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Homemade Happiness #1

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Riad Ouarzazi

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Smaller homies also to some lesser lesser mid

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bollock.

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rehabbers as he would come near to the new series,

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homemade happiness, homemade happiness, I ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to fill your homes with peace and serenity and love

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and prosperity.

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I have the hamdulillah Facebook here, Instagram here. It's a totally new brand new series and hamdulillah normally this series, actually, you know, it's a paid series of how it's a paid type of seminars.

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But a llama can have, you know, you get it for free now, you get a free sebelah right? But it's, we've had this seminar in the UK, in Australia, in Canada, but not the full series. I did not finish it all, you know? And then you get to have it in Sharla horchata. It's a series that will take us definitely a few few new episodes.

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This series that involve every member of the family, every member of the family. And though in the midst of this pandemic, right in the midst of this lockdown, I think it's an amazing series to to have and to talk about. Just give me one second.

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Yeah.

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Well, there's some more lights in there like this. So I was saying that I caught it homemade happiness in the midst of the of this pandemic. So inshallah who tada it is something that will involve every one of us. It is something that involves all the moms all the dads,

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all the dishes and zumiez and yeah scenes and as well as and, and he has a net Diaz and marinas and hafeez Morales, it involves everybody and the man's, you know, it involves everyone. It's a series that involves sisters brothers, who will talk about it, it's gonna be amazing shout out to add up. It will. It's a lot of power and a lot of headache, a lot of stories from the provenance of Sudan. A lot of actually very, very personal, you know, experiences as well. A lot of personal stories as well. relationship with the mom's relationship with the dad relationship with the sisters with the siblings, husbands and wives. Oh, yes, husbands and wives as well. Of course, we'd have you know,

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special sessions as well for those. So I call it homemade happiness in the midst of this pandemic, so it's a quick intro, I see hearts I see loves I see. I see chocolate and I see candies and I see s greens and I see purples and I see yellows and reds. All these beautiful beautiful You know, beautiful hearts Mashallah court a live law is a common law fair? Yes, yes. zakum laferriere See, and nazwa and Hani Asahi is back and key color blow Mashallah Hina Nadia and Mariana Masha heda all of you

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know Yes, amen. I want chocolate to

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masala Kaka my man is in town today.

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How happy Can I be man? How can I how happy can do I need to be God come my man is in town, aka Sofia. And he has seen failure. Yes and Sadie and sumiya she's in town. Everybody's in town.

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have his mobile is in town a lot. But yeah, yeah, yeah. Have it in town, deca hamdulillah. Brad, I mean, Nigel was in town. Oh man is in town. Lower bozhena is in down right.

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Mashallah, yeah this so everybody's in town my brothers and sisters Welcome. Welcome to my new my new series my new sessions called homemade happiness. Because you will see why I call it homemade happiness. Don't you want to, you know, feel happy when you come home while you're already home. Right? But don't you want any at the time when you will go out and Charlotte to work and school or whatnot. And then you can't wait to come back home because you want to see your loved ones.

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Your home should be

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That abode, you know, in this dunya, for, for peace for serenity for for prosperity, no, you know, there's a lot of you know this because we're gonna be talking about you know divorce and marriage and we're gonna be talking about you know conflicts that happen sometimes at homes and you know I won't go into special details but in general in general you know, some common law any sometimes you will you know people they they they they put in their friends before the family like the the some of the you know, the kids you know, some of they put in their friends before the family will as the family should always come first you know, why would you put your friends because you know, before

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your family, we need to discuss these things, you know, what makes them choose their friends before the family you know, or as like I said family always kind of has to come first

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we will live in sha Allah Allah to Allah because the purpose of the series The purpose is to is to reunite the family, especially Subhana Allah in a know like I said, amidst this, this pandemic and dislike down the purpose of the series is is a family reunion, right? In light of korona family reunion to

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bring back the father would bring back the mom would bring back

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the husband and the wife, you know, the sisters and the brothers, the siblings

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know, me and my father, how can we? How can I strengthen our relationship? How can I strengthen my relationship with my dad? How can I strengthen my relationship with my mom? How can I strengthen my relationship with my with my wife with my husband, right? Me and my sister, me and my brother, how can we

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strengthen that relationship? How can I How can I become successful in life? You know, to the door of my mother to the daughter of my father, how can I be successful in life? You know Subhanallah if you look at the successful people in fact, if you look at the even non Muslim successful people, people like for them and gates and and the Facebook guy and you know, they are happy people in their homes. They've got the support from their own homes from their families from their wives from their parents you know, they've got that support so how can I be successful in life through the drama of my mother of my father How How can me and my father have a have a conversation

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How can me and my father you know have a dialogue have a have a piece of peaceful intelligent conversation without pin pointing fingers without making belittling me without him looking down upon me How can I have a dialogue a friendly conversation with my mom with my dad without me disrespecting them without me disrespecting them without you know without me stuff like this honoring them How can I be able to listen from him with an open heart You know, how can we have just a very friendly conversation dialogue with the families without having to go through conflicts every time we have a conversation you know, somebody has to say you listen, I know more than you do. You

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listen I have no yes it may it may you know it could be true Your father has gone through so much and maybe you know it is true but the the way to say that the way to share it the way to convey that message maybe was not the right way to convey that message. You know, how can we just have that friendly conversation? You listen to me I listened to you you trust me? I trust you know, how can we how can we use the the the the language of compassion right how can we use the language of compassion? How can we use the language of love can we you use the language of rahama between the family members between you know the brothers and the sisters between between please just just just

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focus with me here please no focus don't just you know make final commentary just to be fun and whatnot. We're talking about something important subtract to concentrate rather than just blowing you know these sometimes you think they're funny comments but you know, you're losing the on on the beauty here you're losing I don't want you to lose on the golf. I don't really want you to lose on that goal. So my brothers and sisters

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just focus with me here because I said I'm giving you

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an introduction, introduction to this amazing to be series in shot Lodi. You know, it is not an out Why did I call it homemade happiness and who does

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involve, right? Who does it involve?

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You know?

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Is it only for the parents because some of you tell me please talk to the parents. Someone say please talk to the moms, some sap stocks our children, some said please talk to our brothers and sisters. I'm going to talk to everybody childhood.

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Right? We're gonna talk to everyone to the series in sha Allah Tada, how can we become friends? Me and my dad? How can we become friends? Me and my mom? How can we become friends? Me and my wife, me and my husband, me and my children? How can we bring that serenity in our homes? inshallah Tada, that's the purpose of this, of this of this series. Why do we call it homemade happiness? How can I come home and can't wait to come back home? Right. Now people are saying I can't wait to leave home.

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I can't wait to leave home.

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But I want it to be how can I? I don't how can I wait to come back home.

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To come back home and to be home and to enjoy being home.

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I will talk to the youngsters as well. I will talk to the Shabaab, the youth.

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And I will talk to the youth on how to choose their friends.

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That's why I said homemade happiness. Because your friends can affect your relationship with your parents with your home.

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Your friends can affect your relationship with your home.

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That's why I also would like to talk to the youth

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in Sharla,

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I would like to talk to the wives.

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Yes. I would like to talk to the wives

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and to the husbands

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and pull some ears.

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How can we bring back the love?

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You may say hamdulillah love is still there. Love is still in the air? I would say sure fine. How can we energize that love? How can we energize that love?

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Who will talk to the daughters and will talk to the sons.

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We've talked to the moms

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the most beautiful title on earth after profits.

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Mom's mother's

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who we've talked to them

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the engine of motivation.

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Mothers will be talking to them because this series will be talking to the dads

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the pillars of our homes. Our dads

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will may not understand the value of our dads

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and our moms maybe enter the day they're gone.

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I have a very nice poem to share about you. Or with you not about you to share with you about moms

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or moms me.

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I have this very beautiful poem but I will share it in sha Allah tada a Jew time. The beautiful poem that will make you all cry.

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Beautiful boy that would make you all cry about moms.

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So this is the purpose of the series in Sharla hota. I may not be able to talk about every problem in every home and by every case and cover all the cases.

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No, that's not the point. The point of the series in shallow talla is to share with you some foundations, some principles.

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You could use these principles and foundations to make them as the key to happiness to your homes. Allahu Allahu Allah. Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah Einstein, Allah Allah, no mess Allah What is this men say that again? Say that again? Yes, I will share with you some, some foundations and some principles on how to to have the etiquettes

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or how to have the keys to bring in happiness to your homes. Through these principles, that we will establish together in sha Allah hota Hana to these foundations, we will have the keys to our homemade happiness

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in shallow dad

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now

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Now, this is the purpose of the series called homemade happiness. Howard

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Howard, Zimmer Sherman Phil bait.

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Gemma Sherman this mission semolina so the purpose in sha Allah is to reunite the family and to re energize the family in light of this pandemic. And sha Allah hota

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one long boo,

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boo Tecumseh Ghana

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one love boo

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boo t comm second

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insolate verse number 80 Allah Subhana Allah Allah says Allah has made for you in your homes and the boats and the boat, meaning to feel tranquility when you are home. This is the purpose of the home is to make you feel tranquil is to make you feel serene is to make you feel peaceful. This is the purpose is what Allah subhanho wa Taala says here though money and that tranquility and when I'm home I need to feel tranquil and to feel that tranquility when I'm home. I need to feel that peace that serenity that prosperity. This is what homes are mentor,

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not zone of war like war war zones, because unfortunately some of our homes have become like war zones, like Ground Zero.

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You know Ground Zero some of our homes have become like ground zero.

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So we need to change from ground zero to homemade, you know, home. Happy home.

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Happy home.

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A beautiful home.

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And from the drama of Allah subhanho wa Adana, from that novelization, is that Allah subhanho wa Taala Anna

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has made this home the source of your happiness, because if you cannot be happy at home guaranteed guarantee you will not be happy outside of your home.

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You may think oh yeah, I'm happy as soon as I leave home I'm happy. No, that's a fake happiness.

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The happiness starts in your home

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guarantee guarantee.

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Mackenzie added to outside attic elbaite when mfold econ hurdle beta will mecanizado mfold the law which should be like that it shouldn't be that your home is the source of happiness. So imagine when you're happy at home, you come out you will be productive. We will be Mashallah number one, a student you will be in number one, a Michelle, my husband or the wife because you are happy at home.

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You're happy at home. So many divorces are caused because husbands are not happy at home.

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Well let his sisters and brothers listen to what I'm gonna say right now.

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All those who are married. Listen to what I'm going to say right now. Are you listening? Marianne? Are you listening? nassima you're listening color. Boy, you're listening. One on One a low on love. Are you listening? That's why you're listening. Such that you're listening Hansa hafsa Are you listening? And listening? Yes, man. Are you listening? Because listen to what I'm going to say now.

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Are you guys listening to me? Amen. This thing Manasa you're listening. Nadia Nadeem.

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Bring your family and let them listen to this. Diane King.

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Sister Diane kina you're listening. Listen to I'm gonna say right now Mariana. You're listening. All right. Listen up. Yes. Seen? There is no cliffhanger. I just started my man. I just started Shawn. How can I give you a cliff anger I just started here it is here it is. Listen up.

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We're lucky if the husband is happy at home.

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He would never think of cheating on his wife. I'm talking even about those that don't feel Allah because those who feel Allah they will be looking at something else.

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They will be looking at something else.

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And if a wife is happy at home, she also would not think of cheating her husband.

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Because it does happen nowadays. Muslims Muslim families

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Yes. Wives also cheating on their husbands Muslim families. Not only has been cheating on their wives that

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yes, maybe the norm I mean that's the follow the norm but we cannot compare yes, it does happen.

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It does happen.

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You know, but I'll tell you, if the husband is happy at home, he will never think of

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cheating.

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If the wife is happy at home, she will never think of cheating.

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Nobody would ever think of cheating. That's why I said Your home is the source of that happiness.

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Our home, and this is why I call this homemade happiness.

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Homemade happens in sha Allah huhtala. What I promise you from this series is this.

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Here's my promise that I'm making here in sha Allah who to add my promise in sha Allah.

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And

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my promise is,

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and my mandate is

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my mandate and my promise is a shala to the series, your homes will not be the same and charlo died.

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My promise to you to the series,

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to these lectures that I have started and today is my first session, your home in sha Allah hota Allah will never be the same

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promise.

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You have to give me chance.

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Come, stay, listen up.

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Take notes. Not only one session, come and follow me throughout the sessions. I promise you in sha Allah hota Allah,

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I promise you, your homes will never be the same. This is the promise I'm making here. You see, where can you find somebody who makes you know, a promise before the start of his series?

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Alrighty, but at the same time, I demand respect.

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If I see that you're not respecting me on your own no one, you know that I would. I'm sorry.

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I don't want to be too. I don't want to I'm not gonna disrespect you know, but I don't want to ignore you, or neglect you.

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I want to really respect you and I do.

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And I talked to all of you

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and I by name I greet you.

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And I love you all for the sake of realization, but we have to show respect

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to one another.

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So my brothers and sisters, my brothers and sisters, Allah subhanho wa Taala says In the end, Janata Adani, the whole owner

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saw the humming

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he

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saw the humming the emo as YG him whether the T him when mela ko Luna ra him Min coolibah Sena Moon is a female sababa This is a subtle rat race number 23. The court Allah Xhosa here says with regard in fact to the family's gender Janna to attorney had her own woman

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he was watching him was on the team when they would enter this gender, this this have this paradise of Eden, not only them, not only them, Isaiah says them and those who are righteous from their parents, from their spouses from their from their children from their children. So not only remember the end of time series when we talked about the the agenda and how not only you but also your families our loved ones would enter it so I was saying sisters and brothers that this area Allah subhanho wa Taala says when you will enter this Jana the of Eden you and your loved ones you know from your parents and from your wives and from your children. What would happen one meta eco Luna

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Allah him being called Lieber and angels greeting you from every door from every gate of Jannah What are they saying? Salah Moana la Bhima sabaton peace beach you Peace be with you said I'm gonna come for you being patient for you being persevering, you know, persevere because yes, there was some issues at home and you knew how to handle them. Yes, there were some troubles at home and then you knew how to handle them. Yes, there were some conflicts at home, but you knew how to handle them. And you showed patience. So these angels, they will welcome you Santa Monica la comme Bhima sabado. Tune, peace be with you. You showed a lot of patience on how you dealt with those conflicts with

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those misunderstandings with people spreading rumors about your families, which

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People spreading rumors about your dad's about your mom about your sisters about your brothers about your wife's about your husband. You know you knew how to handle those conflicts a lot about a lot about love about fan yeah and bad dad and he said the family motto bad. Welcome to the true home. The real home jedna you have Gemini in your home in dystonia. Now, welcome to the agenda of Africa, the agenda of 11 inshallah whose data you started your home with gender at your home? Yes, I want my gender my home to be in here in this life in this life. I want my home to be like Jenna. So when I enter Shana, I mean hamdulillah I entered Jenna in this dunya and they entered Jenna in the ARCA

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Allahu Akbar. So your home should be Sharla your own little Jenna, your home should be your own little Jana. That's why I call it homemade happiness.

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Homemade happiness.

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But I just don't want you alone to listen. Please, try to get your families to listen as well. Bring them along. Let's make this a family reunion with the yado zazzy

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Let's have this a family reunion with the yard or zazzy online.

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Hmm, bring your dad bring your mom if your dad is alive. If your mom is alive metallisation grendon long life if they are dead May Allah azza wa jal saw his mercy upon them. Bring your wife, bring your kids bring your husband, if your wife is not there, if you're not married, think like your wife is there and hug her hug the hug the air if you think you know if you're not married, you know, and you know, just be think pretend that your wife is there, you know, hugging her, like you're hugging the air, but it's okay. Hug her from time to time gives the air you know, just you prepare yourself. Prepare yourself like you know, to get met, you know that have often Sharla have been married,

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prepare yourself, you know, have the air kiss the air, you know from time to time, you know? And then listen, you know, and then you know, no, yeah, the same wife is the same one you just like, you know, she went from here and then you went from you know, self like, you know, I'm doing this leather. Nice to see Nikita you know, yeah, hugging your imaginary husband. Exactly. You're imagining your husband, and then they know and from time to time, you know, tickle hair. tickly tickly tickly tickly tickly tickly in optical

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it's okay no gavia IBV many job many job many just you just you by yourself with your with your hobby right when you're happy having fun, you know you just did this

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you know you know

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it just having fun? I mean you're just pretending you're Are you preparing yourself with a real life you know for the real there is a lie right? You know you're just like a kid not preparing yourself. I what I meant here call your family inshallah who tada call them you know, let them come and listen in sha Allah which Allah because we want this this program is for the family. The program is for the family, everybody, right? Go to your your sisters and brothers. Don't just be by yourself. Call them let them shout Allahu taala Listen up, you know. Exactly so although some of you already are listing with the farm, she is asleep. Go wake her up. Yeah, see? Go pick her up man. Well

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Wakey wakey

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wakey wakey awesome also

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this is how you wake up your wife you know to go and pray to God and pray wake up also.

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She would never pray man she would hate Salah you know you wake her up all sold

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on

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hand for her.

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You know got up here. This one guy says he put in a change stuff and I'm not gonna mention that. You know how he calls his wife on the phone. You know, she calls him pandemic and he calls a Coronavirus hola Oh what a liberal you know, any we don't that's not this is the one why we need to have homemade happiness. We need to have the series because in his cell phone, you know when it rings it says Coronavirus

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to level and therefore perform when it ranks because they're just pandemic

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mostly but we'll see you guys drinking.

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Mostly buys calling pandemic is calling caught on how

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is Cody law

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no no inshallah without up we will inshallah tada in the series my brothers and sisters scrub that all right cut it off man be serious okay here all right

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we want to worship a lot together as a family

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have been I have learned I mean as well as you know whether the teen up or what are you

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what do you

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mean a man

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look at this beautiful

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your dad and I maybe we speak the same language

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as well Gina was only Tina

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What do you mean Matatini? Mmm. So for Congress number 74 Allah subhanho wa Taala says with regard to these

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righteous people, right the the meaning the the the believers, Allah subhana wa tada says those who say I've been a habit and I mean as well you know, they say what our Lord bestow on us from our wives and from our children, those who will be the cornerstone of our eyes, Allah Holla Holla Holla Holla Holla Holla

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the corners to your eyes. So your family is the coolness to your eyes about banner headline I mean, as well Gina was the Tinapa What are you? What's your

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opinion? Mmm, una zona Waterford Toby Mr. Sabo. While you're not alone Effie had to had done was Ella Holly Deena de hacer una to Mr. Pamela. Man.

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Yes.

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those are those are lies he says in that regard. Those don't want they will be the ones who will be you know admitted to

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Jenna those beautiful mansions in Jannah those people who make that door to the Lord or Allah Allah Allah bless bestow on us bestow on us from our from our wives and from our you know, children those who will be the coolness to our eyes, the coolness to our eyes.

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Some of us are sisters, I'm going to share with you my very first principle in the series maybe I will share about 10 principles 20 principles, but please try to take notes or at least remember at least try to remember these principles as I mentioned, I will not be able to solve every problem on every case in every home, but in the other end, what I'm going to be able to do is to inshallah hope to either on a golden platter serve you these and establish together these principles and foundations that you could use as a key to bring gain happiness in your home inshallah hotel.

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Okay. So, this is the purpose as I said, I will not be able to solve every case to every problem in every home, I will be much known, I will be Miss known, I can never do that. But what I can do on the other end is inshallah husana. To offer on a golden platter, right, this is a lot of work, because this is a lot of research I have done to you know, to handle that offer this course. Right? And as I said, initially, this course is a paid course it's a seminar. It's a it's a 234 day seminar, right? No, no, no, no, no, this is a full day. It may take me sometimes months before I finish the seminar, but my brothers and sisters

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I will I have summarized and compiled some foundations and principles so that you can use them whoever you are, you can use them in childhood to make your home. Homemade happiness. Alright, so my brothers and sisters, are you ready for may very first, my very first foundation.

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Oh, you're ready.

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For my first foundation and principle, Principle number one. Are you ready?

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Who's ready? and generous? Man? Are you ready? Sharla Are you ready? Are you ready, guys? rasmalai you're ready. Amen. Laila. Are you guys ready? Nadia Nadeem. Yes, please ready? Yes. mean you ready? Yeah. Uh huh. Who's ready? inshallah Kiko? Yes, you're ready. rasmalai? Yes. Ready? My Amen. Everybody. Sha la la la. Ha. What is where's? No one is no one knows. She's also ready. She's feeding. I hope she's feeling better. Fed. You're ready, my man. Maya, you're ready. handcuffs. Are you ready? Amen. All right, everybody shout lo Donna Yolanda emiliana here. Founder

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Number one, foundation number one. Diane Kane ready? All righty. Angela, you're ready. Bismillah Bismillah Bismillah

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Kadima, let's go for it.

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foundation number one.

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Well let him know about

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the SEMA foundation number one CF foundation Principle number one Mashallah now I'm happy that you fit in better law medical hemp. Mashallah shafaq 11 111 law American hemp law, American handle America haven't been a lot of blood I mean, so here's Principle number one.

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Principle number one is worship a lot together

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worship Allah for for you know to bring in and I call it homemade happiness homemade happiness, right it's called homemade happiness. So for this homemade happiness as I said I'm going to share with you principles foundations that you could use as a key as a key inshallah to bring in happiness to your home. Number one, and, number one, worship a lot together in your home now, especially in the light of this pandemic, in the light of this pandemic, right? The dad is praying alone. Mommy's praying alone. Sisters praying alone. The sister is praying alone. The brother is praying alone. The other brothers praying alone. The husband is there alone, and the wife is there praying alone. luck,

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luck, luck. No, no, no. In although ne ne ne ne ne ne, but in order you have to do this ne ne ne

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ne ne ne, right. No, we need inshallah, who to Ana Hmm, why are you are you shy from who you start to pray with your brother, you start to pray with your sister together, you start to bring the family together. Hmm. To prove the family why you're not in Sharla who to Ana, imagine lomenick and when we come and we read for and together

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we need to go and together. Family sitting together five minutes, 10 minutes 15 minutes before whenever we can before mercury will connect everyone together. Let's make the ad together. That's purple and let's let's record and together that I wish that spread that I wish together. They don't want to do eight Okay, do four they don't want to do four do two. They don't want to do to do one Twitter with a bit together as a family. We're going to pray together in sha Allah Allah. These are this is a prescription I swear by Allah. Listen to me. I swear by Allah who holds my soul and I'm still fasting I have not broken my fast yet. I'm still fasting I swear by Allah. If we do if we take

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this prescription only for a month try it in your home only for a month. Your home we change

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your home we change our law. We pray together.

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Okay case let's come together.

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Yella we're gonna record Anna Charlotte together. I'm not going to read your listen and the other one Read, read and whatever fat you have on our head. Everybody reads we're going to make you say I mean, we're going to pray together. We're going to do pm a live together. Now in the last 10 nights of Ramadan. And the last night wake everybody up. They're already up before so you say because these are the last nights of Ramadan. Let's insha Allah Allah do feel together I will make some maybe inshallah to Allah is the night of the power maybe is the data. Let's pray together.

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You're driving Sharla maybe after after the colonna you're driving with your family.

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Together Together we're gonna have fun together what we're gonna do some trivia questions about about about Sahaba about profit about Sierra but

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different prophets about worship Allah together.

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This is what a beautiful You know,

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that doesn't Allah subhana wa tada system. And you know why I'm telling you this? This is not from my mind. This is from the core and this is what Allah subhanho wa Taala says, Would you like me to share with you the ayah from the Quran?

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Would you like me to share with you the ayah from the Quran?

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Would you like me to do that?

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As sisters brothers would you like me to share with you the iPhone?

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Right

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insolate nasm verse number 43.

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In verse number 43, Allah subhana wa tada

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Well who Alevi Aldo haka abacha?

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Well, who led the haka abacha. He is the one who makes one. We know whoever he wills to laugh and whoever he was to cry. It is a live session. He is the one who makes us laugh and who makes us cry Allah Xhosa. So imagine we live with Allah when we want to bring that serenity at home and you want to bring that peace at home and you want to bring laughter at home. We want to bring joy and happiness at home homemade happiness, right? Allah says he is the one who makes us laugh and who makes us cry. So once we pray together, once we worship Allah together, he is going to shallow Tyler who's gonna make us laugh together.

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Ah, you see that? You get it?

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If we were to pray to Allah, together and Allah says he is the one who makes people love and who makes people cry.

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He is the one so if we were to all of us pray together, he will inshallah tada makes us make us laugh together and be happy together.

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Be happy together. Have that happiness have that joy together some kinda dad

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huh? Yo, do that Mashallah. Tada This is a magical recipe. This is a magical person. There's an Allah Subhana Allah Thailand and says hello kabhi Sana It was babina ida learners Alucard is all national Naruto hook into the Baja verse number 132 Allah subhana wa tada says

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about the family or then your family to pray tell them to pray or then ordain them to pray a solid stamina and be persistent. Be persistent now I mean, it takes some some it takes a toll on you but you need to be persistent and you need to be very patient as well. We're gonna pray together in shallow dad, me and my family praying together in the light of this pandemic, my brothers and sisters we need to value

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to value our our

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foundation our families, my brothers and sisters I have this one more foundation I want to share with you value your family

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foundation number one worship a lot together foundation number two value your family

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your family should come before anybody else your father should be should should come before anyone else your mom should be should come before anyone else your your your sister, your brother, your wife, your husband, you know they should come first before anyone else before friends before going out before anything else my family comes first value that family because if you don't value your family Subhana Allah look what happens.

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Look what happened to us in the in the light of this pandemic in the light of this pandemic what happened to us

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Allah wanted to punish us so that we can stay with our families together to tell us look you have been missing out on so many beautiful things at home I had to lock you down I had to lock you down for you to value what you have home

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value your family's

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brother brothers

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and sisters sometimes in the severed their their their you know their relationship and their and the ties of kinship.

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No, no, no, no, my family is very dear to me. Your family is very dear to you.

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Family should be should you know before anything else my family has to come first

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has to come first. Look at them and however the very first institution on earth Allahu Akbar, the very first institution in this universe, it started with them and halwa

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and our

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husband and wife

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isn't it the very first you know establishment in this in existence happen between a husband and wife Adam and Hawa?

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Right

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even agenda, even agenda when Latina man Oh, was whatever. The homie man and helping her be him Luna yetta, whom Allah Subhana Allah tells us as a sort of told verse number 21 I've showed it in the end of time series in the end of time series, those those who believe that

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And then they're their children who follow them in China.

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You see because you value your family, your family would follow you in China, you did not value your family

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regardless of the conflicts and regardless of the problems, your families, your family, you cannot discern them from your from your you know, your your your Book of Records, no, no, these are not you is your family regardless you whether you like it or not, your family,

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they will follow you in general.

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She, let me give you some examples, brothers and sisters, amazing examples between the husband and wife, between the husband and wife, Allah subhanho wa Taala says, and he called that that bone. He called that relationship between husband and wife. He called it meetup and volley long

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term meetup and valido. And we took from them this huge covenant, this heavy covenant, this very strong covenant between husband and wife, don't break the covenant. Don't break the bone. Husbands Don't break the bond. Wives Don't break the bone don't bring that covenant, that covenant was made up in the heavens.

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That covenant was made up in the heavens.

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So you see the importance and the value of the family. We talk about husbands and wives we talk about we talk about any you cannot, you cannot you cannot oppress your wife. You cannot oppress your husband.

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That, that that covenant that bond is made up in the head is made in the heavens. How can you have a homemade happiness? No, can't look in his. In his when you do has. Or Allah Allah when you go between the safarnama safarnama a woman, a woman running between these two monkeys running holding her baby. She's holding her baby and caring and the baby's crying and she's looking for water. And she she's right in between these two mount a sofa in the middle of a sofa in Milan, to keep the family together.

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To keep the family together. Her husband left her and she's I'm coming back and I'm leaving you here but he shall come back. But when she asked him has Allah told you to leave us here. He just nodded his head that she goes, go Allah will never let us down. If Allah told you or Ibrahim to leave us here go. Allah will never let us down has been in the wife look at that relationship.

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amazing relationship.

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You cannot just go do Rama or has Adobe software. We're not thinking of you know that relationship between the husband and wife or between the mom, the mom as a father and his son,

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a father and his son working together to build the Kaaba. Look at the examples of families in the in the the Father and the Son working together in the US come to me via TV was invited it is on a debate econ moharram on a banner up with swana federal Amina Nancy Tommy Isla him was Home Minister Malati Nichkhun Allah I have left in that valley wide in tennis with a van that has no visitation

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from my progeny from my children or Allah. Oh Allah look after that. Oh Allah look after them. jabril came down and he hit the ground with his with his with his way and get spanked out Zamzam

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sprang out Zamzam.

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The importance of the family

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Yella, Allah azza wa jal has answered the door of the Father Ibrahim Elisa. Ha. A father so dream to sacrifice his son. He told his son I saw dream to sacrifice you. Then the son says

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Alma Toma

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Yeah. Alma Toma says, Tony

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Allahu Meena sabi La la la la la la la.

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Yeah, banaya in neon off his knee at the battle. gov.

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Bonnie

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says you do need

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Allahu Mina sabi. Oh, my beautiful son. I saw in my dream that I am sacrificing you. The son says, All my beloved father, do as you were told, I shall be from those who are patient. Oh, my father, do as you were told. I shall be from those who have patience.

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relationship between a husband or a son and a father,

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a father and a son. And then Allah bless them with you know what we celebrate today.

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And then after that, go and build the cabinet together, go and build the cabinet together. Look, look, if you allow law, law law, I love LA. I love what I'm saying. I love what I'm saying, look, look at the gift of Allah Xhosa. Because Ibrahim, he, he succeeded in the test. He succeeded. How did you succeed? He saw the dream. He told his son, his son said oh my father do as you were told. So he took his son and then he wanted to sacrificing and he took the knife and he actually moved the knife. But then Allah Subhana Allah because he succeeded and he and he fulfilled the vision alive social change that you know that that that that sacrifice with a lamb. So today we are commemorating

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the eagle eyed ha on top of that Allah subhanho wa Taala blessed him with another gift. What does gifts go on your son and build the Kaaba and people from all over the world that would be coming to do has an omelet saying bacon lahoma bake the bacon. Sherry Kayla Kayla bake in Nat Hamza one metta laka well molk

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Shadi khaliq, husband,

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wife, son, Father, it's all in the

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You understand? If you read the end if you you know, even when we make Salah you know when we pray when we pray, and then at the end of the sutra we say Allahu masana Allah Muhammad Ali Mohammed kamasan Lita Ibrahim hirosaki Bohemia the dude as you say, although you know they say the dude you know Allah we we see a salty blah he mia ebrahimian right. Allahumma salli ala Muhammad Ali Mohammed kamasan La Jolla Libra even Academy de Madrid Allahumma barik ala Muhammad Ali Mohammed Ibrahim

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minakami de magie right What does that mean? Have you ever thought about it even in our center we make the effort our families well Allah since salutations about Ibrahim, why they're led by him and the family of Ibrahim homemade happiness. Even in our center, we make that for the families. So is the importance of the family. That's why I said you know foundation number two, Principle number two, value your family value that family

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go to the end and you will see stories, stories.

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Add them in how a husband and wife a father and the son, Ibrahim and his and his

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two brothers, two brothers Moosa how

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anything any member of the family you will find their story in the

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cousins. Okay, my question to you what are cousins mentioned in the Quran?

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cousins

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cousins

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Jacobian Yusuf Jacobi the use of the Father and the Son Zack Allah His father and son, how about cousins?

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Because also cousins as part of the family

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huh?

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Give me an example of cousins in the

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yeah here and Risa Masha. molokhia seen yes in the rice my man Yeah. Annalisa Yes, they were cousins. Exactly. How about a father who is a stray and the son

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a father who's a stray and a son.

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A father who is not guided and a son.

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In the end,

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a father who is not guided and a son

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who

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Ibrahim and his father exactly Mashallah Abraham and his father yes he Mashallah Lee, how about a father who is guided and a son who's not guided?

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A father who's guided and a son who's not guided? who is

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who is

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a father who's guided and a son who's not guided

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No, and his son Mashallah seen you're the first one to answer all these questions. Mashallah. Noah and his son Mashallah, how about a sister and a brother we have that in the Quran to a sister and a brother in

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a sister and a brother in the clan who,

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huh? A sister and a brother in the clan

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who

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who

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with families or members of the families you find them in the

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zaidan sister. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. I said about you know, these are the moose and his sister mesh alike has not has not Moosa and his sister, moose and his sister Marian, you know, have a son and Anna I mean a brother and a sister right a brother and a sister.

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A father wishing for the righteous son.

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A father wishing for the righteous son, who are we talking about here?

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Huh? Who are we talking about here? A father wishing for a righteous son. Who are we talking about here? In the Quran?

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Hmm, who are we talking about here in?

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Zakaria Yes, see? Mashallah. Christina was expecting you to answer that Zakaria Nam about villetta davone. Follow falda.

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Yes, when Allah loves like Lucha Zakaria, when he made that da, da, da, da,

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da, don't make me try this. And you are the supreme inheritor. subhanak so my brothers and sisters, this is why we called it you know, imagine a brother so Pamela, if you have a brother and you have a better relationship with your brother, look, the best example would be Moosa and his brother Harlan so much so how old was not meant to be a prophet? How long was the guy was the guy through the door of his brother? Allah made him a prophet a lot

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through the door of his brother Allah made him a prophet

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whatever it was, he didn't mean a Holly.

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Oh nothing. Oh should be he as any well actually coffee I'm any guy new sub B Hagia Kathy la one that's

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a long

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one

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right? Look, the relationship between a brother and his brother he was there but then he thought Oh, I cannot do it alone or Allah or like don't do it alone. So make give me a partner for my family. Hello and my brother why so we can worship you more and make a mention of your more recently Hector Garcia wonderful. Okay, Cassie Allah. So Allah subhana wa tada made a profit.

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How's your relationship with your brothers?

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How's your relationship with your sisters?

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Hmm. This is why I called it homemade happiness.

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Prophet Muhammad, Prophet Mohammed,

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the example of the best father,

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the best son, the best father in law, the best this the best one everything. God he examples I can give you examples of the Prophet Muhammad as I said, I can give you an example of the Prophet Mohammed has said and and on top of that foundation number three, foundation number three, I want to share with you another Foundation, but give that through examples from the Prophet Mohammed Isaiah seven. Would you like me to do that sisters and brothers would like me to do that foundation number three, on top of that examples from the Prophet Mohammed as, as a as a dad, as a father, as a dad as a husband, as a father in law as examples. Would you like me to share that with you inshallah? Would

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you like me to do that? Plus on top of that, foundation number three, huh? Huh? You're ready for it? You're ready for it? You have to be ready. If you're not ready, then I'm not gonna do it.

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He mentioned his smarts. Image. She is smart. She felt it she smelled it. She said Oh, it smells like a cliffy. It's It smells like a cliffhanger. It's definitely is. It definitely is a cliffhanger.

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That definitely is a cliffhanger because I want to give you some examples of Prophet Mohammed. So Sam and foundation number three, but

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Cliff weekly fee tomorrow in sha Allah who to add. Yes, it is a cliffhanger in sha Allah with that difficulty if we talk about that tomorrow evening, Allah May Allah bless you. May Allah reward your brothers and sisters. Is that Camilla hair. It was amazing. It was amazing being here. It was amazing. Again, meeting you one more time. It was amazing and an honor serving you one more time. May Allah bless you all melody Giorgio mela, make your homes like the homes of the Prophet Mohammed. May Allah make your homes like the homes of the Sahaba. inshallah to Allah. May Allah bring serenity in your homes, sisters and brothers from Instagram is that Kamala Harris is going to cut right now.

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