Excellence and Flaws #18

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La hamdulillah salatu salam ala rasulillah Allah Allah He also he woman Wada who bought

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one eyeshadow the Aloha

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pilot Carla Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Lata lotta symbol Amata in the home of bow Illa demo, Raja will Buhari

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Chateau de la Han Han aerated the Messenger of Allah sallallahu Sallam said, avoid revealing the dead

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they revealing the dead or avoid saying bad things about revealing bad things about the dead or don't speak ill of the dead all this translation can be said they have already seen the results of the deeds that they forwarded before them.

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That's headed reported by Al Bukhari

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and this hadith also was reported

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from a mesh with an addition and this addition that I shadowed the Allahu

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Allah said call it masala is equal of je la La Paloma call it a snowfield la

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that the story that I share she said what is either ology have done they said he died is the said what is evil or de May Allah curse and have done she cursed him that he died then she stole federal law said how you just cursed them in a store for a lot. Then she said I heard the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam saying do not

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avoid saying bad things about those who passed away

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so then generated the hurry that I just told you.

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And Mr. Rob said that earlier or the alarm on have send us even ice algae in the day.

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The Battle of a German the camel with a letter

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then

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you see deliver that you see the origin on sushi Kherson she delivered the message to her from earlier and she didn't reply. Then he said things bad about her. He said bad things about her. That's why she used to say bad things about him and return.

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She She can stand him she she really hated him. But when she heard that he died, she said you're not allowed to say bad things about him anymore because he died and she said proprofs are solemn forbade us and Ahmed forbade us to say bad things about the people who passed away. This had this notion of saving her bad.

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And it was also reported from Mujahid and several of the tabin have narrated it with this.

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And Hakeem also reported that the live deserver said the day

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Mecca was conquered a crema in Abuja and runaway.

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He flew flood, fleet

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and blah to me Hakeem bitter had his wife Omar came to the heart of Nisha, she's a wise woman and she became Muslim. Then she said yeah, Rasul Allah, can you give my protection as a Muslim? For my husband, and

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nobody touched him if he's seen.

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Then

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Navy sallallahu wasallam granted that security and protection for her husband, she told her husband and he came back.

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And she went to her husband and she said to him, I came to you from the most honorable man from the most generous man from the best man I've ever known. highroad NASA, also NASA, NASA Mohammed's awesome. And I asked him to

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ask him that I'll protect you and nobody will touch you if you go back to Makkah. And he agreed. So equity method if that's the case, I'll go back with you. When he came to America, than in a salon salon said to his companion. Now it could have been Abuja will come as a believer as a migrant, even though he lived in Mecca, but because he's left Macau, he fled Mecca. Now he coming to Mecca and his son called him Mahajan. As

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If he made a JIRA to the profits or stolen because at the time of the first one wasn't mucker then in Debbie told them Don't curse his father Abuja head

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for indivisible media at the highest level, it will only hurt the feeling of the living person and it will not reach the dead person and when you say he's this and that the dead person will not hear that will not know about that will not know what he's saying about him. But the only one who will hear that the one who left behind his children or his family member, his friends and they will be hurt by that.

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fellow member of Al Bab when acklam arrive to the door and Obi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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was happy to see him and he stood up for him to welcome him.

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Very happy to welcome him. This is a very famous narration in the books of Sierra.

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Generally speaking, we don't

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really

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check the snap of these durations in Sierra if you want to take a general meaning Yes, but if you cannot say as a prophet or solemn statement, and you treat it like any Hadith and you will build rules from it, unfortunately, this story is almost fabricated from is not perspective. We have mobile we have

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several or Mohammed Nam alacati and both are known to be liars. And another man his name Habiba is unknown narrator he had cut the baby I cut that bad, if you have mature and he This is enough to make this narration The story is completely

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collapse and as not to be worth two depends on it. I mentioned it only because a very famous about about a criminal Abuja this is what happened to him. And and people connect this hadith which is authentic, which is I just said in the body do not say bad things about the dead because they have left this live and they are basically seen the results of their deeds. There is no connection between this story and Abuja, Abuja have an accurate

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just there is no proof that the individual said that in regard to that.

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Can this apply? Yes. The only Hadith that suggests the connection as you heard me, it's a very, very weak Hadith. What do we learn from this Hadith of the process Allah number one, as an Muslims honor, protected, while he's alive, he or she is alive. They are also protected after death as paler Islam, protect you while you're alive and after while you're alive. Nobody allowed to talk bad about you to back bite you to you know say all things about you accuse you same thing after he died. And it's even worse. Because when you die, you can defend yourself when you cannot explain. Defend yourself.

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So that's absolutely how I'm in Islam to say bad things about people who died into backed by them and to say things about them or to reveal some of their sins that they passed away. There is no need for revealing their sins. And I noticed that sometimes it's done unintentionally or intentionally. You know, oh, you know this person die while he's doing this or doing that he committed suicide and he killed himself. What Why would you say this to the people who don't know how this person died?

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You know, he killed himself or he was using drugs or the police shot him because he was in need doing bad things. He died no need for this specific person who need to expose that person. Oh, he died. I know he used to do this and this and this and he saw saying the bad things about this person. That's not correct. Shana Shahbaz Rahim Allah is the one who said that the back bite of the dead is worse than the duck bite of the living Hashanah Riba To me it alimentary width and height, backbiting the dead person is worse and more. It's greater sin than the living one. Because of the reason I said earlier because the dead can explain themselves and there is no way for you to even

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ask for forgiveness from them before you die.

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This Hadith does not include does not include mentioning the evil of the person who passed away in order for people to be saved from his evil most like what we said about somebody underrated and a writer.

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He's weak. Like I just said to him all

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He passed away. But I still said he lies. He's very weak narrator or I said he says beta is innovations in religion, or he made the statement that is completely wrong in religion. I'm allowed to mention that but with respect and I'm allowed to say that only for the according to the area that it is needed

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not to make it like you know, I saw he was he was fat and ugly and you know, this is not much to do with with what you're talking about.

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Like as sometimes type we find that element mentioned something related to sensors he did the might mention that for what

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he came up you know, who they said they had them so to make a point that this person is not a trustworthy because as you know, we accept the narration of someone who have two qualities number one a good memory.

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And number two, he is a trustworthy, he's a religious person.

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So sometimes the mentioned he drinks or he does this or just to show you that he's not his Deen, his faith is not good. It's not reliable. So that's another reason or video or something like that.

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But it does this Hadith, when the person do not mention the evil things about? And is that include also the gossip, the person who's known, openly doing bad things?

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is mentioning the bad things that this person who used to do to Oberlin, included or not, okay?

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And also, does that include Muslim and non Muslim? Because the problem said, um, watch the dead.

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He did not say what type of dead the dead is that include Muslims and non Muslim, or, or not?

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Allah Allah, that, that include also the people who used to say to do since openly and for SAP. Also, we should not mention their bad deeds, let's say there is a singer or like

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an actor who passed away. And he used to do a lot of bad things, has no need for mentioning it.

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Unless you want to warn people you want to say for example, you know, this route going to that route? It can lead to 123. And you might give an example, just for something that will not Yes, but other than that, there is no benefit from it, it should not be mentioned.

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Also, some people said it's only for Muslims, not non Muslims. Why

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carlu Look how the scholars are very

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critical thinkers, and very precise. They said in the Hadith, in the Hadith, there is an indication that this hadith is related only to Muslims.

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Let me see if you guys can figure it out in your own. I'll read the Hadith again.

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The process alum said, avoid saying bad things about the dead. They have already seen the results of the deeds that they followed before them.

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The result of their deeds that they followed before them.

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What's in this howdy?

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How about a lesson from this duration? We learn how to have both ELA and math.

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So some sense some sense from this, we can understand that this stuff about Muslims.

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I don't say it very strong argument. But let's see if you guys can come up with it.

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Because when we say we are met what they have put forward.

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That's in relation to the Muslims because the Muslim as the Muslim are the only one who will have a record of a deed good deeds and bad deeds.

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non Muslims will not have a record of good deeds. Because if you're not a Muslim, I'm an Amazon.

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person who don't believe in God. Don't believe in almost patata disbelieve in Allah.

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So a person was cafard he doesn't have two records. Only one record record of his bad deeds. Because one of the condition for any good deeds to be accepted is Islam. And that condition is not exist. So that's why they said when they meet what they have done, it gives you an indication at the boat the record

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I think it's a little bit pushed like you know because you can also cite the are meeting what they have done which is the record of the bad deeds of the cook you know it doesn't really is not very clear about it

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tashman Naka Dominika for a while but anyway that's what some of the folks

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have said. But I love what other scholars said they said we should avoid saying bad things about dead people in general Muslims is absolutely it became major

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not a major sin but I mean, it is more severe okay. And also it became harm when it comes for non Muslim if there is someone alive Muslim or non Muslim, someone around will be hurt by this comment.

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So the messenger set and they mentioned that specifically they said if you talk about someone who passed away in a way that it might hurt the feeling of somebody around you it became absolutely how I'm even if that person who died is fascinating to Katherine

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you understand so this let's assume a criminal case not talking about his but that she will not hurt his son same thing let's say somebody whose father was very big move today innovator

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and I just talked about his bigger and now even on his son like one of the students are one of the good people there's no need for that.

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Are lahemaa shabu Casa de la de he did this and this this, like maybe true things. But he don't say that it's my father. You heard him it or my people. Okay.

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Type

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How can we Rican slave between this hadith and the Hadith in Bukhari also.

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Where anisum nomadically Allah who answered

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a janaza past

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funeral passed by the process of setting the people on the process on an ethno alley have they said good things about the person for carbon abuse or cell damage a bit

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in the business of them said that the person deserve it.

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Another one passed by ethno ID hash aka

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on the other person passed, this person passed the mentioned bad things about this person.

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For God and the visa Salah majapahit

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deserve it. Yes, hello, what do you mean by deserve it? He said, Parliament would forge a bit Lahontan taniwha who now at the NATO Maliki shop on Voyager with Luna and to Shahada in life your alibi. You are the witnesses of Allah tala and earth and here they deserve he deserve a fire desert paradise. They question didn't those people said bad things about the person who died

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and either janazah passed by and they said bad things about his dead

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How come in Ibiza celeb did not tell them don't say bad things about him.

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He's dead.

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You see. So, here are metal hammer home a lot and tried to reconsolidate

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this in many different ways. One of the way that they tried to reconsolidate between them

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that the set

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that this had it has a story in a Muslim

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that the first Genesis the process of lamb when the praise and he prayed on him the second one he did not pray on him just as he did not pray funeral prayer on him on that person and they mentioned bad things about the person

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okay. So from this, we know that in the visa Salaam he will not prey on who hypocrites

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who are not Muslims.

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McCann condiviso solar array if you know, he knows that he will be told that this is a hypocrite, he will not prey on the person. So they will know the prophets of the Sahaba they will know most likely that this is a hypocrite person and listen to him say I am not preying on him for other reason. Like for example because of that, but if he didn't mention the know that he's hypocrite, so from this LMS said, the reason that did not stop them because he was a hypocrite, not Muslim.

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And that goes back to the opinion that this the first Hadith is only related to the Muslims that you're not allowed to mention the bad things about them. That's what an amendment No, you're him online in public, he said.

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And

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Yanni

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summertime I said no this is not a strong way of frequency rating between

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Heidi

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because in one of the narration the people said kind of fog vomit and Eva he was harsh was mean he was back to people if he was a Kaffir or not Muslim are hypocrites okay? They will not mention he is mean and his rude he will say that he was a hypocrite he was the no they will mention that like

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some people said in Ibiza Salam allowed it before the funeral but he did a lot of after the barrier okay, but again, I don't agree with that he said that doesn't matter a funeral did not say anything about burying

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some element said in Nabi sallallahu Sallam allowed it only because he want people to learn so he allowed it as a form of warning and education. Like I said, You're allowed to mention the bad things about someone for people to avoid this. So in Ibiza solemn want to tell them that those who are mean those who are rude, those who are bad to others, for those who are bad to others, and people hate them, they deserve the Hellfire they deserve to be punished for that to make a point in front of the Sahaba that their religion is not just or what can cause and lead to hold fire is not only that breaking rules but also breaking the code of manners and code of engagement with people and so far

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and that's something is sinanju Rahim Allah

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mentioned okay.

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And other ruler model

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the one of the thing that's in the business card they have met the record their deeds of records, because there is no point from when you mentioned something bad about somebody you should mention it with the intention of correcting the person advising the person.

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But if he died there is no point from that.

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Also there is it will hurt other people's feeling who are alive by the next day follow the law and also lifestyle so lion Hello jen netta Donnelly this hurry the Buhari Muslim de federated the Messenger of Allah sallallahu Sallam said attack will not enter Paradise attacked will not enter Paradise attacked, attacked. It means we'll look the minute

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somebody does something a lot. What's that thing? I'll explain to you? Who does? I'll cut so much and it's not 123 No, no, no, he is excessive and doing this. What I'll cut. Okay.

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I'll cut Who? Who? Ah. And now

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we're

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menza water Who? Hi yah hoo. Wah wah. The one who will the backbiting

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The one who backbite The one who gossip

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who led into Colombia constantly if sad The one who will take your whatever you said he will say to other people to get you in trouble or to make people hate one another start fight between Hey, I heard him saying this and this about you. So he heard you saying something that he will take it you know, I'm talking to you and I'm angry that you know what he is this then you know what he said about you that day? He said that you are this

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you are this and that so young has been in kurama costume if sad how the world attacked by and they said

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and he makes it up and he basically add spice to it and you know that's

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this is a no ma'am light Hello Jonathan and ma'am feel lovely Muslim, and honey today for a long life. And Ma'am, another word came. And a man Allah said is not the same. Exactly. Title and name to listen to people's conversation without know without them not knowing or realizing then you deliver it to other people to create problem between them who will cut who are lithium ion and kurama. Your user will win number one of the esmaeil Canal from Mankato

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So nm is to hear it, then you share it with other people just to make them problem

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like.

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So they said, and then you do you take that word or this transfer or you share the conversation or the statement of some people with others to make trouble between them, while those people knowing not knowing that you are listening to them, that's an M, I'll cut No, they have your part of the conversation. And they know that you're listening to them. But again, they didn't expect you to do that. And you take it and you do say share it with others, just to create problem between people.

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No doubt in their business, I'm saying liat Holton will not intergender

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tabea it will add another macabre anytime the processor will not intergender it means it's a major sin. And it's not cool for like any other analytical agenda. Tomoko La la la la

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la vida que hacer la Jenna a woman yet

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another Lisa mockridge, Mina, Mila, when we know that this is not an act of go for so when he said, well not intergenerational among the first patch, we're not intelligent, right away. We're not intelligent until he

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held accountable Why do we have to add these meanings? Because we know that backbiting and gossip is not a cover doesn't take you out of Islam.

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Okay, so that's why we understand

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this statement will not entertain in that

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meaning.

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That heavy Rahim Allah it is an amoeba to mean Kaaba is among the major sin. And it is forbidden by the consensus of the Muslim scholars. And there is overwhelming evidence to establish such ruling.

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So, so remember, this is one of the thing will delay a person to intergender one of the reasons for people to enter Hellfire, one of the things that will make the person face the records and the day of judgment because when you back by to news gossip, when you create problem between people, they will be your enemy in the Day of Judgment, you have to cross them first. You have to

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they have too much to forgive you they might take from your house or not or give you from their sensors. It's a serious violations. Also, this

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shouldn't be combined with other ahadith and other evidence in the Quran was the one who does a major sin Do not leave the folder of Islam. Do not feel leave the folders on anyone who commit a major sin still a Muslim, any one of the biggest major sin we know in Islam is what killing butts, right? Yet Allah Subhana Allah said, we're in part if attend immediate minima petaloo if two group of Muslims fight one another.

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So Allah call them many believers, they still believer even though they fighting one another, and the killing from each other. And Allah Subhana Allah said for us, let me know how I can make peace between your brothers. He called them brother feminazi Allah whom in a fee if your brother forgive you, and that basically your brother is what?

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referring to the relationship between the killer and the inheritor of the blood. You know, when someone kills someone, and the inheritor of the blood, either the ask for that person to be excluded, or for the can forgive him and asked for ransom. Blood rounds and the color there.

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Anyway,

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in nebby salatu salam when people commit Zina or commit major sins drinking alcohol, he didn't say you left the fold of Islam and you have to be Muslim again. Or Xena No, he treated like sin sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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On nibi Salah Salem said in the Day of Judgment, the person who committed major sins will come with the deeds and people will start taking from his deeds. So even though he committed major sin like killing and backbiting and all those people lying people will start taking from his good deeds. If he became Kapha the person became Catholic by committing these major sins in the Day of Judgment, he will not come with these deeds. Because Allah said that in Ashok kannamma Look, if you commit should you lose all your good deeds, so that means he's not a Muslim is a Muslim. That's why he came with all these deeds in his record. Like

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a NEMA backbiting gossip is haram Allah subhanaw taala said what are totally akula holla at me

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amazi Masha in Vienna meme, men remarketed in a theme or to limba because a name and a Lost Planet Allah mentioned in these verses sort of column among the early verses in the Quran

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warning people from such attitude and such behavior, which is gossip and backbiting. And Ilham mazz the one who spread between people what turned them against each other? You've seen the localu Masha in Binyamin

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The one who sorry the machine the one who walked between people and spread among people what will turn them against each others will hems The one who always make comments and give names and accused accused people

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who will fascist will email valuable jobs by

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bad leakers and in virtually any The one who is aggressive The one who is

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indecent The one who is plotting the one who is rude. Okay, who's this all this quality and characters been put together to show how ugly that person is when he has this kind of quality? Bye.

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Last pantalla said way to liquidly humans at lumada Wayne is a valley in Hellfire a very evil place and Hellfire

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Allah prepared that valley that place for certain people who committed certain sins among them liquidity whom is it in lumada who isn't whom has a tail and Hannah's who and a man the person who gossip also paid Who

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is the one who always criticize people.

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You always point finger two people.

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Allah subhanaw taala said

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one more or two who have marital help of

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his wife the carrier of a half of half of you Julie we understand it as she carried what the walk for fire you know the woods for fire

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firewood

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but if you look at the books of the fire song of a city seed period help them here NEMA

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because she used to why she's been punished that way. So she will carry that firewood. okay to go to put it in the hell fire and to burn herself in it. They said because she used to gossip and to go around and say bad things about the prophets of Allah. They said the connection between the two because your words are like these fire woods, it will start the fire. Bye.

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Allah subhana wa tada

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said, also given example, to him by the wife of Prophet load and the Prophet noi tile for HANA town woman, the betrayed their husbands. What is betrayed their husbands to Liliana? hoonah and Amina can in Killarney as badly as wajima kuffaar. They used to gossip we used to take their husband says and they tell the kuffaar the disbelievers and Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Yeah, and he in many ahaadeeth he described the one who gossip and the one who backed by the tea is a shell rudeness, the worst person and this came in Hadith reported by him, Allah jasola Allah, he was asked, he said sauce on them. Do you want to tell him who's the worst among you? They said, Absolutely. Then he

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said, I'll measure when I've been the Mima The one who spread gossip Alamo, Federico anabaena

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Alberto and Anil Bara in Ghana. And he said the one who spread gossip this move on

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also

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because because what happened why they are worse people because the time the community against each other, turn family against each other, turn friends against each other, as one of the worst thing can do. One of our laws favor upon us that he breaks our hearts together. So you undoing the work of Allah.

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Just the way the shaman is, you will remain humble and our Baba shavon wants to create animosity, to divide people. That's exactly you are exactly doing the role of the shaper and undoing what Allah subhanaw taala

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doing.

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gerar How to see man in a healthy amoun while I am a mama jalahalli son,

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the son

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The wound that it caused by swords

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one day it will be closed

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and it will be heal. But the wounds they were caused by the tongue, they will always be open and sometimes never healed.

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So be careful what you say with your tongue.

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Also, such person is hated by Allah and His Messenger sallallahu wasallam in Ibiza Salaam said and this hadith

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Pavani the most beloved one to me, the one among you who possess the best of manners, and walk but Oh, knack Natha the one who's easygoing? Allah Dena Li funa la de la una elephone those who are easy to be friends with people and people to be friends with them. We're in Ababa como la the most hated among you to me, and Masha una been Amina, the one who spread gossip among others. And Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said would you like to know what is better than extra fasting and extra sought upon extra prayer? They said yes, absolutely. Then he said do you see two people have a problem with each others try to reconsolidate between them bring them together help them to talk to

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one another help to remove that hatred animosity and and you know

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and basically when they are not connected or disconnected from our try to reconnect them together. Then interviews are solemn be aware of the thing that will shave your DNA what shave you you have a hair when you shave it all your hair off this right? Your hair represent your faith that thing represent that

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The what?

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The razor?

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what the thing is the gossip.

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The more gossip you do you remove the hair until you have no hair no a man no has an act. That's how the process or lamb have put it.

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Allah Allah tala Pasha can definitely padeen it will save your deen it will save your faith.

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And in me, Matthew, which tended to have in the number you have to call luxury. You see Ron Amina to call me matriculation. We're actually serving work to NASA who was recently named Mimi. Herman Be careful because it is a major sin. Also an A man is the one that the processor Lam said have two faces worse people who have two faces he meets you with a face and behind your back if another face he is with you listening to what you said and smiling behind your back, he relate to people what you just said and change it and no and make it in a way just to make people hate on one another and to disconnect people from one another.

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In this back this attack gossip and spreading the words between people to make animosity between them. It's a true form of hypocrisy.

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People ask Abdullah Amato the ally in Navajo Rasul Athena, for Napoleonic de la Simonetta Callum is a hologram in London faqad of new Omar coonan had an effect on hora de Rasulullah. Sana Hari reported that Muhammad was he had said people came to New Ramadan they said you have neuroma. Sometimes when we go visit government and

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government officials and princes and governors and will art and people like in high rise and government we will say to them very different than what we say about them.

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In their absence,

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like when we are not with them, we have completely different things to say about them. And in front of them we say nice things and praise them and but behind their back or the normal said, we used to consider this in the time of the process of them a form of hypocrisy.

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That's the two faces people.

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filing the V solimar SLM fee Harris Rob dunia men Canada is an angel Allahu oben chiamata discerning even now, those who have two tongues, what two times men need to face one tongue

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Talk to you and behind your back have another time another way of talking to a lower made for such person to tons on fire in the day of judgment and I want to tell you if ever somebody come to you and tell you all the said this and this about you source of this this about you, I guarantee he will do the same to you

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don't think the person who come and gossip to you and tell you the gossip and tell you what people say about you? He will he loves you.

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If he loves you he wouldn't do that.

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Oh, I just want to tell him you can warn him without this

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without making a turn to animosity between people

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you're called Hassan Abbas Rahman naka de la Hadith and Phantom and no young killer Erica Hadith. Whoever tell you what people say about you, he will tell them also what you say.

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And no matter man is somebody can be trusted.

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You know, and when somebody gossip will lie or backbite will portray Well usually comes from animosity comes from jealous comes from hypocrisy comes from causing problem between people cutting ties, all these are sins connected to the gospel. So it's not just one sin

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in Nevis or Salaam said the worst person, the person that people would avoid him because of his evilness the evil of his tongue. And because he caused a problem.

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In the B cell, Allahu Allah Azza wa sallam said, It was one of the punishment for the man that this person will be punished in his grave. You remember in Ibiza, Solon passed by to graves and he said they are punished and something major for Bukhari and Muslim in Canada better in who Kabir I had to whom I can name Shiva, neither one of them used to spread gossip between people. Also

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chavela hiromasa camfil makaveli mikati really sunny Canada with a bow should an individual Sonam as you heard her, it will not entertain her right away. So we'll move into it and then the man

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added on the alarm and it was reported. A man came to him and he said, you know, early such and such person saying this and this about you than earlier that he was angry. And he said, Yeah, I had a man. newness

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for him couldn't decide. Yep, and maka tidak. We're in Kentucky, bourbon, bourbon UK. We're in an acrylic carnac for Karla apolonia, Amira Mini, he said, Listen, what do you just told me about that person, you have three choices. Either I check. If what you said is true that you really say this about me.

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You're not allowed to come to my gathering or my sitting again.

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Because you're a person who spread who basic transfer that other people talk. But that in the map, you're hated. You're not welcome.

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And if you're lying, this person never said that about me, you will be punished.

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And the third one, he just said right now, excuse me, I'm sorry. Just forget about it. And I will forget about it.

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And you never bring this kind of talk again. Then he said I choose the third one, please forgive me.

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Also, number Aziz, a man came to him and he said something about Tim to him about someone else who said things about all of the disease. And he said the same thing. And he recited the verse when a facet come to you that with a neighbor with a news clarified.

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And if you are true, if what you said true about the person, your hand as Misha intervene. And the third one, I will let you go and forgive you. But with the promise you never say that again. He said, I promise it will never come back to you again.

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JOHN Rogers, an evening person, a man came to Alabama has had all the allowance. And he said to him, so and so. said bad things about you, he curse you.

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And I lived in Husayn he wanted to teach that person a lesson. He said, Let's go to him. What is India? Let's go to he said he said that about me. Let's go to him.

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So he took him and they went to that person who curse a little fussy when they came

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to that person's house, but I'm also in Canada,

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in Canada with a fee for Allah holy war in Canada with a fee about the length Allah for Allah, Allah.

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He went to that person at home. The person came out from the house, he says, My brother, this man told me what you said about me?

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If what you said about to me, is true.

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May Allah forgive me?

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And if what you said about me, is not true. May Allah forgive you.

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As if you want to teach both lessons, the one who transfer who deliver the statement to him and he told him about and the person whom backbite him

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or him Allah who died, Todd,

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silly man, he was sitting and azuri with him. A man came to listen yesterday, man, I was told that you said something bad about me and said this and this about me. Solomon said I didn't. I didn't say that about you.

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So Suleiman told him no The one who told me that

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you said is a trustworthy person for college, he said he cannot say he is trustworthy, because the one who told you that this man said this and this about you is in a man and in a man is not a less worthy

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than so a mentor the person you can go free

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otherwise is the governor who would put him in trouble anyway

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and he that has many stories about him a lot

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in a statement in regard to a number

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of indicators said and no ma'am The one who spread gossip can spread corruption in a short period of time. What a magician cannot do in a long period of time in a month

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or can a linear pull your head navigate here he said an A man the one who gossip and spread and transfer the bad things from one person to another to make a fight between them or to create hatred between people. He said that an amount above woman ama ship on worse than the ship on work. The ship ons work why

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pile initially upon a bill higher level versus a ship on come to you from within to speak to you give you hints but an amount he comes in front of your face and directly tried to mislead you and make you hate your friends. That's why Allah said enemy math is a form of magic. Why because magic is originally meant for recorded by Mario Zelda magic is meant to break homes and ties and turn people against each others. And the same thing within a map that what he does in the map. He basically turned people against each other when he said to you, hey, this person is this sensitive person that about you.

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That'd be Rahim Allah mentioned a story to show you how these things can escalate. And maybe we can end with this. He said, and Roger and Rahul dam and UVA or who Universidad de Laserbeak in La hoonah. Ma'am.

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First of all, if you wish, Tara, you know, in the old days we used they used to have a slave market. So this man was a slave market. And there was a slave. The one who basically selling that slave who is saying, this slave is doing everything good except has one bad quality. He is a man. He he'll hear things from people and he delivered to other he cause fitness. Otherwise, he's perfect. He's a good worker, hard working strong, blah, blah, blah. So man, he said, That's not a big deal. Who cares about him not going to socialize with him. Then he purchased

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he stayed with him for days to makalah helgoland lizarraga t CD.

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He told this man's wife in the CD reader litres of water Aliki.

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nokhada in the hula Bukit

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Someone said to the to the wife, you know your husband said that he doesn't love you.

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And you want to marry another one. Or have another woman

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fader allottee and yada Aliki where to come as an ally, if you want him to love you enough to marry someone else for eternity for who the moose was, he shot him intact in a Yeti. What Roku Chava t Mac. If you want him to be in love with you take the

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call

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Muslim.

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shave the

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razor. Yeah. And shave few hair from underneath his hair, his beard.

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Take the razor and shave a little bit from underneath his beard, take these hairs and keep it with you.

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Okay, then the woman, she basically stopped thinking about it and ended like wondering if this is true or not watching, unbelieving. Whenever you put something in your head, it's easy to interpret everything according to what's in your head. Oh my god, he really doesn't love me. He doesn't care about me anyway.

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Then, later on, he came to the husband, Seaton the man this is that have you mentioned this story to show you the town? The man is so evil. He came to the husband? And he said, My master said yes.

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to something I'm not sure. How can I tell you about it? He said what? He said your wife has a boyfriend.

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She loves him.

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And she likes him.

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And they are they've been talking about to get rid of you.

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Oh, yes.

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And she planned to kill you while you're asleep.

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If you don't believe me, when you go to bed tonight, act as if you're sleeping and see what's going to happen.

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He said okay, he went and he

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and he's not sleep.

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Then the woman came with that razor. And she put it here under his beard. The men saw that that she had the razor or the knife and she wanted to shave. So there, he basically took the knife and he stabbed her and killed her thinking of the team differently resolved before. Then, when he killed her, her family, this slave screen so her family came in saw them he's the soul the husband killed the wife. So they killed the husband.

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They killed the husband and the whole two families thoughts having a fight with each others and the slave runaway freed himself.

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There we are him Allah said see how the one who got this slave in the beginning he underestimates the dangers of an M n e underestimate the dangers of that quality. That quality can cause so much distraction so much problem I'm sure there's so many stories here even they make movies out of this in the stories about you know, people comes in cars just there's people just love to cause trouble between people and make them turn against each other. So that's why I like called them facet in Jaqen facet from being able to be known to CBOE common bJ participe, who RMF altum Utley will be aware of the faseb who might who try to say things just to turn you against each other.

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Anyway,

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my last parent Allah protect from us from such quality and protect us from such people to have them at home at work or community also allows them to run into Vienna.

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Do you have any questions? Are we good to go? Shall

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we?

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There's some of the scholars

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that perhaps it is okay before the person has to say something.

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Is there a little more to that in that they would not have their deeds before them while they were before they were put into the ground?

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Yeah, it was awesome.

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asking those who said, it is allowed to mention that

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bad things about person before the person very, because they have not yet met the record.

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Yeah, but also there is no true description, they died. And they met the record.

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When we say don't say bad things about people

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who died, because they have met the record. So

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is the ruling has to do with meeting the records, or has to do with

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dying

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also is meeting the record means in the grave, or in the moment of death because as we die, we meet our record, in a sense, you will know upon death, you go to Hellfire or paradise.

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So that when you met your record, you met the outcome of your deeds.

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Also, the whole point is not to talk about somebody who cannot defend themselves or passed away or it's just not a very, it's not a good manner. So it doesn't really matter if the person is buried or not buried yet. But

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the argument that you mentioned is exactly what the us also

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to make the point.

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Yes.

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Definitely to make stuff off and to say good things about the person.

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Okay, and if you did this in front of people, and you can tell those people Hey, by the way, what I said about this person was wrong and I'll be doing that.

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That's what the noahide law said he said, and he said, it's even better than going to the if you go to the person's head by the way, a backbite yesterday, that can cause more harm.

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And we don't want this to happen.

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You can make setup on the behalf of the person as well. You can make you know set up on that person's behalf.

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inshallah Allah subhanaw taala

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is common in the Day of Judgment almost want to add a world reconciler between people

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like he will when someone wants to take from you do something that will offer them a higher place in general to let go.

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And this head is Muslim, that individual Salam said that our last panel to add and maybe some cried when he said that, but can be so solemn. He said that he said that a lot more data will come to two people and he will only approach them they will mix to do it and often raise your heads and he see this place this is a beautiful place. This era is this a place for

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success a prophet or a messenger or maybe a murderer Shaheed someone like maybe very special to you that Allah said no, this place is for those who are willing to forgive their brothers and sister today

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if you're not willing to take from their good deeds, and to give them from your bad deeds that your place

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that he said, Yeah, I forgive him. I want that place.

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in Ibiza Sullenberger in episode cried and he said,

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If Allah reconsolidate between people and the Day of Judgment,

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you should reconsider between people in this dunya

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carry the Canon longsleeve who that Albania will

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allow us no database to complete dunya.

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So I saw that in vain.

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reconsider between puberty as well one of the greatest things

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someone lost in an interview