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It's working. Yeah. Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa salatu salam ala Abdullah who are solely Nabina Muhammad while early he was sacked me he H marine and Mother mashallah nice to see that. We have a nice group of

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students here today. And in sha Allah hooter, Allah. Today we're gonna do something a little bit new, we're going to keep on our topic of Tafseer. But we're going to do a surah that I personally think is very, very important.

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Okay, we're going to do a surah I think it's very important.

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Before we do that, sort of though, I have to ask a couple of questions about generally about the 10 days of their hedger because as you know, we are in

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which they have the ledger is it today

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third, so the first day was first day, second day was Friday. Saturday was the third today's the fourth right? Fourth day of the ledger. You know, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Ma'am in am in Amarillo, sila houfy Hiner haben in Allah Illallah Manhattan, Al Asha, there are no days in which doing good deeds are more beloved to Allah than these 10 days. So it's the best 10 days for doing good deeds in the whole year. So you guys need to make sure that you take advantage of the time in sha Allah. And no doubt that Eid is coming up as well. Adel Adhara what's the day before eight called?

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Yes Mohammed Yom Arafa

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yo more alpha

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this is the day when Allah frees the most people from the Hellfire

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mammon, Yeoman,

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XO and your article Allahu fi he mean anatomy to me out of that we'll come back call us all Allahu Allah, he was wa sallam, there is no day in which Allah frees more people

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from the fire than the day of alpha. What do we do on the day of alpha? It's going to come on Friday

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it's going to come on Friday what do we do on Yamaha?

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Who else knows apart from Mohammed girls

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do if you're in height? Yes. You make the point about if you're not in hedgewars The main thing you're going to do in the day of alpha

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five fasting?

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Yeah. Fasting the Prophet sighs him said I tested for Allah Allah. I expect from Allah and you can feel a sinner and let your cobbler who will Senator Letty Vida ComiCon I expect from Allah that Allah will wipe out the sins of the past year and the next year.

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And on the day of Eid

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what do people do on this day of Eid? Adel out ha What's the main thing that the main act of worship after the Eid prayer what do the people do

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you yes no

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sacrifice the animal for suddenly the bigger one have they sacrifice that old here the animal very good. And we did some hot press on that topic recently. So you guys inshallah maybe you heard Did you have a question movie?

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Sorry.

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Go on.

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Zack ha. On either out ha. Not specifically is a car just comes when it's due. Right? Like whenever you need to pay as a car you need to pay but this is the best 10 days of the year for giving charity. Yes, Muhammad

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being kind to people in all the 10 days of the ledger. Very good. That's a very good that you said that Muhammad because you led me on to a very important topic, which is our topic for today. And that is the Tafseer of Surah Tullahoma as

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the Tafseer of surah. Al Hamza

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who wants to recite the surah for me from the boys.

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So many volunteers I don't know who to pick. Actually nobody put their hand up

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I know it but I forgot the first idea alone. If you forgot the last idea, it's okay with the first idea you're gonna you're not gonna get very far. If you forgot the first idea. Okay, we have gotten them have a top

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seven

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My

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accent mashallah did very well Excellent.

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Way lonely Coonley houmas It Lomasa and there's a reason I chose the surah. And when we finish the story, you're going to tell me what the reason is Waylon Lee Cooley home as a team Lomasa. Okay.

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The word whale. When it comes in the Quran, it means destruction. And Allah is threatening that the person who does this is going to be destroyed. Or it means a valley in Johanna.

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Somebody is going to go to jahannam who does this? So that tells us that what's coming up now is a serious sin, right? What's going to come up now is not a small thing. It's going to be very, very serious, very bad. And we know it's going to be bad because Allah said that the person who does it is going to be destroyed.

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And Allah said that the person who does it is going to be in a valley in Jahannam in the hellfire.

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What is this thing that if you do it, you're going to be destroyed? Or if you do it, you're going to be in a valley and the Hellfire Lee Cooley who? Mazetti Lomasa

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Do you have an idea?

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No, it isn't. That is a reason to go to the Hellfire for sure. But that's not it's not the what is mentioned in the Surah here.

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Okay, so the girls got it right back by being talking badly about people making fun of people behind their back.

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This is Al Hemsedal Williams.

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And Allah azza wa jal said, if you do it, you're going to be destroyed and you are at a risk of being from the people of the Hellfire.

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Al Hemsedal Well, LEMs and these two words, they are different types of backbiting, or making fun of someone or speaking badly about someone. Some of the scholars said, one of them is when you do it with your actions. And one is when you do it with your tongue. How could you for example, backed by somebody with your actions? How did how could that even be possible? Yes. And us

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pointing at them behind their back. Yeah. making faces Yeah. Or even with your eyes? Yeah, it could be like that. What do you think?

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mimicking them yeah. Like make trying to copy them making face the same face that they make? Yeah. What do you think Muhammad? mocking them but how with your actions and you can mock them with words, but how would you mock them with actions?

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Making a face at them, okay, making faces at them and stuff like that? Okay, that's one thing. I'll hems the other one is with your words. What is backbiting? So when asked this one to the girls, what is backbiting?

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Not bad the girls got nearly there. They said saying something bad about someone behind their back that you wouldn't say to their face. Even though it's true.

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They made it a bit more complicated than it needs to be. What do you think? Let's see who has who heard for the Go ahead.

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So talking behind someone's back, okay, talking behind someone's back. The Prophet SAW Selim, he mentioned what Backbiting is. He said Backbiting is saying something about your brother that they wouldn't like saying something about your Muslim brother or sister that they wouldn't like I want to split the two of you up because what lies is kind of cute that you kind of poking each other and stuff but it's also disturbing my class so don't do it.

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Now okay, they want the again, they're not going to do none of that. If not, I know this sounds okay. Yeah, at least I literally I was not going to do after that.

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Okay.

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Saying something about your brother.

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Saying something about your brother or sister that they don't like? The Sahaba said O Messenger of Allah. What is

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If it's true, he said, If it's true, you did backbiting. And if it's not true, you did slander. So let's just say that you said something about someone is completely true. completely true what you said 100% True.

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But you said it behind their back.

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And they wouldn't like you to say it. This is backbiting. What do a lot of people make a mistake with? A lot of people think that backbiting has to be a lie.

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That's not backbiting. Backbiting is not a lie, a lie. You call it slander. Backbiting is when you tell the truth about someone. My disguise so annoying, and it's true, they are annoying. But if you say that behind their back, that's backbiting. If you make a face behind their back is backbiting, if you point at them or you make gestures at them is backbiting anything you say when they're not able to defend themselves as backbiting? What about even speaking in a different language, that's a problem we have a lot of Muslims as we speak a lot of different language. A lot of people here speak different languages. Sometimes when you want to make fun of someone, you speak in your own language.

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And that person can't understand. You say I look at his face, you making fun of that person, in a language they can't understand is backbiting even if they're in front of you, because they can't understand what you're saying. Some people and this is where the girls went a bit wrong. Some people say it doesn't matter. As long as you say to their face. Some people think it's okay. As long as you say to their face. So you say to their face, are you Allah you are, you are like this, you are like that. And then you sit behind their back, and someone says don't back bite.

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You say I'm not backbiting until I said it to his face. This is also included in Alhamdulillah lamps and humans were Lomasa. Some of the scholars said it means pointing and it means talking behind someone's back. Some of them said one of them is when you say to their face, and one of them is when you say it behind their back. So you can't even say stuff to someone's face, even to someone's face. You can't say something that would hurt them. Even if it's true, even if it's true.

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Sometimes it's true. But even if it's true, you can't say it to their face, or behind their back in a way that hurts people. Even if it's true. What's the punishment? Either a valley in Jahannam or that Allah will destroy the person who does it? In this world? What are some of the punishments that come from backbiting in this world? I'm not talking about in the hereafter I'm talking about now in this life Girls, what do you think?

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So what would happen if you've got back to the person what you said about them?

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What would be the outcome in this life in this world? What would be the bad things that could happen from backbiting?

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So what you what you said girls is perfectly true. It goes back to the person and then what happens? It ruins your relationship with them. You ruin your friendship with them. Now you lost your friend. Because of what because you're being silly when they were not there. Or he's like this. He's like that she's like this she's like that. And then you lost a good friend because of it. What else can happen? What else could happen? worse than losing a friend? Yes. Have you ever do you think

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that if you get caught like what like seriously Okay, I got caught but like what's the what can happen?

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You could lose a friend right? Your friend can just say look, you're not even a you know, you could even lose all your friends because if you do it to one person, you're going to do it to the other and if you do to the other you're going to do it to the other one. And eventually everybody hates everyone What do you think

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you get punished by Allah definitely. But I'm thinking about apart from getting punished by Allah like what could happen what's one of the worst things that can happen yes

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that's from Allah though right? Like a small chance of going to gender that's true but it's from Allah I'm talking about just in this world. Yes Muhammad.

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Or they like for example, Allah made something bad happened to them in this life. Yeah, it could happen. There's something bad happened to them in this life here.

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That's what I was looking for that's exactly what I was looking for you 100% Right people start back by in you they do the same to you so you think that oh it's funny when your friend is not there are you know that Muhammad Muhammad I've seen him that Muhammad is like this now Muhammad is like that whatever it is you start seeing all these bad things about him but you don't know you don't know

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that when you're not there they do the same thing to you. They say you Abdullah you're like this and like that and everyone is backed by everyone else what's even worse than that? What do you think girls? Even worse than that?

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worse than losing your friends and worse than them doing it to you

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see if the girls have an answer

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to know I feel like we lost the internet connection

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goes You got an answer

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I'm not hearing the answer from them maybe it's connection is not working or maybe they don't have an answer. What do you think Anis

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sorry.

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Okay.

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Anna said people making dua against you. I agree in that could also be a very bad thing like the person who get angry and say May Allah not give you anything good in this life? Or someone could get angry and say May Allah destroy your life and then that I could come true but but something even worse

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Yeah, but here the person did a bad to you did something bad to you. So the do I would go to them? something worse than all of that? Yeah.

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mug and stuff like that. You could Yeah, somebody could make the eye against you like that. But worse, worse than all of that. Yeah, Anna's gone.

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Okay, Allah give all your good deeds to the other person and all the sins to you. But that's a punishment from Allah. Right? What did you have? What do you think?

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Revenge Yeah, the person could take revenge on you. But even worse than that, I think the worst one than all of those things that you mentioned, is that it becomes so common in the community that everybody does it. And suddenly, there's nobody left that trust anyone else. And the brotherhood among the Muslims completely breaks down. People completely lose all of their Islamic Brotherhood in the masjid. People don't trust each other. People start to fight against each other. People don't like each other people start not talking to each other, and fighting each other. And the whole Masjid becomes like that, because everybody is backbiting everybody else. And that everyone is

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having secret meetings with everybody else, right and secret conversations with everybody else.

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And they say like that. They're pointing at one person at a scene.

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And then the other person comes and sits this one over there until all of the Brotherhood breaks down. And people don't trust each other anymore. And people don't trust their friends anymore. And people don't want to come to classes anymore or don't want to come to the masjid anymore. Because they say I'm not going to come to the masjid. I don't want to come to the masjid anymore. Because everybody is talking about everybody else. And everyone is backbiting everybody else and I don't trust them. And that means that all of the Muslims all our strength goes and we become like the lone sheep. If a wolf is going to eat the sheep, which sheep does it eat? It doesn't eat the sheep that

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is all together. It eats the sheep this by itself.

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In a cooler zip, minute of animal kharsia The wolf eats the sheep that's by itself. And so everyone becomes by themselves because nobody can trust anybody else and everyone makes everyone else hurt.

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And everyone hurts everyone else's feelings. This is why Allah made it haram. Yes.

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Some people like don't come to school because

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everyone hates them. Yeah, people don't come to school because of bullying, backbiting, people saying bad things about them is a very, very bad habit. Don't get me wrong. Sometimes people do wrong things. And sometimes you have to say about those wrong things. So now my question is When could backbiting be justified?

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When might it be allowed to say something behind someone's back? That's true.

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Girls, what do you think?

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If it matters okay if it would affect Okay, you guys are getting close. What do you think when the person does not make it

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You know, even if they don't mind you seeing it, it's still backed by.

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Because you don't know. People say they don't mind. Right, like people who everybody says I don't mind. I don't mind. I don't mind. But inside it hurts. What do you think?

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About you, then you tell someone else what they do?

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Nearly someone says something bad to you go tell someone else nearly you're not far away. Yeah. What do you think?

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Go on, give them both.

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So if it's good, it wouldn't be backbiting. And if it's in front of them, you're not allowed anywhere because it comes under the surah Homas. Our Lomasa

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What do you think?

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So when does Allah give you permission? When does Allah give you permission? Yes. anus

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when doing openly doing something bad, did you have an idea?

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Okay, that's a good example. You gave a good example, like telling a teacher. That's a good example. Because if you tell a teacher what somebody did, it's still backbiting. Right? Right. You're saying about your brother, something they wouldn't like behind their back? But why is he allowed to tell the teacher why

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you're making it more complicated. The girls making it more complicated than it has to be because it affects other people. And there's a simple one, there's a four letter word that you need.

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Clean four letter words, please. Yeah.

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No bad words. Yeah.

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Yeah, go on.

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By eating

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normally, you get introduced to complicated, yes. And

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not only too complicated to get going.

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Okay, you're right, but you need a, I'm looking for a word, a four letter word, a need, when there's a need that can't be done any other way. For example, you go to the court, and the judge says, What did you see? Did you see this man steal that person's car?

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I can't say anything, because it's backbiting.

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Yeah, you can't do that why you have to say what you saw, because there's a need. There is no other way to finish that need. There's no other way to do it, except you have to say what you saw. You have to be honest about what you saw. So when there's a problem between you and someone and you go to your teacher, you tell them, there's no way to solve the problem except that, so you have to go to them. And you have to be honest with them about what happened. So when there's a need, and there's no other way to solve it, yeah. Then you can say, for example, what about marriage? If someone came and said, I'm thinking, to get my daughter married to this guy,

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and I heard you his best friend. What do you know about him? So I'm sorry, constantly because his backbiting but then the whole life? She might be miserable because she married someone who's a bad guy, but you can't say because it's backbiting. No, in this case, you're allowed to say, look, he's a lovely brother, but I wouldn't recommend it for marriage because of this or this or this. He has some bad habits. He gets angry. He fights with people. He plays with his water bottle in classrooms, teachers talking, you know, stuff like that. Yeah. So anyways, Inshallah, the, if there's a really important reason, then you have to do it. But sometimes, there is an important reason. But sometimes

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we trick ourselves, we think, Oh, it's okay. Because I'm, you know, I'm really upset about it. So I want to tell somebody, you got to be careful about that. Yes.

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Both

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you first. Know first, the one in the front and then the one in the back. Okay.

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But

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your friend

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is

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telling you.

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Okay, so now you came up with the next question I was going to ask for for someone to listen to your friend behind Yes.

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Can you see?

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Yeah, if you had to tell something you saw, like you saw a crime. Like you saw someone burning a house or stealing a car or beating somebody up or stabbing somebody or killing somebody or you have to tell what you saw. You have to. But now the question came to your question, how do you deal with backbiting when it happens? Now, this is really serious because not easy. This is the hardest question I'm going to ask you today. How do you deal with it? You're in a group of your friends and your friends start backbiting someone who is not you

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they're with you. How do you deal with it? It's very hard to Allah. God

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there's nobody there. Except you. Your friends are saying something bad about someone, like not really bad. We've seen someone, your friends, like just say, Oh, this guy's like this. He's bad. And you like you are there? What shall you do? How can you deal with it? When you can tell them to stop? I'm like, you can tell them what's gonna affect you and your life. So you can tell them okay, what you learned in the class, you can see, Paula, don't speak badly about him. Even if you want to be honest say, Look, if you want to say look, go to his face and tell him you got a problem. If he's been bad to you go and say to him, but don't sit behind his back. Because it's cowardly to sit

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behind someone's back. Right? It's like you don't have the guts to you're not brave enough to say to his face, but don't say it behind his back. Don't say stuff about people behind their back. That's one option. What about if they just start making fun of you?

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What's your next option? Movie in what do you think?

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stick up for yourself. Right Hook left hook.

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Yeah, like

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at least give him a chunk? You know, see how we gentle? No, no, God, be honest.

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So you could say that in the Hereafter, you're gonna get in trouble. And like, you just like say, Okay, it's your grave, you're gonna go in your own grave, you do your own thing. But what should you do before that and you should distance yourself from it, right? Don't be a part of it. Don't get involved. Say listen to one. If you're gonna make fun of this guy, and you're gonna talk behind people's back. I'm going, I'm not going to stay here. I'm not going to be here. When you guys are talking about someone. Yeah, you can say to look at your own grave. You know you're going into it's your own problem. But I don't want to be here when you're going to talk about somebody. If you're

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going to not going to stop, I'm going to go and I won't come back until you change and start talking about something different. You could tell the person but sometimes if you tell the person you might make it worse, right? So sometimes it's a good idea to tell them but sometimes it's not a good idea to tell them because sometimes you can make it worse when you tell them yes last idea.

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You can go first way when the event time comes yes

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very good. This is excellent. Why don't you say something good. Listen, why don't you say something good about the person instead when they seem bad or he's really bad? Or he's so stupid. He saw like this or he looks like this his face is like why can't you see something nicer I see that he's such a nice brother. I love this brother. He's so nice to say bad things about him too. He I liked this guy's really nice and what you said about him is not nice don't say it. So you could say something good instead of the person saying something bad Okay, it's time for that and after that Danny Sharla we talk a little bit more about how to repent from backbiting

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hola

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I'm going

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to Show

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Are you wanting to

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fire me

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lot more of you guys

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try to termos allotted five or two moments along with

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a birthmark on more than a lady. Right. Okay. We said that l Houma is our Lomasa it also includes insulting someone to their face as well. It's not just Riba. Even when you insult someone to their face, it's also called Al hems. Or it's called a lens when you insult someone to their face, so even if you go to someone's face and you bully someone or you make fun of them to their face, this is also included in the Surah. So now my question is, how are you going to repent? How do you make up from Riba? So the girls are going to tell me this one? How do you make up for committing Riba? If you realize you did backbiting against somebody? How do you make up? So the first thing is that you

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repent to Allah. Estelle fear Allah, you ask Allah's forgiveness, because you did something, maybe you had a loan, you did something against Allah, right? You did something against your brother, but you did something against Allah as well. So you say I still feel Rola. And you make intention never ever to do it again.

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And you keep away from what caused it. But now the girl said, you have to say sorry to the person. Okay, girls, do you have to say to the person what you said? I said to them, your lessons are so boring. Do you have to say that? No. Yeah, you don't have to say, what can you have to say to the person? You can say to them, listen, that I said something about you? And I'm sorry, I just got, I didn't mean it. And I didn't mean to upset you. But I said something, and I thought maybe you wouldn't like it. So forgive me.

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So forgive me, you could say like that, right? That's one thing. Okay, what else? What about if you can't speak to the person? What about the person has left? What about if the person if you spoke to them, they will get so angry that they will do what will being said and just punch you right there? And then

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yeah, what was that? What would it be like that? Like how can you get out of that situation?

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Yeah, what you suggested is correct.

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You could say something good about them in the place where you said something. But so you had said something bad about Mohammed Tim's classes are so boring and so long. And then you could come and say Mohammed Tim's classes are really good. Mashallah, we enjoy it so much. Because they like that. Yeah. So when you said something bad, you could change it and say something? Good. What else could you do? What if you can't see that person gone from you? They disappeared, like you can't find them anymore.

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Or maybe you said something bad about someone who lives very far away. You said something bad about a person who lives in a completely different country and you can't use or have any contact with them. You don't have phone number you don't have email to have any way. You don't have social media, you can't get ahold of them. What you're going to do instead

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you don't see them.

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What do you think?

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Do do me make dua for them? Yeah, at least give sadaqa for them, make to ask for them. Do some, you know, do some good that comes back to them. give charity for them. Make to ask for them. Ask Allah to forgive them. Yeah.

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What else can you do as well, like what you said, Mention them in a good place when you mentioned them in a bad place, mentioned them again, good. Don't be someone who helps other people to do backbiting. Don't be someone who helps other people to do backbiting and don't be someone who gets involved in it at all.

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If you're gonna say something to someone,

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say to them, but don't say in a bad way, say in a nice way in a calm way in front of them.

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But don't say in a bad way. How then should you give a maybe we'll come to circle as of next, or we won't do next week because next week, we will have a break because of eight, but maybe we'll have two weeks break because maybe I'll be away. So

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That's not even backbiting. That's just silly. Don't do that. Okay, yes

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about a Muslim or non Muslim. Okay, very good. Is it backbiting? If you say to a non Muslim, or about a non Muslim, the answer is no, but it's still wrong. It's not backbiting because the prophets I said the cooker a hardcopy may Accra saying something about your Muslim brother that he doesn't like, but it's still wrong. Why is it wrong to back by a non Muslim

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it could come back to you okay, good.

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They're gonna think bad of Islam. That's exactly the answer. They're gonna think badly of Islam. They're gonna see you Muslims just backed by people and slander people and cheat people and lie to people and beat people up.

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That was your solution. Stop the back by just say I'm gonna stop. I'm just gonna start I'm just gonna go in there.

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Yellow.

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What if?

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Like, how?

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Like, if you said something you didn't?

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Like, explain to me again?

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Yeah,

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as a joke, but you didn't like you didn't mean it. Then it comes into backbiting because you're saying something they wouldn't like, even if you're joking. So it's true that even joking comes underneath under the what we've been talking about.

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Sometimes will Allah people laugh, but they hurt inside? And you guys know that you felt it before? Yeah. Like sometimes you're with your friends. And everyone makes fun of you. And you laugh like, Good joke. Good joke, but actually hurt you a lot. And you go back and you all day you're thinking all this not good. My friends think this about me. I don't try. I don't trust them anymore. It's not nice. Well, yes.

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You know how many examples? So but

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right.

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After you said something nice about actually, it wasn't true. It does still okay. Now you're asking a very good question. Are you allowed to say something nice about the person? That isn't true? I would say don't say something that isn't true. But say something general, say something general, like oh Allah bless them. You know, everyone has got good in them. Something like that. But don't say for example, masha Allah He prays Qiyamah Lael, 20 raka every night.

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And you're like, No, he doesn't.

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But say something that is like, generally good. Like Allah bless him. Everyone's got good in them. Look at the good in people don't look at the bad and people like that. The most important thing when it comes to Backbiting is to remember the mirror. What do I mean? Every time you do it, it's like somebody's doing it to you. It's like you're looking at yourself in the mirror when you see your brother you should be like you're looking at yourself in the mirror. If you wouldn't want someone to do it to you don't do it to other people. So we said why you don't liquidly houmas that in Lomasa this surah tells us that the person makes a habit of it because Alhamdulillah lamps here at home as

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well Lomasa it the word it means they do it a lot. So it tells that people it becomes a habit right? Because it becomes a habit everybody knows when you get by yourself wants to what you start doing when you get a group of people together. The first thing we started to talk about everybody else? Well as brother I don't know what's he doing? I don't know why he came and you get the habit of saying things about people. So don't don't keep that habit break the habit of speaking about other people. That's very, very important. Yes, Mohamed?

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Yes, it is true. It's like eating the dead flesh not eating the live I mean eating like if you found your friends dead body. Just took a knife on a bit off his armor.

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Okay, to more you would hate it. That's exactly right. What you said is exactly right. Allah azza wa jal said

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are you Hebrew I had to come a call Allah He He may tend to carry two more. Would you like to eat the flesh of your dead brother? No you wouldn't you would hate you is disgusting. You would hate it. So don't backbite that's very important. Yes movie. You may.

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Okay, now we continue with the surah for just to one IMO and then we're going to stop and let the Gemma I'm Alan. What I did a lady Gemma I'm Allah what I did.

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The one who gathered the wealth and counted it. Someone who

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gathered their wealth and counted it girls. Tell me what's wrong with gathering your wealth and counting it?

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Surely I'm allowed to have a savings account right? I'm allowed to save money

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okay, so the girl said the word Gemini here means hoarding wealth. What does holding wealth mean? Boys? What does that word mean? It's a bit difficult word. Yes suffer.

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Like keeping it or like keeping it often like keeping it away from people not spending for anything good. Just making piles and piles of it for the sake of it hoarding wealth and ready Gemma? I'm Alan. What I did and counting it what's wrong with counting your money? Surely you allowed to check your bank balance? How much money in my account was wrong with counting your money?

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What kind of counting your money is wrong here? There's two answers.

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Got

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that that's one counting your money so you can show off. So the person is there in front of all the poor people poor people are there? It said, you know, the guy drives up in a very simple car. Yes, a simple car. They might simple car as a simple car, old car drives up. The other guy's like, yeah, today I just bought three cars.

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bank balances over a couple million. I'm gonna buy a house tomorrow. And the poor guy sitting in front of me saying I can't even find any food to eat.

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He says are you can't find food to eat. Yesterday, I ordered my food flown in by private jet from Switzerland.

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And then I didn't eat it afterwards.

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The problem is not what he did. The problem is he showing off in front of the people. He's counting our data, who he's counting all the money he's got and all of the rich things he's got and all of the things in front of the poor people to make them feel bad. And to make him feel good. What's the other kind of counting wealth which is not allowed?

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Could be haram money. That's good. I wasn't thinking of it. But it's a good answer. It could be any Ida Elmaleh Allah is counting all the Haram money that he had more than that. Yes, Mohammed.

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Good, this is the answer. He's counting his money because he wants more. Like he's just busy with that. He doesn't pray doesn't fast doesn't give sadaqa the only thing he cares about is counting his money. Do you think people are like that? Or you see people like that they have the you know stock market on their phone their bank balance everything. Okay, today Yeah, I just made some more money. Yeah, just made few more. Few more 1000 Yeah, few more thought. And all day no Salah nor sadaqa no goodness, no praying no being kind to people just all day counting the money they have. And levy Gemma and Milan what I did.

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Yes, Abu anima Allah Who ladder, he thinks his money is going to make him live forever. And how many people are like that they think that the money they have is going to make them live forever. They think they're never ever going to die. One question for the girls that we're going to finish up. And my question is, who is the most famous person probably in history in Islamic history?

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Who

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cannot finish the question before you answer it? Can I please my allowed to finish the question? Who

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was so rich and he thought his money was going to make him last forever? And then the earth swallowed him up?

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The girls got the answer right. Boys do you know

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not fear um, but very close to around

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Qarun.

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In Cardona Academy

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was from the people of Musa Baba Ali him, he was from the people of Musa and he had so much money that he used to hire a group of strong men to carry what to carry the money know, what to do is to hire them to carry to carry the keys for his money.

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His money was locked in chests and you know, like, just the keys to his money. He had to hire a group of big strong guys to carry the keys.

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The keys were so many they couldn't lift them.

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The weak people couldn't lift them. So you had to hire a group of strong men just to carry his keys. And what happened when he thought his money was gonna last forever? for herself and Abby, he will be daddy hill up. We made the earth swallow him and his house and all of his money. Everything got swallowed into the earth and it got melted into the earth and he disappeared forever. All the money all his house all the keys

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everything he had, Allah made him Earth swallow him up and he died like that for herself and Abby he will be telling ya Cebu animal Athleta he saw his money was going to make him live forever. We have to stop the class because it's time for Salah to Lhasa. Inshallah if you had any quick questions I didn't answer you can ask me after the Salah that's what Allah made easy for me to mention Allah knows best wa salatu salam ala Nabina Muhammad while early he was so happy he