Rulings on Menses, Irregular & Post Natal Bleeding

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to the day when I only did that even truly and to see now we'd say as Dr. Medina, my Yang de la, de la da, woman color Haryana wash haddaway la isla hang on long what's the mood Ashley? Wash Hello, Mohammed Abu Musab salam wa alayhi wasallam all praises for lobby. We praise Him we thank him we asked him for his help. And we asked him for his forgiveness We seek refuge along with Allah from the eve of ourselves and the eve of our actions. Whoever is guided by law that no one can misguide them, and whoever is misguided then no one can guide them except for lawful Tyler, I bear witness that there is no god worthy of worship except Allah. And I bear witness that Mohammed's long long

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line of Ceylon is his final message messenger and Avaya. First of all, my dear sisters salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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It's always an honor and pleasure to be here at the with the beautiful umay sisters of hunkering down.

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So inshallah the topic that I was asked to speak about today's the rulings on Menzies' so I'm asking a lot of data that the information I share with you today, inshallah should help you in working out your problems, you know, regarding mysteries, because, you know, I know, as a teacher that, you know, is Panama

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one of the main questions I get asked, If there wouldn't be a day that goes past except that some sister messages me and asks me something about her menstruation and Ramadan, it just, that's when it

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that's when it just put, like, literally I just get, you know, I don't know how to explain so many inboxes and questions, I mean, it Ramadan heats, it's like, ah, suddenly everyone's got, you know, all these problems.

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But, you know, just to make yourself feel a little bit better, because it is very, you know, we do get quite confused at times with our cycles, like, you know, your cycles can change, and, especially with them, you know, the things we use today with contraception and stuff like that, that all has, is having a big effect, you know, they wouldn't have had those kind of, they didn't have that, you know, effect in the past that makes differences with our menses, but, you know, john has done that, if you find it difficult, even the football hat found this particular topic difficult, like, it's considered one of the most or more difficult, you know, parts of FIFA, due to, you know, a lot of

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differences of opinion and stuff like that. But, um, you know, a man in my life is that he took about nine years to actually

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understand this topic properly. Like, it does take a lot of time to kind of really pick through all the Adela, like all the, you know, proofs on the topic to really, and put it all together to really understand the wider works. But, um, we'll get straight into it. So, you know, basically, we can divide the blood that a woman sees into three different types. So, you've got the menses, which you know, is a natural blood

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that that comes to the woman who has reached puberty, and it comes, it comes on known dates at unknown time. Okay, that definition is actually quite significant to know that it's, it comes at a known time, for, you know, a known amount of days, like, it's what usually comes to her, okay, whereas irregular bleeding, which we call at least the harder, the better of at least the harder, this is the irregular bleeding that in general, she sees at other times other than her normal cycle. And then you've got the postnatal leading, which is obviously the blood that's associated with childbirth. So we'll be looking at all three of these types of blood today to understand how, you

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know, we like what are the rulings that we need to be concerned about in regards to these.

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Okay, so starting off with Menzies because this is obviously the main part of the topic.

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So how let's first of all talk about how to distinguish

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between that Minsky's blood how to know whether it's Menzies blood, or whether it's at least the heart or whether it's you know, the irregular bleeding So, the first thing that distinguishes in general between the the blood of Ohio which is the you know, the Menzies blood is usually it's the dark color. Okay, so the dark color, and then the next thing is the thickness that usually the blood is heavy. Okay. And also, the other thing is the official

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smell. So if we compare that on the other hand to the, at least the harder part, the irregular bleeding, then we would say that irregular bleeding is normally it normally tends to come with a bright red, like very bright, of course, and the other thing adding to it what I said before it comes at a time different than your period. Okay, that's very significant. Then the other thing as well is that it tends to be thin,

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and, and light. And then the other thing is, it doesn't usually have an offensive smell, like doesn't have the same smell the odor of humans is another thing that doctors added here too, is that the blood level is too high the blood the irregular bleeding blood congeals. Because thin, so you know, when you bleed, you'll find that that blood clots pretty normal blood, that's not from the the the lining of the uterus, like, what is what is the means is blood, it's the lining from the uterus, so it doesn't tend to it's not going to tend to clot, whereas the irregular bleeding because thin, is thin blood coming from another place. Okay? It's, it tends to clot. So that's another thing that

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is another way of distinguishing.

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Okay? All right, let's talk about So, okay, so that's, that's in regarding how to distinguish between the Menzies blog, and then how to distinguish that between that and the irregular bleeding. Now, the other thing is, we need to talk about what are the colors of the Menzies blog, because Macys dot doesn't just come in one color, as I think most of you know by now, just to understand that the ministry is blood, it can be like dark, like very dark, almost like a blackish color, it can be like a reddish color, it can be a brown color, it can also be yellow. All right. So now with when we're talking about the blood, like when we see if we see, I'm going to talk now about what is

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the ruling on the brown and yellow that we see. Right? So the brown and yellow, if it's, if it's joined to the period, then we take the ruling that it's part of the period, okay, but if you sit at brown and yellow, after you've like already got clean and you've seen this sign of purity from Menzies then we don't consider as period Okay, according to

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like the majority of like scholars, okay, some some scholars do consider that as

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something but like, according to the proofs we have, because, for example, good from the proofs, that idea, she said connellan to qudra was what was so for body to three,

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we did not consider a good rock, which is the brown discharge was sue for which is the yellow discharge after a to her after becoming purified from Mrs, as anything, okay, so therefore, we know that if it's after the time, like we finish our menses, and we saw the sign and everything, and then we saw some yellow after that, we don't worry about it, okay. But if it's inside the message, because you know, usually with most women, it's like, it goes red, and it goes Brown, and it goes yellow, and then it sort of either fades out, or you see white at the end. So that yellow and brown you see during this cycle, it's, it's, it's part of your

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it's part of your main series. By the way, if you've got questions on what I'm saying, write them down, we can discuss it at the end. Because when we're talking about women's cycles, this is why it was so hard to the football hat in the first place. Like how many women are in this room and how many women are in this world? And everyone, like we have the normal, but then we have other you know, once once she doesn't fit everybody, okay? So you might have something different with us. So we might have to talk about that. We'll talk about the ends, we can save some time.

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But anyway, the point is he that to just understand that the menses blood can, it can also be brown and yellow, especially like I said, it's coming in the time of the actual menses.

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All right, so that's the next thing we have to understand then after that, um, the length of time of the Menzies Alright, the length of time of the menses. Now, just to understand something, there is no improvement in the Quran and Sunnah that stipulates a specific time

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for like how it was, you know, it was the longest time of menses, or what's the shortest time of menses, however, the football hat based upon the order based upon the idea which means like, like what's normal amongst women, they base their ruling, they gave some rulings on a ladder, you know, for women. So, for example, now, from the from from the, from the rulings they gave, for example, is that a period should be at least a day and a night to consider it as a period. You would

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It would need to be at least a day and a night. Okay. But in saying that, because what we said not every not one shoe fits every woman in this world. So insane that if you you could be maybe in your family, you've got something because sometimes in some families, they just had this certain thing with every month, they have a period that lasts 12 hours. And that's all they get every month, it's possible to happen. So if that was coming every month, at a certain time, I mean, that would be awesome. I know.

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But that was, like, for 12 hours every month, we could still say, based upon what you know, because that's coming at regular time and annoying time, we could still ruin it as a period, you understand. But in general, what I'm saying to you is, if it comes less than a day in a night, we weren't considered as a period, then as for the what's the maximum time? Okay, so again, you've got difference of opinion amongst the football hat, but majority to Moodle on a map, there was a view the maximum is 15. Why because, like, I know, you know, I know the Hanafi madhhab. It says 10. But if you if you go talk to many women, you'll find a lot of women get it 12 days, they get over 10. So

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that's why I'm saying a ladder will have gamma. But that's what the there's a rule in the code that says what is the bada, it becomes the ruling so that the scholars, you know, they base their rulings on on many, you know, things and that's one of them. And so here, we see that, because amongst women, it's quite common to find women having periods even up to like 12. And they said the maximum 15 because why does it 15 because if she gets a period for 15 days, and as we're going to see in a minute, what is the time that you should have a door in between should be at least 13 or 15 days in between, then if it's if it's more than 15 days, that means most of the month, she won't be praying,

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she won't be fasting, if it's Ramadan, that's what I said 15 days, if it's more than that, it must be it's the harder if it's going on and on, it is a sign that it must be is the harder it must be the irregular bleeding to go more than that. Okay. So that's, that's basically just this is all just giving you some guidelines that, you know, show if you understand these guidelines, it can really help you solve your your problems without messaging me. Okay.

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JOHN, hang on, he'd actually saved my own headaches. All right, but then again, I'll cook up a whole can of worms right now.

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Anyway, so, um, okay, so that's the, that's regarding the,

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the longest length of time.

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And then, um,

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okay, and then in, you know, as for a tour, as opposed to the tour in between, like, I just alluded to that, you know, majority of scholars are of the view that it should be at least 15 days, like, now the handle is, say, 13. So even if it was 13, but, you know, what, what's the use of knowing nice, because if you had your period already, okay, and then seven days later, you suddenly saw blood again, you wouldn't think you're so straightaway that that's period, because you've just had a period. And now you're saying this block, so you wouldn't think because you know, who had said it should be at least 15. Right? Or at least 13. But not, not not just to come like seven days later.

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And this, let me just say something here, too. And this is another exception, you're going through menopause. Okay? Because when you go through menopause, your period can go haywire. So I would say in the beginning, if it especially if it's got those characteristics of is the harder part, which I said before, it's coming up to seven days, I wouldn't think period straightaway, right. But if it can seven days there and you know, you're going through menopause, and then you know, the perimenopausal and then you see that it's looking exactly like a period, then you must you're gonna, you're gonna have to take as a period in that case, you understand. So this is how you have to work

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but in general, we say if you saw blood after seven days, you won't take it as your period because it's not even you haven't even had 16 days before in between.

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then another another another subject to talk about is how the cycle can change in length.

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Okay, now you have to understand that our cycles are not stagnant. And I think you know that by now.

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Right? So it starts out you might have had six days when you're little and then you have a baby it turns out to be 10 and then you have another baby it turns out to be five like it's just always changing. You go on the pill changes you take an IUD, Jani, everything changes, everything changes the Menzies.

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So, looking at everything, looking at the evidence,

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If we look at what Allahu taala told us in the Quran right and says dakara 222 he tells us where yes and who

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they asked you at that ama Hill they asked you about you know the Menzies oil

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bar tesira Nisa, and filmer Hebei.

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Okay, well at

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home, right? So, um, avoid women when they're in their when they're in their cycles. And because it's an it's a it's a hurt and a harm, okay? So what we see is Allahu taala title for Quran he tried the ruling to the blood to the presence of blood. So that's why we're saying that, as long as you can still see that blood, it's your time for your menses, and you can still see the blood still continuing, you haven't seen any bright, like it hasn't stopped, you didn't see too hot, then you consider as to your human situation, that that, that that's what you'll see until it finishes. But then as I said, it's going too long, it's going past 15 days. Now you start thinking, Wait,

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something's not right. Don't try and say so don't because your period could change at any moment. Like it could be six days now. But then enough, like after a year or so it could be it could go to eight days, you can't say well, well, my previous period was six, I'm just gonna start praying but you still got blood. You've still got blood. All right. So this is why you need to, like I said a lot of data tied to the,

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to the presence of the blood.

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Okay, um,

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Another issue

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is, sometimes this is where you start panicking.

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When you're in your period, and then suddenly, you're in like day two, and suddenly, my periods not their weapon to it. I know, my period was just six days, seven days, but it just stopped. And it's not there. What am I supposed to do? Am I supposed to pray? And what's this? Like? This is what you start reading people love, what do I do? anyway? But the book just to talk about these. So look, a bit of a general guideline, if it's if it stops for, if it stops for a whole day and night, then I'll say it for about 20 to 24 hours. Doesn't look like it's coming back, you can go check, because the default is doing your period. Okay? Because there's another rule and all sorts of which teaches

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us and yet a new law is due to be stuck. Right? So certainty is not removed with doubt. So right now I'm searching, I've got my period, but I doubt I'd become clean. So there is a, there is like a third form even our best radi Allahu anhu, we said that whenever she says to her, she doesn't take Wilson she prays, okay, so just so just to show you. So now, if that happened to you, my advice would be, go and check, for example, if you're, you know, married, and all that you could check for them with a bit of cotton bar, or something like that to see is this is this to blood, if there's just nothing at all, after 2424 hours is gone, there's just nothing take off and start to pray, take

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pause and start to pray.

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Because sometimes the PRI could just go on for a few days. Now, there are other scholars, for example, one memory, I think it's some the HANA fees. So they ruled that even the tour in between, it's still, it's still part of a period like now. So this one's like, if it's a short time we need we need to go in between the two views, because one of you says equals two days, you don't have to pray during that time to understand the other view says, As soon as you see purity, which could be six hours, take loose and start pregnant. You know, as a woman, that'd be so hard to have to every six hours, you don't get something you know, so there's a in an even pajama. So he's a humbling

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scholar, he says in a movie, and I'll quote me the quote in it really does help you. It says, If blood stops for less than one day, the state cannot be considered as a gohara. It cannot be considered as the horror unless she sees clear evidence. Either the blood stops at the end of her period, or she sees as possible by God, which I'm going to talk about, which is the white discharge, right? So

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so this this opinion, as Elena had stated, his opinion and opinion between the two extremes of like not paying for many days when you don't see anything, because I've known sisters, and this can happen, where some people have a cycle where they have like a two day cycle, then they have like two days or three days of absolutely nothing. And then the rest of the cycle comes luck for another three days. That's possible. Like there are people I've come across that have that you know, so that's why he mentioned she's not paying for two or three days in between, you know,

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too long. But at the same time, if you take the other view that like, all after six hours I saw cleaning up, you know, you're gonna be back with the force to shower and like it's gonna be, it's gonna be so hard for us to handle. So you need to you know, so that's why we

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that's what we type this view in between inshallah you know what I mean?

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Okay the next thing is what is the sign of purity? What is the sign of purity?

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Okay, so the well known sign, which is mentioned in an aeration from Anisha, where the Allahu amha is, it's called a positive bait ball, which means the white discharge. Okay, so this is a white discharge that the uterus releases at the end of the, the menses.

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And this does not occur for everybody, though. Not everybody gets this. You might not even noticed it before. But I'm wondering, it sounds like it's like a sticky little blob.

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It's good to know, because you can make sound good. Oh,

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So anyway,

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um, if you don't say that, so it's not everybody gets that. So then the other sign is true signs. That's the first sign. The other sign is you just get absolutely nothing. So what I could say the best way of describing it is it goes from red to brown to yellow, and then just fades out to nothing. So when you see that nothing, that's when you know, you claim and you go to tables. Now, how do we know this? Because just like you, the Sahabi ads, they used to be really worried have I finished my period online, and they've you know, and but they didn't use to find out people or send them messages, they used to go in person,

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believe it or not, that would even stand and it gets a pat

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on the back this time.

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And it had some traces of yellow on it. And then I asked Aisha, you know, should I pray now or not? Am I clean. And she would say that Jana had

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terina pasta to Bay door, do not rush until you see the white discharge. So you don't like you don't have to have panic attack at the end of your period. You know, to me, you still want the yellow, you still not clean. Just wait till it's all gone. And think about this, the hobbyists that were in the same position as you, you know, they were worried as well. But she told them, and she knows best she was white with the profits that allowed them and she used to get picked medicines just like you and me. Okay, so she knows martial law the best, okay? So just remind yourself of that happy to help you put your mind to rest.

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Okay, now moving on, we're now going to talk about

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10 rules that are associated with the Menzies. Okay. So these are 10 rulings

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that the 10 main rulings, associate associate with Metsys.

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Seven or eight kind of relate to forbidden things, things that one can't do when she's menstruating. And two of them relate to obligatory things she needs to do.

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All right. So let's talk about this a number one, obviously, is it forbidden to pray while you've got your menses? And so not only is prayer, you know, not obligatory on her while she's in the state of menses, but it's actually how long for her to pray as well. So that's nothing to sell yourself, like some people say, but it's how long you're missing prayers, you know, but it's also how long for you to pray while you're in the midst is too so you know, you need to be sure that you've actually finished, okay.

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And if she prayed in a statement says her prayer is not correct, it's not valid wouldn't be accepted. So that's, that's the way to look at it.

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And the messenger velocity law was set up. Um,

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it was, you know, like he told butterbeans Abbey probation that you know, when the min fees, you know, comes to you, then leave prayer, when the man sees comes to you, then they've prayed. So, it's very clear that you know, you need to leave the prayers while you're in Menzies and also there's a Hadith, or it's narration from Ayesha, by the law. 100, she said, we used to menstruate at the time of the Prophet sort of law when he was seven, and we will audit to make up for our fasts and we will not order to make up for upgrade. So that's how we know that you don't need to make up for all the prayers and that's a Rama from Allah to Allah because obviously making up for a day of fasting is so

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much easier. It's easy compared to like, imagine you've had to, you know, for everyday five prayers and to pray the Lord the end, it would it would be very hard for us on a long

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but let's just talk quickly about some rulings. So

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some other rulings on

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regarding the menstruation and prayer so

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Um, you know, majority of scholars are of the view that if you

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like, for example, you know, if you if you menstruate, you know, you know, after that then for a prayer time, and there was enough time for you to have prayed then that prayer would be an obligation on you. When you finish from your message from humanities, okay, you had enough time to pray then there was you know, it's like considered to be an obligation that you would need to make it up, you know, obviously you're sinful or anything because you've got the whole prayer time to pray. But you do need to make up that prayer after you get cleaned for mysteries and then the other thing as well is that when you become clean if you become clean in a prayer time where the prayers

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can be joined for personal excuse because you know, with when you travel, you'll know that they are certain prayers were allowed to combine so love and acid is a prayer time we can combine between with with when we're traveling. Also, Alicia, okay, so the scholar said that if you get clean in the latter prayer time of Asana, for example, that you should still

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pray to her as well as the officer. Or if you got clean, clean in eyeshadow time, you should get you should pray, mother even have a shot, okay, but if you got clean after the sun came up, you don't need to pray for judgment because the prayer time is finished for fudger prayer time for fudger features at sunrise. Okay, so that's just something to keep in mind.

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Then when it comes to fasting, that's the second thing. So this is the second holy so as we know it's not allowed for the one to fast

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while she's menstruating, but like we said she has to make up for it when she finishes.

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And just quickly, you know that if you get clean before the event for fudger in Ramadan, you need to put your intention to fast that day. Okay, and it's what your intention to fast that day and it's not a necessity to have a loosen but you don't have to rush to the shower and take and also in order to start fasting so you can start fasting without having taken your listen Okay, it's just understand that okay, but you'd need to you need to put your intention that I'm going to fast this day because I can see I'm clean so therefore the past is now obligatory upon me. Okay.

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This third point will the third

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issue is a Baba

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Okay, so if we look at what the prophets that a lot isn't taught Aisha when she got menses during hatch, he told her if Ali Maja follow Hajj, do everything that the Hajj does voicera Allah Taku field Bates had that duck who had that thought? So, um, do everything that he does, except to make the last of

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you know,

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to what the love of the garden don't make the waffle Kava. Right. And until you become purified, and she become purified, right. So, from this, we know that it's not allowed to do the last in the state of Menzies. And then a fourth point that scholars have spoken about is is regarding the reciting of the Quran.

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Okay, now, here, I just need to mention that we need to understand something that the older the particular that the Hadith, any Hadith, or writes it about a woman reciting the Quran, there's nothing that's authentic, actually, okay, they're actually all

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considered to be weak Hadees. And that's why there was a difference of opinion amongst Boko Haram regarding reciting the Quran. And another thing that they made the Yes, which means analogy, on the recite, you know, sorry, on the menstruating woman and the genome, but the journal as in the one instead of Geneva, like from intimacy with with one's wife, right. So the thing about this is that if we look at LTS if we look at the Ts, we can see that there's a big difference between a person in a state of Geneva and then being able to remove their state of Geneva like all they have to do is go to take a loss and it's just a few minutes and then the we move the janemba whereas the woman when

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she's in a state of Menzies, how can she leave them? How can she get in? She can't? You don't understand. So she has to wait seven days and then what if she needs to revise the report on what if she needs to learn the Quran? Well, she needs to connect journal

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stance. So this is why.

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The other opinion is that

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because there's no strong evidence, there's actually no strong evidence to show to forbid a woman from reciting the Quran, then, especially if she's a teacher, or she's revising or she's, you know, memorizes the Koran or something like that, or she has a weird event, every day, she has a certain amount that she always recites. They said that, you know, inshallah, there's no harm in her being in there reciting the Quran due to that, okay, but the next thing is related to this, which is touching the Quran, okay, touching the Quran. And when we say touching the Quran, when you're talking about the English translation, not to read the English translation, we're not talking about a book that

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has English and Arabic in it or Arabic in other languages, right? We're talking about the actual actual stuff that only has Arabic. Okay, now in regards to this,

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the The difference is that there's a famous letter that was sent by the prophet sallallahu wasallam, in which he said, lay a message on inla forehead like that, nobody should touch the Koran except in this type of taharah except in a state of purity, okay. So based upon this, because there is this, like I said, famous well known data from the Prophet sort of long research showing that the like the Quran should not be touched, when one's not in a state of purity. We would say that, based upon we just mentioned a minute ago that if she was going to recite from the Quran, she shouldn't touch the Koran directly. So she should put a barrier either she recites from memory or she could recite from

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her phone or she could recite from her iPad, or you know, she can hold the most hot with her gloves on, or you know, she uses a tissue or she uses material or something Yanni not to touch it directly. Okay, so this is this is how

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this is the way we interact with that. And then the next thing is staying in the masjid.

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Okay, so we have to understand that all 40 memes agree that it's not allowed for the menstruating woman to actually stay in the masjid.

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And from the proofs that they gave is not allowed to make Dawa of the Kaaba.

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Because that would mean she's going to enter into the masjid. There's also an aeration that says I did not allow the message period for the menstruating or the journal. And there are scholars, such as Abu Dawood, who they considered that Hadith to be,

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you know, from you know, and he also even harder, even harder, he considered this hadith to be Hassan, like, you know, considered to be not strong, but like, sound, sound, that's the word. So we would say in relation to this, that, you know, there's a difference between, like, needing to go into get something like, but not to just stay there for a long time. And this, she had nowhere else to go. Like, we still did this the hobby yet would migrate from, for example,

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Mecca to Medina, and they might have nowhere else to live. So that even a certain part of the message or something like that, but in general, I'm not to say that mesquite, but they're usually in MSG, these different places you can go, like, they could be a place where they don't cry, it's sort of like, you know, they have often other rooms, that's not really considered part of the masjid. So that's fine, you know, you can just go stay there, that's what I usually advise does, you know, go towards those areas that they don't, they're not known as the prayer areas. Okay.

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We can go into more details, I think I'm just going to keep going. So then the seventh, the seventh thing is that, obviously, it's not allowed for the husband to have intercourse with his wife while she's menstruating. And we already gave the idea about that. But I just want to also mention something important, which was the messenger of Allaah. So a lot of them said, do everything except intercourse when she's menstruating. So just because we menstruating does not mean we can't have a relationship with the husband. Like you can't have, you know, some sort of intimate relations, but not intercourse, right. Just understand. And in fact, if you look at what the wives the prophet SAW

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some deep and I know this is it's good to talk about because often we don't talk about these things. No. They used to write like any czar around they're like the message of allowing them to like wrap a little his arm around their waist. Okay, so I'm just trying to show you that it doesn't mean that like, oh, we're in Macy's at sea, you know, nothing, nothing has to happen anymore. You know, like, Don't even look at each other for the next seven days. Okay.

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Okay. Then we come to point eight, and that is that it's forbidden for the menstruating.

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It's forbidden for men to divorce his wife while she's menstruating. Okay, it's been four men divorced his wife while she's menstruating. Now, just to put this out, it's very important to under

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The correct way of doing color, the correct way of doing color is to you need to wait to the wife has finished her menses and then to divorce her at a time in which you haven't been intimate with her. And to say only one Polak not like I had recently already divorced me, but our times the new year so the point is,

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that's the sooner divorce and the other time is called a better divorce or right to divorce in that way. As for the ruling, majority of scholars say if he divorced her, while she's an admin sees its dude couch. But it's eaten on him like it's a sin. It's not it's how long for him to divorce her when she's

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menstruating. But the majority of scholars take the ruling that she it still counts as divorce. Okay, why it's hard on because it's very hard for her account her blue, like the blue is the because when you're in the dark for the woman, when she's in divorce, she has to count her menstrual cycles. So he divorces her in her menstrual cycle, she can't count that as a complete menstrual cycle. Okay, now, again, you have some empty left here because it's remember if it's the chef is the Maliki's, they, they count the two four. But let's not confuse you. So

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according to what a lot of data has indicated in the Quran is the blue is the Menzies so you count the menses. So that's why it's wrong to divorce during the Menzies because you made you can't count back, Menzies is not a complete Menzies. So you're gonna wait to the next Menzies comes and they're gonna start counting from them. That's why

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Okay, um

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and you know, the profits that are larger than him he you know, regarding even a lot of he divorced his wife while she was menstruating and the Messenger of Allah told him to return, he has to return her and then wait till she becomes clean, and then menstrual eggs again and then after that when she becomes clean. If you want to divorce her, you can divorce her then. Okay, let's talk about the other two things that relate to men see, so the last two things this is relates to obligations. So the first thing is ulcer. So the when the woman becomes clean for menstruating, then it's obligatory upon her to take a listen to lift and had a different head of the pepper potluck, the major state of

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impurity for either Dr. Horner back to one I mean hate to Amarok moolah, so long Tara says when they have purified themselves then you may come to them in the way that Allah has legislated. Alright, right ordained. And also in the Hadith it mentions when your menstruation goes away, then pray then take listen and pray.

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So it shows that after menses a person you know a woman needs to take a listen in order to purify see herself for prayer.

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Oh, yes. The other thing is how do you take a listen after Menzies Okay, so it's exactly basically the same way as you take for a job back. Like you've typed also the same way. It's just that in the case of ulcer, four and menses, you need to you know, wash out their head, you need to wash out the hair because it's like a soft like, it's like a lightning on the woman if she has like graded hair, for example. It's very for generic box tech most every time and she has to undo all her braids is very difficult. Okay, but in the case of mid seas, it's only you know, once a month, so therefore in that case, she should undo it, give it a good wash out.

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After she finishes from her

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the other the other the other last ruling, the last ruling regarding Metsys is regarding puberty.

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Because when a girl

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gets her menses, this is a sign that she's reached puberty and now she becomes accountable.

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And the prophets that a lot of them said, Yeah, but Allahu salata ha illa pcmark. So after that time, in order for her prayer to be accepted, she has to wear property gentle. I mean, in the prayer for her prayer to be accepted. Okay, so this is how we know that once a when, you know once a girl reaches puberty, that she's now fully accountable.

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And so that's so the Mainstays is a sign of her of her becoming accountable.

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Okay, I'm gonna inshallah, move on

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and speak about these details.

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So we can have enough time to answer questions and things. All right. So as we said, at least the harder is the irregular bleeding that comes.

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It's, it's coming, generally speaking, at a time other than her menses.

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But the blood is not due to myths, these are it's actually due to like,

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an illness, or a sickness or wound, or maybe an infection, something like that. So there's another reason it could be, it could be any of those or it could be something else. But the point is, that something in her body is it could be hormones, as we know, you know, so it's extra blood that's coming in another time irregular, then who knows time of human sees.

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So we already spoke a little bit about how to tell

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whether the bleeding is, you know, your menstrual blood or your is the harder as I said, the main thing is, if it's coming at a time different than your normal time for your menses, then you would straightaway suspect that that's at least the harder Also, if you're your your mid season is extending beyond its normal time to a very unusual, like, it's just going on and on and on into the sunset, basically, um, you know, that it's, it's, it's not there's something All right, it's not, it can't be it can't be human disease anymore. If he was going positive 10 days, then you know, it can't be but if it's coming in the cycle, if it's Sorry, it's coming, you know, outside your cycle.

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And like I said, if you if you see this blood coming, especially if it's like bright red, if it's, if it's light, if it doesn't have the normal events of smoking, you see what's coming, you know what I mean? Because some sometimes they don't think that I just want to add something to don't think that at least the other blood can't be really heavy. There was a there was one of the Sahaba who her her blood was so heavy, they had to put tissue under her when she would pray in the masjid, because of how heavy her blood was. And you know, like Habiba. It's related that she she had this the harder for seven years. So that should make you feel better.

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Have you thought that so, you know, some women, they just go on and on and on. I'm going to talk about that as well.

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But that's the main thing to look for. Look for the in the characteristics, look for the characteristics of the blood that does help a lot.

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Okay, so Okay, yes. So with regards to at least bahagia. So the ruling on that is when you have that is the hardest blood, you still pray, you still pray you still fast from a bond. You'll it's still allowed for you to have be intimate with your husband. And there's different levels of Mr. hodda. As you know, like some is light, some is heavier, not everyone gets heavy beating some get like bleeding, okay, but the point is, it's allowed. Um, the other thing is that um,

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the other thing is, I forgot was going to tell you

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you take will do for every print. Okay, tape will do for your fod press. That's what I'm trying to say tape will do for your fight press. But you don't have to keep taking hold over every single sort of prayer you pray after that. Just take your prayer for your five breath, you know, change. First of all, go wash away the blood, place a clean pad, then go take Waldo and then just play and then just pray. Okay, that's the way you you you act with that.

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sometimes, a woman can be a situation where her blood just goes on and on and on.

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Okay, what do you do in that situation where the blood just goes on and on? And you can't tell? What's my period? And what is the harder? I can't tell a difference between the but that has happened to a lot of sisters. Right? They come to the difference between their blood. So what do you do in that case? Okay, so this this with this site is three steps, the three steps, the first step,

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if you know your time of the month, that's the best way if you know the time of your month that I used to always get my period on the 20th of the month. So that means, like, an automatic case where you can see the difference between the blog and you've got no clue, which is my period, which is not right. So what you do you say, right, well, I used to always get my period on the 20th of the month. That means whenever the 20th of the month comes, I'm going to type I'm going to count those days and my normal length of my period, and that's going to be as my that's gonna be my period. Okay, then after that, I take bolson take Wilson, and then I take the door for every free after that. Okay,

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that's the first way another way is to do what's called attendees, which means you distinguish between the blood so you don't know I've got no clue when my cycle was the last time I had a cycle was like four years ago when I had my lap you know before I had all these four children or something right.

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Okay. So in that case, you try to do distinguishing between the but you try to see is there talk month is a part of month with suddenly goes really heavy and different.

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Right and then the rest of the month. It's like this

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Like what? Read. So there's like that, you know, it's that part, that's the part that's your period jiangtai say, then the third thing is, if you cannot tell us the life of you,

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you just gonna have to, you're gonna have to pick, you know, you basically pick six or seven days from the, for example, the beginning of the month, and then you count that as your period. Okay?

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Another thing is, what about the pregnant woman who sees blood?

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Okay, a pregnant lady, she says blood. The default for pregnant woman is that she doesn't have a period.

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A pregnant woman does not have a period. That's the goal. Okay, but again, one shoe does not fit everybody. Okay. But so we say that, if you see blood while pregnant, you would not think that that's your period. So you would consider as the as the harder However, they are those rare exceptional sisters, the special sisters out there, who they do still get a period. So what the scholars said

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is if you see it coming, at the same time, it was always coming every month, and it's got the same appearance as same appearance as your period always comes. You take it as your period in that case, but that's a very rare exception, but it does happen to some people. Okay. All right. Next, last thing is the new fast. So this is the postnatal bleeding.

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Now, again, the scholars they differ regarding what is the maximum time for NFS, what is the maximum time for the postnatal bleeding.

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And the majority of scholars said it's 40 days. And this is also in conjunction with what we have some sayings from companions as well, which strengthens his view. That's why this is the more stronger view due to there being some, you know, statements from Sahaba, for example, our even our best writing a long line was reported that he said the woman in the first should wait for, you know, around 40 days. And Sarah, my rock radio longliners shed at the time of the messenger of Allaah subtle law, what is sudden, the woman in the fast would wait for 40 days. So we have some state sayings of Sahaba, which strengthens his view. The other views basically what based on PS are based

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on LPs.

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And so that's why well, they're based on other other links. So anyway, the point is, he had sorry, based on HTML. So um, so based upon that, you'd say your maximum time for your period is sort of your universe is 40 days. And then after that, we'll take a closer look at the provides not stopping, you take also you start to print. Now, another important point here is sometimes your period your universe may stop before 40 days. Some people think that even if I've got no blog is to wait 240 days, like so I could have two weeks to go and there's nothing and I just don't pray because I think I will wait I gotta wait for 40 days. No, you don't wait for 40 days. If your God

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finished two weeks, early, or one week early or something like that, you take all sudden you start to pray. Okay?

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Now, another point we have to speak about is

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in relation to

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If a woman has a miscarriage, or even she haven't had an abortion for some reason

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that the blood that comes out, we need to understand that the plot that comes out in the first and second trimesters, that's not considered. That's not considered to be an adverse, because why? Because on the first, as the scholars defined it, is the blood that's associated with childbirth. But if you think about it, what's the first trimester, the path stage, which is just like a drop of mixed liquid, right? And then the next stage is a lollipop. So it's the it's the blood clot stage. So you haven't, you haven't given birth? It's not associated with birth, the financing senator that is not

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associated with birth, therefore, we will not go on as the fastest. Therefore, what do you think we will honor?

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At least the harder irregular bleeding, it's therefore irregular bleeding, so what do I do?

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I tabled or for each prayer in the partner table for each prayer, however, now, there's another thing that can happen. If it's after those two top like, if it's after the Cindy.

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Did I say trimesters? I should maybe I shouldn't use that word because it's 40 days and then 40 days. Okay. So I don't I don't make you confused because I'm thinking they probably they probably.

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They probably make that in a different measurement. Anyway. So it's the 40 days, and another 40 days. So you've got the note bar, you've got

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That Allah, then we come to the Buddha says that's after 80 days. Now, if you had, if you know you had a miscarriage after 80 days, right?

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Usually the baby is not going to really form until around about 90 days, like 90 days is going to start maybe getting some arms and having some features or being like, yeah. So what this guy said, if it's coming in that dark blue period, when you don't know what the ruling would be, if you can, I mean, you're able to have a look at it just to see because you need to know is that going to be coming under more like a blood clot? Or is it coming more under actually being formed that I need to take the ruling of the fast? Okay, but once it's getting over 100 days, once it's getting over, like, you know, obviously towards 120 days, you know, that most likely as long as it hasn't stopped

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going very, very early, you understand that? Um, it's going to be most likely new fast because it's associated with the chocolate, it's actually considered as, you know, blood associate with childbirth. Okay, that's that's what we need to understand about that.

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yeah. Oh, you mean to check?

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Yeah, so if it's coming under a human form, like it's got the formation of arms legs, like it's looking like a child, then obviously you're going to take that blood as a ruling that it's new fast blood, but if it doesn't look anything like that, it's you know, it's some still unformed like a blood clot then it's basically like irregular bleeding. Okay.

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just lucky, though. Fair.

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Okay, just. Okay, I'll give you two more things in the left seat and then move on to the questions. So the next thing is,

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this can happen. A woman could have a wet dream at the beginning of her menses or she could have been incident with a husband. And then like, you know, intercourse with the husbands. And then straight after it, she got her mid 30s that can happen. So now what happens?

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Like so what we will say here is Look, it's not obligatory upon her to go and take ulcers. However, if she wants to read the Koran, she's gonna need to type Wilson that also she takes is just to remove the header of a Geneva All right.

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During him and says,

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Yeah, so if a woman during her means the same thing, if she

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okay to go be okay, but we probably have to because these days, we have to talk about everything. But anyway, not just wet dreams, even if she was awake. And let's say she engaged in masturbation. Let's just say it, you know, she shouldn't because it's not we're not supposed to do that, but just say she did. And she got climax, not just masturbation because you could masturbate and not climax, right? But just as she did climax, she would therefore be in a state of Geneva. I had told me that they went to generic glasses, right? And the shakes they said go for the for the Mainstays, just give me the on your own.

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Like and you can't learn like that. Like this is something we need to go into details right? Anyway, the point is if this happened, okay, if this happened, then in order to for her to be allowed to read the Quran, she would need to take Wilson to remove that ginebra Okay, so that that was the day is separate than the hostess she has to take at the end when she finishes her when she finished her mid 30s however, let's say she didn't take she didn't read from the whole time I don't know how you could do that but just that she didn't read the grind the whole time until the end and then she finished her business and she still got the janemba when she texts also for the for the highest like

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photo for the highest photo for the mid seas it leaks it needs the mid seas with the Geneva a case it's not likely to get take two separate no you just take one in that case that needs both got everybody

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last thing last thing is the plan that same for women over the age of 50

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okay so in general the people of knowledge considered the bud simple men over the age of 50 as is the harder

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and that's regardless of how the blood is at the show free in some of the the Manichaean the nebula. However, others say this is the more balanced view look to see if it's coming in a pattern so like they are and by the way, I think it's 100 fees they say no 17 so there are again all these rulings there's no set ruling in the sooner that says or once you reach 50 anything after that is not Menzies okay so what they did how they base their ruling was

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What's the odds are for most women, most women finished their menses by 50. But I've known sisters to be the 70s as to menstruating. So, in her case, if if your mid seat is coming every month at the same time and known time and coming with the description, you know this the characteristics of menses used to consider hmnzs. Also, if your family female members that they all mistreated after the age of 50, that's also another another guideline. However, if your menses had stopped, you know, and then two or three years later, you still lose blood and you're like 55, you would not think that that's your menses, you would think that that's irregular bleeding, just as this is how this ruling

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does help us to to be able to

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interact with that. Okay, so, that's the book, that's my main points that they like, there was more I could add, but I just wanted to really speak about the most important

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points. And inshallah what I'll do now is I'll try to go through as many of these questions as I can.

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Oh, my God.

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Yeah, well, inshallah

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need to like to be nice.

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Okay, so

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now, okay, so, if you finish an answer for Alisha,

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do join her and answer.

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Okay, so if you just say you finish an awesome time, what you do to be on the safe side and what the drug war like the majority of scholars have said, but there are schools that disagree but majority say that if you finish at after you pray the prayer that's connected to it. So you've prayed for her first. Don't shorten the bridge, you're only combining the pre right? So you pay for the first four rockets. And then you pray you pray for rockets. And if it's my mother, if you finished at any time, you pray you mungry three rockets and you probably already shot four rockets. Okay.

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Got to do with Menzies now. Okay, this has got to do with men's suits.

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No, no, no. Okay. So even if you're in another thing, another thing you reminded me of something, if you were, if you were traveling, if you're traveling, when you got your period, and you've got an asset, and you haven't paid it off, because you were traveling your way because you know, you'd like to combine periods when you're traveling. So what you would do when you finish your medicine unit makeup that you practice for

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was your resident now, you know me and, and you would pay your asset as for and this was due on the move to extend so that's another thing so but yeah, so if you were traveling, when you got your menses and you hadn't paid double yet because you combining a prayer then it came to us or the something that you period and you're traveling, when you get too hard when you when you get like clean for your menses, you need to pray to her and ask her what you pray for. And for me, it's most likely a resident now. Okay, but boy, Mitch was saying so because a woman who's menstruating comes under what's called she's got brother, she's got an excuse. And the person who's traveling has an

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excuse so that's why the scholars said those who have excuses that they pray time is combined. That's why I said to you if you get clean and answered you combine it you pray your daughter first and then you pay us and and you know what i like this view a lot of ways because sometimes you're not really sure Have you finished or not? And you've got that doubt Do you go home?

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So this way you feel you feel comfortable that you know what? I'm done? I've paid both anyway I've covered myself I like these You understand?

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did not give you just

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you don't pass it okay? It's finally the ones you can bind together

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it's already time for a budget No, but the scholar says you've got time if you finished in the last part of the night and you still got time to pray the MongoDB is sharp they said pay Mongo militia as well before the end of the line. Look, some of the decisions disputable but just be on the safe side but at the end of the day we're already good enough president is with me and sees why not just why not just you know if you know you're playing on a bond with me staying up all night and then you got clean, just probably not gonna shock you know, I mean, it's what's what's what's needed to pay on your who's gonna complain about extra praise on that exam has an X.

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You know,

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you get when you finish tremendously. So you have to

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know I'm talking about if you finished your studies, they're up all night. And it was like three o'clock in the morning. And you you found yourself you saw the positive by God like you saw the white discharge or you know, you're 100 century claim. Don't

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Take a listen.

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Okay. All right. So this is about going back to the farmers rotation.

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Now during menses. So, what I'm saying to you is look like this, if you read about the football hat, they don't allow, like, they didn't allow many of the folks that did not allow a woman to recite while she's in her state of Menzies, but we have to look at what did they base that upon? Okay? They base it upon a weak Hadoop, which is not authentic to be taken as a proof. And also they're based upon making the US between a menstruating woman and an A person in general. who's done Oh, and if you can see that they are not the same. It's up Dr. Smile 30. But is this a difference between like, her ability to remove her state of menses and a person who's in the state of Geneva, they can easily

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remove that's why scholars said based upon that, especially and especially there's a harder like, she's got a need like, you know, you're trying you try a go if you're trying to memorize the Quran, you can't stay away from the Quran for seven days. If you're a teacher of Corrado you're in a crime class you're gonna miss every security and as long as a woman thinks about you a wealthy man already is weak enough when she goes in big cities so she's in need for a connection with a lawful to Allah you know so based upon all these things that's why my view which I certainly I'm fairly comfortable with it is to recite the Quran but don't touch the most half directly with your hands that's that's

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the view that I feel is

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the most you know and also is the harder I said to you you can do anything when you got a stylist The harder you pray you fast means you can still recite the Quran to okay

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oh my god now you put multiple questions and say this is like this is like a HS same pipe off.

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Okay, um, okay, it's actually a good question though. Like,

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alright, is it permissible to take medication to prevent your period during Ramadan Hajj or Umrah? So books isn't it is permissible, permissible, especially if you know it's not going to be harmful personally for you. Okay, now when I say that I'm not encouraging you to go take me you know,

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medication to machine or bond I'm not encouraging you because that's what a law right for you like that's what Mr. Vela said this is what a lot of work for the daughters

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of Adam you know at least an N so it's natural and you know and so it's what personal choice for us so but as you know like it's happened to me before with every single year without fail because my my midseason moves back 10 days every year so with every single year without fail when does my menstruation come the last 10 days of Ramadan every single year without fail? It's like no I am that's it

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you know, and if you if you go to Hajj or Umrah Okay, look when you go to normal sisters

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without going to the heart on what are you going to do that there's not much more to do that that's that is your hygiene product the whole time going to except when you're taking a shower I cannot get a sense so in general

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you know in general like if you just want to have a peaceful peace peaceful mind

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you know there's no harm in you taking the medication to to prevent it as long as your doctor tells you that that's safe for you that you should go check it with your doctor I can't tell you things that you know you got to check with your doctor

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to do that, because I've heard you can do

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it it's not no it's it's there's nothing there's nothing wrong with it. But it's better not to it's better not to it's better to go because after a while taking these these medications do have an effect on you. Like you know that they stuff up recycle everything gets stuffed up it's not really it's not really a good thing to keep on you know doing that too so but if you know what I'm saying it's allowed okay

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yeah, look some of these you're gonna have to just message me because I need to talk to you like sometimes I've got it with the the period questions sometimes I need to ask more questions go into more details to kind of like work out what's going on.

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The last few can obviously dawns upon what he or she can you can do while you've got a little harder but what you would do is you like I said wash away the blood, place the pad and then you would take will do and then you would just do for us because you can't do anything about it. It's the same if someone had a arm some people have men that give us all a soft asahikawa raffia but some people they have like a bag attached to them you want to try stay so they've got constant view I'm coming out of them is the same thing. They're going to take hold or they're just going to do the left the way they are they can't you know you stop them.

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Suddenly the harder is no harm. If you if you really wanted to ask Allah to Allah that there's no barriers you should place barriers.

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If you want to ask Allah tala just make the DA, just make the DA if you're not able to do that you rock, you know, the rock out to have a list of how to just, you know, you know, just make it dry and ask the Lord to guide you, you know what I mean inshallah. Okay, so what's permissible again? Like there's Dawkins, Amman. So what's permissible? Well, your got your mixie. So, look, let's understand something, the place where the blood is coming out is considered to be a place of majesta. Now, due to the blood, the blood is Madras, let's get that clean, the blood of menses is nachus. Therefore, the place where it's coming out, he's nudges, but not to feel bad about ourselves. And that's why

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the message of alarm told a shower a lot more unhappy. When she asked him how can I get your prayer mat from the masala he said your your medicine is not in your hands. It's not in your head. So it's not that your hand becomes registered your Menzies it's not that your body becomes that just you understand. And that's why the visitor log even showed up. So beautiful had those intimate times with his wife where, you know, like with Ayesha, he would bite from the bone while she was menstruating and then give it to her, you know, and she would like she would eat from the bone and then he would place his mouth on exactly the same place where she had pressed her mouth or he would

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drink from the cup which she exactly place is all purpose placed his mouth exactly where she placed her mouth to show her that, you know, you're still laugh despite having your midst. It's not like you will be you know, you've become yourself like unclean. Okay, but insane. And so with regards to intimacy, so that area should be avoided that that the area with the buds coming, it's all it's all.

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It's not just with a blood ease. So you avoid the just like as momineen like was saying in Allaha, you hit butow ebina when you hit you hit when you hit pull puto hitting Allah loves those who make Toba constantly, and they love to purify themselves and movement does not like an adjuster the woman does not love, you know, and impure things or, you know, so you avoid that, but anything else, you know, you know, any other ways of enjoying the body? There's nothing wrong with it. As long as you're just avoiding the present adjuster, that's what we can say about it. Okay.

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Let's just leave it there. I think I've answered most of the questions.

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All right. You know what, uh, one thing I will do, which is important, someone's asking, Can you outline the correct process for LLC? That's an important question. So, um, how to take a look. It's so easy, some people overcomplicate it, it's so easy, all you have to do, number one, start by washing the private part. Okay, so just wash the part apart from any

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fluids. And then take will do as usual type we'll do as usual, then after you take will do pull the water over the hair over the head three times, and then just rub the scalp making sure that the water is reaching into the scalp. Okay, so if you've got if you're doing it from Geneva, if you had a ponytail clean, or you had you know you had a hairstyle, you don't need to undo the whole hairstyle, you just need to make sure the water has poured over your head three times and you've just tried to you know, massage the massage the water into the scalp, but if you if you finish Menzies, then you're going to take out your, you know, your plaque or your, you know, your headband,

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and you're going to completely wash out the hair and comb it out whatever, right and then pouring water over the body. So the body reaches, sorry, the water reaches the whole body. And that's it. That's all there is. That's as simple as it is. That's complete Wolf, by the way, that's complete Wolf, there's another wolf you can do, which is if you Okay, this is called what I call emergency what it is, and it's acceptable, and it's called sufficient was right. If you finished your menses, and the sun is going to come up within about like half an hour or 20 minutes, what you're allowed to do and it's sufficient is you go you had your Nia for Alyssa to remove the lecture, move to the

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state of Nevada, and then you know, wash out the mouth and nose and pour the water completely over the body. And then that's it. That's all you have to do. And then as long as the water rich, the whole part of the body, of course, of course over the hair as well. Right? Then that see, and then you go and you go Yanni goes dries off.

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Right like that. And then that's it, you go pro that's called sufficient rules. As long as you got the nail with it, then it's it's acceptable. But you know, but in general, we charge you to complete the discipline of doing doing the photo as well. Yeah.

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Yeah. See, look, you've got to understand that

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The sooner the sooner is to start with the right side. Okay, but it's not a fad, it's not going to nullify your wisdom if you don't start, but the sooner is to start with the right side pouring and also got to think what were they, you know, pouring the water with a jug, you know, we've got a shower now, so you're not going to prove it, you know, but what you do is when you're when you're washing, you know, the body, you go, you kind of you know, you just start, you know, go to the right side and gently stand like that. So, um, but that's it, but that's, but that's all it comes down to under just coming under the sooner that's okay. Yes. It's also the same for men the same time?

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Absolutely. Absolutely. Yeah. Yes. And even our children, we need to teach our children this, like, once they go, once they go through puberty, like the boy and he's having these weird dreams he needs to take also need to teach them they need to know because otherwise they're not they're praying in a state of Geneva. Okay. And the girls, if you've got them in seats, yes.

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Oh, yeah, that's a good question. Okay, so. So like we said, the blood that comes out, then you first blood is a blood that's associated with birth. Now, if she is in the actual labor contractions where they're coming, you know, as you know,

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they're coming full on, okay. And then she starts to see blood, then that because that blood is now associated with the birth. That's why scholars said that, you know, that then she won't pray after that. And actually, while we're on the topic, let's just talk about when you stop praying, when you're in a state of childbirth, let's just talk about that. I think everyone needs to know this. Now, look, sisters, as long as you haven't got that blood come out, due to the childbirth, then you got to keep on praying. And I want to a tip, very important tip,

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pass it on down to your grandchildren, your great your great granddaughters, you know, so, you know, the way childbirth is, it's thought of not that bad, and it starts to get really painful. That's getting very hard for you to pray later on. Okay, so

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what you're doing that case, when you know, it's gonna be very hard for you, you're allowed to combine your prayers that are able to be combined. So what you're doing is you've got an excuse. So what it's like someone who's going to travel, but not shorten, don't shorten the praise, you combine. So what you're doing is just say you're going into labor, and it's

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pray to her and pray ask her because you know what time Margaret comes, you're not.

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So, so if you can combine the prayer, it can help you. Obviously, if you're not in a state of prayer, sorry, if you're not in a state where you can even think of praise and like you just like screaming your head off. And it's like, the last minutes, like, call us Yeah, you're gonna have to

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look, can you do?

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Look, in general, like, as long as the baby hasn't come out yet. And as long as you haven't got the plot, which you normally do towards the end, you will get bloods. And once you send blood, that's it, you don't have to worry anymore. Okay. I just want you to know, because some people think that if they would have breaks that I need to protect, that I need to pray anymore. But look, as you know, your water could break one month before you give birth. And well, you're not going to pray for a whole month before you give birth. So you can't judge your concepts based upon that. Yes.

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Yeah. Yeah, I'll check it. I'll check it because if you have to check, because as far as I know, most of them agree that when it's actually right in front of the birth, like, what with the labor pains and everything, then they say that that is the first. So I'll check it out. I'll check it off. Again, I'll check the view of your membership, your analog, I'll tell you, but yet, as you're saying, normally, because he never showed up, he ran a lot he agrees with them.

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He agrees with the handling madhhab. In that, during when you've got your you know, the pregnant one does not get period. That's why he takes that view that a pregnant one does not get period. But as we said, if we look at the argument, you actually do get their period. So know that some women actually get periods, they get it every month, and they get it exactly like a period. So that's why there's other scholars looking at all of that. They've said that if that didn't happen to you, that's not normal. You would, you'd have to take as your period. In that case, there's all these like exceptions as well. Oh, my God, it just makes you

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sorry, I just wanted to know if you've got

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to stop fasting, you said that you don't have to do like, straightaway. That's right. When we got to like, well, when you've got till is to like you need to hurry up and take Well, suppose you want to hide your fudge of prey, and the fudge of prayer count, you know, there's a bunch of break ins but the sunrising Okay, so therefore, like, let's say, you know, you want to have us to hold

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You don't have to rush and go and take your will. So to be able to fast, so you can just sit down, take yourself or you know, you know, what's your intention, you're gonna fast, take it easy. And then and then after that the then goes and and you go and you take your service and then you go pray before before the sun comes up.

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But you just need to know that you don't have to have

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you don't have to have taken water in order to fast and if you if it was a super fast, it was a it was a super fast, then it wasn't, you know, you didn't have to have an intention. You didn't have to have your intention before before fudger in order to

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in order. Yeah, like you could you could make your intention after that. You could start you know, you just decide that after fudger like after five times that we started that you know what I'm gonna fast today. Yeah.

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Okay, so as I say, if you've got any individual questions,

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I can just leave my phone number and you can just, I don't actually I try to very much avoid any phone calls. Just so you know. So all I do is I answer on WhatsApp and Facebook. They might two

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mediums of answering questions because otherwise it's just too time consuming.