Taimiyyah Zubair – Taleem al-Quran 2010 – Juz 16 – L157E

Taimiyyah Zubair
AI: Summary © The importance of learning from past experiences and focusing on one's own personal life is emphasized. During the pandemic, individuals must use their single lives to excel in their knowledge and success. Representatives and speakers discuss various examples of embarrassing behavior and embarrassing behavior, including a woman who called her sister's mother and pointed at her at a young age. The speakers emphasize the importance of learning and learning in one's life.
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Welcome Phil kitabi and mentioned in the book

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meaning Prophet sallallahu Sallam mentioned to the people recite to them. Maria Maria, Maria, reading the story, the report of Maria Maria Sarah,

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who was she, the daughter of Milan,

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And she was from the descendants of that old artist.

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And she belonged to a good and noble family of dividing

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it into that that's when she withdrew in Tibet from the real fetters no one better than

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another is to throw something far away.

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And in Tibet is to withdraw, to retreat to go far away.

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So it in Tibet when she went through men, as they heard from her family, do a mccannon to a place that is sharqiya. That was Eastern Cherokee from the Ruth address, sheen.

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And Cherokee is that which is in the East Eastern part.

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She retreated from her family, and she went to a place that was Eastern that was in the east. What does it mean by that? She wasn't mahakal away from the family. And she was in the eastern part of the Heiko intubated necklace. She wasn't the eastern part. So she secluded herself from her family. Why? In order to worship Allah soprano,

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Madeira Sanam is a great inspiration for young girls.

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Because she is an example of a girl who has dedicated herself to learning and worshiping.

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Typically young girls who are unmarried, were young. What are their interests,

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young boys, fashion, hairstyles, clothes, shoes, romance stories, wedding dresses, this is what their interest is. But we see that Maria Maria SNM, her interest, her focus is what it's the the.

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So she dedicates herself completely to the worship of Allah, and learning the DEA.

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And in order to do that, she isolates herself from her family.

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So what does she do? She stays in the beta market, she stays in the mustard, she does not go home.

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Why? Because in order to learn, in order to become fully focused on something, you have to remove all the distractions. Because, for example, if you're at home, you're trying to study the TV's on automatically what's going to happen, you're going to close your juice, and go watch the show. Right.

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So in order to do something properly, you have to focus on it completely. And in order to do that, you have to remove all distractions.

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Now, this was permissible at that time, that people would isolate themselves from their families, from their worldly affairs, and they would just go to the doctors and they would stay there and worship and learn dedicate their lives entirely. They would never go home. However, this is not permissible in our share. We are not allowed to do that.

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We have to take our religion as well as our family along.

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However, there must be some time there must be some moments, some hours, some days, some weeks, some years at least, that are spent exclusively learning the beam, exclusively worshiping almost

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especially being women.

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Because once your children come in, once marriage and family come in, then it's extremely difficult to continue learning, it becomes more challenging to excel in one's knowledge, it is possible, but it becomes challenging. So a person must make use of their single life you can see

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when they're still single, when they're still not married, when they still don't have responsibilities that they should spend some years dedicated to learning the deen.

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Typically people who are not married What do they think I'm so unfortunate. This is not fair. I wish I was married. And young girls they dream of the day when they're going to be married. They watch shows in which people are trying to buy dresses for their wedding day. And that's what they'll dream of. I wish I could have a dress like that. This is what I'm going to this is what they spend their time doing.

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We'll see that Maria Maria Cena. What is she focused on? entirely the worship of Allah entirely the deen

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so we must take lessons from her life from her example. We

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You must follow in her footsteps as well.

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So she took Min dooney him from beside them, meaning in seclusion from them to be away from them from her from her hijab and a screen.

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She took a screen between her and the people, so that she will be completely concealed from them.

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Why was that? Why did she put a veil between herself and the rest of the people?

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Because, first of all, remember, she was the only woman at the Heiko.

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So for the purpose of hijab, out of higher, she had a screen between her and the rest of the people. So that if she's praying, if she's studying whatever she's doing other people, non Maha men, they do not see her.

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And her job is also necessary to have Islam.

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Because if you're worshiping out in the open, if you are reciting Quran out in New York, but it's not that it's wrong, it should be done. But there are chances that they would be here.

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Isn't it?

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Similarly, hijab, why? To avoid distraction.

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So this is why when you're studying, there should be some moments in your day. When you are by yourself completely focused on your study on your event. For that purpose, close the door, turn off your phone, turn off the computer,

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turn off all the distractions, put our hijab between you and the rest of the world

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so that you can focus on what you're doing. Because if you don't do that, you will not be able to accomplish your work.

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Many times it happens. You're working all of a sudden like let me see who's online. Oh, do people have messaged me. And there goes a conversation for the next 20 minutes for the next 30 minutes there half an hour is gone. Now it's time to pray. And now it's time to eat and now it's time to work in the kitchen and there was a whole day

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that's finished gone.

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So there must be some times in your day when you're exclusively focused on your data on learning

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for all sudden, so we sent la her to her Allah subhanaw taala center Medina Hassan when she was in private, in seclusion away from the people, Allah soprano data center her rule Hannah, our Angel,

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remember the word rule has several meanings is also used for

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Angel gibreel in particular.

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So, we sent to her Our Blue Angel gibreel

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Fatima Salah. Then he represented himself he took the form of letter for her meaning to appear in front of her as a buchon as a man. So we hear that as well proportion.

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The masala from the outsiders meme set the missile What does missile mean? Similar to and motherless example, because an example is similar to what is being cited for.

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So, tomatoes is to take the form of something to make oneself similar to to become like.

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So, this angel, he became like he represented himself as if Bashar on Serbia as a man as a human being.

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And remember, Roger and Sophie is a person who is free from any array of any nuxe any fault any deficiency, any extremes in his physique. So he appeared to be a perfectly normal human being.

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Now, the bunnies while they were special alasa panels are the sent angels to them a lot.

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We see that the creality sam as well, the angel spoke to him, obviously, he was a prophet of Allah. Now many of them some say that she was a prophet, others disagree, and that is a strong group and he was not someone to whom what he was given. She was not given the responsibility to convey the message to the people, whereas the prophets and messengers are given that responsibility.

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However, the angel was sent to her who appeared in front of her in the form of a human being.

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Now when she saw a man in her private chamber, obviously, she was concerned.

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harlot she said in need arose a bit larger man. Indeed, I seek refuge with the Most Merciful Minka from you in Kentucky. Yeah. If you're God fearing.

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If you're God fearing leave. Go away from here. If you really fear Allah,

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how many times it happens that young girls, they're in their privacy and their private email account, their private messenger, their private, whatever chat they use to communicate with other people. And there appears and

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there appears a young men generally what is their reaction? Let me see what he has to say. Why do you have to think negatively all the time. Maybe he has something good to say

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I'm just talking about good stuff. But the fact is that when you bring a non mushroom where there is no other third person, you're talking to someone and nobody else is witnessing that conversation. Nobody else is seeing you talk, then know that it will lead to

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it will lead to disobedience to a loss of panel data. Why? Because any place where there is one non Muslim man who is the third shape on so look at her. She says in a row the bedrock many men get in contact a year, if you hear a lot leave. Children say Who are you? What's your name? Why have you come here, she just says leave, please go away. I don't want to speak to you. I don't want to know you just go. Just go if you

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look at our cheese, cheese. This reveals her chastity, this reveals are higher.

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But unfortunately, many times young girls they given at this point.

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Allah He said, in number Indeed, I am only Anna, I am Rasulullah I am the messenger of your Lord meaning an angel to convey a message to you

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leave a harbor so that I can grant I have been sent by Allah in order to give laka to you who lamb and a boy, that is the key here that is pure.

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I have come to give you the good news to give you the cause of your conception of what are the who lemons, okay? That you're going to conceive a boy who's going to be the key? Who is he referring to?

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And you're excited to them is described as a key.

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Meaning I'm not here of my own world. I'm not here with a bad intention. I'm not here without a purpose. But I have come here for a reason. And what is that reason to make the cause of your conception, which was to blow the roof into her to blow the roof into her so that she would conceive?

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Now think about it, she could have been made pregnant without even the angel appearing to her.

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Like for example, if Allah had to send an angel to blow the roof into her, the angel could have gone and blown the roof and simple. Every pregnant woman at a certain time the angel comes, puts the roof in and also writes everything that unless a penalty has decreed for the child isn't until the mother does not know. She doesn't have a dream she doesn't see the angel. So the same thing could have happened with Maria Maria Sena. Correct. But the fact is, that how would Maria Maria said I know that she had become pregnant.

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And how would she know Why? For what reason? And how come

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she was not married? She never did anything wrong. And for her to become pregnant, and for her to know that she's pregnant with something very strange. So for that reason an angel was sent to tell her as well.

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We learned in sort of earlier I'm not I have 45 if Carlton Milan Equatoria Maria mo in the Maha Yoga shiraki Kalamata Minh, who is Mohan mercy who received the Millennium wedgie hand-fed dunya will ask her a woman in Makati.

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I do not need to translate the site right.

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So what happened on that she said, Maria, Maria said and responded upon hearing that the NGO had come to give her a boy. She said I'm Nicola Nicola, how can I have a child? What am em says Niva Sharon, no man has touched me. Meaning I am not married, and I have not had any relations with anyone. lamium sesame Basha remember the word must is figuratively also used for *.

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While I'm a coo and I am not valeant unchaste. I am not an unchaste woman who would commit Zina. And as a result of that become pregnant. Billy is one who crosses the limits in fulfilling his or her desires. And because of this reason, the word bully is also used for a prostitute for an unchaste woman or unchaste person, not necessarily woman but also

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so LML cubilia. I am not a belief person who would establish our traditions outside the bounds of marriage. So lamium sesame Basha denotes that I am not married while I'm obaldia meaning I would never come in sooner or later, he said the angel said cadair Leakey. Likewise, this is exactly what's going to happen. You are going to have a boy as you are,

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just as it was said to the Korean listener, that you are going to have a child in the very state that you're in.

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You being old, your wife being old, it's not that you will become young and your wife will become young. No, the way you are you're going to have a child. Similarly, Maria, Maria Sena, the way you are, you're going to have a child

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You're not going to lose your virginity. You're still going to be a virgin.

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Cuz Aliki,

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kala buki, your Lord has said Who are the yahaya that is very simple for me, very easy for me. Nothing is difficult for a

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while in Nigeria Allah who and so that we can make him is an assigned the NASA for the people.

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Why is he going to be born in this way so that he can be assigned for the Assign of what of Allah xpower?

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Well, I met a minute and a mercy from Us an expression of the mercy of Allah soprano.

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With regards to your Heritage Center, Hannon was said with regards to restart the center

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that he is in mercy because he would be a prophet who would guide people who would teach people

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what can a moron and it is a matter that is Mongolia that is already decreed.

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mokulele is from the rotators of badea Oda which is to decree to carry out so makabe one that has been decreed one that has been executed, meaning Allah has decided Allah has determined that you are going to have a son, you are going to have a child and there is no avoiding it. There is no avoiding it this is going to happen.

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We learn sort of earlier on in if 47 boditrak be annakroni wellard by lamium says naeba Sha, Allah Connecticut level, Yahoo komiya Shan nyesha he creates whatever he wills either Cabo Amman for enamine akula who can fire co he just has to say good and it happens.

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It is mentioned in narrations then gibreel breathed into the opening of her shirt. And with that rule, entered into her and she became pregnant she conceived the child

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for her mother to so she conceived him she became pregnant with Reese are the center fen tebah that then she withdrew. Be he with him. Meaning she had a child in her womb and she withdrew into Mr. Cannon a place that was costly. That was more remote.

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Notice, already she had interpreted. Now she had to interpret it even more. She had secluded herself first and now she had to seclude herself even more. Why?

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Because what would people say?

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That this girl is supposed to be chaste? living in the hateful, worshipping Allah subhanaw taala. Learning the deen and here she's pregnant. She's not even married. So out of the fear of people that what are people going to say? To keep away from the people site to hide your pregnancy? What did she do? She withdrew into a more remote place asleep is from newsletters offside. Well, remember the word kozma oxa. What does it mean? That which is distant that which is far, but remember that with distance the word also gives meaning of direction that far in a certain direction.

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far in a certain direction like Eastern or Western?

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No. Money Ernestina is a great inspiration not just for young single women, but also for pregnant women.

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Also for young mothers,

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look on video where they sit. She's all alone.

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All alone.

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Now many times if a woman is pregnant, she has no support. She has no family with her sister and her husband. She feels oh my god for me. This is so unfair. Why don't people feel anything for me? Why don't they have any mercy on me? Let's look at Maria Maria center. She was going through the pregnancy everything herself alone. fantabulous Biggie McCann casaya. So when you're alone, don't worry, because Allah is making you stronger. For something that he will make you do. He's making you stronger, so that you can face the future so that you're able to do something in the future. She's alone right now.

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For a job.

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And then it brought her it drove her. What drove her And mahalo, the pains of childbirth. They drove her Elijah's there enough to the trunk of a date.

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And in that pain, she said, Carla, Dr. Leighton emit to Kabbalah Oh, I wish I had died before this. Welcome to nauseum and sia and I was in oblivion. I was forgotten. Nobody ever knew me. This pain is too much.

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I notice it's not what is it?

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And IJA is to bring it is to dry it is to force someone to come

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and Jaya is to come.

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to compel someone to come to leave no choice with them.

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So it drove her. It moved her it made her go, what an Mahathir. Mohamad is labor pains, the pains of childbirth. mahila. Young caldo is when a pregnant woman is in the pain of childbirth, you can say contractions, the pain that a woman experiences as a child is prepared to exit the womb.

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So these pains because of them, she was driven to get the necklace to the trunk of

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the rescue rest against it, or to hold it for support. Or to you know, hold on to it as you would take every contraction as you would bear the pain. And in all that pain call that she said, Yeah, Layton? Oh, I wish that mid do I wish I had died? before it is?

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Today? What happens if a woman cannot take the pain? epidural? Simple. I cannot go through normal delivery. I'll just do a C section simple. But what do we see? She's alone. All alone?

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Can you imagine a woman is giving birth or No, she doesn't have any support.

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Typically, if women if their husbands are not there, or if they don't have good nurses, they complain so much. They cry so much. They worry so much. But look at this poor lady. She's all by herself.

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And that he says I wish I had died before this, this is unbearable.

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And yes, the physical pain was unbearable. But on top of that, it was the fear of what the people are going to see.

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What are they going to see? Walk into and out of that fear. She says I wish I was in a scene. I was in oblivion. I was a thing forgotten.

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Napoleon is something that is forgotten. Something that is abandoned, that nobody recognizes nobody remembers nobody gives any importance to nobody notices at all. monseigneur one that is forgotten.

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Someone says here for the purpose of emphasis. I wish I was forgotten. Nobody knew me. I was not worth noticing. So for her, the pain of birth was less than the pain of bad name.

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The pain of the fear of people.

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Typically, when women go through labor, what is it that comforts them?

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What is it that comforts them?

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I'm going to see my child, right? And as soon as I see the child that said the pain goes away. But for many of our SNM Yes, you would see the child but then what are people going to say about that?

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She was an extremely chaste, righteous bias girl.

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And for her to have a child, everybody would notice it, everybody, and nobody would spare her. Nobody would leave her, everybody would criticize her.

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And it will be extremely difficult for herself to explain herself. Because nobody accepts the fact that a virgin could give birth, that a woman has a child without having relations with a man. It's not imaginable. People cannot understand that. It goes against how things normally function.

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So she was extremely fearful. She was extremely worried about that. And because of this, her pains, they were intensified for her.

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So what happened to her, so he called her main Daddy, her from below her mentality has also been read as the one who was below her.

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And this has been understood in two ways. First of all, God, that God was below her meaning men McCann as fenomena he was in a place that was lower than the place that she was standing. Perhaps it was a hilly area, a low earner. So she was by this date palm tree, and debris was at a location that was lower. So he called out to her a lattice and he said don't worry, don't worry, don't be sad. You can do it. Don't make such as the journal book that he said a year. Allah has made beneath you a steady stream. SETI is from the root letters seen Raia and SETI is a small river it's used for a stream

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from the same root as the word SETI Yeah. Which is used for the expeditions on which the Sahaba went without the Prophet satellite isn't because it was usually a very small expedition compared to a battle in which the prophets all of a sudden would participate in the city. Yeah, is a small river or Creek, a water stream.

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So don't worry. There's water right beneath you. Drink it. Have some cool yourself. hydrate yourself. Relax. Don't worry too much.

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Someone said that. Fernanda? This is referring to that as he was being born. He spoke to her because she was alone. And very silent. said I'm sorry.

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spoke as a child as an infant. So from the moment that he was being born, he began talking to her comforting her mother.

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That Oh, Mother, Honey, don't worry, don't be sad. Or the journal book eternity sorry, yeah. Your Lord has made beneath you sad.

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And then study has been understood as a leader. Because study some have said that is from the roots that are seen who are well, someone and someone is different height, prestige.

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So Allah has placed beneath you, meaning under your care is who a leader

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that you are giving birth to a leader, not an ordinary child. You've given birth to a leader.

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Well, who's he and shake, he lay key to word you shake toward yourself. Big is there inequality, the trunk of the boundary, you may wonder she's in labor. And she's being told to shake the trunk of the car.

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Think about it. The food is not given to her. She is told shake that a farm, the circuit are leaky, it will fall down upon you growth of engineer fresh dates are going to fall down upon you and then eat them.

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She's in labor.

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The fact is that you see shaking something, moving something. And something as firm as a date farm trunk requires a lot of effort, right and requires you to use your abdominal muscles. Right. And those are necessary when bearing the pain of the contraction as well as giving birth.

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So who's the like, adopt means grab the trunk of the dead pan and shake it toward yourself.

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And notice the word was the eardrum has and has is to move something by shaking it to move it to and fro to shake it back and forth to rock something

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and he likes to word yourself meaningful towards yourself. So pull towards yourself as you go through the pain. The date palm tree as a result what's going to happen to SAP in two seconds from the root ever seen. So called and supported when something falls down from a height.

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So it will fall down upon you. Little Tavon dades rota. It is said that it's a sort of lava, and others say that it's a singular word. And it's used for dates that are fresh. That are right. And Jenny, Jenny is some newsletters jeem noon Yeah. Jenna yejide which is to pick fruit that is ripe, that is ready, that is ready to be picked.

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So to sell Kabbalah Aikido club and jania. Notice dates have been mentioned. Why?

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Because dates are a source of nutrition, instant energy. So in labor, do things I mentioned over here, what?

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First of all, who's de la key, and secondly, have dates.

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This will ease the pain, this will give you energy.

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And if you notice the food does not serve to her, she had to get it herself.

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Now sometimes we think that if we are going through such pain, and still we have to cook and still we have to hold the baby and still we have to change the baby. Why don't people have mercy? How can they be so unfair? Remember Maria Maria center.

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At least you have someone to talk to someone who can say you can do it, you're doing fine.

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She was alone,

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completely alone, all by herself.

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And the thing is that we think that when we're going through some difficulty, we just need to relax and do nothing.

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But the fact is that when you start doing something, then it helps you bear the pain. It helps you take the pain, it distracts you,

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doesn't it.

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And if you're just sitting with your pain, then what happens?

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It becomes so long. Every moment seems like an hour, the time does not seem to pass. It happens, for instance, that women who have children from before and if they're giving birth again, they're busy until the last moment getting one child ready then getting the other charity feeding one child changing another child. And then literally at the last one they'll go to the hospital give birth within an hour, two hours and come home finished.

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And women who are giving birth the first time what happens hours and hours and hours because all their concern is on what

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on that particular baby.

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So when you're busy preparing your food, shaking the tree to get those dates so that you can eat them. It will distract you

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pain management

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focali then eat wasabi and drink or Korea and cool your eyes.

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Eat the dates and drink the cool water and cool your eyes How? By looking at your chat

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Carly is

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The ruthless godfather. And core is when something becomes cold. When it's cold, you become still isn't it?

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You want to become cozy and comfortable. So Korea China, cool your eyes, rest your eyes, be cheerful, be happy, be delighted by looking at your child. Don't cry

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for him. And if you're worried that people will say something to you, if that are you at all see Lucia that at the end is for definitely, if you see at all men, especially from the men had an anyone meaning if you see any person and he asks you about this baby, this child for Callie, then you say in Nina, there are too many Salma indeed I have vowed for the Most Merciful, a fast.

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Number two, number two is from another. Another is to vow to make something voluntary, mandatory on yourself. Something that is not mandatory, it is to make it mandatory on yourself devout.

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So I have vowed for the sake of the Most Merciful someone a fast meaning I'm fasting today.

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And because of this fast of mine felon, aka Lima Lima then never shall I speak today do in Seiya to any person.

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What does it mean?

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Because I'm fasting, I'm not going to talk. Yes, because this fast, was abstaining from docking, it was a vow of silence. And this was a part of this show,

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that if a person wanted to do this gear of his soul, he would make a vow of silence, he would not speak to people.

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And there's something very effective, because the more you talk, the more distracted you become. The more silent you are, the more you get to reflect on yourself.

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And the literal meaning of the word song is abstention, to abstain, abstain from something to refrain from something and I said someone photos to Solomon, the horse refrain from eating its food.

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Now imagine Maria Maria Sam, if she's with this child, and somebody comes and sees her oh my god way this child come from? And if she starts explaining herself, will the other person listen? Would they believer? No. So in some situations, it's not possible to explain to the people to make them understand. What's the best way to

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remain silent. Don't say anything.

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So this is what Allah subhanaw taala told me to run into them as well that if anybody asks you just tell them. I cannot speak today.

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And you may wonder, but she's not allowed to talk. So How come she's talking?

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In other words, only as your last statement, that after that you Don't utter anything, you don't say anything, you just tell them

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or only can also be through some communication through some gesture, because the Arabs they use the word coal, for communication, whether it is through writing or it is verbal, or it is through a sign. That is what coal is. So just tell the other person somehow that you can talk and you're fasting.

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So she can be with him with who we're excited to do who Omaha to her people. That Camilla who she was carrying him.

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She didn't just stay there. icon face to people. Life is too difficult with a baby. I can't go back. No, she took the baby. And she went for that vehicle Maha Mila, who? You see when she's pregnant, when she is giving birth, and after the baby as well. She's so inspiring. Every woman who is expecting who has gone through labor or who is preparing for labor, who is preparing for a child to come, she should take some lessons from an emergency.

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That she's so strong. She is all alone. She has to help herself. She doesn't have many people to support her. But what is it that comforts her?

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It's the guidance from almost panic.

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And we have also been given some guidance. And where is that in the Quran?

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If you're spiritually content, if you're spiritually nourished, you don't need 20 people to motivate you. You don't need everybody calling you telling you take it easy, you can do it. No. If you're spiritually content, if you're spiritually nourished, the Quran will guide you. The Quran will be your motivation. The Quran will give you strength. It's the word of Allah that will give you strength

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for that to be Omaha, Mila she came to the people carrying her child. All the sudden Yeah, Maria, or Maria, aka DJ Tisha and Ferrari. Yeah, you have certainly done a thing. That was unprecedent

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But uh, yeah, it's from the reflectors fell out. Yeah.

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Any other words from the same root?

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If de la fabrication. So for a meaning this is fabricated. In other words, it's not Halloween. You have brought a child who was one of the

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Xena is not Hello, not a Hello child.

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Secondly, it is also used for something that is outrageous something that is earlene that cannot be accepted.

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Thirdly, it is also said that it is something that is RG that is very shocking, very astonishing, very surprising. What surprises you

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things that you never expected

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and they disturb you they upset you. You never imagined that they could happen. It's unheard of. So look at the GTA every year, you have done something shocking, surprising, very disturbing, very upsetting. We never thought that you would do something like that.

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What you've done is extremely wrong. Very serious for you have a child without having a husband. It's immoral. It's unacceptable. We never expected that you could do something like that. It's very scandalous. It's a big atrocity. It's very wrong. It's disgusting what you've done. They say yeah, the heroine or sister of her own McKenna abou Kumar. So in your father was not a man of evil.

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They call her sister of her own, who has her own.

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According to some It was literally her brother.

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She had a brother as well whose name was out on this island is not then referring to the brother who status in

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others I said that no heroin is referring to the brother of Masada center. And yes, she was off his descendants. She came many, many years after him. So why she called the sister of how long? Because the Arabs, they have this custom of addressing a person belonging to a tribe, not just the Arabs, but in Semitic languages. They have this custom of addressing a person who is from a particular tribe or particular family, as the brother or the sister, or the son or the daughter of that tribe,

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or the son, the daughter, the sister, the brother of someone important from that tribe.

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So how do I notice that I was someone very important from Bani Israel. This is why they say of the heroine. She was from his descendants. This is why the status of the heroine

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similarly, people would say yeah, a Hamada or brother of MOBA, meaning the tribe of MOBA.

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The Prophet sallallahu Sallam was known as Hashmi. Why? Because he was from the descendants of Hashimi

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cemetery their family names such as unsavoury doesn't mean that your father's name isn't funny. No, you know, there's many family names icon is your father's name, clan? No, it's just a family name, right? Where did that family get that name from someone who was important back then. And now you're called the daughter of that person. Whereas in reality, you're not their daughter.

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So similarly to her own sister of how to own meaning. You are from the noble family of the descendants of her Luna Lisa.

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You belong to the noble family of prophets from their children. What have you done?

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McKenna buki Your father was not immoral. So a man of evil.

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immoral so is a person who commits evil actions a man who does evil actions, such as dinner.

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So your father was not as any one mechanic tomoki Billy Yeah. And your mother was not even a bully. Someone who was unchaste someone who was commit fornication. So what happened? For a shout out to LA she remain silent and she just pointed towards him. Call you they said okay, Veronica limo, how can we speak mankind affinity to the one who is in the cradle? So being a child? How can we talk to this child who is still in the cradle? Why are you pointing towards him? Speak Dallas.

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Allah He said now he spoke up in near Abba de la. Indeed I am the servant of Allah. Tonio kita, he has given me the book, what's your alanine? oveja and he has made me a prophet, which book is this? According to some it refers to the total because he was given the knowledge of the Torah at a very early age, while he was still in the womb of his mother.

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And definitely, what had an impact on that, because Maria Maria Sena, what did she do? What did she do? She used to study the data. So obviously, whatever she did her child also learn to

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remember whatever you do in your pregnancy your child will naturally be inclined towards that he will be able to learn that very quickly.

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So he started he said, um, he was made to learn the total when he was still in the womb, he was born with that.

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And others have said that Alcatel refers to mg, that Allah will give me the book in June, where there are learning of the year and he has made me a prophet. So what do we learn that restart Islam was also a prophet.

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At what age

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He's an infant.

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He's an infant with your alanine obeah. And some have said what jerilyn innovia means that he will make me a prophet.

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What's a very important lesson in this for us?

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Whatever you want your child to become good at, do that when you're pregnant.

Maryam 1-40 Word Analysis and Tafsir 16-30

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