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Jonah Hill, Jonah Hills allege controversial behavior and Steve Harvey I believe it was. I don't have female friends. I don't I'm incapable of that more and more even celebrities gravitating towards Islam they see that solution for all their problems. I'll tell you if I was a woman I don't want to wow I'm ready darling. Let's go. And women can't be friends. A few of my different guy friends have revealed to me that they have feelings for me and Jonah Hill it's like he's almost talking as if he's a Muslim. That's it that's I mean, you can have friends or you can she would do very good also with looking into Islam so we get them both and invitation. Listen, I mean society's

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deceived a lot of women about what they need to be happy and I'll tell you this

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and his vital messengers, Muhammad peace be upon him. This is our religion Islam. Miss Love this sister dijo.

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was ready to talk about

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how much respect I have for the faith of Islam Show. Welcome to the deen show. The dean show

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how you doing my brother? I can sit I'm Eddie. How are you man? I have a lot of nice to have you here with us here.

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Jonah, Jonah Hill. Jonah Hills alleged controversial behavior is being exposed by his former partner Sarah Brady, who is sharing a plethora of old text messages that she claims are from him. Through her public Instagram account. Sara is leaving no stone unturned in her depiction of Jonah as a toxic and misogynistic partner. Brothers and sisters. We've all had loved ones that passed away. A mother father brother sister, a close family member born of the mercies of our deen is that with the right intention we can go ahead and continue to do good deeds on our loved ones behalf and what greater of a continuous good deeds so that the Giardia than investing on their behalf into D center and Masjid

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in Naga Dawa center that will benefit generations to come in sha Allah. So click the link below donate right now. Oh my God Almighty Allah reward all of you. You heard of him? Absolutely. I just I'm just hearing about him. It's all over. You know, you can log in and right. It's on the internet all over the place. He's Jonah Hill. What's the mobs after? Yeah, what is he like? I guess he's an he's an actor. He's an actor love comedies? Yeah. Comedian or actor? No, no, I think he's an actor. He's an actor. I don't know. I don't know. I don't follow him that closely. But I know he's a popular actor starred in a lot of comedic films, but they're really coming after him right now.

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Yeah, I wanted to give a breakdown to this. Because when you look into the I guess what happened was he had a girlfriend and years ago, years ago. And then she leaked, some of the private transmits text messages between them. They're supposed to be private between them. And seems like that's the sanctity of that was just broken. And then he got into a relationship. I don't know if he got married, or he got he just had a child. But these texts were from some time ago. You look at the texts. We want to contrast it with what Islam says. Right? Is this something that is halal or haram? How would you he's getting blasted for these texts? Yeah. And when I read them, I was shocked,

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because his message is what any person of honor any man of honor may ask of his significant other and frankly, I mean, he was just so soft about he said, Listen, you know, if we're going to be in a relationship, these are my boundaries. These are my expectations. And if this isn't okay with you, then listen, no hard feelings. I will always respect you, you know, we can stay friends, but it's just not gonna work out as a relationship. I mean, what else is a guy supposed to do? Apparently, you can't even communicate basic expectations of morality and decency. And it's crazy, because at the same time, right now you have online some guy getting a lot of fame. Because apparently, he

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filmed his wife sleeping with another man fornicating with another man making pornography with another man, and you don't see him getting targeted and attacked by the woke mob. It's sickening and disgusting. But here you have a man just telling his girl Hey, listen, you know, and I think he's from a Jewish background. So I'm consistent with sort of Jewish principles. You know, you Jonah Hill, I believe so if I'm not mistaken, you know, your, your girl shouldn't be out there half naked for the world to see. And he just set very basic standards and listen, you know, for no relationship. You know, I would appreciate it if you you know, were modest in this in this fashion.

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And if not, listen, I respect you and I respect your choice. And he's getting blasted for that. It's crazy. We're gonna go through these one by one because there's kind of like a point by point what he's asking, right of, he's kind of like, almost like vetting her like, Hey, if you fulfill these requirements, if you go ahead

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And you're in sync with what I'm saying, then we can move forward. Exactly, exactly an honest dialogue about what he's looking for in a partner. But but let's even before we get to that, all right, before we get to the actual text message that was leaked out there, let's get into this thing. And then contrasted with what the Dean says what Muslim says, because about privacy, because now Pete, one one side of the year, an attorney for people don't know what Shibli

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obviously, they want some clout, you know what I mean, angry, vindictive, and now, they're putting a private conversation out there for the world to say, you know, what, who's going to pay the price of this is ultimately the women that do this, they're going to be paying the price in this, I think you're going to see a world where there's going to be a lot of miserable 40 and 50 year old single woman, because this concept of respecting a relationship respecting men, respecting privacy is dying. I think modern feminism, frankly, wants a world where women have authority without responsibility, you know, the man should still pay for the dinner, he should still pay for the

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bills, he should still open the car door, but he should not be entitled to any respect whatsoever. So modern feminism wants to give women authority without responsibility and wants to give men responsibility without authority that is against the fitrah that is against human nature, that's a recipe for disaster. So what's ultimately gonna happen, you're gonna have a lot of bitter, single woman in the 30s 40s and 50s. Meanwhile, the guys at hamdulillah they recover good, you know, if they're honest, if they're straightforward, if they're honorable, if they're traditional, there's a lot of women out there, even younger women that appreciate traditional men who say, You know what,

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I'm a masculine man, I want you to be a feminine woman, you I will take care of you financially, I will protect you, I will honor you, I will have a healthy level of jealousy for you, you know, this concept of Lita right? This this kind of jealousy that you don't want other men, looking at your wife's behind. You don't want other men gawking at your wife's physical features, you know, that's against honor. That's against dignity. So what's going to happen is people men of honor, they're going to find those that are seeking honor and all these people that are disrespecting privacy, disrespecting modesty, they're going to end up alone, single, miserable, and toxic. But I'm glad you

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mentioned this point of privacy, because what's happening now is very popular. It's becomes a thing, if you ever relationship with a successful man, and it doesn't work out for any reason. You know, years later, come back, when you see him happy and successful, and you're feeling irrelevant. He just had a child. Exactly. He's moved on with his life. You know, there's no allegations of physical violence, there's no credibility to such allegations, and just come out and disclose private conversations and blast them. And frankly, what kind of message does that send every future potential partner? Do you think now the next person who's going to try to have a relationship with

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this woman is ever going to trust her? You know, it's it's destructive? It's against potential privacy, the Prophet sallallahu it says, Islam is perfect. And I think this is why you're finding more and more even celebrities. gravitating towards Islam. They see it as solution for all their problems prophesy, Selim said Al Majelis. Will Amana conversations are a secret trust. When there's two conversations between people, whether they're over text message, whether they're in person that is a confidential trust, there's a level of privilege and confidentiality, and you can't just simply disclose that, especially when there's really no reason to me. I mean, it's crazy when you read the

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message. See, this is what people were freaking out over. But the fact that years after the ship ended, she feels it's appropriate to disclose those messages for what and for what purpose? There's no practical, justifiable benefit, other than to get attention to play victim. I think people get addicted to being victim, they want to be the victim. They want attention, they want to attack the man, you know, it just it's sad, and it's disruptive. Yeah, that reminded me of the what you just a hadith which you quoted, the sanctity now of privacy, that you manage the trust, so much so that as soon as you This is clearly laid out in Islam where you're talking to someone and this is all from

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the guidance of the creator, the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him you're talking to someone as soon as you're finished talking with someone and you turn to the other direction that Amana is in a lock that's it doesn't go like you know, you we hear that, you know, obviously the term for our audience that don't Dyneema I mean, you know, an EMA tail carrying tailoring tails right. He said she said right, as soon as you talk one conversate then you go and pass it all just a bit indicate this a person will enter pairs is haram, you know, people are hearing this term. Ha ha, oh, yes. So this is haram. Clearly, this is something that even this backbiting, slandering, and then we can

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give the Hadith where the complainant, the disciples come

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How does the Prophet Mohammed do? So what is backbiting? He says to say something about your brother that he would dislike. And so what if it's true that's backbiting so it's even true, but he would dislike his backbiting. What is not true is slander. Slander is even worse. It's even worse. Both are terrible. You don't have this I mean, in any I mean, this is clearly laid out that you can't get this fumble over this is so straightforward in the slump. Absolutely, absolutely. I think people are at a loss for morality and they're creating an environment where ultimately they're going to pay the price, you know, as you deal with others so you will be dealt with, you know, you disclose personal

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private text messages, it's going to come back and people are gonna do the same to you. People are not going to trust you. You're going to lose yourself. It's a shame. All right, let's get into the text here. Let's read it let's see what's so bad about it. Let's see what aren't shook the woke mob online. So the question is, is he inviting like the other guy inviting someone to go ahead and have a swinging party with his wife? Is he inviting someone to go ahead and have a taste test or he's setting some it's setting some lines here so he says plain and simple, it's just like plain and simple. If you need surfing number one surfing with men, so let's go point by point surfing with

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men. So you can play this with any other sport. So Islamically now we have the separation of genders and whatnot the free mix mixing this is something really clear but now surfing, you know, golden pretty much being what comes to my mind you could take it as the you know, the province of some said when a when a man is alone with a woman Shakedown is the third right? So this is so what are your thoughts now? Number one surfing with men right right. I mean, look again, the whole kinds of surfing your your scantily clad Lee dressed Yeah, you're you're dressed in a very modest fashion with others that are dressed in very modest fashion. Islam recognizes human nature. Let's cut the BS

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out. This hip. There's so much hypocrisy, right? And this is the problem with with the Western culture is it makes us so much hypocrisy. For example, Western culture claims monogamy, but it free mixes so much that no one is really monogamous, right? They're cheating. They're committing adultery. They're they're consuming record amounts of pornography. It's such hypocrisy, if you look it just human nature, biological nature, when men see more skin of woman, women see more skin of men, the testosterone levels, the chemical levels, they're going to rise in the body, it's going to lead to temptation. People are going to get themselves in very inappropriate situations as long as

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this protect yourself. Don't Don't, don't test yourself like that. Don't Don't play with fire. Stay away. I mean, the Bible itself, the Bible says, you know, don't Kindle that fire lest you get burned. The Quran doesn't say don't fornication. It says don't go near fornication, even the steps that lead to fornication, avoid it protect protections and safeguards because it recognizes the weakness of human nature and therefore it advocates taking levels of protection against it. I like what you said protect yourself don't test yourself now protect yourself don't test yourself. Yeah, we don't have to get into the 20 plus million diseases that are out there yearly new ones come in

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the aborted children now all these things right the ex because the person doesn't know his but these are all the protection that Islam puts straightforward so you don't fall into any of these things. You destroy society, because now you've destroyed the home. You couldn't even build a home because now you're out there fornicating because you went and you started to serve with men. It's it's it's problematic. So again, it starts with the concept of modesty. Should there be a level of modesty between men and women and how they dress and how they interact? All the all the religions have advocated for that. I like what you said cut the baloney. Yeah, Cut the nonsense. keep it PG. I

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mean, because if a man surfing, I don't know if this he's next to surfing with you got these big surf whatever the case and he's seeing you dressed pretty much in your underwear and a swimsuit. Well, they have this false level, but he shouldn't be thinking of the body. You know, he shouldn't just see me as a as an object like that. Okay? He shouldn't but people are people, you know what I'm saying? I mean, the power of sexuality is very powerful, right? I mean, that the human needs to procreate. This is how God made us. And he warned us all right, don't go near it. Yeah, so there's no way unless the man is part of the alphabet movement. Maybe

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he's got some kind of, maybe some is wrong with him. He's naturally going to be gonna be inclined to wake up his his desires are going to be he's gonna be He's normal. If he's healthy. And if she's got something that is appealing to him, he's going to be burning would you say? Absolutely. Listen, there's a desire burning and I mean is it's the

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listening those who No, no, and if you don't know, you're just kidding yourself. Look at the desire to have intimate relations is deeply ingrained within healthy human beings. Right? Yeah, human beings that whose body has not been corrupted by chemicals, by toxins by society. And that's a good thing, right? We should want to procreate. We should want to have kids. We should want to build families. We should want to build tribes right? In a healthy conducive way. But when

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When there isn't a protection of modesty, you know, when everyone is dressed naked in public, you know, you have an increase in temptation. Those are just facts. And that's why you have record amounts of adultery in the West.

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All right, so Jonah Hill actually is asking for something halau or is a boy and what she's doing is something out all right. Okay. All right. Let's keep it going. And you know, look at the biggest counter to that is going to be like, well, he knew she was a surfer. When he got into it. Well, that's fine. Okay. And now their relationship is growing. And he seems to be one ticket into Sears direction. So he's communicating. And that's perfectly fine. What better thing is there than to communicate? Yeah, that's a good point you brought up because at the end of the day, and the reason another reason we're doing this because at the end, we want to give both of them an invitation

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invitation, what you'll see at the end, because now what where's he going to go? Because he's going with his, his nature, his nature, his the society is cutting that off and making them feel like he's, you know, he's a misogynist narcissist. He's all sorts of right. Yeah. Right. So where are you going to go to fit Islam while they're calling him an abuser? And that's the crazy thing. Now this is abuse it they've made abuse a joke. Listen, I'm an attorney. I represent actual victims of abuse. And when you throw out that label to text messages like this, you're dishonouring the many actual victims that are out there. Yeah. It is crazy. Next one boundaries, inappropriate friendships with

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men. Okay, so that's the next point here. Well, I mean laundry list in a priority list inappropriate friendships with men. Yeah. Nobody cheats on their significant other generally, from the get go like that. It doesn't start like that, right? Except for those that just go to the bar, go to the club, start drinking and end up going home with someone else. God, God forbid. But, you know, that's how these relationships of adultery or fornication of cheating start, it's by having inappropriate relationships. You know, there's this whole thing about having a guy best friend, there's no such thing as you having a guy, best friend, outside of your spouse. And I think, in fact, the Tate's

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mentioned this, you know, where one of them said to the girlfriend, hey, listen, let me go ahead. Who do you think is just your guy friend that's not interested in you just text him that me and you're having problems, and that you have feelings for him? See how they react. And like, every one of the guys that were so called just friends said, Oh, my God, I've had feelings for you this whole time. You know, it's it's, we're just not designed like that. Alright, Steve Harvey, he gave a great example. And people this he's a comedian. So it seems like you know, when they break it in, and then they'll just people kind of

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don't end up rejecting what someone like his like, like comedians can tell the truth. Right. coordinators can often get away with it. Yeah. So the way he put it, and we'll put it so people can see this short clip with Steve Harvey. I believe it was. I don't have female friends. I don't I'm incapable of that.

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But I mean, because you know, come on, because you have a wife. Well, I have a wife and I don't I don't really have female friends. Because look.

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Okay, let's get rid of this.

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Let's get rid of it. That you're an attractive woman. There's some guy somewhere saying yeah, I'm we're friends. No, that's not true. He's your friend. Only because you have made it absolutely clear that nothing else is happening. Except this friendship we have. We remain your friends in hopes that one day, there'll be a crack in the door, a chink in the armor, and trust and believe that guy that you think is just your buddy, he will slide in that crack the moment he gets the opportunity, because we're gonna think this way. 99.9% of us think that way. And he made it clear that men and women he just he says it just

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be careful. I just can't do it. You can't cannot men and women can be friends. A few of my different girlfriends have revealed to me that they have feelings for me. And I'm not interested. But I'm just wondering where this sudden Mojo came from? I mean, do you notice anything unique about me? I don't notice nothing.

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I'm happily married. It's thought that they really just wanted to be your friend. Well, yeah, I mean, you can have my friends or you can only what you have a guy friend is you're saying we're only friends. They're hanging out with you in hopes of something else happening. They hang out with you and they circle like buzzards waiting on a crack in the door. A chink in the armor. Guys are not made that way. Men don't hang out with flat chicks to beat a friend. You hope you catch them hurt and one day and you're there for them. guys know I'm telling you the truth. Exactly what you just said because there'll be a crack. There'll be just a man is waiting Chris Rock even talked about

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this years ago, you get put in the friendzone because every man is trying to hook up but then it doesn't work out to put you in the friendzone. But as soon as there's a crack, some happens, he's waiting. He's a predator. He's waiting for years. And then that's it. He's in there. So this now we can take this from what he's saying to this for the missile community in general for for

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The young men out there for men in general or for women, these are boundaries that Allah has set. And we need to respect those boundaries. And absolutely listen as you grow, and it's an interesting space to navigate, maybe when you're younger, you're trying to be more conservative, you're not free mixing. And then as you grow older, you're getting exposed to the professional world. You're finding you're having to because of work and, and responsibilities, but then as you grow wiser and more successful, you become very guarded. With your time. Yeah, where you give your energy, what is even the point of friendship, unless it's increasing you spiritually, intellectually, financially.

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There's no time for any other sort of friendship, right there, out there. And frankly, look, I mean, I think any wise successful man will know that Haram is not worth it. And even halal, you know, we don't have that much time, even for high level relationships, to be honest, I mean, we have a mission to accomplish. So we're just wise men and women cut out unnecessary distractions. You know, there's a, there's a funny meme going out there, right that the financial advice for men and there's a lady walking down the street and the man just go the other way, but but if you're principles, and you're focused, you're not going to let the opposite gender in your life in a way that's not

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uplifting you in this life, and the next, and that's what we should seek As believers, we should seek excellence in this life. And the next and if the kinds of people you keep around you the kinds of relationships you have, are not uplifting you in both worlds, and there are drugs. So look, I think, for him to tell his potential spouse, because it looks like he's not looking for something serious. That you know, there shouldn't be any inappropriate relationships with the opposite gender, again, he's setting a very natural, unhealthy boundary, that frankly, woman that haven't been corrupted by the feminist experiment that has field would naturally gravitate to. In fact, I mean,

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there's a lot of women who would be upset if their husband didn't have a healthy level of jealousy, if he was a ticket to the next level, and he became a Muslim. And he accepted Islam so much to the Creator, not the creation, and he ended up making these.

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This is something that's outlined in Islam really clear. I mean, if a husband has every right to pretty much almost pick and choose, or to object to certain people having having influence over his wife, absolutely. This is from the clear, responsibility, the Met, you cannot have responsibility without authority. Any relationship, any dynamic that gives someone responsibility without authority is a recipe for disaster. It's a recipe for failure. Frankly, it's a recipe for rage. Why do you think you have so many problems right now, and conflicts within households, when there's responsibility without authority? So, you know, authority gives you the means to achieve your

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responsibility, right? The man is responsible for the safekeeping of the home, he's responsible for the financial success, he's responsible for the future. And in all that, he needs a healthy level of authority say, Listen, I'm responsible for the safety. So I'm going to set certain limits and boundaries and look, as you as the woman, you have the right to choose whether you want to subject yourself to my authority, right? Nobody can force you to marry, right? Nobody can force her to be with Joan or not to be with them. But if she's choosing to be with them, then there needs to be a level of surrender. I actually just saw a non Muslim woman. I mean, she she did a very powerful

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video about the concept of being just submissive. And there's a whole rejection of that nowadays. But look, as a woman, you have the right to choose, who do you want to be your protector? Who do you want to submit to? But once you've chosen that, and you and you give him the responsibility of leading your household to success, you have to be willing to submit to him, let him lead you. So the husband is the leader of the family. He's the one that's responsible as the Koran beautifully stated that Allah is saying, Save yourselves and your families from the hellfire. Right, right. So every man has a shepherd of his family, the shepherd, he will be responsible, he's responsible.

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sponsibility, he will be questioned. And it is a burden. And it isn't easy. It's not a thing of power. Authority. You know, again, I think the Tate said this again, you know, there were no feminists on the Titanic, you know, there were no none of them saying no, no, don't send a woman and children first, you know, men and women are the same or equal. Cut that nonsense out. None of them were crying about that when men had to go out there and fight in wars, and hunt and gather. I mean, this is all the result of the modern,

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modern convenience. So I want to just before I go to next one, if we go deeper into this, if you look at and just make some examples where people can understand, let's say, somebody was trying to get their life together, and they used to be it's an extreme example, but I'm sure people can relate. They were really heavily into methamphetamines or crack cocaine right now. So they had a certain group of friends. Now you love this friend of yours and now you went through, you you. If they hang out with certain people, they're going to end up back into that lifestyle of drugs, right. So you as a leader, you don't want your children hanging out with certain people or your spouse or

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your loved one or your friend. You

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You see, so that's one example. But now we take it to another level. If you are the responsible for your, for your family for your wife and somebody let's say she she came to Islam she used to be in the nightclub he used to be in a nightclub you and want him either hanging around certain friends who are still drinking smoking weed. what not. So just a few different examples. So because you want the best for your wife, the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him. I mean, he said that a person is on the religion of their companion, their companion careful, yeah, who you keep companionship with. And the husband is also responsible for the safety and security of that household. Yeah, you know, so,

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you know, be careful who you entrust to be your leader. But once you've identified a leader, nothing will give you more peace of mind than actually surrendering to Him and letting Him lead. And this applies to the husband and wife relationship. But it also applies to organizational dynamics, company dynamics, business dynamics. You can't thrive in chaos and anarchy, you know that satanic chaos and anarchy is satanic. You need structure you need order the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him. He even advised if three people are traveling together, one of them should be appointed, the Emir should be responsible. And he said, Listen and obey to your leader. You know, no matter who he

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is, once you have a leader, there needs to be a level of structure because Satan thrives off of chaos. Yeah. So I think people can understand that you want the best for your family. So you don't want if you know, this is this particular person is a thief a liar. This person is going to have a negative influence over my family, then you have a right to object to that. Absolutely. Right. Absolutely. So that those are just some ways, frankly, if you don't trust your husband and making those decisions, why did you marry him in the first place? You know, it just doesn't make sense. Let alone now let's take let's bring it back to Jonah Hill, let alone to having friendships with men who

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at the end of the day, a bunch of friends who had they, what's on their mind is how they're gonna hook up with you literally, literally, literally, and not to mention the alcohol and toxic in their whole culture, you know, the hookup culture, the Friends with Benefits culture. Yeah, it's it's sick. What's out there? Yeah. So Jonah Hill is actually doing what goes with the nature of men. Well, that's what's powerful. I mean, and let's keep going through his message. But one of the things that struck out is, you know, he's speaking from what we call the Islamic tradition, the fifth row, the pure nature that God put within us, which is what Islam came to reinforce, and to

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protect, and to enrich and strengthen, and empower. So he's really reflecting, I think, what a traditional person of faith who surrenders to God would believe as it comes to modesty, and dignity and honor and respect. And that's what I think the modern secular liberal culture is trying to destroy, and it's rebelling against. And it's destroying itself as a result of that this is important that we talk about this because now people who have their fitrah is still alive. And it hasn't been that tainted, and they come out and they're like, Okay, what he's doing is nothing wrong with it. But now you have all the social media, all of the, you know, people are afraid to speak

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out, they're scared to speak out, afraid to speak out. I mean, one of the best things that happened to me was getting targeted and attacked by that group, because I saw them, you know, and it was like a little, you know, they think they're throwing big missiles. And it's just like a little speck that And subhanAllah you see men, what are we scared of? You know, only Allah can cause us benefit or harm. If you're right by Allah, and you're principled, even the attacks of your enemies will only strengthen you. And so I witnessed that in my own life. And it was liberating and now I'm in a position where I can fearlessly speak out but even myself, I mean, having been in the political

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world, I feel like if I didn't face those attacks, and see how insignificant they were, maybe I might have been too weak to speak out of fear of that mob, which is like a paper tiger. Again, they're loud, but they're insignificant, and they're irrelevant. You want to touch upon that for a minute because you tweeted something. And I thought it was really profound that you actually you had your departure from care you didn't get fired. No, no, no left on good terms like good terms you had you had a picture you posted or something they were where were they were

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they were sending you like some love actually the ladies that run care Florida mashallah amazing sisters dedicated since

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just celebrating 10 years of my service there they gave that to me a couple of months extra after I left they invited me to the office and they recognize me with that it was very something about like the media how when when you were free of any any any was vindicated, vindicated that they didn't come back, it was crazy. I mean, it was crazy. I was literally targeted by again secular liberal woke mob, the took baseless allegations, ignore the evidence against them and just publish them as fact. And I have the text messages when it handler the legal process. cleared my name literally vindicated my name, expose the falsehood of it

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I texted them, Hey, are you going to update your story that I was vindicated? And the little responses that Edward? They're not interested. But you know what it showed me they don't matter what they saw was an effective, masculine, traditional Muslim man serving the community. They wanted to make him irrelevant, cancel him, destroy him. XML and Subhan Allah, Allah says in the Quran never thinks such attacks are bad for you, they're better for you. And you're like, how is that possible, but I'm looking, I was actually in a state of such gratitude. Last night, I was reflecting over how Al Hamdulillah Al Hamdulillah after leaving care, my income went up 12 100% of my travels and public

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speaking went up three, four times, I'm traveling more than ever hamdulillah doing more charity work than ever, and literally making 12 100% More than I used to make before and this would not have happened had it not been for that attack that I faced. So if you trust Allah subhanaw taala you'll see that even these attacks that only enrich you and make you stronger. This is important, very important, because people who don't have the Quran as a guiding light, the Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him the clear guidance. It's one thing you're non Muslim, and you fall into these things and even non Muslims who are who are honourable who you know, who actually stood by

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your side, who had many, but now as a Muslim, you that's a shame because Allah tells you when fasik when a person comes to you and untrustworthy, untrustworthy person comes to you with news. You better check it up. Yes, otherwise you're going to fall into sin. You want to

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harm the NSA without without knowing and you will regret it. And then how are you going to end up you know, what all the media that's out there, you know, the majority of this stuff is just out there sensationalism. false truths, myths, truths, misinformation, and they're just looking for headlines. Well, you know, it's interesting last night, at home that I was reflecting in this weekend alone, we're doing about eight programs to train the Muslim community on how to live by the Quran and stay out of courts, whether that's to marriage in regards to divorce in regards to avoiding divorce to begin with, in regards to business in regards to estate planning, and a lot of

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love and support and community. But some random anonymous account, which portrayed itself as a Muslim sister just went on slandering me. And I looked at her reach, you know, and it was reaching like 10 people doesn't cause me any harm whatsoever. I was gonna ignore it. But then you know what I did? I privately messaged that account, I said, Listen, if you're truly a Muslim, I'm not messaging you to protect myself. You literally can't harm me since you guys attacked me to begin with my life's never been better. That's a loss promise. But if you're truly a Muslim, I'm genuinely worried for you. How are you going to stand before Allah defaming and slandering your Muslim brothers and

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sisters that are trying their best, we're all imperfect, but we're trying our best to serve our feet to serve our community, not for a need. But because we need to give back because it's our obligation to give back hardiness and before Allah. So I said Get your facts straight. All the stuff you're saying is wrong. Here's why it's wrong. Now, I'm not telling you this to protect myself. You've literally can't harm it. You're insignificant in that regard. But it's to protect your own self because Allah says, you say things about your brothers and sisters and you think it's light, but it's terrible in the sight of Allah. Yeah. And for people also when they watch this, the non Muslims

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out there and then they have gone maybe through some similar they see family members, you know, and the gossip and the, you know, the slander and all that and they're like, you know, people getting away with this, but you know, when you see the clear guide, guidelines in Islam and the severe penalty in the next life, someone who dies upon this doesn't repent doesn't rectify their affairs, and there's actually a particular place in the Hellfire for the people that spread the gossip and slander mongers. And so a non Muslim sees as a Wow, man. It's an attempt to honor Islam comes to protect honor. And I really want to reach out to the brothers and sisters because because many of

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them reach out to in both women and men that are going through difficult times, where people are speaking ill of them, misrepresenting them, putting them down. And I will tell you never give up hope in the Mercy of Allah. Allah subhanho wa Taala is only allowing this to happen to build you, to make you independent of caring what other people think, to give you strength, right to teach you to trust in Him, right? The prophets wife's ally, Salam Aisha, she faced such slander, use of a messenger of Allah alayhi salam, he faced such slander. The best people have faced horrific slander horrific defamation. And he know what, it's okay if it hurts. You know, it's okay. I mean, I

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remember when I was going through it, I see Eddie, you know, I would see the train in New York City I wished I could fall in front of him and I didn't want to live you know, and the prophesy Salim said, None of you should wish for death because of a hardship they face. But at the same time are human right met him? When may Allah be pleased with her when she was pregnant with a Saudi son with Jesus Christ with the version pregnancy of Jesus responded. She said I wish I died before this because she was afraid what her people would say in the difficulty in the hardship

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sticking with. So sometimes Allah will test you, and you lose the sweetness for this material life. Yeah, but that's the blessing of it because this world is worthless. And maybe Allah just wants to remove its love from your heart. And when you're able to detach from this world, and to stop caring what people think and say, and you know that only Allah's opinion matters, that liberates you, and then the world goes from being in your hand eventually ends up being your heart. And the other beautiful thing about this is it transforms the relationships in your life, because you will never forget the people that stood by you. You will never forget even the new friendships you made after

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that the people who didn't judge you by what people said about you, but who got to know you for who you are, and truly loved you. It builds sincere relationships in your life, and it shakes out the hypocrites from your life. It's a gift from Allah. So for those that are facing such tests, listen, it's alright for it to hurt. But keep your trust in Allah subhanho wa Taala and He will deliver you and he will elevate you and he's promised and I bear witness to this promise being true, that he will give you far better than what you've lost and it will be a means of success for you. You will look back and you will not regret what you went through a hamdulillah man I'm telling you, I went

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through some tough times, brother, I don't regret it. I'm grateful to Allah Subhana Allah to Allah. Allah never disappoints those who keep their trust in Him. And that's the key, keep good opinion of Allah and keep your trust in Him. Allah Subhana Allah says in the Hadith, IMS, my servant thinks of me, if he thinks good, he will find good, keep a good opinion of Allah, Allah is too kind to disappoint those who keep their trust in Him, and who keep a good opinion of him. hamdulillah moving moving along to Jonah Hill, and the accusations against him. And we left off with friendship. So we cover that in a footnote, inappropriate friendships, gender, and this is something that actually and

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we can go deeper into this, but we have a lot more. Let's just cover that. Yeah, hold on. So he's doing something actually that's in line with Islam. Right, right. Right. Taking care of his his leadership role responsibilities. And the next one, he says, about modeling to model

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that's all it says to model so I'm assuming this is what is the concept of modeling they that you cheapen your body so much that it's used to sell products, that that every Tom Dick and Harry gets to gawk at your body gets to look at your body that is the essence of

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again, a cheapening a human being that is the essence of harming a woman. Islam honors the body for both men and women. You know, and, and obviously, I mean, we could go on a whole rant on the the problem with modern day modeling and what it means and how the woman's body is often used to sell products, and in doing so it cheapens it very, very problematic. So I think, look, any man of dignity would not want his wife's body to be commoditized you know? Yeah. Just to be fair, so if the model and we'll we'll go ahead and same thing with the brothers you know, if a Muslim man shouldn't be out there in underwear modeling, shorts, nailing certainly, absolutely. This is particular to

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this woman here. But you have some sisters also who fall into this, this model putting themselves out there and you know, sort of imitating and we It reminds me of the statement of Prop Muhammad peace be upon him. And you know, this hadith probably says, You will imitate the people before you inch by inch passband by has made so much so if they went into a lizard hole, you follow them? So this whole concept of modeling now you just said it beautifully, you know, putting yourself devaluing yourself and, and

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cheapening yourself, right? Right. Look, I'm gonna be real with you as Muslims. In the West. For too long, we've been afraid to say what our religion actually teaches. Yeah. And it takes other people coming out who are just sick and tired of the secular hedonistic culture, craving, what Islam has to offer the world to remind us that what we have is everything and we should cherish it and value it. And we're not here to appease anyone. Islam is perfect and beautiful. If you have a pure nature, you're going to see that and we welcome you. And if you hate it, well, that's your problem, not ours. So let's loss I sell him when he asked his companions, what is the best thing of a woman?

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And what was the reason I believe it was, if I'm not mistaken, his daughter, one of the one of the

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righteous woman answered that no man sees her and she sees no man modesty, right, this concept of modesty, modesty, it's and it's just been lost in our time. We've lost a big time. And it's all been within the last few decades. It's even in in the United States. Modesty was something that was sacred up until relatively recently. Yeah. It reminds me of a statement from I think it was Norman Finkelstein. And he was, if I can quote it correctly, said when the people came to these

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lands in the beginning. And they were in three layers or more of clothing close up. And then they saw the natives pretty much they thought they were uncivilized. Were uncivilized. And now we're uncivilized. And we're looking at the Muslims who are layered up.

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Yeah, very powerful. And even within the, the Bible, the Quran, this concept of sin and modesty. So it's interesting because the idea is, you know, Adam Elisa, my father and his wife were in paradise. And before they had made the mistake of eating from the forbidden tree, you know, they never noticed or realized, their, their, their, you know, their private part, right. And they were, they were they weren't, they weren't covered. And then the result of them eating is that they became uncovered. So there's a connection between sin and disobedience to God, and losing your clothing, losing your modesty, losing that protection. Islam really emphasizes modesty and honor and dignity, I think, as

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other faiths did in the past, but no longer do, it becomes the last stronghold to protect modesty in our modern time, as steep. So we went from the surfer with men, to the boundless inappropriate friendships to modeling right now. And then we have to post. Now this is another one of his lines here to post pictures of yourself in bathing suits, just kind of goes in line where we just talked about but he's also requesting her now to not take scantly tawdry pictures, and specifically some on bathing suits. And you can just build on this just I mean, again, it's might as well be posting in lingerie, I mean, where is the level of modesty again, Islam teaches that your bodies for yourself

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and to share with your loved one, right, and it is an honor for a man to see his wife, right.

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Not dressed fully covered that she shares his her beauty, her skin, her personal intimacy with Him, it isn't something for every random person to look at to fantasize over. It's inappropriate. It's against dignity. It's against honor. It's against respect. And I think it's completely normal that a man would not value. Right? If a woman is showing what she's got for the world, her value has decreased. Her value is judged by her body, but she's making it that way by using her body as a commodity, to get likes. And for what what is the point? Why do you want other people to see your body? Why do you want other people to see your beauty? What are you trying to prove?

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Who sets these limits now because at one point in time, if you go back, even if you go back to the beaches here in Chicago, and you look at how 1920s 30s 40s Not too long ago, you would see even in the the beaches, you would see what is unheard of at this time, compared to then the way they were dressed people they would even give out tickets. If you were not, that's what we're seeing too much this this and then a next generation comes less is now taken even less as take more as taken off. And then you even have at one point, it was below the knee the skirts. And now you'll see some of you in these anchors, these you'll see on what conservative talk shows where the dresses of the

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ladies even get higher and they're dead and so uncomfortable. They're trying to pull it down. And it just but they're pressured because of the culture and whatnot to go ahead and dress a certain way. When it's just like Trump was saying I had Sure some about Trump. Then I saw women interviewed. They said we want to wear we've worn them for 1000 years. Why would anybody tell us not to? They want to? What the hell are we getting involved? For? Fact, it's easy. You don't have to put up makeup. Look how beautiful everyone looks? Wouldn't it be easier? Why? Right? Wouldn't that be easy? I tell you if I was a woman, I don't want to walk. I'm ready darling, let's go. Stroh. He was like when he got

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to understand the yeah he said what eight they just get out put it on and go what leave him alone. They've been doing this Islam says Listen, when you go wow, cover up dress modest. Your body is a sacred gift. It's not for the world to see. But when you're home, dress up nice dress up Put your best you know that you can Yeah, this modern culture has the opposite right when you go out show the world your beauty when you're home. You know don't don't don't put in any effort. It's backwards backwards. We go back to backwards again. And you know they often example given when you had the women that did the social experiments with a woman is going down in New York and she's wearing what

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normal dresses kind of tight, what will be normal and all the who's in houses. She's getting, you know, the provocative speech for men. And then you have

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The other woman and she's dressed in the hijab, nobody's. And that's why it says dress modestly that you may be protected. Yeah, right. It. You know, Islam recognizes human nature, it doesn't justify that bad behavior. Yeah. But at the same time, you have a responsibility to set the standards for yourself. Don't lower your standards. Have some honor and dignity for yourself, when you honor your body, other people will honor it. When you dishonor your body, you're giving the signal for others to dishonor it as well doesn't justify it. But you're giving that signal and it's inappropriate and it's wrong. As the more you honor yourself, the more you will be honored. And they used to have you

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go into this I mean, deeper, this is an Islam as a solution. A lot of people would probably talk about this, they hear this and it goes with what people will naturally agree with. But the whole culture is doing the opposite. And then they tune into the show. They watch it like man, I agree with that. Yeah, this is what they've been searching for. This is what I've been searching for. Absolutely, absolutely. And that's why we will get attacked for saying what we say. And it's perfectly okay, because they can't harm us in the least. But we're going to stand up for principles that that, frankly, are going to protect our own children, I have two beautiful daughters, you know,

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and as a husband, as a father, I would rather be dead than see my daughter, disrespecting her body and having others disrespect her body as well. And the way to have her honor her body is just by being that best example you can be teaching her to value yourself that your body is a sacred gift from God. Not every man deserves to look at you. That's why they want to force women to remove that jab, right and dress a modest because they want to occupy the body of the woman within their eyes in their mind and their heart and their lust.

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But Islam says no, your body is not my my body's not yours to occupy. Right? It's not going to be occupied in the brain of no pervert. Yeah, you know, so just protect yourself and value yourself. It's not going to be occupied in the brain of a pervert. Hans it Yes, protecting what's the most precious the woman is the most precious thing that's out there one of the most precious and you want to protect what God Almighty has given her and your responsibility over her. So what Jonah is doing is actually in line with Islam. 100 Sounds like a Muslim to me. Yeah, Jonah, I like I'm Jonah Hill. If you're listening, you got to consider now looking into Islam, look, Jonah you got you really got

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a respect. I mean, it takes a lot of courage and strength to stay by your principles. Don't let the mob of hypocrites bring you down, man, keep your head up high. You stood by principles, you are a gentleman and how you did it. And people are just showing their own hypocrisy in their attacks against you. And what you're doing is consistent with the pure traditional faith of surrendering to God. So we want to invite you to learn more about Islam. You know, you have a community that stands with you on this issue. are so we finish the model to post pictures of yourself in bathing suit to post sexual pictures. Next one moving along, got a couple more friendships with women who are in

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unstable places. And from your wild recent past beyond getting a lunch or coffee or something respectful. He's really laying that down. Yeah.

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Muslims, this is like normal, this is one on one basis because you don't have to be Muslim. Like you just have to be rational and see where this degeneracy is leading and what path and what's happening in the society. So you got that you got that? So with unstable friends, people from your past and with the wild sigh

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I mean, literally, I mean, look, he said beyond he said, Okay, you can have lunch and coffee. Sure. Yeah. But but don't don't cut them off completely. That look. I think a lot of us as Muslims, we grew up very sheltered at Hamdulillah. But but those of us that know what's out there, I mean, it's just, it's insane. It is just as look as Muslim men, we would literally rather die than commit fornication, right? Yusuf Ali Salam, he said, My Lord, jail is more beloved to me, prison is more beloved to me than falling into fornication, and literally for any Muslim man. You know, it's the worst thing that we can imagine happening. Whereas how people are living nowadays, it's normal for a

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woman to sleep with a different guy every other night. There's no respect for the body. There's no respect for honor. They're destroying themselves. They're ending up empty, feeling used, degraded, devalued, and alone. It's a disaster. And that's what he does. He just wants to protect her from that culture of degeneracy. As any man of honor would want to protect his significant other. I mean, that's a sign of love. As opposed to the other guy, the other guy, I believe his name is I don't even mention his name. Okay, sorry. He's not even worthy of his name being mentioned in our presence. The other guy who's actually inviting men to go ahead and test drive his wife is this

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crazy? It's disgust. I mean, this reminds you of the Hadith that the youth Yeah, a man who doesn't care who see

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who touches whose intimate his wife will not interfere this God won't even look at him. God will not look at the youth the man who has no honor for his wife. It is very scary when you look at the description you have, like, huge

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one, the description of people for Zina who fall into these pitfalls and again, there's always hope people can turn away and of course he turned to a lot of the bad luck.

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But if if someone falls into this and doesn't persists, and you know the ovens of people naked and they're being you know, going thank God for those traditions, brother, I would tell you because growing up in America, it's easy to feel tempted and seduced. Yeah, I'm grateful for Islam says about against fornication. I'm grateful that the Shetty I says that if a man in a Muslim country, right is caught fornicating where people see the penetration for people never publicly say almost impossible, which is impossible. It's a lesson. But the punishment right is stoning. I'm grateful for that. Because maybe a time comes in life where somebody actually genuinely it's not even about

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sexual lust. Maybe somebody actually falls in love with a woman he's not married to. And, and to resist love. It's even harder than resisting sexual temptations to resist that, that drive you know, within the heart, and a person has the opportunity to fornicator but they read the Hadith it says literally, the punishment should be stoning. This is just shows you how abhorrent is and that's what's gonna stop you is a strong deterrent, it's a deterrent. And that's what you need, you need that powerful deterrent. So, you know, in the legal theory studied this and law school, that for a deterrent to be effective, the less probable it is to be enforced, then the higher and more intense

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the punishment has to be for it to have a deterrent effect. So for example, if you know, you get, everybody's gonna get caught speeding, and the punishment for speeding is $10, people will still speed, there's a high probability of getting caught. But there's also a very low punishment, people will still do it. However, if the probability of getting caught speeding is just 1%. Very small, but the punishment is like death, nobody's going to speed even if there's a low chance of getting caught. So same thing, in the Islamic principle, it's practically impossible to get convicted of fornication, you literally have to have for people that have never publicly sinned, you know, that

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are not considered for self witness the penetration, which is practically involved, even for people, even 10 people seeing a man and woman naked in bed together, they could not accused them of actually committed fornication if they didn't see the penetration. So the the the possibility of that happening is impossible, it's practically impossible. But therefore, for it to be strongly deterrent, there's a very strict punishment, which is the stoning and that's a mercy that's a protection to protect, you know, men and women, when they get tempted, they realize, man, this is something God hates so much that in the Bible, in the Quran, in the Islamic traditions, this is the

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punishment that's outlined for it, I should avoid it. It's to protect ourselves to protect our honor. Yeah, to protect society as a whole, right? The institution of family and so on, because the family is destroyed, the society is destroyed, then you see what's happened. That's it. Yeah, that's it. And he moves along. So this one also is he's fulfilling his if he was a Muslim, his Islamic duty of protecting his family and protecting his spouse. Well, he's not married here, but it's in line looks like it's the direction he was going. And he's trying to make this woman his wife. Yeah, he's setting clear boundaries. And so Jonah Hill, it's like he's almost talking as if he's a Muslim.

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That's it. That's because these are this is pretty clear. So what he's talking about is something halal, haram now, hello. Now, wrapping up, he says I am Jonah Hill says I am not the right partner for you. If these things bring you a place of happiness, I support it. And there will be no hard feelings. These are my boundaries, from romantic partnerships, my boundaries with you based on the ways these actions have hurt our trust. So one thing is we can point with Jonah Hill. One thing we can advise him is, is to really seek out the purpose of life know why you've been created while you're here. And then you can go ahead and get into any car. That's it, you know, marriage, bring

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the wedding says and get out, get out of this test driving, you know, boyfriend, girlfriend things and make it right with God. God made it easy. He made the permissible easy, but people make it hard. But look, look, his message was so modest. And that's why for me, it's insane to see the level of heat and the accusations against him because he's simply laid out his requirements of modesty for somebody he's going to be in a relationship with and he said if these aren't, you know, if you're not okay with these boundaries, then no hard feelings. But it just we're not we're not cut out for each other. Why is a guy getting attacked for setting his personal boundaries? He's supposed to lie

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or is he supposed to just bend over to the will of the mob? It's It's insane. I think he was respectful. I think he was unfairly targeted. And I think he just reflected what any person that is connected to the pure nature that God gave us would advocate for. Again, no one is saying he's a saint. No one saying he's perfect, but he's certainly on the right trajectory and we hope he looks into

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Islam because guess what the one community that will stand by you is the traditional Muslim community when it comes to these things. And then she concludes here herself, his ex girlfriend, this is a warning she says to all girls, if your partner is talking to you like this, make an exit plan Love y'all call me make an exit polls, you don't need to exit. He's literally saying we don't need to continue the relationship. She doesn't need an exit lace. He's saying these are my these are what's important to me. And if that doesn't vibe with you, all right, no hard feelings. We go our separate ways. perfectly innocent or harmless? Yes, she would do very good also with looking into

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Islam. So we give them both an invitation. Listen, I mean, society's deceived a lot of women about what they need to be happy. And I'll tell you this, you know, look, in life, you see, you know, people go through different phases, there's a phase where a lot of women, they want to prioritize their career, they're getting the likes, they're getting their fame. And yeah, it's nice in your 20s, and maybe your early 30s. By the time you get up into your 40s and 50s, you're gonna wish you had that family, you're gonna wish you had that man that was just taking care of all of your financial needs. So you can live comfortably at home, raise those beautiful children, you're going

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to wish you had those kids and those beautiful grandkids that looked up to you. And a lot of women because of modern feminism are going to be deprived of that. And they're going to regret it and hate it so much as they grow old. What does she have now? Okay, so she had somebody who was giving her who was straight with her said, if you do this, we can move forward. And actually there were healthy, healthy suggestions or boundaries that he was setting or things that he was expressing that he wanted, right for a partner. He moved on? She's obviously if she was happy, he's still occupying some space in our free Yeah, yeah, she's not happy. She's clearly miserable. If she had moved on in

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her life, if she was, she would not oppose she would not have posted that, you know, it's somebody who's too busy enjoying their life doesn't have time to create drama for others, you know, moving on, and being happy is the best, you know, success. So the fact is, there's clearly issues she's struggling with, may God guide her really, because to go to see your ex spouse or ex partner, move on, maybe get married, maybe have a child and to feel the need to bring up years old personal messages, were just saying, Listen, I don't want my wife, having intimate relationships with men, or even hanging out with women that have destructive lifestyles, and posting scantily clad photos of

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herself. And if you want to do that, I support you. It just we're not cut out for an intimate relationship to go after him for that years later shows she's really not in a good place and my heart, you know, feels for her because I believe she's also the victim. We like to be victims, you're the victim of a society that deceives people as to what will give them happiness and success. And society right now is misleading people. It's deceiving people. It's it's the Jhalak really in nature. And the only guidance is the guidance from God that's never been changed. And that is the Holy Quran that revives the original message of Moses of Jesus. Peace be upon them, that God is one

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that we should value our body. It's a sacred trust, we treat with honor that we should value intimate relationships that we should be aware of going with those that may misguide us. It's a beautiful universal message. And it's the only thing that can quench our thirst and give us peace. That's it. That's it. Otherwise you're fumbling in the dark you're making it's your whole life is subjective to the rules of society was changed according to the Times and people's whims and desires. You obviously, what do you call this other woman who actually accepted the terms? She accepted it? So I don't know if they ended up getting married what but they had a child. And she's

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What do you call a nut case because she's, she's obviously in line, he probably went and gave her the same guidelines, and they're together. And that's what's ultimately gonna bring people happiness when they learn. So she's got a partner and and Exactly, exactly, you know, again, frankly, I think, you know, men need to men of honor women need to be people of honor. You know, relationships will not survive. If people don't even know what a man and a woman is, and the different roles and different responsibilities. We need feminine women that are paired up with masculine men that protect each other, that shelter each other, and to stay away from all forms of indecency and

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distraction and immorality which destroys families and destroys societies and destroys people's souls at the end of the day. And you don't have anything out there because you have like Islam, where you have intelligent, God fearing women, who are sick of being used and abused by men who are sick of you know, just following the cultural norms. They actually are coming to Islam so many I mean, so many women that had all the quote unquote, sorry, freedoms, right? Of that western side gives them where they were out in the clubs where they're wearing the miniskirts where they're sleeping around different guys where they're drinking, partying, living up doing everything that

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that Instagram life shows your life should be like, they found it void and empty and the treated that for hijab for niqab for modesty for a righteous spouse. So it happens so much. Why are so many women in the West in fact, women in the West are

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converted like four times more than that. And why? Because society in the West really oppresses women, and debases them and humiliates them, and uses them and abuses them. And that is why so many women are actually choosing by their own free will to give up the miniskirt for the hijab, to give up a modesty for modesty there is, you know, in my field, we speak to a lot of different people. I mean, I know a woman, what led them to Islam was how Islam prohibited adultery, how Islam prohibited fornication, how they found that the lifestyle fornication didn't give them peace of mind, tranquility, and they loved the grounding, and the morality that Islam give them. So you as Jonah

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Hill, if you're tuning in, you're watching this, obviously, he didn't put this out for the public to see it was put out there. So you can see how people now some people even probably amongst his close circle may be turning on him. He's being called all these different names. So are you living for the pleasure of the people? Or if you have any ounce I mean, like, I don't believe there's any any person that's truly an atheist, but because they made a left might have left a man made religion and it just, you know, give up altogether. But if he truly is sincere now, and he is a man's man, and he don't care about what are people going to say? Because the only thing that a lot of times keeps

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people from looking into Islam is because what's my friends going to say? Society, maybe my manager, maybe it's not good for my career or whatnot. But any personnel really truly looks into Islam will see that it's indeed from the craters heavens and earth. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to look at the evidence to look at the Quran to read it one time through and actually will at the end, people go to the deen And they get a free copy of the Quran. I don't think he has to do much homework to find that this system, this way of life, complete way of life is indeed not just another religion that's out there. It stands out if it's pure, it's unchanged. And my advice to him

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is don't buckle man. Don't get into the mob. You didn't do anything wrong. Don't apologize for saying what any man of honor would say. But rather amplify and refine and understand where that came from. And why Islam teaches the exact things that you are looking for in a spouse and a partner and get to know your Lord men with the only word that's ever been changed the Holy Quran, the Quran, pick up a Koran or go to the deen We'll get you a copy of that. And others if they'd like some free, not free but Muslim legal advice yeah Muslim Hit us up at him there we're doing a lot of work to make peace between people we do Islamic mediation arbitration. We've done even

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criminal defense help those wrongfully accused that happens way too often. So if you need legal advice you need legal guidance Muslim We're here to help.

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Thank you very much. Thank you Eddie's good and show this can be a benefit to so many.

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Likewise, well he

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said I'm not a lawyer but a cat two brothers and sisters this your brother hasn't Shibley I'm so excited. So grateful to Allah subhanaw taala to be standing right here at the Dean center that is being established in Tampa by brother Eddie from the deen show. We are so excited that he's chosen Tampa to be this hub and center for Dawa not just locally at hamdullah where we can host seminars, programs, our activities there's enough space for a school gymnasium, masala and a studio that can inshallah reach people globally to share the beauty of Islam. We're so excited to have this established here locally in Tampa and I want to encourage you all do what you can to help complete

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