. Also they said all the other ahaadeeth shows you they didn't drink from that skin water. They will care about skin water tight to the pillar

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is not something you can take it down and sit and drink from it's like fountain water fountain. You can sit what you're going to grab a chair and sit on your push

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Bottom to drink now so they said somewhere LMS said so the Hadith that says he drinks standing for need but if there is no need your own rush but if no need you should set

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but also added navitat absurd it's allowed and he didn't make any condition that has duration we just heard we used to drink standing and as well they didn't make that so that's also

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i'm not sure of that a very strong argument three

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opinion need to worth mentioning even

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another way the said and this is the one that I liked the most they said that in the be social and drinking standing is to show you the permissibility and the prophets of Psalms a hadith and duration said do not is to show it as dislike so it's not something recommended

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and listen to this

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we cannot cancel

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a statement from the prophets of Salaam completely by an aerations that describe his actions

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that emanate of coal aquamira and farrish

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the process of them statement it's more stronger than his actions why

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because the actions

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actions could have been done for a reason

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there is a reason made him do it this way but the statement it's a general legislation I don't know what's the circumstances that that day made the process of drink standing but a statement it's a general legislation and there is no statement says drink standing

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if you have that I will say all what we have actions

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but we have a statement saying that the prophets of Salaam what he said do not drink standing okay

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and outside it is dislike and it even the dislike actions or levels so there is dislike action very close to heroin and there is this like action very close to mobile so this one on the bottom of the of this category it's almost like a is very light dislike okay

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the What about eating

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can eating take the same rules of drinking standing what time we pray

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and as many medical they allow

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he was asked and who now and yes Rama Rajan aka Mr. Evil bed person to drink standing putana we ask and us Katara said what about eating he said daddy can shed affiliation This is worst

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I'll call the ad said there is no difference of opinions between the scholars that eating while standing it's permissible okay

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as for the statement of Anna's or the allow Anwar Arawa could means it is just dislike but even if it hasn't been hasn't who said drinking standing haraam?

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How long he said eating a standing as high as okay

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and the most strict one and drinking standing he said food it's okay we don't know anyone in history said it's hot but the Hannibal has said it is just dislike based on living there.

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And so the last statement but we do have another Hadith model they lie to me he said we used to eat and to drink okay while we are

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standing and walking

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so while we are walking and standing we eat and drink so that means it is permissible

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okay Rahim Allah said it never was reported in the sooner that ever in the visa system was seen eating while he's walking Outstanding

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Individual organization talking about him eating while he's sitting but it doesn't mean it's haram but just if you want to know what the process Williams habit was,

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by this duration failure step it let him

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throw up what he drink

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even even had

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Job did not mention it in blowhole Moran By the way, even though it is in Muslim

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but this as I said it is

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an addition which is weak and mooncup rejected by the scholars for him along this extra edition okay and definitely nobody said that you should throw up and you know you don't have to Sharon basil hemella said it's not even recommended or anything like that for some drink because drinking standing anyway tomorrow and he said it could be a ruling that was abrogated or it could be he had an opinion from one of the narrator

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why individual solemn dislike us to drink standing

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in Ibiza Salam said if you know

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what comes in your body when you drink standing, you would rather to throw it up

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so what happened? You might ask the hydrated inside there is another narration for this hadith within the visa Salaam so a person drinking standing so in the case of solemn told him, man, stop

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Would you like to drink

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in the same time

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with the cat? Anybody has a cat here at home? You have a cat a

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cat? I have a cat. Do you have a ball for the cat?

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will tell you how you feel how what are the cat drink from

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From where?

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You have a ball? Yeah, because if you don't have we're gonna go to the to the bathroom.

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Okay, see the ball but for your cat

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would you drink from that ball?

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You and the cat you go down and you drink together? Would you drink from it? Now it's right in there because I'm told them would you like to drink with the cat from the same container?

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No, it's disgusting.

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panic in the who Sheree Bama comma Hua showroom here.

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What you just did by drinking or drinking standing. There is something worse than cat drunk with you.

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He said what will be dark.

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Now Polish a bond. A pond.

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So when you drink standing, the shape on drinks with you. And

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is this headed authentic or not? There is a debate about and it seems to be an a statement from Abu hurayrah more than a statement from the Prophet salallahu alayhi wasallam

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we have to go pray. But there is it's worth mentioning.

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There is

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a medical research about modern American research about

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it is much it is it is healthier. To drink sitting than standing.

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There's a plenty of talk on the few look into medical research about drinking standing versus drinking.

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Setting you will find a plenty of reports about that has nothing to do with the Hadith A w two Islam those people never heard of this a Heidi never heard of this advocate. It is taught and so many of them talking about it is when you stand up, especially when you jog the water straight an empty stomach. This is not a very healthy for digesting. They said it's much much better to drink setting than standing. So this is something worth looking at. I don't have time to go over it. Maybe next week. Maybe I'll mention it a little bit. But I already look into that. And it's interesting to see, you know, these etiquettes that tend to be Salalah cell and taught us we know for sure it is best

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for us in this dunya and for the archaea. So I recommend all of us to care that if you find yourself capable of drinking while you're sitting it's much better than drinking while you're standing. Otherwise it's not harm at all. Some allow Solomon Mohammed next week shala we'll talk about another etiquette has to do with eating and drinking which is right versus left, right hand versus left hand and we'll see is it recommended or it's harm

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To drink with right hand versus left hand, side Amati Kumamoto line yes