Be Careful Of What You Say

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Salam or aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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we begin

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with the praise of Allah. We praise Him, we seek his help, and we ask for his forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides, there is no one that can misguide him.

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And whoever Allah misguides there is no one that can guide him.

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And I bear witness that there is no god that deserves to be worshipped except Allah, alone, and with no partner. And I bear witness that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is the slave of Allah and His messenger. We asked Allah to exalt is mentioned and grant him peace, and to his family and his companions and all those who follow them until the last day. Or you who believe have Taqwa of Allah as he deserves for you to have Taqwa of Him and do not die except as Muslims, all mankind have Taqwa of your Lord who created you from a single soul and creative from its mate and set forth from them both many men and women and have Taqwa of Allah the one that you ask by his name, and fear Allah

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with regard to your relatives. Indeed, Allah is Ever watching over you, or you who believe have Taqwa of Allah and speak a word that is right, he will correct your deeds and forgive your sins. And whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger has indeed achieved a great success to continue the best. And the worst things in this religion, or the newly invented beliefs and practices, and all of these newly invented beliefs and practices are innovations, and all innovation is misguidance. And all misguidance is in the Hellfire as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,

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my brothers in Islam. Today we have a very important topic from the things that many people don't give it enough weight and don't take it seriously enough.

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From the hadith of more I know

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that he said, to the Messenger of Allah,

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color for cool to Allah, we're in

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a manner to Callum obey.

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He said oh prophet of Allah, are we really going to be taken to account for what we say?

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really is what we say that important.

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Of course, what we do we don't want to do something wrong, but really what we say it's not important.

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The Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, he said, Sakhalin omocha Yama why halia cook buenas f inadi. Allah woo him or call him in hausa e to alsina to him.

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He said me Your mother lose you Oh my god. Does anything else cause the people to be dragged on their faces into the fire except what they Tom said.

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This is the reason why people are dragged on their faces into jahannam because of the tongue. And that's why in this hadith

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the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam aha that he said he will call a Kufa la kochava he got hold of his tongue. And he said, Keep this in control.

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He got hold of his tongue. And he said, Keep this in control. This is what causes the people to be dragged in jahannam on their faces Is this the tongue what they say?

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And in another hurry.

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The Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said

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in the Abdullah tequila movie kalama

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he doesn't.

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In some of the hajima you look at her Bella, he doesn't think anything of it.

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He doesn't think anything of it.

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He speaks a word law you will keep her darlin. Yeah, we be happy jahannam said are in a hurry if

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he doesn't think anything of it. And he takes him into jahannam 70 years deep.

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70 years in Japan, because of one word that he said, and he didn't think law, you will keep Ihara. He didn't think it was anything important.

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How come a call us Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam, he didn't think it was anything important.

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And he puts him into jahannam 70 years deep. He falls into jahannam for 70 years, because of one word that he said that he didn't think it was important.

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And that is why my brothers today we need to remind ourselves about the importance of what we say.

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And I want to highlight just some things that we do and we say that maybe we don't think anything of it. And maybe we don't take it seriously.

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But it is something which is very serious in the sight of Allah.

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The first thing I'm going to talk about is speaking about Allah and about this religion without knowledge.

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In Nanaia Murakami soo evil fascia, one Taku Allah Allah Hema Allah tala moon,

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the shaytaan, he tells you to do evil, and he tells you to do acts of immorality.

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And he tells you to say things about Allah, that you don't know.

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Speaking about the religion of Islam, and speaking about Allah and His Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam without knowledge is mean act burial Kava, from the biggest of the major sins. And it's so easy to do. All the time we see people, he says, but the Prophet said this. And he doesn't know what the prophet said. And he doesn't know it's a hadith. He doesn't even he just heard somebody said on the street, we see so many people putting things on Facebook, about Islam, on Twitter, on whatever on Instagram about Islam, they don't have any idea if this is true or not.

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This is from the Kelly marks, that can take you into jahannam server in a hurry for 70 years deep.

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that a person sees something about Islam something about Allah, they don't have knowledge about rather, even if they are right.

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And this is worse, even if they are right, it can still take them into jahannam. So they're in a hurry for how? Because they spoke without knowledge. It doesn't matter if they got the answer right or wrong. The fact that they even spoke about it, it could be enough for this punishment to be carried out upon the person, even if their answer was correct, because they didn't know what they're saying. They didn't know it was true.

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And they said it like that.

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From the things that can take a person into jahannam from the things that they say, is lying and false testimony.

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So many times we take it so easily, to tell a lie.

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We lie in our businesses, we lie at home, we lie with our families, we lie to our friends.

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People think it is nothing to lie. And lying is a cobia I'm in Cuba, it is the norm in Islam. Lying is a very serious major sin.

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And we took it so easily to lie to people.

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For this is one of the things that we have to be very careful about with the things that our tongue says, from the things we have to be very careful about, from what our tongue says is backbiting and slander

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and backbiting is something that you say about your brother. That is true.

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And he doesn't like it and you see it behind his back. And it's true. It's not something which is a lie. It's not false. It's true. He really is like that. But you didn't say it in front of him. You said it behind his back.

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And this is like eating the flesh of your dead brother.

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Are you able to come and yeah, cool. He may tend to carry to walk does one of you want to

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eat the meat from his dead brother's body, you would hate it.

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So think about it. It's so common in the gathering to talk about people when they are not there. And it can be true if it is true it is backbiting. If it is not true, then it is slander. And that is even worse.

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From the things that we see people doing, which can take them into jahannam from the things that they see his name calling and making fun of other people.

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Yeah, yo holla Deena Amanullah is her comin, comin arsa and yaku hi Ron Minho?

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Don't let one of you make fun of another person. Maybe that other person is better than you.

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When I tell me so I'm full circle.

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Sue bill, I'll call.

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You don't call each other names. You don't make fun of people. You don't insult people.

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Bit Sally small full Sukkot battle. Imagine how terrible is it that you are a facet? After you had a man that you are an evil person after you had a man. That is what Allah told us about the person who What? insults people makes fun of people, slanders people.

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The Sally small for su vida, amen.

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So these are some things that we have to be very careful about when we speak. We don't speak about Allah without proper knowledge.

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And we don't insult other people. And we don't back by other people. And we don't slander other people. And we don't tell lies, and falsehood and false testimony. These are just some of the things which are from the sins of the tongue, from the things that a person might say. They don't think anything of it.

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Yeah, who would be happy nadie jahannam severina harissa and it takes the person 70 years into the depths of Johanna.

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The danger of these my brothers is that they are very easy seems to do.

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It's not easy to kill somebody.

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It's not easy for a person to do such a thing with their hands. But it's very, very easy to backbite it's very easy to lie. It's very easy to slander. It's very easy to say something about Islam, which is not true.

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So a person needs to remember this advice of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that he said to more Kufa Allah has control this tongue of yours.

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Because this is the thing that causes the people to be dragged on their faces into the Hellfire yarmulke akula matters my own. Well, I sell federal law howdy Molly welcome. Well, Lisa in muslimeen I mean Columbian First of all, we have fella come in who who will have a photo Rahim.

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hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen

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wa Salatu was Salam. ala Almagro ciroc maternelle al amin Nabina, Muhammad, wa ala alihi wa sahbihi h mind. We begin with the praise of Allah alone and we ask Allah to exalt the mention and grant peace to our messenger Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and to his family and to his companions.

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We have been talking about

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the seriousness of what you say.

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And that may be what you say is the biggest thing which can take a person into jahannam Yama, Yama, after making a partner with Allah, is that a person doesn't take care of what they say. But now the question is, how do we take care of what we say? How do we control our tongue? And the answer to this is from a number of points. The first thing that we need to do is take to being silent.

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Wallah when you talk too much. This is when you are going to say things that bring the anger of Allah. This is when you're going to say things that you don't pay attention to.

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And from this is that some of the early generations they used to say that I never regretted being silent even one time

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I never regretted being silent.

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When we talk too much, of course, we're gonna fall into lying and backbiting and slander and other kinds of sins.

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The second thing is that when we talk, we think about what we're going to say before we say it.

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We think before we speak.

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The third thing is that we take ourselves to account for what we say.

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That means that as Allah azza wa jal said, Yeah, you Hello, Dina. I'm Anil tequila. Well, Tom vernetzung, Malka dammit, Leah God. Let everybody look at what you put forward for tomorrow. Think about what you said today. Think about what you said in the morning. Think about what you said to your friend. And if you did something wrong. Now the fourth point is you have to make up for it now.

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Because yomo piano you cannot make up for it except that you give that person your deeds, and you take their sins.

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So you make up for it.

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If you said something about someone which is wrong, go back and fix it. say good things about them. Ask them to forgive you.

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If you told a lie, make it right. Correct. What you said? If you said something about Islam, which is wrong,

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share what is right? Correct. It explained that you made a mistake and correct it.

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So you have to think about what you say. You have to take yourself to account for what you say. You have to correct what you say.

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And from the most important things you can do is busy yourself with the remembrance of Allah.

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Because when your tongue is busy remembering Allah, it's not busy doing Hara

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keep yourself remembering Allah subhanho wa Tada.

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And from the things that you can do, which is extremely important. And these two things come together, is to stay around people who are good influences on you. Because most of the time when we speak evil things, and we speak things which take us into or put us at risk of being from the people of jahannam. The reason is because of the company we will with the people who are around us, we were in a gathering and that person started to talk and this one started to talk and we joined in

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believe it will actually up to an hour. Keep yourself around the people who are remembering Allah in the morning in the evening, to keep yourself around the people who the only thing they know is lying and backbiting and slander and speaking things which get the anger of Allah. Keep yourself around the people who remember Allah be someone who most of the actions of your tongue are remembering Allah and praising Allah and things which are pleasing to Allah. And if you can't do that, then at least take to being silent.

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Because this speech is a dangerous thing. This speech is what causes Allah's anger to come upon us. So we have to be very, very careful about what we say, and take what we say very seriously, especially in the things which people don't take seriously, like making fun of people, or like slandering and backbiting and small lies. And so if we take this seriously, you're going to see the change in your deeds and your actions. And you're going to see the change in your Eman and your nearness to Allah subhanho wa Taala. So this reminder is all about taking care of what you see. It's all about being careful about what you say, and realizing that the tongue is the most dangerous

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thing you can have.

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It's so dangerous because it's so easy for you to earn a lot of anger and you don't even think about it.

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So a person has to be very, very careful about what they say. And very careful to avoid the sins of the tongue.

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