Nadim Bashir – 3 Commands of Allah to Overcome Social Pressures

Nadim Bashir
AI: Summary © The history of Islam is highlighted, including a surah from the Prophet's birthplace that highlights a woman who was supposedly married to a young man, but pushback from society and the church. The speaker emphasizes the importance of following the church's guidance and being cautious of cultural fit. The speaker also discusses the need for new ideas and advices for social problems, the importance of following advices and not following social pressure, and the importance of being aware of culture and avoiding negative consequences. The speaker also mentions a woman who was born in Mafia and a woman who was born in (inaudible).
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Total Azov is a Surah that was revealed in Medina and today Inshallah, from the very beginning of the episode we just want to share just few few important lessons that was behind what Allah has given us and few advices honestly by Allah subhanho wa Taala So, that is a Surah that talks about the social and moral etiquettes of a Muslim and it has some very similar characteristics compared to the *, like and so the * ALLAH SubhanA wa talks about an accusation or a slander that was posed against the wife of the Prophet SAW Selim in this case it was I show the Elana in the case of the hijab, there was a an attack that was launched against Rasulullah sallallahu ala some himself,

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insert a * we find there are some certain is related to what goes on inside the house, who the women have to do hijab from and from whom they do not have to do hijab, worthy etiquettes before you go into someone's house, yeah, you will Adina and Manu later the Hulagu youth and available you will teach them how to study so and there are many Ayat like that here in this surah Allah subhanaw taala also provides some etiquettes that what are to be observed when you go to someone's house and so forth, like Allah subhanho wa Taala says, While Musa in the scene and the Hadith, when some people that came to the house of the Prophet SAW Salem, they had already ate and now they will just engage

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and talk and they were delaying the family of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So anyway, here in this sutra, in the very beginning of the Surah, Allah subhanho wa Taala he highlights a very important incident that happened in the life of the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam see when the province has some he got married to Aisha Radi Allahu anha. Even though I show the Allah wa Anna was very young, there was no there was no pushback from society. There was no one who came forward and said that how can Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam do something like this? How can he get married to such a young girl and so forth. And once again, we learn from the seed of the prophets of

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salaam that there are many a hadith where the Prophet alayhi salam was shown, I show the Allahu anha in his dream prior to him marrying her, but there was no pushback from society. Today. Unfortunately, we do live in a time where people are pushing back on this is become one of the most hot topics is some are phobic topics, when it comes to Muslims and non Muslims and so forth. That how can your Prophet married such a young girl? It is from Allah subhanho wa taala. But the one marriage where there was pushback in the life of the prophet of salaam was the prophets marriage to Zainab Radi Allahu Anhu. And the reason why there was a push back on this marriage from the

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community from the society and there was social pressure put on us Allah Salam is because Zainab was the ex wife of his adopted son Xavier, the Allah one. So we all know that these are the Allah who was a adopted son of the province of Salem, but Allah subhanho wa taala, he mentioned very clearly to the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam that you cannot keep his name as Zaid evident Mohammed, because he is not your biological son, even though you have taken him on as your son. But since he is not your biological son, you cannot give him that name as a bit of Mohammed, but he has to be referred to always his biological father. And we learned from this when it comes to the adoption

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rules of Islam, that any person if there's any family that adopts another child, the rules of hijab the rules, these rules have to be applied, that they can never be referred biologically to their adopted parents, but they have to always be biologically referred to their original to their biological parents. Now, at this time, what happened was that zayde got married to Xena or the Allah, Allah and Han and the story is along, but there was some issue there was some compatibility issues between the two. And not only that was no of the Allahu ins she came and she saw it, and even Zaid came to the province of settlement informed him that this marriage is simply not working out.

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And so they both got a divorce once they got a divorce. Allah subhanho wa Taala he ordered Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that he should marry Xena, * Allah Juana. Now when this Nika took place, when this cat we Kitab, or this marriage ceremony took place, at that time, there was a lot of push from the society, that How dare or how can a man marry the ex wife of his own son, and that is where Allah subhanho wa Taala says that he's not actually your son, Mohammed, he is your adopted son, you have taken him on as your son, but he's not biologically your son and therefore, the outcome of a biological son will not apply in this case. So hence you marrying Zane up there is

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absolutely no issue over here. So therefore, once again, when there was a lot of pushback, but the I came, there was a lot of pushback from the Muslim community and there was nothing that bothered Rasulullah sallallahu some after this. Now the point the reason I mentioned this is because brothers and sisters will lie if you you know as community leaders, I know of the and I'm sure you also know in a certain capacity of the different challenges that we face as a community. And I've said this before many times, according to the Hadith Allah

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Salam sallahu wa sallam fitness are going to come, ideologies are going to come today there are so many different concepts outside, new ideas are coming up as if today these ideas are saying that Islam is incomplete without Islam is incomplete. Without these ideas, Islam needs these new ideas and concepts that exist today in society. And that will come up to make sure that Islam is compatible with everyone else. If that is what we're saying. We are basically saying that the deen that came down from Allah subhanho wa Taala was imperfect and we need these new ideologies in order to make our deen perfect. That's what we're trying to say. That is initially essentially that is

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what we're trying to say. Our Deen that came from Allah subhanho wa Taala is perfect as it is, it is complete from A to Z every single aspect of life has been explained to us by Allah subhanho wa Taala and demonstrated to us by Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So in the future, how do we handle social problem? Our social pushback, whenever there are people who are going to hold on to their Deen there is going to be pushback from society. How do we hold on to our deen three advice is given to us by Allah subhanho wa Taala and well those three advices those three advices are mentioned in the first three verses of Surah Al Ahzab. These are the three best advices ALLAH SubhanA see when it

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comes to our deen, there is my wife. There is halal there is haram there is mcru there is MOBA, there is admonishing there is direct orders there are so many things about our deen but when it comes to our entire Deen it comes down to these important three advices first advice ALLAH SubhanA wa Taala says yeah a Johanna bu it up Allah Wallah tutor in the cafeteria when we're not fitting, this is the very first thing Allah subhanaw taala is telling us Allah so Allah why do you send them it tequila? Always be cautious of Allah subhanho wa Taala wala tutorial caffeine and do not follow the path of the kuffaar Now you know why Why did Allah subhana mentioned the path of the kuffaar

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because it is these kind of ideologies that takes a person away from Islam. It makes a person to start rejecting Allah Subhana Allah to Allah. So Allah Subhana sennder Do not follow this mindset. Walla Walla to to Al Katherina. Well Munna fit in and do not follow the the hypocrites also, because the hypocrites have as they have a different kind of nature that they seem, they show that they care about Islam, but they are injecting new ideas. And not only that, but they have hatred in their heart for Islam. So Allah subhanaw taala is saying first advice is tequila Wallah tutorial carefree now we're gonna fit in the second advice given by Allah subhanho wa Taala very important, what may

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you have in a coma rhombic Subhanallah What a beautiful advice given to us by Allah subhanho wa taala, short, sweet and concise, always follow that which your Lord has revealed to you simple as that. Whatever is mentioned in the Quran, we stick to that whatever we have been seeing whatever we have has been demonstrated to us by the Prophet SAW Selim, we stick to that inshallah. That is what we need to follow as long as we follow that, as long as that our day is our standard, that nothing else will become our standard. Once again today in the world that we live in. There's always new standards and the minute you try to follow new standards, you're gonna fall into problems. What Who

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are you hi in a Camilla big in Allah canon retina hubiera. Now when there is social pressure, when there is pushback from sometimes people that you know and so forth, then you always need support. You always want someone to be on your side. Allah subhana wa Taala says, what what can Allah Allah always rely on Allah subhanho wa Taala worker forbid you Akela and you will not find a better supporter than Allah subhanho wa taala. If you stick if we always stick to Allah, and His Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and we do what Allah subhanho wa Taala says, then at that time, yes, there'll be a lot of social pressure. But if I know that I have Allah on my side today, we're

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looking you know, in these kind of situations, we're always looking for allies, okay? This person can be on my side and this person can be on my side. If Allah is on our side, who do we have to care about? honestly think about it, because there is invalid because of Allah subhanho wa Taala people think that they can go on social media and attack and demean someone and destroy someone's reputation is invalid because of Allah subhanho wa Taala if Allah is our priority, do you think Allah subhanho wa Taala is just going to let us go two ways, Never will you do that? So these are three advices going into the future we teach our kids we need to teach our youth and even for us

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adults, we need to keep these three advices in mind, number one is always fear Allah subhanho wa Taala always always care when ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada ones. Number two is we always follow the way we always follow that which is in the Quran and the Sunnah of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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And number three is we will always prefer to work on Allah subhanho wa taala. Now the last thing quickly I do want to mention is something very interesting here you will find ALLAH SubhanA wa Taala throughout the entire Quran when he gives a direct order, he will into all the previous prophets, He will say Musa yeah Ibrahim your loot, he will give these kinds of advices or he will give these kinds of direct orders, but he will take the name of that Prophet, never, never out of respect for our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam never would Allah subhanho wa Taala give a direct order to Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam by calling him out as yeah Muhammad never. There are four times in the

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Quran surah the name of Muhammad is mentioned only four times in the Quran. One is Sudha Ali Imran wa Muhammad Allah rasool Allah subhana wa Taala is mentioning and the Battle of butter. When the Muslims actually heard a rumor that the President passed away he he was killed. Allah subhanho wa Taala revealed Omar Mohammed Allah rasool Allah flaten Cabrera so just because even if the person has passed away, are you going to leave your deen now when the person actually did pass away Rasul

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Allah Allah He went on the member and he says that whoever says that Muhammad is is passed away, he's no longer with us, I will take his life and that time will book or the Allah Allah and he came and he says almost sit down and then he recited this is why Muhammad in LA Sulan but the harlequin probably Rasul Rasulillah Salam is no different than any of the previous prophets like all the previous prophets passed away, he will also pass away so so this is one time that is mentioned the Quran another time that is mentioned the Quran is where Can anyone tell me?

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Surah Azam is very good so, so that I have Allah subhanho wa Taala mentioned about the Prophet son being the final of all the prophets being the seal of all the prophets. macadam, Hamedan. Abba hadden metallicum. What actually rasool Allah He Muhammad in the beginning was the third one.

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Muhammad Rasool Allah subtle fat. Okay, so this by the way, if you don't know, just at the time when the Prophet Saddam was signing the treaty between the Muslims and the Kurdish in her Davia the most the Quraysh when the person wrote Muhammad Rasool Allah on the document, like this is an agreement between us and Muhammad Rasul Allah. They said, No, we're gonna wipe this out. We don't believe you as a prophet to begin with. So you cannot right Muhammad Rasul Allah. Allah says in the Quran, Muhammad Rasool Allah, that they may disbelieve it but till the Day of Judgment, you're gonna recite Muhammad Rasul Allah, and the last time is mentioned is and so the more Yes, so Muhammad okay, I

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gave him okay, he got it. So sort of Muhammad, when Medina I'm gonna I'm gonna sorry hayati. What I'm an OB man who's Zilla Allah Muhammad. What will happen with a beam for time mentioned the Quran, the name of Muhammad, but in these four is never are they a direct order to the Prophet SAW Selim. Whenever Allah gave a direct order to the Prophet Salam. He will always call them out as Yeah, you have an OB? Yeah, you heard Rasul. Yeah, you have a Zulu believer mounds Aleikum Arabic. Yeah. You're Rasool LA. Yeah. Hassan Kaleena. You said you want to cough? Yeah, you have to be you tequila. No, nothing. Yeah, you have to be your limit to huduma Hello, Hola. Hola. It's an honor and

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a respect that Allah gave to us was a Salam. Likewise, we show our respect to the prophets of salaam that every single time you and I we hear Rasul Allah, we hear Muhammad we say sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that is the least that we can do to show our respect to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam asked Allah subhanho wa Taala give us Sophia. May Allah subhana wa keep us on datahub amenable Allah mean Zack Mala Hey, Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. In Mussolini now almost Lima Do you want meaning Well, Mina de carne de now Anita thing was slowed in pain I was born in Ponte wasabi Rena was Slavia before she you know and before she

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