CluedTv Ladies Interview – Last 10 Nights of Ramadan

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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Welcome to another episode of the ladies of cu TV. I am here with my fabulous co host Rebecca Kay and I'm ameesha Yeah, Somali calm. Yes. I'll be Rebecca Kay. Today I was in a day and we had so much fun did have fun today. He was Middle Eastern. And I became, you know, an Ozzy random Ozzy River. It felt really really good. Yes, I'll take my my name back. Okay, at the moment. Okay. Salaam Alaikum. I'm Rebecca tea, and I'm happy to share her and welcome to clue TV. Welcome to clue TV. How are you? Good. How's your day been? It's been fantastic. You can introduce her I am I am. We are so fortunate enough and very honored to have the beautiful

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image. I'm Ella Dean. That was does that magenta Dean here on this lovely blue couch. It's a special couch. salaam aleikum wa Alaykum wa sallam or after the care to how are you 100 illa hearable admin How are you? handling? Min Allah? Great manzanilla We are so blessed to have you today. We've been looking forward to today's tonight's

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episode episode with you. Coffee kiosk a lot blessing in inshallah. Amen. Amen. Amen. So, Jamal, last 10 days are upon us now. And we really want to use this time to inspire and revamp our viewers so that they benefit the most from the last 10 days. inshallah we're obviously all very tired. What would be some advice that you could give to our sisters or our viewers in how to maintain or strengthen their worshipping in the last 10 days? Okay, we spent 100 an hour or so that was Salam ala rasulillah. Allah, Allah, he was happy when and Wella. So first of all,

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I just want everyone to realize that I know a lot of people have been struggling a lot, you know, in particularly this Ramadan, because, yes, people may have had this visitors and things like that. But I think there's been a lot of pressure on a lot of families, we've had the kids home, people had to do homeschooling people or people struggling with financial difficulties. There's a lot more things been going on than previous trauma bonds, and we haven't had the social network around us to support us. So a lot of people may have not really felt this Ramadan, like they felt previous from advance. Not having that, you know, the, you know, the vibe at the masjid and the community thoughts and the

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community connection. Exactly. So, and people being maybe very preoccupied with everything that had to do, they may be feeling a little bit deflated, because we've already reached the last 10 days. And they may not may not to be feeling like they've done enough. I'm actually one of those people. Yeah, so that's why I'm so glad you're here today handle questions might be a bit personal, that's fine. I don't mind that. All. Right, that's what I love to do, actually.

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But people just need to realize that it's we're lucky from the generous generosity of Allah subhanaw taala, that he saved the best of Ramadan to the last. So the last 10 days have the most like the last 10 nights in particular, they have the most blessing in them. And as we know, within these nights is a night that worship done in it is is greater than, greater than, you know, 1000 months. So, you know, it's painless, it's like 83 years and four months. You know, it's Panama, like, it's, it's a truly a gift from Allah subhanaw taala, because Allah knew that not everybody is going to leave a long time in Islam. Some people may leave, as a Muslim, you know, three years, some people

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may live 10 years, some people may live 50 years as a Muslim, we're going to have different lifespans in Islam. But Allah gave us this gift of the latest cutter, so that if we really make the most of it, we will come on your makishima as if we had lived for maybe, you know, hundreds, like hundreds of years of worship, or it could be even reach up to 1000 depend on how long you live.

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You know what I mean? It would take you it would take you whole lifetime to get that amount of worship, but Allah is giving us giving it to you all in one night, and you can achieve it in one night. So it just goes to show you but the only catch is you don't know which one Exactly, yes. And so

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it's a blessing in itself. Because instead of just knowing that one night, a Lost Planet, Allah gives you an opportunity for you to worship those 10 lights. Yes, she knew and get every word that you could do. Exactly. He's pushing you to do even more so that you you actually end up doing more worship than what you would have done. If you if you knew was just one night if you knew for sure, it's what 27 like you can see a lot of people do they only worship the 27 and they leave the rest of the nights but because you don't know for sure, you could do at least on the odd nights. Even if you can't do all 10 nights try to go at least for the odd nights, you know, especially like the night of

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the 25th 23rd 29th besides the 27th you know go for those nights and 25th to but like in particular

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Let's just go to the last seven shot you know so so i mean you know knowing that

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you know a handle it gives you a lot of hope there's always hope in Islam is a religion of hope there's always hope you know know that never lose hope and if you do miss one of those nights make it up exactly like you sometimes have a bad day everybody has bad days not everybody is on full Can you know they can't everyone you know not everybody can can do everything perfectly every single day everybody no matter who they are viewers that you know, none of us are perfect. You enjoy this. If like I think it was one of the first episodes we did, even if you open up the court and and read one letter that you haven't read before, you're one step better than you was so you walk away, obviously

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try to do more, but

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just an extra type of worshiping and inshallah you walk away a better person, this Ramadan than you were previously. And that's the aim really, isn't it? What what Allah wants to see from us is our sincerity. So he wants you to put that effort in. Okay, but he wants to see that sincerity and how much you want Jana. This is all about showing Allah How much do you really want Jana? How much do you really want to save yourself from the fire? That's what it comes down to like in the AI into the mold. Allah says Allah de Heil upon multiwell hayata Leah luuk home a Yukon, San Juan Allah. But Allah is the one who created death and life to test which one of you are best in deeds. He didn't

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say most he said best. So the best means most sincere, you know most in line with what the prophets that are liner some came with, you know, so it's like I was saying recently, you know, a sister who may be a new revert, for example, doesn't know how to read Arabic. But you know, she, she's just trying she's repenting to Allah, she's maybe crying, you know, praying what she can maybe she's only reciting suit le Clos in every regard. That's all she knows, you know, she could get you know, she could be forgiven from her sins where somebody else may be a half of the Quran, you know, memorize the whole Quran or they could have lots of knowledge and they might they might not they might not be

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successfully so but so that's the thing but a lot you know what's mentioned in the Hadith is that the prophets that are longest and told us men farmer, Lady the other Eman and YT seven, all feed Allahu Mehta put them in them be who ever stood in the night of little cutter with Cincy men hoping for the reward from Allah to Allah, they previous sins will be forgiven. So this is this is the hope we have. Yeah, and as a man, what advice would you give mothers or parents that really are struggling with their youngsters to participate in laser cutter that obviously you know at the moment you know, with COVID-19 and the kids on at school, yeah, might be playing PlayStation or

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doing other things to parents make more of an effort and you know, talk to the kids and say, You know what, we've been spending all day really not doing anything yet make more of an effort set a certain time wake them up closer maybe to sore or the thing just before they go to sleep maybe even it depends on the age of the child but if they're like old enough to be praying differently, I'd be praying totally to get as a family like it's definitely highly recommended because we don't have the message dishy families should be trying to pray together so just like you normally would pray at the masjid you do that all at home so you'd pay your share pay you sooner then start your total be

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together. Like either you know, they're the father or you know the son or if it's a single mother You know, maybe she's got a son who can lead or she can lead her daughter's you know men and just try to keep the family together and and you know, pray Is it the panelists

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have become the magician Well yeah, it's a beautiful thing Yeah. And then try to encourage maybe after salon to sit together like read some Quran together do some you know do some the equivalent as dick like on their own you don't try and say I'm just trying to revive just try to revive that that spirit of of Ramadan and trying to show the children that it's very important that we make the most of this night because imagine if this is metal powder, you know, what are some of the tips to get maximum rewards? Are they the only tips Is there anyone else that we need to any other tips that we can do or any other forms of worship that we can do at home that can get us more benefit in rewards?

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So the main thing is striving in this night, right? So of course you try to pray as much as you can each night. And don't you don't have to limit yourself to number of records. Okay? Okay, pray as much as you can, in between, like, recycled on, do the drop boo cow read read some of the doors of repentance, in particular try to do Toba. And really, what's really important is in these nights is what has separate to next. So, you know, really reflecting over your life, but you really need to look at yourself inwardly. This is a time for introspection, you know, may really like reflecting on your life, you know, thinking about your past. Some of the things you know things we've all we've

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all got mistakes. We've heard.

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We've all got scenes, no matter who we are, you know what I mean? We've all got faults. So we need to be looking at that. Thinking about, you know, what we've done in our past? And where are we heading? How are we going in life? Are we going in the right direction that we're going to be happy to make a lot of pantalla in this condition? If we don't feel that we what are the things we need to change? You know, think about things we've missed, like, have we a person who's missed prayers, you know, have we missed that we got years of Ramadan fasting we haven't made up for. Okay, so this deficiency that we may have, we need to fix because if we don't fix it, now, we're going to be

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mixing we are going to be meeting Allah subhanaw taala. And we haven't fixed these things. We haven't rectified these conditions. You know, same thing with like, Zika. A lot of people don't pay, they're not paying this occur. They have the amount of money that they you know, which is makes it compulsory. But years go by, they don't pay Zika. I had a girl asked me the other day she's got she's her husband pays as a care for the whole family. But then she said to me what I have my own savings, and I have savings for my kids that I don't think my husband pays for because he doesn't know that. It's not like he doesn't know that she has savings. He just doesn't know how much

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savings.

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And she knows that she needs to pay. But she had certain family members that said, No, my husband paid soccer for the whole family. But then she said to them, but your kids have savings in Australia, you That's right. Women also have to pay zeca is available savings much longer from year to year, then they should pay zakat, every responsible adult is responsible for themselves and those under them. So even if her husband's not, you know, it doesn't know about those accounts that that then will fall on her. Yeah. And she needs to make sure that that money is being purified, you know. So a lot of charities are asking for donations in the last 10 days, is that really beneficial as a

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form of worship for ourselves in in Laila Qatar? Absolutely. Because I was actually recommending that recently. Like, if you want a lot to forgive you in in these nights, you know, that's what this is. That's what these nights are about. These nights are about basically ransoming yourself from the fire of the next life. What are you prepared? To show a lot? How much are you prepared to show a lot that you want a lot to save you and B from those who are freeze from the fire in this month? So imagine your gamma, how much would you be ready to give in order to save yourself? When you see the fire in front of you everything? Exactly. Everything clean? So you got to think you're gonna be

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there one day, but on that day, you might think if I was there right now, yet, what are we doing? Exactly? Exactly unity, like on the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said that a person would be you know, we'll find there'll be you know, how can I say they'll meet with a lot of pantalla and yamaki Emma and the look today and there'll be you know there'll be nothing between them and Allah right no interpreter between then a Lhasa pantalla he's gonna be questioning them. And when they look to their right they'll see their deeds and they look to the left they'll see only what they brought and an oak in front of them all they see is a fire and that's when he said that duck will now will be

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shifted Tamra Fie the fire, even if it's for the half a date to that level. So if you think of it like that, you know, you when you want to get close to a light in these nights, you know, you've got lots of scenes, you know, you haven't done what you needed to do, like you make me feel deficient because you haven't done enough these from a bond. One of the best ways to make yourself you know inshallah, to to get past that point, is give sort of give sort of the sake of Allah and really, I would recommend people try to feed try to feed the poor because people now with the Coronavirus, like we're lucky we don't we we just have no comprehension living in Australia, we just living in

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really, you know, generally, like, we are like, like supine a lot. Like so far, I was really protected us in so many ways. But if you look overseas, like for example, my son was just telling me the other day, you know, there's many, there's just one example but like, for example, a sister was saying that, you know, in Egypt, there's a lot of widows that people who've got no one to support them absolutely nothing. Using Ramadan, they put the food out for the poor people knickknacks are going to sagitta that's the typical one of the customs of in the senate countries, they put the, you know, the food out for the poor, you know, outside the masjid. And the poor people come and eat and

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you better see they can't do that everything's under lockdown. And two people are probably starving. They are you know, mean that will be they'll be starving, right? So that's why if you can think to feed because feeding is one way, especially in that in particular, like that's one of the customs of Islam to feed, you know, to feed the hungry and to feed the poor. So, I would really highly recommend people, you know, give what they can list of great organizations for anyone. Yeah, that doesn't know I mean, you can always message us and we'll give you a list of some great organizations just yeah, commercial break.

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You know, pay us the cat first because you're the cat is number one, we're gonna be asked about bilasa pantalla and that needs to be paid before solid laid. No that's different. That's

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Definitely,

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yes, we're talking about as a captain man, right? Which is, like the savings that you have, you need to pay you need to pay every ischemic year. Like, you know, the lunar year, you need to you need to pay yours. You've got 2.1%. Yes. So you need to pay that you need to make sure that you have done all that, you know, that's, that's, you know, a wedge upon you. Okay, when you fulfilled your fault, then you can think about, you know, how can you tell our viewers that it needs to be paid now, before Ramadan is over? It's not about that. Actually. It doesn't work out. Yeah, it depends on when you've got that money. That money wasn't necessarily during Ramadan, it could have been. It could be

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it could have been jus before. But a lot of people don't know that. They just pay it every Ramadan. Okay, they do it as a saving. Yes. So that's another thing. And we know how much too much you should have paid it eat within them, it would have been even before much because it's supposed to go with a semicolon a year. But the point is, if you haven't paid it yet, that's Ramadan. That's what we look for save to Ramadan. So pay it, but like, you know, a lot of people think give sadaqa or they think you understand instead of thinking about this a care which was is more compulsory on them. So it's just important to clear your mind needs to be paid by the day of a ticket. Yeah, that's a

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difference. Okay, that's just on every member of the household. That's just about $16. Yeah, about 10 or 12, something like that. It depends on how much because you should really pay this. Usually the association will tell you because it goes up and down according to it fluctuate, it's not something stable. There's a difference. There's, like a charity soliciting in the poor, helping people out if they need it, absolutely. But especially in these nights, it's more a time of, especially Be careful of, you know, we're not really socializing that much at the moment. But one of the biggest distractions for most people is going to be social media. So you don't want to be all

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night on social media, like even try to avoid it altogether. If you can, especially like 27th night, you know, just look, imagine how much on Facebook is that we're trying to say? Yeah, like, it's not a bad idea. Because imagine how much every minute, how much is that worth? If you think about the whole night is equal to more than 83 years and four months, then what is every, you know, if you can organize a plan? I know it's like we're in the 10 days now. But you know, you simply organize a plan maybe with the kids, what is it that we want to do? Do we want to watch a lecture to one do we want to recycle to em for like an hour together? Pay charity go for a walk to the curb? While we're

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walking this summer. We could prefer people try to be proactive rather than passive. It's not really time to be seen watching lectures. You can watch too much liquid any other time. But I mean, yeah, kids, you know, you're not gonna sit there with my kids have Makita got used to like staying up at night. It makes it something really special that you stay up all night. And they might have a little bit of a sleep at, say 12 or one o'clock. I mean, do you do you recommend the people that work? Uh, take a day off? Yes, absolutely.

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You know, they're not feeling well, or they can have you thought one of their annual leaves. Yeah, absolutely. You can, you know, be productive or night and then rest in the desert, right? Yep, definitely take a day off if you can. Yeah, that thought we're gonna come up cut to a commercial break. So stay there. We'll be back very soon and going on what we were talking about within Jamal, that we plenty of our sponsors where you can donate some money to and in the commercial break. If you have any questions for our beautiful sister. Please hit up the comment section below in the live feeds and we will have those questions answered online. See you guys see.

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Welcome back to cinema like Amara Portola Hill Valley ghetto with this inspiring and revamping episode of the ladies of clue TV. We're here with system de melodien.

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Sis, thank you for being here again. And you will come straight back into it. But I have a question to ask you. Yeah, and I it's a little bit embarrassing. I suppose we shouldn't be embarrassed as we're amongst friends.

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Women obviously can't time their menstrual cycles in the last 10 days. Yeah. What are some advice that you can give to our sisters on how to get the most benefit out of the last 10 days? If they're not able to pray? Yeah, sure. So just to mention to a lot of people aren't aware, or they asked me this question, could you actually take some medication to stop your menstrual menstrual cycle, because you know, you want to get the most at least 10 days. So you can actually it's actually allowed permissible.

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As long as you know that that's not going to be a health risk, like you need to consult your doctor. So like, take a pill and make sure you take the days Well, you can get different types of medications, but like, for example, is one called premium. That actually will completely stop your menses, okay, if you but you need to just check that that's suitable for you. People have different health conditions. She's not a doctor, and she's not No, I'm not trying to be a doctor.

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Everything from under the collar? No, I'm not gonna do this go to make sure that our viewers, it's just that you don't do that. That's fine. I mean, like, at the end of the day, Allah Subhana Allah created you with that and you know, you don't have to go against your your nature, that's that's fine, you know. So if you are not able to pray you still, you know, Brittany to realize that this is a night for worship, you know, and if you look at the Hadith of the prophets that are longer sound like I should tells us that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam when these 10 nights would come, that he would hear later that he would, you know, make his night alive with worship. It doesn't specifically

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say that it has to be only Salah. Alright, so therefore, you know, you can do any type of worship, like I am of the view that it's fine to recite the Quran as long as you don't touch it, like with your, you know, directly with your hands. So I have the view that it's fine. If when revised revised Khurana in that night. Could you wear gloves? Yeah, you could wear gloves? Okay, if you have an English translation of the Quran, that's not considered to be the most harsh because a lot of revert to ask me what about if they just want an English translation or someone has anything that's got like half Arabic in half another language? There's nothing wrong with touching that directly. It's

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only the Arabic most half. Okay. Okay. So we shouldn't touch that directly. But so, okay, so you can recite or revise the Quran according to that opinion, right? Besides that, you've got lots of cards, you can say, there's so much as card like, get your, you know, the fortress of a Muslim, get it out, you know, going through the different car, recite, you know, say a lot of those, you know, learning a lot do it as much as you can let in a law.

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You know, it's panelo and hamdulillah. We're learning a law or law, or, you know, just lots of they keep your tongue What's her tongue? Yes. Tonight, some sort of car in that night, you know, is listening to the same benefit as reading, I would say to you, again, see, like what I'm trying to say to you, if you want the maximum benefit, so you want to be doing proactive dates, where you're actually using the limbs of your body, or your your, you know, your tongue to worship along with your limbs. It's about Okay, isn't it? Yeah, we wanted to enter in picking up you know, imagine the profit sort of long your sternum. In these nights, he was praying so much that his feet would become

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cracked and swollen sort of long while he was so and he's past and future sins are forgiven. And we don't have that guarantee. You know what I mean? So that's what we need to we need to realize this is a time for striving. It's not a time for just lying down in bed and, and a lot of women think that because they've got their menses that now they can't do anything, just go to sleep. You understand better that you shouldn't do that, that realize this is a night for worship, you know, so, you know, stay awake, do different types of your bed, especially do I make lots of do art because this is a night of Baraka. This is

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A Night of blessing you know you've got much more chance if you're being answered in this night of the other than any other than any other night of the year and you don't know if you're going to make it to another room that's another thing that's another thing you don't even know if you're going to make it to the next Ramadan as I get older that thought it scares me and the dawn I have been very faithful that you know Allah subhanaw taala please bless me with another Ramadan because I feel like I haven't been doing enough worship because we've been here a lot. And I have seven children. So I'm hoping that I can go home and take everything that you've said today into advice and yeah, instead

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of planning Shawn like you're proactive as you get older In my opinion, I feel like my dog when I'm breaking my fast every night this month has been May Allah bless me with another Ramadan May I receive the blessings of another mo de la may be able and healthy enough to be able to fast another Ramadan Mamma mia panelizer for me, I kind of reflect on the last days of fasting, you know, prior years and you know that last break of fast you get really emotional. Yeah. And you don't want to have regret. Yeah, you know, I remember certain times where I've kind of gone Oh, I wish I had done more. It's my site that I What can I do? It's too late or the

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regret the last Tango you know, Chris stayed up for a length of cut that I could have done the odd night I could have done at Cowell was doing things in the house. You can be like as mothers we've got responsibilities. So while you're washing the dishes, for example. Yeah, of course. While you're hanging in the washing do Ascot while you're looking after the kids climbing the kids a tree. It's not limited to certain times. Yes. This night. I really recommend people do Toba. Okay. One of the main things you should do after Dwyer is Toba to Allah like sincere repentance and I mean, really get it out of yourself. Like really go through your life really paint. Look at yourself, look at

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your heart. Think about the diseases that come in your heart, whether it's hatred, jealousy, bad feelings, you know, showing off Ria loving dunya too much hardness of heart. You know, like all these are diseases, you know, that build up for you. So roll and roll out and ask Allah subhanaw taala to forgive, forgive and forgive. And yes, these nights, you can think about it as like a spiritual wash for your soul. That's what this is about, like, people now pay 1000s of dollars to go on spiritual retreats. But all have given us this spiritual retreat for free free, but we don't

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know how to take advantage of it. Yes, and people are not doing that, like so. And don't forget that to add that the profits that are loaded into Asia, it's very important and don't just say one say many many times repeated over and over again. allama indicar fool on to him laugh or fart one knee, say over and over again. Allah Verily, you are the most pardoning you love to pardon. So pardon me, you've got a really big Allah. This is about like, you know, it's not hard. It's it's, it's simple. You know, you could do it all day long. I mean, yeah, for the viewers, especially in the night. So what I would suggest if people can do this, pray you're totally right. Sit down and read Quran for a

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while, then do some adkar then as it comes to Ben about two o'clock in the morning, get up and start praying again. Okay, you're going to really push yourself this is about really pushing yourself more than you normally do. Right? As you come towards, you know, early morning before school, really start like making lots of do are calling upon Allah your rock man, your man, your Rahim, your food, your food, I call upon Allah Spanner by his beautiful names, and then make Toba like and say a llama in a car for one, two hibbeler for five one me and say over and over again. And really big a loss of confidence, forgive you, your love make me from the people who, you know, I say

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My face looks terrible.

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You know, you're not give us genital footballs, you're gonna think like, you know what you're doing now? Think about on Yama, Yama. What are you gonna want from your heart on your mahkamah from Omaha is that you're not going to be able to ask that on your mock reamaze so you need to ask it now. You know, you need to put your order in now you get me put the order in now because that's what is going to be safe for yoneyama pm.

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So that's what these Knights are about. So yeah.

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It just reminds us how human we are. We forget the way we do because we can regret like we all gonna in the end, we're all gonna look back and think why didn't I do that? Why didn't I do that? You know what I mean? So it's about taking the opportunity now when you've got it and Sharla because we don't know what we're going to be accountable for and what we're taking with us and so that's right. Isn't there Hadith that says that if we could come back we would do everything differently? Absolutely. If you had the if you had the chance. I mean, there's nobody's not gonna you know, wish they did. They did more. I mean, yeah, so so Panama like

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Just make the most of it and make up for that might as well make a big deal out for the oma because like a lot of people are suffering they're going through hard times and we've got to think what not just about soldier you know make a lot of dirt for the oma to make

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the hardship you know I'm going to stick to them as Sajid returns back to Hajj and Umrah like it's a big chance we went, No one will be going to hide this year alone, and maybe only some certain people will be going and it's such a scary thought to think that there's no one worshipping in the Kaaba right now. There are.

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Yeah, just a limited amount like because obviously, it would be very careful, you can't have big

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is that a sign? Well, no, he everything is unnecessary. I mean, everything we're going through, generally, you know what I mean? The changes in society that break down the facade, you know, the corruption, it's all it's all and I met, you know, I mean, so, you know, 111 Platinum, that was beautiful reminders, they're always important, important. And you do as soon as you hear reminders.

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You do

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have a man of course, that's what yeah, that reflection needs. You know, what advice I'd like to hear and I think maybe some of our viewers, Ramadan and and I think we all go back to a normal life, we should continue continue reciting apps, you know, find a place where you can maybe go with your kids and listen to her daddy, you know, on the weekend or a Thursday night or some there's a lot of organizations as they can Mama's There's your May, there's lots of places, but when when it's open again, inshallah Yeah, he does supposed to be happy day. But I always find that quite sad. Because I do feel like oh, my gosh, did I get the most benefit out of the month? Did I do those like, so then

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I feel that guilt. And I feel like I've missed something. And I get very, very sad. Panama, Panama. So people have to remind, think about think about Ramadan as your life. But just like, Ramadan goes so fast. That's how fast your life is going. And just like when Ramadan leaves, and you think, Oh, I didn't do enough, that's exactly the same feeling even worse, when you're going to be living this life, what have I done. So you've got to take advantage of these times Allah has given us or, you know, unfortunately, people can leave with a lot of regret. So we try to warn them beforehand, so that you don't have to go through that. That's what other one does, as well, you know, he, you know,

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and prophets service, and he came to warn us about all of these things. So that is a wrap from Allah. Mercy that we didn't have to, you know, go through any sort of pain or regret, you know, then you know, what, I have this image Subhanallah of how the mother aka descend down to Panama, you know, when you think about it, it's just really, yeah, heavenly, you know, because you're not allowed to pathologize the malayaka spend so much time up in heaven, and attending to Earth in you somewhat feel something heavenly his kind of touched you, this will tell you something amazing. There's no authentic hadith that says, the amount of angels that descend on the day on the night of

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dedicata is more than the number of pebbles on the earth. Yeah, imagine that everywhere. It's just, you know, like, subpoena law. So that's that. There's no time for evil at that time panel. Yes. It's just the angels are all node and

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it's just, it's just the blessing and the rahama that's coming down. And like, that's why the believer will feel sort of like a happiness, a sweetness, a calmness, not to say there's no there's no evil anywhere else in the world. It can be evil in other places, but we're talking about in general, like the way the believer will feel, because, you know, you've got that sense of the hammer coming down the Sakina. Yeah, well,

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system. Jamal, thank you so much for coming on our panel online. Is there anything that you'd like to say to our viewers before we go?

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Well, I guess it's just really everybody please make the most of this month like I asked a lot of panda that what I've said is beneficial tonight, and that might have you know, somebody who's been seeing they're not really paying enough attention to what's going on, they might really start to think about, you know what, I feel like you know what I mean?

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We spend a lot of time online.

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We spend a lot of time doing passive activities, but this is not a you know, this is not a time for that this is a time to really strive as much as you can you know, as I said, Show Allah your sincerity. How much do you want? JOHN asked you so sincerely, sincerely from your heart? How much do you want john now? How much do you want to be with Allah in the next life that yearning? How much do you want to save yourself from the Hellfire? Like, how many sins have you got? It's time to repent before it's too late. You know, change your ways like Ramadan should be a time for transformation, transforming internally and externally. We understand like Ramadan should affect you. It shouldn't

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be just, we eat you know, we fast and we pray and then we can leave Ramadan, and we're just the same as what we were before Ramadan came. There's nothing in it for us then. Yeah, yes. Thanks so much, sir. You're welcome. And we wish you all the best for your last 10 days and

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as well.

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Likewise, we all need to not only do our show loss and we're going to see you back on KHOU TV Sean's not your first time being on the couch I will see you back again

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mazing assessor honestly like every time I hear your lectures I just there a benefit like he just asked you I always thought my heart races you know that that that affects you really do as a male I use us in shoreline I mean for his we asked a lot to make you know give us sincerity and accept the small amount of deeds that we can do on Sharla yeah but maler would you for inviting me here I really appreciate you too much I love you for the sake of a long we'd love

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you to

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tala to get us gather us all in genuine

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will May Allah save us from the fire of makers from those who are lost saved from the fire and this month I shall lay out on allama miniata Charla thank you and that's it for us tonight for another episode of the ladies of glue TV tune in on Monday night inshallah we will have the May we will be having the amazing and Musa Khan, who will be here to talk about all things the last 10 days inshallah to inspire you all. Until then,

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take what has been said today on our episode and inshallah put it into practice and we will be seeing you on Monday and till then Salaam Alaikum permalink. Allah He will but to get to sound when I complain