Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #256 Jan 11th 2017

Muhammad Salah
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allah God is the Greatest.

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Glory to be open you must to be against religion to allah God is the greatest

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glory to Him.

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He used to be the best and give his religion to

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Salam. Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim Al hamdu lillahi rabbil aalameen When I came to little motorcade while doing a lot of volume in WA salatu salam ala said in our in our air hurryin Nabina Muhammad and voila early he was so happy as my brothers and sisters, welcome to another live edition of our program. Guardians of the pious in this bliss, a series of explaining the algo Salah Hain which is compiled by imam or never we, may Allah have mercy on him, this is going to be our 305 episodes. That is a 300 and the fifth episode by the Grace of Allah. And it is a third episode in explaining chapter number 75.

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The chapter which deals with pardoning and shying away from the foolish of all lead in the chapter, Hadith number 645 and 646

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in Hadith number 645. It's a sound Hadith highly sound Hadith, agreed upon its authenticity, and it is collected by both Imams Bukhari and Muslim narrated Abdullah ignoramus rude oral the Allahu Anhu call

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me envelope Allah rasool Allah here sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Yeah yaqi Nabhi Aminul and via e Salawat law he was alum while I him.

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Baba who come for Ed Mo, who were who I am Safford dama and what he were whole. Allahu Melfort call me for inner home lair Allah Moon

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Abdullah ignoramus Road, may Allah be pleased with him the rated I can see the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him.

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While he was narrating

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about one of the prophets of Allah, one of the prophets of Allah who came before him barraba Who como whose people beaten and they caused him to bleed while he was wiping the blood out of his face, he was making this dua, he will supplicating saying, Oh ALLAH forgive my people. Indeed, they don't know.

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So, the word yaki is either

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narrating or imitating or copying. What does it mean?

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The hadith is telling us that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam is telling about one of the prophets, even though his people beat him up, and they made him bleed. As the blood was coming out of his face, he was wiping the blood of his face, and instead of praying against his people, rather he was making the beautiful dua Allahu nephila, call me, fit in the home, lie on the moon, or Allah forgive my people, since they don't know. They don't know how genius is their act. They don't know the severe consequences of their evil act or the heinous act of beat and the Prophet have beaten they're the Messenger whom Allah Almighty sent unto them. In fact, brothers and sisters in Surah Al

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and I am the cattle in verse number 34. Allah Almighty says, While occurred equals zebra to Russolo, men cobbly for Subaru Allah and zebu had at home Nasoni Well, I'm about Dylaney kalimat Illa wala Khadija kami never in more saline

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in this area, Allah Almighty was supporting his Prophet sallallahu Sallam boy, narrating unto him the conditions of the messengers before him.

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Number one, Mohamed Salah Salem was not an unprecedented messenger no

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Omar Mohammed only

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Hola Rasool en cada holla at min kabilio Rasul Muhammad. peace be upon him is nothing but a Messenger whom many messengers have come before him. Okay and what happened to the messengers who have come before Mohamed Salah Allah Allah Salem, while Acharya Zeba to Jerusalem solo men complex, volatile and I'm terrified. The messengers before you have been belied had been 34 have sorted and I had been offended, had been beaten up. So how did they react Sava rue the inlude. All of the patiently they were patient. They were patient, even though they were belied. They were accused of being liars. Were also they had been harmed, morally, and physically had to at a homeless run. This

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is a course of life. The messengers have to deliver the message, and they struggle in order to deliver the message. And through this struggle, they may be beaten up, they may be harmed, they may be annoyed, they may be, you know, hurt, maybe kill but by the end, victory shall prevail, the truth shall prevail. And Allah will support his messengers by the end, either that people will believe or that Allah will destroy an utterly eliminate the non believers and please the eyes of the messengers who have been belied, such as Prophet No, Ali Salam, when a lot of mighty drowned all the non believers, all of those who made fun of him while he was building the ark, now they will all

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drowned, such as the people of solder in Bath Ashkar, so called Allahumma rasool Allah, He Nakata, Allah He was so Korea that get the Boo Falco who fadem them Allah him or a boon be them being fessor where when they disobey their messenger when Sam would disobey Prophet Salah and they exceeded all the limits and the boundaries. They demanded a tangible miracle. Give us a she camel at pregnant chi camel, we want to see a pregnant chi camel coming out of this rock. And Allah delivered and the outcome was the day slain that they killed the shoe camel. So a lot of mighty destroyed the people of food Allah His Salam

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he sent again is them the violent one sir Bala Yellin within a year I mean who Suma seven nights and eight days and they were utterly destroyed for how far along in their career and the people frown at people of Prophet Musa al Salaam. They will drown before the eyes of Prophet Musa Ali Salam. Then this is what Allah Almighty said for Cebu Alana zebu had

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us Rona, they endured all the harm and Norman the persecution you name it until our victory have come to them by this is a message to the Prophet Salah Salem to follow the footsteps of the previous prophets. First bear came out sobre olas me Mina Rasul. So be patient, like the patience of the messengers of the great determination of great patients, Prophet new prophet Ibrahim, Prophet Moses and Jesus peace be upon him and the fifth of the prophets of Allah Allah has me Mina Rosen is Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So, as in Surah, Yusuf in number 111, Allah Almighty said after narrating the story of use of Halle, Salah, and the great deal of patience of Prophet Yaqoob,

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and the great deal of patience of use of Ali Salam, an attempt to assassinate him by his own brothers, thrown him in the job in the water, well, then, being picked up and sold as a slave, and then being falsely accused of sexual assault, then being thrown in prison, even though he was not guilty. Rather, he was being assaulted, and all of that and he was enduring all of that patiently. Then, Allah tells us by the luck I didn't care and I feel cause I'll see him i But I totally OLIO l BAP that is a purpose of narrating the stories in order to take heed, in order to take admonitions in order to learn lessons in order to be as

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sure that by the end, truth will prevail. By the end victory shall come

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is as Your Honor sort of law he will forget what I ate and NASA Hulu Nephi de la he fit for some big behind the Arabica was still fit in our Canada Web. Do you know so what effect in Fetta laka mobian was revealed when it was revealed. After the Treaty of LOD via own the way between Mecca and Medina, it was revealed when Muslims felt persecuted most because they will not able to perform their own bra, they will not able to enter Mecca on the sixth year. So Allah Almighty revealed, no, don't feel sorry, don't be sad. Rather, that is the great conquest, indeed, with giving you an open victory,

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a clear victory. So the the treat often how they be which the vast, vast majority of the companions with the exception of Abu Bakr, so they perceived it as humiliation, because it's all because we're humiliating. It is enough to know that even though addressable haram but we're not able to perform, and we have to return back and there is of the articles, you know that they were all unfair. So Allah Almighty revealed, this is the beginning of alpha total Akbar, the opening and the clear and obvious the manifest victory SubhanAllah.

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So, the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam was, as he knew rated the status of the prophets before them before him and their conditions and how they suffered and how they were patient, Abdullah hidden him as Rob said, it's like I've seen the Prophet sallallahu Sallam on imitating the prophets before him, or one of the prophets before him when he was injured, who injured him, his own people who insulted him who beat him up his own people, yet, he kept wiping off the blood of his face. And he kept saying, Allah Murphy look on me for even longer and who else did that it was Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam when it was on the battle of El hunda. When he kept in his State of while he's

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angry, but in a state of, you know, praying against his companions are showing his anger to them. He keeps saying Allahu nephila, call me for in a home play animal.

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The following Hadith which is the last in chapter number 75,

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is another Hadith which is agreed upon its authenticity. Hadith number 646.

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The last Hadith in chapter number 75.

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The hadith is narrated by the Greek companion abou Roya Radi Allahu alayhi Hora after all the Allahu Anhu and Rasool Allah is Allah Allahu Allah, he was a lemma Carl Lazar shady do the surah in NEMA shady will the M Licona. Sir Who in the lob? What does a cannoli? Let's the shady do the surah in the machete, do alidium Liquin if so, who and the love of the Hadith says that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said

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the strong man is not the one who overcome his opponents whenever he wrestles them. Rather, the song man is in fact the one who controls himself. Whenever he gets angry. This is the real stress is when the person capable when the person is capable to control his temper when the person doesn't act upon his anger. When for innocent somebody's wife is very angry, keep saying divorce me divorce me if you're a man give me divorce. And he smiles and says okay, okay, Inshallah, just calm down, calm down. I will see what we can do. I will do whatever pleases you. But he doesn't say you're divorced. Because if she's angry for a reason or another, it shouldn't be angry too. But whenever she's angry,

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and you say okay, you asked for it. Then it still have given her divorce. Once it says you're divorced. You're divorced. You're divorced. They have six kids. They turn around to give me headache. Shake.

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While we're supposed to do we both were angry. You demanded. She's the one who demanded it. What about you?

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Both of you.

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But the strong person is not the one who lifts have ton is not the person who can lift that much weight, or can carry one person with one hand. No, the person who controls himself whenever he is angry, this is a sign of strength. If you remember, I shared with you before, amongst the Arab, especially in the past and the bad wounds, there is a very famous figure who is the greatest heel in the Arabic history. They call him Antara initiate that you may have heard that name before. He was unbeatable.

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If he were to listen even against a bunch of people, he would beat them. He was amazing. This is in about the finger and that personality. So one day somebody asked him, How did you gain that much strength.

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So he said, If you want to know, put your finger, put your anything in my mouth under my teeth.

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And I'm gonna put mine under your teeth, and we'll bite on each other's fingers.

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So they did he put his finger in his mouth. And simply, each one started bite him on the finger of the other person. The other guy couldn't bear the pain and he's clearly in his head. Ah, so when he opened his mouth.

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And Tara pulled out his finger and said, You know what, if you didn't open your mouth, I would have opened mine, I would have screamed. So strength it is the ability to control yourself in case that you have pain, you're experiencing any calamity. So people would go around and complain to everyone, they have to inform the whole town and everyone they have to know that they got a headache, I have a migraine, I cannot sleep and their neighbors and everyone have to know about it.

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His son when his daughter broke their leg, they have to spread the news and they're going to take some pictures and post it on the page and pray for me and my son hurt his finger, you know, very impatient, they complain about anything. They cannot tolerate the pain,

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a shaded

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and a shade the students power and strength is simply presented in the form of enduring.

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You know, the pressure of anger and the pressure of pain, no complain. And whenever you're angry, you don't act upon your anger. You know how to release this anger in something different than hurting yourself or hurting others how the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam said if you're standing sit down, if you're sitting down, lie down, or be dismissed, or make wudu. And we discussed this means before of relieving oneself from his anger and dismissing this condition of this fit of anger. But it doesn't mean that the person should be none have no sense. No. We're talking about the dispraise anger, which is this stating, but is there any anger which is praiseworthy, of course,

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then to Hekate hometel law he has Urgell whenever you see any of the violations against any of the limits and boundaries which are set by Allah Almighty, the Prophet SAW Selim used to get angry and he is faced with turned red SallAllahu sallam. For example, there was a woman who belong to the tribe of Masoom, Murata. Masumi, she committed theft. So she was reported and witnesses showed up. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam ordered that she should be punished. It was literally unprecedented, a noble woman and she will be punished with such severe punishment for what? So they said, We need somebody to go to talk to the Messenger of Allah who cannot do that with this woman.

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They looked around and he said whom does the Prophet sallallahu Sallam love most said His most Beloved is Osama, the son of his most beloved husana Even resided in Haritha

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Zaidan Haritha who used to be his slave, then the Prophet Salah sullen freedom, and he gave him his last name. Then later on, he just made him you know his companion not his adopted son, because you do not bear the name but you the name of your

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actual father. Okay, so sama eveness he didn't a hadith I thought it is okay to intercede. The Prophet sallallahu sallam said repeatedly, each Pharaoh

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To Jeru that he recommended a shefa to intercede so that whenever he intercede for something which is good, you will be rewarded. Somebody needs renal transplantation.

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Somebody needs blood transfusion, somebody could not pay the rent. So, if you don't have you speak to somebody else on their behalf, and you assist them in fulfilling that need, this is shefa

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somebody's looking for a job and he cannot reach out to the employer or the company owner. And you know, some people you have connections, so you speak to them to hire this person because he's in need. That's called shefa. Okay.

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But shefa is not in everything

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is not in everything. Like in this case, also Magnus, he went to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and he tried to intercede concerning al murottal Massumi the woman who committed theft, who belong to a noble family, oh, it was such a big deal. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam got really really angry. Now he got angry, even though in the previous episode we heard that this guy the bad would the cruel person who grabbed ahold of him from his collar which lift bruises around his neck as a gave me from the money of Allah from the wealth of Allah, this is now your money. And the prophets. Allah says I'm smart as I say, Okay, give him

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if it is up to me no problem, but had men who do the law, one of the boundaries of Allah Almighty being wined violated? Nope. So the prophets, Allah Salam got very angry. And he said at Ashfur Have you had the men who do the law? How dare you intercede concerning a punishment that is set by Allah Almighty. Not only that, the Prophet saw someone made a big scenery out of it, he made it public, he gathered the people. Then he said, all people, he could have just limited the matter to pay in Osama. This is his beloved, the son of his beloved. But he did not address him in private. He thought this is a very serious matter. It shouldn't be tolerated. It shouldn't be taken easy. So he

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gathered the Muslim community in the nursery and said, oh people, in like a Latina, publico unknown can either Seraphim or Sharif Taku what really ruined and destroyed the nation's before you that whenever a noble one, not only in a sense that he belongs to the high society now noble with regards to matters, the two manners and good conduct. So nobility because of family lineage, or because of worth, whenever somebody who's a big shot, commit seft Hulu Taku, they leave him they dismiss him. The part that him even though he served is really a big way to start a on a hill had, but whenever an ordinary person a layman commit theft, they throw the book at him. They apply the

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punishment as is, as the book says exactly. Then he said Salah Salem were a Mullah Lo and NEFA NFL Timothy I've been Mohamed Salah Lacava to Jada, and the hadith is collected by Imam Muslim said I swear to Allah, if the scene happened to be Fatima, the daughter of Muhammad, my own daughter, I would have applied the same punishment to her. I would have punished her with the same punishment. No exception. You do not waive the punishment. You do not intercede if you had done Minho. dilla Why did the Prophet SAW Salem get angry? This time? Because Osama was trying to intercede concerning divine matter was trying to waive the punishment of a woman who deserved to be punished because

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she's a thief simply because she belongs to a prestigious family. No, that's not accepted.

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In another incident,

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when Osama ignores aid, or all the Allah who was in an expedition, and there was one of the

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one of the non believers, the fighters who have killed many Muslims, and he was very stern against Muslims on the battlefield. So some of the Zaid inheritor had a combat with him, and he overcome him.

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And as he overcame him, now his sword was on his neck. So the guard line down on the ground, he said, Are they witness that there is no God to be worshipped but Allah and a bear with me

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Muhammad is his messenger. What did Osama do said, now on me.

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You can play the game with somebody else and he still killed him. It's out of his head.

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So when the news reached the Prophet salallahu Alaihe, salam, all the above all above and Chedid he got really, really angry. Whenever he will get angry, his face will turn red. Then he collected Osama and he said How dare you kill somebody who says La ilaha illallah he said he only said it to save his life oh prophet of Allah. He that this three apply made the Messenger of Allah even more and more angry. Why? Because now suddenly become judgmental of one's faith. He said, Did you cut open his chest? Did he fetch out in his heart to find out whether he was true in this statement? Or he said it to save his life? And he keeps saying, Have you killed a Muslim Osama you've killed a

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Muslim Osama said I wish I have not accepted Islam before this day. I mean, I wish I was not even known to the Prophet Salah Salem before this day I wish I would have started from the scratch before this day. So when it comes to the hoodoo of Allah, when it comes to the boundaries, the rules and regulations to the legislations which are set by Allah the Almighty, no end decision no matter who is this person.

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i In short, all the Allahu Anh has said, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam entered once upon me. And I had a very nice curtain that have beautiful images, sewer, images of birds, fat Ella when our true his face turn, normally read, he would get very angry. And he said, after he taught the curtain how to get hold of the curtain, and he tore it apart. Then he threw it and he said, Don't you know that mean? I showed the Nursia other than your mark piano. Amongst those who you shall receive the worst torment on the day of judgment are those who make those paintings of complete images of living beings, birds, animals, or human beings. You can make images of whatever you can grow and make

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paintings of nature. plants, trees, sunrise, waterfall, you name it mountains, okay sunset, but you don't draw you don't paint images of living creatures. This is not permissible. Why did the Prophet SAW Salem get angry? Because the matter is serious. It is a violation against had done, men who do the law or one of the rules and regulations by Allah the Almighty I guess brothers and sisters, it's time to take a short break and we'll be back in sha Allah

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to begin with a new chapter chapter number 67 Please stay tuned

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh cattle and welcome back brothers and sisters our phone numbers our area code 00210238 treble 5132 And alternatively, same area code 901 double 05469323 and the email address is [email protected].

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that I received on gardens, but after this call, firstly me take the call for a Solomonic

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rather Obaidullah from Nigeria

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Welcome to gardens of the past go ahead Abdullah Pura Vida Allah

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Now I know how to get hands

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because some people

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Welcome. Well

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I don't know exactly

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what is the right thing to do? Now your question are they Dola from Nigeria?

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If you don't have any other questions, I'll be happy to start answering your inquiry about how to place both hands.

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During the shahada, he means by the shahada sitting after the second raka if you're praying three or four rockers more than two rockers or if it is the last Asha hood after the second, third or even fourth, like

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in the hadith of God ignore Adora, may Allah be pleased with him who narrated that he have seen the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him

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cert making a circle with the thumb and the middle finger like this, and pointing with the index finger pointing with the index finger. You had Ruby how were you Harry Cohab. So in many narrations, we have heard that while in sujood, while in Tasha hood, you put both palms on both knees, on their prospective knees, so I'm sorry thighs,

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the right hand on the right thigh and the left hand on the left thigh, you collect your fingers, You've spread them away, and they are pointing towards the Qibla. But for the Tisha hood and why reciting Atisha hood you point with the index finger then explaining the meaning of yet OB how well your hair requires many different opinions amongst the scholars and the different mme What are to keep the finger

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pointing towards the Qibla

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okay throughout the time, or to move the finger up and down, as long as you recite in addition hold the index finger or to only raise your finger when you come to say a shadow Allah Ilaha illa Allah or only when you say in Lulla or you only raise or move your finger, the index finger inertia hood, whenever you are saying Allahu Allah, Allah, Muhammad Ali Muhammad because this is a supplication. So the Sunnah is to keep is to point with the index finger towards the Qibla. And the Sunnah also is while you're sitting there in the middle, Tasha who are in the last session, how to look at the index finger while you are in the sitting, you do not look in the position of usages, that is

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practices sunnah. If you follow the mother of Abu Hanifa Therese when you say La Ilaha, il Allah or to follow other mother have to keep pointing the finger up and down, or to only

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move the finger up and down whenever you say the DUA. All of that is acceptable, because there is no specific mention as when to move it when to shake your finger, if you keep pointing the finger throughout the city with Russia, who that is closest to right, and Allah Almighty knows best.

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All right.

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Now, brothers and sisters start

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the new chapter, chapter number 67, which is known as the endurance of harm and anointing.

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In Arabic is known as the man who other if the man other, other is a harm, which could be more could be financial, could be physical. If I may ask you, and you can answer me later on if you want to which harm is worse, physical, or the moral or the financial.

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Okay, I would love to hear from you. What do you think which harm is greater, and is worse,

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if it is inflicted on a person to be harmed in his honor, and his reputation, or to be harmed physically, or to be harmed? financially?

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We have only one Hadith to study here which is Hadith number 647.

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And this hadith, Abu Hurayrah Radi Allahu Anhu no rates and now Romulan kala rasool Allah in Nicaragua

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in any corroborating RC Lu who worked on a

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well what's you know LA him? Well, you will see una La

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Farrakhan a Sakala Salallahu Alaihe Salam let in contact Mr. Kaul fekir and Nana to see for whom will Mel well I know Mark Amin Allah He Taha lava hearin Allah him Maroondah Allah zanic raw Muslim in la cara baton OSU whom way up Tony, the word acyl Yanni I uphold I

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Connect, I take care of your tharuni they sever the relationship with me the word to see full moon, okay? To see full moon means you are making them to eat up or you're thrown at their face the dirt, or the hot sand, which ends up entering their mouse elmen

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means the hot ashes that you can cook on

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this hadith is very important with regards to advising the believers to be patient

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and not to treat their opponents the same treatment, as we have learned before, shunning away from the foolish we studied.

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Well, still has an at Wallace edify bill that he asked him for either lady the NACA or by now.

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And now wali Yun Hamid

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Well, now you will call her ill Adina Sabo. One, you will occur her illness who have an RV in these two areas of Surah facilite. Amazing. Allah Almighty says that good and evil are not equal. If you're being treated with evil, repelled the evil with one which is better, that will create friendship, and good relationship between you and the person who used to offend you, because you're not treating him the same. Rather, you are being patient, you will be unkind to him while he is rude to you. As a result, this person will end up becoming like a very intimate friend to you. But hey, who can do like that? Who can endure this harm patiently? And instead of replying or reacting with

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the same, rather, he will reply with what is good, he will do his opponent something better. So he insults him and he wouldn't insult him rather he would pray for him. He he beats him and he would not beat him back. Rather he would pray for him and say May Allah forgive you. No one can behave like that. But the true patient ones in the Ludhiana Suburu when they will occur Illa to have an RBM such people are very lucky before Allah Almighty.

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here we have a situation where somebody claimed he came to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, he must have heard about the virtues of upholding the ties of kinship. You know,

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parents, uncles and aunts, nephews and nieces, cousins, near and far with cousins. So he started visiting his relatives. Some of them rejected him.

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He opposes ties, he takes gifts and he goes to visit them, but they are rude to him. Even when he goes to visit them. They don't want him to visit them. They are very cruel. They are very rude to him. He said, I'll say no whom, why Octo nanny, no matter how many times I do go to them. They do back to me. They don't want to see my face. They never once treated me good. We have a condition which is very common that

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many people they would only visit their relatives because they have visited them one day.

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And if they visited them like his cousin, his daughter was getting married. So he attended her wedding. And he bought her kitchen machine or kitchenware.

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or China. And then he's not and I was getting married. He sent him an invitation. They didn't show up. They didn't buy any gifts. They didn't even bother to pick up the phone to say congratulation. So now his cousin's other daughter is getting married. And he invites him say, I ain't going they don't deserve. I'm not even talking to them. They are such and such. Ah, here we're going to learn a lesson. This is not Salah Torah. This is not upholding the ties of kinship. This is simply pain back.

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Pain back for pure material for pure dunya not for the sake of Allah. The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said lay salwaar see Romani Elsie lumen wa salah,

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Anakin and Wellsley lemon Yasu mankapur. The person whom Allah admires because he opposed the ties of his kinship is not the one who does

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So, because his relatives and his kids are treating him the same, so I visit them, they visit me back, I buy them a gift in my mail gift. I will say they came to check on me. So I went to check on them in the hospital.

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His daughter, his son is going to do it and I attend the ceremony and they attend my son's No, this is not upholding the ties of kinship, if we're doing it in order to pay back. Nope. So what is the true cellar? What is the true fulfillment of upholding the ties, fulfilling the upholding the ties of kinship, what upon you shall anticipate and expect the promise rule which is, there is no other good deed in this dunya which deserves an NSL word in this dunya for in addition to the awaiting word in the Hereafter, better than upholding the ties of kinship. And the opposite is true. There is no other sin which requires and incurs Allah's wrath. And he requires the punishment and innocent

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punishment in this dunya in addition to the awaiting punishment in the hereafter, then severing the relationship, who spoke about the ayat in this regard

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Kaladin Allah Anna, whom Allah such people, are those whom Allah have cursed? And if there is no other warning, but this would have been sufficient indeed. So who is the true Watson?

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When was the last time you visited your aunt, or your uncle, or you pick up the phone and you wish them happy holiday? or somebody's graduating or somebody's getting married? Or somebody is sick, so that you share with them these moments? Where are they the last time because they came? And they did that to me? And ever since that they don't reply to me. Like, I have an uncle. I keep calling him every single time for the past 10 years. I'm the only one who calls he never picked up the phone once to say, my nephew, how are you? How you doing? So I say to myself, is not worth it. I'm not gonna call him anymore. This is not seller.

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You are doing that? Because he's doing that. And if he doesn't do it, you won't do it. This is for dunya

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likely have also a colleague at work.

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You heard that your friend, new colleague, a classmate got sick, so you weren't you visited a new took some gift. Then a while later, now you're the one who was sick people came to visit and this person didn't come.

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You keep in mind said okay.

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Just whenever it happens again, if he is sick, if she is sick, if they are having whatever, if they invite me, I will never go to them. We don't mean that in order to get paid by them. Or you're doing that anticipate in their word from Allah Almighty, there is a question that I need to ask myself. And each and every one of you need to ask yourself this question. If we do, then we will confront ourselves with the reality. Many of us are doing it as sort of business. I do it because they did it. And they if they cease, I cease to discover the relations. We're better off. We don't have to talk to them. No, that is not true. You will go you will visit them to the sahabi complaint to the

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Prophet Salah Salem, I said I have some family members, that I have all the ties and they severed the relations with me. The Prophet sallallahu sallam said, and aside from his answer to this particular mess, Allah or condition, the way the method of answering this question is a school by itself. If you're not many questions, I tend to use the same method that the Prophet SAW Selim have utilized here. I say if this is the case, if it is, as you say, especially when a sister calls and says my husband beats me my husband does this. My husband does that is okay. I don't know you. I don't know your husband. So I'm just answering as soon as if it is, as you said. Otherwise, if I'm

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here to judge between two then I need both of you. I need to listen to both of you. It is not fair to pass a judgement based on one side story, but here the Prophet sallallahu selama said in Cana Kumar call in contact Mr. Cole. If this is true, as exactly you say forget a NEMA to see form or Mel. If you're as you have said, then it is as if you are feeding them the hot sand the hot ashes

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and you will be always supported and backed up by Allah Almighty as long as you do so why is the unit

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Why is the unit I visit my relatives because I need Allah support. I expect and I anticipate Allah's word. I need Allah to be on my side, particularly whenever you have a relative who is truly rude, who is solely cool. So you do visit him, and he ignores him. Not a single time. He picked up the phone and he complimented you he sent you two gifts. He doesn't do the same. He doesn't want to see your face. But hey, he just happened to be your relatives. So he has rights upon you. Whether he fulfills his rights or not. It is not like if he doesn't fulfill his duty sores me. I ain't fulfilling my news source Nope. A seller is not like that. You shall continue to do what you have to

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do regardless what others do. If you truly anticipate in the word of Allah Almighty. May Allah grant us sincerity. A hook only had a cell phone line you want to call masala Allahu ala Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salam, wa Salam o Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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Allah Our God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He

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has to be the best and give his best religion to Allah Our God is the greatest

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glory to Him.

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You must obey be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgetting all about and in paradise, we're shipping cows fire and stones sending their best with the cheapest one day you know that we're getting all about * and bad guys are shipping cars fire and stores selling their best and cheapest for

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