Suzy Ismail – #15 AlGhaffar

nematic it's nice to see you all again as we continue to discuss

the 99 names of Allah subhanaw taala and understand how to bring

the divine characteristics of Allah subhanaw taala into our

daily lives. Today the name that we're going to discuss is LR four,

or the oft forgiving, the one who forgives repeatedly over and over

and over again. Now Allah subhanaw taala is a love for because he

loves when we as humans repent. And as human beings you know, we

look at the Arabic word incense, which is the name for the human

being, and we see that the root word of Insan is Miss cin, which

means to forget, because as human beings we do tend to forget, and

we forget and we are and we forget, and we enter again and we

forget and we arrogant. Yeah, Allah subhanaw taala as a lot of

far, loves when we forget, we error, we make mistakes, we do

things that maybe we regret, but we come back to him and we repent.

Now in the marriage relationship. Forgiveness is a core tenant, that

really helps marriages strengthen their bond, that helps husband and

wife continue to flourish together in a relationship that is based on

compassion, respect, support, and love for the sake of Allah

subhanaw taala

it can be hard sometimes when your spouse tends to make an error or

does something that makes you unhappy or uncomfortable, and

maybe the spouse recognizes it or you bring it to their attention.

And they will ask your forgiveness as human beings again, initially

we may give give the forgiveness. But if it happens again, or again

and again, it becomes harder and harder for us to forgive. And

yeah, as remember that the name of Allah subhanaw taala is a lot of

for, it's important for us to integrate that sense of

forgiveness in our relationships as well. So that we in sha Allah

will also be forgiven by Allah. This doesn't mean that we give up

our rights and marriage. This doesn't mean that if in a

marriage, we are being mistreated or we are being oppressed, or we

are being treated in a way that is not pleasing to Allah subhanaw

taala it doesn't mean that we forgive and forgive and forgive,

but it means that we find in our heart, that ability to say This is

between you and Allah and even if it is