Taleem al-Quran 2010 – Juz 28 – L284B

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Al-Mumtahinah 1-13 Tafsir 1-3

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was a bit lame initially on the agenda for him.

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Lesson number 284 solar to Montana is number one to 13.

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Southern Montana is another Minnesota

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and it has 13 verses and about 1500 proof.

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This solo was revealed between the time of the Treaty of davia and the conquest of Makkah. So after the Treaty of Abia and before when the conquest of Makkah, some parts were revealed earlier, and other parts were revealed later. And the subject of this surah is related to tests.

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Because as the name reflects monta Hina What does moon tahina mean? One that tests one that examines So, this surah is that which tests which puts to test the amount of a person and Allah subhanaw taala creates certain events, certain incidents, certain circumstances in a person's life, which test his Eman which does his sincerity, that where do his loyalties lie, because earlier we have been learning about who a person should be a part of his below or his bouchet on.

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And now comes the test

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that you saying you want to be of the Hezbollah but what do you actually do?

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And monda Hina is also read as Montana and Montana is the woman who is examined, as we will learn in the last part of this surah

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in this always a reference to the famous incident of the Sahabi how to even have the bulk of the level on who and how he was also tested through his family.

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And in this sort of the concept of Allah and Alberto

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what is Allah and Bara

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to declare friendship or to declare enmity for the sake of Allah subhana wa Tada. This concept is also clarified, it's explained and the example of Ibrahim realism is also given.

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And then finally, at the end of the surah is mentioned the empty hand the test that the Muslim women in particular have to go through when they migrate to test them if they are really believers or not.

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Bismillahirrahmanirrahim Yeah, you have Medina Ave, or you who have believed, letter turkey do i do we what are the welcome Oh the do not take my enemy and your enemy as allies.

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The word our do appears to be singular, it has the plural form or the however I do can be used for singular as well as plural. So do not take my enemy and your enemy as close friends. Who is the enemy of Allah?

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Who what makes a person what makes an individual the enemy of Allah? What do you think?

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When they are part of his bouchet lon when they oppose the religion of

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when they are enemies to allows religion when they oppose guidance.

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Over here in particular, the enemy of Allah refers to the disbelievers of Makkah. So there's a harbor we're being told that do not take the disbelievers of Makkah, who are your enemies, and also my enemy. Don't take them as Olia

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to owner la him, you offer to them, you extend towards them, what Bill mawatha friendship affection deluna from ilca and LR is to throw to offer. So you offer meaning you extend to them bill mo at the What does that mean? friendship, love, affection, and have been my word that is understood as that extra. So you offer affection to them.

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Whereas what are the cafaro whereas they have disbelieved. The manager a communal hug, while they disbelieve in that which has come to you of the truth. Meaning they disbelieve in the Quran. They disbelieve in the messenger, they don't believe in the religion of Islam, yet you offer friendship to them. This is not great.

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Someone who dis believes in what you believe in, they are different and they also oppose you in a way. So when they're opposing you and their opposition is quite obvious by their activities. Then why is it that you offer friendship to them to Guna la him bill Melinda

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and Bill mawatha. It has also been understood as bit of sub first is by that desire extra. And secondly by is also understood as valve sub of cause reason meaning you

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offer to them because of my weather. What do you offer to them? Meaning you communicate with them, you communicate the news of the profits that aloneness and then you communicate with them the plans of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam Why? out of love for them, Bill Melinda,

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where's the they don't deserve such communication from you. They don't deserve any kind of love and affection from you. Because we're called the Khafre will be magic, a communal hug. And on top of that, usually Juniper Sula, they expel the messenger. What Yeah, comb and also you from where from Makkah. They didn't let you live there. They expel the messenger. They made life so difficult for all of you. And for him that none of you could stay over there. They're oppressed you

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usually do not a sudo iya. Comb.

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And why is it that they expelled you? Simply because and took me to believe

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that you believed in Allah who is actually your Lord?

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Just think about it. You didn't commit a crime? It wasn't that you were guilty of a crime? No, you were completely innocent. In fact, you were doing the right thing. Yet, they hate you so much. Yet they oppressed you so much that they didn't let you stay in the harem. They didn't let you stay in Makkah.

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So how is it that you love these people? How is it that you offer affection to these people? How is it that you communicate with them? The secret plans of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam.

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Allah says in kuntum, hora, gtam, Jihad and feasibility, if you go out for the purpose of jihad feasibility in my way, Weber de la amaravati, and to seek my pleasure in his helpshift and this requires a job

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that if you're going out for jihad in my way, and to seek my pleasure, then what's the job? it's implied? And what is it then do not take these people as your friends

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because when you go out for the sake of Allah, when you go out in the way of Allah seeking His pleasure,

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then who should you expect all reward and benefit from only Allah subhanaw taala.

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So do not extend any friendship to these people thinking that if you show kindness to them, they will be good to you know, when you're going out for the sake of Allah, then do not take these people as friends, rather expect all benefit, all protection all help all aid from Allah alone, because you're going out in his way

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to see Runa la him bill, Melinda, you can feel towards them with the friendship, meaning you secretly harbor affection for them in your hearts. You don't show it but in your hearts, you are hiding it you are keeping it secret. What Allah what the friendship, love, affection for these people.

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Or to see Runa Elaine bill Mohatta, that you secretly inform them of the plans of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. Why Bill mawatha by will be understood as by Saba out of the out of affection for these people.

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What will be my fatum oma Ireland to him while I know very well about what you conceal and what you reveal,

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you cannot hide anything from Allah.

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You see a believer his loyalty is with who Allah soprano died with the religion of Allah.

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And it should be the case in his heart and also on the apparent on the apparent he is committed with the deen and on the inside as well in his heart as well. his commitment is With what? With the deen of Allah.

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It's not possible that on the outward a believer shows that he is dedicated to a line His Messenger and in his heart, he is attached to the enemies of Allah. No, this is not right. So Allah says to say Runa lamb mawatha Allah will be a fighter mama Arlen to you hide something or you revealed something, you keep it in your heart or you show it. Allah knows about it. Well, many of our lumen come and whoever does that among you, does what among you, secretly communicate the prophets news to them, or keep friendship and love and affection for the enemies of Allah in their heart. Whoever does that foccacia Birla Salah Seville and in fact he has strayed from the right way.

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Such a person is not on the right way anymore. He is misguided who a person who has loved for who the enemy of

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a person who has affection in his heart for who for the enemy of Allah. Because a true believer, his love, and his hatred for others is also dictated by whose commands

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Loss of hunger, meaning he will love who, which person who loves Allah. And he will hate the person who hates Allah. His criteria is what the pleasure of Allah soprano Tada. Now there is a particular incident in the background of the revelation of these ayah. And that is with regards to the Sahabi. How to even have evil.

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As you know that the Treaty of Philadelphia that was made between the Muslims and the machine of Makkah, required both parties to not fight for how long 10 years, there was to be no battle between the two of them.

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And the Muslims were free to make alliances with any Arabian tribe. And at the same time, the machine were also free to make alliances with any Arabian tribe.

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But when they made alliances with any tribe, it meant that even those tribes, you know, they could not fight with one another in the sense that now there was one Muslim power and there was the wishek power.

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Anyone who joins the Muslims cannot fight against the machine. Anyone who joins a machine cannot fight against the Muslims.

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So this was for the Muslims and the Michigan of Medina and McCain also for those who had made alliances with the Muslims and the Michigan.

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And what happened was that the tribal bonobo, they had joined the kurush and the Hosea they have joined who the Muslims of Medina they had joined the Prophet satellite in southern

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in Siobhan of eight year after Hitler, the tribal bonobo, what did they do? They attacked Hosea. And this was a violation of the treaty because they attacked them, whereas they were not allowed to fight them. And even if they were, let's say even, it was not the Michigan of our fighting. But the machine of Makkah, they actually helped bonobo

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they actually assisted bonobo in attacking the hazhar train.

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So this was a violation of the pact. And on top of that, it wasn't that the machines offered their help to them. But this also happened at the time of bonuses or they came to the how long to take refuge.

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Because when they were being attacked, they ran they escaped. And where did they go into Harlem so that they would not be killed. Because of the Harlem woman the Hello Ghana. I mean, and this is something that we believe in. This is something that the Michigan of Macau also practiced

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that if you found the murder of your father, even in the heart of you were not allowed to kill him.

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So what happened when the people of Zara came to the Harlem the wish to clean of Makkah, and the people of the new burqa, they didn't even spare them in the home, they actually killed them in the house.

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So first of all, they violated the treaty. Secondly, the brutally massacred people. And thirdly, they disrespected the sanctity of the home as well.

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So the tribal bonacasa they came to the Prophet said about Islam seeking help because they were allies with the profits on a loan etc. So when they came seeking help, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam sent word to the mosquito broker, offering them three choices, one to pay the blood money. If you don't want to do that, then secondly, terminate your alliances with MANOVA.

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If you don't want to terminate your alliances with bento box, then consider the truce to have been nullified. Consider the treaty to have been finished.

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And we should genomica when they found out they knew they were in trouble

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because they did not want the treaty to be dissolved.

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So abou Sofia, and he came from Makkah, all the way to Medina to renew the treaty. But when he came, he wasn't welcomed at all. Meaning that the Prophet sallallahu wasallam did not agree he did not listen to the language. He went to several to hover, but he could not get anything done.

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He could not renew the treaties and he went back to Michigan America they were fearful but they didn't expect that the profits or Madison would take a step very soon.

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So the profits that Allison told us a habit to start preparing for attack on maca, however, this was a very secret plan.

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A top secret plan, which even the Sahaba did not know about initially.

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We didn't I should have learned she was told by the prophet sallallahu Sallam to make some preparations. And even she didn't know what was going on. I will welcome to Leon who came and he was wondering what's going on? Where are we going? Why is he preparing for battle? Because the Prophet sallallahu Sallam did not want the people of Makkah to find out.

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Because if they would find out then what would happen? They would prepare for defense. And if they will prepare for defense, then a battle would end up taking place in the huddle which would cause bloodshed. And he wanted to avoid that at all costs.

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But at the same time, he could not even let the machine be he had to take a quick step and immediately

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And it had to be top secret.

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Now when this however when they were told prepare, obviously they were afraid. Why? Because it was such a huge step you were going into the mouth of the enemy. And besides, for them Ohio, Judy, who lived in Makkah, it was their own relatives. For the hygiene, it was your own relatives who lived in Makkah.

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Now, if Makkah is attacked, and the people are in trouble, remember that individuals cannot defend themselves in such a situation, you need the help of one another.

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You need the support of one another. And who would people support their relatives?

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That was a hobby hasn't even bolted on who? He wasn't Mahajan. He had come from Africa. But he was not related to the crash.

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He was not related to the coronation, which meant that his children, his relatives who were in Makkah, they were very vulnerable,

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because of Morocco was under attack, then that meant that his family would have no protection, they would have no protection, his children, his relatives would have no protection whatsoever.

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So what did he do?

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He decided that he was going to do a huge favor on the machine.

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What was that huge favor on the crush, that he would secretly inform them about the profits plan. And when the machine would find out about it, they would feel indebted to help them even be better. And when they would feel indebted to him, what would they do? They will protect his family, they would protect his relatives, even though they were not related to them. So you understand why he did that.

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Now what happened was that in Medina, a woman had come from Africa, and this woman, her name was Sarah. She was a slave of the tribe of bandwagon. muttalib and remember the stripe and what they thought it was in stripe of the Prophet sallallahu sallam.

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So this woman had come to Medina, seeking financial help financial assistance from those people who had migrated from Makkah. So when she came, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam told people to respond to her helper. Why, because she was the slave of his tribe. Just imagine the slave of his tribe. And the Prophet said, Be kind to her.

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So the people, they assisted her financially, they gave her food, they gave her a ride, they gave her some wealth as well, some money as well.

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And she was going back to Makkah, but when she was going back, how to build the learn who he went and gave the letter to.

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So he went and gave the letter to her in which the Michigan and Makkah were being informed of the profits plan.

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That woman did the letter she left. But a lot of panel data, he informed the Prophet sallallahu sallam. And when the Prophet sallallaahu Center was informed, he sent her a little to learn who and another Sahabi in order to catch up with that woman before she reached Makkah.

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And he told them exactly where they would find that woman.

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So they went, and they found that woman on her way to Makkah, they stopped her. And they demanded a letter from her. When they asked her for the letter, she said, I have nothing. And they became very strict with her that you better give it to us. We know you have it, because the Messenger of Allah told us, but she refused. And they threatened her that if you don't take it, we will search you ourselves. So then she became frightened, because being searched by two men was is something that is not appropriate, but they had to threaten her somehow.

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So then she opened up her hair, and in her hair, in her hair locks, she had placed that letter.

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And she gave the letter to them, and they returned to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam giving that letter to him.

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Now when the prophets of Allah sent him saw that letter, he called Howard even.

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And he asked him, that what happened? Why did you do this, and how to build and learn who he said, O Messenger of Allah, I have no affinity of blood with kadesh. I'm not related with them.

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There is only a kind of friendly relationship between them and myself. And my family is at MOCA. And there is no one to look after them, or offer them protection. My position stands in contrast to that of the Mahajan whose families are secure due to their blood ties with correct me in the other way during their relatives were in Makkah, they related to the crash. Once they related they have protection, but my family is unknown. They don't have any relatives.

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So I felt that since I am not related to them, I should for the safety of my children, earned their gratitude by doing good to them. And when I would do that, they would support me. I swear by a lot that I have not done this act as an apostate forsaking Islam. I was prompted only by the considerations I have just explained.

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And little did I know he was so upset that he asked the permission of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam to kill him. And he said that he's the one after

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But the Prophet sallallahu Sallam accepted his excuse in granted important and he addressed or Molinaro saying how he was one of those who fought in the Battle of birders. He participated in the Battle of weather.

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And how do you know? How do you know that he's a hypocrite?

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Allah is likely to look favorably on those who participated in that battle, and saying to them that do as you please, for I have forgiven you.

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Because he participated in the Battle of others. In another version, we learned he said he attended, but what can I tell you? Perhaps Allah looked at those who attended and said, Oh, people are better, do what you like, for I have forgiven you. Why? Because they were the cibachrome

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they were the cyber goon, and he was a mohajir.

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So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam accepted his excuse and he pardoned him.

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So then these ayat were revealed, in which is a severe admonition for all Muslims, a big lesson for all Muslims. It's not just relevant to the Sahaba the Muslims of that time, but all people that How could you offer friendship? How could you communicate the secret news of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, to those people who are actually your enemy? Look at the crimes they have committed against you. They hate Allah. They hate the messenger. They hate the deen. Yet you love them?

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In truth, or neither if 5758 we learn Yeah, you have Latina Amano, Latino Latina. Tada, Dina come who's one Valerie Bowman and Latina Oh takita mencoba nico walco. Farah Alia

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are believers do not take those who have taken your religion in ridicule and amusement? Someone who marks at the religion ridicules the religion What does it mean is an enemy to that religion.

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So don't take such people. These people who are from those who have been given the Scripture, or the disbelievers don't take them as allies. Don't take them as your close friends.

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What does the law in consumer mean and fear a lot if you are believers,

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or even a data era celebrity, who's when you're called to Sala they make fun of it. This is how much they hate your religion that one day or that is pronounced. Look at how they're mocked at the other. It was who's one winner even though it could be under Hong Kong Malaysia. That is because there are people who do not have reason.

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So such people don't befriend them. Because they are not sincere to you. They're your enemies. Who should you befriend? Who should you befriend someone who is sincere to you?

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Someone who cares for you, someone who respects you.

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But someone who does not have any respect for you to the point that they ridicule your religion, to the point that they oppose you. They spread hate against you. Then how can you love such people? You cannot love such people as kahuku if they gain dominance over you. Yes, kung fu sir of soccer. Soccer is to skillfully get hold of something. And when a person skillfully gets older, something he has complete control over complete mastery over it. So he has cavaco if they gain mastery over you, meaning if they gain the upper hand over you,

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if they're ever victorious over you, he akula Kumar the they will become to you enemies. If they gain power over you, they're not going to show any love to you. They're not going to show any compassion to you How will they treat you like enemies your corner local other wherever sootel illogical idea home and they will stretch out they will extend towards you their hands and not just their hands but also what else seen at the home and their tongues as well. Meaning they will attack you with their hands and also with their tongues. They will physically abuse you and verbally abuse you

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bisou with evil. Well we do and they love low duck foreign If only you would display

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meaning such people are not sincerity. They hate you. If they ever gain any mastery over you the upper hand over you.

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They will show that enmity to you. They will attack you they will abuse you physically and verbally. They will insult you humiliate you. And this is something that actually happened if the wish to kina maka got their hands over any Muslim How do they treat him with compassion? No. Even if it was their own relatives, their own children, how would they treat them?

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Not with compassion, but rather with enmity.

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They would abuse them.

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We all know about the incident.

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When the Treaty of Westphalia was being written,

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and how gentle he came, how he was in such a terrible state, terrible state, that he was all locked up, abused physically, and how the Michigan omaka had no pity for him.

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The Muslims, they wanted to almost let go of the treaty so that they could save a gender. They didn't want to agree with the treaty because they wanted to save about gender. But then we stickiness vaca had no compassion for him despite the fact that he lived in Makkah, despite the fact that he was related to them.

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So Allah subhanaw taala selling us over here that open up your eyes, don't get deceived. Don't get deceived. These people are not your friends. They are your enemies.

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When they're your enemies and treat them like enemies, don't secretly communicate the news of the oma with them. don't offer any friendship to them. Because if you do that, you will suffer.

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They're not sincere to you at all.

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So he has kahuku he akula camarda whatever. So to eleiko idea who else in autonomy. So we were to load up food, they wish that you would disbelieve.

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So they're not sincere to you at all.

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So in other words, if you want to protect yourself, if you want to protect your deen, then what do you have to do? protect yourself from these people?

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Because whoever a person is when they influence him.

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However a person loves, they influence him.

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So if you love these people, they're going to influence you. And they're going to take every step to make sure that you leave your religion.

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Whether it means physically abusing you, socially boycotting you, or it means emotionally harassing you. They will take any steps to make you leave your religion This is how much they dislike your religion. So if you go to them you think your religion will survive. You think your deal will survive? No, it will not.

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So if you want your deen to be protected, then what do you have to do? protect yourself from these people? Don't go to them don't befriend them.

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lanten farrakhan or homcom wala oladipo yarmulke gamma. Never will your relatives or your children benefit you on the Day of Resurrection. These relatives are ham and Ola for the sake of whom you are offering all this friendship with and wish the game they're not going to be able to assist you on the Day of Judgment. The word or harm is the plural of

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and what does it mean womb.

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And from this, the word is figuratively used for blood relatives. Why? Because blood relatives are those who share the same room in a way, like siblings. They're from the same room.

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So London farrakhan or Hamilton Walla oladipo. You're close relatives, and your children for the sake of whom you are compromising on your religion. You are befriending these mushrikeen they're never going to be able to help you on the day of judgment on the Day of Judgment, what's going to happen EFC lubaina calm, he will divide between all of you. Yep. He will separate between all of you, who all of you people, today you are together related by blood. But on that day, Allah will divide he will separate the people that those who believe are in Paradise and those who disbelief are in Hellfire, even if they're brothers, even if they're cousins, even if their parents and

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children will love will be met Dharma Luna verse Li, and Allah is with whatever that you do have see.

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So the believers are being advised over here that these relatives of yours for the sake of whom you're taking such a huge risk in your deen, they're not going to be able to help you.

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How am I going to be belta he sent that letter and sending that letter was in a way committing treachery

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because the secret affairs, other people should be kept within them. And if a person leaks out any of that information in a way he is committing treachery.

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So why did he do that? Why did he do that for the sake of His children? But Allah says these children, they will not help you on the Day of Judgment.

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They cannot support you on the Day of Judgment. They cannot protect you. They cannot help you at all.

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And if you think about it, how will the Naranjo he migrated from Mecca to Medina but the rest of the family did not. They did not only he did what does that show that in the dunya they don't want to be with you. Why? Because it's difficult. Going from Mecca to Medina. Migrating is difficult using on the day of judgment when the situation is

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much more difficult than they will help you. Then they will be with you know, if in this dunya they are not with you using in the hereafter they will be with you, they will not be with you.

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So do not compromise in the deen for the sake of your family, for the sake of your children. Because when you compromise, they're not going to be able to help you.

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If you think about it, generally, relatives have many rights in our religion, especially those that are related by blood. They have many rights.

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And we see that the rights of relatives they're mentioned over and over in the Quran.

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They'll cover xand with them spending on them. It's mentioned over and over again.

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In sort of unfairness 75 we learn

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when Medina Amano membertou A hedgerow jahad American fula come in come What are hammy Barack Obama, Ola Berlin, figured out

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that believers Yes, they have a very close bond with one another. However, when it comes to blood, relatives, they are closer to one another, they have more rights to one another in the decree of Allah. And these rights are what are the inheritance of good treatment, so on and so forth. They're mentioned in the Quran at various places. However, we see over here in these ayat that those relatives who are enemies to Islam, befriending them, supporting them is not something that is permissible.

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Those who are against the religion of Allah, you cannot support them, you cannot like them, you cannot have an intimate, a very close relationship with them.

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Why? Because if you support them, they will make you compromise on your religion.

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They will make you go against your religion as well. And we see that such relatives were against the deen their rights, even in our religion, they are reduced How? Like, for example, when a person is your relative, but they're not a Muslim, can you inherit from them?

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Can they inherit from you? No, they cannot inherit.

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Similarly, we learned earlier, that you will not find any people who believe in a line as messenger, that they will prefer their relatives over a line as messenger.

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Even if it's their fathers and their brothers and their sons and their close relatives, they will not prefer them.

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So even if it means fighting against them in battle, they will do that. Whereas generally Can you fight against your relatives? You cannot do that? Not at all. Even arguing something that is dislike using fighting would be permissible? No, it's not. But when a person is against their religion, then what do we see?

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Then such a person does not deserve?

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He does not deserve friendship from you. He does not deserve affection from you. It doesn't mean you don't treat them kindly when you have to know you do that set its own place. However, you cannot listen to them in every matter. You cannot cooperate with them in every matter. Because if you will do that, you will compromise in your religion.

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In surah Toba Ayah 23 we learn? Yeah, you had Latina amanu letter a comb wanna come earlier? In is the Hubble cofra Anna, a man

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that all you who have believed, do not take your father's or your brothers as allies if they have preferred disbelief over belief. If your close relatives prefer disbelief over belief, then you cannot take them as allies. You cannot be very close with them.

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Romania tawanda hoomin confer una eco homos, lolly moon. Whoever befriends them from among you, then indeed he is of the wrongdoers, because such a person will inevitably commit to him. He will end up making many mistakes he will end up doing many wrong things, because who is he trying to please his relatives and what do they want from him disobedience to Allah. So such a person becomes after volley moon. Therefore, if a person is in a situation where he has to choose between the dean and his relatives that are against the than what should he choose? The dean,

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the dean must be given priority. At that time, a person cannot give priority to those relatives, even if they're your blood relatives. When they are against it. When they tell you to go against the religion of Allah, when they themselves are opposing it, you cannot side with them.

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You can leave them but you cannot leave the D You can leave them but you cannot leave the D

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and this is the reason why we see that the Muslims they migrated from Mecca to Medina. They didn't stay with them in Makati.

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I left them, but they didn't leave the dean. Why? Because if you leave the dean for their sake, will they help you, they will not help you. But if you leave them for the sake of Allah, then there's always a chance in the future that they will accept the

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offer Allah will give you something better, Allah will give you a better family. And it happens. We see that on the Day of Judgment, which relatives which relationships will remain only those that are founded on the deen only those that are founded on the hook. As for all other relationships, they will come to an end.

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We learned something new and I have 101 for either a new physical facility fella and cyber beta homeo or even what I had to say alone, when the horn is blown, no relationship will there be among them that day, nor will they ask about one another. On the day of judgment when the horn is blown. That's it all relationships will come to an end. Instead of 34 to 37. We learn yo maya fiddle and model man as he Why would he run from his brother because he doesn't want to see him. He doesn't want to have to give anything to him. Closest relationships will be severed on the Day of Judgment what oh me What a B or Sahiba D and E the Colibri men whom yoma in Shannon Yoni. Similarly, in total

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knowledge I attend to 11 we learn when is Aloha, maman habima. And no close friend will ask his friend

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and it's not that they will not see each other No, Allah says you must sorona home they will be shown one another, but still, they will not ask one another, they will not care about each other.

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So why is it that for the sake of these friends, you will compromise on your religion? No, it's not worth it.

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And on the other hand, friendships, or relationships that are founded on Deen, then such relationships will remain in the hereafter as well.

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We learn instead of the Torah 21 one Latina Avenue, whatever October of the year two will be even in and how can I become the realtor home? Mama Latina homina I'm a demon che that those who believe and their children also follow them in Amen. Then such parents and children they will be joined together in gender

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into the profit if we learn that the angels are made there have been our home genetic adenine allottee Watteau, woman Solomon Abba, he was read to him with the reality that the angels made the offer the believers that they will be admitted into Jannah together, them and their children and their spouses so that the families are together. So what do we see that those relationships, those friendships, not just friendships, but also relationships that are bonded together with a man

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they last in this dunya and also in the US.

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However, those relationships, those friendships that are bonded on copper

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or that one is a believer and the other is not a believer, then such relationships cannot continue they cannot remain. Neither in this dunya nor in the ACA in the ACA, you have sudo binaca in the dunya is the test that what do you do? Do you still stick with them? Or do you prefer the deen of Allah?

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that this is how much they hate you.

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If they ever get some power over you look at how they will treat you.

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They will physically abuse you physically assault, you physically torture you, and verbally torture you as well.

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And if you think about it, if somebody's saying foul words to you, and even physically, they don't spare any abuse, what does it show

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that they hate you inside out?

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That their hatred is not just in their hearts, but they're showing it.

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They hate you on the inside at on the outside. So when a person hits you like this, and who is telling us about them? A lie is telling us that this is how much they hate you. And how can you cooperate with them? Why would you cooperate with them? Because if you think about it, how to read the law? No, he sent a letter so that he could get some cooperation. But Allah says they will not cooperate with you. What guarantee do you have that they will not be unjust towards your family? They will actually feel indebted. They will be grateful to you. What guarantee Do you have

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such a person you cannot trust someone who hates you so much. Can you trust your enemy? Can you know you cannot?

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So therefore don't trust these people? And don't show any affection to them? Don't compromise on your religion for their sake.

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All you have believed do not take us intimate those other than yourselves, meaning only take close friends who? Those who believe for they will not spare you any ruin.

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If you befriend those who are not of you, then those people will not spare you any remaining they will try everything to harm you. What do I need them? They wish that you would have hardship. They want you to suffer. They don't want any good for you. Or the better deal Baba amin of whacking him. Hatred has already appeared from their mouths. If someone shows hatred to you by their words, then can you say that? No, they're very nice, can you?

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If somebody is speaking out against you, against your religion, criticizing you criticizing your religion? How can you say they're your friends,

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they're not your friends,

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that hatred has already come out on their mouth. When I do feel so doodle Aqua. And what their hearts conceal is much greater.

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Because a person will only say a little of what is in his heart. Because words are a reflection of what's in the heart. So if the words Express so much hatred, imagine the hatred that's inside. If they cannot keep it inside, and they're showing it through their words, imagine data that's inside, or the way you handle it in quantum therapy? No, we have certainly made clear to you the signs if you use reason, meaning this concept is not difficult to understand, it's very easy to understand if you use your mind.

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Now, this is something that is extremely difficult to do

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that imagine people whom you have been living with, or people who are your relatives, in some cases, they oppose the dean, and what are we told over here? Don't harbor any good feelings for them? We don't love them. Don't show any affection to them? isn't that difficult?

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Have you experienced this effort?

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No, that's why you probably don't understand

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at a smaller scale. Somebody who is perhaps your relative, or your friend of your acquaintances, and they openly criticize, let's say, your hijab, or your study of the Quran. Have you ever experienced that openly criticize now in this situation? What should you do? Leave what you're doing to make them happy?

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Should you know

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because if somebody is openly speaking out against the making fun of your hijab, I remember when I started wearing the hijab, somebody, they said that you think you become very righteous. And I remember I was only like 11 or 12 years old at that time. I didn't even have much sense. And I remember that person saying to me, you think you become very righteous. If you wait

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Because I guess they felt guilty that they weren't wearing it or their family members weren't wearing it. So they were coming out against me. And it was such a shock for me. But just because your relatives your friends are speaking out against you, doesn't mean you leave the deen. No, because if you leave it for their sake, what does Allah say? These people will not help you on the Day of Judgment. If they cannot support you, in the choices that you have made for yourself, they do not respect your choice. You think they will help you in the hereafter? Know,

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a sincere friend is who a true friend is who, someone who even if he defers with you, respects you for the choice that you've made,

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isn't it so they respect you for the choice that you've made? But if they don't respect you for the choice that you've made at all, they oppose you? They verbally criticize you physically harm you, then why should you become meek before them? Why should you listen to them? No, you're not going to listen to them.

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Such people are not sincere to you in this dunya and they will not help you in the hereafter either.

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And this concept is understood as the concept of Allah Allah and Al Bara, the concept of love and hatred for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala.

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And remember that this concept of Allah and Alberta, this is at different levels meaning we cannot just generalize it that just because a person is anonymous, that we say, Oh, we hate you, we hate you. No,

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this is not how it is. inshallah we will learn from the following. I add that those people who show enmity to you, you are to keep enmity with them. And those who don't show enmity to you who are okay with you the way you are, they accept you the way you are, then you don't need to show any enmity to them either. And we will learn that in the following after we study about the example of Ibrahim Isola