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Will you honor the Month of Rajab or Valentine’s Day?

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Abu Bakr Zoud

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smilla rahmanir rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa salatu salam ala rasulillah while leaving your Sufi mind, all praise and thanks belongs to Allah subhanho wa Taala and may the peace and blessing of Allah be upon his servant and final messenger Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam as to what follows my dear respected brothers and sisters in Islam, salaam Alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.

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My brothers and sisters in Islam, today is Sunday.

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And it is the second day of the sacred month of Raja.

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And pleasure. This month is one of the four months that Allah subhanho wa Taala honor and he made sacred and these four months, they are not like any other month of the year. They are special and they are honored. Why do we say so? Because Allah subhanho wa Taala said in the

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soul of the Toba, he said in night that issue there in the law his nashoba one fee kita villa. Yo mahalo aka somehow it will mean her or baton home velika Dino pay him. Allah subhanho wa Taala. He said that the total number of months with the loss of Hannah Hua dialer are 12 months.

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And Allah azzawajal said, fi kita belaire it has been decreed and ordained in the book of Allah has origin, which here It refers to a lotion, my form the preserve tablets, that the months with a large origin are 12 months.

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And allows origin. He says

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mean hair, he says I and yo mahalo personnel, it will mean hair arbeiten home, and they have been 12 months ever since Allah subhanho wa Taala created the heavens in the earth. So Allah azzawajal created the heavens in the earth. And then he made 12 months of the and he said to us in the A a mean hell of a bargain home. There are four months that are honored by Allah social, that are secret, and they are holy, they are unlike any of the other months. And these are worship which is the month we're in now. And then we'll get into Malaysia and Shambala Hill album.

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And it was made secret from the day a Lord created the heavens and the earth. It wasn't made secret today in 2020. Nor was it made secret in the life of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. These were sacred from day one from when a large Zoysia created the heavens and the earth.

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And you know, when something is so ancient, it needs to be respected with great care, and it must be honored for these four months and the month we're living in now, which is Russia must be honored by a true believing Muslim. They are secret and you need to respect these months I will tell you how a believer is supposed to respect these months. And you know so Pamela, if you observed the world today, anything that is ancient, that is found in the world today, like something in Egypt, something ancient, some ruins that are ancient ajar, that is ancient, whatever it is, what do people do with it? How much care do they give it? They treat it with great care. And if they need to fly it

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from one country to another, they carry it with with care with gentleness, perhaps with a private plane until they take it from one country to another and so on. And then they seal it from the people's hands and so on. This is how things are treated when they're ancient. Now imagine we speaking about months that Allah himself so panna cotta, Allah made them sacred and he declared them secret from the day he created the heavens in the earth. This is an ancient law long time ago a lot of social media this month we're living in now the month of Raja, a secret holy noble month. Like about So, yani the ID is

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Alonso sosial honor this month we're living in now Russia, and whatever a lot of social honors, we must honor as well. And if you do so then that is a sign of a man and taqwa that is alive in the heart. Allah subhanho wa Taala he says in salted hash Delica woman you have them shy, it'll last for enamel duck will pollute whoever honors the symbols and the signs of Allah subhanho wa Taala then indeed, this is a sign that a man and duck wa exists in his heart. And pleasure is one of the symbols minchah at lab it's one of the signs of a law surgeon he chose this month, and he made it secret and he made it holy and he made it Noble. So whoever

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Respect this month and honors this month, and acknowledges its sacredness than such a person. It says about him that there is taqwa in his heart, there is genuine fear of Allah Zoysia in his heart and there is genuine love for a lot of social in his heart. And you know, my brothers and sisters in Islam, a lot of social on prophets. And so we must honor them because a lot of them a lot of Zoysia on a certain houses which are the masjid. So as a result, we as believers must honor that which Allah azza wa jal on it allows origin on certain deeds, certain worships, like the prayer and fasting and how So as a result, we must honor these worships. This is why when we make salad, we

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need to make water before that we shouldn't move in the prayer. We shouldn't eat. We shouldn't drink in the prayer we shouldn't fidget and play around. Why Why is all this so that we can honor a solid because Allah Zoysia honored and Allah subhanahu wa taala also honored certain months, and as a result, we must honor these months as well. And once again, this month we're living in now it's the second day of Rajab, and today, Roger is a secret month, it's a holy month. Allah subhanho wa Taala he says they're like a woman you have them automatically learn for who or how you live more in Don't be that anyone who ever honors the matters that are loss of Hannah who what the island made secret.

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So if your honor a prophet because Allah honored him, if your honor a Masjid because Allah honored it. If you honor this month of Raja because a lot of social honor the law says higher level in the lobby. It is much better for you with Allah subhanho wa Taala. In other words, you'll be in a better state, if you honor them in this life, and in the hereafter when you meet Allah subhanho wa Taala as opposed to someone who does not honor this month, and he fills it with sins and evil deeds and how long such a person is in a very terrifying state when he meets Allah subhanho wa Taala alarm Zoysia Lee says Valley Kadena AM. This is the true upright religion.

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What does this mean in context of the air? It means that a law social made these four months secret on the tongue of every single prophet as the Mufasa room the scholars of the sea had mentioned. She can imagine pleasure this month wearing and will carry the village to Chateau la Hill Maha bomb were made secret on the tongue of every prophet. No Holly Salim said these people. These are secret. Ibrahim Ali, he said he said these people these are secret where he sat he said, so all of them. And Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam broke this as well. And it is mentioned in the ad that these four months are sacred. So if they're sacred, what happens? And what do we do? And how do we

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honor these months in the way a lot of social constructs? Firstly, let's understand that allows origin he says to us after he says that there are four months that are sacred, he said fehler, top level fee hinda and full circle a lot, a lot of storage and he says Don't you dare wrong yourselves.

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These times during the secret months, don't wrong yourselves. And what this means is, don't commit sin. Don't commit any form of evil, that Now this means do not commit sins during all of the months. But more specifically, during these four sacred months, you must abstain from evil and everything that is harmed. You must find yourself and put that effort to keep away from every form of sin and how long Allahu Akbar

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Why? Because if you run yourself in these months, by committing sin after sin after sin, then you have not honored the month.

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And so in addition to the sim you've committed, you have also disrespected this month a lot. So falletto limoux fee him the enforcer calm Allah azza wa jal, he says

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And today, it also happens to be the 14th of February, which is Valentine's Day, which is a date of ship. It's a pagan holiday. It is a day in which major sins are committed. Zina with alcohol. And this has come in to the Muslim society in whenever we have Muslim boyfriends and girlfriends that meet up on this day a lot like what is this how you're going to stop the blessing and secret month of Rajab

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by celebrating one of the major sins that we know about Japan alone, if you're lost or hidden my brothers and sisters in Islam, Allah azza wa jal emphasized on these four months, that you should not run yourself and a limo fee hidden enforcer comb. And also, what this includes is that if you're not supposed to wronged yourself by committing sins that evil, then it also means that you should not run others and oppress others. Don't you dare do that as well. If you're forbidden from running your own self, then that includes running others, it must be avoided at all costs. This is how you're going to respect and honor this month by keeping away from sins. And what's incredible in

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this area is that allows Zoysia Lee said, fell out of the movie hidden, unforced comb, do not wrong yourself. Now, what do you understand from this, do not run yourself? Well, let me ask a question. Does anyone ever think about running himself? Does anyone want to harm himself? We're not speaking about people that are only mentally ill and they think about suicide and so on Bill Maher social cue, whoever's on he got in with that illness, but I'm speaking about a normal person, a sane person, does he think about running himself? So what does love mean by seeing a lot of the movie nanosecond do not roam yourself? You know what this means? This means a lot is teaching us that when

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you do something harm. When you do an evil, when you do a sin, you have actually harmed yourself. You didn't harm Allah.

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He did not harm Allah subhanho wa Taala. Allah is not affected by your sin. Allah is not harmed by your sin. The real person that is going to taste the bitterness, and the punishment of the sin is going to be you only. And this is how you've wronged yourself. And little Do you know, when a person commits a sin or an evil deed, he thinks he's enjoying it. His body is enjoying, he thinks he's enjoying the moment. Little does he know that he has actually wronged and harmed himself and the effect of that harm will come soon to him if he does not repent from this sin. Whenever you salam wa alayhi wa sallam he said in the Hadith, and this is how you could see a large social citizen

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paraphrase Bible sola Muslim Allahu alayhi wa sallam Allah said the a bear the Enigma, here are men who come

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from fear.

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What What about law social, he said, My servants, buy slaves.

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The deeds that you do here are Maluku, they are your deeds, all all a lot of soil does is rc helicon. I only collected and gathered, I only recorded from FICO media, and then on the on the Day of Judgment, I will give you your deeds. If you've done good, you're rewarded for it. If you've done bad, it'll be in your face, you will see it. And when they have to be learned it might end up in Jana Malala. These are all matters in the hands of long surgeon. But why would you expose yourself to such a punishment by committing these continuous sins, especially during the sacred months? So my brothers and sisters in Islam, we are now in worship. And we must honor the sacred month because a

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lot of social audit and it's honor was mentioned in the poll and it's sacred as was mentioned in the plan. How do we honor this month? Listen three ways. Listen. Number one, we must believe and acknowledge that this month we are in now the month of Raja is a secret month. It's a noble month. That's the first way of honoring it. You must acknowledge this in your heart, in your soul in your mind. Don't be heedless of this fact, and don't have this fact, only for today after this lesson and then tomorrow is a different story. Elijah is with us he for another 30 days a month. Keep this fact in your mind alive. You must acknowledge its sacredness and you must honor it. That's the first way

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in honoring this month. Number two, the way your honor this month that we're in pleasure the secret month is by not running yourself which means keep away from sin, delay your sins keep away from them. Do not do them now, stay away from sins if you plan to do a sin delay delay it till after Ramadan, not now. It will trust me if you do that. By the time Ramadan comes you would have have developed enough Eman and strength that you will leave

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The sin altogether and never returned to it. So right now, it's a psychological game in your mind and play this game well win over your desire, be victorious over a ship on be victorious over your desire. Say to yourself, if you have a desire to sin, say to yourself, I'm going to delay this sin until after Ramadan. I will delete it after I'm done. Let me delete it. And that's only when we learn about Sabah. One of the categories of sub is to a Sabra Anil maaseiah is to be patient from sins. You know, that's a form of solid. When you keep away from sin, and you're being patient. You're being patient. As you keep away from the scene, your desire is burning inside. You want to

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watch that how long clip you want to chat to a woman in how long you want to do something that's how long but you'd be patient and you see, Oh Allah, I'm going to remain patient for your sake, I'm going to delay the sin. I'm going to do that patience is rewarded, that patience is rewarded the law sobre la la Sierra is a is a great form of patience. So this is what you need to do to honor this month delay the sin by all law he by the time Ramadan comes during Raja and Chabad and Ramadan, you will have vanilla enough Eman. enough power enough strength that is given to you by Allah. That evening, let your cup this sim in your life completely. You will not feel any desire for it. No any

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attachment for it. Trust me, my brothers and sisters in Islam, you need to be patient, be patient and be if Neela you will see the benefit of your patience span a lot.

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And you must also keep away from running others do not oppress anyone in this month. Keep away from that you shouldn't do that at all, but especially in this month. And the third way in how we honor this month is that you should know there is no special good deed that will solve the loss of the law while he was taught us that should be done in pleasure. There is no specific select. There is no specific fasting. There's nothing specific that was all the laws of the law. While he has told us that if Raja enters then do 123 there's nothing like this namek continue normally do whatever good deeds you do increase in your good deeds increase in your fasting pray the night without believing

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that there's a specific Hadith that told us to do so in new during this month.

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And the one thing that you should focus on and this is the third point I'm sharing with you and how to honor this month. But one thing that should be your focus is to keep your heart clean from all sins,

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and from all evil. And from all fields and lewdness and shamelessness and vulgarity. Keep away from all this garbage, all this rubbish. Keep away from the power of a shear bond. Stay away from it all together. Make sure your heart is cleansed in this month. Focus on that clean your heart in this month, the month of Rajab command my brothers and sisters in Islam, there's only Roger and then there is Chabad and the Ramadan and Ramadan and one law he will law he will law he my brothers and sisters in Islam, the one who refrains from sin and fights himself. This requires effort and Mujahideen from your side it requires a struggle. The one who struggles against himself to keep away

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from sin on law he he is going to see the effect of it in Ramadan. When Ramadan comes. You're going to feel a huge a huge spike in your Eman. A huge elevation in your Eman in your relationship with a law Sergeant because you've been preparing from it from now.

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It is well my brothers and sisters in Islam that we honor this month that we're in Punjab. Keep away from sins by brothers and sisters in Islam and know know that the good deeds that are done during this month are knowable, and they are multiplied in reward. Yes they are multiplied in reward as

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I mentioned the good deeds. Tomorrow is Monday. If you fast tomorrow. It is not like fasting last Monday. If you fast tomorrow, Monday among the employees you're fasting It is not like fasting a Monday that was last week. The Monday that you fast tomorrow. The day you fast in pleasure. The good deeds you do your pleasure are multiplied. This is from Barkat. This is from Bama Tila. So here from the mercy, the compassion the kindness of a law surgeon and this is supposed to prepare us for a mobile wake up. We have a beautiful

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A month ahead of us, this is not many come You know, these coming days are going months are coming months are going. This is a special mouth, wake up and realize what we're in. This is the month of Rajab. Allah not giving you anything new. This is something that is established in Napoleon who in the sooner, perhaps you're unaware. So I'm reminding you, this is a message not only to you, this is a message, we need to spread to the entire world. People need to know what logic is. People need to know the sacredness and the honor that allows or shall give this month.

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So the good deeds are multiplied in the reward. And they are huge noble metal, they're a big deal when you do that in this month. And the bad deeds, the sins during the sacred months, the sin during the month, wherein they are a serious, huge matter and a crime. They're huge. In their crime, it's a big deal. It's a huge violation against a law solution. However, they are not multiplied. Likewise, this is from the mercy of alliances origin, the sim that's committed in the secret months.

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There are huge

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in terms of the size, it's a huge violation. It's massive disrespect for this month. However, in terms of say yet, they are not multiplied. So if you do a bad deed, embrasure it's recorded as just one say year one bad deed. Because Allah subhanahu wa Tada. He said in the

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messenger, a bill hustler, develop washable unfairly hair. Anyone who comes on the Day of Judgment with a hustler with one good deed, you see the condition, you must come with your husband. We learned from this that you can lose it before the day of judgment, you can lose your house and add the condition is you must preserve the hustler and come with it on the Day of Judgment. If you come with your house or not on the Day of Judgment, then a lost origin will give you its reward 10 times multiplies at 10 times a local woman, Jet a, b c Yeah. And anyone who comes with a bad deed, fellow illa mithila. Her it's not multiplied. And it's given as one bad deed for such a person.

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I get my brothers and sisters in Islam. This is something about the Blissett month and the holy and the secret month of worship. And this is how we're supposed to honor it. But now, as I said to you, and I've, as I've read in there on the screen, the first sin that's facing the people today, the 14th of February, is celebrating Valentine's Day.

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This is a pagan day, it's a day of [???] guess we said it's a pagan holiday. It's about the celebration of the pagans, of the gods. It's a major sin this day,

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for sure. And today, which boyfriends and girlfriends meet,

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and they practice azita an alcohol, how long parties will how long chatting and how long conversations all of this is going to be happening today.

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So power the law and it is on the second day of the holy month of the end of the secret month of the

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so my brothers and sisters in Islam, those that are Muslim, I have a message for you a message to my single brothers and sisters in Islam that are involved in how long relationships I know. Perhaps today when you wake up or as you woke up today.

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Perhaps the first person you want to see on this day is your boyfriend or is your girlfriend but trust me, if this haraam relationship continues going, they will be the last person you want to see on the Day of Judgment law. They probably the first person you want to see today, but they are going to be the last person you want to see on the Day of Judgment due to how much sins they would have brought upon you law.

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And so the brother and the sister the brother would say, but perhaps share and I can't live without her. I love her. My brother, my brother in Islam, I asked you who deserves your complete love Allah or her myself sister in Islam who deserves your complete love him this boyfriend of yours, or Allah subhanahu Medina, who deserves your heart who deserves all your love, love solution or him or her? Most definitely Allah subhanho Medina. And so if Alonzo Hill deserves all of your love, you must prefer that which Allah social loves, over that which you desire. And you love

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Allah subhanho wa Taala he said, when a Corrado Xena in

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Asia was a Sevilla do not approach a zener do not come me Xena, Messiah la social forbid not only the action of Xena itself the illegal sexual intercourse. That's not what only allows or shall meet forbidden in this ayah he said do not approach a Xena Do not come near as Xena. So what that means is anything that leads to a Xena becomes home,

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sharing,

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looking at each other lustfully that becomes harm. This is why in Islam, we are commanded to lower our gaze, so chatting with a non Muslim, with your boyfriend or girlfriend, whatever you've called him and called her chatting, gazing with lost, sending pictures to each other

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uploading pictures on Instagram, or on whatever it is on social media on this day, with all this makeup and whatever it is, all of this is a road that leads to a sinner. If you knew the seriousness of the Zener you will see the seriousness of every matter that leads to it. And if you do not see the seriousness of Xena in your life, then every matter that leads to it, you will not see them as a big deal

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chatting, meeting, texting all of this to a non Muslim in obviously the sexual manner and whatever it is, all of this is impermissible. All of it is haram. Why? Because it leads to Xena. You can merciful Allah subhanho wa Taala is upon us. He wants to divert us away from this path altogether. So he didn't just see a zener is how long? He said to me. He said my sleeves everything that leads to it is how long then he said in the who can affair Asia, Xena is fair Asia. It's a shameless act. It's an immoral act was a sebelah. And what a horrible path it is. You see a lot of social called a zener a path because a person doesn't just meet with a boy or ago and instantly they're committing

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Zina learn, there's a path there's a method there's a route. When you bit by bit you keep reeling yourself into this hole until you finally fall into the major hold on whenever we learn. So my brothers and sisters in Islam, you should prefer a lot of socials love over your desire or love for anyone in a lot of social meet a sinner and made this relationship of both boyfriend and girlfriend how long leave it break, let go of this how long relationship for the sake of Allah subhanahu wa tada in recent Allahu alayhi wa sallam he said Mandara Kashi and Lila awaba would love to hire men. If you leave something for the sake of Allah, Allah would replace it with something better. And this

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hadith also includes if you leave off something harm for the sake of Allah, Allah would replace it and give you something way better and much better for you and for your email and for your faith and for your relationship with a law. Law. What do you believe? Do you believe the promise of law sort of muscle alarm I'll even send them or not a law or law when you leave something for the sake of Allah. It is only then that you will taste the sweetness of a man.

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So Panama, my brother in Islam, listen, listen to me carefully. Allah He if you really loved her, this girlfriend of yours if you really loved her, Leave her.

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Leave her. Because through your actions, through your chatting and messaging and meeting up with her and your fake promises to her, you are exposing her to the anger and the punishment of a law. How do you claim that you really love her? It's fake love. It is fake love. The reality is, you don't love her. You actually love yourself. You want to fulfill a desire that's within you. So you do anything to get to this girlfriend of yours. And you turn my de Muslim system. If you really love him, is so called boyfriend of yours. If you really love him, then leave him leave him break it off. Because your actions when you chat to him and message him and meet up with him and give him your fake

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promises or whatever it is and dress up in front of him and make up in front of him in front of a number that you call your boyfriend. Then you have exposed him at the same time also expose yourself to a loss

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And his punishment, how can you claim that you love him? If you've exposed him to laws punishment, because you've read him to you,

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you really don't love him. You actually love yourself. There's a desire that's inside you, and you want to fulfill this desire. So you happen to find this boyfriend that will fulfill it for you. So in essence, you don't love him, you actually loved yourself, you're using him for a desire that's inside you. And all this I'm speaking about when it's a long relationship, this is the actual story of what's happening.

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If you truly loved him, you will stop talking to him, you will stop meeting up with him. Because each time you meet up with him, you are exposing him to the anger and the punishment of Allah subhanho wa Taala.

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If he's if he dies tomorrow, and he's punished in his grave, you're the cause. Now, would you be happy if you come on the Day of Judgment, and the so called boyfriend of yours began begins to point the finger at you, and say, Allah, she was the cause of it. She called me she would chat with me, she would beg me to meet with her. And obviously, it's not acceptable for him to give such an excuse, because everyone is responsible for his own actions. But why my sister? Why would you put yourself in a position that people would blame you and point fingers at you? And same to you, my brother in Islam? If she dies tomorrow, and she's punished in her grave? You are the cause of this?

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Would you be happy? Would you be happy with that? And would you be happy? If she comes on the day of judgment and begins to point her fingers at you? Yeah, Allah, it was him. He is the one who continuously would chat with me and call me and message me non stop, he wouldn't stop. He came over and he picked me up and he got me this and he got me that.

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Hello, obviously, at the same time, it's an unacceptable excuse from her because everyone is responsible for his sin. But why? Why would you put yourself in a position that people will point fingers at you on the day of judgment? Is this something you really want to see on the day of judgment? My brothers and sisters in Islam, those that are in haraam relationships, if you love each other, and you claim that it's genuine, then be afraid of the punishment of a loss origin for each other, be afraid for each other's email, and your relationship with Allah is not balika in her own relationship, there's no satisfaction in a long relationship. And the man gets damaged, your

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relationship with a man gets ruined, your solar becomes ruined, your bond becomes ruined. This sacred month of Russia becomes ruined, and every day of your life is ruined. And in the back of your head, you're seeing and you're convincing yourself Sharla one day the opportunity is going to come I'm going to change. But little Do people know that your time is way shorter than what you think in your mind. This opportunity you think that's going to come in the day you're going to repent and the day you're going to wear the job and the day you're going to become upright. And the day you're going to break off these relationships. One law he most of these dreams never come and they're never

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fulfilled and a person dies way before them. Don't allow the shape pawn to trick you into full you make your move now. Now make your move with an intention. It starts with the heart. I will break these long relationships and I will focus on loving the last origin and loving the command of a law and fulfilling the command of a law and respecting and honoring that which Allah made secret and honored which is the month of Raja begin now a beautiful start. Lock about Be careful my brothers and sisters in Islam. My brothers and sisters in Islam Be careful. Each and every single one of us has two angels one on the left and one on the right.

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Be careful when you stand with her when you stand with your girlfriend. Or you my sister when you stand with your boyfriend. Which Angel do you think is recording this moment? The one on the left or the one on the right Which one is recording this moment? Be careful my brothers and sisters, the earth that you're standing on the earth that you're standing on, as you meet up with your boyfriend girlfriend? Is it going to witness for you on the day of judgment? Or is it going to witness against you on the day of judgment? Be careful. What do you do with your hands to your boyfriend or girlfriend? What do you do with your mouth to this boyfriend or girlfriend? Be careful? Allah

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subhanahu wa Dionysus and the old man to Allah for him what to eliminate ad motorshow Shalom Bhima Kenya mano

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a mano, social he says on that day, we will seal the amounts and their hands and their feet will begin to talk

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concerning that which you used to do before

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A person on the Day of Judgment becomes in denial of his sins. He won't accept what Allah is telling him of what he did of sins. So he wants a witness for his sins. He says, No, I want a witness or law Bring me a witness that can witness to what I did of sins. At that moment, Allah would seal his mouth, and his own hand will begin to witness against him, and his own feet will begin to witness against him and his tongue, the shadow, Shadow alzira, to whom the tongue you will witness against you what you used to speak to this boyfriend and girlfriend of yours, the limbs will begin to talk. And it is at that moment, as the person begins to listen to his limbs testifying and witnessing

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against him. And he becomes worried and terrified and in a state of shock, unbelievable moment.

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He says vocaroo Lulu De Lima Shaheed to Marlena.

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They would say today skim today limbs, why did you witness against us? Why? You know what your limbs would say back in response, call umbach on law and levy on Baka Kula shake, they will see Allah, Allah allowed us to speak. And we are the creation of Allah. Your hand doesn't belong to you. It belongs to Allah. So Allah gives it permission to speak the truth. Your hand will witness against you what you did to your boyfriend, or what you did to girlfriend, fear of loss origin or whatever you do have the harm. How? How can you do that? How long after he is like this? Do you believe in the idea of the crown or not? My brothers and sisters in Islam, as harsh as you may think this

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sounds

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except that it is injected with a lot of mercy and a lot of gentleness and a lot of compassion. You know why? Because you're still alive. And we all need reminders. We all need to remind each other all of us and I do not pick on anyone at all. I don't know everyone's got a different circumstance. But I need to deliver the message so you're aware so you know what you're doing? And what the sins you do, how are they going to act and react against you on the Day of Judgment you need to be aware of this they'll come on the day of judgment and say oh, no one told us no one informed us and now my job is to inform you This is it. Now like I I don't control your situation. I cannot break or force

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you to break your relationship you do what you want your maluma [???] done. The law says do what they want

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us on any if I if I force something upon you it's not accepted because forced email is unaccepted by a law, your Eman And you leaving of evil and sin and breathing how long relationships must be genuine it must come out from your heart. No one can do anything about this except you

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remember my brothers and sisters in Islam? Those how long relationships that boyfriend and girlfriend when you meet each other. Both of you have four angels witnessing this moment for angels all together to on you and to on her. They are witnessing this moment. They are watching what you do and they are recording and above all a law superhot Allah is watching a lot of social he says anime anime Anoma Hayato a lot of social tells us in the Quran. He reminds us Didn't you know that a lot of social continuously C's

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dealing you know, and a lot of social colbus as he called it knowledge lm er lm en la he the ultimate knowledge and the biggest and the greatest knowledge you will ever possess in your mind, in your heart and in your soul is the knowledge that will last so as Jen watches over you 24 seven of the day. If you that's what you need. If you have that piece of knowledge in your heart, and it's awakened every moment of your life, this is the only knowledge you need in it nothing else. No matter what makes us fall in sin and evil, other than the fact that we forget Allah is watching us. If we were always conscious of the fact that the law is over, is watchful over us. No one would fall

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into sin. You will take your money.

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It'll take you you'll think twice before you do something. How long? A lot of social he says you start food I mean a nurse when I start food I mean Allah wahoo man home. I'm on social he speaks about the people's attitude. He says your stuff foreigner meaner ness. You tried to hide and conceal your sim from people. My brother when you meet up with this

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girlfriend of yours. You tried to conceal this from your parents? You tried to conceal this from her father from her mother from her brothers and her sisters and her aunties and uncles. You try to conceal it from them. You try to conceal it from your own parents. Your staff Won't I mean a net loss as well as the food I mean a la wahoo ma home they feed the people and they do not fear Allah Ya Allah Allah is with them. I can see you a lot knows what you're doing. Allah he's every single word you're speaking to her and whatever you my sister speaking to him. All this in

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your cell phone I mean a nurse when a star food I mean en la wahoo mom, la walkabout if you be to LA or a bomb, you know?

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Like about my brothers and sisters, both of you really both of you, these boyfriend and girlfriend relationships. I know I tell you.

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Straight fact, serious true fact you believe that you don't believe that? I really don't care. But this boyfriend and girlfriend trust me, you both don't love each other. There is no real love there. I tell you what's happening. Your heart is empty. It's empty.

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And this is the problem. It's empty. So anything and anyone that comes by you, that sends you a message that wants to meet up that wants to meet up for a drink for dinner for lunch, whatever it is.

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Then, yo you claim that you love them? Because the hearts empty. you'll fill anyone in there.

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So

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and have you seen Haven't you seen how many people boyfriends and girlfriends do they have in their life? A person before he gets married? If he's in that one relationship business, almost 100 girlfriends before he settles down to one and marries her then it is not okay in this manner. There was no real love. It's just the heart is empty. Someone came by smiled at me. Oh, hello, son. Let's come in and form a relationship. Hello, do something how long and then you know Goodbye, we break it off. Look for another boyfriend. Look for another girlfriend and so on. The heart is empty.

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Heart is empty.

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And this is funny thing when the heart is empty. You hear a song? Oh yeah, I love this song. You know, ago sees a guy I love him. A guy sees a girl I I love her. You see an actor or Well, he performs good, I love him. And so what's the solution here? What's the solution? If the heart was filled with the love of Allah subhanho wa Taala then they will never ever, ever be any room to love anyone in a horrible manner. He says the problem. The problem is that the heart is empty. It's not filled with anything. So anyone that comes by you will claim you love them. had that heart of yours, being filled with the love of Allah azza wa jal. It is impossible that any heart of love would enter

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it and as a result, you'll be aware of your actions. If a girl smiles you'll turn the other way. If a girl texts or messages you, you will delete and block immediately. out immediately you will not even think about it. Why? Because your heart is full with a lost love. It's full with a lot. It's not empty. You understand, you see where the problem is, this is our problem. So you need to work on your heart and fill it with the love of Allah subhanho wa Taala or the Yoni you my sister and my brother, those that are in her own relationships, both of you. As I said, your hearts are empty. So anyone that comes across, there's plenty of room in your heart for you to give them this this fake

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love that you promised them. Be careful, my brothers. Be careful. And know that if you meet up with your girlfriend, if you meet up with your girlfriend, then this only happened after she betrayed her father. And her mother and her brothers and her sisters and her aunties and her uncles. And above all, she betrayed the trust that she has with Allah subhanho wa Taala and the trust of her Deen and a woman like that. Do you think that she will never betray you any day of your life. If she betrayed an entire generation that raised her and looked after her from when she was born, you think she will never betray you?

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And you to my sister, same advice. When you meet up with this boyfriend of yours.

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Then, you know, you should know that he in order for him to meet up with you. He has also betrayed his father and mother and brothers and sisters and aunties and uncles. And above all, he's betrayed the law social, the trustee has with a law and he's also betrayed the dean is Dean and his Dean tells him to keep away from that. And so do you think

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My sister, that a man like this, you think he has genuine love for you? You think he will never betray you? And then what? What Disneyland Are you living in? Most definitely a betrayal will happen. Most definitely. Whether he tells you about it, he doesn't tell me about it. Don't gamble with these rubbish relationships don't gamble. My brothers and sisters in Islam funeral law, if you're a law surgeon, and know that the solution to your problem you see, and I don't just like pulling out problems and just talking problem, problem problem, then they make you feel miserable and depressed and there's no path to recovery. Now I'm telling you your recovery. And your solution

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is to fill your heart with the love of a law, then there will be no room for any harm, love, absolutely. follow a laws law, everything will become easy in your life. There's the solutions don't get married in a bad way. If you really love each other, go and marry each other. A lot of social, he did not completely forbid that we fulfill our desire.

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A lot of social made marriage had. Not only that a lot is pleased with this action. Not only that, every time husband and wife sleep with each other. They are rewarded.

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They are rewarded, Jani and Islam is not against you fulfilling your desire. Are you finding that companion in where you can love and you both settle down, you love each other and you share that love and Islam is not against that at least slam rewards for this, but do it in the hallway and avoid the harm. Dude followership on and the evil whispers of a shared bond and the feet evil promises of your boyfriend or your girlfriend, do not follow them. Don't get married in a pattern. And if it's not happening for you, you might say, but it's not happening. If it's not happening for you as quick as you want. And all your parents are against it or this or whatever it is, then what's

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the solution? You think the solution is go find a girlfriend or go find a boyfriend who tricked you and told me this is the solution. The solution is Be patient. Be patient, this life is going it's going it's not worth doing? How long?

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If marriage isn't being successful for you, if it's not being made easy if it is difficult for you, Allah knows, be patient, be patient during this time. Be patient when Allah azzawajal described the believers, he said when levena Sabo do our job, your beam. When a large Xhosa described the believers, he said they are people who remained patient, seeking the pleasure of the Lord. When you're patient, you're seeking a large reward. Allah will reward you for your patience. As you sit and wait for a relationship to happen for you.

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Don't Don't break that opportunity to earn reward, and go and get someone in how long and stay with them until you think you'll get married. And then then things will settle down on what you're going to feel the effects of that hold on for the rest of your life. If you do not genuinely repent now and cut it all.

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A lot described the believer samoto the heart our shield, a beam remain patient seeking a loss, origins reward and his pleasure.

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While calm solid, and what will help you during this time of call masala. Go and pray, go and pray going fast. A lot of social he says when it comes to

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giving charity, go work for charities. Get yourself busy. Because when you work with charities and you work in good deeds, and you go and help people and so on, it takes your mind away and how long relationships it takes away your mind away from it. And then finally Allah gives a beautiful, beautiful solution. He said the believers are those yet de la una vilasa notice a year they push the evil with good deeds. You know what that means? It means that one of the greatest weapons against bad deeds is to busy yourself and occupy yourself with our Senate with good deeds. This is always always a principle learned that

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as soon as you bring a good deed in your life, and you engage in a good deed, the sins and the evil beads are gone out the other way they fly out the other way because it is impossible to engage into at the same time. These are solutions my brothers and sisters in Islam, take by them repent now. Now repent. We're in the secret month of worship. For those that are asking what is worship, let you listen to the recording and shall lie again at the beginning I explained what worship is

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Listen, listen to what our job is our job is a secret month that we need to honor and we need to respect and we need to dignify because a lot of social honor that so repent my brothers and sisters in Islam now from your heart on relationships, cut out this Valentine don't meet up with this boyfriend and girlfriend of yours don't meet up. This is a day in where the pagans, they would celebrate the gods. It's a day of Schick. Now now in the world, it seems to be like a secular celebration. But it's not a secular celebration. It is not like just they chose a day of the year. Let's celebrate. This is a day of love. It's deeply rooted in pagan tradition. It's a day that you

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would celebrate the gods go and research about it. You'll see what I'm talking about. Like about so repent. My brothers and sisters. Were coming up to them about this less than two months and we'll be in Ramadan. We're at the doorstep of Ramadan. Time for preparation. This month is the month in which you plant the seeds. Next month which is Chabad is the month in which you water the seeds. And then the month after is Ramadan is the month in which you begin to harvest the fruits that have now ripened. So in other words, this is the month of hard work. The next month is the month of watering extra deeds. Chabad Siobhan is a month in which Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would fast get a

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flu shot Banila Khalida he's the first the entire month of Shabbat except a few days you only had one or two three days maybe he would break his fast

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and then Ramadan would come by then he man is heavy. By then you're ready to read this plan and to complete the plan 510 20 times whatever marks allows you to do a solid tutorial we will move on lessons will

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still fall in my shell one entire garden of goodness is going to open in Ramadan. But if you do not prepare from now in pleasure and then in chabanne what you're going to come to the mobile late It's like a person arrives late to the to the train station and then the train has just closed these doors and the game is down. You will see on mobile and fly through and you'll say well most of Hawaii came in it went at the because you did not prepare for it. So your attitude afterwards I one lot of Obama came in it went on Melbourne beach now now now preparation for it begins now. For repent, repent from now and will lie This is the final point I leave you with two more points. The

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best day in your life is that the European VAT is going to be the best day in your life when you repent. Whenever you sell Allahu alayhi wa sallam he said this the garb of America will be a long one who did the Ummah except that the Toba of garb cough has a long story he committed a major sin and that is that he refrained and abstained from going to

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book a Jihad with Muslim Central it's considered a major sin. He stayed at home in Medina. Anyway in the resort of alarm Alejo, Selim came back to Medina and He punished them 4050 days no one is allowed to speak to them. So then Allah accepted the Toba of cap. When Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam saw garb he said in a shoot behind Yo mama la comunidad? Look, he said to him, congratulations. Congratulations on this day.

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That is the best day in your life since your mother gave birth to you. In other words, the day Allah accepted his daughter is the best day of his life since his mother gave birth to him. You know what that means. And the best day in your life is not the day you graduate from school. It's not the day you get a job. It's not the day you get a promotion. It's not the day you got married. The best day in your life is not the day you bought your first car or bought your first home. In Holland. Obviously, the best day in your life is the day on line except your tober that's the best day in your life. So work towards this best day of your life. Work hard for it. Make your number today and

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renew it tomorrow and we renew it after tomorrow. And ask the last question that he blesses you with the opportunity of a genuine, sincere veto but just before you leave this earth

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law court, so my brothers and sisters in Islam Finally, even to those who are married, celebrating Valentine's is hard. It is not a part of digital Islam. Why? Because the only recurring celebrations as Muslims were allowed to celebrate are the 288 and football and that's it. Anything else have a celebration that recurs that comes every it is how long for us to celebrate? Because la they read the word read

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literally literally, it means it comes from the word that they are all due, which means something that comes over again and again. So even football at the opera were called aid. Because they come every eight, it means to repeat. So they called the eight because they repeat. So it is not allowed for any Muslim, to innovate, a celebration that repeats.

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And Valentine's Day is a day that repeats every so it is not allowed to celebrate it. That's fundamentally from that perspective. And then above this, it is rooted in pagan tradition in where they would celebrate the gods. What does this have to do with us? What does it have to do with Muslims?

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Do not celebrate this day. Do not buy a flower on this day. Do not do anything special on this day. Rather, if you love your spouse, you can express that throughout the entire he through your actions, through your words, through you maintaining and looking after them looking after each other. This is what Islam taught us. If you follow Islam, this is what Islam is. For We ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to guide us, to protect us to guide us to the best path and to teach us we asked him Subhanahu wa dialler to give us the ability that we remain firm and steadfast upon the deen of Islam and we asked him superhot Allah that He forgive our sins and rectify all our shortcomings. And we asked him

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somehow know whether what data to admit us into the paradise and to keep us protected and safeguarded from jahannam when he ever will in the Hollywood ethical powder rally or Sala La Silla, Mubarak al and Avi you know, Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi Germaine Shizuka Memorial hold on my brothers and sisters in Islam or said Omar Alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh