Mufti Menk – Ramadan 2014 – Day 27 – Aishah RA Rumaisaa RA

Mufti Menk
AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the importance of honoring great women and bringing two opinions together to avoid damaging the reputation of individual. They also emphasize the need for passion and happiness in marriage, avoiding rumors, and avoiding giving false information. The speakers also touch on the loss of various women and the importance of men in the context of sex. They also discuss the history of Islam, including the implementation of Islam as a deity and the loss of various women.
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Salam Alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

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Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa Salatu was Salam ala MV mursaleen Nabina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi Germain. We praise Allah subhanho wa Taala we thank him for all the gifts that he has blessed us with. And we ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to grant us goodness and ease. And we ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to send blessings and salutations upon Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and all his companions May Allah bless his entire household and bless every single one of us, brothers and sisters in Islam, tonight being a very great Eve, the eve of Friday, and you know that that is the best Eve from amongst the eaves of the week. At the same time,

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the eve of the 27th of Ramadan, perhaps possibility of it being the Night of Decree. It is only an honor on such an evening to be speaking of the greatest of the women that we know one whom we are so humbled to be able to speak about the greatest in honor and rank, the one whom the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam declared that he loved her the most none other than our Isha have been tip Baccarat, Sadiq radi Allahu Allah. May Allah subhanho wa Taala bless her, and May He grant us all a lesson from her beautiful life.

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In sha Allah in the next few moments, we will go through just some of the aspects of the life of this great Sahaba who is known as Omo, meaning the mother of the believers are the Allahu Allah, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam married women who were already previously married. Some of them were widowed, divorced, and so on. And Subhana Allah, this was the only one who was unmarried isharo the Allahu Allah, and we know this, there are many people who pick on the fact that she was quite young, when she was married. But to be honest, in all fairness, there are a few things we need to clarify in this regard. Number one, it was not all about lust and desire as we made mention of and

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it's very important that we make mention of her.

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at that young age, we all know that people memorize things very quickly. At the age of nine, It is reported that she lived with Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And she memorized and she learned every single thing until she became known as the most knowledgeable from amongst all the women. So much so that azubi rebel awam Ravi Allahu anhu says, I lived with my aunt, I stayed with my aunt Subhana Allah.

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Abdullah Abu Zubaydah,

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the law and he says, I've never known someone more knowledgeable than her in a verse of the Quran. Nobody could come close. No, in the laws of inheritance. No, in any practice of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam which we today call the tsunami, no in poetry, no in narrations, and then knowing exactly who uttered what and when they said it in the presence of Muhammad Sallallahu, alayhi wasallam, as well as historical events that occurred, and at the same time, laws and regulations that were passed. I knew no one who knew more than her so much so that she was the most knowledgeable of us, the most knowledgeable of us, even in medicine. So I asked her, how do you know

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so much of medicine? So she made it clear to me that whenever I was sick, Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to give me a remedy, I memorized it, and at the same time,

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at the same time, Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was visited by people who were sick and ill. And I heard exactly what he said to them, and I memorized it. So this was part and parcel of the gift that she was bestowed with. And from a young age, she knew absolutely everything. She only lived with Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam for eight years and five months, that's it. Eight years and five months. That was her companionship with Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam as a spouse. She lived in his home, she was the most loved by him, the only female who was not married, who married Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam. The rest of them. They were married before as we've

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made mention of, so that was quite an elderly woman who was married to Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam. There is a discrepancy obviously difference of opinion as to who is higher in terms of rank between eyeshadow, viola Miranda, and Khadija been to Hawaii Gabriella Anna, so the bulk of the oma would say it shall be allowed. And you have some people who say that it is actually Khadija been to Hawaii literally Aloha, based on the Hadith. We made mention of yesterday, when we

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Boca Khadija been to Hawaii rhodiola. However, to bring those two opinions together is quite simple. There is no difference of opinion or discrepancy when it comes to bringing them together at the time of Khadija rhodiola Juana she was the best. And at the time of eyeshadow, the Allahu Allah, she was the best, the most love. quite simple. And that is a great way of bringing the two together. There is no contradiction in duration. May Allah subhanahu wa taala bless us and help us to honor this great woman, a woman whom the bulk of the deen has come to us through her she was the one who narrated the most Hadith without the dispute from Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam from

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amongst the women Subhana Allah, so much so that she had students who are males of the Allahu Ana from amongst the Sahaba, the greatest of the Sahaba the Allahu anhu used to come to her and asked her clarifications and questions she knew much more than anyone else because she lived with him as a spouse. So panela certain things that only she knew how he lived, and how he was intimate with his own family members and so on. Only she knew she related to us. And this is why those who want to destroy the oma find fault in a Chateau de la Juana. Once you dislike her, you discount her narrations, you've discounted half of the dean, another man they would discount is Abu hurayrah

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Viola one, once you find fault in him and discount him, you've almost entered destruction of the entire deal. So this is why Be careful of those who utter such dirty words against the creme de la creme Subhan, Allah Subhana Allah, you know, those who have achieved ranks, always you get people who are jealous of them, and those who achieve the most and the highest of ranks. They suffer the most at the hands of the rumors of the people, so much so that they happen to be an incident in the life of eyeshadow they allow her when she was known as a pure woman, or Siddiqa to Binti Siddiq. She was the daughter of the most loved man to Mohammed salatu salam, and she was the truthful the

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daughter of the truthful The one who believed Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam yet, they accused her after the Battle of Bonilla was Panic of having committed adultery with a man who was also a great companion of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam by the name of safarnama rhodiola. And so who created the story again, the jealous lot up to this day, jealous lots create great stories and fabrications, rumors against those who have achieved a lot especially in terms of the deen in order to discount the deen and in order to turn people away from the religion. Be careful of this. My brothers and sisters she is the only woman whom her chastity has been declared in the Quran surah to

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know if you read it, Allah subhanho wa Taala has clarified the name of it Sharia law in so many verses and declared that anyone who believes that I Sharia law was not chaste and the pure woman actually has disagreed or disbelieved in a verse of the Quran. And if you just believe in a verse of the Quran, how can you call yourself a Muslim May Allah subhanho wa Taala grant us guidance? May Allah subhanho wa Taala cure us of the diseases of the heart, some of us become jealous of one another, to the degree that we start spreading rumors about one another and cause great destruction. May Allah subhanho wa Taala forgive us. So she was a woman who was the wife of Muhammad sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam, what was her age at the time she married Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam The truth is, there is difference of opinion. There is consensus that she passed away in the year

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57 or 58, hijiri not earlier than that. And her age, at the time of her death rhodiola consensus that it was 67 years of age SubhanAllah.

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If that was the case, start doing the mathematics and go back. She was asked later on when she was old about her marriage. So she said oh, I was fixed up to him in the sense that you know, at that time Subhana Allah, the age of majority was about nine. That was the age of majority. You know, in recent history, just today, I was doing a research on the age of majority in a lot of the countries including in the West. And now before it was 14, then it moved up to 16 then it moved up to 18. And now in some countries, they want to push it up to 21. So panela the age of majority, doesn't that show that we are maturing much later than the people before us. And it shows also that the women

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supposedly mature earlier than men Subhan Allah Subhana Allah I hope the men don't get upset with this. But it definitely does show that and I think it proves that and we know this. So at the same time, what we need to know is the age of majority that was declared 100 years ago and that which is today does not make those of 100 years ago any sort of you know barbaric people

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People who really abused their children are Oh, Bella. No, they were mature that an earlier age to this day, and I was reading the rules and regulations of the United States of America a few hours ago, I was going through it and some Han Allah, something interesting that you find is the age of marriage. If there is consent of the parents, some of the states, drop it down to 14, and some of them have no age limit. Do you know that? They say for as long as the parents agree, some of them make mention of pregnancy if there's a pregnancy here, I Sharia law. The idea was not all about *. As we would think today, we have such dirty minds that are so immature that even at the age of 30,

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we are stuck in computer games and movies. We haven't yet come out of the games and movies and we are 40 years old. I have so many issues that come to me from people who've reached their 30s and 40s complaining about their spouses. My husband cannot leave this FIFA game and whole day is with it. So panela he's playing with the cars and he's playing with his Nintendo Wii, until he almost wheeze love Akbar, Allah forgive us, Allah. Hey, it's something sad. So this is the majority of today's men and women. And I'm speaking really, I'm generalizing it. There are exceptions to the rule. And the exceptions might be majority, who knows. But I'd like to differ with that a lot of us may not be as

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mature as those although we think we were. But the point is, don't pick on people of the past just because your culture is different. It was the norm at the time. If they cried foul. Yes, we would be able to say Hey, that was not normal at the time, but they did not cry foul one day if the age of majority has to push up to 30 years old. Does that mean we who married at the age of 18 for example, were pedophiles? Now rubella May Allah subhanahu wa taala safeguard us? This is the dirty mind that thinks in a dirty way. And this is why for us marriage is all about * sometimes. Why? Because that's the only thing we look forward to start with Allah. If you're a true believer, that's not the

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case. And it was never the case in with eyeshadow, the Allahu Allah. She She was brought up as the most knowledgeable. One of the main reasons why Allah asked or instructed Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam to marry her. He married her not with his own choice with the instruction of Allah subhanho wa Taala was because as a young person, she would be able to memorize live in the company of Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam much longer.

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We all know that she was the second last from amongst the wives of Muhammad Salallahu salam o Mahajan, meaning to pass away. We spoke about that yesterday as well. May Allah subhanahu wa taala. Grant us a lesson. So we should be passionate about defending the honor of this great woman that Allah has defended the honor of from above the seven heavens Subhan Allah, may Allah subhanho wa Taala, grant us goodness, she was a woman who used to say that even though we were part of the most blessing of the family of the most blessed and the highest of all creation, Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam they were months that went by when we did not light our stove, because we had

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nothing to eat, besides water, and dates. And this goes to show the condition upon which they were pleased. Subhana Allah today, if you don't have food in your home, I don't think your family would last a week. Love a cupboard, they probably go home or they probably do something else. May Allah grant us the ability to be happy with the little that we have here is the best of creation and the best of all females. You know, one day she asked Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam who from amongst your wives will be in paradise?

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Obviously, that's a very intelligent question. So he says, Don't worry, you are from amongst them Allahu Akbar. So she was even told that she's from Paradise Subhana Allah. And she says, there were months that went by we saw the moon we saw another moon and another moon and we had not yet lit the stove. We didn't have much how many of us can bear patients with our spouses when they do not have much how many of us can adjust our lives? Yet the prophets Allah Allah Allah Allah when he was asked Who is the most beloved to you? Without even hesitating he says Ayesha Allahu Allah Subhana Allah Subhana Allah, such a great woman, Ravi Allahu Allah. So it is reported that then there came a time

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after the death of Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam when she was sent one 1000 or 100,000 silver coins. And in no time she distributed amongst the poor, she was fasting that day. So her servant asks her, Oh, mother of the believers. Why didn't you keep a little bit so I could buy some meat, some meat for you to break your fast. She says, had you reminded me earlier, which means it didn't even cross my mind because there are people who are more in need. This was a Sharia law, the generous, the one who was concerned about the oma The one who taught us so much. She says, those who hate me. Why do they even visit the grave of Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam because that is my house. Subhana Allah

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Have you thought of that he passed away

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on her lap, he passed away on her day and he passed away in her house and he was buried in her house. So all of us when we say we visit Mohammed Salah, salams grave, Al Mubarak the the grave, where are we going? What are we doing? Subhana Allah, we are going to the house of eyeshadow, the lohana like it or not so Han Allah, may Allah grant us the good fortune of visiting the roba and visiting the masjid of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Amin.

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So my brothers and sisters, here is the great woman I shall have the Allahu Allah, you hear the name and immediately you think of how Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam loved her so much. He was so free with her in speech. He was so romantic in his speech, she had pink cheeks, and she was pink in color. And she blushed very quickly. And he used to tease her by calling her Khomeini rah rah meaning today, perhaps in our terms, we might say Pinkie, you know, Subhana Allah, which means, you know, you becoming so pink and you blushing, and he used to make her laugh, and he used to make her blush when he used to drink and this was narrated to us. So panela by eyeshadow, viola and him, when he used to

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drink from the utensil, he made sure that she drank, and then he looked for the position where her lips were and he drank from the same place whilst watching her blush. Subhana Allah, she ate from a piece of meat, he would make sure that he let her eat then he would take it from her and look for the place where she bit and why it's looking at her would bite from the same place, making her blush of the Allahu Allah, how can we say a word against her? How can we actually believe anything that those who are trying to tell us that she was a disgrace to the omen of the villa? How can we even allow that to infiltrate, or even to create a doubt in our minds and hearts? In Sharia law and the

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greatest of the women, the one from Paradise, the one who Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam love the most, the one whom so they've been designed out of the law, who was an elderly woman, meaning also a wife of Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, when she was old. She says, you know, my night, I'd like to give it to eyeshadow, viola and her because she knew the virtue of Asia. She knew how close she was to Mohammed sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Chateau de la Anna. She is the woman who says that when I was much younger, Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam took me once to a place where we raised with each other, we ran, so I beat him. So panela I, you know, I left him behind. I ran faster than him.

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And then after some time when I grew a bit bigger and older, and you know, she says, I had a bit more fat. That's the word she uses. And she says, he took me again, so panela and then some kind of law he ran faster than I did some handler. So it was one one luck but not a football match of today, my brothers and sisters, we are too keen on watching things rather than doing with our wives and family members. What would bring back and revive the relationship between us. A lot of us would sit in front of the TV and or the internet and perhaps flick our remotes or the keyboard or tap the Phone for long hours, not realizing real life is when you take them out, spend some time with them.

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Go with them. Forget about your phone, and I challenge you to go on a holiday for three days remembering Allah subhanho wa Taala leaving your phones and computers behind. Ready, lo Akbar. Allah subhanho wa Taala make it easy for us. Sometimes maybe the women might tell you we're not ready love.

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My brothers and sisters look at the love. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was once eating and he spoke about the virtue of Ayesha you know 30 is one of the best dishes of the Arabs very expensive and very delicious. So he says for asiatica fadli 30 dlsr era Tom. He says the virtue of Ayesha from amongst all the other women is like the virtue of this food known as steadied, which was the best the most tasty and at the same time, quite luxurious, something that was considered a delicacy Subhan Allah.

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May Allah subhanho wa Taala help us to respect and honor the woman eyeshadow, viola and her the mother of the believers. So she is the one who did not have children. And I'm going to pause here for a moment. Today from amongst us there are those whom Allah has not blessed with children. Listen to this carefully.

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Allah has blessed you with so many other things, concentrate on those things. Subhana Allah, your Paradise is your patience. The best of the women did not have children look at

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the best of them all. She did not have children so much so they used to call her Omar Abdullah the mother of Abdullah sometimes why that was her nephew. The son of her sister has not been to be back. Abdullah Abu Zubaydah vanilla one. This is the man whom we said moments ago that he says I did not see anyone more knowledgeable than her. So she says,

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I used to look after her so much that some of the people I used to look after him so much that some of the people used to call me Omar Abdullah, the mother of Abdullah

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Just to make me happy somehow Allah but I did not have children and she was always happy with the decree of Allah subhanho wa Taala This is Amina rhodiola. Juana May Allah subhanho wa Taala grant us all ease and goodness and May Allah subhanho wa Taala bless her and bless us all. She passed away in the year 57 or 58 hijiri, the 17th of Ramadan, and they read her janaza after the Salah of the evening, and it was led according to the narrations by Abu hurayrah the Allah and her age was 67 years. And at the same time, those who buried her were her nephews Subhan Allah, Abdullah Abu Zubaydah, Aurobindo Zubaydah, the Allahumma, as well as Al Qasim Abu Mohammed Abu Bakr, also her

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nephew, with Abdullah, even Mohammed, Abu Bakar. And also Abdullah hibben, Abdur Rahman, Abu Bakar. So these were her nephews and grandnephews We ask Allah Subhana Allah to Allah, to grant her goodness and a lofty rank in paradise. She has served the Ummah and she has been a mother of the believers, and we will never pick on anything to do with her in a negative way. May Allah subhanho wa Taala bless her, and bless us all.

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The next hero in that we are going to be speaking about today.

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A great woman also who was told by Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that when I visited paradise, you know, Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam went up in mirage. I heard someone walk. And when I asked Who is that? They told me, this is a Roman sir Benjamin Han, the mother of Anna Simeon Malik Subhana Allah, so this would mean that she's from amongst those who was also given glad tidings of paradise. Her name was aroma Isa bin mal Han or mill Han. And some say it was home I saw with a vine in the Arabic language, but the most correct opinion is it is a Roman spa. And at the same time, she was known as Muslim or the Allahu anhu.

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She was the mother of nsabp Malik, she was married to a man known as Malik ebenen. Nada, and she is from Madina, munawwara she was very happy in her marriage so much so that they used to always say, look at this couple, they so happy, so delighted, but one day, that changed. Why did he change? Because most abnormal rhodiola who came to Madina munawwara started teaching that the worship of idols is wrong. We need to worship Allah alone. So, aroma Isa Vinci mal Han, of the Allahu anhu she accepted the message. She said, You know what, we are worshiping the roots of a tree, the bark of a tree that is carved into a little idol. How can we do this? I believe in my maker Allah alone, so

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she accepted Islam. And her husband became very, very angry, but she was extremely intelligent. So she said, Okay, let's discuss the matter. Whoever wins the debate, we follow.

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And she won the debate hands down. Subhana Allah, she won the debate completely. She started speaking to him, okay, you worship this? Who carved it? Okay, it was that man in Madina? munawwara Okay, where is it from? It's the root of a tree. So you worship the root of a tree? Is that what it is? And she was quiet. She says, I worship whoever made me now What are you saying?

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So he was so upset. They had a child known as Anna's. She used to tell the little child has a baby or unless c'est la ilaha illAllah Muhammad Rasul Allah Subhana. Allah say that is none worthy of worship besides Allah, and the husband used to get very angry, stop messing My child, you missing his mind, his brain Subhana Allah. So she said, Look, there's nothing I can do because you are wrong. I already told you if you can prove to me that you are right. It's fine. But that will never happen. I've just proven to you that I was right. So he decided, Okay, I'm leaving. I'm going. So he was going to a sham sham. And he decided I don't want to stay with these people. And I don't want to

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live in Medina, because a lot of people have started accepting Islam. It was not in his good fortune to be a Muslim. So Maliki didn't know. He passed away in a sham and some duration say he was actually killed by highwayman on his way when he went all alone. And the news came to

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our room I saw Bentonville, Han that your husband has just been killed or he has died. And she was very sad because she had hoped that he would see the light. But at the same time, she promised I'm not going to marry now again. I've got a child known as Anna's I need to look after him. And I need to inculcate within him the love of the deen and Allah and Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam so much so that as he grew up, remember when the hegira took place, what happened? Subhana Allah

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she rushed to Mohammed Salah wa salam o the little child, and he was a boy, very young boy, approximately 10 and she goes to Mohammed Salalah Solomon says that everyone has come to you with various gifts. I am giving you the son of mine to serve you. And Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam looked in his eyes

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and saw that he was a good child and took him in and a Sydney Malik is the one who says, I served Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for 10 years. Every time I looked at his face, I said, this is the most beautiful of the creation of Allah Subhana Allah to Allah Subhana Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam melas peace and blessings be upon him. So Anna Sydney Malika, the Allahu Allah, that was the men, the mother, she started getting proposals after the husband had died, but she did not accept any of them. And the proposal came from an from a man known as a dibny, Salah, also known as Abu talhah, later to be known as the Allahu Allah. So he says, I am proposing to marry you,

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or Muslim, I am proposing to marry you. And don't turn me back.

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So she says, but you worship a tree and the bark of a tree and the roots of a tree, how can I marry you? If you accept Islam? I have no problem. But if our faith is different, the same thing will happen that happened with Maliki the number, I cannot accept this. So he said, Okay, let me think about it. He went back thought about him. following day he comes back, and he wants to move towards Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam according to some narrations, and according to others, he declares his Shahada. He says, I've thought about it, and indeed you are right, because she was powerful in her ability and capacity to convince people she was very intelligent about the law and convinced the

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men, he accepted the deen. And in one direction, he was coming towards Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, and immediately Mohammed salatu salam looked at him and told his companions, I see Islam between the eyes of this man, he's coming here to accept the deen. And truly, he came and he declared his Shahada without any words. And then he was married to all Muslim, or the Allahu, and they were blessed. In many ways. This woman or woman saw Bentonville, Han was such a great woman, she was always concerned about the happiness of her husband, so much so that

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they were blessed with a child. They were blessed with the child.

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And the child happened in fact, when the child was born,

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okay, this the first child that we're going to speak about is a child who fell ill when a bottle he wanted to go on one of his journeys.

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So the child fell ill and a bottle How was not too keen on going, but the wife says, You know what, you may go, he's okay, he's fine, he will be fine inshallah. So she did not want him to break his journey, or not to go for something very important. When he went, the child had passed away. When he came back. She had already told the family members, please do not tell about tell her that the child has passed away. I will tell him. So he came in the evening she had prepared food she had, you know, made sure that he was calm, smiled, how is the child? So she said he is very comfortable. He's very comfortable. He's in a very good state, some Han Allah. And he came, he had a good meal, he slept

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the night Subhan Allah made sure that you know that he did not feel the burden as he had come from the journey when he was well rested. She asks him a question, oh, Abu talha. If someone

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were to give you something, if someone were to lend you something for a while, and the day they came to get it back from you, do you have a right to refuse?

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He said no.

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So Allah had given you a child. And he has taken the child back Subhana Allah.

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He was obviously taken, but at the same time, because of how it was explained to him.

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It soften the blow. He accepted it as the decree of Allah. And he understood that there is no way that we will be able to get closure, except by what is known as a readable coda to be happy with the decree of Allah. There is no way today we want to find closure by punishing this one and doing that to this one and doing this to the other one and blaming that one and blaming this one. the blame game never brings about closure. In fact, it brings about more blood on the wounds that we're about to kill Subhana Allah because every time you're about to kill a new wound opens, the best way of closure in Islam is a reasonable Allah to be happy with the degree of Allah to understand that Allah

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is the Creator, he loves the ones he took away more than we could ever love them because he made them in the first place. Allahu Akbar. So when he understood this, he was okay. But in the morning he went to Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam and said you know what, my wife did not tell me immediately, she delayed and she did this and did that. So Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam praised her, and Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam made a dua for them and said, may Allah grant you Baraka May Allah grant you blessings in your offspring in your family and so on. It is reported that they had another child known as Abdullah and Abu talhah. And he became one of the top companions and at the same time a

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very knowledgeable person from his offspring. They were 10 from

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Amongst those who are knowledgeable known as the noteworthy, the knowledgeable in their time, may Allah subhanho wa Taala grant us to Baraka in our offspring and blessings. This is a room isop in Tamil Han about the Allahu Allah. It is reported also that in the Battle of hoonah in the Battle of oil, she witnessed the two battles and perhaps even more that we may not know of, in offered without a shadow the Allaha she was giving water to those who were injured Subhana Allah in the Battle of her name, she was from amongst those who was serving the sick, or should I say those who were injured. And she was also serving with bringing water and encouraging the men and so on so many

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different ways. In fact, the Sahaba yet if you think of the names of those who helped and assisted the believers at times of war, one of the great names that comes to mind is a great woman from amongst the Sahaba yet known as rafidah Rafi that will Ansari Yeah, the Allahu Allah so much so that Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam sent to him some of the sent to her some of the companions saying, Let them go to the tent of rafidah she will take care of them. Subhana Allah Subhana Allah amazing, so she used to she was the first who had a proper tent in order to nurse those who are hurt and injured. May Allah subhanho wa Taala bless these great women Subhan Allah, another great incident at

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the time of Abu talhah of the Allah one and this great heroine of ours Subhana Allah, a Romani sir Benjamin Han, Allahu Allah, when she was about to deliver,

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they were coming back

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from a journey with Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and she started getting some pains, labor pains and a bottle had

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had a choice between remaining with her and continuing back to Medina with Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam so she decides to say obatala the pains I have this time are nowhere near the pains I had the last time they are far lighter, I will manage I will make it to Madina munawwara

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and so they continued the journey. She came to Madina munawwara and a little while later she delivered very easy delivery by the help of Allah subhanho wa Taala. And so Anna Sydney Malik Ravi Allahu anhu, was the servant of Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam and the brother of the little child who was born. What happened? He brings the child to Mohammed Salah Salem newborn. So immediately he understood he says, That must be the child of Omar Suleiman. He did the technique of the child. He blessed the child and he named the child Abdullah. This is the Abdullah that we spoke about a few minutes ago. May Allah subhanho wa Taala bless us all, grant us Baraka in our offspring in our

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families. Look at the lessons we learn. These are the women, these are the men These are our heroes and heroines Subhan Allah We ask Allah Subhana Allah to Allah to bless us all she passed away. Muslim aroma sapiente mal Han Ravi Allahu and her in Madina, munawwara and she is buried in Burkina Subhan Allah, we ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to grant us goodness, this Eve my brothers and sisters, do not forget to pray for the Ummah, the entire Ummah, we are living in a time where the heart bleeds to see what is going on across the globe from the east to the west and north to the south. May Allah subhanho wa Taala Have mercy on humanity at large. And May He grant us our sanity at the

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same time. And May He grant us Amen. and strengthen that Eman and the bond. That is there. May Allah subhanho wa Taala unite us and May He grant us love between each other. I mean what's Allahu wa Sallim wa barik ala nabina Muhammad Allahumma inaka foun to hibel Alpha one, Allah in the cocoon to hibel Africa one Allahumma inaka for one to Ebola 451 masala Allahu wa salam ala nabina Muhammad Subhan Allah Subhana Allah Mohammed ik Allah Allah, Allah and Mr. Furukawa to Hoylake

Mufti Menk discussing : Aishah bint Abi Bakr (RA) and Rumaisaa bint Malhaan Umm Sulaim (RA)

Ramadhan with a Difference with Mufti Ismail Menk

Getting To Know The Companions Of Muhammad SAW (peace be upon him).

Delivered at Tuanku Mizan Zainal Abidin Musjid

Ramadaan 1435

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