Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #366

Muhammad Salah
AI: Summary © The host discusses the importance of attending a meeting and sitting in a room with companions, emphasizing the importance of learning the etiquette of the holy month. They also discuss the importance of forgiveness and avoiding touching one's feet during prayer. The conversation ends with a brief advertisement for a new series of questions and comments.
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allah God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He bought me you always to be engaged in religion to allah God is the greatest

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glory to Him.

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It used to be the best and gave his religion to you. A Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa Kibito Lynmouth Dokin wala out when a lot of aalameen was Allah Allahu Allah say they will you know left in Anabaena Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi as you may, my dear viewers welcome to another live edition of our program gardens of the pious and today's episode is number 266. And it will be the second in chapter number 129 the etiquette of attending a meeting and sitting with companions

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today insha Allah begin with a very interesting Hadith Hadith number 826 Hadith number 826 and jabber evanesce Maura Radi Allahu Anhu Marcal couldn't either attain and via sallallahu alayhi wa sallam jealous or Haruna Hye Soo Yenta. He the hadith is collected by a Buddha would attack me the

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generator, job or even some aura may Allah be pleased with him and his father narrated that whenever we came to the gathering of the Prophet, to a sitting to a healthcare to a meeting with the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, we would sit down at the end of the assembly. What does it mean?

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In the previous episode, we spoke about what Allah Almighty address the believers with Yeah, you are Latina man who either Killa calm defesa who filled majority FAFSA who have sat hula hula

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over you will believe if you were told to make room then make room and make ample room Allah will make ample for you.

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If it is the halka, if it is the dose, if it is Taleem, or the Friday sermon, and the masjid is full of people, but there is plenty of gaps. And people who came late or standing by

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the door of the machine or outside the machine while it's kind of hot, there is no shade, there is no air condition, no fans. So the man may say def hustle, make room, create room, narrow the gaps between each other so that that will create room or move forward in order to narrow the gap between the rows. So that will create plenty of room for people who are late comers or those who are still standing by the door of the machine, it happens.

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In this case, this is all permissible. And we are commanded to make room why because sometimes when we come early, so you're sitting in a place that can fit two people, it can accommodate two people, but your setting would come from then the person who came next to you is likewise and and so on. So but now the mesh should is

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it looks like it is full.

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Or the gathering looks like there is no but in fact there is plenty of gaps. If we were to fill in the gaps, we can accommodate another 1/3 of the attendance in the same place. Okay, according to the capacity, the regular capacity of the room, or the masala or the machine.

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This is as far as asking the congregation to make room. But as far as somebody who is trying to play smart, he comes late,

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very late, sometimes even while the Imam is giving the sermon and he decides I want to sit in the first row. Why? Because there is a Hadith that talks about the virtues of attending the prayer in the first row. That doesn't make any sense. So he keeps crossing shoulders.

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Please make room for me make room for me. And he deserves the hotbar and so on.

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And sometimes he stops himself in between where there is no actually enough room for him. He's executed is I want to attend in the first row where if you wanted to attend the first row, you could have come earlier

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what Jeb in the summer is saying that we all thought that whenever we come whoever comes there

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He would sit wherever he will end up Jonnie by the end of the meeting.

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The halka is that big. So he would not ask people to move forward, right or left to stop himself in between two people know, he will sit wherever he ended up, okay.

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I know that many of us assume

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that these etiquette are for granted and everybody should know it. But we see that in the national. Every Muslim who attends the masjid should study the etiquette of attending the masjid, the etiquette of going to the machine, the etiquette of attending the prayer in congregation. There are a lot of etiquette as a matter of fact. And the more we learn, by the end of this marvelous collection of Guardians of the pious or the other Salah hain, you will figure it out on your own. Why did you say to Martin Hatha or to Sandman and Pharisee in a different narration that, that your dean has taught you? Everything has made your dean has made mention of everything? You said? Yes,

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indeed, even to the point that it taught us how to answer the call of nature, how to urinate, how to defecate, it's a very comprehensive way of life. It is not only pertaining to the rituals, or the relationship between the servant and his key it of know it's much broader and much deeper than that.

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Before following hadith is a beautiful Hadith Hadith sound Hadith collected by the Imam Buhari narrated by Sandman on Pharisee. May Allah be pleased with him.

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I happen to name my youngest son, Sandman, after the name of this great companion, San Manuel Pharisee. Somehow it was, you know, my wife and myself will remember in the cycle of Sandman or Pharisee, who is known in this era as Al Bethel and happy. This the seeker of the truth, the one who's searching for the truth, and how he ended up being sold as a slave while he was looking for the truth. So, you know, out of optimism, I hope that my son will be also seeking the truth. So I named him Salman after this great companion, Sandman will Pharisee are the Allahu Allah and why Pharisee because you know that he was actually Persian and he belonged to the Persian Empire. And

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the Abdullah did his his Konya, his nickname Abu Abdullah Sandman and Pharisee or the Allahu Akbar Carla Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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Larry of Tessie Laura Dolan young woman Giamatti where Takaharu Mustapa I'm in Turin, where the human Dewdney lVms Soo Min three Beatty. So, Maya Hooroo Fela you Federico deines name. So my Salima cootie Bella who so my own so to either tackle lemon imamo in woofie of Allah who Medina who were banal drew moi till Ohara beautiful Hadith way glad tiding

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the meaning of the Hadith which is narrated by Salman will Pharisee may the Almighty Allah be pleased with him. He narrated that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said, If a man takes a bath on Friday, purifies himself thoroughly, uses oil and perfume, which is available in the house sets forth. For the mesh, it does not forcibly sit between two persons to separate or path between them, offers the prayer that is prescribed for him and listens to the Imam silently. His sins between this Friday and the previous Friday will be forgiven. Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful.

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Friday prayer

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is one of the most important prayers and it is compulsory upon every main Muslim to attend the Friday prayer and to attend it before the Imam

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sits on the pulpit before he claims the member

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Allah Almighty said in a whole chapter which is named after the Friday prayer Schelotto Zuma said Yeah, are you *, Edina mn II then all the other solidarity me young woman Giamatti, FAFSA Illa de que la he was all by then you can highroller come in quantum Talman or who you will believe. Once the call to the Friday prayer has been announced for

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so inadequate Allah, then set out, move forward set forth for the message to attend the remembrance of Allah. Here the remembrance of Allah refers to the Friday Sermon where there would be and drop any contract, any business, any trade. Close your shops, close your banks, close your clinics, close anything and attend the prayer that is better for you if your eternal, okay.

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There are many versions for those who would go earlier to attend the Friday prayer.

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And there are great virtues and words for those who would perform the worst performing last on Friday. Even if the person is not required to he doesn't have any agenda. But it is sunnah to perform almost before going to solid Aluma wearing perfume only for men obviously. Okay, and leaving or sitting forced to the masjid as early as possible. Why? Because in the Hadith Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam, he says that the angels who are in charge of recording the names of the attendees, the Muslims who come to attend the Friday prayer, they stand by the entrance of the machine, they write those who come earlier than later the naira until the Imam sits on the member

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and he says As Salam Alikum. So those angels for the records, they fold the records

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and do what and they enter the machine to attend the Zik fest out with a Karela whether

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that is better for you, if you're gonna

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whenever he entered the machine,

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sit wherever you ended up, wherever you find you. As they say, if there is plenty of room, you can kindly ask people to make room. But not if the Imam is given the hotbar because while the Imam is given the hotbar you do not say a word. You don't talk to people. You do not read the audience. You don't say Salaam Alaikum. And if somebody says that Mr. Lincoln while you're you're attending the hotbar and you listen to the heartbeat, ignore him.

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You don't even make this be or hold it a spear or pray with anything in your hand. Let alone your phone, your smartphone, your watch whatever. You don't play with anything. Because the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said in the Hadith woman must sell husafell God lover

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whoever plays with the People's because in the past, they didn't have rugs they didn't have carpets in the machine. It was furnished with sand, which may contain some people's. So some people may end up playing with the peoples between their fingers or so the prophets Allah Allah Allah Salam said, Whoever plays with the People's, while the Hadith has given the sermon has indeed

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gotten himself involved in vain. And whoever the so fellas Umatilla, then his prayer is void from their word. This is how important it is to attend attentively the Friday sermon. We know of many people who know that the other end is 1145. So they go at 1212 10 1215 Why they say because normally the Imam takes 20 minutes 30 minutes to give the hotbar. So they go sharp to attend the prayer. They have missed a great deal and they have committed a sin.

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It is in valid to do any business transaction while the hotbar is being delivered once you hear the event and that's why I have mine in our fan prescribed another event in the market. Those guys they didn't wear watches, they didn't have any clue to figure out the time besides the shadow of the objects. So sometimes whenever you are in the market and you're busy with the trade and business, you may not hear the other or you may not get to be there in the Juma before the Imam attend the hotbar

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So smile did not fan you know prescribed another event to be a few minutes before the actual event and then look at an alarm it is to announce. So the first edition of man in the market was to alert people that in a few minutes. The Imam is going to clone the member and is going to

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Give the hotbar So, drop all your businesses stop everything and proceed towards the machine. And that teaches us

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that since this Adhan was prescribed by off man as a result of he had to make certain that the people in the market will be alerted, ahead of time to go to the masjid. So that means there is no actual prescribed sunnah before the second event or between the first and the second other because there is actually one event for Joomla which is the A then once the Imam sits on the pulpit and he says As salam o alaikum wa Rahmatullah, then the only item for Juma is pronouns.

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When you enter the machine, and the machine is packed, when it is full, it is not proper, nor is it the fitting, to push people away in order to sit or to push yourself in between people. That is not permitted.

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The most important thing that we and all the believers yearn to earn his forgiveness.

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Because simply,

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if Allah Almighty were to forgive your sins, you will be saved. If you scrutinize the Quran, check out the different ayat.

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You will find that there is a very strong link

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and a powerful bond between intern paradise and forgiveness forgiveness comes first. in Surat Al Imran, for innocence, the asase Allah Almighty says we're sorry. Isla Mo Farah, Tim, become what Janet and Aldo has sent out.

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The word Mark Farah comes before Jana. If you earn this forgiveness, you enter paradise and Allah the Almighty there are many Earth in the Quran. In this order forgiveness then products Hola, Omar Farah Toma, Robbie ImageNet on Tajiri min Tatiana. For them. Their word is forgiveness from the Lord and

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gardens of Paradise beneath which rivers are flowing. Small Farah comes first. Similarly in Surah, Al Hadid and in many other references.

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The Prophet sallallahu wasallam himself when he was asked about intern Paradise because of one ZDC de la and Yatta Ramadan Illa houbara Mati Allah, if Allah covers Moodies mercy, then you're eligible for forgiveness, you're eligible for mercy.

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If this is the case, then you look into another dua, another application in which the prophets Allah, Allah selama says, If you recite this application in the morning,

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then you die during the day you go straight to Paradise because you will be forgiven.

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And if you start this application in the evening, and it will be the last thing you do during that night, and you sought forgiveness, you renewed your covenant with your Creator, then you should enter Paradise because you're eligible for forgiveness. So forgiveness is the ultimate goal of the believers. Because if you're forgiven, you enter paradise May Allah the Almighty forgive us our sins, and admit us to his paradise Alfredo Salalah me wait.

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There, there is a very simple act

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that guaranteed on every week that it forgives you all the sense in between the two Friday prayers, which means if you do that on regular basis, you will be constantly forgiving all your sins on a regular basis every week by the end of the week at the all the time, all your sins will be forgiven beautiful, like what

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I see many questions and insha Allah I will look into your questions in the beginning of the next segment, okay, so keep sending your questions and inquiries and I will be happy inshallah to answer them in the same order they were received.

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Rasulullah sallallahu sallam said whoever will do the following practices his sins will be forgiven between the two Friday prayers. Number one ft Sal performance was we said it's a sunnah to performance on Friday. Number two Yeah, Tata Hallowmas. Tata, I'm into purification. Obviously, purification here refers to the purification of one's clothes, and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to have a beautiful set Whitesell that he used to wear on their Eid days. It will faithfully it will artha and on Friday, it's preferable to be white

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The Purification of one's shoes of one's body, way a day human Dhoni adorn refers to the will of fragrance, the mask, the Ood you know, the perfume, which is in the form of oil or fat.

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We must mentally be beta. If you don't have done anything else which has some fragrance. The purpose is to smell good is to do what is to smell good. I think

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if you do all of that, and on the way to the machine, you start smoking, it defeats the purpose because your thought smells good. And your breath smells awful. You're offending not only the Mussolini next to you are right and to your left, but also the angels. In the Hadith the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said, in an mela kata that as men met as men who then will add beautiful, the angels get offended from whatever offends the human beings.

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Who likes

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the breadth of a person who is a smoker? When he exists? No one does. No one does. And I do know those who smoke how do they kiss their wives? How do they kiss the kids? The smell is very offensive. May Allah guide all of us what is best? May Allah enable all of those who smoke and kill themselves and kill the loved ones through smoking to quit smoking.

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It's of no benefit whatsoever.

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In the prophets, Allah Allah, Allah is lmsc if you happen to eat fresh garlic or onions, please do not come to the machine because it offends the angels, not only the human beings.

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So likewise, somebody would say, well, the sheriff said because you smoke, you're not allowed to come to the machine. Well, the sheriff said what the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said, stop smoking, man. Stop smoking. So this way you enter the machine, the angels would love you people next you would feel good around you and so on.

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Another thing, if you ever sense that your socks or socks, because you've been wearing them for a while you're working in the construction or you were in them for days or decades, and they smell please take them off. Wash your feet. Why? Because when you walk to the machine, you're going to make sujood somewhere somebody else was standing there and it is very offensive

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in order to massage it and clean it up the massage, antigen mural method perfuming the machine keeping good incense, good smell and the machine is a good act of worship.

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In Mar Morrow masajid Allah him and M and A bIllahi min ash.

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The opposite is this like is abroad by Allah and by the people who attend the prayer and obviously by the angels. So beautifying yourself wearing nice clothes, going to a meeting with Allah the Almighty take a shower where your nice cologne or perfume and so macrophylla euphoria. Cobain's name. Yeah. And when it comes to the machine, and he finds two people, maybe two friends or two brothers or two who have no relation to each other, they're sitting by he wants to stuff himself in between forcibly say, Brother please give me a room brother move forward a little bit brother sit aside Why because I want to sit here

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this is lack of a ticket. I could have come earlier well I couldn't make it early then sit wherever you ended up by the last row and do not offend people. So my Salim equity value which means when you enter the masjid, even if it is during the time where the Imam is given the hotbar

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Friday sermon or according to many of the scholars even if it is a time which is known as El cuarto Cara you should not sit down before praying now cootie Bella what Allah has ordained for you sometimes it is a greeting the machine to rockers are sufficient. Or McLaughlin definitely the general voluntary prayers before the Friday prayer 2468 When he as many as you want it's two by two. Okay, until the Imam is ready to serve the hotbar that is permissible, whatever you can afford. So may also then when the man starts the hotbar he's quiet and he's silent. So my also to either tackle lemme email share. I have a few questions with regards to you and matter.

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that should be quite when the Imam is given the hotbar. There is this uncle who comes to the masjid. He comes late. Every Friday he comes late. And he walks in says Salam Alikum better Salam, o alaikum Salam Alikum. All of you. What shall we do? Ignore him?

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Don't reply back to his Salam, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam the one who ordered us to respect the elders, and to get up in order to see them said whenever it is the Friday prayer and the Imam is given the hotbar zip of your mouth, be completely silent on the silent move.

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And listen to him Imam is asking you to answer a question or seeking your help or correcting an ayah. In this case, it is permissible.

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Whenever the Imam says Karla Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him say, oh, there's a hadith that it teaches us every time we hear the name of Prophet Muhammad who must say sallallahu alayhi Salaam ipsf blessings be upon him correct. But you just say they gotta be quite usable for your mouth. Not in this one. You say Allahumma Salli ala Muhammad, but within yourself quietly. You don't make a scene. It is Allahumma Salli, ala Muhammad, Allah and Muhammad Sallallahu. Alison, you say that quietly.

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Whenever you fulfill the previous requirements, all the sins between this Friday and the previous Friday will be forgiven. All I mean, the minor sins because the major sense in order to be forgiven. You need to quit them. And you need to make an independent album. Yeah. And somebody might be listening to me right now. And he thinks himself very smart. And he says, Look,

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all I'm going to do is go to every Friday Prayer an hour earlier. May was poor nice clothes, worthy perfume. I will go and sit down and I will not talk.

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So I will do that on every Friday the Prophet SAW said and said all the sins in between will be forgiven. So he drinks.

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He smokes. He Gamble's he earns Zeba he doesn't even pray the five daily prayers or for whatever reason, he is involved in in one of the major sins and He assumes he assumes that this hadith is sufficient that all these sins will be forgiven. Now you're gravely mistaken. What does isa the eye of Surah Nisa Allah Almighty says in the Gita enable gather your math on how NanHu no caffeine rank comes article one with a Phil come with Harlan Karima

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beautiful idea.

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If you guys avoid the major sins, adultery, bribery, usually drinking, falsely accusing people,

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insulting people, abusing people stealing all of that, not praying, not fasting. If you avoid all the major sins, Allah the Almighty will remit from you your minor sins, and we'll admit you into a noble entry. Okay, well, I know that I was involved with some other sins, what am I supposed to do? Who are those sins? Repent, so that every Friday in sha Allah will forgive all the sins which were committed in between beautiful Hadith Hadith was collected by Imam Bukhari and hope insha Allah every Friday the brothers you should not miss this opportunity. We are in dire need for this forgiveness. We'll take a short break and we'll be back in sha Allah in a few minutes please stay

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assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. Our phone numbers should appear on the bottom of the screen area code 002 Then 023 treble 5132. Alternatively, a equals 002 Then 01 double 05469323 and also mashallah, and taking new questions and comments on my page. The first question is

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Brother use of say that he wants who's praying

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and somebody who was listening to the hotbar and suddenly a brother, who is a friend of mine took my right hand and shook my hand. Well, my

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A Friday lecture or sermon be invalid No, he didn't do it he didn't intended he will cut by surprise. Okay? But do not miss this opportunity after the Juma is concluded to teach this person that you're not allowed even to give salam whenever the hotbar is given because it is similar to the prior, okay. And if somebody is talking you don't answer them, it will be enough to motion for them sit down or not to talk during the hotbar.

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Shaheen Ibrahim is asking what is the maximum time for Asia You mean the latest time for Asia according to the more right view it is mid night. So it is not extended until federal time according to some No. The more right view its latest time is midnight and after midnight it will be considered Cava

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Shaheen is asking Will women who do their prayer at home on Friday get the same reward and you will be forgiven. That's a very interesting question.

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And very important to understand that the I had in the Quran make no distinction between men and women when it comes to word

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is very clear in Surah Nachman I'm Allah Saleh Amin Zachary now owns our hormone Meenan fella no here no higher tonfa wala energy unknown at our home via CinemaCon Allah. So Allah the Almighty has promised that word for both men and women, males or females, as long as our believers, they shall get an equal word, a godly life in this life and the greatest reward in the hereafter as a result of what they used to do no distinction

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between males and females in this regard, but women have some areas where men do not have and men have some areas where women do not have the very famous hadith of if you pray for you, and you sit down and you make your of course if women at home, prayed in German they sat in in their house until the morning they get the same reward like men. Exactly. Okay, because it says one Salah salata, Allah Dottie fee, Gemma,

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this lady companion, came to the Prophet sallahu wa salam, and she was very eager to attend not just the Friday prayer with him, but also the five daily prayers and Phaedra and Aisha, she's in a love to pray behind you. And listen to your citation. He said I knew that Omaha maiden as their ad, but in brief, he said that guess what your prayer at home is superior or word to pray in behind me in my message. This is what the Prophet sallallahu sallam said women will give in the following version either solid Mulatu Hamza one so I'm not sure Haha, I have a lot for Jaha well thought or a bad water at Zelda.

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Kill Allah had holy alginate I mean, Abu Dhabi has sheet Okay, so if a woman offers the five daily prayers, or a fast during the month of Ramadan and guards her chastity and keeps on modesty obeys her husband, not the absolute obedience obedience within the scope of number one permissibility number two capacity she's something she can afford. Then on the Day of Judgment she will be called upon and she will be offered to enter agenda from whichever gate she chooses or desires and agenda has eight gates, okay. So we do not always compare what about women? What about men? What about this we know that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said as far as the word the prayer for men at home is

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better than praying in the masjid.

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Salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah America.

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Mohammed from Copenhagen.

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Mohamed Salah Monaco

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why they can watch Hello. How are you doing? Doing wonderful hamdulillah thank you for asking.

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I'm doing well. Thank you. I have two questions shake. The one is regarding

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their females who work in places and service places for the is that they are are like mixed up. Males and females. They're at your old age. If a female Muslim wants to work there, is that allowed. There could be like

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any kind of

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Food haram in halaal, to serve them, and also the want, they have to go to the toilets and change the wipers or diapers. So if that allowed, what is the ruling on this? It's only women for women. How is in that case? In the second question is about Hadith of the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that was regarding when someone comes and we stand for them. If he is eldership. Elder, she doesn't expect that out of respect we stand for.

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Is this okay? Is this allowed?

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clarification on this? Okay. Sure. Got your questions, rather Mohammed from Copenhagen. Thank you so much. Let me begin with the easy question. The second one, which is the elders out of respect, standing up for them, is it permissible? Yes, it is permissible. what is forbidden is the person likes people to stand up for him. What is not permissible is out of ego, our pride and vanity, the person loves to see people stand up. When he shows up. This is not permissible for him. But seeing elders standing up for them kissing their hands or the head or asking them to sit in your place. Firstly, man, the daughter of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to do that. And this is etiquette.

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And the opposite will be lack of etiquette. Okay? When the students stand up in greeting to the teacher, when he walks in the classroom, it is okay. But when the teacher feels that it is compulsory, it's a must because he loves people to stand up for him. Then he's blameworthy. Okay. Now with the other question.

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Women working for nursing homes, helping elders, if it is, women serving women, no problem. And I hope you're not only working for the payment or for the paycheck, anticipate or word by making a good intention that you are helping those people. Because the nursing homes in many countries, even in some of the Western countries, or places of torture,

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you know, despite there are surveillance cameras and so on. Because people are helpless. They're all maybe with Alzheimer's, they forgot they're lost their memory forgot their names, or they're helpless. They don't have anyone to walk them through to take to take them to the bathroom. So they need sympathy. They need kind and gentle treatment, not just doing your job. So if this is the case, Women Helping Women permissible, taking them to the bathroom, washing them showering them you lower your gaze, but they're all you do. You do your part for Takala Hana Stata, key beauty duty to Allah fulfill your duty before Allah to the best of your ability, wear the gloves, while assisting them

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showering them and taking them to the bathroom.

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Men helping men likewise. Okay, as far as offering food, which is haram, I can't say it is halal because we're not allowed to serve anything which is forbidden. That is a part which I have some reservation against. And

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women shouldn't be serving men, women should be should shouldn't be serving

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women, unless if this is the only opening that you have.

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Likewise, for the elders, I remember that my wife and myself looking for a gynecologist, a female gynecologist or a female obstetrician. So, we had to travel for several hours because there is a female

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doctor here or there, if it is accessible, fine, but what if there is not and it is urgent and it is needed, then that's called necessity. And in the principles of jurisprudence, there is a beautiful rule which says that necessities make what is a lawful, permissible, obviously with limits, not all the time and openly. Thank you Brother Mohammed from Copenhagen. May Allah bless you and your family.

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We had another interesting question, but limiting this question Semilla Kumar says we should explain about Yeah. II Karima and as many people recite this idea 125,000 times by the gathering people at

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Home for, from where the goddess while you gotta ask them

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because I don't know where they got it from.

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If each and every one of us were to invent something, we would have millions and millions of practices, like in Christianity, like in other religions, millions and millions of practices which have no essence in the deen or the arcade. That's why Allah preserved this Deen by preserving the Quran and preserving the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu sallam. And by making it very clear, if you do anything as an act of worship, which doesn't have reference, which doesn't have essence, the Prophet SAW Selim, they didn't do it. Not only that, it will be rejected, and it will not be accepted. But furthermore, you'll be blameworthy. You'll be blameworthy, be careful. Be careful. I'm

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not going to attend any gathering where somebody says, Okay, we're going to insert this is 1000 time today in order for the blessing to the sin or for the forgiveness or to settle the debt of any person. I'm not in need for your advice, trust me. Because I have what the prophets Allah Allah Salam has said in disregard watch dua to be supplicated in case that I need this or I need that and how many times if there is a manner or a certain number of times, if you fail to show a proof or a hadith, then shut up. It's like that.

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It's like that. And I hope inshallah next episode I'm going to share you and share with you an experience in this regard about the last Friday sermon in sha Allah, I hope I will remember that we actually run out of time we've come to the end of today's edition few program, Guardians of the pious until next episode, I leave you all in the care of Allah afford only had our stuff for Allah salam ala kumara mattala.

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love our God is the greatest

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glory be against his best religion to Allah Our God is the greatest, to open on any illness to be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgetting all about and in paradise, we're shipping cows fire and stones, sending the rescue the cheapest

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