Morals Series – Episode 29 – Honour

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In

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the previous few videos, we looking at the preservation or the protection of people defending people.

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Today's theme continues with a slight addition of protecting people's honor and dignity.

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Because they find it unfortunately, in the world that we live in at the moment, it is common practice for person to malign another individual, to speak about another individual to gossip about another individual,

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when the world is full of gossip as they say, and full of false news.

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And so, Muslims should be very wary, about authenticating the information

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about the news that comes to them

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as a loss of control, imagine young

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injured upon being infected by him and to seek

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to know the meaning

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or you believe the way we did vigilant, that may be a rebellious wicked individual comes with some news, some information

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in

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order to establish, clarify, seek to find out that information, less you begin to become a people in a state of loss, regret, because spreading information which is false. This is a verse in Psalm 49 chapter of Parana Medina and sort of 18 verses that may be mentioned, this sore is enough for us to establish an Islamic Society. And we're going to remain with the theme of the ayah inside the surah because they are relevant to this theme of spreading rumors and tales and gossiping and suspicion.

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And as we find that the most of the individual is not one, that this world is full of maligning other people's integrity, and attacking their character reputations, particularly by saying bad things about fellow human beings and looking for their faults.

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This unfortunately, sadly, something which is even amongst all Muslims.

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It's common practice for for the media and the world around us

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to seek some information, to tarnish an individual to exploit information about an individual, for whatever purpose it may be.

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But sadly, is that amongst some of us Muslims, it's common practice

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that Muslims like to explain another Muslim sins, or a sin, or a mistake, or discrepancy, or misunderstanding, or just genuine gossip that we find below have fun this and that was said about the individual has unfortunate become a common practice amongst some of us individuals, and that we need to remind ourselves that this is a danger and punishment

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of just just gossiping of slandering of maligning or spreading rumors, spreading whatever a person hears wherever important to them in or by rebel, at least in order to be anti muslim ad hoc.

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The most worst form of river

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of usury interest is to attack another Muslims honor integrity without any justification. How do you discern?

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And I'm sure that most of us are familiar, how repulsive usury is how interest if you study the area in Santo Hadid, how they they display the repulsive nature of staying away from Riba

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of interest to such a degree that you find inside the Quran. There's only one explicit verse speaking about it a sin minangkabau from the major sense

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which speaks about the Allah Subhana Allah and then his message of declared war upon the individual, many sins combat I mentioned.

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But nevertheless, Allah, Allah mentioned that this is what's going to happen to the individual I'm going to declare upon the individual, you Latina Allah tala. What the rumor about the Yamuna River in many phase of the Southern who had been a labor of Sunni are you who say Allah Subhana Allah?

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Well, the rumor but stay away from whatever means from Riba previous you may not have known about the ruling and injunctions leave it walk away from interest transactions

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because we don't do so.

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You know,

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real true believers

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and straight after that for Islam devalue. You don't carry you out of avoiding Riba interest for the newbie has been a valuable resource. They know that Allah has declared war.

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But have you stopped and pondered and reflected that? Could it be a war that we're facing?

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Mama, we're facing a wall with a lump sum but we don't think like this. The Muslim Omar sadly doesn't think like that. That's really fine. Alberto kariba Bianca, Sheila. Adam Islami, you find a standard interest based banking is widespread in the Muslim globe in the world.

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While the Lord

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Allah has made business

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and made using haram lending posh, there's no discussion people say it's a 21st century is a modern word, how are we going to live? What we're going to do what we'll be doing 150 years ago in our lives, how will you be previously inside our lives? Now all of a sudden, it's become a dire need, that I need to have this to survive to live or as many people that debate I need a roof over my head, even those

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often they are minute amount for maybe 100, maybe one or maybe from 1000, maybe one has said that a taking a loan

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for your own home may be allowed. There is a my new view, which is not the majority view

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argues

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for necessity, what is necessity according to Sharia, Krishna, what is Buddha mean? Do means that you have you're about to starve, you're about to die, you're going to go hungry, hungry, you're going to be ridden without any shelter.

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That's what I mean. And even if

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necessity means that you take that which will surprise you so you're starving. You're about to die of hunger, you eat enough flesh of harar or the swine May Allah forbid, that will sustain you to continue your journey to give you life. It doesn't mean that you you eat as much as you please.

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So he's basically play with your own semantics of linguistics and word he says Buddha necessity. necessity, according to Islam is a dire need.

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And I wouldn't be wrong to say that there is no Muslim in this country that a dire need to take an interest based loan and say it's a dire need, I need to live, I need to survive. There are there are many other ways of survival that we find. And just to refresh our memory we study that had either speak about the evil nature the punishment or the repulsive theme of Riba, we find that 70 degrees of usury that leads to which is equivalent to a man having relationship with his own mother. How did you sort of imagine he'd make a critique but in general, I've accepted the least amount of Riba

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is for person to have relationship with their own mother,

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naturally sounds repulsive.

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But we know this, why so many Muslims engaged in something which repulsive makes a person to stay away from it. Likewise, you find that equally this has been discussing today, it is something repulsive,

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that is to speak about another person speak about their own integrity. That is a great city, it's worse than the river was the taking usury, that your maligning another person's character and behavior to just that you find Riba to be repulsive person should find that when I speak about another person, without any justification is repulsive as well. Some of that is going to an even deeper view to the highest degree of usury is not the actually money exchange. accord is had the the highest degree of usury is reviling and attacking somebody else's honor without any justification, without any reason.

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Some of us average Muslims were not vigilant about this, we may see a person committing a major on drinking alcohol, drugs Zener usually interesting.

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But then, I made that by I might speak about another individual and I think nothing of it, the Mother,

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why should I think nothing of it, when

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when he's also from the major sins?

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amongst them, he seems to insult to speak about another individual without any justification, just like I get upset about this person, as you get upset about my own self.

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That why am I doing this

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and as a person should see that the punishment which awaits that individual, what will happen to these individuals

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being murdered to be becoming non alpha male

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has

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to do

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with a professor who made the night good ascension, who showed certain individuals what they were doing. He saw people with names of copper.

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They were scratching their face, their cheeks, their faces, and stretching their their body reverse scratching their chests for good to learn how to pray.

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I said to the brain, these individuals called

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Luna, luminous warrior.

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These are the people who eat the flesh of other human beings and they tarnish their honor, speak about their integrity, their dignity. You know the cipher study this Hadith,

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about Maria v. When a program is taken on the night journey,

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and shown the people have been shown the people paradox

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study the depiction, visual depiction of people will happen to them. Men when you find individuals who are going to be crushed with a rock,

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when asked to tell me what is the meaning of this individual whose head is crushed, and let me know that

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the person who

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never implemented the person who slept through their praise, with a vision about their praise had to be crushed with a rock, even another group of individual coming from a river full of blood

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that come to the shore and throw stones into their into their mouths.

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leaky blood suckers. These are the people who used to give all uses usually take interest, and then go back into the red ocean and come back once again. Even people in a

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in a furnace of fire in a state of nudity, and a fire will burn them or make them come towards the tip to the front of us men.

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Who those individuals, they are the men and the women who committed sin on this earth.

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And some really massive ad, delete the other cover.

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Don't worry about the hereafter.

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Don't visualize this is going to happen suddenly, hereafter. This is an evidence for other people inside the grave as soon as they die.

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They will be involved in these major sins. This will be the punishment to begin to face and integrate the two torment inside Africa for those individuals howdy in

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the hood in the Muslim

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and then it was rightfully made me shed tears about remembering, remembering about the depiction of punishment and good things.

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It's not about as I mentioned.

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Now,

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what is the fear of Allah as

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a civil law that you just you just weep?

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you shed a few tears you mostly get upset inside your heart

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and

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say have you change yourself?

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That agenda minute

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minute for one minute

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that you change yourself to stay away from her

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stay away from that which is forbidden stay away from evil. That's what it means. That's the impact of email email isn't it Some people say it's just a melodious feeling inside the heart The mind

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is a feeling inside your heart that makes you change

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it's so difficult that we find the message and say oh yada yada in

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my people have abandoned this or what remember we

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call Nana

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leads

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lead Nicaragua many of us may be just just leaving besides

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melnikova we look around to the following Ramadan

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when when someone's dying of some reflection of a feeling upset and

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the higher

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just that you eat and you drink every single day you enjoy the nourishment, of food and drink you need to enjoy allows

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you to enjoy the sweetness of the

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food of the soul awakens the individual does what a person does doesn't seem to understand the verses of Quran

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just goes beyond the throat that

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It isn't to be penetrated beyond the throne into the within the soul of the individual. That's what the Quran wants to do. That's what Islam wants to do

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in today's world and fighting amongst them was mostly just a tacit approval. And many of us we know things are Haram, we make a joke about

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an hour if no smoking or no free mix around I know. I know.

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People who don't everything's heroin

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and give me give us give us evidences

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they justify their life

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in the heart of the sickness a language is a sickness

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a simple Muslim simple belief

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when you told something that's how

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obey try your best for Polycom Informatica to be weak man with common errors mistakes now how to no one but when you know something is wrong. The person makes a means to come away from me. And this is what we as a Muslim nation Mr. Kumar may be suffering from we don't want to amend

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we know what he's hella we don't want to we don't want to amend. We don't want to physically make that change, of giving up these wrong things that we're surrounded by. Ally for the party we stick to the depiction

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of Islam maligning other individuals.

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The color is very accurate. And we depict certain things. Once again, the only depiction inside the Quran about maligning another individual. Yeah, you're the

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one in the back of them, Nathan, what are the what

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are you looking

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to move for Tacoma?

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continuing?

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As I mentioned, studies to the 18 verses, study the surah, where he speaks about

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all you believe, stay away from suspicion.

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I think much of suspicion is a sin, to be suspicious about people to be worried about other people unnecessarily.

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And in those individuals, so don't spy what a young Lupo Baba don't want to eat the flesh of his own brother.

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There is no depiction once again inside the panda described as seen in such a nature are only describing backbiting at eating the dead flesh of an individual. We study the defeat of these iron

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if we look at the subtle pollio Mm

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hmm. So can you speak about it to see what this is?

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About that we find

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about a one

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on one what is conjecture and speculation.

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You know, some people have to say, you know somebody's doing a bad and bad evil action and give them the benefit of the doubt. Either can abort neuron follow.

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If a person commits since opening, you don't need to make a justification. This is where many people they have moved up the principles.

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If a normal person does something wrong, that all hell will break loose. Somebody else does something wrong. Give him an excuse. Yeah, sure. Enough as a big alcohol product people give him the benefit of the doubt definitely Sherry acid.

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Mm

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hmm.

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and move on. And mature. Mm. Shaka, you mentioned mentioned to me was a famous and the Lucien scholar of the scene.

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He mentioned the

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fifth one and Bobby Beeman of our hero and puppy.

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Till now nothing wrong with eating bad of a person whose appearance is bad.

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Copy

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in front of you, you don't need to think good of that person.

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You don't have to think good, that person. You don't have to make excuses for that person opening which is out in public. You don't need to justify and give the person the person the unofficial volume.

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The fist is apparent

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and I don't want to delve on this too much. But just to give you an understanding how deep it can be fuqaha mentioned about the man who needs the Salah.

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We may take this personally or reject it but if you help us to understand

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My main thrust my main aim

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for fiscal

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focus shapes their bid

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cannot be the inbound

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method.

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In today's modern world, we may justify some more than whatever may be required. So fuqaha fuqaha rejected a person open because an official volume, his opinion is open. We're not judging anybody here.

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According to fukada, it cannot be the man.

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He can't leave people in prayer. Because he's disappeared it is open in a public domain. Because we speak about the person to attire themself in a certain manner are all compulsory in general, and become even more composed to the person who's supposed to be the Imam of the people find a kind of fanciful boy if he openly disobey Allah.

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He know perfectly to lead the people in prayer

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or whatever his reason may be hide with a llama will overlook and fall in forgive, there's no cost to judge but it is to help us to understand the city of Allah Subhana Allah because we live in a very soco, they claim to be a modern, 21st world,

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that everything can be tolerated, everything to be taken, we need to follow classical understanding of Islam

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to develop that inside our life,

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the cookies

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don't spy. And now you bidness don't search to find the faults of people

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want

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to beat him.

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So, don't be

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a dumb search. Don't ask people about another individual to find out about another individual, to begin to gossip about them.

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What is LIBOR?

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And LIBOR, the cuca haka Bhima, Yara to speak about your brother, what he dislikes.

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You know, sometimes we try to be clever and say, Well, I would say that in the face

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that he continues.

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If it's true, what you said about the individual that you carried out, you tap into that individual. If it's not true, then you slandered the individual.

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You slander that person, which according to the Sharia is a great sin. For people who carry out

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slander other individuals that we find, we find the method of Riba.

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mega is like eating a dead carcass.

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That's how I was describing it.

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That in fact, by the end individuals are eating a dead flesh. That's a meme Shakuni speaks about this repulsive nature, how repulsive it sounds

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to eat a flesh of your own brother.

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And I call you find the anatomy

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of a dead person. does it know if somebody is chewing away at their body or not? For me, likewise, a living person doesn't know you're speaking about them behind their back

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saying things about the old brother

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and as if we cannot read is sort of

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an

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equal Lumosity. lumada. way away. If I'm shocked at me

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when the Fiji

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whale, whale alone is a valley inside Johanna which would never have made use of collage meant it was severely for punishment for torture, for wiki for evil people. For every person who carries up and hums lungs, which are limited, I'm shocked only once again begin to explain this I have seen the short sort of what does it mean?

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And I'm suffering authority mentioned is to carry out a Reba beanie sonika

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enhance is to carry a Reba by your tongue.

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To speak about the individual well

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is to speak about the individual. The burden can

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be it can be it can be

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learned to speak about the person via making visual signs

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and hand gestures,

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moving the eyes that look at an individual

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point to denote individual. All of this is a lever.

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All of it is a lever. That's a series of Doom was at Illumina. He is to either speak about individually they're present not present all the various depictions are given

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by being included disability

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The thing is nature speaking about another individual, just that we find the modern world, leave your comment.

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Somebody I don't know, I don't understand how we have so much time on our hands

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that people could spread a spread out and spend hours, browsing hours and making comments out of any undesired point that we find in this modern world or even social world that we find at the moment is becoming quite sickening.

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That life just becomes about likes and dislikes about Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, pictures, this, that and the other. That's that's all even amongst practicing Muslims.

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This whole life has become what does it lead to? Yes, there is a good usage to media. But a lot of the usage is going to one. If you study in great detail, read the comments. What are they

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trash, rubbish, even speech bad words, unnecessary comments that we find that exist inside a society. And even some people tried to disguise it as

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reputation people. You know, reputation is a science.

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to refute people is a science has an art. It has etiquettes and parameters. It's not open to any individual to pick up anything and just say this person like this person is like that. And you need a read read route to the programmer we work for them or how they refute another individual.

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Have you seen a pastor a scholar refuting another scholar and begins to speak about the individual's personality? Or they refute the concepts

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that anybody can refute anyone's belief

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is about us spilling over

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it making our own rudimentary remarks.

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You don't agree with another individual for word

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for word Barlow. He's ignorant. He's astray for Wahhabi Sufi, foolish ignorant. He

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what words are these? Stick to the point, stick to the topic, address the issue. And it shows that we find that Oh, you bury your tongues, but fibers are entered your hearts. They don't slander Muslims or seek their faults. Whoever seeks the false alarm Kiki's false. And if a person's fault, he will expose him, if the individual happens to be inside his own house, have eaten sort of a VW.

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Don't go out of your way way to seek false because Allah will begin to seek your funds.

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Seek my false so even a person could be in a state of

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seclusion. Allah will bring it out will expose it somehow. That is what this person does. Like, do not be deceived by man's eloquence. But rather whoever fulfills trust and refrain from insulting disputing people's honor is, quote, a real man unquote.

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omen.

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Don't judge a person by eloquence and speech at the start and the other.

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Who knows how to how to speak.

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You find it manakin

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that the the reward or the virtues that we find in such a Muslim,

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his own son, I'm delighted he narrates

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that many times my father had a view

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and people had a view and revelation would come down on the view of what my father would say.

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Three different occasions had he such a Muslim

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amongst your comes to mind briefly, he said that why should everybody look at the wife of the Prophet?

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why should anybody seen see the hypocrite everybody? So he just came down to cover themselves to shroud themselves. He said, Abraham Why don't we take that as a unit of prayer? Allah second Iota macabre Eva masala. Take the stage of inquiry, as a station of of prayer. some preliminary luperon have deduce how early come see more difficult on some 5050 places inside the Koran that revelation came down according to view

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or the law that

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no candidate B Abadi left hand

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or said he had he was to if there was to be a prophet after me. It would it be copper or the

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light body find many the silica mentioned a person who speaks a lot about others to you will one day

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Speak

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English above the line that I like to come in and direct this person.

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This person that is faster than that, don't be surprised.

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Don't be surprised that the more they learn about you, they speak about you.

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Because this is what unfortunately find that despair time. That sound gotcha. That's all that they have. That's all their life thrives upon, therefore, that they live for it because of the underlining and seeking something about another individual exploiting it. As you began with this is not traits of a person who believes in a lot some handle that Adam, the believer does not in Sun, the honor of others, no curse, no commit grave sin, nor the founding speak howdy can see Muslim

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doesn't make finger what is the relationship about all these aspects inside is heavy the relationship is is

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when it becomes common practice.

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For a person who begins to insult the other individuals, you find that this person then begins to insult

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you use foul language.

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So you know, it's very strange from Romania that when you speak, be even careful what words you use, even to non Muslims.

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Because if you become frequent inside your speech, inside your home and people around you, that you're always full of shamala and cursing and reviling and vulgar words and bad speech. It just becomes normal habitual speech spills over in your in your daily life. That whenever you speak, or whenever something may be presented your tongue Ivanka

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as somebody mentioned, a person's tongue isn't is more vicious

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than a venom of a snake.

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colon, the person has entered a speech any word that is active on their mouth.

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Except when you find the author or even article.

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It doesn't name the two ages of the right and the left is a view that exists. I had a pyramid Khatibi two noble scribes who remained in writing down everything that we utter, everything that we present written, will be a virtue for us or against us to complete a heading into the discussion

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about the rights or protecting another person's honor that we find very encouraging, that we find are protecting the honor and dignity of other individuals.

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Now Muslim forsakes and Muslim women's rights are being violated or Your Honor, is being tampered with or violated except the last panel forsaken metaplasia in which he would love to have his help. I know Muslim helps a Muslim at a time when his honor is being violated his rights are being violated except Allah will help him at a place in which he loves to have his help. How did you sort of

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in the middle of having to testify this had to be we, but I mentioned his various other hobbies, which are similar wordings

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that strengthen this meaning or strengthen this concept. Among so we find out which is authentic whoever protects his brothers on our love and protect his face from the fire. On the day of the resurrection in Mattila de, who protects the brothers honor and dignity, Allah will protect the individuals face from the other day of resurrection. The believer is the mirror of his fellow believer, and I believe is a brother of his fellow believer.

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He protects him from brewing and looks after him and protects his honor.

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That's how Muslim tribute was another Muslim. We are a reflection to one another, a mirror to one another. There may be many good things that we claim to be doing or portray that we do externally. But it's so many things that we could be missing inside our life. That I hate to say that some of us taxi most of the older alive fries are just sitting there gossiping, speaking about other individuals This is we began with just that we may see that we find it repulsive our fellow brother big and major sin, we should easily feel this and remind ourselves remind one another a person is to speak about another individual and justification, remind them feel alone. No need to entertain this

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person you just get up and walk away. No sit in such gatherings whereby such words and speech is used. And as we find study heard about the Muslim and the Muslim study about the sanctity,

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the rights of a Muslim the honor the dignity for Muslim would you vote for somebody to become very shallow.

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Why have the move to

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even the difficult moves to look up a sanctified that's why we don't

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allow

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To pick up another Muslims gray, remove the grave, take they open their parts of their body, use the organs except that we finally do whatever you please. And Muslim is sanctified while still leaving a white stay dead.

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And if they die, they will be even more vigilant because we're leaving and every time we back by them, we carry our sins on our own self. And you know what they learn? They learn

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they,

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they

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they may have seen they may have been but Allah is piling up good deeds for them.

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I was giving them goodies out good deed for them because we're giving away these liberties and again the good deeds so we shouldn't become judgmental, judgmental people even we find people may carry out bad actions left is Jr.

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as he tried to speak well, the prefer them there May Allah forgive them pardon them.

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Because maybe May Allah forbid, worry, my ending is soon katima What is my ending is a bad ending, that I'm reclining in, sitting there, speaking about another Muslim, speaking of the dignity, Deaf arrived upon me a dynasty that could equally be an evil ending with a person who dies carrying out the other major sins.

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And we need to understand that inside our mind, and inside our hearts to be weary about I like we're about action, weary about our time, where we've had a short span that we may remain

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vigilant about it.

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And many of the company specific aboubaker say there's any part of my body that deserves to be imprisoned,

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that did you deserve to be placed in captivity? Is this the time there's any part of the body that deserves to be placed to be punished? Is this

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like what the professor and I should have mentioned the morality of each other?

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When he when he when he posed the question

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that will not

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enter into helpfile

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he said what else may your mother perish

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an Arab saying that a mother died he perished. And you don't even understood the majority of people. The fruits of their tongues is what will take them lead them to the Hellfire kousaka

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listing this wishing this and you will get to Jenna

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at an original conclusion that we find money or money my baby

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mama, lady at the middle of agenda

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whoever guarantees for me they will God will exist between the two jaws. This piece of flesh their tongue and God will exist between the two limbs their two legs their private parts

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I guarantee for that person a place in Coloma soul some of the more

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perfected words Look how deep they are. Because if I know that biting then we're involved in such evil behavior common practice amongst mela phobia amongst us Muslims as a sinner that we find common practice by people think nothing of it as you began reading about punishment about torture

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josiane major that this is one sin

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you can destroy the inside is

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the punishment you have to take inside this junior person commit Zina is more than what is finally trivial is Valentine's Day save whatever we find people is all whatever they want to celebrate Muslims as well. When he said before married finding love before marriage, Teddy, both in her arm four h Shin evil

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Lena inorganica

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what a duck Rosina, don't come near dinner. All is that we find that finding the ideal spouse ID person ID individual. The profile is

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just like it with the old mother, the old sister.

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Once again, this repulsive depiction why you've awakened the individual young boy came and said to the population give me permission to come to his dinner.

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Look at appropriate

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autonomy Holla Holla. Tikka.

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tikka, would you like someone to do that with your mother Sheila back to the nurse who you like

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similar

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systems if

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you don't like it with someone to tell you that he will actually with your family members.

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Why do you want to do with somebody else's founding members? Why

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did he placed the president in the chest

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and pray for his individual love godly chastity is on a dignity. And this young boy was never ever seen looking at a strange woman ever again in his life.

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Dr. de la set up to center along

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to

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study the prophetic tradition, supplication.

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Buddha guide is a took on piety when Africa preservation of chastity while the richness of the word linen, richness of the soul definitely has a lot

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to preserve that honor, and dignity and chastity, our our property to preserve

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that we should ask Allah for asking about time and time again. Give us information about a man keep a steadfast keep us away from the surrounding around us.