The right way to get a Divorce

Mufti Menk

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The speaker discusses the importance of divorce in Islam, stating that it is not the end of the world and is not frowned upon. They stress the need for everyone to have a good heart and not give up on hunting or checking. The speaker also mentions that divorce is a effort and dedication, not a ends of the world.

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Allah subhanaw taala gives us guidance and the Holy Quran and save him secondary maruf in Audacity mbsfn. We do understand him secondary model that is one year together but we hardly see the 300 Hassan Allah, people divorcing in a very in a way that pleases Allah. So what is the right way to get a divorce? And what is the best methodology that pleases Allah according to the Quran? So divorce is not recommended in any and every scenario. But when the relationship has become toxic, and as a last resort, it's permissible in Islam. It's not frowned upon. So people say no, you know, how could you divorce actually, we could divorce if that is the last resort, we could actually

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divorce and go through it, but what we need to know is be respectable, responsible, it is not the end of the world, you are not the first person to divorce and you will not be the last one. If you have children, there is a very big act of worship that you are going to need to engage in, known as allowing the other spouse, whether it is custody or access of the children, without hindrance with a good heart. Both sides need to have a good heart. Sometimes we learn from some non Muslims, where they are more respectful after a divorce, then Muslims, Muslims become so ugly, that it can break a community sometimes, because maybe a chef's daughter married another chef's son, and if they

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divorced, the two chefs stopped speaking I just an example. And that shouldn't be because divorce is not the end of the world. If you look at the Sahaba of the Allahu Anhu. When they went through divorce, they were so respectful. They were very respectful even in divorce. We need to also be cognizant of the Quranic injunction at the SRI Han basin when you are releasing someone do it with goodness. And bear in mind, you know, you were intimate together you You came together with the name of Allah with the witnesses in the planet in the way that Allah has asked you to. So how can you just release someone kick them and try and harm them after that divorce? Let them have a good life.

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Allah will provide this one and this one like Allah subhanho wa Taala says, we're in yet a Farakka ugni LA who couldn't learn mincer it that when they do separate and divorce Allah will provide both of them from his father and his broad you know gift.

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It doesn't mean because you're divorced. It's the most people after they've divorced they find another spouse who's better than the previous one. But again, it's it's an effort and dedication. Don't give up keep looking keep hunting, keep checking, keep trying and no problem Allah will grant you a regular fee.