Elite Followers #09 Ruqayyah & Umm Kulthum RA

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AI: Summary © The Prophet sallama's marriage with two daughters was a cause for conflict and suffering, leading to romantic conflicts and the loss of family members. The movement of the Prophet sallama led to a decline in society, particularly in the area of marriage, and the importance of finding inspiration and support in one's life. The segment also touches on the struggles of families with divorced children and the need for positivity and support. The discussion of the Prophet sallama's use of clothing and the importance of caring for loved ones is also mentioned.
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sooner hiragana Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi as mine was seldom at the Sleeman cathedral cathedral my boss ohana, mana Illa my nan tonight in the cantata him Hakeem Frobisher alley so that SLE MD Warlock with a Melissa and EF Kahakai.

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So, today and today inshallah we will be discussing about the, the two other daughters of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Last week we talked about Zenonia Allah Tala Anna who was the older daughter of the Prophet alayhi salam. Today we will be talking about Rokia Radi Allahu Taala on her end, as well as OMA Kulsoom Radi Allahu Taala and her and then inshallah next week we'll be wrapping up the children of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam with the mention of Fatima Radi Allahu Taala on how the reason why we cover the reason why we will be covering Roca yo yo Allah Tala on her and only consume or the Allah Tala Anna is for a few reasons. Number one is that, oh my God, Allah,

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Allah and her and her biography is not in great detail in the books of history. And number two is that because both of them eventually married or throttled the Allahu Taala on so we first talked about a year ago the Allah Tala Anhang Luca Rhodiola Tada was the second daughter of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam born after Zina Rhodiola Unha and just like, just like anyone else, there was a number of YOLO Tala Unha took well care of Roca YOLO YOLO. Telangana while they were young, she would help her mother out and taking care of mocha yo and to the best of her capacity because there was not so much of an age gap between Xena Rhodiola Anna and Roca yo yo Latella and

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her there was a much bigger gap between Xena and Fatima or the Allah Tala and Houma and that's why Zenith how helped out more in taking care of Fatima then taking care of Luca nonetheless after Roca you came home with a consumer of your router Unha and while they were young or mid consumer NACA yo yo lotta line had they build a strong relationship they were very close to one another. And and especially after the marriage of Zenoah the Allah Tala anha then these two sisters became even more closer to one another. Now, before the before prophethood before prophethood there was a time when

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that these two girls Xena will be Allah Tala on her Rocha. Yo Yo Allah.

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I mean Ruqayyah and Omen consume rather Roca your animal consume the second and third daughter the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, they have reached the age of marriage. And so what happened was that a bhoot polyp, the uncle of the Prophet sallallahu, alayhi, wa sallam came to the Prophet of Allah peace be upon him and said to him, that why don't you now consider getting your two daughters married? When the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam, he asked that, do you have anyone in mind? He replied, Yes, I have the two sons of Abu Lahab in mind. Now even before the Prophet said, Allahu Allah, he was setting them was given prophet hood, when the Prophet alayhi salam approached his

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wife, Khadija, Ravi Allahu taala. And her about this proposal, Hadith of the Allah Tala and how was somewhat skeptical about this, and she was there was there was more pessimism

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involved. And therefore she was not really sure that whether she is okay with this marriage or not, because we have, she has two of her daughters going into one household. And the reason why she was very pessimistic is because that she was very well aware of the nature, the attitude and the demeanor of the wife of Ebola hub. And so because of her nature, and because of her attitude, and not only that, but because of the attitude of Abu Lahab that's why Hollywood yawata on her, initially she had hesitated, but when she saw that this was the wish of the uncle of the Prophet, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, of course, now he's not a prophet. So he has not seen

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like the dark side of Abu Lahab. So therefore, he gave in and he said, Yes, I have no problem with that, and therefore their Nikka in their marriage was conducted. So you have the two daughters of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam married to the two sons of Abu Lahab. Now, after prophet hood, as we know that there were first the three years, which was called the time when there was a private Dawa, or the Dawa was not public. And that is where the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he gave Dawa to a few certain people, after the revelation of the idea where Allah subhanaw taala he says, while I'm there, I share what can occur, Robin, that now you need to take your Dawa, to the

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public mass, what the Prophet salallahu is to them does and what he did and what do we all know is that he gathered everyone at the mountain and then he made a proclaim that I am the Prophet of Allah. Now the story is long, but to keep the story short, when Abu Lahab was gathered there, at the very end of this announcement of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, a Bula have he? He said that turban? laka Yeah, Muhammad Ali had that jamatkhana That Woe to you, O Muhammad, did you gather us here for this reason? And because he used these words to been laka that's why immediately Allah subhanho wa taala, he revealed the surah that Tabitha abelia have been whipped up, that as as a

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Bula, hub was very disrespectful to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he used this, these words that are considered as very derogatory. So therefore Allah subhanaw taala used those same derogatory words for Ebola have and now for only Ebola, but his wife also. Now it says that, when the wife of Abu Lahab, found out about this, and she heard about the sutra and the revelation of the sutra, she came to the masjid and the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam was sitting there with a bucket of the Allah Tala Han, and she came and she has something in her hand, and she wants to strike the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam with that, but shockingly, what happened was that

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when she came to the masjid, she saw obika Viola to nine. And she asked him what are the Allah Tala Orion that where is your companion Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Now this was very shocking and odd and awkward for a worker of the Allah Tala. And because a minute ago he was sitting with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and he's still sitting with the Prophet sallallahu it was on them. But when this this lady, the wife of Abu Lahab, when she comes she, Muhammad, the prophet Allah has something sitting right there. But she's talking to obika that where is your friend? Where's your companion? And I swear if I see him, I will do this and that to him. And after she

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left, oh, Booker was like he was in the state of bewilderment. He was shocked. And he says the problem so long while he was setting them, the yellow suit while you're sitting here next to me, I can see you, but she came and she could not see you. And that is where the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said that Allah subhanho wa Taala he hid me he hid me from her

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And he did not expose me before her. Now, after this moment from there on from there onward. It says that the you know, Bula hub, the Father, in the uncle of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and his wife. They tried everything in their power, and they would, they would never stop and they would constantly do everything in their power to hurt Rasulullah sallallahu he was sending them, even at a time when the Prophet SAW Allah who I knew he was sending them, he lost one of his sons. It said that Abu Lahab while the prophet ALEC is Salaam is going through this moment of grief, is said that Ebola is celebrating the death, can you imagine he is celebrating the death of the son of Rasulullah

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sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And he lives right next door to the Prophet sallallahu ala he was setting up. So this is who Ebola hub was, and therefore the place they came to Abu Lahab and they said that you have two of his daughters. Your two sons are married to the two daughters of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And why are you holding them, divorced them, tell your sons to divorce them. And therefore he went home. And he told his two sons that to divorce the daughters of rustless Allahu alayhi wa sallam, and therefore the two daughters of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam were sent back home. Ruqayyah are the Allah Allah Allah and OMA consumo, the ultra anha

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they were sent back home and they were divorced. And just stopping over here for a moment. I just wanted to say something here is that once again, this goes back to show you that how many sacrifices Rasulullah sallallahu. It was something he went through. We talked about this before, when we talked about his sons that he lost our seven of his kids, he lost six of them during his life. So that in itself is very painful for any parent. But on top of that, can you imagine the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam seeing two of his daughters get divorced right in front of his eyes, because he called people to La ilaha illallah and for any parent for any parent, there are people there are a

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lot of parents that they you know their their sons have been divorced. They have gone through a divorce their daughters have been through a divorce. And and it's never difficult for is I mean, it's never easy for any family. I've met several families in the past and you know, they just you know you they will sit with you and they will tell you that please make dua for my son. He was previously divorced and you know he is going through this emotional roller coaster in his life. Can you please make dua my daughter was divorced. So for any person to see their children being divorced, divorced, oh, or go through the process of divorce is never easy. But here we find our

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Celeste Allahu alayhi wa sallam that this is not having to only one daughter of the province that Allah Hardy was sending them. This happened to two daughters of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and they both happened on the same day. They both happen on the same day. So this is, you know, this goes to show you that and I've said this before, that in our lives, when we go through grief, we have to always find consolation in the life of Ursula so Allahu alayhi wa sallam, because no matter what position we are in, you know, you will find the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in that position in some capacity. So that's why it's very important that we always study the life

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of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So what happened was that the two daughters of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam were divorced, they came back to the house of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and even after that, they just begin to see the amount and the increase in the hate and the animosity of the college and therefore they will always do everything in their power to Pharaoh the Allah Tala Anna, and also on the consumer, the Allah Allah Allah, they will do everything in their power to help the cause of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. After that it said that was one of the Allah Tala, I was looking for a suitable spouse, and the Prophet sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam, he requested that that, uh, you know, that was not what the Allah didn't get married to his daughter, or the Allahu Taala Aha. And this is, you know, in when the police found out that that the daughter of the Prophet has married or thematical, the Allah the lion, keeping in mind is that with mine was a very prestigious man amongst the polish and what goes through and the reason I say this is because, you know, going deep down into history, if you remember the story of Arabia, the story of Abia, when the Prophet sallallahu it was selling was outside of Makkah. He first thought about selling a burqa. He never said oh Bucha he was thinking of sending on money he

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never sent to Oman. Who do you send? He said Northland or the Allah Tala. And why, because Earthman he had this demeanor that he was calm. He knew how to negotiate. He knew how to talk to people very well. And not only that, but he had a very good rapport

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Are with the parish and therefore, when the police found out that he has married the daughter of Rasulullah salAllahu alayhi wasallam many of them were upset because they wanted the daughter of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam just like her father, for her to go through afflictions and torture. And therefore when she when they found out that she married

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or thought of the a lot that I and they were very, very upset. It said that when Rupiah or the Allah, Allah, Allah and Allah Tala and they married, there was a unique type of bond and love that existed before them and between them. It said that Zubair Rhodiola and he mentioned that one time was was a Allahu alayhi wa sallam he sent a man to give a gift to overthrow the Allah Tala and when he went to go give that gift, he sort of took his time and coming back. When the man came back, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam asked him that what took you so long and coming back and he says that I went to the house of orthography Allah Tala Han and rupa yellow the Allah Tala AHA and I

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stayed there for a while, because when I saw the bond between Rupiah and Northwell Rhodiola tonight, it was so amazing that it is a unique type of bond that I have not seen within many families. And so he was so he was so taken away by this bond that he stood there for some time and he watched.

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At this time Luca Yara the Allah Tala and her while she was made to Orthology Allah Tala and the free the very first batch of Muslims migrated to Abyssinia and it said that

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Allah that I was part of that group she migrated with her husband or throttled the along the line. And after some time, it said that when they heard about the Islam of Amara, the alotta line, and Hamza of the Allah tonight, they came back with the hopes that things have turned around in Mecca. But when they came back, they found that things were the opposite. Rather, there was more hatred, there was more animosity and more bigotry that the police were spreading against the Muslims. But and then you had the second batch of Muslims who went to Abyssinia but orthodontically Allah Tala and, and his wife, they refused to be part of that second batch. Rather what they did was that they

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went and they migrated with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, or before the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, to Medina. And what happened was that later on the other, the other two daughters, you had Oh, Michael tomb who was unmarried at that time, Fatima, who was unmarried at that time, they migrated with Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. You remember that? We talked about this last week that Xena was left in mcta Because as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that I'm waiting for a decision to come from Allah subhanaw taala about Xena and then Ruqayyah she had migrated with Orth mono, the Allah to the island. Now it said that Allah subhanho wa Taala

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the granted or throttled the Allah Denine and require or the Allah Tala on her with a beautiful child. It was a baby boy, and they took care of this child very, very much. And it said that what happened was that one day, and you have to understand that their homes were not like our homes. One thing I forgot to mention when oveja came back from Abyssinia

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Of course, at that time, they never had social media, they never had phones. So if someone passed away, the only way you will come to know if someone passed away is when you would come back in town. When I came back in town, that is when she found out that her mother had passed away that Khadija had passed away. So already this was a difficult moment for a lot Alana and then a year two years later, they came to hit it off. So she migrated ALLAH SubhanA granddam with a baby boy, but what happened one day was that an animal came around and it picked and it picked the

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it picked the eye of the son of a year of the alota lion and what happened was that you know that in the houses during those times and not only that, but if you go to many countries nowadays many of the third world countries and the houses which are not very like well structured you have animals coming by time after time just today I saw today I was watching I was looking on I was looking at my Facebook account and there was a they found that in India today there was a leopard walking through a public school like a school with children so you find animals just like you know animals walking through anyway an animal came in a pack the eye of the son of ortho the Allah Tala on and because of

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that he had an infection and because of that infection he passed away and after he passed

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away, that was an extremely difficult moment for Raka Yaga the Allah Tala on her, and that is why she became sick. You know people in general they are they are absolutely okay. But when they are traumatized by a certain loss in their life, they become extremely sick. And I have seen people like that in my own life, that everything is going well. And a tragedy happens in their family or in their life, and they become so sick. And in many cases, I've seen people who have been diagnosed with cancer and they pass away and the root cause of all this all these problems were that one tragedy that took place. So because of this tragedy that struck Rocha yesterday Allah Tala and her

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she became extremely sick. Now in the second year of Hegira, the Battle of butter took place the barrel butter took place. And at that time, when the when the announcement was made, at that time, everyone who was with Roswaal Salah while he was sent them, they went for the battle of button, but the only one who are one of the ones who did not go and participate in the Battle of other was are smart on you, Allah tonight, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam actually told it with man, they you stay behind, and you take care of your wife. And there's a very powerful lesson whereby there's a very powerful lesson in this, and that is that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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understands very well, the importance of Dawa, he gave our all his life. But at the same time, he understood the importance of family. And this is something that's very, very important. And if you remember, in the old in the old facility, I give a hoot about striking a balance within our families. There are a lot of us who are busy with work, there are a lot of us who are busy with Dawa. And there are a lot of us who are busy with other charitable organizations, and we're doing a lot of good outside the house. But what's very important is that, as far as Dawa is concerned, you cannot go and give Dawa while your family is suffering behind. If a person is only focused on Dawa,

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and they leave behind their family, then they may be giving Dawa but they are neglecting their family. And here, what do we see from sulla Sal, Allahu Allah, he was sending them. This gesture of his is a very powerful gesture. He's telling us finally Allah Tala and that this is the very first battle of Islam, yet you are not going to be participating, because you have someone sick at home, and you should stay there. And not only that, but even like, for those of you who know, that always support me was a very famous Dabiri and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Subhanallah he wanted to come and visit the Prophet sallallahu ala he was sending them but he did not because he

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had to take care of his mother. And that's why it was Lhasa Allahu Allah He was sung he mentioned a waste of gardening. And he told O'Meara, the Allah Tala on that if you ever see this man, if you ever see this man, tell him to make dua for you, because He is Mr. Job with Dawa. That whenever he makes dua, his dua is accepted. And why did this happen is because if there was any other person, they would have said, the visiting resource of Ali was Salam is very important for me. And they would have neglected their family, they would have neglected their mother. But here Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is praising this man who wears the waist up only because he he gave

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preference to taking care of his mother over coming and visiting Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa Salaam. And this is once again very, very powerful. We have to take care of our families. We have to look after our families. Our families are very, very precious to us. And if there's anything if I need to go out of town for any kind of Dawa purposes, and I know behind that my family will suffer, then we need to stay at home and we need to take care of our families. So this is something I just want to mention because this is something very, very powerful with Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So the Prophet alayhi salam, he went forbidden. They came back when they came back, the

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Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, the very first thing he did was he went to the masjid. He performed His Torah Cazalet. He then went to the house of Orthology Allah and the very first thing he did, he went to the house of Northland, or the Allah to dine, and he asked us man, are you allowed to dine and Northman then informed the Prophet sallallahu wasallam that your daughter while you're gone, she passed away. And this was an extremely difficult moment for us law said Allahu Allah he was sending him now after this. I start with the Allah Tala and he remains single for a while. It was in those days that after some time, that Hafsa or the Allah Allah Allah, the daughter of Oman, Qatar or the

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Allah Tala and she also became a widow, she lost her husband, and therefore

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Almighty Allah Tala and knowing very well that this man has just lost his wife to so he came to offer his daughter in the hand of marriage to or someone with you along the line was one of the Allah

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Tonight he simply remain silent because he had heard or Slessor Allahu alayhi wa sallam being interested in the daughter of Almighty Allah to dine, and therefore useless Allah hottie was sending when he went when he met Omer the next time. He said to Almighty Allah to line that How about I marry your daughter? And how about Earthman marry someone who is better than your daughter, which is my daughter OMA Kulsoom Rovio Allah Allah and that is why ortholite are the alotta line that is how are thrown married, on we consume the second daughter of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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We, the day is said that the day when all Micklefield got married,

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is mentioned in EBITA Magi Narrated by Abu Huraira the Allah Tala on that one time the Prophet, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he was coming. He saw it with man in the masjid and he came inside and he told me what's wrong with you a lot and I and that Allah subhanho wa Taala had been informed in Jubilee Italia some has told me that Allah subhanho wa Taala wants you to marry when we consume Rhodiola and Ana and therefore this is why this marriage took place. The day went on the costume got married, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ordered over a man to take care and to to dress her very well for her marriage. And some days after they got

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married the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he asked me with whom are you Allah Tala on her that how did you find your husband and she said that I have found my husband to be a very, very good man. It said that the the MaHA or the bride gift that was given to Nokia, the same amount of bride gift was given to on the consumer the alotta on her and and of course overthrow the Allah Tala on and on because home they lived Allah subhanaw taala did not grant them any children. So they do not have any children. But what is mentioned is that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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he was he of course would go time after time to check on his own daughter, he will go and check on on his son law or throttle Viola line. And it said that in the ninth year, in the ninth year after hijra, is said that a woman with whom she passed away, and it said that during her during her burial process, it said that the Prophet sallahu alayhi wa sallam, he was standing outside the room where she was being bathed and she was being washed. And as the time of different came around the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he gave the appropriate clothing to the people to cover her up, as you know that when it comes to the fifth of June of janazah,

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as far as men are concerned, men are wrapped in three different sheets, sheets of cloth. As far as women are concerned, there are five different types of clothing, or five different types of things that are that are related to a woman. So they have the three things which the men they use, but they use another piece of cloth or a sheath that covers the upper part of the body, and they use something else that covers their hair. So the Prophet sallallahu ala he was sending them standing outside their room, he gave these cloths and the sheets to the people inside and they wrapped her up and they took her and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was extremely, he was extremely he was

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in grief, extremely grief at the death of Omen consumer Yolanda Anna, he was crying quite a bit of course it was one of the Allah Tala and was very upset because he had lost his second wife. And it said that after that it was after that, that when autoantibody Allah Tala and now you know that the province Assam doesn't have any more daughters Fatima who was the last one was married to either the Allah Tala and so therefore, in order to make things easier for tomorrow the Allah Tada and that is when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he told the people that you should get your daughters if anyone if any of you have daughters, you should get the Mary to overthrow the Allah to line for

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he is a very noble man. And that is when he said that if I had more daughters, I would give them into the marriage of or throttle the allotted time. So therefore this is so this was a throttle the allotted time. Now as far as I checked, I could not find anything

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in the books of Sierra that who did it was one of the a lot that I marry after that, I'm sure that he made after that, but that might be that might be in some other books which I did not research into those other books. But what I found the seed of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was that there is no mention of Earthman marry anyone else. That is once again that does not mean that he did not marry anyone else. He probably did marry someone else after that. And so this brings us to the end of amikacin, Maria Latella and her and so that is why, once again the last thing is that was

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until the Ultron was given the lack of in the title as the new array in the one of two lights because he married the two daughters of those who Lhasa Allahu alayhi wa sallam. I do want to mention about us metal the Allah that I'm but I will keep that for later because once we finish with the with the children of resource Allahu alayhi wa sallam, we will be getting into the lives of the Sahaba of the Allah Tala and home at that time we'll be talking about overthrow the Allah Tala and because he had many great characteristics. So this brings us to Omen consume. Next week inshallah we will be covering Fatima all of your wealth align her and her life is in great detail. So if we can

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finish that in one week, we may take we may take two weeks on that, but inshallah next week, probably next week or the next two weeks, we'll be covering for some of you a lot Alana, the last child of us was Allah why some to be covered? Document Allah Hey, Mila Subhan give all of us ability to give us the Iman like these people had and give us a server and the man as these people had akmola Hey Subhan Allah we humbly Subhana Allah 192 Allah EDA illa Anta they're still felucca wanted to be exactly la hey, somebody's going to live with our cattle